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Most challenging: I have moved past the very first stage of attraction and waiting for the reaction. It is clear we are both really into each other. We are coworkers. The next part is challenging: It's now a "hot n cold" game. Pushing forward, pulling backward. Every time I retract, she "lunges" at me. Shethrows every sign in the playbook to get me. The moment I reciprocate, days later, she'll retract and even try to make me jealous by getting on with other guys. I'm quite sick of it tbh. I love her to bits but men are men. When the line is crossed, it is crossed. So please help. I have watched other channels and the consensus seems to be that a hot n cold attraction is toxic and that I must just drop it altogether. She isnt a seductress or player. She is actually very soft-spoken, shy, and a "good girl". If she were a social butterfly, socialite queen, life of the party type, I know for sure I am the one being insecure and possessive and whatever; however, she isnt! I am just really angry with her atm. I'm trying to be professional yet take things a good step forward but she alwayspulls away when things seem really lovely between the both of us. Do you have advice regarding this push-pull, hot n cold stage?
The biggest challenge is that there are highly restrictive "sexual harassment " policies in place and many modern women use that the wrong way.,which can result in a man losing his job.
Thats why you gotta have that "i dont care" attitude, personally i'm playing that role i just dont care, i work to get that bread, if my coworker flirts with me, i just act unbothered lmao
DonR. The same here. You have to be really sure before "flirting" or the cold approach. I've seen many guys get in trouble at former workplaces for that. Very critical when it comes to the workplace.
100% correct! With the onslaught of legal, corporate issues and sensitivity, it's absolutely stupid and incorrect to do anything else in the workplace beyond 100% professional, polite, distant relationships and engagements.
Girl shows interest when I show no signs of interest, but once I show interest, she loses interest, and it leaves me wondering what happened. However, I've realized that if a girl loses interest as soon I start showing interest, they are not worth my time. Those that stay interested after I show interest, are the ones who are worth trying to get to know.
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Sadly, in today's environment we would have probably never dated. Over the years we have worked at the same place several times. The last time was when we both worked at the same hosital (different departments). With today's standards if we'd have shown any affection towards each other we could have been accused of "sexual harassment". It wouldn't need to be one of us accusing the other. A third party could observe an innocent interaction between us and report it as harassment, most likely against the male.
I'm sorry! That is really tough. The more signs you are aware of the better chance you have of making sure she really does like you. I also have some free training on how to get the girl that I'm sure can help you. Here's a link coachmelannie.com/free-training-how-to-get-the-girl-sign-up/ Thanks for watching 🙏
@VNB Slash Good advice as the co worker I am friendly with and act aloof with sometimes seems to want to chase me more than others because I do not act needy around her. I tend to act too needy around the ones who seem very pretty and it does hurt my chances.
Same. Learned years ago that any of these signs are nice to receive, but I've not once, not ever seen it actually realized in any woman from work actually liking me in any way beyond a pleasant colleague.
1 asks coworkers about you 2 doing things outside of work. Includes group activities 3 compliments, supports ideas 4 tries to sit by you 5 tries to be where you are
*When a female coworker leans in during conversations or makes an effort to share personal stories, it's a clear indication that there's interest. Definitely worth paying attention to those cues!*
My only concern with flirting with a female coworker is if we end up dating and having a relationship and then it doesn’t work out. That leads to a very awkward situation moving forward
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I'm in this mess at the moment... I was with a co-worker for 4 months, and one week onto the other she just ghosted me. She thinks she can just act like she doesn't know me anymore, but she hurt me really a lot and we work right next to each other. Coming week i've planned a meeting with my manager... hopefully the mess calms down without too much fuss. The only solution is to not see her anymore ever. Even at home it hurts me let alone sitting next to her, while she's happy and ultra-social to other colleagues. It's a difficult choice whether to or not date a co-worker. It would be wasteful to let a chance to have a nice woman slide, but the other end is like this.
alot of these might not apply if shes shy though. im dating my coworker right now and shes only done like 1 of these things before we started dating. i was actually convinced she didnt like me but i ended up asking her out anyway and it all worked out. sometimes you gotta just stop overthinking every little sign and just go for it.
The problem here isn't reading the tea leaves, it's the HR firestorm that potentially happens if you read them wrong. All a woman has to do in '21 is hint that she's being harassed and the guy is screwed. It's not worth it to even try, period.
Biggest challenge getting to know a girl at work for me is finding out how mature she is. Immature women are dangerous especially at work. If I feel she is bad at being objective or debating with her friends and loved ones I back off. I won't consider a female coworker if I feel like she would make the breakup worse than it needs to be if we break up.
Woohoo...the cutest girl at work does all this stuff!! We always check each other out which makes me feel great because she won't even so much as glance at any other guy. I actually though she was a guy hater until she smiled at me. I think she knows I love her because lots of girls show an interest in me but it's her that I stare at and we both make up excuses to go where the other one is. All I can think about all day long is her and I LOVE it!!
The toughest thing I come across is being able to talk about the good stuff. It's normally just plain small talk while we smile and stare at each other. Then we have these weird awkward times when we walk past each other not saying a word while she stares me down or I stare her down.
Our office environment. I work on the 2nd floor in IT located in a small room with 3 other people. Her, she is in customer services on the 1st floor. Here's my observations of the questions this video focused on. 1. asks other coworkers about me - not that I know of 2. Suggest doing things after work - Nope. 3. Compliments me. Only once after I got a haircut; but she did like my real snake skin boots I wore one day. 4. Sits by me as much as possible. No, not yet. We have not had any meetings due to the pandemic. 5. She tries to be where ever I am. Yes. She will walk in to the area where there's a printer, inter office mail on the 2nd floor where I am. She does this a few times a day. Only to stop outside of the door where I am and smiles and waves (I assume she is, she is wearing a mask), and only acknowledges me by saying "Hi Mr. Glen". She does not say anything else to the other 3 people in my area. And, if she is working in the customer customer drive thru window in the morning, she will wave and smiles and says good morning to me through the speaker. I have caught her looking at me, just about every time she sees me. And, if I happen to see her, she will wave and 'gaze' and I smile widely and wave back. We have done some minor chit chat for now. SO, at this time I am speculating but not convinced. I think she just might be a friendly person. But the 'smiles a lot' (my secret nick name for her) SEEMS to be only directed towards me. I do not notice how she looks at other male coworkers. And since I don't work in her department, I don't know. At this time I am being friendly towards her with a tiny amount of flirtation. Not enough to be obvious to everyone. Not sure if she picks up on my flirts or not. What's your thoughts coach Melannie?
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Here's a few things I've noticed happening with a new girl where I work: 1. Any day we're both working, she's asking me what day I'm working next. 2. We both work registers, and she's only asking me for help if she has trouble with hers. 3. If I'm not on break, she only comes through my line and will talk for a while. 4. When I go to get my stuff for work she always wants to walk with me to where my stuff is, and walks with me back up front.
What’s challenging is the mixed signals and having managers know that we may like each other and their jealousy stops it …and signs are bc she’s a sweet girl
There are numerous problems associated with dating a co-worker. One of which is that it makes it harder to open up to them (tell them your secrets), because if the relationship doesn't work out she may tell everyone your private stuff. Which leads you to not felling like you can open yourself up emotionally to them (be vulnerable), which leads to a sub par relationship..... And that's on top of the other things that can happen....
The biggest challenge for me is that where I work the girl I like, and I think she may like me, are in different departments. And once I got a set schedule I no longer work the same day she does. She only works 1 day a week since she is still in college. Makes it really difficult to talk to if even see her
"NEVER get your meat where you get your bread"....."Don't dip your pen in Company ink..." Those sayings stay on through generations because they're true....
Hello Melannie! Hope all is well on your end. Thank you for what you do and just wanted to say dont worry about those blips and hiccups. They are not only funny but adorable as well. Thank you again
So Melannie, the most difficult thing I find about flirting or dating in the workplace is the inevitable event that people are always around. I am a private guy and I don’t like a lot of people in my business...especially who I date. It gets hard to flirt or talk alone with someone I like at work if other co-workers or even customers are always around 😒...what do you suggest?
That does make it more difficult. Is there a way you can be around her when not a lot of people are there? Maybe during a break or when you both get off work?
I totally get this. I have a huge crush on a guy at work. It's in a supermarket deli and people are always around. I want to tell him how I feel, but confessing in a deli is not very romantic. Plus, someone is always around with listening ears. People already suspect we like each other. It shows.
Ouf the same thing is happening to me and she’s also not discreet lol which I don’t like because I’m very private and ppl suspect us as well lol which is one of the main reasons I haven’t really gone further with them
A big problem is many places have anti-Fraternization Policies. So, even if you notice someone or they notice you... neither of you can DO anything about it. You cannot speak to each other in a flirty way, or even look at each other with interest. You can get terminated.
My coworker is a super hot female manager, she winked at me multiple times and I said if you wink at me one more time and moved closer to her, she playfully said do you wanna fight ,but i'm not sure if i'm reading it right
You need to be careful with female managers as this can get you in trouble but a few of the pretty ones have flirted and there has been chemistry coming through from both ways but I keep it professional and smile but they always give me great reviews and time off when I ever I want to . But I keep it professional as I do not want to ruin things at work.
I literally had another co worker come up to me and tell me that the woman I had a crush on had a crush on me. I really liked her a lot but she had 2 young daughters and I could not commit to that. My career was more important.
I really need some help here- I have a new female coworker. There are 8 of us in total. When we are all in the office, we generally talk and banter as a whole. But whenever the spotlight is on me, she totally ignores me (by turning her chair away or facing the opposite direction). She totally flirts and laughs with another male coworker, but everyone knows he’s married and has a child. It’s a bit unsettling. A small but significant detail: She did me a favor once, and I asked if I could return the favor by buying her a coffee. Instead of a coffee, she suggested we go eat out. We ended up spending half a day together, just the two of us. She seemed to enjoy every bit of it. Ultimately, her “work” self is the polar opposite of her “with me” self. Totally cold and distant at work, but very warm, friendly, even a little physical outside of work. What the hell is she trying to do?
I'd be very cautious! It sounds like she is showing some significant signs of a toxic woman. She may use people to get somewhere in the company. I obviously don't know because I don't know her but here are some videos that will help you a lot th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html The biggest thing is to ask yourself if you want to spend time with someone like that. If she were to treat you that way everyday and confuse you that much every day for the rest of your life would you like how you felt? Almost always they only treat you worse as time goes on not better. I hope that helps!
Coach Melannie You’re absolutely right... The bigger picture is, I don’t like being treated in this way and wouldn’t want to be confused like this in the future. Thank you for painting a clearer picture for me! I’ll put in a good word about you and your channel :)
The biggest problem in general is just going there. I’ve always been a believer that you don’t stick your pen in the company ink. Plus most everyone where I work is married
Hi Melanie. The toughest thing about workplace is there isn't much room for error or misinterpretation cause your job could potentially be on the line so you have to be certain. So how do I become certain without jeopardizing our jobs and our working relationship? Thanks
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I noticed a coworker staring at me multiple times, I have walked up and talked to her at random times when I see her but my interactions havent been that good, I thought I messed up but after awhile I noticed her staring at me again, so I messaged her but she didn't reply back lol
Well, my situation is, She is my supervisor, but we share a lot of chemistry between each other. She flirts at work, but seem to not be able to hang out after work because she is fearing losing her job. 😂
lol Flirting in the workplace is such a delicate situation! Thankfully, when done appropriately it has actually led a lot of people to their dream spouse. Thanks for watching!
Toes turnt face turnt at you! Only nothing you said made her laugh another co worker did but she puts the attention on you.😁 😮 Happens everyday to me.😊
For me, I find that I never get the girl I want. ALL my crushes are always one sided. Just accept whatever girl comes out of the woodwork and has good chemistry with you. Don't go chasing the P either. Chase money/success and the P will come to you. Lastly, don't put all your eggs in one basket because you'll be disappointed 95% of the time.
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I got a lot of positive signs when I worked around nurses to date one. However, I was in a relationship and could not do so. One lady asked me to get rid of my girlfriend and date her instead.
Recently my HR group has been making all employees take these on-line "Harassment in the office" training and it discourages having any type of relations with co-workers, supervisors, subordinates. Men especially are most vulnerable to false or exaggerated complaints from female co-workers... and eventually termination. It's all about avoiding lawsuits for the company. The training suggests only discussing work related topics in the office between men and women. This also includes outside of the office as well. If a man chooses to not follow this... he does so at his own risk. Sad to say but that is the reality of things.
One thing (not the only) that is a problem with dating a co-worker is that things might go wrong. Then you are forced to work with a eX. She my gossip horrible stuff about you and/or make your break room visit horrible.
That is certainly a risk! If she is mature and has a healthy mindset she won't do these things though. Yes, it may be awkward for a while but she wouldn't gossip about you. If you want to make sure you know the signs of a woman like that be sure to check out these videos th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Thanks for watching!
Gotta be REAL careful here....I was really fond of a co-worker, and some of what you are talking about seem to be pretty obvious...problem is, if things go sour, there could be BIG trouble....the work situation could be a problem...best way to go is to tread VERY softly and explore. This one that I work with....we seemed to get along very well, but, something went sour....I truly have no idea what went wrong....it was very weird.
Or she's looking around to see what are you doing or who's talking with you and always trying to hide so you don't see when she's looking at you, yup always happens.
I have a coworker that seems to give me the googly eyes when I see her and she tease me about not coming to talk to her /co workers because because I got a new job now and I've forgotten about her/my old workers I worked with...think I will make a move this week
Hi gorgeous, love your insight into the world of love and dating. Never had anything like this when I started asking girls out in my teens, still muddled through though! You are fantastic, keep up the great work! 👍🇬🇧x
Good video. From my experience with coworkers there are 2 major things. 1. Talk about and agree to make every effort necessary to not let your relationship mess up your working Life. If you meet the wrong person, whether the relationship works or not, it can make regular work and your reputation a nightmare until you just leave. 2. Don't be gossipy about your relationship. Your entire place of work and everyone in the place don't need to know every aspect of you or your partners Life and romance. Failing to address previous 2 things is a certain recipe for disaster... I learned to 1. Stay away from gossipy people that are surrounded by nosy coworkers. Basically you're asking for entire workplace to know your entire Life and business. 2. Don't hookup with anyone that's stupid enough to make their working life and love Life a disaster from having a relationship with a coworker..
The key is to be yourself and leave the rest to God. Seek you the Kingdom and the rest will be added onto you. If you seek the Kingdom you feel deep peace, and the peace will draw others to you.
At work I have a HR girl who’s showing signs. She’s extremely friendly, acts flirty intense eye contact when we’re alone but I try to talk to her when we’re around people and she gets shy and nervous. I told her bye around my boy at work and she blushed and left
For me if they found out that you have a girlfriend, they automatically won't like her. Other sublte ways is that when she or you tries to help them, she would say things like "will this be okay with your girlfriend?"
The hard thing is that I find a girlfriend at work but I don’t know how to keep for me and it gets difficult and she leaves the store to work at another store
I noticed when I was with my gf at the time, my coworkers would flirt and give me their numbers.... but now single I get the cold shoulder. Haha strange.
You work in the basement. She works on the top floor. She all of a sudden finds it necessary to come pay you a visit and ask you a question. When she could easily have called. 👍🏾!
Ooooo Ooooo, I work in the retail industry. A grocery store by a leading company in the online bussiness. I'm interested in a woman there that I've worked with for almost three years. I feel like we can be comfortable talking to each other. I feel good when I see her start her shift as I'm finishing mine. That's my drawback right now.
Mine is older but she is talkative to other guys at work and w/ me she gets really quiet and avoids eye contact when she does make eye contact she laughs and kinda blushes and when we do talk it’s short and her voice gets higher w/ me.
Hey coach, I recently saw a new female co worker at my job. She's very attractive to me, and I've noticed, when she walks by, at a distance, she glances at me then looks away. I look at her, and she catches me as well.Recently another female co worker was talking to me, and the new co worker joined the conversation. For most of the conversation, the new coworker was looking at me, and we had a brief conversation and I made her smile. I wonder could it be sparks? I'm not sure, but she always looks in my direction when she passes. Even at a distance.
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Especially with co-workers it's hard to tell if they are just being nice or killing time with smalltalk. My ex was a co-worker and she told me she had a huge crush on me basically the entire time she knew me. I never would've known if I didn't end up dating her. I don't work at that job anymore thank God because she broke my heart. Now I work at a different job and a co-worker in a different department always engages conversation with me and like stares directly into my eyes. A little more obvious haha.
I work at a warehouse as a yard driver,and there’s a cute girl that started a few weeks ago,I started taking to her shortly after she started,I’ve made her laugh every time we talk,she called me her bestie,and told me she doesn’t like anyone else here and only talks to me,I told her I was making a few things for her as a gift,and asked her for some ideas,her reply was I need to at least have one surprise,and she has also told me a few personal things,what are your thoughts does she like?
I work at a theme park and had a couple ladies at work taking a liking to me. The first was a performer at the show in the area I work in (its a German dining hall with a stage and the theme park is European themed), she was a violin player with red hair and a great smile but nothing came to fruition. That was in 2019. The second woman has started to pay attention to me in the recent weeks (after the mass exodus in the park staff and everyone was being shuffled around the park) when she's working on the floor and usually she cleans the outdoor area. I might offer her more attention after we cross paths again.
I work in a hospital and that can be very difficult to meet and talk to people. You know never know what kind of mood they are in especially dealing with patients who are in critical conditions. It is hit or miss.
Nowadays if a girl at work asks you to take her to yours it is for one thing only. To get a heat . Especially if she asks do you have central heating and are your payments up to date 😊😊😊
Relationships almost never end amicably with both parties in agreement, one party is almost always feeling hurt and looking to lash out. NO WAY I'd ever date at work in today's litigious MeToo environment. NO WAY.
When I was working there were many woman who found me attractive and I knew they did. I am very old fashioned. They were not the type I found attractive. That effected my confidence with the women I really wanted to be with, a sweet and nice girl who likes rock and roll, Tango and club music /modern disco. Who look like Emma stone, young broke shields, Denise Richards, Linda carters, and so on.
If you want to know the biggest challenge ? To ask around if she has a boyfriend . I don't want to be labeled as " that guy " ( ie : this loser constantly on the lookout for a girlfriend )
That certainly is a challenge! Does she have a Facebook account? Sometimes you can find out there. You could also checkout Facebook and Instagram for pictures of her with a guy. Valentine's Day is a great time to look for that. Best of luck! 👍
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I am talking to her every single hour. She trust me, she is always thankful. She talks to me, smile, she plays with her hair. But when I ask her out, she tells we should keep it professional. She had lunch with me twice. But I am a bit doubt, what should I do in this situation.
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Never date a co-worker. Too much at stake if the relationship fails. I have seen more than one person get fired after a failed relationship with a co-worker.
That is super normal, a lot of people feel this way! I actually am putting together some videos to help with this so be sure to stay tuned 😀 The coolest thing about confidence is that it is a skill that anyone can learn. You got this! 💪
Let me give you some advice without baiting you into doing something in MY best interest. If you don't have confidence in yourself, it is 100% true you can develope it. Think about the things you look up to in other men. NOT WHAT YOU THINK GIRLS LIKE! Whether it be learning, fitness, making money, sports or just friendly competition between friends, build you confidence on what makes you think you are a stud and don't ever approach a woman as if you need to be anything other than who you are at the moment... As long as you are willing to put in the time to become something. Women are attracted to accomplishment, drive and improvement which will result in self confidence. Also, seek advice from guys. Sorry but it's just the truth.
@@chrisjackson3980 I understand and don't take any offense to the truth of your comment. The small problem is I'm not a sociable person, I'm the typical kind of guy to stay home and play games lol
@@SkaroEm32x So am I brother. I value my privacy and my time by myself. I also listen to guys like David Goggins, Tony Robbins and University of Texas at Austin 2014 Commencement speech. I also watch videos of XCOM2 playthrough a and civ 5. What you think it takes to be an attractive guy is less than you think, I promise you. But you have to commit yourself to self improvement in areas you think are impossible. Look up David Goggins and the last video I mentioned. If you want to change yourself, you can. But it ain't friggin easy. Hang in there brother!
You don’t get involved with co-workers,because if things go bad between you,one of you is going to get sacked or have to leave,watch the movie fatal attraction,I work with loads of women and they are hitting on me,and if I don’t reciprocate their feelings you get branded gay or they turn nasty and spread poisoness gossip about you,but if the shoes are on the other foot,you are sexually harrasing them.
Thanks for watching! Question of the Day: What do you find the most challenging about dating and flirting in the workplace? 🤔
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You have to be not too upfront with your intentions towards the, especially if she is already taken.
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Most challenging:
I have moved past the very first stage of attraction and waiting for the reaction. It is clear we are both really into each other. We are coworkers.
The next part is challenging:
It's now a "hot n cold" game. Pushing forward, pulling backward. Every time I retract, she "lunges" at me. Shethrows every sign in the playbook to get me.
The moment I reciprocate, days later, she'll retract and even try to make me jealous by getting on with other guys.
I'm quite sick of it tbh. I love her to bits but men are men. When the line is crossed, it is crossed.
So please help.
I have watched other channels and the consensus seems to be that a hot n cold attraction is toxic and that I must just drop it altogether. She isnt a seductress or player. She is actually very soft-spoken, shy, and a "good girl". If she were a social butterfly, socialite queen, life of the party type, I know for sure I am the one being insecure and possessive and whatever; however, she isnt!
I am just really angry with her atm. I'm trying to be professional yet take things a good step forward but she alwayspulls away when things seem really lovely between the both of us.
Do you have advice regarding this push-pull, hot n cold stage?
Jealous Co Workers. They will screw your relationship up quick.
Yes
i think coach melannie likes me, the way she looks at me through the screen... it can't be denied.
Dude you should go for it
The eyes chico, they never lie.
But Wait She Looked At Me D Same Way 😧😆😆
Haha oh yeah?
I find that nonsense hilarious for some reason. 😂
!. She doesn't try to get you fired when you tell her that her hair looks nice.
Getting fired for that would be wild lol
The biggest challenge is that there are highly restrictive "sexual harassment " policies in place and many modern women use that the wrong way.,which can result in a man losing his job.
Thats why you gotta have that "i dont care" attitude, personally i'm playing that role i just dont care, i work to get that bread, if my coworker flirts with me, i just act unbothered lmao
Just do it in a professional way... 😅 if you want to make out at work just put a sign " MEN AT WORK"
DonR. The same here. You have to be really sure before "flirting" or the cold approach. I've seen many guys get in trouble at former workplaces for that. Very critical when it comes to the workplace.
100% correct! With the onslaught of legal, corporate issues and sensitivity, it's absolutely stupid and incorrect to do anything else in the workplace beyond 100% professional, polite, distant relationships and engagements.
Girl shows interest when I show no signs of interest, but once I show interest, she loses interest, and it leaves me wondering what happened.
However, I've realized that if a girl loses interest as soon I start showing interest, they are not worth my time. Those that stay interested after I show interest, are the ones who are worth trying to get to know.
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Story of my life.. soon as I show interest, they loose interest.
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Yes sounds like for me as well, they distancing when go a little deeper
Those girls only want attention not commitment. When they taste or sense a whiff of commitment she disappears.
that cute coworker could be a sociopath and set you up to be fired.
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The last coworker I tried to ask out (for coffee) ended up complaining about me.
🤣 damn
@@jamesroethleinGenXpoet I did the same and gets a warning from HR
Story of my life
As dense and oblivious as I am, I married a coworker.
31 years ago.
Still married to her.
Tell me about it pls…
Why are you here? 😂
Sadly, in today's environment we would have probably never dated. Over the years we have worked at the same place several times.
The last time was when we both worked at the same hosital (different departments).
With today's standards if we'd have shown any affection towards each other we could have been accused of "sexual harassment". It wouldn't need to be one of us accusing the other. A third party could observe an innocent interaction between us and report it as harassment, most likely against the male.
I always end up showing interest and then the girl was never really interested
I'm sorry! That is really tough. The more signs you are aware of the better chance you have of making sure she really does like you. I also have some free training on how to get the girl that I'm sure can help you. Here's a link coachmelannie.com/free-training-how-to-get-the-girl-sign-up/ Thanks for watching 🙏
@VNB Slash Good advice as the co worker I am friendly with and act aloof with sometimes seems to want to chase me more than others because I do not act needy around her. I tend to act too needy around the ones who seem very pretty and it does hurt my chances.
Same. Learned years ago that any of these signs are nice to receive, but I've not once, not ever seen it actually realized in any woman from work actually liking me in any way beyond a pleasant colleague.
1 asks coworkers about you
2 doing things outside of work. Includes group activities
3 compliments, supports ideas
4 tries to sit by you
5 tries to be where you are
*When a female coworker leans in during conversations or makes an effort to share personal stories, it's a clear indication that there's interest. Definitely worth paying attention to those cues!*
My only concern with flirting with a female coworker is if we end up dating and having a relationship and then it doesn’t work out. That leads to a very awkward situation moving forward
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I'm in this mess at the moment... I was with a co-worker for 4 months, and one week onto the other she just ghosted me. She thinks she can just act like she doesn't know me anymore, but she hurt me really a lot and we work right next to each other. Coming week i've planned a meeting with my manager... hopefully the mess calms down without too much fuss. The only solution is to not see her anymore ever. Even at home it hurts me let alone sitting next to her, while she's happy and ultra-social to other colleagues. It's a difficult choice whether to or not date a co-worker. It would be wasteful to let a chance to have a nice woman slide, but the other end is like this.
I’m in a different boat called the coworker hookup boat.
I’m in that boat sort of… we aren’t dating but have hooked up multiple times
@@mikes7446how is it?
alot of these might not apply if shes shy though. im dating my coworker right now and shes only done like 1 of these things before we started dating. i was actually convinced she didnt like me but i ended up asking her out anyway and it all worked out. sometimes you gotta just stop overthinking every little sign and just go for it.
You still together?
The problem here isn't reading the tea leaves, it's the HR firestorm that potentially happens if you read them wrong. All a woman has to do in '21 is hint that she's being harassed and the guy is screwed. It's not worth it to even try, period.
It's true that the workplace can be both a great place to meet people and a hard place to flirt somethings. These tips are great to help with that!
I'm so glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for watching 🙏
Biggest challenge getting to know a girl at work for me is finding out how mature she is. Immature women are dangerous especially at work. If I feel she is bad at being objective or debating with her friends and loved ones I back off. I won't consider a female coworker if I feel like she would make the breakup worse than it needs to be if we break up.
That is a very wise way to look at the situation! Thanks for sharing!
"Immature woman"💀💀💀💀
I feel like a workplace is the perfect way to analyze a woman and how she reacts to pressure and what she does.
Woohoo...the cutest girl at work does all this stuff!! We always check each other out which makes me feel great because she won't even so much as glance at any other guy. I actually though she was a guy hater until she smiled at me. I think she knows I love her because lots of girls show an interest in me but it's her that I stare at and we both make up excuses to go where the other one is. All I can think about all day long is her and I LOVE it!!
That's fantastic! 🎉 Thanks for watching!
Careful buddy, don't get yourself into hot water
The toughest thing I come across is being able to talk about the good stuff. It's normally just plain small talk while we smile and stare at each other. Then we have these weird awkward times when we walk past each other not saying a word while she stares me down or I stare her down.
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Hahaha fr
I like the sound of your voice!
Thank you so much and thanks for watching! 🙏
I really enjoyed the outtakes at the end. Bloopers are always fun.
Glad you like them! Thank you! And thanks for watching 😀
I work at like a 90% women workplace (I'm a guy), you learn about so many people so fast lol
lol I imagine you would! Thanks so much for watching 😀 P.S. I love you username! Kingdom Hearts is AMAZING!
Thanks for the video new to the channel
Our office environment. I work on the 2nd floor in IT located in a small room with 3 other people. Her, she is in customer services on the 1st floor.
Here's my observations of the questions this video focused on.
1. asks other coworkers about me - not that I know of
2. Suggest doing things after work - Nope.
3. Compliments me. Only once after I got a haircut; but she did like my real snake skin boots I wore one day.
4. Sits by me as much as possible. No, not yet. We have not had any meetings due to the pandemic.
5. She tries to be where ever I am. Yes. She will walk in to the area where there's a printer, inter office mail on the 2nd floor where I am. She does this a few times a day. Only to stop outside of the door where I am and smiles and waves (I assume she is, she is wearing a mask), and only acknowledges me by saying "Hi Mr. Glen". She does not say anything else to the other 3 people in my area. And, if she is working in the customer customer drive thru window in the morning, she will wave and smiles and says good morning to me through the speaker.
I have caught her looking at me, just about every time she sees me. And, if I happen to see her, she will wave and 'gaze' and I smile widely and wave back. We have done some minor chit chat for now.
SO, at this time I am speculating but not convinced. I think she just might be a friendly person. But the 'smiles a lot' (my secret nick name for her) SEEMS to be only directed towards me. I do not notice how she looks at other male coworkers. And since I don't work in her department, I don't know. At this time I am being friendly towards her with a tiny amount of flirtation. Not enough to be obvious to everyone. Not sure if she picks up on my flirts or not.
What's your thoughts coach Melannie?
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Here's a few things I've noticed happening with a new girl where I work:
1. Any day we're both working, she's asking me what day I'm working next.
2. We both work registers, and she's only asking me for help if she has trouble with hers.
3. If I'm not on break, she only comes through my line and will talk for a while.
4. When I go to get my stuff for work she always wants to walk with me to where my stuff is, and walks with me back up front.
I have a rule that if a female coworker starts conversation with me four times I will ask her for her number
Hey 👋 I have to be in Orlando a lot lot more I have to go pick it all
It's difficult when you work with more than 15 women around that looks like Hyena's looking for a pray!!! Run for your Life!!! It happens always.
What’s challenging is the mixed signals and having managers know that we may like each other and their jealousy stops it …and signs are bc she’s a sweet girl
I'm staying single for LIFE
Just keep shooting
There are 3 rings of marriage. 1st) the engagement ring, 2nd) the wedding ring, and then 3rd) the suffer ring.
I have aspergers and so I'm awful at picking up on signs. This girl likes me and this pretty much confirms it
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@@CoachMelannie God bless
There are numerous problems associated with dating a co-worker.
One of which is that it makes it harder to open up to them (tell them your secrets), because if the relationship doesn't work out she may tell everyone your private stuff.
Which leads you to not felling like you can open yourself up emotionally to them (be vulnerable), which leads to a sub par relationship.....
And that's on top of the other things that can happen....
@Shre Halloway Ture, even if the business allows work colleagues to date,
If / when things go south in the relationship.....
game coach says only date a co worker if you don't care if you get fired
The biggest challenge for me is that where I work the girl I like, and I think she may like me, are in different departments. And once I got a set schedule I no longer work the same day she does. She only works 1 day a week since she is still in college. Makes it really difficult to talk to if even see her
Dating a coworker is very dangerous if things don’t work out! Someone can loose their job
Lose*
Screw a job
A possible sign is when your boss has a smirk on his face when he sees you with a person who I assume has a crush on me.
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Awww Thank you! And thanks for watching 😀
"NEVER get your meat where you get your bread"....."Don't dip your pen in Company ink..." Those sayings stay on through generations because they're true....
Hello Melannie! Hope all is well on your end. Thank you for what you do and just wanted to say dont worry about those blips and hiccups. They are not only funny but adorable as well. Thank you again
lol Thanks so much! I'm happy you are enjoying them 😀 Thanks for watching!
So Melannie, the most difficult thing I find about flirting or dating in the workplace is the inevitable event that people are always around. I am a private guy and I don’t like a lot of people in my business...especially who I date. It gets hard to flirt or talk alone with someone I like at work if other co-workers or even customers are always around 😒...what do you suggest?
That does make it more difficult. Is there a way you can be around her when not a lot of people are there? Maybe during a break or when you both get off work?
@@CoachMelannie i also have a crush at my Grocery store, but im like a guy at the door and shes a cashier.
I totally get this. I have a huge crush on a guy at work. It's in a supermarket deli and people are always around. I want to tell him how I feel, but confessing in a deli is not very romantic. Plus, someone is always around with listening ears. People already suspect we like each other. It shows.
Ouf the same thing is happening to me and she’s also not discreet lol which I don’t like because I’m very private and ppl suspect us as well lol which is one of the main reasons I haven’t really gone further with them
A big problem is many places have anti-Fraternization Policies. So, even if you notice someone or they notice you... neither of you can DO anything about it. You cannot speak to each other in a flirty way, or even look at each other with interest. You can get terminated.
0:12 " pay attention,boy!!" LOL that was funny
LOL I'm happy you liked it!
Yes, several coworkers show these signs to me but all of them are married with children.😥
My coworker is a super hot female manager, she winked at me multiple times and I said if you wink at me one more time and moved closer to her, she playfully said do you wanna fight ,but i'm not sure if i'm reading it right
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You need to be careful with female managers as this can get you in trouble but a few of the pretty ones have flirted and there has been chemistry coming through from both ways but I keep it professional and smile but they always give me great reviews and time off when I ever I want to . But I keep it professional as I do not want to ruin things at work.
I literally had another co worker come up to me and tell me that the woman I had a crush on had a crush on me. I really liked her a lot but she had 2 young daughters and I could not commit to that. My career was more important.
I really need some help here-
I have a new female coworker. There are 8 of us in total. When we are all in the office, we generally talk and banter as a whole. But whenever the spotlight is on me, she totally ignores me (by turning her chair away or facing the opposite direction). She totally flirts and laughs with another male coworker, but everyone knows he’s married and has a child. It’s a bit unsettling.
A small but significant detail: She did me a favor once, and I asked if I could return the favor by buying her a coffee. Instead of a coffee, she suggested we go eat out. We ended up spending half a day together, just the two of us. She seemed to enjoy every bit of it.
Ultimately, her “work” self is the polar opposite of her “with me” self. Totally cold and distant at work, but very warm, friendly, even a little physical outside of work. What the hell is she trying to do?
I'd be very cautious! It sounds like she is showing some significant signs of a toxic woman. She may use people to get somewhere in the company. I obviously don't know because I don't know her but here are some videos that will help you a lot th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html The biggest thing is to ask yourself if you want to spend time with someone like that. If she were to treat you that way everyday and confuse you that much every day for the rest of your life would you like how you felt? Almost always they only treat you worse as time goes on not better. I hope that helps!
Coach Melannie You’re absolutely right... The bigger picture is, I don’t like being treated in this way and wouldn’t want to be confused like this in the future. Thank you for painting a clearer picture for me! I’ll put in a good word about you and your channel :)
OR, conversely, she may do the exact opposite, putting distance between you because she knows dating a colleague more often than not doesn't end well.
The biggest problem in general is just going there. I’ve always been a believer that you don’t stick your pen in the company ink. Plus most everyone where I work is married
Hi Melanie. The toughest thing about workplace is there isn't much room for error or misinterpretation cause your job could potentially be on the line so you have to be certain. So how do I become certain without jeopardizing our jobs and our working relationship? Thanks
You do have to be very careful with this one. I would suggest you go very slowly and be certain it's what you want to do. Here is a link that can help with this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html And be sure to check out this link as well. coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/ Best of luck!
Really you shouldn't do it. On the other hand it helps to be in a position where you are less expendable than she is, that's more luck though.
I noticed a coworker staring at me multiple times, I have walked up and talked to her at random times when I see her but my interactions havent been that good, I thought I messed up but after awhile I noticed her staring at me again, so I messaged her but she didn't reply back lol
That's too bad! You deserve someone who puts effort into talking to you too. If it's not this girl it will be another. You got this!
@@CoachMelannie aww thanks :)
xxCablexx hang in there. She could be interested but wants to play the push pull,
@@AntonioWolfpack thanks brotha, I'll keep that in mind
Did you message her on Facebook? I did that once and it turned out she didn't have messenger on her phone and never saw the message.
Well, my situation is, She is my supervisor, but we share a lot of chemistry between each other. She flirts at work, but seem to not be able to hang out after work because she is fearing losing her job. 😂
There is a unwritten rule that you not supposed mess with someone that you work with but we break the rules all the time
lol Flirting in the workplace is such a delicate situation! Thankfully, when done appropriately it has actually led a lot of people to their dream spouse. Thanks for watching!
Toes turnt face turnt at you! Only nothing you said made her laugh another co worker did but she puts the attention on you.😁 😮 Happens everyday to me.😊
For me, I find that I never get the girl I want. ALL my crushes are always one sided. Just accept whatever girl comes out of the woodwork and has good chemistry with you. Don't go chasing the P either. Chase money/success and the P will come to you. Lastly, don't put all your eggs in one basket because you'll be disappointed 95% of the time.
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I’m work as a housekeeper in a hospital, for the most part the women I interact with are nurses.
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I got a lot of positive signs when I worked around nurses to date one. However, I was in a relationship and could not do so. One lady asked me to get rid of my girlfriend and date her instead.
@@omtatsatnamaste4780 well nearly every time I asked the nurses complained and I got written up for it.
Recently my HR group has been making all employees take these on-line "Harassment in the office" training and it discourages having any type of relations with co-workers, supervisors, subordinates. Men especially are most vulnerable to false or exaggerated complaints from female co-workers... and eventually termination. It's all about avoiding lawsuits for the company.
The training suggests only discussing work related topics in the office between men and women. This also includes outside of the office as well. If a man chooses to not follow this... he does so at his own risk. Sad to say but that is the reality of things.
My work crush went all out to hide her feelings with me... she has a partner.... 😳😂
One thing (not the only) that is a problem with dating a co-worker is that things might go wrong. Then you are forced to work with a eX. She my gossip horrible stuff about you and/or make your break room visit horrible.
That is certainly a risk! If she is mature and has a healthy mindset she won't do these things though. Yes, it may be awkward for a while but she wouldn't gossip about you. If you want to make sure you know the signs of a woman like that be sure to check out these videos th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Thanks for watching!
Gotta be REAL careful here....I was really fond of a co-worker, and some of what you are talking about seem to be pretty obvious...problem is, if things go sour, there could be BIG trouble....the work situation could be a problem...best way to go is to tread VERY softly and explore. This one that I work with....we seemed to get along very well, but, something went sour....I truly have no idea what went wrong....it was very weird.
I'm sorry that happened! Using caution with a coworker is always best for sure. Thanks for watching!
Or she's looking around to see what are you doing or who's talking with you and always trying to hide so you don't see when she's looking at you, yup always happens.
I have a coworker that seems to give me the googly eyes when I see her and she tease me about not coming to talk to her /co workers because because I got a new job now and I've forgotten about her/my old workers I worked with...think I will make a move this week
Hi gorgeous, love your insight into the world of love and dating. Never had anything like this when I started asking girls out in my teens, still muddled through though! You are fantastic, keep up the great work! 👍🇬🇧x
I don't find any such signs so it is apparent no female coworker likes me.
Good video. From my experience with coworkers there are 2 major things. 1. Talk about and agree to make every effort necessary to not let your relationship mess up your working Life. If you meet the wrong person, whether the relationship works or not, it can make regular work and your reputation a nightmare until you just leave. 2. Don't be gossipy about your relationship. Your entire place of work and everyone in the place don't need to know every aspect of you or your partners Life and romance. Failing to address previous 2 things is a certain recipe for disaster...
I learned to 1. Stay away from gossipy people that are surrounded by nosy coworkers. Basically you're asking for entire workplace to know your entire Life and business. 2. Don't hookup with anyone that's stupid enough to make their working life and love Life a disaster from having a relationship with a coworker..
This!
I check all five as true!
I've seen it in 5 years I worked for a big company.
This is me. Completely. Working from home has made it really hard to know if he likes me back.
That's awesome Coach Melannie, all of this information makes things clear. Thank You
I'm so glad! You are very welcome 🙏 Thank YOU for watching and for your kind comment!
The key is to be yourself and leave the rest to God. Seek you the Kingdom and the rest will be added onto you. If you seek the Kingdom you feel deep peace, and the peace will draw others to you.
At work I have a HR girl who’s showing signs. She’s extremely friendly, acts flirty intense eye contact when we’re alone but I try to talk to her when we’re around people and she gets shy and nervous. I told her bye around my boy at work and she blushed and left
Have fun losing your job
It is oddly comforting that I never saw any of these signs.
For me if they found out that you have a girlfriend, they automatically won't like her. Other sublte ways is that when she or you tries to help them, she would say things like "will this be okay with your girlfriend?"
The hard thing is that I find a girlfriend at work but I don’t know how to keep for me and it gets difficult and she leaves the store to work at another store
I noticed when I was with my gf at the time, my coworkers would flirt and give me their numbers.... but now single I get the cold shoulder. Haha strange.
That really is strange! I'm sorry about that!
Its the prospect of the challenge for them and wanting attention.
You work in the basement. She works on the top floor. She all of a sudden finds it necessary to come pay you a visit and ask you a question. When she could easily have called. 👍🏾!
Ooooo Ooooo, I work in the retail industry. A grocery store by a leading company in the online bussiness. I'm interested in a woman there that I've worked with for almost three years. I feel like we can be comfortable talking to each other. I feel good when I see her start her shift as I'm finishing mine. That's my drawback right now.
Mine is older but she is talkative to other guys at work and w/ me she gets really quiet and avoids eye contact when she does make eye contact she laughs and kinda blushes and when we do talk it’s short and her voice gets higher w/ me.
Hey coach, I recently saw a new female co worker at my job. She's very attractive to me, and I've noticed, when she walks by, at a distance, she glances at me then looks away. I look at her, and she catches me as well.Recently another female co worker was talking to me, and the new co worker joined the conversation. For most of the conversation, the new coworker was looking at me, and we had a brief conversation and I made her smile. I wonder could it be sparks? I'm not sure, but she always looks in my direction when she passes. Even at a distance.
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Especially with co-workers it's hard to tell if they are just being nice or killing time with smalltalk.
My ex was a co-worker and she told me she had a huge crush on me basically the entire time she knew me. I never would've known if I didn't end up dating her. I don't work at that job anymore thank God because she broke my heart.
Now I work at a different job and a co-worker in a different department always engages conversation with me and like stares directly into my eyes. A little more obvious haha.
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I work at a warehouse as a yard driver,and there’s a cute girl that started a few weeks ago,I started taking to her shortly after she started,I’ve made her laugh every time we talk,she called me her bestie,and told me she doesn’t like anyone else here and only talks to me,I told her I was making a few things for her as a gift,and asked her for some ideas,her reply was I need to at least have one surprise,and she has also told me a few personal things,what are your thoughts does she like?
It’s very risky these days because of all the laws
I work at a theme park and had a couple ladies at work taking a liking to me. The first was a performer at the show in the area I work in (its a German dining hall with a stage and the theme park is European themed), she was a violin player with red hair and a great smile but nothing came to fruition. That was in 2019. The second woman has started to pay attention to me in the recent weeks (after the mass exodus in the park staff and everyone was being shuffled around the park) when she's working on the floor and usually she cleans the outdoor area. I might offer her more attention after we cross paths again.
Best of luck!👍
I'm in the security industry I work at several different places so I'm never at any site for more than a week.
I work in a hospital and that can be very difficult to meet and talk to people. You know never know what kind of mood they are in especially dealing with patients who are in critical conditions. It is hit or miss.
This. Unfortunately I didn't do anything because I was protecting both of us.
Nowadays if a girl at work asks you to take her to yours it is for one thing only. To get a heat . Especially if she asks do you have central heating and are your payments up to date 😊😊😊
I'm listening to this not because I think a co-worker likes, its because I've lost almost feeling of anything happening to me haha.
Relationships almost never end amicably with both parties in agreement, one party is almost always feeling hurt and looking to lash out. NO WAY I'd ever date at work in today's litigious MeToo environment. NO WAY.
If a girl like me that much at work, she deserves date for sure for all that damn effort
If there is a break up, seeing her everyday is brutal. Don't do it, unless she is in a different dept. Dont pinch a loaf where you eat.
"IF!" A MYSTERY!
When I was working there were many woman who found me attractive and I knew they did. I am very old fashioned. They were not the type I found attractive. That effected my confidence with the women I really wanted to be with, a sweet and nice girl who likes rock and roll, Tango and club music /modern disco. Who look like Emma stone, young broke shields, Denise Richards, Linda carters, and so on.
I thought that my crush that I've been flirting with for months was starting to like me, and then she pulled the I have a boyfriend card...
Unless she says straight up something that can not be misconstrued as anything else I am not taking the bait because I am not Enigma machine
If you want to know the biggest challenge ? To ask around if she has a boyfriend . I don't want to be labeled as " that guy " ( ie : this loser constantly on the lookout for a girlfriend )
That certainly is a challenge! Does she have a Facebook account? Sometimes you can find out there. You could also checkout Facebook and Instagram for pictures of her with a guy. Valentine's Day is a great time to look for that. Best of luck! 👍
I was able to tell by the look in her eye she was daring me to try it. And when I did I was a dead duck!
I'm sorry that was your experience! Some women like to play games with men to feed their ego. This is a sign of a very toxic woman. Here are some videos I've done on this that will help you know the signs of a toxic woman so you can avoid them in the future and attract a healthy relationships instead th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html You've got this!
Never ever ever dip your pen in company ink!!! It will blow up in your face!!!
I just don't do the whole work flirting thing. I want to do my job to the best of my ability and if I am distracted it's not going to happen.
The most hawkward thing ,is,,communicate with them without other people noticing.
I made some frequent visits to this channel. Not sure what that means. Something draws me here. 🎉
My biggest challenges are 1 we usually don't have the same breaks and 2 she's almost always in her station with her friends
I am talking to her every single hour. She trust me, she is always thankful. She talks to me, smile, she plays with her hair. But when I ask her out, she tells we should keep it professional. She had lunch with me twice. But I am a bit doubt, what should I do in this situation.
Are you talking to each other about work things or personal? That is a big indicator. Here are some other videos that will also help you a lot th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html Thanks for watching!
Never date a co-worker. Too much at stake if the relationship fails. I have seen more than one person get fired after a failed relationship with a co-worker.
My boss stays late on purpose and talks to me when I get to work. I think she might like me.
The biggest challenge for me is I have no confidence in myself.
That is super normal, a lot of people feel this way! I actually am putting together some videos to help with this so be sure to stay tuned 😀 The coolest thing about confidence is that it is a skill that anyone can learn. You got this! 💪
Let me give you some advice without baiting you into doing something in MY best interest.
If you don't have confidence in yourself, it is 100% true you can develope it.
Think about the things you look up to in other men. NOT WHAT YOU THINK GIRLS LIKE!
Whether it be learning, fitness, making money, sports or just friendly competition between friends, build you confidence on what makes you think you are a stud and don't ever approach a woman as if you need to be anything other than who you are at the moment... As long as you are willing to put in the time to become something.
Women are attracted to accomplishment, drive and improvement which will result in self confidence.
Also, seek advice from guys. Sorry but it's just the truth.
@@chrisjackson3980 I understand and don't take any offense to the truth of your comment. The small problem is I'm not a sociable person, I'm the typical kind of guy to stay home and play games lol
@@SkaroEm32x So am I brother. I value my privacy and my time by myself.
I also listen to guys like David Goggins, Tony Robbins and University of Texas at Austin 2014 Commencement speech. I also watch videos of XCOM2 playthrough a and civ 5.
What you think it takes to be an attractive guy is less than you think, I promise you.
But you have to commit yourself to self improvement in areas you think are impossible.
Look up David Goggins and the last video I mentioned. If you want to change yourself, you can. But it ain't friggin easy.
Hang in there brother!
I mean the Commencement speech, not civ 5 😁
You don’t get involved with co-workers,because if things go bad between you,one of you is going to get sacked or have to leave,watch the movie fatal attraction,I work with loads of women and they are hitting on me,and if I don’t reciprocate their feelings you get branded gay or they turn nasty and spread poisoness gossip about you,but if the shoes are on the other foot,you are sexually harrasing them.