UNLOCKED Full Episode: Iyanla Fix My Life EP106 ‘Fix My Absent Father’ | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN

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  • @delorasledge2492
    @delorasledge2492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    I'm always amazed at how small parents can shrink in front of their kids. Its both sweet and sad. Its a good reminder that our parents are just someone's child working through their mess. Also a reminder that they draw strength from us the same as we do them.

    • @carolnjeri1963
      @carolnjeri1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah. This was how I felt. When the girls look at him, they don't see the disappointment he saw himself, they just see their dad

    • @nubianempresssphinx9807
      @nubianempresssphinx9807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carolnjeri1963 p

    • @YAHMIR144
      @YAHMIR144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not mine parents they are prideful

    • @phattygurlchronicles7527
      @phattygurlchronicles7527 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well put I see that with my parents we have to give them grace..

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@phattygurlchronicles7527 EXACTLY!!! MOST PARENTS DO THE BEST THEY CAN AT THE TIME....IF UR GOING TO GIVE ANYONE GRACE IT SHOULD BE YOUR PARENTS/SIBLINGS

  • @millicentthomas870
    @millicentthomas870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    One of the best grandma ever.
    Heaven bless you grandma

    • @YAHMIR144
      @YAHMIR144 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very very wonderful grandma

    • @antoinettevassar3441
      @antoinettevassar3441 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen 🙏may God continue blessings you
      Your grandkids

    • @bigananikagiso6413
      @bigananikagiso6413 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen ❤ she raised those kids so well, doing her very best

  • @dbtlady4686
    @dbtlady4686 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Iyanla is, to me, the best Emotional Surgeon, she goes right in and removes the pain and hurt…then the healing begins. Where are you Iyanla, you will always be needed ❤️

    • @audacityhour3104
      @audacityhour3104 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!!! An emotional Surgeon

    • @blessedandfavoured6914
      @blessedandfavoured6914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely!!!!

    • @Mr194068
      @Mr194068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s all for tv look up every episode and you see at the end the people don’t change there Life she too ruff she need to be a bit softer the kids are fine without him grandma did well

  • @lilbru
    @lilbru ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Ms Verde is such an amazing & loving woman...grandmothers like that are a true jewel & very appreciated for her sacrifice

  • @MushiMushi1992
    @MushiMushi1992 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    The shock in wills face when he realized he said the same thing as his father was scary to me. To unintentional be walking the same line you trying to avoid. Good intentions turning into a bad deck in life

  • @temple92084
    @temple92084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I like that she kept bringing up the mother and didn’t just focus on the father because it takes 2 parents to raise a household and both parents failed miserably and need equal criticism.

  • @bugsybrown1745
    @bugsybrown1745 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I was crying along with Will when he realized he didn’t have a mother or a father the way he should have. That is a devastating moment and it hurts like hell, but Iyanla knows he has to feel it.

  • @ayyyyo9100
    @ayyyyo9100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    He is so lucky that his kids still want to be his kids

  • @hazybrneyesmd
    @hazybrneyesmd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    When that baby said “I hate looking like him.........”. That stopped me in my tracks. 😔

    • @tinasinsaystrong5050
      @tinasinsaystrong5050 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would too. That is a curse

    • @Nille0212
      @Nille0212 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I understand exactly what she means. I look like my failed father in a wig and it can be traumatic seeing the person who hurt you worse than anyone every time you look at your reflection.

    • @Scoutbq1l
      @Scoutbq1l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She's so pretty though, she doesn't look totally like him. She has her own pretty girl look.

    • @Nille0212
      @Nille0212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Scoutbq1l I mean I don't totally look like my dad either but that doesn't negate the feeling that you have about it.

    • @Lenahh-go3io
      @Lenahh-go3io 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I feel how she feels . My father couldn’t even show up to my older brother funeral who died from cancer at age 29 , 2 years ago . Had me reliving it telling his job and boss and still never showed up . Mom died 7 years ago so I had no parent to lean on in that time and as far as I’m concerned I’m done with him , wash my hands with him and continued to live my life . He chooses him and his addictions and I choose me . I had the best mother in the world and I’m grateful for that .

  • @johnflynn5044
    @johnflynn5044 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The brother is adorable.. A real decent man who is locked into himself and needs to go run free for a while and dare to explore who he is. Its exhausting having to fein contentment when internally you are in crisis

  • @jordblan
    @jordblan ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i like how she said “don’t understand him. vote for you” that was so powerful. and i really felt for her when the daughter said “i hate looking like him”. like I feel that. knowing your dad neglected you and regardless of what you do you’ll always remember him bc you look like him

  • @noahsimmonsofficial
    @noahsimmonsofficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I feel for this family so hard. My dad was a heroin addict for my entire life up until his addiction inevitably took his life 2010 when i was 15. I later learned he overdosed willingly, as his toxicology report showed that he was in the final stages of AIDS. So he crawled into a dumpster in LA and took his own life, unable to live with the consequences of his decisions. I don't wish a drug addiction on anybody on this planet, no matter the race, culture, political viewpoint, or whether they're an enemy or a friend. I used to think that my dad didn't love me and my brother enough to get clean and stay in rehab and out of prison. but that was just him honestly. I am praying for this poor family.

    • @simonegoddard7881
      @simonegoddard7881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am so sorry.

    • @juscelinefernandes3674
      @juscelinefernandes3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It has nothing to do with u guys. Your father is human that’s all, he couldn’t stop, I’m sure he tried and didn’t manage, not because he didn’t love u guys enough. I know that having kids should be reason big enough to clean up and be better, but in most cases NOTHING can make someone change. I know because my dad is an alcoholic and I used to think like this but I realize that he is just human and humans are weak

    • @MsArLee1105
      @MsArLee1105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Praying God gives you strength and peace. I pray that regardless of your upbringing, you have found your purpose in life & your living it too the fullest. Love & Live. Every day is a gift.

    • @yeyeni9893
      @yeyeni9893 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bless you Noah

    • @meghanferrari6501
      @meghanferrari6501 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God bless you that is incredibly sad I am so sorry for all you have been through

  • @thevectorhouse1113
    @thevectorhouse1113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    How wholesome is this show here. Changing lives and bringing families together one intervention at a time. Well done Ms. Vanzant and OWN.

  • @momonie4
    @momonie4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    THESE LADIES ARE SO NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL......BELLISSIMA!!!!!

  • @adjasy606
    @adjasy606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    Sadly I just looked it up on google and he's just been arrested again, in 2021, seems like he was not able to stop...So sad.

    • @lynnw2953
      @lynnw2953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      damn. smh.

    • @annetteodanga
      @annetteodanga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      oh nooo

    • @IraRochaa
      @IraRochaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      🥺 💔

    • @Igetrackz
      @Igetrackz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Maxflintd he has done it before either way

    • @adjasy606
      @adjasy606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@Maxflintd Yes but as told in the show if I remember well, he usually performed robberies to get money to buy drugs. It is sadly quite usual for people in his position, when you are an addict you do everything to have access to the drugs, and it costs a lot of money in the end.

  • @LawStudentCali
    @LawStudentCali 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This has me crying because the generational pattern of the Dad’s Father carried on in his life, which was a learned behavior that caused him to disappoint his own children. The best part of all this is they can all begin to heal from the disappointments, heartbreaks and trauma of the past. Iyanla Vanzant is awesome, she really gets to the root and heart of the matter. Salute 🫡 to Iyanla Vanzant

  • @curvyeyez
    @curvyeyez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My word grandma's genes are so strong! They all look alike but them eyes...they have the same eyes... It's amazing. I love genetics so much.. what a beautiful family! I am praying for them and hope everyone is well.

  • @Missy_10663
    @Missy_10663 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She’s always so well dressed!

  • @gokaren420
    @gokaren420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Cried through the entire episode....beautiful kids and gramma

    • @msfreckles5982
      @msfreckles5982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @specialkay4329
      @specialkay4329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mr too. It's damn near 730am. I'm up bawlin

  • @dollskull86
    @dollskull86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love how their faces lit up when grandma arrived!! Praying earnestly for this family!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @beataylor4226
    @beataylor4226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Who cutting onions up in here!?

  • @ABM750
    @ABM750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When William consoled his daughter was a breakthrough moment wishing them all a healthy future

  • @MushiMushi1992
    @MushiMushi1992 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Her asking to hold him is what got me😢

  • @onyxgothicc
    @onyxgothicc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My God...The face the son made when he realized he spoke the same words as his father...I pray they have healed and not gone down his path and the father has healed and grown from his mistakes.

  • @estellecraytonFaith-in-God
    @estellecraytonFaith-in-God 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    People need to understand with no guilt or shame save yourself and have peace! If you don't you'll be me getting that peace after the stress has caused so much dis-ease in your life it makes you disabled and doctors can't figure out what it is. At 60 I don't care who you are I'M GETTING the peace I should have had YEARS ago and living my life with God words.

    • @stephanielewis1305
      @stephanielewis1305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel this sentiment in my soul deeply. I have decided to save myself and have PEACE. Thank you for this reminder. You couldn’t have layed it out any better than this. Straight to the point and it’s a FACT. Again thank you 😢😢😢❤️🙏🏾 God Bless

  • @grandiva035
    @grandiva035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    A praying grandmother God bless her!!!😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @thejannieb.perspective1830
    @thejannieb.perspective1830 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When the grandmother said, " I should have left him" when the father told how his own father made him feel.

  • @Pjsixty60
    @Pjsixty60 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The grandmother is so beautiful inside and out. God bless her

  • @kidsonthemissiontoexcel101
    @kidsonthemissiontoexcel101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank you OWN for putting full episode for us!

  • @TaraGeorge711
    @TaraGeorge711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In spite of all the pain their faces lit up when he walked in the room. Like little children. Lord help them 🙏🏽

  • @honeybuzzard2843
    @honeybuzzard2843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    GOD KEEP YOUR HANDS ON THIS FAMILY....
    GOD BLESS GRANDMA
    GRAND HELD IT DOWN...

  • @quite970
    @quite970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Iyanla you're needed in 🇯🇲 there's so many broken family's here including mine

    • @KD-ln2dr
      @KD-ln2dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I would really want to be on her show I am so broken because of trauma...

    • @quite970
      @quite970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KD-ln2dr same

    • @rochelleturner987
      @rochelleturner987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you, I suffer from childhood trauma and I try to fix myself but I recently realize I use control and manipulation to numb my hurt and insecurities.

  • @wandanderisha
    @wandanderisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mia, I know how you feel, but take refuge in the knowledge that you look like YOU, and YOU are absolutely stunning! Pompadour and all! I see my father whenever I look in the mirror... and he was not a good man, I feel good now though, because I can say to others see... I may look like him and be as creative as him, but this divine blessing of ME, is all mine baby.

  • @TheChampdeFleurs
    @TheChampdeFleurs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I love unlocked videos. I can easily send them to family abroad. Thank you.

  • @zakiyapayne
    @zakiyapayne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode taught me something. When ppl disappoint you so many times it’s so easy to hold on to that and see them as an disappointment. Gosh.

  • @jayc677
    @jayc677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I don't know these kids but I have so much love for them❤ and the grandma. It's so awesome they are getting help that takes courage 🙏

  • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
    @bohlalenchabeleng1370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    God this woman is a gift.

  • @niasimone1740
    @niasimone1740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The mother and father are both POS parents and I’m praying for the healing of this family. I understand how it feels to grow up with a father who was addicted to drugs, anger and would even beat on women including my mom and other women he dated right in front of us. I hate that especially black people have to deal with trauma in all shapes and forms. Praying for everybody who dealt with neglect and still dealing with the aftermath of it. It’s not your fault

    • @SeedsofJoyy
      @SeedsofJoyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Praying for you sister!

    • @niasimone1740
      @niasimone1740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@SeedsofJoyy thank you 🙏🏾

  • @bluechase
    @bluechase 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is so freeing to release expectations you have on a person who is unavailable and incapable of being a parent.

  • @seanalexandermedia
    @seanalexandermedia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The fire was everything… She is completely doing spell work healing

  • @Queenalika85
    @Queenalika85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I always thought this was a beautiful family ... Good job Grandma 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
    @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t ปีที่แล้ว +13

    31:30 - the gag is, though, there is a part of him that honestly does not care. And that’s the part he’s trying to avoid. Now check that! In my Phaedra parks voice.

    • @rightsmatlagolomphahlele2897
      @rightsmatlagolomphahlele2897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂 you didn’t have to reminder of 1 dollar pizza !! 🍕

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rightsmatlagolomphahlele2897$10 pizza I'm sure 😂

  • @SerenaBrowwne
    @SerenaBrowwne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Miss Verdie God will forever bless you🥰

  • @Victoria-qk3mu
    @Victoria-qk3mu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The grandmother is beautiful ❤❤

  • @memyselfi1828
    @memyselfi1828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Oh wow. What a beautiful ending. I wonder how they are doing today.

    • @solemandd67
      @solemandd67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@liveinthemiddle "When people mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, cousins ANYONE (repeatedly) shows you who they are...."

    • @antranettebrown7379
      @antranettebrown7379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He is actually doing well she has a follow up on them in her Ig he has a job he now has his own apt the grandmother has passed away but he babysits his grandchildren .. he is doing great !

    • @SoulSearch11110
      @SoulSearch11110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@antranettebrown7379 who's ig?

    • @havonaperry6652
      @havonaperry6652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SoulSearch11110 Instagram

    • @HarperSophia
      @HarperSophia ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@antranettebrown7379 damn that’s so sad about the grandma. she seemed so nice, I liked her.

  • @cheedysteve3448
    @cheedysteve3448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So emotional for me addiction is really a disease

  • @carolynsands5847
    @carolynsands5847 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So happy for how those kids turned out I feel they are going to do well ALL of THEM 😊😊🎉🎉❤❤

  • @yontine
    @yontine 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don’t have my father in my life for a number of years and he’s not even in prison. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jacquifeehan3489
    @jacquifeehan3489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    hope this family have love good health and happiness together

  • @shanb.9690
    @shanb.9690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can watch EVERY EPISODE SHES HAD ON HER SHOW OVER AND OVER AGAIN I MISS HER I MISS HER TEACHING HER ENERGY SHES SOMEBODY I REALLY WISH THAT I COULD MEET LORD KNOWS ALL OF THIS DAMAGE THAT IS INSIDE OF ME I WISH I COULD MEET HER AND JUDGE MATHIS AND JUDGE LYNN TOLER BUT I AM TALKING ABOUT MRS IYANLA BUT I SAY THANK YOU MRS IYANLA FOR SHARING MIND AND YOUR HEART YOUR SOUL WITH THE WORLD😢😢💙💙💙🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @bernicetam2766
    @bernicetam2766 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heart broke when she said she doesn’t want her dad to die and have him buried.

  • @shannaeatkinson3790
    @shannaeatkinson3790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish this youngman I could hold him😭
    Sharing the sme age 🥺💔

  • @Roiyaw
    @Roiyaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this show is heavy

  • @keiarapayne3206
    @keiarapayne3206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love me some auntie Yanla Lord thank you for her

  • @bethdrummond3024
    @bethdrummond3024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am proudof this young man and his sister i was always asking where is their mother strive for success young man and young girls god will help you through ❤

  • @truphenanyatteng5761
    @truphenanyatteng5761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm really proud of this grandma❤❤

  • @toyalewis3045
    @toyalewis3045 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I definitely need iyanla for my family...whole family...there secrets that need to come out....my whole family is dysfunctional

  • @jenjoyhn2
    @jenjoyhn2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Naw, Dad needs REHAB

  • @darrellsadler2848
    @darrellsadler2848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    For ME, the "mugshots display" was and still a powerful moment to learn and understand from. Wow. Talk about a "timeline."

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Each one of them said, “idk where to start.”
    There.
    That’s where you start.
    In admitting exactly where you realize you are.

  • @natissiacooper8499
    @natissiacooper8499 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When that young man said he was ok! I feel as though he really was! Not all kids fall victim of their parents. He’s ok to take care of family and he’s very mature. Sometimes auntie be doing to much with assumptions.

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      But he's not ok. He's shut down and emotionless. So, no, she was right on the money.

    • @pamperedgurl
      @pamperedgurl หลายเดือนก่อน

      Iyanla was right. he walked right into his father's foot steps. Since the show, he is produced his own line of mugshots unfortunately. :(

  • @jackiebaker-ml7bb
    @jackiebaker-ml7bb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless Grandma you’re a blessing !!! From God

  • @SoulSearch11110
    @SoulSearch11110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dang! Feb 26, 2021: A 12-time convicted felon charged with burglarizing a West Loop condo building last year stopped showing up in court after being given a recognizance bond one year ago. This week, prosecutors accused William Moorehead of using his time on the lam to burglarize three more condo buildings in the West Loop.
    Prosecutors on Thursday charged the 56-year-old with two fresh counts of burglary and one count of attempted burglary. I lost my mother to drugs 17 years ago. Just let it go children.

    • @Roiyaw
      @Roiyaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my goodness

    • @habibawest9253
      @habibawest9253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is a horrible man who doesn’t want to do better. He can go straight to hell!

    • @IrynJ.I.L
      @IrynJ.I.L 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow this is so unfortunate. I was actually hoping he got it together for them 😢

    • @SweetLivingByGrace
      @SweetLivingByGrace 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@habibawest9253 It's because he is already in hell. What his father did to him was crush his spirit when he was young and this is how it manifests itself in his life. The Bible warns parents not to treat their children that way. I feel a lot of compassion for this man because how he was treated created a spiritual wound. A wound is a hole where a demon can easily enter. Once it enters, the body is no longer the original person, it's controlled by that demon. Every time that demon gets casted out and that wound isn't healed and closed up, the demon runs right back and brings more demons along with it. The man can't help it. He opened the door yet again with the drugs and I can guarantee that something triggered him. He needs prayer and deliverance.

  • @sheilap9854
    @sheilap9854 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Okay I've Cried 😭 Enough On This One!! May God Bless this Family!! Ms. Verde is A Special lady she did An Awesome job of Raising her Grandchildren ❤❤

  • @acwyatt1279
    @acwyatt1279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loved when they ripped up the mugshots.

  • @iamcynt
    @iamcynt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So heartbreaking...I cried.

    • @Scoutbq1l
      @Scoutbq1l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      me too, when the sweet baby said "I don't wanna bury my daddy"

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Scoutbq1lExactly!! 😢🙏🏼❤️

  • @Queenalika85
    @Queenalika85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Iyanla' Hot Mess gif cracks me up

  • @pamelab8112
    @pamelab8112 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    IYANLA, you've been a blessing to many, using your gifts, trying to help, heal, and deal. speaking Truth, you've been encouraging in many ways through your episodes. no matter what you have helped, healed, somebody's, may you receive that blessing back, thank you for sharing your love an strength...pb💐👑

  • @blessedgirl1428
    @blessedgirl1428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God l couldn't stop tearing for the children

  • @lucyseng1010
    @lucyseng1010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Chaiiiiiii this was too deep ,l keep crying 😭😭 witching this video

  • @mythoughts9801
    @mythoughts9801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Before watching I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that Iyanla is going bless me with some knowledge or a way of thinking I didn't have b4.

  • @kelebogilekellsseopakeleza6693
    @kelebogilekellsseopakeleza6693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He sure makes beautiful babies. And the son 😍🤤

    • @BadNews44
      @BadNews44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah cuz .. studdy and a emotional son by being round all those females oooo yeh
      Snap into a slim jim

  • @Butterfly-cl6wb
    @Butterfly-cl6wb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hope he stayed clean.. those kids deserve it. ❤

    • @SheilaMakena
      @SheilaMakena 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True. Some wonderful children right here.

    • @antoinettejohnson2188
      @antoinettejohnson2188 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He didn't unfortunately 😢

  • @QueenAthena0903
    @QueenAthena0903 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My heart breaks for these children ❤

  • @carmelized11candi
    @carmelized11candi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the grandma.

  • @nathifamelville5589
    @nathifamelville5589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love grandma ❤️❤️❤️

    • @BadNews44
      @BadNews44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Whg she mos definitely contributed to raising a herion addict by picking a horrible man to pro create with
      Facts are stubborn things little girl

  • @berenicemartinez9238
    @berenicemartinez9238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for helping us……made me cry… I have more work to do.

  • @nessaj4522
    @nessaj4522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's good to try to take out the time and talk about something. At least you can see what was on somebody elses mind. You know where to go after that. I appreciate this program.

  • @stephaniewatson9759
    @stephaniewatson9759 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WHEW! This one was a tear jerker!

  • @trinitees6838
    @trinitees6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would so love an update on this Family! OWN can you do a follow up on this episode pretty please?

  • @likhonamfamana4269
    @likhonamfamana4269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    such beautiful kids 😍

  • @gracemukemba6330
    @gracemukemba6330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im so happy That he Got clean and That he is back whith he,s family.

  • @nessaj4522
    @nessaj4522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great family here. I know they stayed strong.

  • @fym90
    @fym90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    If the father had treatment instead of criminalisation it would have all turned out different

    • @melreal7881
      @melreal7881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾 My sentiments exactly.

    • @anime-nn9kl
      @anime-nn9kl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You’re so right, but You have to WANT treatment for it to make a difference.

    • @MsArLee1105
      @MsArLee1105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not necessarily. I had a few cousins with decade long drug issues. Rarely jailed and had chance after chance but chose not to get clean. They want the high more than their own children.

    • @sandycheeks1580
      @sandycheeks1580 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ain’t it funny how black addiction is all their fault and responsibility to kick. Yet, White opioid/phentynl addiction is now a “disease” and “there’s help!” Billboards & tv 📺 commercials 🪧 abound for them 😂😂😂. But in the 80’s & 90’s nobody offered help to black addicted mothers or desperately wanted to adopt their innocent little “crack babies”. They were very much shunned & used as fodder mostly by the black community instead of everyone banding together to start free intensive detox & longterm inpatient rehab programs for their own black people. I’m happy that black people are waking up to the benefits of getting regular counseling. The men could stop being overly aggressive for no reason and stop manipulating women into becoming angry broke stressed out 😢single moms. I think 🤔 that’s a good start to awakening & healing ❤️‍🩹 the broken black conscious.

    • @sandycheeks1580
      @sandycheeks1580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anime-nn9kl
      If you’re on drugs, you don’t think there’s a problem till you hit rock bottom. The chemicals alter the brain 🧠 wiring.

  • @SweetLivingByGrace
    @SweetLivingByGrace 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is so traumatic and damaging to leave your children for almost any reason.

  • @agriope2334
    @agriope2334 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like mush so much healing went through me. Without knowing this exact situation, I could relate to a whole lot. God bless this family, and bless you Mama Iyanla!

  • @tylertrolle8628
    @tylertrolle8628 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bruh, when she started kicking the cardboard 😂

  • @tisayvette
    @tisayvette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They must not remember anything about their mother. I get it.

  • @Zahrainnit
    @Zahrainnit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt so sad when one of the daughters held her hand over her mother ugh like she was in a silent scream when faced with the 35 mugshots

  • @samanthalopez456
    @samanthalopez456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    God is good

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      All the time!!!

    • @BadNews44
      @BadNews44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not if u child in palestine israel ukraine russia hell i cud keep goin til my fingers hurt

  • @unique1ndcroberts68
    @unique1ndcroberts68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My tears are for this family!

  • @JoJo_dazia
    @JoJo_dazia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Crying, i hope the family is back on track tho

  • @BadNews44
    @BadNews44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whole lotta weak adults in this episode
    I had 2 addicts for parents accepted it at a young age n moved on. Have the best son on the 🌍 make over 6 figures a year. Dont drink dont smoke jus straight gangsta baby.
    Gotta man up n woman up ya heard me kids

  • @christianblake6447
    @christianblake6447 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sitting there on that red swing like 2 queens

  • @estheralvarez67
    @estheralvarez67 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yess Ma'am, my husband and I are right there with u Ma'am. We're raising 3 g-children right now in 2024.

  • @laurnajones6970
    @laurnajones6970 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God in the vessel he smiles at the storm

  • @desertflowers1
    @desertflowers1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not every one should have kids. Why did he have 4?

    • @BadNews44
      @BadNews44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why did them skeezers jeeo letting him nut up in em.
      Nastay

  • @MzCandyApple5683
    @MzCandyApple5683 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG not this was conducted at A Safe Haven 😭. Wow that’s amazing to help someone that’s there.

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kids are beautiful.

  • @CherryHead89
    @CherryHead89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Does anyone know where the necklace comes from that the daughter in the teal dress is wearing?