Things To Know About Unequally Yoked Relationships

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  • @GodlyDating101
    @GodlyDating101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

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    What are some things I’ve missed that you can add below?

    • @Mond116
      @Mond116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some scriptures you were coming from and Paraphrasing: Proverbs 3:5-6, Jeremiah 17:9, Jeremiah 29:11 and um certain you know those and can think of even more. That was just some of the top of my head.

    • @wiser0185
      @wiser0185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So how bout if u dating/courting someone that is not a Christian but willing be come a Christian and is not encouraging u to move away from being closer to God as a Christian??

  • @kraxykam7242
    @kraxykam7242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because it was an unequally yoked relationship. I love God more than I do him and I want to break my family's generational curse of being married or having anything with unsaved men. It's honestly hard, there was nothing wrong with him. I still love him very much but my determination to get closer to God and find out more and learn from him keeps me motivated. Please pray for me, I'm still going through the heartbreak of the breakup

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      So godly proud of your courage! God will strengthen you!

    • @agdollsnikki
      @agdollsnikki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      im going through this right now, struggling to cut that final tie now :(

    • @luvitaq8284
      @luvitaq8284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I def can relate.. it will get better ❤️‍🩹

    • @InThisSeasonOfFaith
      @InThisSeasonOfFaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So proud of you and God will bless you and also send you a man you are equally yoked with. Just fall in love with him

    • @InThisSeasonOfFaith
      @InThisSeasonOfFaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Nic ill be praying for you.

  • @alexnoussi1146
    @alexnoussi1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    About unequally yoked relationships, it's very dangerous, it will absorb you and lead you astray from your life plans.
    And you'll end up losing almost a year of your life before realizing.
    It's better to not be involved into such relationships.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A year? Some people lose decades

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But think about maybe they didnt lose at all, because through us they might be saved even years down the road they remember our witness.

  • @7dovesministries799
    @7dovesministries799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Story time : There was a young man I was crazy about. Well one day I went home and my mother was in prayer and the Lord told her to tell me to leave him alone with a strong urgency. Long story short I didn't listen. 🤡. Not only was he barley Luke warm , he didn't want marriage , I myself did not see him as marriage material. So we're fornicating and wasting each other's time , he had anger issues. This relationship cause a major incubus spirit to attach to me and I had to get deliverance from that as well as a soul tie. I can not stress enough how you should NOT date someone unequally yoked.🔥 Pro Tip : stop following secular relationship advice pages or people also.

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessss thanks for sharing this! Following secular relationship advice is canceled the rest of 2022 and from now on! 🔥

    • @AzzBakes
      @AzzBakes ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you sharing ❤️

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Barely luke warm? Soul ties? Icubus spirit? Ok, What if God sent you into that persons life to bring them to Christ? Sometimes the real evil spirits are not where they seem.

    • @lisabyl3240
      @lisabyl3240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mother's usually knows Best because they are looking out for your Best interest. I'm glad you learned from the experience.

    • @nathleelaroda6107
      @nathleelaroda6107 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dropped my 3 year relationship being unequally yoked last week. I had given my life to Christ 5 months ago. Got delivered from fornication and the spirit of lust. The person I was with was a pretty decent person but we didn’t align spiritually. And for the life of him he can not understand why I left but I can’t give him anymore closure other than God told me to move and I did. I feel so freeeeeee. This is true liberation in Christ. I pray for him all the time and I pray he finds Christ and a wife and love her like Christ loves the church.

  • @jbaziel
    @jbaziel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    It's like alot of people are okay with being lukewarm and it's the biggest trap of them all. 🙏🏾

  • @allisonbartlett6163
    @allisonbartlett6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    From my own experience there is a danger in dating in isolation and not letting community in to speak truth and ask the hard questions.

    • @saragonzalez2695
      @saragonzalez2695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG YES!

    • @LouisaWatt
      @LouisaWatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Definitely in the early stages we need unbiased advice

    • @leslyayala2760
      @leslyayala2760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!!!

    • @SimplyMimiNitreese
      @SimplyMimiNitreese ปีที่แล้ว

      I definitely understand this, it means either you or that person wants the relationship to be kept secret and no one is informed most times it’s because you don’t want anyone in your business and you don’t want anyone to give you correction or constructive criticism. I notice as a woman we are good for this in particular…
      It is very important if we are dating someone we don’t be ashamed to bring them around our loved ones because most times our loved ones can pin point things we choose to ignore or can’t see and we need guidance and direction…

    • @InspirationalMecca
      @InspirationalMecca 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes!!!

  • @Dastorytellersdaught
    @Dastorytellersdaught 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Christian red flags 🚩 ! Unequally yoked will backfire every time. I spent years (I’m 44 now so 30 years to be exact) being unequally yoked. Laying down with someone, making soul ties and being absolutely devastated when it failed. I was saved and loved the Lord, but no one could tell! I was so concerned with being popular and accepted. Glad I know now, some 30 years later, that we are “a peculiar people“! When we are not really living to get closer to God we ignore all the red flags. And you nailed it dead with saying we make excuses such as ,”oh he has such a good heart”, but he’s getting drunk every night and def not leading you closer to God! That’s what I want now, someone to lead me closer to God. After all, that’s who I’m living for now🙏🏼 PS, don’t you DARE QUIT THIS MINISTRY! The truth draws haters but it still needs to be spoken💯

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      God bless you!

    • @lavenderflowers1075
      @lavenderflowers1075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And remember NONE of us have a good heart apart from the Holy Spirit. "All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God."

  • @deniseallen8331
    @deniseallen8331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Please help me continue to pray for my daughter who has a boyfriend that isn’t saved and I feel like he’s pulling her down

    • @stephyearwood
      @stephyearwood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate, prayers

    • @devankurmitra4118
      @devankurmitra4118 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That boy will be dodging a bullet from marrying into such a 🤡 family,that can't separate beliefs vs character

  • @joyvinson-roy2187
    @joyvinson-roy2187 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve been unevenly yoked in marriage and didn’t know I was when I got married. He was doing all the right things that attracted me to him looking for a Christian. It has caused me 3 decades of struggle and stress that affected my health nearly costing my life and my walk with God. It still is. It has hurt all my relationships and caused me to become someone I never wanted to be. I still don’t understand how this could have happened other than I was not walking with God when I met my husband and he was it seemed. I don’t know if I will ever fully heal. I wish that I knew this back when I was a young Christian attempting to turn away from sin and that I had a family support system.

  • @LoveAcrossAmerica
    @LoveAcrossAmerica ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This hit me hard. I am in an unequally yoked relationship and everything you have said is so true. I pray I have to strength to discontinue the relationship for good. Thank you and God bless.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Either that, or you need to read the commands of God to wives. Then let that guide your search for a mate understanding that God commands you to submit to your husband in all things! So.... Therefore do not settle for a man unless your willing to submit to him in all things! This is the key. This is wisdom.

    • @Moon_lulu
      @Moon_lulu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can with God's strength sis! At the end of the day, people come and go. But Jesus comes and stays. ❤ I know romantic relationships wont fulfill me. Jesus is! He is my great satisfactor.

  • @LuhRen
    @LuhRen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    27 no kids, still single and I'm happy this way, super lonely but still happy and at peace I refuse to give up in what I believe in and what I'm looking for. Tbh I don't think I'll ever find marriage because of the way these men acting nowadays but that's fine I got Jesus and that's all I need frfr. He got me better than any person could

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You cannot be lonely when you have the Holy Spirit

  • @sinegugucele4878
    @sinegugucele4878 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2 years later and this is still a word. It popped on my feed and I immediately watched it.

  • @ShamekaBeaugard
    @ShamekaBeaugard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Yes! He said “it’s more important to have God, than a spouse!” We have to spiritually get to the point where God is enough. He will add everything that we need. If a spouse will further our purpose, He will bring them to us ❤️
    Your page is a blessing!

  • @Vavavoum-gr8
    @Vavavoum-gr8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Do not throw your Pearls before swines, lest they rend it into pieces then turn around and tear you apart.
    This scripture the Holy Spirt gave me when I ended an unequally yoked dating situation.

    • @MissBexxx
      @MissBexxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙌

    • @jeffnbarbiemiller
      @jeffnbarbiemiller 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And they will and do....... praying for all God's children who are walking in this world. it's not easy but through prayer and Jesus it's possible and his strength will carry you.

  • @kraxykam7242
    @kraxykam7242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I was fasting and asked God for a sign to remove anything from my life that's not for me and his will, and I was concerned about my unequally yoked relationship and he showed me your two videos "How to know if God may not want you dating them " and "7 signs your relationship is replacing God" and the conviction was heartbreaking but I knew I had to end things with him, it's still hard because I feel sad that he's no longer in my life but I'm willing to let go of anything for God

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you’re still standing strong on the word of God! I cut the ex off I was with less than a week ago because peace completely left me and my self esteem reduced so much, to where I was afraid to speak out and be myself and being in sin not only with him but with others.
      God shows me when I grieve him, how much of an idol this guy was in my life. (He had good and bad qualities even for unbelievers) but ultimately the lesson from dating him I need to put God in his rightful place and stop sacrificing my sanity, my peace for someone I “like”.

  • @kcaptures1017
    @kcaptures1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    my ex and i called it off after 8 years and three kids later (never married) I was raised in the church but been lukewarm ..and now got a lot of damage from my past relationship I pleased him instead of God. its very depressing and empty to be where you was never supposed to be, I'm trying to recover and heal now. but please don't think for one second God gonna bless something he not in.............RUN AFTER GOD HEART !

  • @ldr792
    @ldr792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Unequally yoked relationships are not worth it. Get out as early as you can...speaking from experience. I want someone who will push me closer to Christ and likewise.

    • @lavenderflowers1075
      @lavenderflowers1075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. Me too. Glad to see that I'm not the only one.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. Some people long for such a one, but instead they were unaware or jumped early and now they have marriages and even children, and are unequally yokedand they do not have one they can share the biggest part of them with. Then divisions and contentions arise. Its a hard way to live very hard and suffering is what some would equate it too.

  • @keletsothoahlaka9795
    @keletsothoahlaka9795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Please speak of unequally yoked friendships

  • @MarissaLenea
    @MarissaLenea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Amen!! We have to be careful to not be led by our feelings!! Trusting God can mean that we will have to wait longer and it may look weird or crazy to others but we have to be led by God and not our feelings!
    A Godly relationship should draw you closer to Him, challenge you to be more like Him, not the opposite. God is Holy, set apart, we oughta be also and the person we choose to be with should be also! How can two walk together if they don't agree!! (Amos 3:3)

  • @melissajdelacruz
    @melissajdelacruz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Wow, this came right on time! My children's father wants us to hangout and do stuff as a family, I left him previously and gave my life to Christ, he is now studying the bible, but he is not a disciple yet, and until he becomes one I don't feel comfortable doing stuff together. Yes we have kids together, but we are not together, a real family is a husband, wife, and their children. God willing, maybe we can be a real family one day, but until then I want to make sure I am obeying God and being a good example of what a true disciple is. Please pray for us! I've always wanted my kids to be raised in a household with both of their parents.

    • @kika0803
      @kika0803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would love to talk with you about your situation as I have really similar, have muslim fiance 2 kids,but become christian and I dont wanna marry him as we unequally yoked

    • @truthisbetterthenanylie183
      @truthisbetterthenanylie183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm in the same situation but I had to be straight forward to the Father of my baby that we can live under the same roof but we can't be in a sexual relationship. By the mercy of God he agreed to it 🙏 Now I left everything in God's hands if it's meant to be then God must save him and we can marry if not then it is well with my soul. Best of luck with you God bless Jesus loves you 🙏

    • @melissajdelacruz
      @melissajdelacruz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@truthisbetterthenanylie183 I don't think both of you under the same roof is wise sis. If you are part of a church, you should speak to members in your church about your situation. Seek Godly counsel. I will pray for you sis. 🙏🏽

    • @truthisbetterthenanylie183
      @truthisbetterthenanylie183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@melissajdelacruz Thank you dear for your prayers but the situation I'm in it's not easy I moved from a different state with him we bought a home together, I'm not on good terms with my family either don't know anyone here yet and resources are not enough to provide for my baby and me. I don't have a car to drive around. Life is so complicated and the baby father is the one that takes care of all the financial needs. I think God understands everyone's situation. He gave me so much encouragement and strength to make a decision not to marry anyone other then a Christian man so if he can give me grace on that he knows what else needs to be done in my life according to his will. Continue to pray for my situation 🙏

    • @melissajdelacruz
      @melissajdelacruz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@truthisbetterthenanylie183 Yes, I totally agree, I know its hard. I went through the same thing. I didn't want to move, I thought how could I make it on my own with two babies. But let me tell you, God made it all possible. I never thought I could live on my own, paying rent alone while raising my two babies, but here I am, doing all of that and more. I'm even back in school earning an extra degree. Don't look at your circumstances, God is a miracle worker.
      It's important to have a community of people who love Christ and seek to do his will. So if you are not part of a church, look for a bible based one, it will help. I can help you find one if you'd like. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙💙

  • @MichaellaSapphire
    @MichaellaSapphire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Everything you said is true. I was in an unequally yoked relationship for 10 years, and engaged for 3 years - not with a non Christian but with someone who is in the same denomination as I am. I was always disheartened when he refused to worship with me or even pray or study the Bible with me through the phone (we were mostly in a LDR), he always said he's busy or he's going to hang out with his friends after work and so forth. Over the years, especially this year, I was really involved with church, and like you said, having a partner who TOLERATES my involvement in church is not the same with having a partner who SUPPORTS me in ministry. I often felt alone. With every subtle or not so subtle rejection of invitation, my heart was hardened against him. It didn't help that over the years, he had become more brash with his words, our arguments become sharper and he often hurt me to tears with his words. God was so patient with me and He let me see the fruits of the relationship. I ended things a week ago. When I told him I was leaving, he hit me with "Oh so this is how Christians act? You know I'm weak spiritually, and you're just going to leave me like that? I'd rather be an atheist, if that's the case!" And that sealed the deal for me. I'm thankful for His mercies, but I feel very weak at the moment. We were supposed to get married February 2022. 😢I know it's for the best, because I see how an unequally yoked marriage can create a division and heartaches in a family - my mother and father are not equally yoked. But it hurts so bad.

    • @Beaut1fulC
      @Beaut1fulC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You made the right decision...keep giving your heart to God and allow Him to heal and He surely will

    • @jenniferrivera8627
      @jenniferrivera8627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God will reassure u that u did the right thing. Hurt doesn't last for ever joy comes in the morning. May the Lord continue to give you the strength

    • @nataliadelaparra5720
      @nataliadelaparra5720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is with you! Just know the Lord has the perfect plans for you and the right man for you. You just have to obey and keep in faith with the Lord.

    • @cruzwithrachel
      @cruzwithrachel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing this! I was in a relationship for 9 months with someone who wasn’t as strong spiritually. It was so hard because I felt like I could never worship freely next to him, and often times he’d leave and go use the bathroom during worship or just sit down on his phone. He only went to church because I asked him to, and didn’t initiate studying the word together. I completely agree with you on the different between someone who tolerates versus supports. Hope you’re doing well now! God bless

    • @calvinkt6266
      @calvinkt6266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sister i am facing the same issue right now! Its so difficult to leave her, its like i am searching for one thing that ties her to God that will give me hope at the moment i know she is not pursuing God with me but its still so difficult

  • @AG-hl1ni
    @AG-hl1ni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Recognized this and had to leave her. I wish her only the best.

  • @crabbyluciei6sebastian
    @crabbyluciei6sebastian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’m 61 and a widow. It’s just as difficult at my age to date. Your advice helped confirm my belief that no matter your age, Gods principle for dating are timeless and apply no matter what age you are and where you are in life. Thank you for preaching and sharing the Truth of Gods Word. He is faithful!

  • @keokpala8562
    @keokpala8562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    To be honest finding these kinds of friends and people is rare unless they are in ministry 🤷‍♀️or really strong in their religious and spiritual beliefs and refuse to compromise with those with opposing beliefs.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who can find a virtuous woman her price is far above rubies.

    • @nathleelaroda6107
      @nathleelaroda6107 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Trust me, PRAY for it. God will send one. But you have to do your part too.

  • @travelchannel304
    @travelchannel304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy Spirit will warn you yet without being loud & sometimes no words.

  • @NthatengMathateng
    @NthatengMathateng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was actually looking for this.
    My partner of 3yrs left me about 6-7 days ago. She didn't want anything to do with GOD; absolutely nothing.
    In 2020 I had a dream. The HOLY SPIRIT entered my uncle and he said to me "GOD will send you the woman you are supposed to marry".
    I'm still holding on to that dream even today.

  • @leahforrest9155
    @leahforrest9155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Like you said about people looking at us for our actions more than our words. A person can claim to be a Christian but if actions don't show " a new creation" keep on moving.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว

      What actions do you think those would be? What would that look like to you?

    • @fruitypebblez4309
      @fruitypebblez4309 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not chasing after wordly women and being promiscuous

  • @lavenderflowers1075
    @lavenderflowers1075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm glad you're talking about this. Still waiting for the 'one'. And I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one.
    Much love from Kenya.

  • @briellesmith3053
    @briellesmith3053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This was soooo good! Took some great notes for those hard days when I miss him!
    Can you please talk more about relationships that are between two Christians but are still unequally yoked? Like what if one person is pursuing God wholeheartedly and making sacrifices to become closer to Him (obviously not perfectly), but the other person is bitter towards God and continually fails to follow through when they promise they are going to get back to church, find accountability, etc? Thank you Tovares!!!

  • @magobamaureen8172
    @magobamaureen8172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You and your wife have support from here .. Don't stop doing the work that God has called you to do.. changing lives for His glory 🇺🇬

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of my “friends” that no longer in friends anymore, shes in in a relationship that is good dude but he doesn’t have a passion for Jesus, I’m not trying to judge him but just by seeing him in church not putting his hands up I can tell how he worships he doesn’t have relationship with God, and she wanted to break up with him but she’s in love with him and afraid she won’t find a better person like that and I think about how when we jump out of of god timing, they will consequence in your decision because for settleing something good instead of Gods best when honestly good person you date will lead you so far from Gods purpose, it’s worth waiting for godly men if your waiting for long time is because God has somebody very special for you and you will be blessed because your obedience

    • @coralieonguele3640
      @coralieonguele3640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its not because you don't raise your hands in worship , that you are lukewarm or you don't have a passion , God doesn't look at your physical posture when your worship but your heart posture , he said he is looking for worshipper in Spirit & in truth ... God is not move because you raised your hands during worship....

    • @melissacalderon1515
      @melissacalderon1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@coralieonguele3640 its not only how they didn't worship, its there lifestyle and how they live there life it doesn't align in the things of God

  • @oliverbelfort9221
    @oliverbelfort9221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve never been in an unequally yoked romantic relationship but I have had crushes on plenty of unbelieving woman. One of the reasons why is because the majority of women at my schools are unbelievers and there aren’t many options at my church or the Christian groups I’m apart of. Although I don’t want to date a non-Christian girl, I also don’t want to view all my sisters in Christ simply as potential dating/marriage partners and try to hit on all of them😭. I personally as a man am trying to grow out my comfort zone and become more comfortable socializing with women, and it’s not like I can just avoid non-Christian girls. I’m just confused and don’t know what to do. Ultimately I pray to God for a Christian spouse, but it’s hard out here. Offer some advice if you can please.

  • @ariellecalderon8518
    @ariellecalderon8518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Avoid them at all costs! Take it from someone who has learned the hard way. Nothing is worth your closeness with God!

  • @kasubakapambwe5621
    @kasubakapambwe5621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very insightful. I messed up in a previous relationship and as much as I beat up myself that I was the negative influence for my partner which caused her to leave, I guess it was God’s way of gaining my attention towards pursuing him. Still dealing with the heartbreak and mess up here and there 💔 but we trust in God’s unique timing 🙏🏾.

  • @sabri_yah
    @sabri_yah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was a needed a word for me. I feel like I’ve tried to make a relationship work with some one who says they love God but just tolerates God at the same time and doesn’t mind disrespecting God. What you said is so true I know better. But didn’t really realize some things. When I should’ve just did what God was telling me by using others to tell me and that was to not entertain a true unbeliever.
    All I gotta say is never NEVER again.
    It’s like we would be good then it literally feels like God would allow bad things to happen between me and him.I said in my mind well maybe it could work but I began to notice how things are just getting worse. We would argue and disagree more and more and it just seems to be more frequent in almost the same ways.This relationship is not building me In Christ I feel slightly distracted. This video really confirms it for me. It’s encouraging at the same time.
    Gotta have faith and obedience (talking to myself)

  • @faithmonnakgotla5364
    @faithmonnakgotla5364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this sooooo much and I believe God lead me to this because I've been wrestling with my feelings to let go of someone who is not saved and who did not quite care about my purity. This is helping me release him all the more. Thank you for this, above all, O thank God

    • @belovedfattyprisca.christj8565
      @belovedfattyprisca.christj8565 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am in the same situation but I am let go , because of I can't forget what Jesus Christ has done for me , indeed no one can again do it for me if I forsake Jesus Christ 🙏

  • @chandravinning1933
    @chandravinning1933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Praise God for Godly content referring to purity in courtship for marriage. May our Lord and Saviour continue to use you and your wife to teach us. You both have truly helped me.

  • @blahjdjdkndbc
    @blahjdjdkndbc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hmmm Holy Spirit telling me I been texting this unsaved guy too long lol. This video giving me a righteous whipping

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As long as you listening to Him tell you to stop lol

  • @holliedrake1200
    @holliedrake1200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When my husband & I married we were both believers But Not following. I was called back to the Lord & my husband is still drinking, smoking pot and cigarettes. I do not want my 12 year old thinking I am ok with or condone that way of thinking or lifestyle. Raise them up in the way they should go & they will go. I think divorce is the answer to our differences of choices, because I Won't give up the Lord & he won't give up serving his flesh. Any advice on this type of situation??

    • @mu6014
      @mu6014 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only biblical grounds for divorce

  • @travelchannel304
    @travelchannel304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he's not doing it right when you meet him, he has not intentions to. Do bring up a child around that. It will bring out your worst even when your trying to do The Right Thing!! Yes yes!! Even if they were raised in the church!!

  • @alexeialeksandr7606
    @alexeialeksandr7606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God led me to this video and it was like a lightbulb came on. Thank you for your ministry💖

  • @macarari
    @macarari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just bumped into your chanel out of the blue. I know because God is guiding me that in the next 2 years I will be married, I am NOT talking or seeing anyone BUTTTTTTTTTT you are one of those people that G'd is putting on my path just to teach and train me. I get chills!! I know that I will be married soon and I know that is a big responsibility, I KNOW that my marriage is for the kingdom of G'd, I know that is getting real by the minute. Baruch Hashem

  • @tiffanybryant4504
    @tiffanybryant4504 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was really on point. God used you to clear up some things for me.I had just gone on lunch break, and i prayed, ok, Holy Spirit, what do you want me to do on my break while I eat. I feel like the Holy Spirit led me to this video because He knows I needed answers about a relationship I am currently seeking him about. God is so good he comes through on time, every time.

  • @Tia-320
    @Tia-320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is a fact that there is not enough man in the church ..... what do u suggest then?

  • @emiliehamou5170
    @emiliehamou5170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥 Lord Jesus please change the condition of my heart.

  • @micahmariamedia40
    @micahmariamedia40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please do a video on the modern day results of Abhraham & Sarah’s mistake 🙏🏽 I was really interested and curious about what you were gonna say on that part!

  • @lettitiajoya
    @lettitiajoya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re teaching good brother!!🔥🔥🔥. This is knowledge and wisdom I needed to hear over 25 years ago. Everything you’re saying I’ve experienced/seen. 🤦🏾‍♀️(sigh). I pray that hearts and minds are open to receive what you’re teaching because it’s Truth. Matthew 11:15

  • @lisabyl3240
    @lisabyl3240 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is Excellent and absolutely 100% Truth!! After being in a few unequally yoked relationships in recent years I am now happily single and thankful to God for delivering me out of them and helping me break away and xut the soul ties. It was all wrong and a waste of my time but a learning experience nonetheless. Jeaus ks my husband and He is the Best❤ lover of my soul.😊

  • @burdrchitect1680
    @burdrchitect1680 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad I found this video. I needed to hear this.

  • @thek4lqueen
    @thek4lqueen ปีที่แล้ว

    God took me out of an unequally yoked relationship because it was damaging me spiritually and hindering my assignment in Christ

  • @TheKings-knight
    @TheKings-knight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your ministry keeps me afloat. May God continue blessing you, your wife, your children and your ministry.

  • @aquariuslucero3019
    @aquariuslucero3019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @GodlyDating101 can you please read the Holy Bible sense you read so well and have a great clear voice very easy to follow.🙏👑🕊️ Please and thank you.

  • @reemshaleem
    @reemshaleem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please don’t quit preaching the truth! The topics are so key and this video was just what I needed to hear in this moment. Thank you for providing this understanding.

  • @samanthiaavontuur6991
    @samanthiaavontuur6991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man, this video has blessed me so much!! So much wisdom !! Thank you my Brother!! Keep yielding to The Godhead in being a blessing to the Body of Christ

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen you better preach it's the truth anymore who don't want hear this don't desire to live holy. God has plainly stated about us as being believer's not be unequally yoked but when disobey God word it's major consequences. God knows our desires and devil bring you something that's pleasing to the flesh not saying temptation's not going come to us because devil always looking to see who he can destroy but we must, resist the devil because if we give into him he definitely have you in strong hold. Nothing worth suffering the consequences for being disobedience. Thanks for this encouraging message keep doing the work for the Lord May God bless you and your family.

  • @jenniferrivera8627
    @jenniferrivera8627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did this knowing well God had been telling me for yrs to let go. I keep falling back into my old ways allowing this person to step back in. Even if just for a moment I know it sets me back with God. Soul ties are real and so hard to break. But I know I'm getting stronger and the Lord will continue to strengthen me.

  • @themindofchrissy
    @themindofchrissy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep Going keep stomping on that devil's head!!! The attacks will come but guess what? They won't prosper!!! God bless you and your wife! Thanks for the video

  • @Sonofgod384
    @Sonofgod384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lord guid me

  • @nataliadelaparra5720
    @nataliadelaparra5720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has opened my eyes and answered my questions and prayers!! The Lord is GOOD🙏🏻

  • @toni-annduffus6571
    @toni-annduffus6571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Keep on doing these videos! Let no one stop you! Praying for your strength! I'm a new subscriber 😄 Blessings to you and yours! 🙃

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you! Welcome to the family sis ❤️

    • @toni-annduffus6571
      @toni-annduffus6571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GodlyDating101 Thank you! 🙃

  • @MS-ld3jn
    @MS-ld3jn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Tobias for giving this talk, the way you put things into perspective. When you brought up the thing about adopting practices of people around us, it makes me wonder how this topic can be expanded to our management of friendships. I have some good friends of mine, nice guys btw (though not saved), that speak/joke about things that are pretty perverted and inappropriate that make me wonder if I should cut them off. Any thoughts?

  • @Yahschosen
    @Yahschosen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. I'm learning so much and my goal is to be righteous. I'm using what I learn to get closer to God and live the life he wants me to live.

  • @sheysounds9398
    @sheysounds9398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo! You’re so funny. You said back in the day, all I cared about in a woman is if she’s thick and went to Church once in awhile. But I appreciate your honesty. Good episode.

  • @platinumbranch2056
    @platinumbranch2056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is some good teaching, Brother! Thanks for persevering to get this word out to the Body of Christ. And, thanks to your lovely wife for supporting this very important mission. May God bless you both! 🙌🏽❤🙌🏽

  • @Kemi116
    @Kemi116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing!! Truly needed this right now. Thank you my brother 🙏🏽❤️

  • @inetbutterfly
    @inetbutterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do the video on how not everything in church is ministry
    Thanks for this video. You're spitting pure facts.

  • @___.s.lail.3393
    @___.s.lail.3393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have support here, too! Don’t give up ❤️

  • @theempoweredlife4415
    @theempoweredlife4415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This word was so timely I had to share it with my sisters 👏🏽

  • @Pdenise64
    @Pdenise64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Video....This also applies to non romantic relationships, but close friendships .

  • @pinkrose7940
    @pinkrose7940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad you did not quit! Be bless bro and may God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @cassieratcliffe2995
    @cassieratcliffe2995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got married 14 years ago, both of us living without christ, few years into my marriage after having my first child I got baptised and gave my life to Jesus. Although my journey and relationship with jesus has only just started! 🙌 For real 🙌
    But my husband isn't a believer, I bring our 3 children up knowing the father and his word, but there's so much conflict in our house,
    And I really don't actually like my husband anymore, he's so worldly, part of me wants to trust in our God he will make a way if its his will, but part of me wishes to get out of here, I feel so trapped, and because of the way I feel about him and the conflict it actually causes me to sin as I think the worst of him! ☠️
    Any advice would be much appreciated.. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @justmeand62
      @justmeand62 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here😏

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว

      Read in corinthians, says you may can win your husband over without saying a word, by him seeing you holy behavior and obedience to God, and God commands you to submit to your husband in all things. Pray also and look up all the verses in corinthians about commands to wives from God, just worry about doing your part and you obeying God, it says you could win him over to God by doing these things.

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so timely! I needed to hear this today. Thank you for sharing, be encouraged sir and God bless you🙏🏾

  • @acole9125
    @acole9125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I tried to explain this to my children’s father and he said there is no such thing in the Bible and I read it to him and he still is saying that’s not true. I told him I want to end the relationship and he cursed me out and said I’m judgmental and it’s always about that the Bible says. He says he doesn’t need to read the Bible to have a relationship with god and he’s not following me. I don’t want him to follow me but I want a godly relationship. When I got baptized I no longer wanted to have sex until we are married and he said I can’t change after doing it for almost twenty years it doesn’t work like that. I will wake up and he’s having sex with me without my consent. I’ve asked him to leave and he won’t. I feel stuck.

  • @K.T.02
    @K.T.02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand what you’re saying but we all sin and fall short everyday at some point does that make it right no but you can tell who’s actually trying and who’s not. Paul said you can save your spouse if they are willing if it feels like there no point obviously leave but if they are willing to make a change shouldn’t we just be still and let god work?

  • @EWA765
    @EWA765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi 👋 I am at highschool now and I like a boy at my school. But there was a day i looked at him and his face was dark and he looked angry like I was disturbing him with my sight.

  • @toriivii_legiterally8209
    @toriivii_legiterally8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS WAS ALL FACTS! Like you pulled my card on my last relationship HARD😫‼️

  • @hopechikafya4308
    @hopechikafya4308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the truth💯🙌🏽

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People are so strange today. Pot is legal which make some people act out, pus rudeness and selfishness is displayed from all kinds of people. Plus their culture past experiences and current desires. What you need to look at is how they were raised and parental influence. A lot of people change all the time but it is vital to see if truly committed to the union. What religion or church do you go too?

  • @ashleysharingthegoodnews
    @ashleysharingthegoodnews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video! 🙏🏽 I’ve been thinking about how many bad decisions I’ve made with picking relationships but now that I’ve been in the word of God I’ve realized my error and am working to improve in this area going forward. Looking forward to the next video/podcast!

  • @klhklh648
    @klhklh648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes it's the church over working you 🤔, please do a video on this

  • @carohndz6059
    @carohndz6059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This message is so good! Praise the Lord 🙏🏼

  • @lilianthuo8446
    @lilianthuo8446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh! You just slapped me back to reality.

  • @Kyoung83
    @Kyoung83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was great man keep up the good work

  • @elizabethperez-lv2ep
    @elizabethperez-lv2ep ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ex-husband and I got divorced in 2006 got back together in 2011. I gave my life to the Lord in 2018. We plan to be married tomorrow but he is not saved yet

  • @meyahalexis2568
    @meyahalexis2568 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. New subscriber

  • @luvnmesomme81
    @luvnmesomme81 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello. I again just want to say how much I commend you and I thank God for you and Safa on this channel and the transparency that you bring. The Holy Spirit brought to me John 7:7, 15:18, when you were saying how frustrated you became and how you wanted to give up at times because of the hate people displayed because you’re doing work for God and helping people. They felt the same about Jesus! Don’t give up or in because this has helped me so much!! God bless your family and all that you do!!!🙏🏽🙌🏾✝️💜

  • @runfast2457
    @runfast2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate this video. Thank you so much and please keep it up!

  • @katlegomolokoe4437
    @katlegomolokoe4437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true.

  • @hollandfilippini571
    @hollandfilippini571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. 9:00 is so powerful. Never heard it like that. Amazing video, thank you for the encouragment.

  • @20n30somethings
    @20n30somethings 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with some of the points you mention. My thing is, In most of the examples, You sight “people will see” I think everything done should be to honor God. People will always have opinions.. sometimes our actions as believers can drive potential saved people off .. we should do things pleasing to honor God and not care about what others will say .. or judge yes because as you said they don’t know our hearts
    Still great points

  • @Mond116
    @Mond116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You speaking TRUTH doc!!! My hats off to ya!!! This page has been an encouragement to me because before finding GodlyDating101, I was the only voice I knew of in my area of operation as a young adult that speaks the same thing. Other folks just don't wanna talk about it.

  • @mamashoni
    @mamashoni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Knowledge dropped once again! Thanks fam! ❤

  • @_Natalia24
    @_Natalia24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know how extra donkeys are🤣🇯🇲
    Great video!! Love how u get straight to the point without trying to make it look cute because the results of unequally yoked relationships are not cute out here 😢
    I learnt alot today!!
    God bless you,Safa, your union and this wonderful ministry.💗🙏🏿

  • @zekediligence
    @zekediligence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! "Never make an excuse for someone who is not helping you spiritually" 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    Spiritual maturity? Nah. "Do you have six figures?🤑 We don't even care if they can pray for 6 mins👀😓
    Excellent video, great content bro. This video is required watching for all Christian singleton's with a desire to grow to the space of marriage.

  • @jessicajess9549
    @jessicajess9549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about unequally yoked marriage and he files for divorced but then tries to cancel the divorce but you go forward with it?

  • @InThisSeasonOfFaith
    @InThisSeasonOfFaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You preaching and teaching!

  • @micheleesquibel925
    @micheleesquibel925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good! Thank you. ✝️🙏

  • @Tiwas_room
    @Tiwas_room 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you for sharing

  • @derricksartistryshed5976
    @derricksartistryshed5976 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very good and helpful. Thank you brother!

  • @joyanderson8646
    @joyanderson8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about being unequally yoked emotionally, educationally, financially......🤔🤔😒?
    I've never heard pastors talk about that only saved or not saved, sexual.