I feel like I’ve gotten my own personal therapy session by watching Iyanla Vanzant fix do many lives❤️. I have learned so much by applying her teachings about doing your work!
I guess to keep hearing it, hopefully at some point it sticks! I suppose it was always unrealistic to believe just quote unquote doing everything right, proper decisions meant you would avoid struggle! I mean did she say the Buddhists say struggle is part of life!! There is no such thing as avoiding it!
@@Ghe608 I gather now having a rather charmed life didn't help, easy peasy meant for me, once that monkey wrench came, smacked me sideways, my reaction of WTF, also not helpful!! 😐😕
I loved the conversation with Iyanla Vanzant and Chris Cuomo. I watchedit on 7-7-2023. Iyanla is some one who helped me tap into my spirit being more-so when i was faced with a very very hard situation snd didn't know how i was going to make it Here i am 30 years later still waiting for a miracle,but over the course of time i have learned S-T-A-R ( Surrender Trust Accept Relax. I Thank Jesus Christ for me coming across Iyanla Vanzant back in 1993 I Love her. I have around 7 of her books Ms Iyanla I Love You❤️🌹🙋🏾
lyanla is an example of wisdom hard earned. As someone once told me, “you can’t short-circuit life.” I believe one has to go through the journey and process of life through struggle, grief and hardship to truly realize life’s rewards and wonders through work - always ongoing - to reach peace, calm, acceptance, compassion, understanding and, most of all, thankfulness, even for the struggle. Still learning and thankful for this conversation.
Iyanla is an amazing person! Thanks for bringing her on your show. Your whole situation with CNN and trying to help your brother caused you a lot of struggle and pain. However, every day, you are demonstrating a tremendous amount of inner strength and choosing to heal and find peace within yourself. Your ability to forge ahead on a path of optimism is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey to focus on the important things in life - family, integrity and being true to yourself and others around you.
How to react to situations is so important as lyania speaks about. This will help people with depression and anxiety and alcohol addiction make better choices and decisions.
Chris, thank you for using your gifts. Your transparency during Covid gave me hope. You have no idea. My parents and you were sick at the same time. We would do the breathing exercises recommended over whatspp. I can't thank you enough for the support you provided to me and my family. Like you, they survived! ❤
Is video regarding covid when I suffering from it. Because of his video I started fighting back. Chris your video was a God sent. May God continue to bless you.❤
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
We should not put people in our hearts.... We love them ..Yes ..but your heart belongs to God not People.. Love God with all your heart..has a very big meaning..
Lyanla Vanzat is a great mentor, teacher, therapist, coach…on & on…She explains so well, such a way that it makes the struggles almost like it’s only one thing of life that we cannot avoid & here the WHYS & the STAR…. We need to reason ourselves & to reset & to learn how to handle life’s situations. Though I have many common points with Lyanla, not being worthy, slow learner & self experience ….etc… I come from a different culture & generation & I only made it by self managing struggles & everything in my life, coming at me. I was 33 when by experiencing ONE independent action I proved to myself that I didn’t need to depend of my father or men to be me. Though, unlike Lyanla, I cannot talk about how to do anything, could’ve never been a teacher because I self taught everything I am, the hard way, and I always felt that nobody could help me & I was right, because my background is so based on life battles & fights that I won or lost, that just hearing friends or neighbors telling me … « tell me if you need anything or if I can do anything for you »…. Just this suggestion was painful to me… because my sufferings were so much above….trying to heal myself….nobody could even be in my mind … I am going to listen to this Lady a second time, because there’s nothing that she said I would disagree with….She only brought back to me, a lot of my passed life stories & history and all the reasons that made me strong & confident when I knew to be hypersensitive in silence. Thank you Chris, i need to hear this interview twice…🤣… because either I am slow or because I need to weigh all the depths & words of your guest. Bravo Chris & thank you. I have a lot of respect for Lyanla, because from hard & un surmontable, by experience, she explains how reversible & positive situations can turn into & the more we practice it, the easier it is to handle. One other thing I caught, by you Chris mentioning your strong sisters …. The mothers were either making very strong daughters or the mothers were a strong role model to their daughters…? Which always was the difference in raising boys or girls….then….which is what has to change in the generations to come. Father’s love should raise up strong males , when mother’s Love should raise up sensitivity & objectivity to women & Family…. Bravo Chris.🇫🇷🇺🇸🐯
Thanks for having Iyanla on your show Chris. Watching you two chat about struggle, a man and a womyn, talking "together" about struggle and suffering, collaborating and sharing openly and honestly was deeply impactful. I noticed Iyanla, also mentioned the challenges that "competition" is causing in connection to self and others. Sadly, it is pushed, rewarded and revered. An old construct, I suspect ;) Looking forward to more of your videos on struggle and learning tools to help live in this world more authentically , from an alpha male perspective and transformative place. Onward.
Chris, This was amazing! Ms. Iyanla Vanzant is an amazing woman. A PERSON'S CHOICE is the most POWERFUL GIFT We have.... TOO MANY PEOPLE have CHOSEN evil in the face of the new DEMON OF HATE as it replaces FEAR. I believe it is the love of Jehovah AND the FEAR of the WHITE DRAGON asking me, "What do you NEED, Child?", AND the acceptance of the HOLY SPIRIT despite the fear is my STRUGGLE and my BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY.
Thank you for this show Chris! I really needed it today. I had to take a minute to say that I love Iyanla! Thank you for having her and for being so real yourself. She is so correct. It helps me and I also can imagine how many men it will help as well. She is spot on about that. I liked you before, but since you have been so open about yourself I like you much more. i’ve never posted before but felt I had to tell you thank you for what you are doing. You are making a difference in many lives, and in my life. Now, I am ready to go take on this difficult day.
I am loving your project, Excellent insight, wonderful words of wisdom and food severed to my soul that was well needed.I appreciated the both of you Thank you sincerely!!!
It took you having one of my favorite teachers on the podcast for the algorithm to remind me to check you out, and I am so glad it did. I've been meaning to check you out over here since you visited with Brian Tyler Cohen. Now I'm subscribed. Thank you for this nutritious and delicious offering. Two of the mightiest spirits on the planet in one sitting. How blessed are we?!?!
This man is still in so much pain. I'm sure that it has a lot to do with the fact that he did not bring this life situation upon himself, but in service to his elder brother, and no matter, how much he loves his brother, his brother's action, reverberated into Chris' life and brought down his fairytale into a nightmare. Chris, you are going to be alright. God will not leave you nor forsake you. There is a sweetness and a calm when you surrender to the chaos that grief (loss of your job) and loss (everything that you associated with the loss of your job.) You will be a better and a stronger man when these storm clouds pass, like everything in life, they are there for just a season, although it may feel like a lifetime.
Thanks Chris for having Iyanla on your podcast I watch in it's interity.I was a fan of her show. Never give up, never give in . continue to strive for highergrounds.
Lyanla is great! She was a huge inspiration for me back in my early twenties, and she still doesn't fail to disappoint. Thank you for bringing her on the show. She is also right about how much you are contributing Chris Cuomo! Thank you!
Thank you so very much. As a recent 65 year old amputee who is ready to practice STAR, by returning to teach special education and coach boys varsity basketball at an inner city high school and write my memoirs entitled " Straight Outta OF The South Bronx", I now have more clarity in living in struggle from this podcast, Chris. Thank you, Kevin Pollins, Bronx, Queens, NYC.
Hi Chris, I'm currently living and practicing reaching for STAR and I'm sharing that journey on my channel (warts and all). I just separated from my husband (soul mate), he has stage 4 cancer, I've lived with chronic illness since I was 11, we live in separate airbnbs, sold his life insurance to sustain ourselves through this. Still, I am seeing all of it as an opportunity to learn and grow-not all the time, but it's the general point of view. I've decided to share what I'm going through because I think too much of our "darkness" is considered shameful or weak when the truth is, life is ALL and if we just shared the truth of what we experience, the world would be a better place. I'm sharing to heal myself of course, but also, to give permission to others to feel what they're feeling and maybe even open up to others themselves.
Great conversation!!! I have been a fan of Iyanla Vanzant since the 1990's - her book fell off the shelve at Barnes and Nobles on the UWS. A sign the universe wanted me to find her work. Chris, you should have Dr. Nicole LePerla on your show - she is the The Holistic Psychologist. Her work is groundbreaking and healing.
I love, love, love Iyanla Vanzant! She is my spiritual teacher on earth! And Chris, I'm starting to grow on him since CNN as he seems to be very genuine and concerned. Leaving CNN was an enhancement in my opinion. Being his authentic self really shows just how warm his heart is toward humanity.
U can’t grow or get stronger without the struggle!! My mother died having me my great aunt raised me she passed in 99 ,all 3 of my sib brothers are dead from drugs an I was homeless for more than 10 years!! And some how I survived it all!! Frederick Douglass said “” No struggle no life “” and there was somebody who going through hell but found light in the struggle which absolutely amazing indeed!!
Yes, two most favorite people. How I needed this after recently losing my son., but I choose to live, to go on, to reach out for the stars. Peace and Blessings to all…and for anyone who is suffering, this too will pass.
Can’t WAIT to schedule some time to watch this later today. Iyanla’s wisdom, compassion, understanding and her amazing abilities to help others is ALWAYS worth the time and effort we take to hear her words of wisdom as she offers guidance and provides tools to help affect positive change. Looking forward to this! 🙏 Thanks Mr. C for providing a platform where we can tune in like a fly on the wall to absorb some stellar advice from the diverse group of sages you connect with ❤️ 👍
Great to see you Chris, loved it when you were on CNN, however, life goes on. I am glad to see you in a different genre of communicating to the social media arena. The subject of "struggling" to individuals is sometimes difficult for personal efforts.
To God be the glory for allowing me to stumble upon your podcast Chris! You and Iyanla are definitely gifts in God’s kingdom! I am blessed beyond measure and I embrace being a S.T.A.R. for God’s glory! I am wealthy from all the insight, wisdom and knowledge poured out in this episode! Pamela Busch is grateful! Prayerfully one day soon, my story will bless and deliver millions of God’s people!❤️🙏🏽
I just came upon this and the title captured my eye, & I am so greatful that I stopped by to watch this. This was so in lightning and refreshing to hear and I must say it was a moment for me to see me & it was a wow for me.Thank you Chris for sharing & Thank you Iyanla for pouring in 😊💖
Thanks Chris & Gratitude to Sister Iyanla. Yes, hiding, and not expressing the struggle as I recently discovered from a friend who has an advanced cancer diagnosis. Having to cover herself, not showing her vulnerability. Lessons learnt that have not yet been defrocked. Mental, emotional, psychological and physical impact causes additional stresses on the body, mind & spirit. How can some of us ‘unlearn’ this. Wonderful visit.
When Chris was going through his struggle, I had faith that he was going to be alright. He already had a foundation as an Attorney and he had a Family, which was his strength and encouragement. Chris was not ever going to fail...He was only going through a Transition. Only the haters thought he would fail or wanted him to fail. Family and Love is important and he has that.
I miss her show SO MUCH. She said she couldn’t do it anymore bc it was exhausting her after so many years but I do hope she comes back to maybe do a Fix My Life special.
Peace and blessings... How are you, Chris? I watched my first episode today, how refreshing. Your gift has purpose. You are a breath of fresh air. My life speaks volumes of struggle, suffering, and pain. I've written through it all away from the limelight by choice. Being vulnerable is a strength. Words have power. Great job! Please continue to be your breath, heartbeat, and your voice. Not to mention, Iyanzla has truly been an inspiration for over 20 years. I literally give her books to strangers I run into facing turbulence in their life. Your heart is energy, vibration, and frequency. What an awesome way to start the day! Thanks so much for sharing on this platform.
Thank you Iyanla to strong women “ you can be happy and gentle “ I love this they think now days being strong women mean being aggressive 😂😂😂😂I love you Iyanla always refreshing hearing from you 😘😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you Chris 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful program! I like you much better in the raw than on CNN. You are your own STAR. You and Iyanla are magnetic together- so thank you for this show! Great way to start my day!
Thank You Chris for the Guest you had on your show Iyanla. I learned what STAR stands for, and how it can help me to handle my struggles. I also appreciate you sharing your life with us. I want to let you know that when you had COVID my husband and i watched you. I saw how REAL you were. You showed us the struggles you were going through with pain, and being sick. You were still working for CNN. I had COVID Pneumonia. I was at the VA hospital in ICU for 8 days. It has taken me over 2 years to start feeling better. I feel soo sad that so many people died ALL OVER THE WORLD FROM COVID.
Thank you for have Iyanla on your show! I love her work and I love everything you discussed with each other. It was amazing!! I have witnessed her in person and she is a fabulous and resonates with the heart on such a deep level. ♥️🌈💜
Just when I thought it couldn’t get better. . . 😝 I was thinking a few days ago, “I wonder if Chris would ever have Iyanla on his show. Noooooo. . . I don’t think he would.” Well, HE DID THAT! 😂 Honestly, struggle and suffering has made me stronger. I needed it because I was sheltered for a large part of my life. . .and faithless as well. For me I came to realize that the struggle was a test of my faith. The more I thought, why me? I’m a good person, this shouldn’t be happening, how long will this go on? My desire to rationalize my struggle made it harder. Eventually I had to think differently. “You’re not special, (everyone has a struggle.) This isn’t happening because you’re a bad person. This is you’re test, to make you stronger. What is the lesson? Learn from it. And know that you will get through it.” But it took a lot of trials and failures to learn that. Now my faith is stronger, (not perfect.) But because of it. . . I do not struggle as hard. Men really do need to be more open about their struggles. Awesome session Chris. . .Thank You!😊
Chris I am grateful that I found your podcast. So nice to see you and hearing your voice again. I haven’t watch CNN since you left because it’s not the same. I am sending you blessings, keep on being positive. MG
Mr. Cuomo, 😍your platform and the inspirational and awesome commentary coverage on so many different levels you bring insight into. Many thanks for bringing this platform to fruition in order to share knowledge and wisdom for those who will benefit including myself.😀
"STAR" I had to write this down. This topic was soo very much needed. Thank you for giving Food For Thought. "Great Advice. The Law Of Cause And Effect. IT IS REAL.
Τhank you, thank you, thank you … to Iyanla for sharing her loving soul and teaching us how to use our own “STAR” power to help us navigate our struggles to help affect positive change; and to Chris for sharing your heart and using this platform to create a safe space to help us process our challenges in the school of hard knocks. 🙏 I knew this episode would kick ass! 😂 👍
Good afternoon. I'm finally getting around to sit down and listen. Just when I think you had all the best guest on your podcast, come along with another guest who is phenomenal ✨️ 🙌 Love Iyanla❤
It is so nice to see you again, you helped me & my family get through covid when that was going on. Chris your authenticity makes you so special & so inspirational. Congrats & thanks for sharing these episodes💙!
I tell people all the time, stage 4 cancer (went to brain) was a gift. Many cancer patients will say the same thing. You get sooooo much more. I've learned to live in love, compassion, empathy and gratitude. I am by far perfect but trying to be a better human everyday.... Struggle and suffering gives you many lessons in life. xoxoxoxox
I appreciate you Sharon. 🤗My husband has stage 4 cancer and the gifts are numerous, although coming in a very different form. I share that journey on my channel.
@@anniepaquette ahhhh you have me tearing up.. xox ps My life is in the TX Hill Country taking care of all the animals... I watch birds all day long... it's the best! The fawns are here too. :) We're part of nature, not separate from it....
Phenomenal!!! Authentic!! Truth!!!! I Love It.... I cannot thank you enough for your continued direct profound truth with Grace and proficiency. I am beyond grateful and cannot wait to see and hear more. God's Continued Blessings Bestowed Upon You and Ms. Iyanla Vanzant, Life Coach, Spiritual Alpha Woman. His Humbled Servant, Samala,
This was fantastic. Chris, I’m not sure how to say this, but you have always given me hope and comfort in knowing there are a few good straight men out there. I dunno… somehow I believe you would be that one cool dude who would stand up for me and who I could be comfortable around. Thank you for being you, for sharing and being someone I look up to and can count on for being real. Weird, I know. I wish we were friends.
It's not weird at all. We all should be able to be our true selves, in all its ugliness and triumph. Imagine a world where we can be openly vulnerable without being labeled. Especially men, like Iyanla referenced. It would make people more empathetic and foster a much better society.
Light bulb moment! This is so profound. Iyanla, you are a true gem! Chris you have a big heart filled with love and empathy. God bless you both! Looking forward to more words of wisdom!
Thank you for having Miss Ivanla on the show. Such a lovely, wise woman!! It is great to have you, Chris, back in our home on the television. Bless you and rock on!!
what a gift that Chris Cuomo's suffering has launched this project -- and then he is asking Ivanla Vanzant to be his guest == as he describes the "crush of the ankle" and she is giving how does one carry on == loving this episode - thank you Chris Cuomo ==let's follow the STAR - surrender, trust, acceptance, relax - stopping the struggle and loving your life -
Thank you Chris & Ms. Vanzant. I'm here in the hospita lbed at NY Presbyterian - Weill Cornell recovering from Thoracic Abdominal Aneurysm Repair and this interview was much needed after the Surgery. I've experienced every part of STAR and I have no shame in sharing it. Thank, Thank you and again, I say THANK YOU. Enjoy the rest of this blessed evening to anyone who is going anything, KEEP PUSHING!!!!
This was such a beautiful and special episode. I just lost my best friend and boyfriend before years. I thought everything was fine. I’ll work that morning and then just never came home. We just signed or re-signed a lease here and my rent has doubled. I cannot afford this place on my own, but I’m in a binding lease. I am heartbroken. I am devastated. I am lost. The thought, and the trauma of having to get a roommate in my 40s scares the shit out of me, especially since I had a roommate when I first moved to Florida who stole every single thing that I’ve ever owned down to baby pictures. I’ve had terrible experience is here in Florida. But I can relate to Iyanla when she was talking about Whole foods. We always went to Whole Foods together and tonight. I could hardly keep it together in there. I don’t know how to heal this pain.
Please reach out for state and federal programs you qualify for. Didn't realize how much help is out there until COVID. Maybe your local church is a good start? Common situation as most of us can't afford to live by ourselves anymore. Trust is key.STAR⭐
I’m sending you love and definitely praying that you find an outstanding roommate! I am truly believing that for you! It can happen I just found an a great roommate she is so easy to get along with and has even and help me try to find a new job. She’s traveled all over the country and just relocated to the state that I live in. I’m sorry for your loss but it will get better just take it a day at a time. I remember being in a serious relationship and getting my heart broken like that. I was very very young at the time but the only thing that kept me sane was working; Keeping my mind busy on other things and working a lot!!!
Thank you both for this TH-cam. Chris, I’ve been a fan of yours forever, it seems, and I’ve missed your perspective on the human condition of evolving. You have a way of being real and transparent without being “performative” that always resonates with me. I will be tuned to your channel often. Iyanla, you have been an Auntie in my heart since Starting Over! Great collaboration!
I have listen to Chris for a long time on CNN. I often wated for his segment, egerly waiting for what he and Don would say. What I used to take away most is the passion that I felt coming from his soul, when dealing with the issues, that was authentic energy. I am very happy to have stumbled on this chapter of your life, and I will be following. Thanks to Iyanla, a woman who is so inspiring. Great conversation!😊😊
Thank you for your podcast, Chris! Please keep it coming! We want to hear what you have to say! I've been following you since CNN. Last but not least, I'm glad Iyanla was here to share her gems!
I'm glad I was able to listen to two people who have a profound influence on my life. I especially love Iylanya because, I also lost a child, and he died in a hospital. It took me a while to visit loved ones who were in hospitals. Thank you for inspiring me to live a better life. I also have other issues, and struggles that I wish I could talk about with Ms. Vanzant
I'm really glad I happened upon Chris' podcast. I needed to hear this and get this message today. I love Iyanla and this conversation was so great. I needed to hear the S.T.A.R. of it all this morning. Thank you both and Chris you have a new subscriber!!
Chris, this conversation took me, on purpose a couple of days & times to listen/watch because it was an Iyanla teaching that I needed AGAIN in my life...I have been her "student" for years now. So when I went searching for an "Iyanla I need to hear you get me through this challenge" video and came across this headline, and YOU, I just knew it was the perfect combo! I adore you Chris and appreciate you and admire you. I also really believe that this is exactly where you are going to live your highest and best life, while continuing to be in the media. I could go on and on rave about you but I will end this comment by saying THANK YOU for shring your life in YOUR words and BRAVO for coninuting to lead the way in Media! I'm a fan 🤩
Chris, yes to all of this. Yes to us falling down. Yes to us finding a new way to get back up and "be". I just subscribed. The combo of you and Iyanla was brilliant and reminded me of so many things I forgot. When I forget who I am, I find fear, anxiety, sorrow, all of it. When I remember, well..then there is HOPE. And for me, hope is everything . BTW, I am also called a Pollyanna. And after what you said-I am going to stop trying to apologise for it. Follow your gut. It's good. You can trust it. I'll be around watching. Thank you for this. Really.
The Chris Cuomo Project is OUTSTANDING !!!! I sooooooo appreciate you Chris and your guests ! Iyanla is a precious jewel ! Just like you ! Thankyou !
" All pain needs a witness" Iyanla is awesome.
Yes, all is good!
Great! Longing to see you.
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This woman’s book saved my sanity and most likely, my marriage 20 years ago!!! 🙏
May I ask, what book?
@@josl1345 until today. Daily devotions. 🙏 May it bring you the same strength and peace of mind it brought to me!
@@italishgirl5601 Thank you!
I feel like I’ve gotten my own personal therapy session by watching Iyanla Vanzant fix do many lives❤️. I have learned so much by applying her teachings about doing your work!
This is so inspiring. In two minutes I learned 'suffering is a part of life and we go into resistance and that creates the suffering'
I guess to keep hearing it, hopefully at some point it sticks! I suppose it was always unrealistic to believe just quote unquote doing everything right, proper decisions meant you would avoid struggle! I mean did she say the Buddhists say struggle is part of life!! There is no such thing as avoiding it!
Yes!!! When she said that, it was such an “a ha” moment!! It was like my eyes were uncovered.
@@Ghe608 I gather now having a rather charmed life didn't help, easy peasy meant for me, once that monkey wrench came, smacked me sideways, my reaction of WTF, also not helpful!! 😐😕
Iyanla is a gift & so are you, Chris!🫶
I am so surprise to see you.😅 you doing a grate job. Looking well one door close many open.keep the faith😊
Good job!!
Thank you!!!
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Excellent, thank you
"People can use your struggle against you"! I felt that. Very powerful
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I had an opportunity to see Iyanla live in Brooklyn 4 years ago. She is such a dynamic teacher!
She’s a force to be reckon with.
I loved the conversation with Iyanla Vanzant and Chris Cuomo. I watchedit on 7-7-2023. Iyanla is some one who helped me tap into my spirit being more-so when i was faced with a very very hard situation snd didn't know how i was going to make it
Here i am 30 years later still waiting for a miracle,but over the course of time i have learned S-T-A-R ( Surrender Trust Accept Relax. I Thank Jesus Christ for me coming across Iyanla Vanzant back in 1993 I Love her. I have around 7 of her books Ms Iyanla I Love You❤️🌹🙋🏾
lyanla is an example of wisdom hard earned. As someone once told me, “you can’t short-circuit life.” I believe one has to go through the journey and process of life through struggle, grief and hardship to truly realize life’s rewards and wonders through work - always ongoing - to reach peace, calm, acceptance, compassion, understanding and, most of all, thankfulness, even for the struggle.
Still learning and thankful for this conversation.
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Iyanla is an amazing person! Thanks for bringing her on your show. Your whole situation with CNN and trying to help your brother caused you a lot of struggle and pain. However, every day, you are demonstrating a tremendous amount of inner strength and choosing to heal and find peace within yourself. Your ability to forge ahead on a path of optimism is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey to focus on the important things in life - family, integrity and being true to yourself and others around you.
How to react to situations is so important as lyania speaks about. This will help people with depression and anxiety and alcohol addiction make better choices and decisions.
Thank you Iyanla for being there for these Cuomo brothers I love you even more . I felt bad for their situations as my own brothers too . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great comment 👍
Food for thoughts here‼️
These brothers did it to themselves, self absorbed
I loved every minute of this interview with Iyanla Vanzant!! Keep it coming, Chris! You're the Man!!
Chris,thank for having!! Great conversation on struggling & suffering. Yes, yes, yes!!! On authenticity! Love Chris & Iylana❤..bring her back again.
Chris, thank you for using your gifts. Your transparency during Covid gave me hope. You have no idea. My parents and you were sick at the same time. We would do the breathing exercises recommended over whatspp. I can't thank you enough for the support you provided to me and my family. Like you, they survived! ❤
Is video regarding covid when I suffering from it. Because of his video I started fighting back. Chris your video was a God sent. May God continue to bless you.❤
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do I reach her?
@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up now online. impressive.
We should not put people in our hearts....
We love them ..Yes ..but your heart belongs to God not People..
Love God with all your heart..has a very big meaning..
It will pass but give yourself grace
Lyanla Vanzat is a great mentor, teacher, therapist, coach…on & on…She explains so well, such a way that it makes the struggles almost like it’s only one thing of life that we cannot avoid & here the WHYS & the STAR…. We need to reason ourselves & to reset & to learn how to handle life’s situations.
Though I have many common points with Lyanla, not being worthy, slow learner & self experience ….etc…
I come from a different culture & generation & I only made it by self managing struggles & everything in my life, coming at me.
I was 33 when by experiencing ONE independent action I proved to myself that I didn’t need to depend of my father or men to be me.
Though, unlike Lyanla, I cannot talk about how to do anything, could’ve never been a teacher because I self taught everything I am, the hard way, and I always felt that nobody could help me & I was right, because my background is so based on life battles & fights that I won or lost, that just hearing friends or neighbors telling me … « tell me if you need anything or if I can do anything for you »…. Just this suggestion was painful to me… because my sufferings were so much above….trying to heal myself….nobody could even be in my mind …
I am going to listen to this Lady a second time, because there’s nothing that she said I would disagree with….She only brought back to me, a lot of my passed life stories & history and all the reasons that made me strong & confident when I knew to be hypersensitive in silence.
Thank you Chris, i need to hear this interview twice…🤣… because either I am slow or because I need to weigh all the depths & words of your guest. Bravo Chris & thank you.
I have a lot of respect for Lyanla, because from hard & un surmontable, by experience, she explains how reversible & positive situations can turn into & the more we practice it, the easier it is to handle.
One other thing I caught, by you Chris mentioning your strong sisters …. The mothers were either making very strong daughters or the mothers were a strong role model to their daughters…?
Which always was the difference in raising boys or girls….then….which is what has to change in the generations to come.
Father’s love should raise up strong males , when mother’s Love should raise up sensitivity & objectivity to women & Family….
Bravo Chris.🇫🇷🇺🇸🐯
Excellent! Iyanla gives practical insights. Glad you are coming back Chris! You and your family are good people.
Thanks for having Iyanla on your show Chris. Watching you two chat about struggle, a man and a womyn, talking "together" about struggle and suffering, collaborating and sharing openly and honestly was deeply impactful. I noticed Iyanla, also mentioned the challenges that "competition" is causing in connection to self and others. Sadly, it is pushed, rewarded and revered. An old construct, I suspect ;) Looking forward to more of your videos on struggle and learning tools to help live in this world more authentically , from an alpha male perspective and transformative place. Onward.
Chris,
This was amazing! Ms. Iyanla Vanzant is an amazing woman. A PERSON'S CHOICE is the most POWERFUL GIFT We have....
TOO MANY PEOPLE have CHOSEN evil in the face of the new DEMON OF HATE as it replaces FEAR.
I believe it is the love of Jehovah AND the FEAR of the WHITE DRAGON asking me, "What do you NEED, Child?", AND the acceptance of the HOLY SPIRIT despite the fear is my STRUGGLE and my BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY.
Thank you for this show Chris! I really needed it today. I had to take a minute to say that I love Iyanla! Thank you for having her and for being so real yourself. She is so correct. It helps me and I also can imagine how many men it will help as well. She is spot on about that. I liked you before, but since you have been so open about yourself I like you much more. i’ve never posted before but felt I had to tell you thank you for what you are doing. You are making a difference in many lives, and in my life. Now, I am ready to go take on this difficult day.
Your comment was purely beautiful ❤️ so glad U spoke up for so many🗣️Never understood why we don't talk about Religion, Politics, Money or FEELINGS🍀
I really enjoy this class very interesting you live and you learn
I am loving your project, Excellent insight, wonderful words of wisdom and food severed to my soul that was well needed.I appreciated the both of you Thank you sincerely!!!
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It took you having one of my favorite teachers on the podcast for the algorithm to remind me to check you out, and I am so glad it did. I've been meaning to check you out over here since you visited with Brian Tyler Cohen. Now I'm subscribed. Thank you for this nutritious and delicious offering. Two of the mightiest spirits on the planet in one sitting. How blessed are we?!?!
love this heart opening conversation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you sweet, dear people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This man is still in so much pain. I'm sure that it has a lot to do with the fact that he did not bring this life situation upon himself, but in service to his elder brother, and no matter, how much he loves his brother, his brother's action, reverberated into Chris' life and brought down his fairytale into a nightmare. Chris, you are going to be alright. God will not leave you nor forsake you. There is a sweetness and a calm when you surrender to the chaos that grief (loss of your job) and loss (everything that you associated with the loss of your job.) You will be a better and a stronger man when these storm clouds pass, like everything in life, they are there for just a season, although it may feel like a lifetime.
The collaboration I didn't know I needed! Love me some Iyanla!! If you guys don't know about her, you better find out!
I can’t believe you have all my good people in here thank you Chris 🙏🙏🙏🙏I love Iyanla
Wow! Iyanla is so wise, spiritual and insightful! Love the STAR acronym, great tool for dealing with challenges and struggles. Great episode!
Chris, i enjoyed you having Ms Iyanla on your show.
She is encouraging. This
was a Great Show. I use to
Oh yeah it's a God given gift to Iyanla and many others but one must listen ...
Thanks Chris for having Iyanla on your podcast I watch in it's interity.I was a fan of her show. Never give up, never give in . continue to strive for highergrounds.
I love love love this!!!!! Go Chris Go!!!! Iyanla is amazing!
Chris and Iyanla, thank you both.
Lyanla is great! She was a huge inspiration for me back in my early twenties, and she still doesn't fail to disappoint. Thank you for bringing her on the show. She is also right about how much you are contributing Chris Cuomo! Thank you!
Oh wow we saying the same thing 😂😂.
Mine too
Thanks for bringing Iyanla on the show she is so intelligent. I subscribed because I love informative podcast.
The duo I never knew I needed… 🙌🏽👏🏽 S.T.A.R. 🤯
Thank you so very much. As a recent 65 year old amputee who is ready to practice STAR, by returning to teach special education and coach boys varsity basketball at an inner city high school and write my memoirs entitled " Straight Outta OF The South Bronx", I now have more clarity in living in struggle from this podcast, Chris. Thank you, Kevin Pollins, Bronx, Queens, NYC.
Hi Chris, I'm currently living and practicing reaching for STAR and I'm sharing that journey on my channel (warts and all). I just separated from my husband (soul mate), he has stage 4 cancer, I've lived with chronic illness since I was 11, we live in separate airbnbs, sold his life insurance to sustain ourselves through this. Still, I am seeing all of it as an opportunity to learn and grow-not all the time, but it's the general point of view.
I've decided to share what I'm going through because I think too much of our "darkness" is considered shameful or weak when the truth is, life is ALL and if we just shared the truth of what we experience, the world would be a better place. I'm sharing to heal myself of course, but also, to give permission to others to feel what they're feeling and maybe even open up to others themselves.
I love the authenticity with which your share on your channel Annie.🙏
@@LateLateBloomer 🙏 My pleasure. My purpose.
We are soulmates my love. ~Dan
@@thedanandannieshow 🙏
Great conversation!!! I have been a fan of Iyanla Vanzant since the 1990's - her book fell off the shelve at Barnes and Nobles on the UWS. A sign the universe wanted me to find her work. Chris, you should have Dr. Nicole LePerla on your show - she is the The Holistic Psychologist. Her work is groundbreaking and healing.
I love, love, love Iyanla Vanzant! She is my spiritual teacher on earth! And Chris, I'm starting to grow on him since CNN as he seems to be very genuine and concerned. Leaving CNN was an enhancement in my opinion. Being his authentic self really shows just how warm his heart is toward humanity.
Iyanla just sooths my soul! She speaks on it so beautifully. Chris you didn't do a bad job either 😅. Great video
U can’t grow or get stronger without the struggle!! My mother died having me my great aunt raised me she passed in 99 ,all 3 of my sib
brothers are dead from drugs an I was homeless for more than 10 years!! And some how I survived it all!! Frederick Douglass said “” No struggle no life “” and there was somebody who going through hell but found light in the struggle which absolutely amazing indeed!!
OMG, this convo is just what we need and more of it🥰
Yes, two most favorite people. How I needed this after recently losing my son., but I choose to live, to go on, to reach out for the stars.
Peace and Blessings to all…and for anyone who is suffering, this too will pass.
Iyanla always inspires me and pushes me to choose happiness and positivity
Can’t WAIT to schedule some time to watch this later today. Iyanla’s wisdom, compassion, understanding and her amazing abilities to help others is ALWAYS worth the time and effort we take to hear her words of wisdom as she offers guidance and provides tools to help affect positive change. Looking forward to this! 🙏 Thanks Mr. C for providing a platform where we can tune in like a fly on the wall to absorb some stellar advice from the diverse group of sages you connect with ❤️ 👍
Great to see you Chris, loved it when you were on CNN, however, life goes on. I am glad to see you in a different genre of communicating to the social media arena. The subject of "struggling" to individuals is sometimes difficult for personal efforts.
That was a great podcast. I’m glad you had Ms. Iyanla on the show. I really needed to hear that and find my Star! Peace and happiness!!
To God be the glory for allowing me to stumble upon your podcast Chris! You and Iyanla are definitely gifts in God’s kingdom! I am blessed beyond measure and I embrace being a S.T.A.R. for God’s glory! I am wealthy from all the insight, wisdom and knowledge poured out in this episode! Pamela Busch is grateful! Prayerfully one day soon, my story will bless and deliver millions of God’s people!❤️🙏🏽
So insightful. Love your videos and choice of guests.
Two beautiful minds come together. Magnificent episode Chris. 🖤👍👊
❤Life is hard these days. We need more of you both! ❤ I can and I will.
I just came upon this and the title captured my eye, & I am so greatful that I stopped by to watch this. This was so in lightning and refreshing to hear and I must say it was a moment for me to see me & it was a wow for me.Thank you Chris for sharing & Thank you Iyanla for pouring in 😊💖
Thanks Chris & Gratitude to Sister Iyanla. Yes, hiding, and not expressing the struggle as I recently discovered from a friend who has an advanced cancer diagnosis. Having to cover herself, not showing her vulnerability. Lessons learnt that have not yet been defrocked. Mental, emotional, psychological and physical impact causes additional stresses on the body, mind & spirit. How can some of us ‘unlearn’ this. Wonderful visit.
When Chris was going through his struggle, I had faith that he was going to be alright. He already had a foundation as an Attorney and he had a Family, which was his strength and encouragement. Chris was not ever going to fail...He was only going through a Transition. Only the haters thought he would fail or wanted him to fail. Family and Love is important and he has that.
I miss her show SO MUCH. She said she couldn’t do it anymore bc it was exhausting her after so many years but I do hope she comes back to maybe do a Fix My Life special.
She has a good podcast helping people!
Peace and blessings... How are you, Chris? I watched my first episode today, how refreshing. Your gift has purpose. You are a breath of fresh air. My life speaks volumes of struggle, suffering, and pain. I've written through it all away from the limelight by choice. Being vulnerable is a strength. Words have power. Great job! Please continue to be your breath, heartbeat, and your voice. Not to mention, Iyanzla has truly been an inspiration for over 20 years. I literally give her books to strangers I run into facing turbulence in their life. Your heart is energy, vibration, and frequency. What an awesome way to start the day! Thanks so much for sharing on this platform.
Thank you Iyanla to strong women “ you can be happy and gentle “ I love this they think now days being strong women mean being aggressive 😂😂😂😂I love you Iyanla always refreshing hearing from you 😘😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you Chris 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful program! I like you much better in the raw than on CNN. You are your own STAR. You and Iyanla are magnetic together- so thank you for this show! Great way to start my day!
Here. . .Here🎉
Thank You Chris for the
Guest you had on your
show Iyanla. I learned
what STAR stands for,
and how it can help me
to handle my struggles.
I also appreciate you sharing your life with
us. I want to let you know
that when you had COVID
my husband and i watched
you. I saw how REAL you
were. You showed us the
struggles you were going
through with pain, and
being sick. You were still
working for CNN. I had
COVID Pneumonia. I was
at the VA hospital in ICU
for 8 days. It has taken me
over 2 years to start feeling
better. I feel soo sad that so many people died ALL
OVER THE WORLD FROM
COVID.
Thank you for have Iyanla on your show! I love her work and I love everything you discussed with each other. It was amazing!!
I have witnessed her in person and she is a fabulous and resonates with the heart on such a deep level. ♥️🌈💜
Just when I thought it couldn’t get better. . . 😝
I was thinking a few days ago, “I wonder if Chris would ever have Iyanla on his show. Noooooo. . . I don’t think he would.” Well, HE DID THAT! 😂
Honestly, struggle and suffering has made me stronger. I needed it because I was sheltered for a large part of my life. . .and faithless as well. For me I came to realize that the struggle was a test of my faith. The more I thought, why me? I’m a good person, this shouldn’t be happening, how long will this go on? My desire to rationalize my struggle made it harder. Eventually I had to think differently. “You’re not special, (everyone has a struggle.) This isn’t happening because you’re a bad person. This is you’re test, to make you stronger. What is the lesson? Learn from it. And know that you will get through it.” But it took a lot of trials and failures to learn that. Now my faith is stronger, (not perfect.) But because of it. . . I do not struggle as hard. Men really do need to be more open about their struggles. Awesome session Chris. . .Thank You!😊
This was a great conversation filled with to many golden nuggets of blessings to count 🙏🏽Thank You Chris❤ Thank You Iyanla❤️
Chris I am grateful that I found your podcast. So nice to see you and hearing your voice again. I haven’t watch CNN since you left because it’s not the same. I am sending you blessings, keep on being positive. MG
Mr. Cuomo, 😍your platform and the inspirational and awesome commentary coverage on so many different levels you bring insight into.
Many thanks for bringing this platform to fruition in order to share knowledge and wisdom for those who will benefit including myself.😀
"STAR" I had to write this down. This topic was soo very much needed. Thank you for giving Food For Thought. "Great Advice.
The Law Of Cause And Effect.
IT IS REAL.
Τhank you, thank you, thank you … to Iyanla for sharing her loving soul and teaching us how to use our own “STAR” power to help us navigate our struggles to help affect positive change; and to Chris for sharing your heart and using this platform to create a safe space to help us process our challenges in the school of hard knocks. 🙏 I knew this episode would kick ass! 😂 👍
Good afternoon. I'm finally getting around to sit down and listen. Just when I think you had all the best guest on your podcast, come along with another guest who is phenomenal ✨️ 🙌 Love Iyanla❤
It is so nice to see you again, you helped me & my family get through covid when that was going on. Chris your authenticity makes you so special & so inspirational. Congrats & thanks for sharing these episodes💙!
I tell people all the time, stage 4 cancer (went to brain) was a gift. Many cancer patients will say the same thing. You get sooooo much more. I've learned to live in love, compassion, empathy and gratitude. I am by far perfect but trying to be a better human everyday.... Struggle and suffering gives you many lessons in life. xoxoxoxox
I appreciate you Sharon. 🤗My husband has stage 4 cancer and the gifts are numerous, although coming in a very different form. I share that journey on my channel.
@@anniepaquette ahhhh you have me tearing up.. xox ps My life is in the TX Hill Country taking care of all the animals... I watch birds all day long... it's the best! The fawns are here too. :) We're part of nature, not separate from it....
@@sharonmickey4566 I love watching wildlife. You can only be at peace within to truly watch or approach them.
Phenomenal!!! Authentic!! Truth!!!! I Love It.... I cannot thank you enough for your continued direct profound truth with Grace and proficiency. I am beyond grateful and cannot wait to see and hear more. God's Continued Blessings Bestowed Upon You and Ms. Iyanla Vanzant, Life Coach, Spiritual Alpha Woman. His Humbled Servant, Samala,
I appreciated all that you and Iyanla shared. Continue all the great work and keep Iyanla sharing!!!
This was fantastic. Chris, I’m not sure how to say this, but you have always given me hope and comfort in knowing there are a few good straight men out there. I dunno… somehow I believe you would be that one cool dude who would stand up for me and who I could be comfortable around. Thank you for being you, for sharing and being someone I look up to and can count on for being real. Weird, I know. I wish we were friends.
It's not weird at all. We all should be able to be our true selves, in all its ugliness and triumph. Imagine a world where we can be openly vulnerable without being labeled. Especially men, like Iyanla referenced. It would make people more empathetic and
foster a much better society.
Light bulb moment! This is so profound. Iyanla, you are a true gem! Chris you have a big heart filled with love and empathy. God bless you both! Looking forward to more words of wisdom!
Appreciate this video so much! Thank you Chris and Iyanla 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Thank you for having Miss Ivanla on the show. Such a lovely, wise woman!! It is great to have you, Chris, back in our home on the television. Bless you and rock on!!
And we Witnessed both brothers pain and it was painful for us to see them go through their suffering. So many prayers went out for you two.❤❤❤
Blessings upon Blessings to yourself and Iyanla in this Interview - You guys are Anazing 🤗😁
what a gift that Chris Cuomo's suffering has launched this project -- and then he is asking Ivanla Vanzant to be his guest == as he describes the "crush of the ankle" and she is giving how does one carry on == loving this episode - thank you Chris Cuomo ==let's follow the STAR - surrender, trust, acceptance, relax - stopping the struggle and loving your life -
Love this show my two favorite people may God keep blessing your ❤
It's great seeing Chris Cuomo and Iyanla VanZant in conversation together ❤️ 💐🍾🎁🫱🏽🫲🏾
Thank you Chris & Ms. Vanzant. I'm here in the hospita lbed at NY Presbyterian - Weill Cornell recovering from Thoracic Abdominal Aneurysm Repair and this interview was much needed after the Surgery. I've experienced every part of STAR and I have no shame in sharing it. Thank, Thank you and again, I say THANK YOU. Enjoy the rest of this blessed evening to anyone who is going anything, KEEP PUSHING!!!!
This was such a beautiful and special episode. I just lost my best friend and boyfriend before years. I thought everything was fine. I’ll work that morning and then just never came home. We just signed or re-signed a lease here and my rent has doubled. I cannot afford this place on my own, but I’m in a binding lease. I am heartbroken. I am devastated. I am lost. The thought, and the trauma of having to get a roommate in my 40s scares the shit out of me, especially since I had a roommate when I first moved to Florida who stole every single thing that I’ve ever owned down to baby pictures. I’ve had terrible experience is here in Florida. But I can relate to Iyanla when she was talking about Whole foods. We always went to Whole Foods together and tonight. I could hardly keep it together in there. I don’t know how to heal this pain.
Please reach out for state and federal programs you qualify for. Didn't realize how much help is out there until COVID. Maybe your local church is a good start? Common situation as most of us can't afford to live by ourselves anymore. Trust is key.STAR⭐
I’m sending you love and definitely praying that you find an outstanding roommate! I am truly believing that for you! It can happen I just found an a great roommate she is so easy to get along with and has even and help me try to find a new job. She’s traveled all over the country and just relocated to the state that I live in. I’m sorry for your loss but it will get better just take it a day at a time. I remember being in a serious relationship and getting my heart broken like that. I was very very young at the time but the only thing that kept me sane was working; Keeping my mind busy on other things and working a lot!!!
@@GoogleAccount00 Don't' you have any "Rent Control" in Florida? Rent can only increase a certain percentage (here in California).
Great interview! I started reading Iyanla's books over 25 years ago and always find pearls of wisdom through her words.
Thank you both for this TH-cam. Chris, I’ve been a fan of yours forever, it seems, and I’ve missed your perspective on the human condition of evolving. You have a way of being real and transparent without being “performative” that always resonates with me. I will be tuned to your channel often.
Iyanla, you have been an Auntie in my heart since Starting Over!
Great collaboration!
I have listen to Chris for a long time on CNN. I often wated for his segment, egerly waiting for what he and Don would say. What I used to take away most is the passion that I felt coming from his soul, when dealing with the issues, that was authentic energy. I am very happy to have stumbled on this chapter of your life, and I will be following. Thanks to Iyanla, a woman who is so inspiring. Great conversation!😊😊
He was so genuinely anamored with her.
Hes like " NO I NEED YOU!' 😊
All the men in the Cuomo family are FINE!
Thanks for the wealth of knowledge shared. Blessings to both of you
Love the interview and the empathy that was shared ❤
Thank you for your podcast, Chris! Please keep it coming! We want to hear what you have to say! I've been following you since CNN. Last but not least, I'm glad Iyanla was here to share her gems!
I'm glad I was able to listen to two people who have a profound influence on my life. I especially love Iylanya because, I also lost a child, and he died in a hospital. It took me a while to visit loved ones who were in hospitals. Thank you for inspiring me to live a better life. I also have other issues, and struggles that I wish I could talk about with Ms. Vanzant
I'm really glad I happened upon Chris' podcast. I needed to hear this and get this message today. I love Iyanla and this conversation was so great. I needed to hear the S.T.A.R. of it all this morning. Thank you both and Chris you have a new subscriber!!
Chris, this conversation took me, on purpose a couple of days & times to listen/watch because it was an Iyanla teaching that I needed AGAIN in my life...I have been her "student" for years now. So when I went searching for an "Iyanla I need to hear you get me through this challenge" video and came across this headline, and YOU, I just knew it was the perfect combo! I adore you Chris and appreciate you and admire you. I also really believe that this is exactly where you are going to live your highest and best life, while continuing to be in the media. I could go on and on rave about you but I will end this comment by saying THANK YOU for shring your life in YOUR words and BRAVO for coninuting to lead the way in Media! I'm a fan 🤩
💯ThkU!Both Iyanla & Chris are huge gifts to the world🌍Extremely relatable..honest, open, transparent; non-judgemental,confidential+more
Chris I am so proud of you! Good stuff. Keep pushing! And Mother Wisdom is just a plus for tuning in!!! ❤
Ivanka Is Great We Can Learn Alot From Her She Has A Good Message And She Has A Strong Moral Character Thanks Chris For Doing This Interview 😊
I love Iyanla.
She is a beautiful soul❤
Same❤
Chris, yes to all of this. Yes to us falling down. Yes to us finding a new way to get back up and "be". I just subscribed. The combo of you and Iyanla was brilliant and reminded me of so many things I forgot. When I forget who I am, I find fear, anxiety, sorrow, all of it. When I remember, well..then there is HOPE. And for me, hope is everything . BTW, I am also called a Pollyanna. And after what you said-I am going to stop trying to apologise for it. Follow your gut. It's good. You can trust it. I'll be around watching. Thank you for this. Really.
I sooooo needed this today. Thank you ❤
Thank you Chris, I love hearing her speak. I learned alot about myself, listening to her and you talk. Thanks again😊
I Love Chris! You have Courage to rebound under the most difficult situations! Keep doing what you doing!😀
Chris! Thank you for having Iyanla as a guest. I admire you, and I don't say that lightly. Thank you for sharing yourself.
Excellent podcast!!! Everybody needs a little healing. Thank you!