Don't confuse love with attraction. I did that and smashed my face in a wall very bad fiew times. Love built slow and at peace. Flirting is a first stage between 2 people meaning they are phisically attracted to each other. Had met the mutual interest then they get to know better and from there understand mutual values and personality. After that they will decide to go any further (because they feel they're in love now) or to stop there and go different ways. Be careful, protect your heart ❤️
@@patty8315 i broke of contact with him after he screamd at something i did where i wasn't even in the wrong. Found a couple of weeks later a boy who treats me with respect and loves me in the richt ways. I guess love can really make blind
Before 'me too' this was about 70% office flirting 30% someone just being nice. Post 'me too' it's 100% someone just being nice. You wanna flirt in 2024, you do it on a dating app, not in person in an office.
*If she's trying to engage in deeper conversations and seems to seek you out during breaks, it's likely a sign of interest. Just remember, always be respectful and professional - never cross boundaries in the workplace.*
Honestly in the sexual harassment video it stated the person has to tell the unwanted they are uncomfortable and if it doesn’t stop THEN it’s an Hr problem because sometimes you never know they might be interested
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by helping me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
I agree, start going to work to work, not flirt. Ignore her, be nice if she comes up to you, but bro... she's playing mind games... a better girl will come around and you don't want to be the type of guy who gives away their attention for free, that's not an attractive trait to possess.
Lost cause...I'm 2 months late but leave her alone asap..you already shot your shot she wasn't interested. Stop giving her attention...she had the right to decline you but you have the right also to not give her any attention outside whatt you have to at work.... She doesn't want you..she wants your attention...cut her off cold turkey...ignore her unless your job dictates you have to work with her and even then keep her at arms length...no lengthy talking..no flirting..no jokes...keep it straight work and keep it pushing.. Like dude said above me have some self respect and stop. Self respect is one of the most attractive trait you can have.
I always thought 'not now usally means, not you.' But my opinion on this is a little different than 2 people above me. I think you have a little opportunity, and wonder how it worked or it is progressing.
This guy and I work in diff departments. Recently I’ve noticed he’s become friendly w me askin how my weekend was askin me my ethnicity and a couple little other things. He hasn’t asked me my name yet. I noticed him glancing at me while in the elevator. Does this mean he’s interested?
He's into you. Maybe he's just not confident to ask you out. I'm like this too to my crush at my workplace I simply glance at her from afar. We don't usually talk and I'm still new at the place. But I really find her attractive. I just don't have the guts to ask her out cause I don't want to risk my job and afraid of rejection cause it's going to be awkward working with her everyday when it didn't work out. Any tips what should I do? I recently just moved here in US and I'm still learning the language one of the reasons I'm not confident talking to her cause It'll feel awkward.
For me, I saw that when she notices me, she makes prolonged eye contact & holds it long enough & smiling with her teeth. She must not be happy in her marriage. That has happened at least twice so far.
@anissaholmes4495 Yes Exactly right as I already had cut her out for her disrespectful sarcasm, insulting me & for her turning her torso & her body away from me in giving me her back. An insecure woman who was just playing games & then see me one day as we were walking in opposite directions, she tries to say hey to me but then I walked right past her acting as she did not even exist & moved on with the rest of my day.
How about you all just stop the flirting and focus on your work? Isn’t it a conflict of interest to be flirting on company time? And what if one of them is married? How about some of you stop flirting because all you wanna do is work your way up the corporate ladder … Using your beauty and your charms , making others believe That you’re the best fit for the job is cheap.
It doesn't matter. People have no problem cheating on their spouse. I got 3 women flirting with me at my job. Two are married and the other one has a boyfriend. One of them makes sure she bends over and acts like she's tying her sneakers or intentionally drops something every time I'm walking behind her. We were talking in the kitchen and all of a sudden she turns around and bends over , pulling up her socks. The other one is always taking gazes at my lips whenever we talk. This morning she stared intensely at my crotch area. The one who has a boyfriend is always making references to sausages whenever we talk. Yesterday she said "I'm having a long hot dog for lunch. You want one?" Hell, the waitress at the restaurant was flirting with me while her boyfriend was in the restaurant. I had a therapist flirt with me and she was married at the time. I'm willing to bet anything that more than 50% of married men and women will cheat if the opportunity is available. The problem is, waking up to the same man or woman every day gets boring. I'm single but I get tired of the same woman after 6 - 12 months. Around that time the sex gets boring and I feel like it's time to move on. I could never understand people staying married to the same person for 10, 20, 30, 40 or 50 years. Most likely, they cheated or wanted to cheat but never got the chance. That's just the nature of the human bean.
Is this before the pandemic? If a man does these things to a woman, he's putting his job in jeopardy. I guess women still have that leeway to do these things.
I’m confused about this one tho she gives signals but her conversations get weird turn into about way older men hitting on her yes I’m older but she brings up men that are like in there mid 40s where I’m a long way from and makes me not want to talk to her anymore after because it comes off as her warning me but it’s weird because she stares at me all the time and reels me in and we start the conversations normal but then they get weird like I said, and I don’t want to talk to her anymore about that or anything else because I get really upset and confused
Yeh sara stop flirting around work colleagues your 50 not 20 and your partner is an ex..Richard find your own mrs or go climb Ben Nevis like Peter kingdom did
This just showed me that I like my coworker more than they like me 😅
Lol same here
so only met him 2 days ago, but felt like there was already so much flirting going on
never knew love could happen so fast
I know, right!
Don't confuse love with attraction. I did that and smashed my face in a wall very bad fiew times.
Love built slow and at peace.
Flirting is a first stage between 2 people meaning they are phisically attracted to each other. Had met the mutual interest then they get to know better and from there understand mutual values and personality. After that they will decide to go any further (because they feel they're in love now) or to stop there and go different ways. Be careful, protect your heart ❤️
@@patty8315 i broke of contact with him after he screamd at something i did where i wasn't even in the wrong. Found a couple of weeks later a boy who treats me with respect and loves me in the richt ways. I guess love can really make blind
Only a hoe dates 2 men in 3 months
@@annavaleriehilbrink2897 glad you found true love🙂
Lmao never add co workers to your social medias
Or can it just be that their being nice? Cuz many people when doing this has no sexual intentions
Literally we can't ask ppl if they're going to the meeting?!
Before 'me too' this was about 70% office flirting 30% someone just being nice. Post 'me too' it's 100% someone just being nice. You wanna flirt in 2024, you do it on a dating app, not in person in an office.
*If she's trying to engage in deeper conversations and seems to seek you out during breaks, it's likely a sign of interest. Just remember, always be respectful and professional - never cross boundaries in the workplace.*
Thanks for this video! I guess my coworker doesn't like me. 😆
🥹
Same here
I don't agree ❤
I had allot of these happen but she would never meet with me outside of work...
Just wanted attention 😢
Cute jokes. Thanx for the video
What if you tried to flirt and she goes to HR or complains about you?
Do it lowkey to test the water
Honestly in the sexual harassment video it stated the person has to tell the unwanted they are uncomfortable and if it doesn’t stop THEN it’s an Hr problem because sometimes you never know they might be interested
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by helping me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
As a young woman, seems like she enjoys your attention but doesn’t mean she wants to date you. Doesn’t seem like someone you should try to date.
I agree, start going to work to work, not flirt. Ignore her, be nice if she comes up to you, but bro... she's playing mind games... a better girl will come around and you don't want to be the type of guy who gives away their attention for free, that's not an attractive trait to possess.
Lost cause...I'm 2 months late but leave her alone asap..you already shot your shot she wasn't interested. Stop giving her attention...she had the right to decline you but you have the right also to not give her any attention outside whatt you have to at work....
She doesn't want you..she wants your attention...cut her off cold turkey...ignore her unless your job dictates you have to work with her and even then keep her at arms length...no lengthy talking..no flirting..no jokes...keep it straight work and keep it pushing..
Like dude said above me have some self respect and stop. Self respect is one of the most attractive trait you can have.
I always thought 'not now usally means, not you.' But my opinion on this is a little different than 2 people above me. I think you have a little opportunity, and wonder how it worked or it is progressing.
Ok but how do you make them leave you alone ☠️
You go to HR
Find a job where you work alone.
No. 5 just break the headlight of their car at parking place🤣🤣 it will be a great starter of conversation🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha
Thats the solution 👌😂
This guy at work tells me im his fave nurse. Or tells our pt: you're lucky you got to talk to my favorite nurse. Idk, might be just being kind.
They wouldn't be contacting you after work especially if they are already in a relationship (hint flirting)
good tips, thank you
They talk you after or before is the point.
;)
I might have commented late (since I got the notification late lol), but my love for @TrueMedallion is still the same..😁💖
Awww thanks
A coworker asked if I have a girlfriend and why not. Did I hit the Jack lol
Haha you hit the pot
Stop flirting, start working
True
Nope not loosing my job this shit happens all the time I just ignore it lol I be noticing
it's a good thing im moving myself out of the slavery
Best comment ever!
Over 50 years olds say this.
This guy and I work in diff departments. Recently I’ve noticed he’s become friendly w me askin how my weekend was askin me my ethnicity and a couple little other things. He hasn’t asked me my name yet. I noticed him glancing at me while in the elevator. Does this mean he’s interested?
Yes. Ask him his name and number.
He's into you. Maybe he's just not confident to ask you out. I'm like this too to my crush at my workplace I simply glance at her from afar. We don't usually talk and I'm still new at the place. But I really find her attractive. I just don't have the guts to ask her out cause I don't want to risk my job and afraid of rejection cause it's going to be awkward working with her everyday when it didn't work out. Any tips what should I do? I recently just moved here in US and I'm still learning the language one of the reasons I'm not confident talking to her cause It'll feel awkward.
Yeup, I did the samething 😂😂😂
12 ways to lose your job
Haha
@@TrueMedallion my coworkers are like my second family. Bro, flirting is gross.
@cliveharman you nailed it the right way. I agree with you
Lol😂
Ever heard of sexual harassment? Me too movement?
According to this, I can't be friendly at work. I must be MEAN.
:(
You must set boundaries.
Well i work inna restaurant so this vid kinda confusing
This doesn't apply to restaurants 😂, being a pirate is part of the job💪
I won't date anyone from work. Thanks for letting me know ahead of time. 👍
Is it to late to date at 66 years old is it to late to have children at 67years of age
Nope.. none of that has ever happened to me!
For me, I saw that when she notices me, she makes prolonged eye contact & holds it long enough & smiling with her teeth. She must not be happy in her marriage. That has happened at least twice so far.
Stay away! 🚩
@anissaholmes4495 Yes Exactly right as I already had cut her out for her disrespectful sarcasm, insulting me & for her turning her torso & her body away from me in giving me her back. An insecure woman who was just playing games & then see me one day as we were walking in opposite directions, she tries to say hey to me but then I walked right past her acting as she did not even exist & moved on with the rest of my day.
Come hi is nothing 😊@@legendaryeddyb228
IGNORE THEM
Its confusing one minute im a pretty lady the next im bro so idk but she has a bf soo yeah
I refuse to get close to someone or date with anyone at my work.
How about you all just stop the flirting and focus on your work? Isn’t it a conflict of interest to be flirting on company time?
And what if one of them is married?
How about some of you stop flirting because all you wanna do is work your way up the corporate ladder …
Using your beauty and your charms , making others believe That you’re the best fit for the job is cheap.
It doesn't matter. People have no problem cheating on their spouse. I got 3 women flirting with me at my job. Two are married and the other one has a boyfriend. One of them makes sure she bends over and acts like she's tying her sneakers or intentionally drops something every time I'm walking behind her. We were talking in the kitchen and all of a sudden she turns around and bends over , pulling up her socks. The other one is always taking gazes at my lips whenever we talk. This morning she stared intensely at my crotch area. The one who has a boyfriend is always making references to sausages whenever we talk. Yesterday she said "I'm having a long hot dog for lunch. You want one?" Hell, the waitress at the restaurant was flirting with me while her boyfriend was in the restaurant. I had a therapist flirt with me and she was married at the time. I'm willing to bet anything that more than 50% of married men and women will cheat if the opportunity is available. The problem is, waking up to the same man or woman every day gets boring. I'm single but I get tired of the same woman after 6 - 12 months. Around that time the sex gets boring and I feel like it's time to move on. I could never understand people staying married to the same person for 10, 20, 30, 40 or 50 years. Most likely, they cheated or wanted to cheat but never got the chance. That's just the nature of the human bean.
Is this before the pandemic? If a man does these things to a woman, he's putting his job in jeopardy. I guess women still have that leeway to do these things.
Sounds like a Stalker behavior
I’m confused about this one tho she gives signals but her conversations get weird turn into about way older men hitting on her yes I’m older but she brings up men that are like in there mid 40s where I’m a long way from and makes me not want to talk to her anymore after because it comes off as her warning me but it’s weird because she stares at me all the time and reels me in and we start the conversations normal but then they get weird like I said, and I don’t want to talk to her anymore about that or anything else because I get really upset and confused
Probably wants to make you jealous and indicate she's in high demand
@@arissumin1420 dang I forgot I posted this comment thing are way different now lol
Yeh sara stop flirting around work colleagues your 50 not 20 and your partner is an ex..Richard find your own mrs or go climb Ben Nevis like Peter kingdom did
Wow according to this no woman is ever flirted with me.
:(
According to this, people are always nice.
Flirt or being nice no girl ever walk up to me to speak or smile
None
I check off too often
:)
😅❤