This! Im in union and married to my DM and TF/ spiritual teacher in my country. She is exactly as my DM and we have known each other 16 years, as you two i remember you saying. 17:40 - DM is enlightened in a different way!!! He is experiencing moments of satori without realizing it, but as a 'logical' side of me, he talks himself (or me) out of it. The point is, we are like you two and im living in a constant state of bliss & my DM looking after me and our kids with full devotion♾💜 And the abundance that grows from us, mindblowing😆🙏wasnt always like this as you know...7 years of running-chasing and lots of ego deaths.
I so relate, we had that back and forth phase for 6 years and finally we are at this beautiful place, just started one month ago, and the only reason is nothing I did while we were together, but what I did when I was alone by myself by finally seeing my value and throwing away old paradigm of thinking and belief especially about relationships and realized I am the most important person and not him and don't need him, once that happened things just fell into place so easily. Also another big lesson, I used to have to communicate so much about things with him and always ended in a bad argument and those conversations came out of my insecurities and now realize communication never has to be complicated again, with us it actually has to be the opposite and kept simple otherwise more good things will not come about with ease.
Funny how Kurt says that twin flame Union has nothing to do with making the world a better place but 3000 people are now in Union and their energy is impacting others positively 😆because he is following his divine mission to teach everyone on how to get twin flames into Union 🤣🤣🤣
My twin and I are in our 50’s and all of this has been going on since 1984. My advice, deal with it early if you can. I appreciate this channel more than I can say. Regretfully, I was the runner.
I refuse to chase my twin. I have blocked her on every app on my phone. If God wants us to be together , then it will happen. However I don’t want to be with her and I would rather that she not occupy my thoughts every day. She is too young for me anyway
So I'm one of Kurt's students, everything exactly as he said. But I'm in a relationship with a soulmate for now and to cut the story short - I watched this video yesterday and my twin texted me today after 5 months. Insane. Watching this video gave me a new perspective and I guess it opened up a path for him to get in touch with me today. It's pretty damn cool.
@@mint_soup9743 Very happy for Kurt!! You have to understand the journey for all of us is the same; letting go of the ego, connecting to our soul,...but the circumstances regarding our twin are a bit different. The truth is the connection is the strongest thing ever, no time or distance can ever break that bond. So you don't have to be anxious at all. This is what helps me: All you have to do is ground yourself in the knowing that you can and will get what you want all you have to concern yourself right now is what can you do in this moment to be the version of yourself that has that result, you're not going to worry you're going to put your focus to where is beneficial, on yourself and being relaxed. Anytime you feel worried or anxious or there's any time urgency have that conversation with yourself: "Hey, wait what am I doing right now, I'm working on my beliefs, I'm working on my confidence, I have a strong routine going on, I am thinking solution based, not problem based, I'm making positive assumptions, so Ok I'm right on track!" Your beliefs should be: "I'm the best, I'm worthy, I'm deserving, I'm good enough, I'm stable, I'm secure, I'm chosen, I'm beautiful, I'm an amazing girlfriend, I'm caring, I'm kind, I'm considerate, I am joyful!" Kurt really helped me to stabilize my emotional state but the real work was just beginning. When my twin left I was depressed, overweight, I quit my job and moved in with my parents at thirty!! After Kurt's program I was strong enough to change all that; I lost weight, no longer depressed - happy everyday, got my own place, got my own business. When my twin came back oh my god was he impressed and proud and everything. Our relationship is so normal now and regular, we have coffee all the time, we kiss, we laugh. I'm the best version of myself, I would date me now, I would not date the previous version of myself haha so I would run too. There's no work, have a strong routine for yourself, either it's exercise, cup of coffee, friends, family, pets, anything that you enjoy. And I promise you it will turn out even better. Hope this helps!
@@MajaLn88 I knew you were spot on when you said “no time or distance can affect your connection” I literally say that all the time!! I met my TF almost 5 years ago!! Only ever seen him once & we talked for 2 hours as complete strangers & I had a boyfriend at the time, but I was trying to set him up with my cousin 😅 long story short, I reached back out to him after 4 years & he remembered me & he ended up texting me 4 months later & pursued me until I fell in love with him! Now he’s gone Bc he can’t do “prayers and hoping for a change” he’s upset at God. I can’t wait until he comes back but I have to let him go & that’s the hardest thing ever! And I need him to have God in his life as well 😪
This video showed me something really deep. There really is no seperation between twinflames. We are always in union. The energy is the thing that pushes them away. Its logical, if you chase, your "DM" reacts to that and runs. Only when there is no push they are free to be themselves. They kind of can't let you really go either. Mine is ghosting me like im dead to her, but doesn't want to block me?!😂 But even when we are in physical seperation there is no need to chase, cause thats just what we are doing that day, not talking, but we are always ONE. There is only Union❤️
@@maragirl1658 Love that! Just enjoy them being with you in the moment, enjoy your own presence. Let the chasing and the expectations go and just be there with them. That is such a freeing feeling for literally everyone, let them be themselves regardless of what you "want". I pushed mine away with expectations fear and negativity, and kind of lost the best friend I ever had. But the "love" that she reminded me of starts pushing me into my best selve! I wish you "both" the really best😊 It will all be good in the "end"😊
I believe your experience is unique to you. Some twin flames may both know they are twin flames. There’s twin flames and the dynamic of personalities. You can’t project your personalities on to all twin flames.
That s the beauty of it. My knows it and is still running they told me what we were I just thought we had great connection and it was like dating a male version of myself (ego) but we don't need to communicate constantly. He asked for space after we got super super close 😉. So that's where it is. If and when they are ready then it will happen focus on me in the meantime.
So true! My twin DM is very much aware of the connection. In fact he was the first to say something about it 😆 only thing is he doesn’t go on about it as much as me.
When I first met “him”, he said “it feels like we’ve done this before”. And though I didn’t confirm or even acknowledge it, I felt it too. Over the past 3 years, he I have exchanged thoughts, telepathically on what seems like a daily bases. We‘ve both acknowledged, without directly saying, that there is something very unique and special about our connection. We casually mention “feeling” each other or knowing what daily energy disruptions each other has experienced on any given day. He tells me, he can feel me, when I’m not around and he doesn’t miss a single one of my energy shifts when I’m in his presence. And I do not miss a single one of his. There are countless times, that we’ve shared the same [thoughts verbatim] that one of us confirms the very next day. We both know that our lives have been so intensely impacted by each others’, that something has been triggered…that challenges us in ways nothing else ever has, and seemingly ever will. It’s not what we have in common, or the synchronicities, the shared thoughts, the spiritual transformation, or the familiarity, it’s all of that. But mostly, it’s the fact that we both just know…There is something absolutely phenomenal about “us” that there is no way either of us can honestly deny. It seems we are reflecting each other. Like seeing your nature in someone else. The irrational bond between us has changed our hearts, minds, and lives in the most profound ways. It’s so sacred, we ‘shy away’ from speaking of it directly. We understand it has less to do with us in “permanent union” and much more to do with our own personal evolution. Over the past few years, in numerous ways, yet in no certain terms, we talk and laugh about being just alike. Not in common interest but in awareness. It’s in how we feel things, physical and non. (Like the temperament of a lake or mood of a setting.) It’s the likeness of our insight. Anything we witness, we know exactly what each other is thinking and it’s almost [if not] always, the same things. When we argue, we vaguely mention the knowing that we share but I guess it feels too sacred to label. We both refuse to overtly acknowledge it. We both just know that we know. I’ve never told him, but the thought crossed my mind that…with him “I can just BE”. Eventually, he told me the exact same thing…verbatim. Despite all of this, our connection has been wildly tumultuous…highly volatile, up, down, and back and forth, as we try hard to hold on to our individual senses of self…and we keep coming right back together like we know intuitively we belong…and will do whatever it takes to do what we know we came together to do. Not in “mission”, but in soul development and understanding true love for ‘other’. I feel like a hopeless hopeful stalker, saying what “we” know but I can’t deny who we are. No one can. I do not necessarily want the two of us to be, we just are. And though we don’t speak of it candidly, I am absolutely sure, he agrees with everything I’ve said here and much much more. Listening to this video makes me think, either he and I are far more evolved or, if there is a such as twin flames (and some sort of division in what we otherwise know as a unified ONE universal soul), if Kurt has truly found his. This video has freed me from the “twin flame” notion and opens me to the phenomenal connection between two evolved people who are participating in the revelation of the unified consciousness.
My journey is similar and different. You see I met “him” at my first job, I happened to be switched to another store last minute with a bs excuse from my boss about why I had switched stores (two different sides of town) and when I was sitting in the parking lot before I went into the store I got transferred to, I told my boyfriend at the time ‘that I had butterflies in my stomach, and I feel like the moment I walk into that door, my whole life is gonna change forever.’ And he told me I was gonna be okay, and that I got this. And once I walked into that door, our eyes met, and my first thought was “oof, he’s attractive.” After being triggered by two specific people in my past. I felt very drawn to him, like I had a strong feeling that he was the thing “my soul” felt like it was “searching” for. And he was extremely mysterious but very familiar. Like, I’ve met him before but, not in this life. And his family member and his twin flame were living with him. I had dreams about him for weeks, or it was the same dream on repeat for six days straight. At that point, I struggled to even sleep. I couldn’t stop thinking about him while in bed with my boyfriend at the time. It bothered me, there was something different about him that got under my skin, but it wasn’t a bad thing. When I told him about it, I immediately ran due to being afraid of his reaction. We both fell quiet and got coffee then we talked about it. Once we would talk about our families and our life experiences plus what we went through, it was almost like our lives were in sync, we’re very alike, we even have certain facial expressions, looks, and ways that make us appear as “twins”, he always told me, he didn’t feel it as intensely as I did but he felt something there between us. And that our connection is different then any other experiences in our entire lives. We both can feel each other’s emotions, energetic shifts, energies, and stuff. We both are Clairsentient, and empathic, so being out together while being around people is hard, so, normally we like to chill at his place or outside of town cause it’s not as draining lol. I also, found out a lot about him, and myself that gave me a lot of clarity on my life. Along, with why I struggled the way I did. But, he and I have always known, he believes twin flames are real, just he knows we both experience it differently. The more time we spent together, the stronger he was able to feel me. Also, we’ve been in “separation” for almost six months now. I feel like I have a long ways to go 😅
@@kaliofficial8071 YES! The chance encounter and magnetic pull. absolutely. and your similar appearance. Things I left out. I hadn’t seen my best friend in years and one day I posted on Facebook (which was extremely rare for me, at the time). She replied to inform me that she was doing her largest HBCU tour ever and would like me to chaperone. This was far out of my comfort zone at the time and I was not in the financial position to travel but I had also decided a couple months prior, to push myself “out of my comfort zone” whenever possible. I was married at the time! My husband went too and for the first time, a man she’d met a few times at different colleges was joining the tour as a chaperone. Him. All chaperones met at a restaurant, before the tour, to go over the itinerary. He came in late (and last). I was annoyed at his silliness. Even though, I too am extremely silly, and at the worse times. Lol) As soon as I saw him, I thought…”do I know him?”. Something said “that’s him”. With my husband sitting next to me, my mind immediately rejected him, forcefully asking back, “him who?!” From the first day of the tour, I felt like I had to be around Him. I went out of my way to be in his group and at every site he visited with his group of teens. (I wasn’t even physically attracted to him yet) I just felt like I wanted to be wherever he was. I’d never felt this way before. When we returned from the tour, my husband and I were guests on a Facebook Live show filmed in L.A. called “Makeup of Breakup”. Just for fun, we blamed my husband’s excessive gym habit as a threat to our relationship. The audience voted for us to “stay together” (though our union was not actually in question) About two weeks later I left my husband, shook up my whole life and about a week later He and I became inseparable… Taking trips together and collapsing into what felt like a wonderland. Absolutely greatest connection I have ever experience with any man.I hadn’t mentioned it to Him but He mentioned how similar we looked. I thought so too. It was our facial bone structure. We came to be magnetically attracted to one another physically and otherwise. Same sense of humor, sensitive nature, and desire to stay home and watch the movies we both grew up referencing. It was truly phenomenal. We never called ourselves “together” but he stopped seeing the multiple women he was seeing. I got a divorce. I ran like hell for years and threw everything I could, at us, to keep him at a distance. He once remarked that he had been so upset with me because he felt like he was losing me. )I guess I’m “the runner”). We’ve been through sooo much and have vowed to not speak again numerous time, but that plan fades about as soon as we make it. I’ve learned an incredible amount about myself through Him and he says the same thing about me. Our life paths are 2 and11. Our sun signs are highly compatible. Even our Chinese Zodiac signs are compatible! 😂 My grandfather (who has the same name as Him and is a junior like Him, and who has a very similar personality to Him and who I have always been very close to) died a day before His birthday last year. And my eldest cousin the day after His birthday (also last year). 3. Can’t make this stuff up. I don’t need it to be. I just can’t deny it. He and I both know it and there is so much more. This is something no one can explain or teach you about.
I too though “distant” of him at the moment have your same experience … I am in the phase to just let go now and embracing myself and I feel he moving towards me , before I would get extremely anxious I don’t anymore I am just ready to let him come and just be … Thank you so much for saying all this
This is hilarious...because it’s true. I had to learn all of these lessons the hard way, too. My twin flame and I came into union once I stopped chasing and started focusing on myself. I released all expectations and don’t need anything about our relationship to change. Our relationship has never been better. It feels awesome! 🙏🏽💞🌈✨
what if i asked him to block me until he feels he wants me in his life and respect me? he did block me, but do you think this can even work so strongly he'd unblock me when i actually let go and focus on myself?
I think each person's twin flame is made specifically to assist them, to match them in some mystical way that helps them realize in the end sooner or later that they gotta focus on themselves! Meaning you gotta just be present in your daily moments, feeling yourself in your body, and not overthinking and drowning in emotions. That is the point. You are the whole point. This whole twin flame thing really is genius because it causes so much discomfort in you that at some point you just can't help but give up the whole struggle and mentally trying to figure things out and battle with life etc. It's a gift.
I think this is one of the most important videos I've ever seen. It made me sad but also set me free ... I don't see a future with my DM but at least I can leave it alone and not chase anymore. Let her do what she wants and with whom she wants. I'll take care of myself completely from now on. I wasted enough time on all this shit. Thank you with all my heart for this video. Let the girl do what she wants, fuck it im done.
I’m getting that too. If at the end of all my heartache my twin was this neutral towards me, I’d be really disappointed. Letting go might be the best option.
I think I’m feeling the same way as you guys. I want passion, I want excitement, I want to flirt & be myself with him. Why do I want ordain so to speak? Wtf is happening rn. I’m so glad I watched this video. A new guy has expressed interest, that happened yesterday & I crushed on this guy hard over 10!years ago. He’s still sexy af so I’m going for it. Running & chasing is games. I don’t like to play games. Does that make sense or is this all ego? Hmmm..🤣🤣
Couldn't agree more. Was waiting for someone to mention it. I would DIE if someone couldn't validate the thing I had worked most hard to acheive. A Union of such high a caliber. This hurts my heart :(
I tried to watch this at the beginning of the journey, during the obsessive thinking and I could not get to the end. It was too hard thinking the "romantic stuff" was not the point of this. Now, it's great ❤ I've gone through my kundalini, I just feel so light and connected and I am only at the beginning of my spiritual journey! Much love to you all!!
It’s the divine feminine’s job to stay in the higher vibration state to help the masculine. It sounds like you are doing the manifesting and she is picking up on the energy. I have never seen a twin flame relationship where someone is completely resistant to the belief who is with their twin flame. I have heard of it though. My twin struggles, but he is working on his manifesting skills and doing the work. We both see synchronicities, and he initially didn’t believe it. My masculine is learning that he can’t doubt it anymore. It’s interesting to watch. The more spiritually awaken he is the more he is open. I just sit back and watch. I just keep working on spirtual growth. I can’t imagine one twin flame doing all the work while the other doesn’t. It’s interesting how accepting you are of your twin flame not believing. It’s quite impressive. ♥️♥️♥️.
My TF doesn't believe in any of this type of thing. If I even brought it up, he wouldn't know what I was talking about in any way. Although, for the last 15 years, I knew something about our connection was different but I only figured out he was my TF about a year ago.
I dunno, it beats me. It's a lot to be the only one working on it, though I don't mind being the stronger one who goes through problems and has the power to maintain and ascend the dynamic. Me and my twinflame are both logical though and very emotional. But yeah, he follows his brain and gets sad like an idiot. 😂
Mine also does the work. He's the one that mentioned twin flame which as a DF sent me searching. Do I tend to elevate quicker indeed, do I have less back and forth mental confusion and just know and trust the process? Yes. I had to work on just learning to be while he does his whatever it is he's doing. It was frustrating at first but I'm at a place of calm now. I enjoy the journey of dealing with my triggers because it was torture how they had me bound. Challenge me to elevate me.
It's almost like two different parts of the brain operating- thanks for sharing Kurt. And thanks to your partner for sharing the other perspective! Kurt your message and wisdom and humour have been invaluable on my twin flame journey. What a fascinating life this is! I am with my twin flame now and love him dearly and we have a wee baby, but as you say it is the true spiritual journey and there is so much more to it, so many other blessings, all a result of the awakening process. It's not an easy journey but so profound, and so worth the work! Bless you for sharing your self, your truth, your love!
Great video! DF is always considered as the awakened twin, but you can also turn it around. DM is the one who does not NEED the whole concept of Twin Flames, they just experience the journey, while DF is piling up concept over concept, what is happening to them, until one day they have to realize that they have to drop all of that and just BE. So, who is the spiritual one?
@@witchypoo3535 I think we do....you know it’s so enriching to read comments and to see where there is a variations and where things are plain and simple same on the journey😊
She is actually very logical and I can imagine my own tf if I were to reveal all of this to him he'd respond the same way he'd contradict everything🤦♀️
"just normal relationship stuff" nah if this were anyone else i would never allow myself to go back to this person out of self respect/care and love . the runner chaser phase is hell and i have stopped myself from talking to him multiple tiimes but the road leads back . Period. he is me i feel him and dream of him nearly every night its so annoying at this point. I havent told him about this TF stuff but he knows im into spiritualism. he's used to shitty toxic people so the chasing him is normal in his mind he loves the attention. its giving narc traits but he isnt. loved hearing the back nd forth between you two- but did scare me thinking about him not validating this situation.. though the polar opposite polarity thing makes perfect sense i almost need him to tell me what he feels between us. he told me once that we were made for each other but im not sure how deep that goes forhim lol he is VERY logical minded and i am magical lol
You are still young twins in this physical experience and allready together, so im sure she will go spiritual af but step by step. You will see this Kurt!
She's so very beautiful. Thank you for putting this video out. It has truly made a difference for me. It's so practical, down to earth and ethereal all wrapped up into one bundle of heavenly yumminess. You both truly are meant to be together. I appreciate you. Keep on keeping on. 🤗
It’s so cute to hear her explain the sign thing, that is such a dm thing to say 😂😂 we don’t look for signs they pop up right in front of our faces, I always feel whenever I’m not looking is when I see signs way more
So here’s my thing, I think the reason that you can’t “go back” is if/when/because your twin doesn’t open up to the idea of sharing your soul…like Kurt and his TF. Because “she” doesn’t believe that they are the same soul (yet) she still seeks out the attention specifically from him. so “he” can’t give it to her because their relationship would be back out of balance, because it’s not all the way there yet. It will manifest as more running because that’s where the desire stems from. SHE isn’t there yet. It’s still in the 3D. Now I bet if she had the “knowing” of dichotomy that Kurt does, they in fact COULD share experiences of showering each other with 3d love without falling into Ego or being able to recognize and redirect. I believe that is the ultimate goal of the twin flame union. To be able to live and love in the “3d” from a “5d” perspective. She even speaks of wishing she could be were he is which implies that she still sees them as separate, which I understand is her ego but that’s the whole point. Yes, the TF journey is for self but it shouldn’t just be one ego self dying. Like she doesn’t have to “recognize” the awakening, she probably never will as she understands recognition. But she will know she is enlightened because she allowed it.
She's full of psychological explanations and it is sooo funny in a good way 😂, It's like listening to myself 8 years ago when I was heavily reading about cognitive biases from figures such as Khaneman, Tversky, Ariely, Pinker, Gazzaniga, and other cognitive scientists and psychologists... Dean Radin and Rupert Sheldrake helped me convince my "logical mind" that phenomenon like telepathy, mind-matter interaction, and divination exist... It's demonstrated with gold standard scientific method and rigorous statistics... We can confidently say we know it exists, but we all differ in a way that we experience it... And of course, most things related to our experiences can be explained by both psychological interpretations and spiritual interpretations... We need to work on our discernment abilities I guess... This was very refreshing to see, a great conversation... Thank's to both of you!
I really appreciate this conversation. The one thing that always broke my heart was not receiving the validation from my DM. It made me feel crazy. It totally makes sense though.. and also makes me look at why I needed the validation. Thank you! This is the best information out there! Just watching your videos has calmed everything down for me.
Wow...this is unbelievably enlightening for me, being the DF. Thank you for showing/demonstrating this. You’ve got a lot of wisdom on your part. Amazing to see you in interaction with her. What a good role model.
Be mindful every twin flame will have different experiences. This is their story/experiences which would vary from person to person. I also deeply believe there are more beyond "Twin flame" concepts among some couples as we grow daily. Some are overly glorified, some fairy tale, some are very deep or just different. Some ARE meant to BE in a relationship commonly call union since they are ONE. Enlightenment is the key but its Divine Authority.
interesting. She seems very honest and sincere. I am curious of thing about her. It is obvious that she doesn't believe in twin flame but she has had try to practice zen for herself？ she seems curious about spiritulism. You don't have to believe in twin flame. But she can experience the calmness of the universe. I think this is good for all. Very interesting that the DM doesn't feel nothing at all. Thank you for sharing this with all. 😊❤️
Well, I would say, that's about the spiritual awakening and self healing the first of all, not about a relationship... There's my authentic story here: th-cam.com/video/vhSTxUOaBi8/w-d-xo.html
Wauw Kurt.... what a great video 👌👌👌 I am so grateful I found you on you tube, you are a great teacher, the video's are great 👍👍👍 can't thank u enough, still have a lot to learn but I know I will make it ❤❤❤ to all the TF out there ..... just take Kurt's course, you won't regret it ..... ❤
DM attempted to mansplain tarot to me after 13 years of study using a Penn and Teller reference 😂. I mean i enjoy the soul mate so much more and I’m fine with not ascending. See you next lifetime weirdo. High five i guess.
Queen Bee tbh the experience he describes I had with a guy almost down to the last detail, but that was 4 connections ago. I can’t judge anyone else’s experience but I went on to have much more beautiful connections, without so much pain obsession and the other person matched me completely spiritually. Label it what u like but I prefer it by a long shot.
The more you try to convince her...the more logically she will react on it. In peace she maybe will believe and accept the uniqueness of your relationship ...without your try and words. Your words are a big push...so she pulls back again.
awe I love this. I’m completely detoxing from my twin flame haven’t wanted your videos or nothing at all & I had a breakthrough and really understood everything on a whole new level and realized we are the same being and there is no “romantic relationship” just been on the present moment lately . haven’t took your course cus I don’t have the money but I wanna say thank u cus I don’t even need it 💕
My twin feels it though. He runs but he knows he loves me like no one else in this world. He doesn’t understand why but he knows there’s something divine to us.
My flame said that to me a few weeks ago, likes it better when we are not defined 😂 after 3 months of not talking/blocking he showed up into my life ”randomly” and now wants to hang out when I’m less involved in defining the relationship in the 3D world 😂 😂 spot on
I've had the energy travel from mine to me loads of times and did get confirmation of this in the 3D multiple times. Everyone's experiences are different. There is no one size fits all. So many variables come into play.
It heals people around you for real i’ve experienced it, when we’ve cohabited the neighbors stopped taking drugs and they were trying to heal them self’s you can do something great with your Twin without judgement, if it’s meant to be twin that actually live together and are able to do so 😇
I just believe that people who say she's in denial or doesn't want to say the word "partner" or blah blah have not understood anything from love. Honestly, there are here people still trying to label love and how it's supposed to manifest or what shape it should take. That's wrong... Love just is, within us, as it is perfect for each of us, in a different way. There are no patterns it should follow to be labelled as "love". There are people whose souls enjoy more freedom and a genuine friendship rather than romantic moments, even in their 40's. There are people who still like to explore different life dimensions and just feel better without a stable commitment and this does not mean they betray! This only means this is who they are, in their essence. Some people are more into having a family and celebrate love by this way. Some people just celebrate their love by being that "I cannot explain what it is, but it is". Either way, just be sure you will be with that soul who resonates with yours. Never doubt that. Just stop labeling it. Unconditional love cannot be explained, as we, in our deepest essence, cannot be explained or labelled. We just are.
I had someone do a photo reading on me and then my twin. When the person started reading my twin. He paused and asked me whats going on? I asked what he meant . He said it seems like he was reading the me only i was female and calm /positive and the other person was kinda negative but the same person. He said he has never came across this before. I LAUGHED. I'm thankful I found my twin. After i found this channel I got the power of now .. my life is changing . Im not longer chasing and focusing on myself . My twin is busy creating fake profiles to talk to me 😂🤣😂🤣 Im so thankful I found this channel. Your twin seem so sweet .
LOL for that: "DM is busy creating face accounts to talk to me" Hahhhaaaa 😂😂😂 I know that energy, trying to find ways to you, but afraid to get exposed 😊
@@SatumainenOlento he made a snapchat account and kept asking for pix ... 😂😂😂. I was like hold on...i knew it was him so im busy lying about who I am. He must be frustrated lol
I think a beautiful sign of her enlightenment is how she speaks very intuitively when she says something that opposes you and your viewers. There is a deep and genuine knowing going on that is anything but typical
That's fascinating how you were talking about the energy exchange. During the first few weeks of getting to know my TF he kept on saying things like he just "loves my vibes" and he's "always vibing off me". He said it so many times. This could explain that energetic exchange. He is not into spiritual stuff and appears very 3D on the outside and I'm totally cool with that. He has never meditated in his whole life. He connects with source via his creative pursuits instead and I love that❤
When she said “I don’t think there’s anything special between your energy and mine” 😫😰why are Devine masculines always blind to the connection when they can’t leave us alone!!!!
Welp... my dm does feel it. He trembles when he holds me. Stares when he doesn't think I'm looking. He absolutely is crazy about me in all the ways. Yum.
Hehe, thank you for this video! I left a comment on one of your shorts the other day asking about your twins POV. And here it is already done😅💯🙏🏼❤ thank you for all you do!🎉
Lovely, lovely, lovely video Kurt! I love the way you hold her hand, oh you're so authentic! It doesn't matter if she doesn't believe in twin flames. You do and we all do,too. So let's enjoy the whole experience!❤❤❤
I would love to see you both do a commentary on this video. Andrea has come SUCH a long way spiritually and I love seeing her on the channel. All your new viewers need to watch this. This video was my "light bulb 💡 " moment. My twin is me, I don't have to worry about what he's doing or when he will show up. I don't have to worry about chasing him anymore. This was great!
So she hasn't gone through the dark night of the soul, she believes it's an ordinary relationship, she doesnt seem awakened, possibly hasnt done any healing or letting go of old stuff. She denies the connection. But shes your twin..🤔 Hmm I'm confused, but then again I haven't followed your videos. I thought the dm goes through stuff too, but seems like she has it easy!🤷🏻♀️
Maybe there is a part in Kurt's consciousness that doesn't believe that his twin is one in consciousness with him, that's why his twin is reflecting that contrast to him.
Yeah, I think everyone has their own unique experience and we can't say something is true for everyone. I just take what resonates and leave the rest. As they say! Lol
It's one half of the flame is off she has not done the work drama excites her and he is ok with it cause he was tired suffering apart from her this is twin flame without the divine part this would not be satisfying for me how can u be one
My DM is also a woman, so this is a refreshing perspective. I often have glimpses of her returning to my life and being absolutely oblivious to why our connection is the way it is....for a long time I felt that I would need to convince her that this is what is happening to get my validation. I have finally accepted that validation is not necessary. She likely won't get it, and that is absolutely ok.
😁🧡✨ All that matters is feeling good & being happy by yourself for no reason! Evolving into the best version of yourself. Those crossing our path just want to connect that's all.
I’m hoping she will awaken soon. ❤️. Through surrender to the journey and going beyond logic, she’ll get there. There is no material evidence… it must be experienced. Dark night of the soul must be experienced, for new birth. Awakening. I see you two trying to rationalize with each other… won’t work. Looks like you both realize that and accept it. ❤️. Hopefully she’ll show herself as well. We have to also go beyond worrying about what people think of us to realize who we are, our true authentic self.
After going through the classes I understand this better. As the negative polarity, (DM) her soul/your soul, one soul awakens… the mind maybe not. I guess there’s something that still bothers me about her not showing herself. Maybe as if the whole thing is embarrassing to her? But I can’t know this… so I just accept it. I guess it’s my ego saying this. My soul has no preference.
Interesting. Since the top of this year there’s been so much honesty and clarity. We both know this is more than a friendship, and we don’t want to disrupt our family lives. We support one another in growing, we always have. Now it’s with honesty and clarity and together.
Thank you for sharing this, both of you. I was surprised to hear she wished she could go back to the runner/chaser dynamic. I assumed she would feel the bliss too. The labels don't matter but i thought you would both experience the "beingness". I hope you do a Q & A :) Thank you for showing that each journey is quite varied. Every journey really is different.
If I had to make a video with my tf, that’s exactly what we we say and how we would explain it. That’s a true tf couple! It’s not a relationship, it’s so much more than that, it’s something only people who truly are tf feel. It just IS!!!! Thank you Kurt for allowing us to hear her voice and her side. Great video! ❤️
I hv had seen her. Actually that was the first video I saw n decide to take ur coaching n it's worth taking ur coaching.. And she is beautiful.. Stayed blessed always guys lots of love to u guys.
She's a libra, I'm a capricorn. She was after me first, I was hesitant(she recognized me first without realizing it), we were together for over a year and half before the "dynamic" started😅
@@ObaidT90 she chased me as well... like literally I would hide and she would send her sister after me... I bought kurts coaching... but there is still thing that happens between us that goes against the teachings...
@@ThickCutOhio its a tough long journey. But gives me a chance to live through love(my higher self) because I wouldn't ever hold space for someone that did me like that...it went against all my boundaries...plus when you have the "knowledge" you can't turn a blind eye to it. Patience and understanding. They need nurturing, and we bring out their inner side which is undeniable
I’m glad to see another woman as the DM! I was like that for years, would rationalize it, tried to minimize the entire situation. It wasn’t till recently where I had a “holy shit, this might be real” moment. But I had to have a direct profound experience to even question the possibility of it being real. When I say recently, I mean less than a year ago, I’ve known him for nearly 9 years now. It took me that long, and I still have those dubious thoughts. He definitely takes your stance as far the connection is concerned. Just find it hilarious that I see another couple acting the same way.
I know excalty what you both are talking about. Been there. And still there. It's like you crave it so bad for the DM to recognize the connection between you guys it almost becomes obsessive. Ive learned to just let it go. Go with the flow because eventually they will come around and become awaken. And it will then all make sense. I started my awakening a couple years ago but before I knew what was really going on I was seeing numbers, and if I was thinking about a person within mins they would either call or send me a message, feathers, just everything that happens when you start your awakening. It's really a beautiful journey. Good luck to you both on your twin flame experience 💫🌠
My Twin is currently oblivious to this dynamic.. after 11 months since our 'reunion' but she feels 'something,' and I've heard from her friends that she's spun out by the energy between us and how much we have in common.. She is the DM.. I have at times sensed how she is feeling but it obviously can't be her energy..it's just a KNOWING. Amazing journey.
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This! Im in union and married to my DM and TF/ spiritual teacher in my country. She is exactly as my DM and we have known each other 16 years, as you two i remember you saying.
17:40 - DM is enlightened in a different way!!! He is experiencing moments of satori without realizing it, but as a 'logical' side of me, he talks himself (or me) out of it. The point is, we are like you two and im living in a constant state of bliss & my DM looking after me and our kids with full devotion♾💜 And the abundance that grows from us, mindblowing😆🙏wasnt always like this as you know...7 years of running-chasing and lots of ego deaths.
Yep. That's exactly how it works.
That's superb dear❤️ Bless me too, so that I also get into the union like this. This is exactly I dream of with my Twinflame 🌷
@@Moonie787 22 years chasing.... Finally caught up... She seemed annoyed ...
I so relate, we had that back and forth phase for 6 years and finally we are at this beautiful place, just started one month ago, and the only reason is nothing I did while we were together, but what I did when I was alone by myself by finally seeing my value and throwing away old paradigm of thinking and belief especially about relationships and realized I am the most important person and not him and don't need him, once that happened things just fell into place so easily. Also another big lesson, I used to have to communicate so much about things with him and always ended in a bad argument and those conversations came out of my insecurities and now realize communication never has to be complicated again, with us it actually has to be the opposite and kept simple otherwise more good things will not come about with ease.
im not fina wait 7 years omg what...........
Funny how Kurt says that twin flame Union has nothing to do with making the world a better place but 3000 people are now in Union and their energy is impacting others positively 😆because he is following his divine mission to teach everyone on how to get twin flames into Union 🤣🤣🤣
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Abeg abeg abeg😂😂😂😂😂😂am dying
Same thought here! 😂❤🤭
When you're a twin flame coach but your twin flame doesn't believe in such things 😄👏
Brilliant isn’t it 😂
I loved that, it's like she's zen but doesn't even know it! Really at peace with whatever, she's just as neutral as you Kurt 🙏 thanx for sharing x
My twin and I are in our 50’s and all of this has been going on since 1984. My advice, deal with it early if you can. I appreciate this channel more than I can say. Regretfully, I was the runner.
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Hey!! Me too
I will
This helps me more than anything....OMG...she helps me more than you do...🤣
I refuse to chase my twin. I have blocked her on every app on my phone. If God wants us to be together , then it will happen. However I don’t want to be with her and I would rather that she not occupy my thoughts every day. She is too young for me anyway
LMAO SHES SUCH A DM
True.
I know I laughed so much. My DM answer to anything about enlightenment is I'm not spiritual 🤣
LOWKEY triggered me actually hahaha jeesussss
Just came across this... Yes 100% live in a logically mind 😒😒😒😒@@haihai5293
So I'm one of Kurt's students, everything exactly as he said. But I'm in a relationship with a soulmate for now and to cut the story short - I watched this video yesterday and my twin texted me today after 5 months. Insane. Watching this video gave me a new perspective and I guess it opened up a path for him to get in touch with me today. It's pretty damn cool.
I’m a student too mine too texted me after watching this after giving me the silent treatment
How did you feel when you watched this, do you remember? Calm? Frustrated? I can’t seem to let go of my exasperation.
@@mint_soup9743 Very happy for Kurt!! You have to understand the journey for all of us is the same; letting go of the ego, connecting to our soul,...but the circumstances regarding our twin are a bit different. The truth is the connection is the strongest thing ever, no time or distance can ever break that bond. So you don't have to be anxious at all.
This is what helps me: All you have to do is ground yourself in the knowing that you can and will get what you want all you have to concern yourself right now is what can you do in this moment to be the version of yourself that has that result, you're not going to worry you're going to put your focus to where is beneficial, on yourself and being relaxed. Anytime you feel worried or anxious or there's any time urgency have that conversation with yourself: "Hey, wait what am I doing right now, I'm working on my beliefs, I'm working on my confidence, I have a strong routine going on, I am thinking solution based, not problem based, I'm making positive assumptions, so Ok I'm right on track!"
Your beliefs should be: "I'm the best, I'm worthy, I'm deserving, I'm good enough, I'm stable, I'm secure, I'm chosen, I'm beautiful, I'm an amazing girlfriend, I'm caring, I'm kind, I'm considerate, I am joyful!"
Kurt really helped me to stabilize my emotional state but the real work was just beginning. When my twin left I was depressed, overweight, I quit my job and moved in with my parents at thirty!! After Kurt's program I was strong enough to change all that; I lost weight, no longer depressed - happy everyday, got my own place, got my own business. When my twin came back oh my god was he impressed and proud and everything. Our relationship is so normal now and regular, we have coffee all the time, we kiss, we laugh. I'm the best version of myself, I would date me now, I would not date the previous version of myself haha so I would run too.
There's no work, have a strong routine for yourself, either it's exercise, cup of coffee, friends, family, pets, anything that you enjoy. And I promise you it will turn out even better. Hope this helps!
@@MajaLn88 thank you so much
@@MajaLn88 I knew you were spot on when you said “no time or distance can affect your connection” I literally say that all the time!! I met my TF almost 5 years ago!! Only ever seen him once & we talked for 2 hours as complete strangers & I had a boyfriend at the time, but I was trying to set him up with my cousin 😅 long story short, I reached back out to him after 4 years & he remembered me & he ended up texting me 4 months later & pursued me until I fell in love with him! Now he’s gone Bc he can’t do “prayers and hoping for a change” he’s upset at God. I can’t wait until he comes back but I have to let him go & that’s the hardest thing ever! And I need him to have God in his life as well 😪
This video showed me something really deep. There really is no seperation between twinflames. We are always in union. The energy is the thing that pushes them away. Its logical, if you chase, your "DM" reacts to that and runs. Only when there is no push they are free to be themselves.
They kind of can't let you really go either. Mine is ghosting me like im dead to her, but doesn't want to block me?!😂
But even when we are in physical seperation there is no need to chase, cause thats just what we are doing that day, not talking, but we are always ONE. There is only Union❤️
@@maragirl1658 Love that! Just enjoy them being with you in the moment, enjoy your own presence. Let the chasing and the expectations go and just be there with them. That is such a freeing feeling for literally everyone, let them be themselves regardless of what you "want". I pushed mine away with expectations fear and negativity, and kind of lost the best friend I ever had. But the "love" that she reminded me of starts pushing me into my best selve!
I wish you "both" the really best😊 It will all be good in the "end"😊
You didn’t flinch when she said she doesn’t believe. That’s you not chasing. I see you, I see you 😎
This video made me realise I'm already in union with my twin
Right me too.....!! 😱
Same here!
me too ❤ finally 🙏🏽
Me too! ❤
Twin flames being together in itself is healing for the world.
Correct !
I believe your experience is unique to you. Some twin flames may both know they are twin flames. There’s twin flames and the dynamic of personalities. You can’t project your personalities on to all twin flames.
That s the beauty of it. My knows it and is still running they told me what we were I just thought we had great connection and it was like dating a male version of myself (ego) but we don't need to communicate constantly. He asked for space after we got super super close 😉. So that's where it is. If and when they are ready then it will happen focus on me in the meantime.
So true! My twin DM is very much aware of the connection. In fact he was the first to say something about it 😆 only thing is he doesn’t go on about it as much as me.
True
This is so good. I tried watching it a year ago and it triggered the hell out of me. Now, a year into learning union within myself, this makes 110%!
When I first met “him”, he said “it feels like we’ve done this before”. And though I didn’t confirm or even acknowledge it, I felt it too. Over the past 3 years, he I have exchanged thoughts, telepathically on what seems like a daily bases. We‘ve both acknowledged, without directly saying, that there is something very unique and special about our connection. We casually mention “feeling” each other or knowing what daily energy disruptions each other has experienced on any given day. He tells me, he can feel me, when I’m not around and he doesn’t miss a single one of my energy shifts when I’m in his presence. And I do not miss a single one of his. There are countless times, that we’ve shared the same [thoughts verbatim] that one of us confirms the very next day. We both know that our lives have been so intensely impacted by each others’, that something has been triggered…that challenges us in ways nothing else ever has, and seemingly ever will. It’s not what we have in common, or the synchronicities, the shared thoughts, the spiritual transformation, or the familiarity, it’s all of that. But mostly, it’s the fact that we both just know…There is something absolutely phenomenal about “us” that there is no way either of us can honestly deny. It seems we are reflecting each other. Like seeing your nature in someone else. The irrational bond between us has changed our hearts, minds, and lives in the most profound ways. It’s so sacred, we ‘shy away’ from speaking of it directly. We understand it has less to do with us in “permanent union” and much more to do with our own personal evolution. Over the past few years, in numerous ways, yet in no certain terms, we talk and laugh about being just alike. Not in common interest but in awareness. It’s in how we feel things, physical and non. (Like the temperament of a lake or mood of a setting.) It’s the likeness of our insight. Anything we witness, we know exactly what each other is thinking and it’s almost [if not] always, the same things. When we argue, we vaguely mention the knowing that we share but I guess it feels too sacred to label. We both refuse to overtly acknowledge it. We both just know that we know. I’ve never told him, but the thought crossed my mind that…with him “I can just BE”. Eventually, he told me the exact same thing…verbatim. Despite all of this, our connection has been wildly tumultuous…highly volatile, up, down, and back and forth, as we try hard to hold on to our individual senses of self…and we keep coming right back together like we know intuitively we belong…and will do whatever it takes to do what we know we came together to do. Not in “mission”, but in soul development and understanding true love for ‘other’. I feel like a hopeless hopeful stalker, saying what “we” know but I can’t deny who we are. No one can. I do not necessarily want the two of us to be, we just are. And though we don’t speak of it candidly, I am absolutely sure, he agrees with everything I’ve said here and much much more. Listening to this video makes me think, either he and I are far more evolved or, if there is a such as twin flames (and some sort of division in what we otherwise know as a unified ONE universal soul), if Kurt has truly found his. This video has freed me from the “twin flame” notion and opens me to the phenomenal connection between two evolved people who are participating in the revelation of the unified consciousness.
My journey is similar and different. You see I met “him” at my first job, I happened to be switched to another store last minute with a bs excuse from my boss about why I had switched stores (two different sides of town) and when I was sitting in the parking lot before I went into the store I got transferred to, I told my boyfriend at the time ‘that I had butterflies in my stomach, and I feel like the moment I walk into that door, my whole life is gonna change forever.’ And he told me I was gonna be okay, and that I got this. And once I walked into that door, our eyes met, and my first thought was “oof, he’s attractive.” After being triggered by two specific people in my past. I felt very drawn to him, like I had a strong feeling that he was the thing “my soul” felt like it was “searching” for. And he was extremely mysterious but very familiar. Like, I’ve met him before but, not in this life. And his family member and his twin flame were living with him. I had dreams about him for weeks, or it was the same dream on repeat for six days straight. At that point, I struggled to even sleep. I couldn’t stop thinking about him while in bed with my boyfriend at the time. It bothered me, there was something different about him that got under my skin, but it wasn’t a bad thing. When I told him about it, I immediately ran due to being afraid of his reaction. We both fell quiet and got coffee then we talked about it. Once we would talk about our families and our life experiences plus what we went through, it was almost like our lives were in sync, we’re very alike, we even have certain facial expressions, looks, and ways that make us appear as “twins”, he always told me, he didn’t feel it as intensely as I did but he felt something there between us. And that our connection is different then any other experiences in our entire lives. We both can feel each other’s emotions, energetic shifts, energies, and stuff. We both are Clairsentient, and empathic, so being out together while being around people is hard, so, normally we like to chill at his place or outside of town cause it’s not as draining lol. I also, found out a lot about him, and myself that gave me a lot of clarity on my life. Along, with why I struggled the way I did. But, he and I have always known, he believes twin flames are real, just he knows we both experience it differently. The more time we spent together, the stronger he was able to feel me. Also, we’ve been in “separation” for almost six months now. I feel like I have a long ways to go 😅
@@kaliofficial8071 YES! The chance encounter and magnetic pull. absolutely. and your similar appearance. Things I left out. I hadn’t seen my best friend in years and one day I posted on Facebook (which was extremely rare for me, at the time). She replied to inform me that she was doing her largest HBCU tour ever and would like me to chaperone. This was far out of my comfort zone at the time and I was not in the financial position to travel but I had also decided a couple months prior, to push myself “out of my comfort zone” whenever possible. I was married at the time! My husband went too and for the first time, a man she’d met a few times at different colleges was joining the tour as a chaperone. Him. All chaperones met at a restaurant, before the tour, to go over the itinerary. He came in late (and last). I was annoyed at his silliness. Even though, I too am extremely silly, and at the worse times. Lol) As soon as I saw him, I thought…”do I know him?”. Something said “that’s him”. With my husband sitting next to me, my mind immediately rejected him, forcefully asking back, “him who?!” From the first day of the tour, I felt like I had to be around Him. I went out of my way to be in his group and at every site he visited with his group of teens. (I wasn’t even physically attracted to him yet) I just felt like I wanted to be wherever he was. I’d never felt this way before. When we returned from the tour, my husband and I were guests on a Facebook Live show filmed in L.A. called “Makeup of Breakup”. Just for fun, we blamed my husband’s excessive gym habit as a threat to our relationship. The audience voted for us to “stay together” (though our union was not actually in question) About two weeks later I left my husband, shook up my whole life and about a week later He and I became inseparable… Taking trips together and collapsing into what felt like a wonderland. Absolutely greatest connection I have ever experience with any man.I hadn’t mentioned it to Him but He mentioned how similar we looked. I thought so too. It was our facial bone structure. We came to be magnetically attracted to one another physically and otherwise. Same sense of humor, sensitive nature, and desire to stay home and watch the movies we both grew up referencing. It was truly phenomenal. We never called ourselves “together” but he stopped seeing the multiple women he was seeing. I got a divorce. I ran like hell for years and threw everything I could, at us, to keep him at a distance. He once remarked that he had been so upset with me because he felt like he was losing me. )I guess I’m “the runner”). We’ve been through sooo much and have vowed to not speak again numerous time, but that plan fades about as soon as we make it. I’ve learned an incredible amount about myself through Him and he says the same thing about me. Our life paths are 2 and11. Our sun signs are highly compatible. Even our Chinese Zodiac signs are compatible! 😂 My grandfather (who has the same name as Him and is a junior like Him, and who has a very similar personality to Him and who I have always been very close to) died a day before His birthday last year. And my eldest cousin the day after His birthday (also last year). 3. Can’t make this stuff up. I don’t need it to be. I just can’t deny it. He and I both know it and there is so much more. This is something no one can explain or teach you about.
I too though “distant” of him at the moment have your same experience … I am in the phase to just let go now and embracing myself and I feel he moving towards me , before I would get extremely anxious I don’t anymore I am just ready to let him come and just be …
Thank you so much for saying all this
You have no idea how much this helped me. Thank you.
This is hilarious...because it’s true. I had to learn all of these lessons the hard way, too. My twin flame and I came into union once I stopped chasing and started focusing on myself. I released all expectations and don’t need anything about our relationship to change. Our relationship has never been better. It feels awesome! 🙏🏽💞🌈✨
what if i asked him to block me until he feels he wants me in his life and respect me? he did block me, but do you think this can even work so strongly he'd unblock me when i actually let go and focus on myself?
@@chickenontheocean yes, any update?
yes agreed !!
In Union you mean bring together in a relationship? Or union when you see each other after few days or weeks ?
It’s funny to see the woman be the more “logical” one for once, I love it! ❤️ 💕
It is nice yes but logic is not always correct. I question everything! Lol
between being logical and brainwashed is a thin line
Same thing for me and my twin. I’m the male physically, but totally embody the Devine feminine energy. And she is textbook Devine masculine.
as a woman, that was my reaction too. very refreshing actually :-)
This actually helped me to get closure with my DM. Like what's the point of all this if they won't even recognize this journey.. thank you for this
Right? But I for some reason believe they will. Perhaps that’s faulty thinking but we are all related so who knows lol.
I think each person's twin flame is made specifically to assist them, to match them in some mystical way that helps them realize in the end sooner or later that they gotta focus on themselves! Meaning you gotta just be present in your daily moments, feeling yourself in your body, and not overthinking and drowning in emotions. That is the point.
You are the whole point.
This whole twin flame thing really is genius because it causes so much discomfort in you that at some point you just can't help but give up the whole struggle and mentally trying to figure things out and battle with life etc. It's a gift.
Let go and they’ll probably come back lol
I think this is one of the most important videos I've ever seen. It made me sad but also set me free ... I don't see a future with my DM but at least I can leave it alone and not chase anymore. Let her do what she wants and with whom she wants. I'll take care of myself completely from now on. I wasted enough time on all this shit. Thank you with all my heart for this video. Let the girl do what she wants, fuck it im done.
I’m getting that too. If at the end of all my heartache my twin was this neutral towards me, I’d be really disappointed. Letting go might be the best option.
I think I’m feeling the same way as you guys. I want passion, I want excitement, I want to flirt & be myself with him. Why do I want ordain so to speak? Wtf is happening rn. I’m so glad I watched this video. A new guy has expressed interest, that happened yesterday & I crushed on this guy hard over 10!years ago. He’s still sexy af so I’m going for it. Running & chasing is games. I don’t like to play games. Does that make sense or is this all ego? Hmmm..🤣🤣
She is so sweet :3
I had a dream two months ago there was Kurt and his TF, she had Kurt's face with long brunette hair, i cried 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣 Hahahahaha 🤣
Lol🤣
lmaooooo yesssssssss
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If she didn’t resist so much you wouldn’t have this level of awareness I’m assuming. It was needed for you to help others
When she says our energies are not connected it could happen with anyone.... ouch.... lol only us DF’s caught that 🤣 keep the enlightenment 🆙
Lol right!! I was like dang…😣
Right.. It hurt me.
Couldn't agree more. Was waiting for someone to mention it. I would DIE if someone couldn't validate the thing I had worked most hard to acheive. A Union of such high a caliber. This hurts my heart :(
@@Um_Yes That's the beauty of going through a spiritual awakening and doing the "work", you no longer need validation from anyone 💕🙏🏻
I tried to watch this at the beginning of the journey, during the obsessive thinking and I could not get to the end. It was too hard thinking the "romantic stuff" was not the point of this. Now, it's great ❤ I've gone through my kundalini, I just feel so light and connected and I am only at the beginning of my spiritual journey! Much love to you all!!
She is peaceful and mindful and doesn't seem to know it.
The zen feeling between you 2 is def there, I can feel it. Can't wait for the law of attraction experiment with your other self! 🙌👏
It’s the divine feminine’s job to stay in the higher vibration state to help the masculine. It sounds like you are doing the manifesting and she is picking up on the energy. I have never seen a twin flame relationship where someone is completely resistant to the belief who is with their twin flame. I have heard of it though. My twin struggles, but he is working on his manifesting skills and doing the work. We both see synchronicities, and he initially didn’t believe it. My masculine is learning that he can’t doubt it anymore. It’s interesting to watch. The more spiritually awaken he is the more he is open. I just sit back and watch. I just keep working on spirtual growth. I can’t imagine one twin flame doing all the work while the other doesn’t. It’s interesting how accepting you are of your twin flame not believing. It’s quite impressive. ♥️♥️♥️.
You made such GREAT points!!!!!!
My TF doesn't believe in any of this type of thing. If I even brought it up, he wouldn't know what I was talking about in any way. Although, for the last 15 years, I knew something about our connection was different but I only figured out he was my TF about a year ago.
I dunno, it beats me. It's a lot to be the only one working on it, though I don't mind being the stronger one who goes through problems and has the power to maintain and ascend the dynamic. Me and my twinflame are both logical though and very emotional. But yeah, he follows his brain and gets sad like an idiot. 😂
Mine also does the work. He's the one that mentioned twin flame which as a DF sent me searching. Do I tend to elevate quicker indeed, do I have less back and forth mental confusion and just know and trust the process? Yes. I had to work on just learning to be while he does his whatever it is he's doing. It was frustrating at first but I'm at a place of calm now. I enjoy the journey of dealing with my triggers because it was torture how they had me bound. Challenge me to elevate me.
@@crystalh6733 Sounds similar to us. Did you work with Kurt's course or follow his free videos to work with yourself? Just curious!
It's almost like two different parts of the brain operating- thanks for sharing Kurt. And thanks to your partner for sharing the other perspective! Kurt your message and wisdom and humour have been invaluable on my twin flame journey. What a fascinating life this is! I am with my twin flame now and love him dearly and we have a wee baby, but as you say it is the true spiritual journey and there is so much more to it, so many other blessings, all a result of the awakening process. It's not an easy journey but so profound, and so worth the work! Bless you for sharing your self, your truth, your love!
“The twin flame thing takes it too far,” PERFECT
She grounds you, makes you think, I think that's perfect. Thank you for this video, for sharing with us!
Great video! DF is always considered as the awakened twin, but you can also turn it around. DM is the one who does not NEED the whole concept of Twin Flames, they just experience the journey, while DF is piling up concept over concept, what is happening to them, until one day they have to realize that they have to drop all of that and just BE. So, who is the spiritual one?
You said it... The divine masculine 😉 They just 'be'
@@witchypoo3535 My DM said to me ....you think too much...funny how I read all the spiritual books etc and he is the one in full time zen😂
@@soni2626 Same I read all these books too lol whereas mine doesn't even read. I think we have our answer 😉😆
@@witchypoo3535 I think we do....you know it’s so enriching to read comments and to see where there is a variations and where things are plain and simple same on the journey😊
@@soni2626 Yes most definitely... Still hard tho at times but I know it will all be worth it in the end 😉 Blessings to you 🙏😇
She is actually very logical and I can imagine my own tf if I were to reveal all of this to him he'd respond the same way he'd contradict everything🤦♀️
The vibe in the room is so strong, like you’re sitting in a void. Real
"just normal relationship stuff" nah if this were anyone else i would never allow myself to go back to this person out of self respect/care and love . the runner chaser phase is hell and i have stopped myself from talking to him multiple tiimes but the road leads back . Period. he is me i feel him and dream of him nearly every night its so annoying at this point. I havent told him about this TF stuff but he knows im into spiritualism. he's used to shitty toxic people so the chasing him is normal in his mind he loves the attention. its giving narc traits but he isnt. loved hearing the back nd forth between you two- but did scare me thinking about him not validating this situation.. though the polar opposite polarity thing makes perfect sense i almost need him to tell me what he feels between us. he told me once that we were made for each other but im not sure how deep that goes forhim lol he is VERY logical minded and i am magical lol
You are still young twins in this physical experience and allready together, so im sure she will go spiritual af but step by step. You will see this Kurt!
i agree!
She's so very beautiful. Thank you for putting this video out. It has truly made a difference for me. It's so practical, down to earth and ethereal all wrapped up into one bundle of heavenly yumminess. You both truly are meant to be together. I appreciate you. Keep on keeping on. 🤗
It’s so cute to hear her explain the sign thing, that is such a dm thing to say 😂😂 we don’t look for signs they pop up right in front of our faces, I always feel whenever I’m not looking is when I see signs way more
100%
Or get sick of seeing them get pissed off and turn to do something to run away from them... then 3 more are right in front of your face 🤦♀️😫🤣🤣🤣
So here’s my thing, I think the reason that you can’t “go back” is if/when/because your twin doesn’t open up to the idea of sharing your soul…like Kurt and his TF. Because “she” doesn’t believe that they are the same soul (yet) she still seeks out the attention specifically from him. so “he” can’t give it to her because their relationship would be back out of balance, because it’s not all the way there yet. It will manifest as more running because that’s where the desire stems from. SHE isn’t there yet. It’s still in the 3D. Now I bet if she had the “knowing” of dichotomy that Kurt does, they in fact COULD share experiences of showering each other with 3d love without falling into Ego or being able to recognize and redirect. I believe that is the ultimate goal of the twin flame union. To be able to live and love in the “3d” from a “5d” perspective.
She even speaks of wishing she could be were he is which implies that she still sees them as separate, which I understand is her ego but that’s the whole point. Yes, the TF journey is for self but it shouldn’t just be one ego self dying. Like she doesn’t have to “recognize” the awakening, she probably never will as she understands recognition. But she will know she is enlightened because she allowed it.
She's full of psychological explanations and it is sooo funny in a good way 😂, It's like listening to myself 8 years ago when I was heavily reading about cognitive biases from figures such as Khaneman, Tversky, Ariely, Pinker, Gazzaniga, and other cognitive scientists and psychologists...
Dean Radin and Rupert Sheldrake helped me convince my "logical mind" that phenomenon like telepathy, mind-matter interaction, and divination exist... It's demonstrated with gold standard scientific method and rigorous statistics... We can confidently say we know it exists, but we all differ in a way that we experience it... And of course, most things related to our experiences can be explained by both psychological interpretations and spiritual interpretations... We need to work on our discernment abilities I guess...
This was very refreshing to see, a great conversation... Thank's to both of you!
maybe I'm the only one who think the sweetest part of this video is when they holding each other's hand 😍
Wow, so practical lol She is quite stubborn, I think that is her way of getting kurt to chase her in a sense lol
I really appreciate this conversation. The one thing that always broke my heart was not receiving the validation from my DM. It made me feel crazy. It totally makes sense though.. and also makes me look at why I needed the validation. Thank you! This is the best information out there! Just watching your videos has calmed everything down for me.
This video made me have SO many realizations and I’ve never felt more free in this journey. WOW
I'm amazed how chill you are even if you don't agree with her👏
Wow...this is unbelievably enlightening for me, being the DF. Thank you for showing/demonstrating this. You’ve got a lot of wisdom on your part. Amazing to see you in interaction with her. What a good role model.
Lol she's a tough nut to crack! Great video :)
Love hearing the DM/- perspective.
Hey, Scott!
Be mindful every twin flame will have different experiences. This is their story/experiences which would vary from person to person. I also deeply believe there are more beyond "Twin flame" concepts among some couples as we grow daily. Some are overly glorified, some fairy tale, some are very deep or just different. Some ARE meant to BE in a relationship commonly call union since they are ONE. Enlightenment is the key but its Divine Authority.
So sweet ❤️❤️❤️❤️ she's such a DM.. they're adorably practical and logical.
You know what kurt this made me question the entire thing for a min 😅🙂😂
interesting. She seems very honest and sincere. I am curious of thing about her. It is obvious that she doesn't believe in twin flame but she has had try to practice zen for herself？ she seems curious about spiritulism. You don't have to believe in twin flame. But she can experience the calmness of the universe. I think this is good for all. Very interesting that the DM doesn't feel nothing at all. Thank you for sharing this with all. 😊❤️
Ya I see these TH-cam couples saying “we are twin flames and blah blah blah” what is that about? I’m glad to hear your TF remark on her experience!
Well, I would say, that's about the spiritual awakening and self healing the first of all, not about a relationship... There's my authentic story here: th-cam.com/video/vhSTxUOaBi8/w-d-xo.html
Wauw Kurt.... what a great video 👌👌👌 I am so grateful I found you on you tube, you are a great teacher, the video's are great 👍👍👍 can't thank u enough, still have a lot to learn but I know I will make it ❤❤❤ to all the TF out there ..... just take Kurt's course, you won't regret it ..... ❤
She sounds like she’s in Denial. Lol. Jesus.
Hilarious video Kurt.
DM attempted to mansplain tarot to me after 13 years of study using a Penn and Teller reference 😂. I mean i enjoy the soul mate so much more and I’m fine with not ascending. See you next lifetime weirdo. High five i guess.
@@tarotdamore1700 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@jbd4365 I agree but why are people playing this game with spirituality? That's the part I don't get!😏✌
Queen Bee tbh the experience he describes I had with a guy almost down to the last detail, but that was 4 connections ago. I can’t judge anyone else’s experience but I went on to have much more beautiful connections, without so much pain obsession and the other person matched me completely spiritually. Label it what u like but I prefer it by a long shot.
Queen Bee I had this exact tf experience ten years ago and my connections got better and far more aligned to my core self after years clearing it.
Exactly, that magnet cannot be denied. I can relate, my twin was being pulled towards me and it was weird
This is just wonderful and really illustrates so much of Kurt's teaching. Thank-you both for being you.
“This isn’t to say I’m not spiritual I just think the twin flames thing takes it too far”
“I think it takes it too far too” 😂😂😂😂
I get annoyed at people stuck in 3D.
sameeeee
Me too
The more you try to convince her...the more logically she will react on it. In peace she maybe will believe and accept the uniqueness of your relationship ...without your try and words. Your words are a big push...so she pulls back again.
Kurts teachings are so different. You see twin flame couples all over TH-cam but Kurts teaching make sense
awe I love this. I’m completely detoxing from my twin flame haven’t wanted your videos or nothing at all & I had a breakthrough and really understood everything on a whole new level and realized we are the same being and there is no “romantic relationship” just been on the present moment lately . haven’t took your course cus I don’t have the money but I wanna say thank u cus I don’t even need it 💕
Big thanks to your DM for exposing her side of the story and her voice and all. This is very informative
My twin feels it though. He runs but he knows he loves me like no one else in this world. He doesn’t understand why but he knows there’s something divine to us.
Mine too says we have a special love from God and says he loves me soo much.. Running on and off also..
Mine has said this also. He calls me his soul mate. 💙
@@stephanielee1792 yes mine says I am who he has been searching for his entire life. 💗💗💗
Same story!
Resonates
My flame said that to me a few weeks ago, likes it better when we are not defined 😂 after 3 months of not talking/blocking he showed up into my life ”randomly” and now wants to hang out when I’m less involved in defining the relationship in the 3D world 😂 😂 spot on
I've had the energy travel from mine to me loads of times and did get confirmation of this in the 3D multiple times. Everyone's experiences are different. There is no one size fits all. So many variables come into play.
I love the way she disagrees. It’s wonderful to see your interactions guys.
God you’re so in love with her. It’s beautiful to see.❤️
It heals people around you for real i’ve experienced it, when we’ve cohabited the neighbors stopped taking drugs and they were trying to heal them self’s you can do something great with your Twin without judgement, if it’s meant to be twin that actually live together and are able to do so 😇
I just believe that people who say she's in denial or doesn't want to say the word "partner" or blah blah have not understood anything from love. Honestly, there are here people still trying to label love and how it's supposed to manifest or what shape it should take. That's wrong...
Love just is, within us, as it is perfect for each of us, in a different way. There are no patterns it should follow to be labelled as "love". There are people whose souls enjoy more freedom and a genuine friendship rather than romantic moments, even in their 40's. There are people who still like to explore different life dimensions and just feel better without a stable commitment and this does not mean they betray! This only means this is who they are, in their essence.
Some people are more into having a family and celebrate love by this way. Some people just celebrate their love by being that "I cannot explain what it is, but it is".
Either way, just be sure you will be with that soul who resonates with yours. Never doubt that. Just stop labeling it. Unconditional love cannot be explained, as we, in our deepest essence, cannot be explained or labelled. We just are.
Well, that was beautifully said!
I had someone do a photo reading on me and then my twin. When the person started reading my twin. He paused and asked me whats going on? I asked what he meant . He said it seems like he was reading the me only i was female and calm /positive and the other person was kinda negative but the same person. He said he has never came across this before. I LAUGHED. I'm thankful I found my twin. After i found this channel I got the power of now .. my life is changing . Im not longer chasing and focusing on myself . My twin is busy creating fake profiles to talk to me 😂🤣😂🤣
Im so thankful I found this channel. Your twin seem so sweet .
LOL for that: "DM is busy creating face accounts to talk to me" Hahhhaaaa 😂😂😂 I know that energy, trying to find ways to you, but afraid to get exposed 😊
@@SatumainenOlento he made a snapchat account and kept asking for pix ... 😂😂😂. I was like hold on...i knew it was him so im busy lying about who I am. He must be frustrated lol
I think a beautiful sign of her enlightenment is how she speaks very intuitively when she says something that opposes you and your viewers. There is a deep and genuine knowing going on that is anything but typical
That's fascinating how you were talking about the energy exchange. During the first few weeks of getting to know my TF he kept on saying things like he just "loves my vibes" and he's "always vibing off me". He said it so many times. This could explain that energetic exchange. He is not into spiritual stuff and appears very 3D on the outside and I'm totally cool with that. He has never meditated in his whole life. He connects with source via his creative pursuits instead and I love that❤
Woah...this one video made me realize a bunch of stuff. Thanks Kurt and lady Kurt 🤭, you guys are awesome. ☺️
You guys! Are too cute! Your mission is successful 🎉🥰❤️🧿🧿🧿
When she said “I don’t think there’s anything special between your energy and mine” 😫😰why are Devine masculines always blind to the connection when they can’t leave us alone!!!!
@@TheSzutekina I agree, she seems like she also doesn’t feel wanted. And like I wonder if he expresses his love for her. It is sad to watch.
Welp... my dm does feel it. He trembles when he holds me. Stares when he doesn't think I'm looking. He absolutely is crazy about me in all the ways. Yum.
@@queserasera717 mine too. He feels that this is something different and one of a kind.
@@jilliangrace8155 🙏⚡🌹The divine cannot be separated from the equation! 💞
@@QueenBee-mk8xm Agreed! The attraction is ALWAYS mutual.
Hehe, thank you for this video! I left a comment on one of your shorts the other day asking about your twins POV. And here it is already done😅💯🙏🏼❤ thank you for all you do!🎉
Lovely, lovely, lovely video Kurt! I love the way you hold her hand, oh you're so authentic! It doesn't matter if she doesn't believe in twin flames. You do and we all do,too. So let's enjoy the whole experience!❤❤❤
“it just is what it is”
This is exactly our relationship/friendship/union💖
I would love to see you both do a commentary on this video. Andrea has come SUCH a long way spiritually and I love seeing her on the channel. All your new viewers need to watch this. This video was my "light bulb 💡 " moment. My twin is me, I don't have to worry about what he's doing or when he will show up. I don't have to worry about chasing him anymore. This was great!
Yes being in enlightment with everything. Its true. You just know!!! He, my twinflame is aware too.
So she hasn't gone through the dark night of the soul, she believes it's an ordinary relationship, she doesnt seem awakened, possibly hasnt done any healing or letting go of old stuff. She denies the connection. But shes your twin..🤔 Hmm I'm confused, but then again I haven't followed your videos. I thought the dm goes through stuff too, but seems like she has it easy!🤷🏻♀️
I agree. My masculine and I have both gone through Dark Night Of the Soul. And also, he does believe the TF dynamic. Hmmm....
Maybe there is a part in Kurt's consciousness that doesn't believe that his twin is one in consciousness with him, that's why his twin is reflecting that contrast to him.
Yeah, I think everyone has their own unique experience and we can't say something is true for everyone. I just take what resonates and leave the rest. As they say! Lol
It's one half of the flame is off she has not done the work drama excites her and he is ok with it cause he was tired suffering apart from her this is twin flame without the divine part this would not be satisfying for me how can u be one
@@soultouch4380 yes dont settle they need to do the work too!😉
Kurt is so confident in what he believes in I love it, its so real
My DM is also a woman, so this is a refreshing perspective. I often have glimpses of her returning to my life and being absolutely oblivious to why our connection is the way it is....for a long time I felt that I would need to convince her that this is what is happening to get my validation. I have finally accepted that validation is not necessary. She likely won't get it, and that is absolutely ok.
I really appreciate the realness the conversation brought to the table.
Thank you.
Love and blessings.
😁🧡✨ All that matters is feeling good & being happy by yourself for no reason! Evolving into the best version of yourself. Those crossing our path just want to connect that's all.
I’m hoping she will awaken soon. ❤️. Through surrender to the journey and going beyond logic, she’ll get there. There is no material evidence… it must be experienced. Dark night of the soul must be experienced, for new birth. Awakening. I see you two trying to rationalize with each other… won’t work. Looks like you both realize that and accept it. ❤️. Hopefully she’ll show herself as well. We have to also go beyond worrying about what people think of us to realize who we are, our true authentic self.
After going through the classes I understand this better. As the negative polarity, (DM) her soul/your soul, one soul awakens… the mind maybe not. I guess there’s something that still bothers me about her not showing herself. Maybe as if the whole thing is embarrassing to her? But I can’t know this… so I just accept it. I guess it’s my ego saying this. My soul has no preference.
Your amazing Kurt. Your DM will have no idea mine doesn't never will. But you can guarantee every time you shift they blow you up 😂
Thank you for sharing. Very helpful on my TF journey
She said “Witchcraft” 😂 And love this video!
Interesting. Since the top of this year there’s been so much honesty and clarity. We both know this is more than a friendship, and we don’t want to disrupt our family lives. We support one another in growing, we always have. Now it’s with honesty and clarity and together.
Thank you for sharing this, both of you. I was surprised to hear she wished she could go back to the runner/chaser dynamic. I assumed she would feel the bliss too. The labels don't matter but i thought you would both experience the "beingness". I hope you do a Q & A :)
Thank you for showing that each journey is quite varied. Every journey really is different.
If I had to make a video with my tf, that’s exactly what we we say and how we would explain it. That’s a true tf couple! It’s not a relationship, it’s so much more than that, it’s something only people who truly are tf feel. It just IS!!!! Thank you Kurt for allowing us to hear her voice and her side. Great video! ❤️
I hv had seen her.
Actually that was the first video I saw n decide to take ur coaching n it's worth taking ur coaching..
And she is beautiful..
Stayed blessed always guys lots of love to u guys.
Kurt you are right that there is many videos. People explain things so wrong about twinflames. You explain it så easy. Thank you!!!
Loved the perspective...my twin is also female masculine and im the male feminine
So you chased her and she ran? May I know your signs?
She's a libra, I'm a capricorn. She was after me first, I was hesitant(she recognized me first without realizing it), we were together for over a year and half before the "dynamic" started😅
Oh my God... my female DM is a Libra as well!!! I’m a Virgo/libra cusp... so it was doomed from the start!!!
@@ObaidT90 she chased me as well... like literally I would hide and she would send her sister after me... I bought kurts coaching... but there is still thing that happens between us that goes against the teachings...
@@ThickCutOhio its a tough long journey. But gives me a chance to live through love(my higher self) because I wouldn't ever hold space for someone that did me like that...it went against all my boundaries...plus when you have the "knowledge" you can't turn a blind eye to it. Patience and understanding. They need nurturing, and we bring out their inner side which is undeniable
This is the greatest video about Twin from you Kurt !Thank you guys,your teachings heaped me a lot understand everything about Twins!❤Thank you 🙏
Awwwwww bless her 🥰 xxx
Omg this is so true! My DM said that what I do is HOCUS POCUS! 😂😂😂😂
I’m glad to see another woman as the DM! I was like that for years, would rationalize it, tried to minimize the entire situation. It wasn’t till recently where I had a “holy shit, this might be real” moment. But I had to have a direct profound experience to even question the possibility of it being real. When I say recently, I mean less than a year ago, I’ve known him for nearly 9 years now. It took me that long, and I still have those dubious thoughts. He definitely takes your stance as far the connection is concerned. Just find it hilarious that I see another couple acting the same way.
I know excalty what you both are talking about. Been there. And still there. It's like you crave it so bad for the DM to recognize the connection between you guys it almost becomes obsessive. Ive learned to just let it go. Go with the flow because eventually they will come around and become awaken. And it will then all make sense. I started my awakening a couple years ago but before I knew what was really going on I was seeing numbers, and if I was thinking about a person within mins they would either call or send me a message, feathers, just everything that happens when you start your awakening. It's really a beautiful journey. Good luck to you both on your twin flame experience 💫🌠
My Twin is currently oblivious to this dynamic.. after 11 months since our 'reunion' but she feels 'something,' and I've heard from her friends that she's spun out by the energy between us and how much we have in common.. She is the DM.. I have at times sensed how she is feeling but it obviously can't be her energy..it's just a KNOWING. Amazing journey.
Mine returns everytime I’m 100% devoted to working on myself .