TOXIC MASCULINITY: Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women "It's Complicated"

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  • @ivanw2080
    @ivanw2080 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    Women nowadays seem to love to use this term "TOXIC MASCULINITY" as a means to describe and/or shame anything that men do that they don't like; setting boundaries, calling out bad behavior, not tolerating disrespect from women, etc. This seems to be women's trump card that they use to shame anything done by men they don't, when really it's just the recently trending buzzword. That's why women struggle when being asked to define it.
    Besides why is this a term that needs to be engendered specifically just to men? There IS such a thing as TOXIC FEMININITY, so why not just call it TOXIC BEHAVIOR? Toxic behavior knows no gender IMO

    • @ctg5679
      @ctg5679 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Its ironic to also point out those same people usually say they hate labels or specifically gender/sex labels but love using or making negative labels against men like toxic masculinity, misogyny, mansplaining, manspreading etc...........

    • @hebrewharv8018
      @hebrewharv8018 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing breakdown fam. Its definitely a word used against US to keep THEM unaccountable for their bad behavior.

    • @Milan-yz8hl
      @Milan-yz8hl ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is the dude with the braids and what is his youtube channel?? (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕 (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )

    • @fire_fux
      @fire_fux ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts my guy

    • @lovely1762
      @lovely1762 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, toxic feminity is true

  • @Jodeb22
    @Jodeb22 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    Props to the blonde girl. Not afraid to speak the truth, unlike many other females that would just come up with a bs story

    • @1Mutton1
      @1Mutton1 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I agree, even though she often didn't have the words to describe it.

    • @mikeredhead2894
      @mikeredhead2894 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      She surprised me. Her demographic usually says the opposite.

    • @Jodeb22
      @Jodeb22 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@mikeredhead2894 Absolutely! In my opinion that's what makes women more beautiful, if they can admit their flaws an the bs that they do. Most of them are soo hard headed, Just like this blonde said, every ex bf is a narcissist for some reason... yea..

    • @bluebehir
      @bluebehir ปีที่แล้ว +30

      And I loved her laughter. She was a breath of fresh air and brightness

    • @LudovicoValoroso
      @LudovicoValoroso ปีที่แล้ว

      Calocagathia

  • @rpmatt2022
    @rpmatt2022 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    The hardest working and still most grossly underrated channel on YT continues to pull back the delusional curtain today's modern women maintain. Let's get him to 500K.

  • @AndyFromBeaverton
    @AndyFromBeaverton ปีที่แล้ว +376

    I can't believe all this womansplaining I'm witnessing. How toxic!

  • @dredey1971
    @dredey1971 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    "Have you seen a single man's apartment? I have, many times." Classic

    • @bluebehir
      @bluebehir ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought she said 'bedroom'

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bluebehir 10:10 mark

    • @steveg2277
      @steveg2277 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Gave herself away lol

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@steveg2277 Exactly

    • @bluebehir
      @bluebehir ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dredey1971 touche.

  • @trigcat3107
    @trigcat3107 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Its not toxic untill you're providing and protecting them, the moment you ask something from them, it suddenly becomes toxic

    • @dorstefan
      @dorstefan ปีที่แล้ว +38

      It's toxic if you are not Chad or Tyrone.

    • @malakbrood667
      @malakbrood667 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@dorstefan indeed.

    • @latt.qcd9221
      @latt.qcd9221 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They'll still call that toxic if you respect any kind of reciprocity for providing and protecting them.

    • @fndmntl5341
      @fndmntl5341 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey man I'm with you... Hate cats, friggin rodents

    • @Conservative_carnivore
      @Conservative_carnivore ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's not toxic until it can't be controlled

  • @gbereggie
    @gbereggie ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Shawty told on herself “I’ve seen many single Guy apartments “ 💀

    • @roaringsun4743
      @roaringsun4743 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That was a powerful self-own.

    • @SoarinUpHigh
      @SoarinUpHigh ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Literally snitched on herself 😂

    • @imperviouus
      @imperviouus ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Self report Sally

    • @truestdude
      @truestdude ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Roaring Sun yes it was. & she ain't even know it

    • @carltonlambert7608
      @carltonlambert7608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And I bet she tries to take over while he's comfortable with the basics and holding his money in his pocket.

  • @davidbrownfield5808
    @davidbrownfield5808 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    You have to be masculine, but not too masculine.
    You have to take charge, but not be controlling.
    You have to be in touch with your feminine side, but not too feminine.
    You have to show emotion, but not too much emotion.
    You have to be a bad boy, but also be nice.
    Walk that tightrope, or just ignore female advice. Be strong, be stoic, take care of yourself, set boundaries, and take care of yourself first.

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ignoring girls is wise

    • @pipedreamism1
      @pipedreamism1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said and to me the only gender that's toxic is women towards men and because women critical of all men and men are critical with hoes not real women

    • @liukang85
      @liukang85 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it's all fucked these days. Ever since women started competing with men on the job market our role as providers had been made much much harder

    • @gil8221
      @gil8221 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      life is all about balance brother

  • @BenignAndaHalf
    @BenignAndaHalf ปีที่แล้ว +300

    There is no such thing as “toxic masculinity”, it’s about morality, integrity, honor, and healthy pride. “Modern women” attack men with integrity and standards because it challenges their immaturity and selfishness.

    • @BenignAndaHalf
      @BenignAndaHalf ปีที่แล้ว

      A feminine dude is worthless to society, you don’t need to be a cold emotionless robot, but if you have blue hair and wearing skinny jeans screaming you’re a feminist….. yeah, you’re worthless.

    • @bluebehir
      @bluebehir ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I could accept an argument that repeat offender criminals exude toxic masculinity. Beyond that, I concur.

    • @vnssn
      @vnssn ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bro just ignore women like that... Its just like the saying "The Elephant Keeps Walking as the Dogs Keep Barking"

    • @anaximanderofapollonia9842
      @anaximanderofapollonia9842 ปีที่แล้ว

      I disagree. 2 claims:
      1) the embodiment of masculinity is determination,
      2) the embodiment of femininity is tolerance.
      Too much of determination results with tunnel vision. Once that happens, you awareness of the world drops, along with your own actions within it. While too much of tolerance results with nihilism.
      In that sense, the women of today are the ones who are displaying traits of toxic masculinity for they cannot survive on their own by relying solely on their femininity.

    • @riofacts8283
      @riofacts8283 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

  • @eztyson
    @eztyson ปีที่แล้ว +67

    10:12 “Have you seen a single man’s apartment… I have MANY times”
    Tell me what you do for fun, without telling me what you do 😂😂😂

    • @BinkTheBattousai
      @BinkTheBattousai ปีที่แล้ว +16

      As the saying goes.
      Let em talk long enough they'll always tell on themselves 🤣

    • @rexleonem
      @rexleonem ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh shit 😂🤣

  • @Shockernor
    @Shockernor ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, OMG!

    • @dvdvelde
      @dvdvelde ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So annoying

    • @you_beg_my_pardon
      @you_beg_my_pardon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It shows your level of intelligence when you have to say like 45 times in a sentence. That intelligence level is extremely low

    • @jeevaguru11
      @jeevaguru11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣

  • @Dawid0912
    @Dawid0912 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Blonde one is great. Not afraid to speak truth, espeicaly against narrative is realy brave.
    "You girls know, you know what you do" Great quote

    • @pneumaticFrequency
      @pneumaticFrequency ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Manipulation is usually obvious if you're paying attention, but the usual plausible deniability is there

  • @Zyzz_Enjoyer
    @Zyzz_Enjoyer ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “I guess it’s the type of men that I go for” Ahh, is that some accountability I hear? Quite the rare occurrence these days.

    • @Vergil14
      @Vergil14 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And then it goes out the window when she says “bitchiness is about being assertive”.

    • @dorstefan
      @dorstefan ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She was proud of her decisions. She wasn't thinking about her decisions.

  • @MrPatspp
    @MrPatspp ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "If you ever think a girl is innocent you're probably wrong. They know what they're doing." Thank you for this content🙏🔥

  • @Fidelb33r
    @Fidelb33r ปีที่แล้ว +156

    🙏
    Blondie was the most down to earth

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Rare Blonde W

    • @maxxbarzz
      @maxxbarzz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meanwhile the very first example of what feminine energy is she said "a guy opening the door for me"

    • @steveg2277
      @steveg2277 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If you were smart, you’d still run. Far and fast.

    • @alessandrolepore9105
      @alessandrolepore9105 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maxxbarzz I can't speak for everyone, but I believe that most guys wouldn't mind those things with a seemingly down to earth, energetic and charismatic woman like her. I had an ex like her, both look wise and attitude wise. We broke it off unfortunately, but in a very adult and respectful manner. At the end of the day, if its for people you trust and cherish, those little things do matter. She doesn't seem like she would rub it in your face if you didn't do it either.

    • @niallk9336
      @niallk9336 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know she has at least 1 brother.

  • @coachkeith643
    @coachkeith643 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    "The loudest and proudest girl out there definitely is usually the one with mental issues and insecurities." #DonDemarco

    • @Orgena_Deconstructed
      @Orgena_Deconstructed ปีที่แล้ว +2

      #ShitLikeThat

    • @serenasato4621
      @serenasato4621 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mental issues? How can you assume that just from a few minutes of them talking?

    • @supreemcourt9181
      @supreemcourt9181 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Orgena_Deconstructed #bangbang

  • @ryanjones7681
    @ryanjones7681 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    "I feel"
    That's all these women have is feelings...

    • @TheRedSign
      @TheRedSign ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sadly, men started to talk that way, too.

    • @ryanjones7681
      @ryanjones7681 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheRedSign those aren't men

    • @serenasato4621
      @serenasato4621 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ryan Jones Men can have emotions tf you mean. Good example of toxic masculinity.

    • @Kamikazs
      @Kamikazs ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@serenasato4621 😂

  • @MrTchupam
    @MrTchupam ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "i feel like" - modern women, 2023

    • @R.Sole88109
      @R.Sole88109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "I feel" - women, ♾

  • @SwiftSwrd
    @SwiftSwrd ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The comment about a single man's apartment made me laugh. Straight up the meme where there's a room with just a cushy chair, a console, and a TV; and some woman was upset saying "guys really live in apartments like this and don't see any issue".

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Lol yep. A lot of women can't comprehend how little a single man requires to be content.

    • @deepzone31
      @deepzone31 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 They get scared when you have little because it means they could be left in the wind without a second thought.

  • @jeffreynicol8287
    @jeffreynicol8287 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel. Does anyone actually think anymore? Great video as always.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp ปีที่แล้ว

      they're so open minded that their brain fell out

  • @MrFurley69
    @MrFurley69 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Men ARE in tune with their feelings. We've just learned that if we show women our feelings, she'll be turned off. That's a great way to end a relationship.

    • @serenasato4621
      @serenasato4621 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good generalization of women. Don’t assume all women hate it when men show any sort of emotion. By showing vulnerability you can just create a stronger bond. If they’re turned off by that I guess they just aren’t the right person for you.

    • @oye6124
      @oye6124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@serenasato4621 it happened to me twice, and i probably wouldnt have learned my lesson if it werent for videos on the internet like this one because throughout my life there hasnt been anyone in my life to teach me about this kind of stuff

    • @skillaxxx
      @skillaxxx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's true, it's a common complaint by women about men 'show more feelings', yet they mean: I want more compliments. Showing emotions not considered 'masculine' is indeed usually a huge turn off and considered weak...

  • @Trucky-r4l
    @Trucky-r4l ปีที่แล้ว +71

    One of the reasons 'society' constantly slams men and relentlessly uplifts women is because women SPEND $. In fact, in aggregate in the US women spend more than they make. If men spent all the $ then all the commercials, etc would be promoting men. Follow the $ always.

    • @clockwork2620
      @clockwork2620 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And to add they make men spend money on top of it all marketers know what they’re doing

    • @rong8889
      @rong8889 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯

    • @Iam18
      @Iam18 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      interesting take. i never heard anything like this before but it makes a lot of sense.

    • @niallk9336
      @niallk9336 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeap. It's all about corporate control.

    • @vector_vector__
      @vector_vector__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which is why Valentine day is Complete SCAM . Alimony & Child support is SCAM is as well .
      Do a little bit of research it would blow ur mind .

  • @themetalchronicles.9557
    @themetalchronicles.9557 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The difference between ordinary channels and extraordinary channels on TH-cam is that non of those channels can hold a candle to "It's Complicated" and i do mean that.

  • @sadimasochist4543
    @sadimasochist4543 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    Women: " We're just more capable and resourceful than men! We're just better at surviving! "
    Interviewer: " What's your source of Income? "
    Women: " Only Fans "
    Interviewer: " Isn't that dependant on men giving you money though? "
    Women: " Uhhh Men are just useless and Ummm You're a Misogynist! "

    • @nickw8160
      @nickw8160 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Every job entails a customer paying for some kind of service or product. No one says Amazon is "dependent"--they're clearly the ones winning because we're willing to collectively pay them a lot of money. If all these women have to do is post pictures of themselves online and men are willing to give them their hard-earned money for it, the women are the ones winning in that situation. The ones giving the money to the other are the ones losing.
      Not to say OF doesn't have consequences for these women, just commenting on you calling them "dependent," when really it's opportunistic and these men are dependent, seeing that they're the ones giving their money away. Again, we're all dependent on people buying a product/service, and the customers are dependent as well, as evidenced by their paying for it.

    • @ScottieDPOYY
      @ScottieDPOYY ปีที่แล้ว +58

      ​@@nickw8160 you just compared business run companies to an individual specificially selling themselves to MEN. No nick.. no

    • @laughing_man_3378
      @laughing_man_3378 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@nickw8160 Bad take Nick.

    • @gadohimself
      @gadohimself ปีที่แล้ว +36

      ​@@ScottieDPOYYdon't be too hard on him. He's one of the men paying for their OF 🤡

    • @Adot56
      @Adot56 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol then they say 2 not srxual objective them when their selling themselves on the internet. Stop being an idiot anyone who buys OF your part of the problem these women are easily influenced to do dumb shit and wonder why men dont want them. They just wanna pump and dump.

  • @SaltStorm007
    @SaltStorm007 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    This channel is SERIOUSLY underrated and should have M’s of subs! BTW...The most dangerous people on earth are the emotional/fem ones💯True Masculinity is what heroes are made of! Appreciate you a Lot, It’s Complicated....you are one of my favorites! Hope you and yours have a blessed one💯🙏

  • @designner5151
    @designner5151 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Glad I found this channel it’s fucking great. Also props to the black guy and blond women. They’re very smart.

  • @zzzap5425
    @zzzap5425 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    You should ask them to stop using society as a scapegoat. It is an umbrella term that doesn't force them to admit whether a certain aspect or trend of behaviour is influenced by a particular group, male or female! Beside that...
    Good show🥇

    • @starscream6629
      @starscream6629 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Majority of households are single mothers. Direct influence is parent, Teachers, daycare, community if any, friends, co workers to an extent as people grow up.

  • @blackplaguex
    @blackplaguex ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This felt like a much better balance of people interviewed. Keep up the great work, love your questions

  • @Omni_Vir_Lupus
    @Omni_Vir_Lupus ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "Not every guy walking the street is a narcissist" True, but most of the women walking the street are lol

  • @Mrreal1871
    @Mrreal1871 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This blonde girl is literally seeing reality that women are denying. 😳👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @wardonthestreet
    @wardonthestreet ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “Wouldn’t that prove masculinity is more essential for survival than femininity?” Your work here is done.

  • @Nikstar112
    @Nikstar112 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Please upload more often!! I love these videos and can’t go without them

  • @TumiSelepe
    @TumiSelepe ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @r.lamont8120
    @r.lamont8120 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The last question was good. Guys if you are frustrated with your dating results then consider going overseas.

  • @StoicWei
    @StoicWei ปีที่แล้ว +15

    10:28
    This blonde girl is revealing the truth about modern women.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      We know its always the blond girls. The Lucy

  • @alrune8
    @alrune8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Outside of the subject discussed, I'm quite fascinated by how all these people have a hard time expressing themselves in an efficient and precise way.

    • @MrPatspp
      @MrPatspp ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought about this too and feel that many times is not the language that fails them but the internal conflict they have when trying to answer some stuff they've never thought of. A lot of that is caused by the way the questions are formulated.

    • @alrune8
      @alrune8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MrPatspp I guess you have a point

    • @salj.5459
      @salj.5459 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's hard to answer questions on the spot without any preparation

    • @alrune8
      @alrune8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@salj.5459 sure but there's an undeniable level of non-reflection as well

  • @day-vid
    @day-vid ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think that I'm going to watch "Fight Club" after this.

  • @omgitsdev4568
    @omgitsdev4568 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Its always a good day when I get a notification from this channel✊🏿✊🏿💪🏿

  • @PA-qv2dy
    @PA-qv2dy ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Props as always to the Channel!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @cannoli7672
    @cannoli7672 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Have you seen a single man's apartment, I have **many** times."
    How many times, exactly?

  • @kennethg7839
    @kennethg7839 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Masculinity is vital for society to continue existing.” The truth we must accept!

    • @drippietorsti705
      @drippietorsti705 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The elites fear independent thinking men

  • @JusTheKing.
    @JusTheKing. ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The blonde girl in the black jacket was by far the most sensible woman in this video. The rest (aside from the dude with dreads) were primarily spouting a lot of cap and feminist propaganda for the most part.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      when a man tells a girl she is sensible, that girl should run because what he means is that girl is easily brainwashed so I can take advantage of her and groom her.

  • @OGWiLLyB3
    @OGWiLLyB3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That blonde girl is so based. !! I need girls to be more like her ❤

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need men to be more like Elon musk

    • @OGWiLLyB3
      @OGWiLLyB3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annaolokede4582 lol 😂 well luckily for you there is a lot more men like Elon, than women like this girl here… may the odds be ever so slightly in your favor 🤓

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OGWiLLyB3 list them. Youll be amazed of the amount of broke men🤣

    • @OGWiLLyB3
      @OGWiLLyB3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@annaolokede4582 lol ohhhhh we are talking about monetary … lol 😂 silly me I shoulda known. I thought you meant awkward, nerdy, quirky, intellectual types that probably got looked over in high school. Lol there are alot of those. I forgot y’all reduced a man down to his wallet 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OGWiLLyB3 and you reduced a woman down to how able she is to please a man. Tale as old as time

  • @themostnonchalant
    @themostnonchalant ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I haven't even watched the video yet and i know it's fire!!!!

  • @Ricardo-np1ie
    @Ricardo-np1ie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd like to request that you interview more down to earth people - you know - people who agree with us. Like the blonde feminine girl and those women from the Country Girls special. Personally, it's healing for me after so many hateful women.
    You do a great job over all. Especially the way you set the questions sequences.
    Also another request. I'm unaware of your budget but consider interview people from others cities to give us a contrast.
    P. S: English is not my first language, so fell free to correct any mistakes.

  • @wimbo19
    @wimbo19 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    10:19 the comment about a single man’s apartment is wild. Just because he understands he only needs the basics and not a million useless decorations that cost money. Most guys are trying to save money anyway they can. Just remember fellas cheap is expensive in the long run.

    • @abikyoukan2
      @abikyoukan2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you a real one for this comment

    • @nedlog05
      @nedlog05 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. That caught me off guard. I had to pause to think about what she said, then I came across your comment. Lol

  • @sie11pervan
    @sie11pervan ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ah, so something is only toxic when a man does it. Gotcha. I learned so much from this video once again!

  • @prizefighter8699
    @prizefighter8699 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am sick with the word i Feel when asked to give what they think

  • @SaltStorm007
    @SaltStorm007 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of my favorite channels on TH-cam💯🔥

  • @MrWhite5150Duke
    @MrWhite5150Duke ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You had it. Women discard nice guys for bad boys, so why care about what women want? Get yours and leave when it's no longer fun.
    I didn't figure that out until after my divorce, when I buried my obsolete views on relationships (love, loyalty, etc). Been single and satisfied since then.

  • @arnoldasbucys7786
    @arnoldasbucys7786 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is too short.
    I can literaly watch for hours how strangers trying to answer such simple but well made questions.
    Keep it up.
    This channel is like a fresh cold air in the morning! ^_^

  • @BeastMaster629
    @BeastMaster629 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The blonde woman is based if she means what she said. Good luck to her

  • @alexsanoff585
    @alexsanoff585 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great work yet again, I wish there were two of you so we could get more content. Keep it up man, quality stuff!

  • @Duves
    @Duves ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was such a much needed discussion and i can’t think of a more qualified channel to tackle it than this!

  • @laurabenitez1936
    @laurabenitez1936 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First question is very interesting, but I have a different take! 🤔
    I’m an avid taoist reader and I like the take they have on masculine and feminine energies. In taoism there exists the concept of opposite but interconnected forces aka the Yin-Yang
    Yang is solar, masculine energy and yin is lunar, feminine energy.
    Yin is receptive, fluid, flexible, malleable, and accepting. It allows us to be relaxed and go with the flow. To open ourselves to the constant change of life. BUT too much yin energy and you become lethargic, unmotivated, and both physically and mentally lazy. You will be overly emotional, sensitive and will find it hard to control your reactions.
    The yang energy is quick, dynamic, hot, dry, and restless. It’s all about direction, determination, setting and achieving goals, and the logical mind. BUT too much yang energy and you will intensely focus in one direction but miss the wider perspective. There may be a great trust in the mind but a lack of trust in the Heart. You will become insensitive, loss contact with your emotional self, and you will lose the ability to express yourself freely.
    In order to achieve balance, you have to cultivate BOTH energies. From my description you can see that women have too much yin and men have too much yang. It’s time for both genders to work on this issue and balance their energies. How to do it is a topic for another day 😂

    • @bluebehir
      @bluebehir ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ignoring the last paragraph, I present to you a case that a person doesn't need equal amounts of ying and yang to strike balance, if the *relationship* between two people have that balance.
      But that relationship must truly be symbiotic, for ying to benefit from yang and yang to benefit from ying. It cannot be a one-sided relationship.

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jewish feminizm isn't about balance sadly, its about POWER. Ying yang is an old concept and doesn't applies to modern relationship dynamics where girls are so combative and men are so emasculated. You need to bring the order first to bring in yin and yang among both

    • @niallk9336
      @niallk9336 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Modern women have neither yin nor yang, as you described it.
      What does that make them? The void? Hmmm.

  • @aerah76
    @aerah76 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This channel is a blessing

  • @snipes4486
    @snipes4486 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The blonde woman must be saved at all cost!! She is an absolute gem

  • @nikwalker570
    @nikwalker570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12:40 "we need to have more conversations", meanwhile more then half a century we have those and it goes constantly south.

  • @reidshamar
    @reidshamar ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please get this man to 1M subs.

  • @cromeoid1904
    @cromeoid1904 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women are responsible for a majority of consumer spending. there is a financial incentive for companies to push society for women to be more independent. A man general spends money logically, a woman tends to spend more money emotionally.

  • @ishmael_03
    @ishmael_03 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Surprisingly the woman with the blonde hair was the most logical and called out the endless number of toxic women. The rest of the women just reverted to blaming men and praising themselves.

  • @philu3
    @philu3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ask the most thought provoking questions out there.
    The fact that you're not mainstream yet is wild to me.

  • @ThreeVibin
    @ThreeVibin ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Blonde hair leather jacket babe is based 🖤

  • @nicklowry8508
    @nicklowry8508 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10:16 “Have you seen a single man’s apartment? I have, many times.” I think she just told on herself 😂😂

  • @crow2swann5
    @crow2swann5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This first young lady became more and more attractive the more she spoke. She shouldn't have any problems getting a good man.

  • @jameslong9564
    @jameslong9564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I hear “I feel...,” “I think...,” “I believe...” or “like” being used as a filler word, I immediately dismiss what you’re about to say.

  • @Ben-Ken
    @Ben-Ken ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you picture a male actor in the role of Galadriel in "The Rings Of Power", you would see all the classic examples of toxic masculinity. Modern female protagonists use the same traits to prove strength and independence but the men in those roles do the opposite. They are likeable, helpful, and believe in "leave no one behind".

  • @AD-tn5vf
    @AD-tn5vf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Knocked it put of the park again. Seriously thank you.

  • @myafrosheen
    @myafrosheen ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Blondie spittin 🔥 🔥 🔥

  • @raamondreed
    @raamondreed ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Out of all the women that were a part of this video in my eyes the blonde is the only one who’s dateable. She has a good understanding of gender roles and lives in he femininity, highly attractive

  • @Unknown-sz8kg
    @Unknown-sz8kg ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gotta love how men who "go their own way" are shamed/incels for not wanting to deal with these "i feel like" creatures.

  • @dila01
    @dila01 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Its only toxic if a man doesn’t tolerate her BS 😂 because they‘re told that they deserve things and when you put deserve in front of something it makes you entitled.

  • @linger4605
    @linger4605 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "I feel like...." every woman starting a sentence.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      "my opinion is fact"....... every man starting a sentence

    • @dyr_glpsn4209
      @dyr_glpsn4209 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@annaolokede4582you mean you "feel like" men do that, don't you?
      Because men, on average, care far less about if others agree with their views or not and need far less attention and validation. In other words, they don't care if you hold a different view or not, while women on average tend to need others to match their views AKA accept their opinions as facts.
      But hey, feel free to "feel like" stuff. As far as you can stay logical when it comes to important decisions It is all good. Feel free to let your feelings flood shitty discussions on YT comments.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dyr_glpsn4209 True men care less, which is why they are crying all over podcast and the internet and calling any women that agree with their sick view good women.
      Lie to yourself, but men are not who they claim to be.

    • @linger4605
      @linger4605 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@annaolokede4582 They don't do that though. I mean, just listen to the host using logic and simple word definitions to prove points. Stop thinking with your feelings and use logic like men tend to do.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@linger4605 only if men use logic, yet again you've shown it that men are emotional

  • @drym3943
    @drym3943 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Blondie is a W

  • @danmarley2926
    @danmarley2926 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great line of questioning for sure, very thought provoking 💯

  • @ironhandscrypto4446
    @ironhandscrypto4446 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Blonde is not going to struggle to get wifed up

  • @sinastir7688
    @sinastir7688 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Masculinity is vital for society to keep existing." Well said. Her and the super blonde girl seem to have a pretty good on their shoulders.

  • @BlackkRiot
    @BlackkRiot ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Women trying to explain femininity is like watching Nemo trying to explain where he lives.

  • @miguelpires4832
    @miguelpires4832 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think we all need more girls like the blonde one in our lives, always good to see down to earth people

    • @TheeGemstone
      @TheeGemstone ปีที่แล้ว

      Be careful what you wish for I’ve seen these good women when they’re around their toxic friends, you can’t tell them apart

  • @Letsnotforget
    @Letsnotforget ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Off the bat, the first chick couldn't answer a basic question without confusing herself.

  • @aaaab384
    @aaaab384 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "I feel like feminine energy is like when men like, in my opinion like, and like women like masculine energy just like, and like the relationship like"
    I'm not even 40 seconds in, and I'm already tired of these idiots.

  • @LordGrape
    @LordGrape ปีที่แล้ว

    Your questions ALWAYS hit. 🤣 You're too good at this, bro. It's interesting to aee its like you're reminding people that ideas don't exist in a vacuum or echo chamber, they inter-mingle with the rest of the world.

  • @Re69.
    @Re69. ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think I fell in love with the blonde girl. Oh my god.

    • @Re69.
      @Re69. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Dimitri Vincheov Is it so wrong to say you like someone nowadays? I don't think it's really simping.
      Simps are desperate and weird, I'm only stating I like her!

  • @bigdoggham4269
    @bigdoggham4269 ปีที่แล้ว

    That damn bullring stood out this whole Clip smh my Black women!! Great Clip Much Respect

  • @goodguy...badrep.
    @goodguy...badrep. ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's Complicated is trying to break the internet, I see.

  • @WaqarAhmed786
    @WaqarAhmed786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:38 you my dear are ABSOLUTELY the right person he is asking

  • @harrylong4941
    @harrylong4941 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There's more power with a women that knows how to use her femininity then an bad bitch aggressive women will ever have.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes because how dare a woman be anything except what a man think she should be.

    • @goodguy...badrep.
      @goodguy...badrep. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annaolokede4582 Yes, because how dare a man be anything except what a woman thinks he should be 🤓 Men should be masculine. Women should be feminine.

    • @annaolokede4582
      @annaolokede4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goodguy...badrep. Execpt feminie is not my biology. masculine is my biology.

    • @goodguy...badrep.
      @goodguy...badrep. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annaolokede4582 OK, Anna.

    • @luxolontamo4440
      @luxolontamo4440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@annaolokede4582 Same goes for women, they seem to can't stop talking about "real men" all day but defining on thier own terms

  • @LREDraps
    @LREDraps ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blondie deserve the world she got a good head in her shoulders and kept it real you gotta respect it👌🏽

  • @aaroncrewse5746
    @aaroncrewse5746 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The blonde has a realistic head on her shoulders. I am happy to see that there are still females out there like her.

  • @josephmann7058
    @josephmann7058 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how this is the one show where there arent a bunch of freakouts or attacks on a person or thier character

  • @SnerMerNer
    @SnerMerNer ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Blondie is wife material. Good for her.

  • @nabilyasin2088
    @nabilyasin2088 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo this channel funny as shit. These reactions be having me laughing out loud in public that lady @9.42 has me dying lol

  • @moelana
    @moelana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm happily single

  • @EstablishedHeritage
    @EstablishedHeritage ปีที่แล้ว

    @ 7:01 says it all. That answered almost a whole videos worth of questions in just that one.

  • @TylerJaeMoyer
    @TylerJaeMoyer ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The blonde gal speaks the truth! Someone better go wife her up

  • @Snarge22
    @Snarge22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I've learned form watching content like this (and related) is just how concerned women are with security. I'm an older fella and yet it wasn't that obvious to me over all these years.

    • @ferosdc
      @ferosdc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Teal Swan say that the more important feel of a woman is the constant state of fear, and the principal feel of man is the constant search for doing something usefull to others. If you know that reality and you actión around it you gonna have a good couple.

  • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
    @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She went against the sister code calling out the victim hood

  • @soothingmeditationsmusic
    @soothingmeditationsmusic ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro. You are killing it. Congrats on the channel and the videos. Keep it up.

  • @imjustsaying5357
    @imjustsaying5357 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    12:22
    A fellow man of culture 😂

  • @_why_24
    @_why_24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looks like you are making progress with your videos in regard to women’s responses on this topic. Respect to you! Please keep it up. I really think you are making a difference for the better. WE NEED HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS!