Student here!! This journey is so far beyond the mind! It doesn't make sense to the mind, but listen to what Kurt says. It WORKS! Other self came in today after taking every amount of focus off and going within. Trust the process!!!!
Mine came back yesterday,. But than my mind started feeding back into old habits.. I just want it to be permanent because I don’t like that pain body, I don’t like the questioning of everything which throws all my hard work off balance. Maybe it’s a trial and error thing idk, but …. I’m going to make it permanent,. I love that feeling of zen!
To be perfectly honest. I came to the decision that no matter what the "other self" does, I want to be treated with respect. Then I followed Kurt's teaching to a T. Meditation, getting to know the source within me, reading all the books, watching Eckhart Tolle and only focusing on what the rest of this life God blessed me with looks like!! Everyone deserves someone that is honest, kind, and faithful. It is truly a process. 4 years ago is when this process started, met the "TF" about 2 years into it. Just don't let the fear of losing something hold you back from living the best life ever!!! And hear me when I tell you, there are no words satisfying enough to describe the feeling inside when the merging begins!!! And I don't mean with your twin, Im talking about the merging of your own soul!!! *There's a lot of I and me in this post, no other way to really describe it!*
@@kristinalekaj Unless I'm using my mind for work, I'm always meditating. It doesn't have to only be when you're sitting still or it's quiet. I find myself meditating even during conversation and having to look at someone and say, now what did you say?
Ex-student here. My man came in TO STAY after I stopped believing in twin flame stuff, ditched all the "letting go" and started creating my desired reality - first in my mind, until it got pushed out in my physical reality - according to Law of Assumption. Your reality including your relationships is whatever you expect it to be. Just my two cents.
For me dark night of the soul was extremely painful on my whole being it constantly felt like something very close to my heart was leaving me and I cried and cried and cried tears just flowed all the time my heart ached so much constantly my inner child constantly felt like it was suffocating. The words can’t describe how painful the process was for me.
I’ve been there I was crushed this time last year I went and did a lot of inner child work with a reiki healer - I have father issues he passed away three months ago I’ll always be attracted to older men it’s the unconditional love I never had from my own father it’s been a huge learning curve at 52.....my late father never taught me about men my brothers weren’t in my life either too toxic and being from a Slavic culture made things worse - my TF was older & married it was a huge wake up call!!
@@modern-simplicity I also had father that was not able to show love to me and he passed away in 2017 and I also atracting older guys and my bf that I met in 2010 then I moved to him in 2016 and he is 17 years older then me maybe I have same problem then as you, that I wanted love from father but he couldnt give me. But weird thing is that my sister had younger guys and not older maybe because she is 6 years older and at her childhood our father was maybe more caring and he little bit showed her love to her- but then he changed-started drinking and it changed him. BUt when it comes to TF I hope that the guy I am with is my TF if not then its still ok. I met some guy in collage that I had some strange things happening so maybe that guy was TF but we not have contact and he like not even wanted to know me. But I have some suspicions that that guy was my TF or that my bf is also my TF maybe you can have 2
@@zyciewusatvbygosia8880 You can only have 1 twinflame. And you haven't met your twinflame yet, because you THINK and hope that the guy your with right now is your twin. If you meet your twin, you just know. This knowing comes from your soul, not your head where you are in right now. This feeling is so deeply that no one can prove you otherwise. Your doubts and questions about if they are or are not is actually the answer for you that they are not. Because even with a tremendously amount of ego you would still know he was you.
If you even ask the question "where are they?" you're still stuck in duality. You are everything and everything is you. Your heart is important, and it's yours.
I met my twin flame, and sorry for saying this, but I am not impressed. I was deeply into him, and understood he was the DF to my DM. But the guy is a mess. A grown adult with nothing to show for it, desperately seeking attention to fill the holes left by childhood wounds... with a few character traits I despise. I know he is my mirror, but I became totally absorbed into his drama and excuses. I had long made peace with my wounds, history and character. So, we broke up, and Im taking up the hobbies and life I abandoned when we met. Im happier for it. As for him, I send him God's love and hope he figures it out. Im as broken as the next woman, but can't imagine that the Universe wants me to be miserable until he "figures it out". He is a good soul with lots of demons to battle. And some battles are meant to be fought alone. If he finds someone to console him in those storms, more power to him... I hope he finds his rock... I'd tip my hat, if she could figure him out and had the patience I didnt...
Haven’t even watched this yet… but I know the answer. Either they’re not your twin flame or if you’re still asking this question, you haven’t actually fully detached yet. You have to get to a point where you DONT CARE. I’m still working on that. For the first time in six months after finally detaching properly, with meditation daily, focusing on my spiritual journey, I had exes coming out of the BLUE everywhere. I’ve done this twice now and happened both times. Not just one person, but a lot. Even those in relationships. I barely thought about him and it was incredible, felt so much better and blissfully at peace and felt like I didn’t care but still wishing him well… those experiences with other people coming back to me made me overthink about him again and wondering why am I attracting everyone else and not him. Because I’m still ASKING. He is still subconsciously the goal. He can’t be the goal. These relapses happen and everytime you do the work again it gets stronger and you care less and less. It takes time guys. Just trust the process and have faith in the fact this is just your spiritual journey and whatever happens happens. Your ego will suck you in wherever it can. Don’t succumb to it. Just observe what’s going on and you will grow on this journey and you will be in abundance, regardless of the outcome with your TF.
And I’ll add.. not just exes, loads of random people I’ve not spoke to in years.. just randomly wanting to talk. It’s pretty crazy. So it does work but your TF is different. You have to let the physical person go completely. Still working on it.. but it is what it is.
@@Blondie1996 yeah you right, with your twin flame,you have to let go all the way, even the slight expectation will push "them" away, the mind is very sneaky, the pining with your twin may not operate in the foreground but in the background,like you said in the SUBCONSCIOUS, any level of attachment you have with this person will eventually push "them" away, even with the detox , you have to go hardcore detox ,no more playing games🤣, this addiction is not healthy, the ego will use all the HIGH TECH WEAPONS as Kurt calls it, to stay in control or to win you, back, "detaching " from the twin flame person is the biggest threat to ego existence,❤️🙏
@@ChangeYourLife1122 AMEN!!! I’m aware of the mind and it’s unhealthy addiction to this person and how much it’s trying to draw me back. It works but not as much as it did. It gets weaker everytime I remember who I actually am which is consciousness and consciousness doesn’t give a shit about anything because we already are union. It’s the death of the mind that’s the hard part, not the detachment from your TF. Once you know that, you know you’re on the right path. ❤️
I'm in the same boat! I've watched Kurt's course so many times, read all the books he recommends, meditate daily, I keep presence my goal ECT but subconsciously I want tf back. It's so toxic. I just want to let him go completely and I've been trying for THREE years now. Yet here I am watching this video and wondering if he will ever come back. I feel hopeless in this situation! I really resonated with your comment and glad to know I'm not the only one. And thankful Kurt made this video as others are asking this question
@@Honeybee333_3 omg I really empathise. Three years, wow 😢 never say never, it’s always possible but I guess Kurt’s right, we will never know until we 100% detach and by that point we won’t care anyway. Seems so impossible at times but I never give up the hope of one day being free from this pain. I haven’t seen my TF for 7 years. He’s married with kids and I since got married myself to my soul mate who I do love dearly but I had the urge to reach out to him in Feb this year after all this time. I know he was receiving the messages but didn’t respond and then blocked me six weeks later without saying anything and that’s when DNOTS started. I had no idea it would throw me like this and I have felt like crap since and it’s only just starting to improve now with the help of Kurt but these relapses happen. It’s horrible as I just want closure because I know he is hiding things he wants to say but deep down I know this is happening for a reason. I don’t understand it and I never will but I won’t give up on my spiritual journey. I just thank him for triggering this awakening as that’s all I can do. I have hope for you ❤️ things will get better xx
There is “WORK” to do , I have been in the Spiritual Journey for 6 months , it requires Perseverance, Patient , it gets better, much better! I trust God! Thanks Everyone! Have a good Spiritual week
Hi Kurt ! Your student here 😊 I watched your video course 3x, reading the Power of Now for the third time, I watched Samadhi 1 and 2 a couple of times , meditating 2x a day , watched Samadhi 3 A few days ago and had a Satori , a huge breakthrough , Oneness, bliss , I stayed like that for 1/2 day , then had a bad day with obsessive thinking about TF, anyway more “WORK” to be done, feeling great again today ! Thanks Kurt !
@@aindana.official I can’t explain very well , It is a good idea to watch Samadhi 1, 2 and 3 . Also there is a video I will post here shortly and it is just something on that video that kept me going on a state of bliss
I was 100% he was my tf but after detaching when he decided he wants his family (which I can't blame him for) he has stayed out of my life. I've stopped completely thinking about him and it's like I've been let off the ride. I'm so thankful but still so surprised cause I thought it would never end. I hope he never comes back because I've never felt better.
@@DimanNurjaman actually I was one of Kurt's first clients . He watched my spiritual awakening and was there with me during the long ride. He knows he was my tf.
@@veronicaadkinson5373 does he comeback to you when you completely stopped thinking about him? the real tf will back or if don’t he must be missing you but in silence, right? remember the polarization or the yin & yang
So I started doing the work, went to school for something that I’m passionate about.. graduated this past Friday. And have been feeling really great, detached and everything,. And She came back,. But old patterns of obsessive thinking are trying to arise and I’ve been doing good at keeping them at bay, Things honestly were amazing between our communication,. But once I felt that old pattern,. I’m backing off again and focusing on the work. But i know the work actually works.. I just know for me, I need to embrace the new me when the old thought patterns try and return
He’s me! I don’t want him, I do want him! He’s me! We are one soul I am him! I don’t want him! I just want to see him! It doesn’t matter if I see him! Tic tick tic tic back and forth for 2years it’s winding down but holy crap it’s draining!!!
Thanks man, your videos are legit, I had an Ahah moment yesterday about this, this "connection" will not manifest if there is any level of attachment, that means you have to be completely let go of any expectations with the person, you cannot fool the universe 🙏🤗💯
Even in the moments when having emotional breakdowns saying “this isn’t working” I knew that wasn’t true and I never blamed Kurt or thought badly of him because he was never the one getting in the way of myself being still or doing the work, I was. Like he always says this is an internal journey and Kurt gives us the signposts to inner peace but he can’t do our work for us we have to individually do it ourselves it’s like the saying “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink” Kurt is leading us to the water but we ultimately have to have the free will and determination to want to drink it and also if you say you are detached but are worried that they haven’t come in yet I don’t think you are as detached as you think you are because anytime after the mind said that I’d say that to myself and get pissed but realized I couldn’t even be mad because I knew that was the truth I’ve been there many times and I know I wasn’t the only one that has because every time it happened it’s like a really hard reality slap but also all the more reason to continue drinking the water
This journey was so tough, but there was a light at the end of the tunnel. I feel so zen. I barely meditate, but I'm Zen. Live in the present moment. If you want romance, then you can definitely manifest a soulmate. My twin is somewhere else, and I'm happy. Detached life is not about him, it's about me.
You’re definitely the real deal I’ve followed everything you said and my twin flame reacted exactly how you said they would and I’ve felt so much better since I’ve been following you
I put a longer comment about my situation below but I know Kurt probably wont read that because it’s long 😂 but it would be good if he could address why so many others are attracted during the process. But also mainly want to say, Kurt, you don’t know what you’ve done for people. Seriously, you have helped so many thousands out of serious depression and sadness. I was at the brink of something very dark and I can’t thank you enough. I’m married so can’t sign up for the TF stuff because my husband will be like wtf is this. But thank you for saving my life and so many others like me you haven’t met because they can’t do your coaching. Your free stuff is just as effective. Thank you so much x
I felt no fear when you said, "Then he's not your TZ". I now know that when I let go of everything, detach, I will attract everything the universe has for me. So also a love that will transcend all my memories, even the memories of my 'TZ'. I love this journey! ❤️
Guess what I've done all the things you say and it works. But the more I "detach" the more I get synchronitys about him from universe. How can I not think of him when he's constantly thrown in my mind?!
Same for me now. It feels like freedom in thoughts or finally i'm able to move on and boooom. Synchronitys at its best out of situations or she randomly texts me shortly after i feel a "detach" for myself... Last Massage this time was 4 weeks ago with 2 synchronicitys in between and a lot of signs i do not search for... I'm just smiling to the sky and say ok thank you but i don't get what you want, sorry😅 I don't know, maybe we are still in the beginning after 1,5 years. But i definitely had a heart opening 2,5 months ago, still growing and last weekend a satori like agape stuff, wow this was the most beautiful experience in my life. It's like i woke up from my construct i always wanted to be free. Interesting for me is, i had the weirdest reality hallucination dream after 2,5 months in our journey. In this, she woke me up, with just beautiful white light in the background. Actually a friend of mine woke me up (they're looks are completely different) in real life, because i was falling asleep on the floor in my living room haha @allisonrudolph7019 how's your journey going? It's been 1 years now since your comment. Hope you're doing great, best wishes 🌅🌊🪶✨
You hit the nail on the head with your current situation in this video Kurt. You are a teacher a guide like a college professor. If people don’t do their homework they can’t hold you to blame for their failures. In the end it’s us that have to hold ourselves accountable for our actions not you as a professor. You give us the tools the things we need to build our body mind and spirit it’s up to us to do the actual work. Thank you and your crew for giving us the opportunity tools and guidance to build ourselves up! ☯️
Student here. It’s been 2 years since I met that person and never heard of her again till now. Of course I feel awesome most of the days and gradually I have less and less thoughts of her. Even those thoughts don’t have any emotional effect anymore. I observed, at least at my case, that occasionally cycles of clinging, being sentimental etc about that person still occurred over the course of these 2 years, BUT each time less intense and with shorter duration. And way less frequently as time goes on. Also that was my indicator that I didn’t detach all the way. After I truly accepted that, things got better really fast. I feel only now I can say I’m completely detached. It took me 2 whole years without even any contact with that person, crazy thing! I don’t care if I meet her again or no and I figured out some weeks ago, I don’t care if we are TF 😂. Before all that crazy obsession I didn’t even know anything about TF and stuff… Now I’m back to that place but with more awareness about spiritual reality. Thank you Kurt, keep helping people and enjoy 🙏🙏
''If you love someone, let them go.'' Maybe we could summarize what you said with this sentence. Yes, you are completely right. When you release the ego and embrace the soul, you get to a level where it doesn't even matter anymore if they come back or not and that is the state of unconditional love I would say. It's fascinating! Thanks for sharing this information.
I have a story about meeting my twin in a way the mind can’t comprehend that’s why this journey is hard for me. But watching some of your videos has made me feel so much better. I have even felt nirvana for days. So I really want to say thank you. And also to melt the ego I have abandoned ALL hope cause that’s what kept me stuck. Trying to adapt the I don’t know mind. I’ll tell you it hurts like hell but for me that is the only way. If you knew my story you would understand. It’s not a story for everyone cause the mind could never understand how that was possible. I do though understand that I must be a very very old soul..
This is true! If you do the detaching and they don't ever return, they were a catalyst for your awakening to prepare you for your true twin flame. It happened to me. The only thing that's keeping us apart is physical distance now that is being resolved. It takes strategic planning though.😇
I am 100% feeling better, I have been stuck for.so.long. knowing all these truth but unable to apply them, until.the universe gave me u. I folllow Abraham hicks, read new earth and the power of now, began meditation, became the observer of my thoughts. Figured out that this is a journey aBout me not him ... but still there was something missing. Thank u .for.your free content! In the last month I threw away all my tarot cards (that's how.dark IT GOT) and I am down to just listening to u and your parter. And i.find myself.listening more for content than for predictions.. thank u thank u thank u .. u guys have pushed my awakening .
There's a scene in the movie "Wild", where she's getting a lift by a farmer whilst trekking the PCT and whilst telling her of a challenge he faced in his life, he says that there "was never a fork in his road": he took the only course he could take, no left or right to decide upon. That's where I got to with my connection, there was nothing left, I'd been so horrifically hurt and betrayed so often, and saw no possible chance, after years of accomodating some really shitty treatment that nobody else would ever have tolerated, that walking away became the ONLY option. Now it seems there's absolutely nothing left to connect to whatsoever and it is a very, very bleak place to be in, my experience and her behaviour have destroyed my trust in it all. The most powerful experience I've ever had has come to nothing, and now my heart is as dead as a doornail. I have no doubt whatsoever that she was my twin flame, but nevertheless - it's over, period.
I was at a point in my Dark night of the soul where I wanted the pain to stop. I was bond and determined to cut ties to my TF . I believed he was not my TF. I was going to cut the cords. I did with all exs. He was the last ex. My ex husband. Oh I thought I was in pain beforehand. I never known heartache or pain ... Till that night. I have already made the choice to not physically go back. I don't want my TF. I want my soulmate. I wish my other self the same. Going on my spiritual journey head been such incredible growth for myself. The peaceful , zen, & happiness. That was only accomplished once I got out of my head about him. I turned everything I was projecting, thinking, feeling, about my other self . I became what I wanted for myself. I poured my prayers, wishes, desire, energy into myself. Meditation in the morning, evening, got to the point that even in the afternoon. I helped my self the way I deserve and am born worthy of. I love just being me. Whole. Happy. Peaceful. Even joyful. I am physical by myself. I don't feel alone or lonely. I actually feel so connected to everything and everyone.
Great video, thank you Kurt, pls. Just continue, even if you repeat yourself... cause everytime I hear something new that enhances the process🙏🏻 you allways put a new viewpoit
Kurt, I am so grateful for your videos on letting go and detaching. Last time I fully stopped watching tarot, and doing my own tarot on my TF, and squashing any thought that bubbled in… he came back after years within a couple days. I got attached and clingy again when we started talking. He rejected me and I put up a boundary and said I didn’t want to be friends. It’s been 4 months, but I miss him so much. I don’t nessacarily want to be with him since were both working on issues with codependency and stuff like that. I know he loves me, but it’s too toxic as far as attachment. I really just want to rid of this OBSESSIVE THINKING like holy crap it’s a lot. Thank you so much on helping me last time (I completely released and felt free) and i’m hoping I can get there again……… Wish me luck
I'm reminded of the final Stars Wars episodes, the ultimate modern representation of TFs. Rey rose up as Divine Feminine, finally united with Kylo Ren, and the Force was balanced. They kissed and Kylo Ren returned to the Force immediately. The expectation was they would go off and live happily ever after, but he had fulfilled his purpose of uniting the energies. Then what? We keep being in whatever present state of existence. Learning temperance to stay in the balanced state indefinitely. We become alchemists. My ego/mind can't fathom the thought of nothing but union, but when I go within and let Soul lead, I know that balance is the Way. Grateful that the ego/mind served its function to assist with the consciousness of surrender for the soul to reveal itself to me and the world. It was 1 year ago today that I first physically united with my DM. He is again on the "run". Here I am, feeling better, accelerating in the 3D, more authentic than ever, and at peace with him continuing his state of being. Detached. I'm more observer than observed. 🖖🏾💕
Yes! Listen to Kurt you guys. Detach. Let it go. Do not chain yourself to a person because of a perceived label you have assigned to them. Be very very careful to not label a karmic attachment as a twin flame relationship. Twin flames do not come together easily, and you will be shaken awake involuntarily. If it happened to you you will know. If you’re not sure if it happened to you then it absolutely didn’t. Release this person and move on with your life. With peace and love 🙏🏼💗
The funny thing about me as I’m rewatching your videos…- When I watched it first time I was like how comes?? Why I wouldn’t care if he comes back or not?? Isn’t it the whole point?? Omg I need him back because I want so! 😂😂 😂 And a week later I so totally get it (mind, ego, soul, awakening..). And the whole healing thing I wanna do for me!!! My love to my twin will never fade but what can be more amazing than finding the love of your life who’s you (your part/your soul in your body)!! Kurt you’re our diamond!!! 💎 ❤
I need to get back to the course. I detach then relapse 🙄. I really should have finished the course entirely but was working hardcore with my business for a bit and now Im slightly obsessing again 🙄
My DM said he’s not interested in me when I’ve been nothing but offered him unconditionally love and he’s never ever going to be with me or days me even says we never dated.
Thank you. When I detached from whom I thought was, I meditated sending them white light. Also to those whom I allowed to get between us. May peace prevail
Yayy I was thinking of this today because I think is just getting higher consciousness and manifesting thing u do to another individual and call them your twin flame knowing that he is the one that awakened me to thisss!! And I believed everybody to be my twin flame and when the real one came I am running everywhere but within!! It's painful!!!!! He is same as me.. he is me..!! Everybody else was me too but in a sense of vibration.. but this man is me 😂 ok I don't know I need to meditate or manifest!! But I am ready to do anything possible to get rid of my own mind!! I was thinking of detaching and this video popped up! U have my only spiritual guru for almost 4 years lol ❤️ love your videos ⭐⭐
Nadia..Id a really tough day yesterday where suddenly the flood gates opened 😪 so much..I ended up exhausted from crying so much..knowing I'm detaching as blocked 5 months after 2 yrs almost..virtually talking daily..this is incredibly painful I keep telling myself he isn't my twin flame..maybe isn't but so much has made sense and resonated and as I've pulled away particularly strongly the last 2 months he appears to be in some pain..emotional or something on a rare check on his timeline..only thing partly open still..and I avoid going there..don't wish to block him but should do..Im knowing mainly I have to keep my energy away 💯if possible 🙏😇🧡
I detached and ascend and then met this girl whom kept calling me and became very clingy and kept calling me every day until i told her not to call me again! So now i am the DM ! Instead of the DF! And now i am the DM runner! Running away from this girl that kept calling me! So I switched from being DF to someone to now being the DM of another someone! Crazy huh! 😂So now I realised that i am the DM ! Or at least now i experience what a DM feels like! I tried to run away from this girl but then thought about her often. I often think about her but then at the same time want to keep a distance away from her
Kurt you've got your twin the love of your life with you.....many of us are floundering.....many of us might not wind up with our twin....there may never be closure.....sure, I've evolved, but there is still heartache.....you're one of the lucky ones.....we may not be....it's a hamster wheel for me.....
detach and live your best life-what if the best life I can imagine is all about living with that person happily for the rest of my life😂honestly I’m not so career-minded or having some special goal for life, so far I’ve basically reached the stage where I wanted to be. So every time after making my mind to detach from tf, it turns into “so what’s next?” kind of situation. 😣Now I’ve been trapped in this logic for quite some time...
Some time ago I kept seeing his car, but in a different color. Everywhere. Always far away from home. Then I only saw there his car in same color. Then a car drove down my street, second time. My ego tells me, ouuhh, he's coming closer ;D Blah blah blah... My soul tells me, look damn it inside! I don't even believe it is actually a Twinflame anymore. Not even our eyes are the same. A little bit maybe, but only if we have the same gaze and a lot of imagination... Why did this wonderful man have to trigger such a trauma in me that I could finally make the shift? During a short period of contact after the separation, I begged God that I would do anything, anything he wanted, for the rest of my life, if only I didn't have to go down this path alone. I would have gone down my path anyway, but together, not alone and not in such a hard way. And in the end I have this knowledge deep inside me. God makes bad jokes. I hate and love the path at the same time. And then it goes quiet again and I hear Kurt's final words in this video ;)
And if we are watching videos on this channel, it is highly probable that we do have thoughts about them. I mean how can we not give a thought for ages, if we are doing courses and watching videos, I always wonder about this. We are talking here avout twin flames, right? So they will pop up in our minds every time. And I don't want that anymore! Detaching means also detaching from TF coaching and watching TF videos in general.. so I'm out😂
Hi Kurt ! Well actually I don't really want her to come back cause I didn't find myself yet? I'm stil working on separating from my mind and those obsessive thoughts. But now, I can catch myself overthinking and worrying about the future and every time it happens I remember what Eckhart Tolle said " just be in the present cause that's all we have" !
I am staying is Zen most of the time ,and my twin is messaging me ,but i am not sure i am still going through a awakening as keep get a pull feeling in the heart that goes within ! And feel sounds from that in the back ground, that feel enhanced specially when i got my head phones on .
I love your videos Kurt1🥰🥰. I have a question. When you say you completely detach, and you don't care if they ever come back, do you still always carry that love for them the way you did previously, or does it just become a situation where you move past it? I hope what I just asked makes sense. God knows I want to get to the place you describe. I want to experience zen 🧘🏽♀️. For you Kurt 🥰🥰❤❤❤
What's in it for the other self actually! If we are same soul then they should also have the ascension! Will they feel peace n zen without us! If yes , then they should also not want us.. if no, then they are like kept hanging on our mercy! M confused here !
Omg . Mine has bin such an emotional roller coaster 😳 And still on this crazy ride and why because my soul says I have too follow through till my soul feels as one again 💗 This the best way I can describe what I'm going through at this time
I will always think she's my twin flame or whatever if she doesn't come back. I can't make someone love me. But I know how I felt and I'm not going to say oh well it didn't work out I'm a better person. No the goal was to be together so it will be a loss for me but temporary because I'll find someone who loves me.
I did Kurts course last aug after my supposed TF left me for another woman…I was going so well then in the last few months I found out how much he betrayed me and lied to me and the woman he left me for he’s now marrying..met her on tinder 2 months before he announced it was over..there’s much more too I’ve been struggling to get my head round..I wouldn’t piss on my TF if he were on fire all I want now is revenge I’m so angry I know so much and have so much proof that could end their relationship that I could tell her…but It’s kurts teachings that are stopping me taking my revenge..granted I feel like I’ve gone back 2 steps but I’m now going to revisit kurts course that I paid for…it’s def worth it all this could of consumed me…don’t get me wrong im raging but he’s not worth it…im hoping I’ll end up with my soulmate I never want to see my TF again
@@zyciewusatvbygosia8880 who knows but all I know is his current woman did me a favour took him off my hands just because he’s a TF doesn’t mean they can’t treat you very badly
so the conclusion is, everytime we forget about them, they will think of us, so it does make sense why they seem not care abous us because we think about them like everytime, and it makes their life easier and we are suffering, so now we knew what we have to do right?
I WISH I CAN PAY THE PAYMENTS BUT I HAVE ALOT OF BILLS TO PAY AND I GET LIKE DEPRESSED WHEN I GO INTO SPRITUAL I M STIILL TRYING THOUGH AND ITS VERY HARD TO BE HONEST
@@pointofnoreturn2600 Don’t be too hasty. I’ve seen NWA often offer support or advice to those in serious financial difficulties. I earnestly don’t think they are about the money. After 2 years of listening to Kurt etc it is acutely obvious they are trying to help people out of absolute agony. This drives people to very very dark places , myself included. They seem very busy and want to help as many people as possible. Do contact them please.
No matter how much I detach myself, he can't come back because he's in prison and I can only wait for his sentence to end, and that's just to be able to reach physical union together, I don't see how he could only come at the right time ,I don't see another way
I suspect my TF was never with me, thus can’t come back. We we friends or more accurately acquaintances, but she was simply not available. I got all the symptoms, energy coasting thru, obsessional thinking, dark night of the “ego” there’s no dark night of the soul. Ultimately a spiritual spark that’s difficult to put into words. She’s gone on had 2 kids, and lives with her man. She likely did want to be with me but I wasn’t up for the drama. Will we meet again ? Probably but not on a romantic level. Besides who really cares. We are never really separated. There is no WE.
I went in contact, I still feel him, sleepless nights bc I just feel his energy. Yet, less obsessive thinking… sure enough he left a card at my door to tell me he misses me and loves me. I find myself wanting to reach out to thank you yet I don't feel like I'm ready to communicate again. Bad things keep happening ( which I think are lessons) What am I doing wrong?
Wondering if the person I think is my tf is the one or not. I went through my dark night of soul on that persons birthday last year. Wondering if it was just a coincidence or was there a real reason for that. Still learning to completely disconnect from that person. It has gotten better over the past year, but in the beginning it was pure hell.
What if they DO come back even when though you are not detached 100%? Well my TF asked me to meet me after 1 year! Out of nowhere. I said yes and then he canceled the meeting because he forgot🤦🏻♀️ WTF.. I mean i am detached at least more than I was. But after he asked me out maybe I fell in attachment back? Because after he canceld i had a emotional break down 😅 he apologized but still I was so angry
Don't worry....use it to gage to balance your energy. Just means theres still some "expectation" ...but its ok. Means its working...just have some more balancing to do. Don't pay attention to the details in the 3D world.
How do I detached from my false karmic partner? I can hear him through telepathy still & at the same time as my true twinflame. It's getting to be confusing it's like my karmic person is trying to break up my real twinflame relationship. I need help
I stopped thinking about my twin idk why but I haven’t thought of mines in a week period enjoying myself going where I want and next thing I was going to work one morning and I was going to my car 6 in morning and there he was ….. he lived in a different county from me and I felt him all morning worrying about me and he came following me to work lol now idk how I did that to do it again
Student here!! This journey is so far beyond the mind! It doesn't make sense to the mind, but listen to what Kurt says. It WORKS! Other self came in today after taking every amount of focus off and going within. Trust the process!!!!
Mine came back yesterday,. But than my mind started feeding back into old habits.. I just want it to be permanent because I don’t like that pain body, I don’t like the questioning of everything which throws all my hard work off balance. Maybe it’s a trial and error thing idk, but …. I’m going to make it permanent,. I love that feeling of zen!
To be perfectly honest. I came to the decision that no matter what the "other self" does, I want to be treated with respect. Then I followed Kurt's teaching to a T. Meditation, getting to know the source within me, reading all the books, watching Eckhart Tolle and only focusing on what the rest of this life God blessed me with looks like!! Everyone deserves someone that is honest, kind, and faithful. It is truly a process. 4 years ago is when this process started, met the "TF" about 2 years into it. Just don't let the fear of losing something hold you back from living the best life ever!!! And hear me when I tell you, there are no words satisfying enough to describe the feeling inside when the merging begins!!! And I don't mean with your twin, Im talking about the merging of your own soul!!! *There's a lot of I and me in this post, no other way to really describe it!*
@@ruth2116 For how long do you meditate? Every day?
@@kristinalekaj Unless I'm using my mind for work, I'm always meditating. It doesn't have to only be when you're sitting still or it's quiet. I find myself meditating even during conversation and having to look at someone and say, now what did you say?
Ex-student here. My man came in TO STAY after I stopped believing in twin flame stuff, ditched all the "letting go" and started creating my desired reality - first in my mind, until it got pushed out in my physical reality - according to Law of Assumption.
Your reality including your relationships is whatever you expect it to be.
Just my two cents.
For me dark night of the soul was extremely painful on my whole being it constantly felt like something very close to my heart was leaving me and I cried and cried and cried tears just flowed all the time my heart ached so much constantly my inner child constantly felt like it was suffocating. The words can’t describe how painful the process was for me.
I’ve been there I was crushed this time last year I went and did a lot of inner child work with a reiki healer - I have father issues he passed away three months ago I’ll always be attracted to older men it’s the unconditional love I never had from my own father it’s been a huge learning curve at 52.....my late father never taught me about men my brothers weren’t in my life either too toxic and being from a Slavic culture made things worse - my TF was older & married it was a huge wake up call!!
@@modern-simplicity I also had father that was not able to show love to me and he passed away in 2017 and I also atracting older guys and my bf that I met in 2010 then I moved to him in 2016 and he is 17 years older then me maybe I have same problem then as you, that I wanted love from father but he couldnt give me. But weird thing is that my sister had younger guys and not older maybe because she is 6 years older and at her childhood our father was maybe more caring and he little bit showed her love to her- but then he changed-started drinking and it changed him. BUt when it comes to TF I hope that the guy I am with is my TF if not then its still ok. I met some guy in collage that I had some strange things happening so maybe that guy was TF but we not have contact and he like not even wanted to know me. But I have some suspicions that that guy was my TF or that my bf is also my TF maybe you can have 2
@@zyciewusatvbygosia8880 You can only have 1 twinflame. And you haven't met your twinflame yet, because you THINK and hope that the guy your with right now is your twin. If you meet your twin, you just know.
This knowing comes from your soul, not your head where you are in right now. This feeling is so deeply that no one can prove you otherwise. Your doubts and questions about if they are or are not is actually the answer for you that they are not. Because even with a tremendously amount of ego you would still know he was you.
@@Rainything actually high levels of doubt happens when it is even Kurt says it in some of his older videos.
I’m there now. It’s so painful I cannot breathe
If you even ask the question "where are they?" you're still stuck in duality. You are everything and everything is you. Your heart is important, and it's yours.
I met my twin flame, and sorry for saying this, but I am not impressed. I was deeply into him, and understood he was the DF to my DM. But the guy is a mess. A grown adult with nothing to show for it, desperately seeking attention to fill the holes left by childhood wounds... with a few character traits I despise. I know he is my mirror, but I became totally absorbed into his drama and excuses. I had long made peace with my wounds, history and character. So, we broke up, and Im taking up the hobbies and life I abandoned when we met. Im happier for it.
As for him, I send him God's love and hope he figures it out. Im as broken as the next woman, but can't imagine that the Universe wants me to be miserable until he "figures it out". He is a good soul with lots of demons to battle. And some battles are meant to be fought alone. If he finds someone to console him in those storms, more power to him... I hope he finds his rock... I'd tip my hat, if she could figure him out and had the patience I didnt...
Haven’t even watched this yet… but I know the answer. Either they’re not your twin flame or if you’re still asking this question, you haven’t actually fully detached yet. You have to get to a point where you DONT CARE. I’m still working on that. For the first time in six months after finally detaching properly, with meditation daily, focusing on my spiritual journey, I had exes coming out of the BLUE everywhere. I’ve done this twice now and happened both times. Not just one person, but a lot. Even those in relationships. I barely thought about him and it was incredible, felt so much better and blissfully at peace and felt like I didn’t care but still wishing him well… those experiences with other people coming back to me made me overthink about him again and wondering why am I attracting everyone else and not him. Because I’m still ASKING. He is still subconsciously the goal. He can’t be the goal. These relapses happen and everytime you do the work again it gets stronger and you care less and less. It takes time guys. Just trust the process and have faith in the fact this is just your spiritual journey and whatever happens happens. Your ego will suck you in wherever it can. Don’t succumb to it. Just observe what’s going on and you will grow on this journey and you will be in abundance, regardless of the outcome with your TF.
And I’ll add.. not just exes, loads of random people I’ve not spoke to in years.. just randomly wanting to talk. It’s pretty crazy. So it does work but your TF is different. You have to let the physical person go completely. Still working on it.. but it is what it is.
@@Blondie1996 yeah you right, with your twin flame,you have to let go all the way, even the slight expectation will push "them" away, the mind is very sneaky, the pining with your twin may not operate in the foreground but in the background,like you said in the SUBCONSCIOUS, any level of attachment you have with this person will eventually push "them" away, even with the detox , you have to go hardcore detox ,no more playing games🤣, this addiction is not healthy, the ego will use all the HIGH TECH WEAPONS as Kurt calls it, to stay in control or to win you, back, "detaching " from the twin flame person is the biggest threat to ego existence,❤️🙏
@@ChangeYourLife1122 AMEN!!! I’m aware of the mind and it’s unhealthy addiction to this person and how much it’s trying to draw me back. It works but not as much as it did. It gets weaker everytime I remember who I actually am which is consciousness and consciousness doesn’t give a shit about anything because we already are union. It’s the death of the mind that’s the hard part, not the detachment from your TF. Once you know that, you know you’re on the right path. ❤️
I'm in the same boat! I've watched Kurt's course so many times, read all the books he recommends, meditate daily, I keep presence my goal ECT but subconsciously I want tf back. It's so toxic. I just want to let him go completely and I've been trying for THREE years now. Yet here I am watching this video and wondering if he will ever come back. I feel hopeless in this situation! I really resonated with your comment and glad to know I'm not the only one. And thankful Kurt made this video as others are asking this question
@@Honeybee333_3 omg I really empathise. Three years, wow 😢 never say never, it’s always possible but I guess Kurt’s right, we will never know until we 100% detach and by that point we won’t care anyway. Seems so impossible at times but I never give up the hope of one day being free from this pain. I haven’t seen my TF for 7 years. He’s married with kids and I since got married myself to my soul mate who I do love dearly but I had the urge to reach out to him in Feb this year after all this time. I know he was receiving the messages but didn’t respond and then blocked me six weeks later without saying anything and that’s when DNOTS started. I had no idea it would throw me like this and I have felt like crap since and it’s only just starting to improve now with the help of Kurt but these relapses happen. It’s horrible as I just want closure because I know he is hiding things he wants to say but deep down I know this is happening for a reason. I don’t understand it and I never will but I won’t give up on my spiritual journey. I just thank him for triggering this awakening as that’s all I can do. I have hope for you ❤️ things will get better xx
There is “WORK” to do , I have been in the Spiritual Journey for 6 months , it requires Perseverance, Patient , it gets better, much better! I trust God! Thanks Everyone! Have a good Spiritual week
If they don’t come back it shouldn’t matter if you’re so detached from them. Life will go on and you’ll be content either way so it’s a win win.
Hi Kurt ! Your student here 😊 I watched your video course 3x, reading the Power of Now for the third time, I watched Samadhi 1 and 2 a couple of times , meditating 2x a day , watched Samadhi 3 A few days ago and had a Satori , a huge breakthrough , Oneness, bliss , I stayed like that for 1/2 day , then had a bad day with obsessive thinking about TF, anyway more “WORK” to be done, feeling great again today ! Thanks Kurt !
@@aindana.official I can’t explain very well , It is a good idea to watch Samadhi 1, 2 and 3 . Also there is a video I will post here shortly and it is just something on that video that kept me going on a state of bliss
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I am very lucky to experience my spiritual awakening by meeting my twin. For me this is the most beautiful way. Thank you so much Kurt for your time.
This is the reason why I take it as a big blessing ,because now I don't have to be enslaved by my mind❤️❤️
I was 100% he was my tf but after detaching when he decided he wants his family (which I can't blame him for) he has stayed out of my life. I've stopped completely thinking about him and it's like I've been let off the ride. I'm so thankful but still so surprised cause I thought it would never end. I hope he never comes back because I've never felt better.
as Kurt said, it means he is not your tf 😅
@@DimanNurjaman actually I was one of Kurt's first clients . He watched my spiritual awakening and was there with me during the long ride. He knows he was my tf.
@@veronicaadkinson5373 does he comeback to you when you completely stopped thinking about him? the real tf will back or if don’t he must be missing you but in silence, right? remember the polarization or the yin & yang
I feel I’m getting there but it’s still the obsessive thoughts that keep popping up no matter what I’m doing in my life.
So I started doing the work, went to school for something that I’m passionate about.. graduated this past Friday. And have been feeling really great, detached and everything,. And
She came back,. But old patterns of obsessive thinking are trying to arise and I’ve been doing good at keeping them at bay, Things honestly were amazing between our communication,. But once I felt that old pattern,. I’m backing off again and focusing on the work. But i know the work actually works.. I just know for me, I need to embrace the new me when the old thought patterns try and return
He’s me! I don’t want him, I do want him! He’s me! We are one soul I am him! I don’t want him! I just want to see him! It doesn’t matter if I see him! Tic tick tic tic back and forth for 2years it’s winding down but holy crap it’s draining!!!
Resonate with this so much. 3 years for me. Ready to get off this rollercoaster
Me. Freaking too.
Thanks man, your videos are legit, I had an Ahah moment yesterday about this, this "connection" will not manifest if there is any level of attachment, that means you have to be completely let go of any expectations with the person, you cannot fool the universe 🙏🤗💯
Even in the moments when having emotional breakdowns saying “this isn’t working” I knew that wasn’t true and I never blamed Kurt or thought badly of him because he was never the one getting in the way of myself being still or doing the work, I was. Like he always says this is an internal journey and Kurt gives us the signposts to inner peace but he can’t do our work for us we have to individually do it ourselves it’s like the saying “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink” Kurt is leading us to the water but we ultimately have to have the free will and determination to want to drink it and also if you say you are detached but are worried that they haven’t come in yet I don’t think you are as detached as you think you are because anytime after the mind said that I’d say that to myself and get pissed but realized I couldn’t even be mad because I knew that was the truth I’ve been there many times and I know I wasn’t the only one that has because every time it happened it’s like a really hard reality slap but also all the more reason to continue drinking the water
This journey was so tough, but there was a light at the end of the tunnel. I feel so zen. I barely meditate, but I'm Zen. Live in the present moment. If you want romance, then you can definitely manifest a soulmate. My twin is somewhere else, and I'm happy. Detached life is not about him, it's about me.
I'm just looking for peace. That's all.become healthy and live my best life. And give something back to the society.
You’re definitely the real deal I’ve followed everything you said and my twin flame reacted exactly how you said they would and I’ve felt so much better since I’ve been following you
I put a longer comment about my situation below but I know Kurt probably wont read that because it’s long 😂 but it would be good if he could address why so many others are attracted during the process. But also mainly want to say, Kurt, you don’t know what you’ve done for people. Seriously, you have helped so many thousands out of serious depression and sadness. I was at the brink of something very dark and I can’t thank you enough. I’m married so can’t sign up for the TF stuff because my husband will be like wtf is this. But thank you for saving my life and so many others like me you haven’t met because they can’t do your coaching. Your free stuff is just as effective. Thank you so much x
I felt no fear when you said, "Then he's not your TZ". I now know that when I let go of everything, detach, I will attract everything the universe has for me. So also a love that will transcend all my memories, even the memories of my 'TZ'. I love this journey! ❤️
You speak with so much care and love. Thank you Kurt (and Andrea)
Guess what I've done all the things you say and it works. But the more I "detach" the more I get synchronitys about him from universe. How can I not think of him when he's constantly thrown in my mind?!
Same for me now.
It feels like freedom in thoughts or finally i'm able to move on and boooom.
Synchronitys at its best out of situations or she randomly texts me shortly after i feel a "detach" for myself...
Last Massage this time was 4 weeks ago with 2 synchronicitys in between and a lot of signs i do not search for...
I'm just smiling to the sky and say ok thank you but i don't get what you want, sorry😅
I don't know, maybe we are still in the beginning after 1,5 years.
But i definitely had a heart opening 2,5 months ago, still growing and last weekend a satori like agape stuff, wow this was the most beautiful experience in my life. It's like i woke up from my construct i always wanted to be free.
Interesting for me is, i had the weirdest reality hallucination dream after 2,5 months in our journey. In this, she woke me up, with just beautiful white light in the background. Actually a friend of mine woke me up (they're looks are completely different) in real life, because i was falling asleep on the floor in my living room haha
@allisonrudolph7019
how's your journey going?
It's been 1 years now since your comment. Hope you're doing great, best wishes 🌅🌊🪶✨
You hit the nail on the head with your current situation in this video Kurt. You are a teacher a guide like a college professor. If people don’t do their homework they can’t hold you to blame for their failures. In the end it’s us that have to hold ourselves accountable for our actions not you as a professor. You give us the tools the things we need to build our body mind and spirit it’s up to us to do the actual work. Thank you and your crew for giving us the opportunity tools and guidance to build ourselves up! ☯️
Also, I noticed every time my twin returns, my life completely changes.
Student here. It’s been 2 years since I met that person and never heard of her again till now.
Of course I feel awesome most of the days and gradually I have less and less thoughts of her. Even those thoughts don’t have any emotional effect anymore.
I observed, at least at my case, that occasionally cycles of clinging, being sentimental etc about that person still occurred over the course of these 2 years, BUT each time less intense and with shorter duration. And way less frequently as time goes on.
Also that was my indicator that I didn’t detach all the way. After I truly accepted that, things got better really fast.
I feel only now I can say I’m completely detached. It took me 2 whole years without even any contact with that person, crazy thing!
I don’t care if I meet her again or no and I figured out some weeks ago, I don’t care if we are TF 😂. Before all that crazy obsession I didn’t even know anything about TF and stuff… Now I’m back to that place but with more awareness about spiritual reality.
Thank you Kurt, keep helping people and enjoy 🙏🙏
Kurt's videos are the only ones I don't skip ads on. Can't wait to buy your program.
Wow. I actually told my DM I don't want to be in communication with him like an hour ago and this video pops up. I did because I want to feel better.
Excellent
''If you love someone, let them go.'' Maybe we could summarize what you said with this sentence. Yes, you are completely right. When you release the ego and embrace the soul, you get to a level where it doesn't even matter anymore if they come back or not and that is the state of unconditional love I would say. It's fascinating! Thanks for sharing this information.
I have a story about meeting my twin in a way the mind can’t comprehend that’s why this journey is hard for me. But watching some of your videos has made me feel so much better. I have even felt nirvana for days. So I really want to say thank you. And also to melt the ego I have abandoned ALL hope cause that’s what kept me stuck. Trying to adapt the I don’t know mind. I’ll tell you it hurts like hell but for me that is the only way. If you knew my story you would understand. It’s not a story for everyone cause the mind could never understand how that was possible. I do though understand that I must be a very very old soul..
Thank you so much Kurt. It doesn't matter if he comes back. What matters is that I enjoy my beautiful journey 😍💖
Then you'll GET SOMEONE BETTER
Keeps me in his life.. definitely a step down from our beginning 6 years ago..going with the flow..what ever
Love just is ..
Thank you Kurt for your clear words. You haven nothing to lose only to gain 😍😍😍
This is true! If you do the detaching and they don't ever return, they were a catalyst for your awakening to prepare you for your true twin flame. It happened to me. The only thing that's keeping us apart is physical distance now that is being resolved. It takes strategic planning though.😇
do we feel that the person was your twin flame? i mean this is incredible they came to ur life and make u a better person
11:22 That break makes you know that this guy teach other from his experiences
Sensei Kurt. An "I" that makes sense, a sense-"I."
I am 100% feeling better, I have been stuck for.so.long. knowing all these truth but unable to apply them, until.the universe gave me u. I folllow Abraham hicks, read new earth and the power of now, began meditation, became the observer of my thoughts. Figured out that this is a journey aBout me not him ... but still there was something missing. Thank u .for.your free content! In the last month I threw away all my tarot cards (that's how.dark IT GOT) and I am down to just listening to u and your parter. And i.find myself.listening more for content than for predictions.. thank u thank u thank u .. u guys have pushed my awakening .
There's a scene in the movie "Wild", where she's getting a lift by a farmer whilst trekking the PCT and whilst telling her of a challenge he faced in his life, he says that there "was never a fork in his road": he took the only course he could take, no left or right to decide upon. That's where I got to with my connection, there was nothing left, I'd been so horrifically hurt and betrayed so often, and saw no possible chance, after years of accomodating some really shitty treatment that nobody else would ever have tolerated, that walking away became the ONLY option. Now it seems there's absolutely nothing left to connect to whatsoever and it is a very, very bleak place to be in, my experience and her behaviour have destroyed my trust in it all. The most powerful experience I've ever had has come to nothing, and now my heart is as dead as a doornail. I have no doubt whatsoever that she was my twin flame, but nevertheless - it's over, period.
I was at a point in my Dark night of the soul where I wanted the pain to stop. I was bond and determined to cut ties to my TF . I believed he was not my TF. I was going to cut the cords. I did with all exs. He was the last ex. My ex husband. Oh I thought I was in pain beforehand.
I never known heartache or pain ... Till that night.
I have already made the choice to not physically go back.
I don't want my TF. I want my soulmate. I wish my other self the same.
Going on my spiritual journey head been such incredible growth for myself.
The peaceful , zen, & happiness.
That was only accomplished once I got out of my head about him. I turned everything I was projecting, thinking, feeling, about my other self . I became what I wanted for myself. I poured my prayers, wishes, desire, energy into myself.
Meditation in the morning, evening, got to the point that even in the afternoon.
I helped my self the way I deserve and am born worthy of.
I love just being me. Whole. Happy. Peaceful. Even joyful. I am physical by myself. I don't feel alone or lonely. I actually feel so connected to everything and everyone.
Great video, thank you Kurt, pls. Just continue, even if you repeat yourself... cause everytime I hear something new that enhances the process🙏🏻 you allways put a new viewpoit
This makes perfect sense now
Inner peace Zen ❤
God is with you and all of us Kurt 😉
Kurt, I am so grateful for your videos on letting go and detaching. Last time I fully stopped watching tarot, and doing my own tarot on my TF, and squashing any thought that bubbled in… he came back after years within a couple days.
I got attached and clingy again when we started talking. He rejected me and I put up a boundary and said I didn’t want to be friends.
It’s been 4 months, but I miss him so much.
I don’t nessacarily want to be with him since were both working on issues with codependency and stuff like that. I know he loves me, but it’s too toxic as far as attachment.
I really just want to rid of this OBSESSIVE THINKING like holy crap it’s a lot.
Thank you so much on helping me last time (I completely released and felt free) and i’m hoping I can get there again………
Wish me luck
Thank Kurt. I’ve been struggling to decide on how to move forward with some things and this video helped a lot
I'm reminded of the final Stars Wars episodes, the ultimate modern representation of TFs. Rey rose up as Divine Feminine, finally united with Kylo Ren, and the Force was balanced. They kissed and Kylo Ren returned to the Force immediately. The expectation was they would go off and live happily ever after, but he had fulfilled his purpose of uniting the energies. Then what? We keep being in whatever present state of existence. Learning temperance to stay in the balanced state indefinitely. We become alchemists. My ego/mind can't fathom the thought of nothing but union, but when I go within and let Soul lead, I know that balance is the Way. Grateful that the ego/mind served its function to assist with the consciousness of surrender for the soul to reveal itself to me and the world.
It was 1 year ago today that I first physically united with my DM. He is again on the "run". Here I am, feeling better, accelerating in the 3D, more authentic than ever, and at peace with him continuing his state of being. Detached. I'm more observer than observed. 🖖🏾💕
Yes! Listen to Kurt you guys. Detach. Let it go. Do not chain yourself to a person because of a perceived label you have assigned to them. Be very very careful to not label a karmic attachment as a twin flame relationship. Twin flames do not come together easily, and you will be shaken awake involuntarily. If it happened to you you will know. If you’re not sure if it happened to you then it absolutely didn’t. Release this person and move on with your life. With peace and love 🙏🏼💗
I love this. I was really suffering today.. This video opened my eyes and came at the very right time when i needed it. Thank you!!💚👏
The funny thing about me as I’m rewatching your videos…- When I watched it first time I was like how comes?? Why I wouldn’t care if he comes back or not?? Isn’t it the whole point?? Omg I need him back because I want so! 😂😂
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And a week later I so totally get it (mind, ego, soul, awakening..).
And the whole healing thing I wanna do for me!!! My love to my twin will never fade but what can be more amazing than finding the love of your life who’s you (your part/your soul in your body)!!
Kurt you’re our diamond!!! 💎 ❤
I need to get back to the course. I detach then relapse 🙄. I really should have finished the course entirely but was working hardcore with my business for a bit and now Im slightly obsessing again 🙄
My DM said he’s not interested in me when I’ve been nothing but offered him unconditionally love and he’s never ever going to be with me or days me even says we never dated.
Let go. Focus on yourself
Thanks man working on detaching from tf or not so can stop this pain and be happy n live my life coz i love my life😊
I am watching your videos, to be myself. I don’t really care about twin flame anymore ❤ thank you
Thank you. When I detached from whom I thought was, I meditated sending them white light. Also to those whom I allowed to get between us. May peace prevail
I am excited now to live my best life xxx
Thank you for another amazing video!
Yayy I was thinking of this today because I think is just getting higher consciousness and manifesting thing u do to another individual and call them your twin flame knowing that he is the one that awakened me to thisss!! And I believed everybody to be my twin flame and when the real one came I am running everywhere but within!! It's painful!!!!! He is same as me.. he is me..!! Everybody else was me too but in a sense of vibration.. but this man is me 😂 ok I don't know I need to meditate or manifest!! But I am ready to do anything possible to get rid of my own mind!! I was thinking of detaching and this video popped up! U have my only spiritual guru for almost 4 years lol ❤️ love your videos ⭐⭐
Nadia..Id a really tough day yesterday where suddenly the flood gates opened 😪 so much..I ended up exhausted from crying so much..knowing I'm detaching as blocked 5 months after 2 yrs almost..virtually talking daily..this is incredibly painful I keep telling myself he isn't my twin flame..maybe isn't but so much has made sense and resonated and as I've pulled away particularly strongly the last 2 months he appears to be in some pain..emotional or something on a rare check on his timeline..only thing partly open still..and I avoid going there..don't wish to block him but should do..Im knowing mainly I have to keep my energy away 💯if possible 🙏😇🧡
I detached and ascend and then met this girl whom kept calling me and became very clingy and kept calling me every day until i told her not to call me again! So now i am the DM ! Instead of the DF! And now i am the DM runner! Running away from this girl that kept calling me! So I switched from being DF to someone to now being the DM of another someone! Crazy huh!
😂So now I realised that i am the DM ! Or at least now i experience what a DM feels like! I tried to run away from this girl but then thought about her often. I often think about her but then at the same time want to keep a distance away from her
Thats interesting. If your here that implies you are DF. I wonder whats going on with your situation.
@@francesb-p2441 That's a myth we all have both df and dm energy...
When I detach I dream about my dm and then I see his name
It’s like I’m not allowed to forget about them
Kurt you've got your twin the love of your life with you.....many of us are floundering.....many of us might not wind up with our twin....there may never be closure.....sure, I've evolved, but there is still heartache.....you're one of the lucky ones.....we may not be....it's a hamster wheel for me.....
Then why bother with that . What u can change ? Nothing . Make yourself happy
Good if he doesn't come back. My life is still improving. Maybe he's a catalyst but it doesn't matter anymore. The love was divine when it lasted.
Nice video. I need to watch it again…
detach and live your best life-what if the best life I can imagine is all about living with that person happily for the rest of my life😂honestly I’m not so career-minded or having some special goal for life, so far I’ve basically reached the stage where I wanted to be. So every time after making my mind to detach from tf, it turns into “so what’s next?” kind of situation. 😣Now I’ve been trapped in this logic for quite some time...
Ohhh, I am now in the same place! How is your journey going now?
Some time ago I kept seeing his car, but in a different color. Everywhere. Always far away from home. Then I only saw there his car in same color. Then a car drove down my street, second time. My ego tells me, ouuhh, he's coming closer ;D Blah blah blah... My soul tells me, look damn it inside!
I don't even believe it is actually a Twinflame anymore. Not even our eyes are the same. A little bit maybe, but only if we have the same gaze and a lot of imagination... Why did this wonderful man have to trigger such a trauma in me that I could finally make the shift? During a short period of contact after the separation, I begged God that I would do anything, anything he wanted, for the rest of my life, if only I didn't have to go down this path alone. I would have gone down my path anyway, but together, not alone and not in such a hard way.
And in the end I have this knowledge deep inside me. God makes bad jokes. I hate and love the path at the same time.
And then it goes quiet again and I hear Kurt's final words in this video ;)
this is exactly why I messed up union, I made it about getting her.
And if we are watching videos on this channel, it is highly probable that we do have thoughts about them. I mean how can we not give a thought for ages, if we are doing courses and watching videos, I always wonder about this. We are talking here avout twin flames, right? So they will pop up in our minds every time. And I don't want that anymore! Detaching means also detaching from TF coaching and watching TF videos in general.. so I'm out😂
They always come back! ✨
My twin flame unblocked me this week some communication as of now she seems hesitant... reading chapter 3 of power of now while listening to this
Hi Kurt ! Well actually I don't really want her to come back cause I didn't find myself yet? I'm stil working on separating from my mind and those obsessive thoughts. But now, I can catch myself overthinking and worrying about the future and every time it happens I remember what Eckhart Tolle said " just be in the present cause that's all we have" !
I am staying is Zen most of the time ,and my twin is messaging me ,but i am not sure i am still going through a awakening as keep get a pull feeling in the heart that goes within ! And feel sounds from that in the back ground, that feel enhanced specially when i got my head phones on .
I now believe that I went through an Awakening, reconciled a karmic and THEN met tf
Are there books 📚 you recommend for learning Zen Spiritualism?
The back & forth got so scary, ugly and traumatic this time around, bridges got burned so bad that I don't think it is possible anymore.
I love your videos Kurt1🥰🥰. I have a question. When you say you completely detach, and you don't care if they ever come back, do you still always carry that love for them the way you did previously, or does it just become a situation where you move past it? I hope what I just asked makes sense. God knows I want to get to the place you describe. I want to experience zen 🧘🏽♀️.
For you Kurt 🥰🥰❤❤❤
Kurt, just love you a lotttt !!! ❤️
What's in it for the other self actually! If we are same soul then they should also have the ascension! Will they feel peace n zen without us! If yes , then they should also not want us.. if no, then they are like kept hanging on our mercy! M confused here !
Maybe your twin flame chooses a soulmate instead
Omg . Mine has bin such an emotional roller coaster 😳
And still on this crazy ride and why
because my soul says I have too follow through till my soul feels as one again 💗 This the best way I can describe what I'm going through at this time
I will always think she's my twin flame or whatever if she doesn't come back. I can't make someone love me. But I know how I felt and I'm not going to say oh well it didn't work out I'm a better person. No the goal was to be together so it will be a loss for me but temporary because I'll find someone who loves me.
Fn love this ❤
I did Kurts course last aug after my supposed TF left me for another woman…I was going so well then in the last few months I found out how much he betrayed me and lied to me and the woman he left me for he’s now marrying..met her on tinder 2 months before he announced it was over..there’s much more too I’ve been struggling to get my head round..I wouldn’t piss on my TF if he were on fire all I want now is revenge I’m so angry I know so much and have so much proof that could end their relationship that I could tell her…but It’s kurts teachings that are stopping me taking my revenge..granted I feel like I’ve gone back 2 steps but I’m now going to revisit kurts course that I paid for…it’s def worth it all this could of consumed me…don’t get me wrong im raging but he’s not worth it…im hoping I’ll end up with my soulmate I never want to see my TF again
maybe he is not your TF but soulmate
@@zyciewusatvbygosia8880 who knows but all I know is his current woman did me a favour took him off my hands just because he’s a TF doesn’t mean they can’t treat you very badly
Thanks Kind Friend🌞✝️🙌☯️🧖🏻⚓️🐟🕉💟transcend the ego…
so the conclusion is, everytime we forget about them, they will think of us, so it does make sense why they seem not care abous us because we think about them like everytime, and it makes their life easier and we are suffering, so now we knew what we have to do right?
Hi! What if your twinflame only comes back in spirit? Telepathic and in dreams suddenly, not on earth?
I WISH I CAN PAY THE PAYMENTS BUT I HAVE ALOT OF BILLS TO PAY AND I GET LIKE DEPRESSED WHEN I GO INTO SPRITUAL I M STIILL TRYING THOUGH AND ITS VERY HARD TO BE HONEST
Just keep mediating in the morning and at night. An hour is the best to aim for. Watch spiritual videos. Eventually you will get there.
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@@pointofnoreturn2600 Don’t be too hasty. I’ve seen NWA often offer support or advice to those in serious financial difficulties. I earnestly don’t think they are about the money. After 2 years of listening to Kurt etc it is acutely obvious they are trying to help people out of absolute agony. This drives people to very very dark places , myself included. They seem very busy and want to help as many people as possible. Do contact them please.
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I'm also forced spiritual awakening
It been years ago
1221 on the clock again baby
No matter how much I detach myself, he can't come back because he's in prison and I can only wait for his sentence to end, and that's just to be able to reach physical union together, I don't see how he could only come at the right time ,I don't see another way
So I am detached from my twin flame but why can I feel his energy here and there is that normal?
I’ve detached from him now he’s chasing me
How did you “detach”
Hilarious timing as usual buddy
Exactly ☺️ lol
By the time you stop asking the question “if they don’t come back?” it mean you successfully detached from them
I suspect my TF was never with me, thus can’t come back. We we friends or more accurately acquaintances, but she was simply not available. I got all the symptoms, energy coasting thru, obsessional thinking, dark night of the “ego” there’s no dark night of the soul. Ultimately a spiritual spark that’s difficult to put into words. She’s gone on had 2 kids, and lives with her man. She likely did want to be with me but I wasn’t up for the drama. Will we meet again ? Probably but not on a romantic level. Besides who really cares. We are never really separated. There is no WE.
I went in contact, I still feel him, sleepless nights bc I just feel his energy. Yet, less obsessive thinking… sure enough he left a card at my door to tell me he misses me and loves me. I find myself wanting to reach out to thank you yet I don't feel like I'm ready to communicate again. Bad things keep happening ( which I think are lessons) What am I doing wrong?
Wondering if the person I think is my tf is the one or not. I went through my dark night of soul on that persons birthday last year. Wondering if it was just a coincidence or was there a real reason for that. Still learning to completely disconnect from that person. It has gotten better over the past year, but in the beginning it was pure hell.
What if they DO come back even when though you are not detached 100%? Well my TF asked me to meet me after 1 year! Out of nowhere. I said yes and then he canceled the meeting because he forgot🤦🏻♀️ WTF.. I mean i am detached at least more than I was. But after he asked me out maybe I fell in attachment back? Because after he canceld i had a emotional break down 😅 he apologized but still I was so angry
Don't worry....use it to gage to balance your energy. Just means theres still some "expectation" ...but its ok. Means its working...just have some more balancing to do. Don't pay attention to the details in the 3D world.
@@francesb-p2441 thank you for your answer💗
So if you and your twin flame separated, you’re good with that? You wouldn’t care because you’re detached?
Kurt, can I ask what you did when your TF did come back ? Did you continue to not care if she was there or not ?
How do I detached from my false karmic partner? I can hear him through telepathy still & at the same time as my true twinflame. It's getting to be confusing it's like my karmic person is trying to break up my real twinflame relationship. I need help
I stopped thinking about my twin idk why but I haven’t thought of mines in a week period enjoying myself going where I want and next thing I was going to work one morning and I was going to my car 6 in morning and there he was ….. he lived in a different county from me and I felt him all morning worrying about me and he came following me to work lol now idk how I did that to do it again