"Decolonizing Love: A Conversation with Millie and Nick"

In this episode of The Unapolygetic Love Podcast host Joy sits down with Millie Boella and Nick, a polyamorous couple and relationship coaches based in Toronto, Canada. Together for 12 years, Millie, who is of Kenyan descent, founded the Toronto Non-Monogamous BIPOC group in 2017, while Nick, who is of Quebecer, Italian, and Greek ethnicity, is an executive coach. They co-founded Decolonizing Love, a social enterprise advocating for polyamory through a critical theory lens, and their viral TikTok channel and advocacy work have been featured internationally.
The conversation centers around Millie and Nick's experiences as polyamorous partners and their work in decolonizing love. They provide insights into the importance of inclusivity and diversity in the polyamorous community and the need to challenge societal norms and oppressive structures.
As peer support and counseling professionals for polyamorous individuals, Millie and Nick also discuss the challenges and benefits of polyamory and how decolonizing love involves actively unlearning harmful beliefs and behaviors.
This episode is an enlightening discussion on polyamory, decolonizing love, and the importance of inclusive and critical perspectives in the in the relationships we form.