There are so many positive traits of ADHD. It breaks my heart to only ever hear complaints and unsolicited advice on how to be normal. We won't ever be normal and nothing can change that. Thank you
What is normal anyway. We should be thankful for people who stand out a little to make life just a little more fun and interesting. Be glad you have a good heart that is te most important thing anyway.
Thank you for the sweet words and kindness. Most people would look down on us with ADHD/ADD/AUTISM/Autistic spectrum and just label us annoying and replaceable, childish, immature, etc. (like my ex did when i have the 2nd and 3rd ones I mentioned) him and all my ex friends including those that were red flags 🚩 all along but I was too naïve at the time to see those flags. Glad I am getting myself out of toxic friendships that cannot handle someone autistic and childish (yep directed at my ex friend from junior high)✌️👋🚩
This is so nice. I feel as though my brain never stops and it’s hard to accomplish anything. It’s so difficult having all these thoughts and ideas which never materialize because of executive function issues. It’s nice to know that those thoughts are appreciated though.
That's what this is all about, accepting one another, no judgements or hate, ADHD is not an excuse, it's your blueprint since birth, accept the fact that you stand out, you're unique, let go of trying to be normal, you are normal because you are you. ❤🌿
It is a disability still, and it's hard to manage or can be. Thank you for reminding me that there's more to it than just failing to take care of oneself
I have severe ADHD and I’m medicated, immediately made me cry… there is so much negativity around people like us. So many “fix yourself” mentalities. Not once have I been told someone likes my ADHD.❤️❤️
Awwww thx I for ADHD was bad and I was really sad I had it I didn’t feel like a normal person thank you for the great announcement is thank you because I have ADHD to
You have no idea how much this means to so many of us. Hearing the positives is usually a follow up to “yes you stink at adulting but hey at least you’re…” This is really nice.
I am honestly surprised by how little so many of you hear something positive about yourself 🥺 This shows how our society fails at acknowledging people’s strengths and potential💔 I am glad my videos can help so many❤️🥰
Aw thx for enjoying the roller-coaster conversation. My hubs calls them tangents. It's taken him yrs to catch on to how to roll with it. I used to get embarrassed by not "staying on topic" but every off shoot in the conversation really does pertain to the core conversation. It's beautiful coming across people without adhd that enjoy and appreciate the conversations they have with me.
THANK YOU !!!!!!!! Most people are sooo annoyed about exactly those traits you mentioned !!!!!! God, it good to know SOMEONE likes our ADHD passionate personalities !!!
I've been trying to fight against my adhd since 5th grade but after seeing this maybe I'll try to learn to accept it and stop acting against who I am on the inside appreciate it man
Thankyou so so much, when you have adhd you often develop low self esteem because it feels like everyone hates those very qualities that you just said you loved. So Thankyou for that. It feels good to hear this.
Yeah it’s because the _qualities_ make it harder to pay the bills. Can’t afford therapy but can’t get a second job because I’m stressed out with the one I have. A family isn’t even on the table anymore I just want an apartment and to not feel like a drain on society while overwhelming myself daily.
@@Thomas_Wintersas much as it pains me to admit this, in many cases it’s true, I’ve noticed that many homeless people or those who have fallen through the cracks of society are good hearted and empathic people with brilliant and creative minds but absolutely no discipline, self regulatory skills or executive function - textbook undiagnosed and unmanaged ADHDers with no support systems.
Thank you so much. I struggle to find things about myself that are positive. I’m fact I have been shamed so much for the very thing you are praising me for. Through teared up eyes, I thank you.
Thank you 🥹 I haven’t been diagnosed with ADHD yet but I relate a lot to the symptoms. It’s funny because the people closest to me often say similar things when they talk about me. They say I’m passionate, inspiring, curious, and intelligent. I might be messy, disorganized, and idealistic but I’m glad that there’s also lovely things, too. :)
Thank you for an ADHD person who doesn't get a lot of love from most of neurotypical people it warms m'y Heart. You're so kind thank you. Adhd peolple need a lot of love and compassion. I just can't with angry, feisty people who dont listen to anyone. I hate annoying people, dumb people so thank you. I drifted a bit there I just feel like I Can Say the truth to you
It’s a pleasure😁 yeah I am honestly surprised how starved you guys are from positivity and praise🤔 I can relate tho as I have dyslexia and dyscalculia myself 😌
There isn’t anything better than talking with someone who are passionate about something. Then there is them who want to stop us, we have to stop listening to them😤 keep shining your light mate❤️✨
This is so sweet! I always get so nervous and frustrated when speaking with neurotypical people because I’m like “why can’t I just have a normal conversation?”
I have ADHD it’s been really hard this really encouraged me and I just now am realizing that everytime im around people I make them happy cause I’m always happy! Except when I’m in math…
I know I'm late to the party but I just needed to say that this video means so much to me. I'm always worried that my ADHD is what causes people to not like me and this is the first time I've ever heard someone say they like me BECAUSE of my ADHD. I needed to hear this so badly. Pardon me while I cry in the corner rn
I'm in tears... You don't know how much I needed to hear this. All my life this trait has been a bother for so many people. In the end, I stopped trying to meet new people. Because I thought my conversation style was a problem
I’ve been struggling lately with my adhd, I’ve had a rough time with algebra and I get really self conscious aware of my impulsive decisions. I needed this, thank you ☺️ ❤
I have friends who have it and I think I might have it too. I've found using messaging systems with the reply feature to work really well. We'll end up having these huge non-linear conversations together.
Aww! As someone with ADHD this really lifted my spirits! Having ADHD can be rough socially sometimes. I'm glad that our internal chaos & passion can be fun for the people around us 💜
I often have people say they cant keep up with me. Sometimes its hard to take but overall, I love having that passion and energy. Thanks for the good vibes!
This made me cry... 😭 After a lifetime of being criticized for exactly these things, hearing someone say that they love us BECAUSE of them just absolutely broke me. Thank you. 🥺❤
Glad to hear 😊 keep being proud of yourself 😉 but it’s ok to feel down at times even necessary for growth, but its all about how long you want to stay in that mindset 😉 find your balance and keep shining✨😊
I've never heard it put like this. thank you my friend. I usually call it scatterbrained, but you give it such a positive outlook. I love you too brother!!
As someone with ADHD I alway thought talking for a really long time and about different things was annoying, and I (we) not even realize it; until someone says so, So hearing this really means a lot so thank you for brightening our & my day 😊
🙏 💓 🤗 Awww love you too. 🥳 So beautiful for ADHD to be recognised/acknowledged for its positives. I also find others with ADHD fascinating & inspirational. In actual fact those I connect with/have in the past have/had it too. Our brains work differently and the world needs variety. This is all. Much love. 🙌 🫂 ✊ 🧠 💌
So cool, I often feel like people think I'm crazy. My ex used to call me the tangent queen. Highly distractible is what it is I guess. Mind always on the wander....
Glad u liked it😊 in some situations it can be difficult and even seen as a negative trait to some, however in other settings it is beneficial 😉there are for sure a balance that one needs to find for oneself😉 I find you guys to be very inspiring when you are allowed to and Ofc allow yourself 😉 keep being yourself despite what others may think 😉✨
Thank u brother, This hit home I'm healing from self loathing, for feeling like an alien my whole life, like I do not belong on earth. Thank you brother
I tend to be a diagnostic tool for adhd, because people from completely different backgrounds will bond with me, get to know me, and then I explained that what we have in common are our awesome ADHD symptoms 😂
Wow,thanks man. I was just diagnosed,and I kinda felt like a failure? I was depressed about it,like there was something wrong with me. But you made me feel special and good. Thank you ❤
Just because we’re divergent doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. I’ve found having ADHD we see the world around us in such a complex unique way and it’s always Interesting what our minds can notice and come up with. Thankyou for appreciating our differences of seeing the world.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I’m 40 years old and just realizing I have ADHD. I’m an artist and always just considered myself a creative thinker… so many ADHD traits lead to low self esteem and lowered self confidence… thank you for this inspiring reminder for us all to feel loved and appreciated for who we are and both what AND how we contribute in wonderfully different ways ❤
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As someone with ADHD, this made me tear up. Thank you for your kind words, they meant so much to me! ❤️
Same! ❤
Same!🥹
Me to bro
As someone with ADHD, I was easily distracted and had to listen again to hear what he said
Agree, thanks. Those times I get hyped up talking about a subject and share too much I realize sometimes much later I regret it am embarrassed.
ADHDer here :-) Thank you so much for your wonderful love letter
There are so many positive traits of ADHD. It breaks my heart to only ever hear complaints and unsolicited advice on how to be normal. We won't ever be normal and nothing can change that. Thank you
What is normal anyway. We should be thankful for people who stand out a little to make life just a little more fun and interesting. Be glad you have a good heart that is te most important thing anyway.
I only have friends with ADHD we always have a great conversations ❤
That’s the trick for sure!👏👏
I’ve got ADHD and my family doesn’t like me talking so much and to hear this melts my heart ☺️
Same pokie same 😢
@@hi..thanksforcoming This was my entire childhood. It was the 80's though, so they didn't know. What can you do?
this made me cry. i always feel annoying for talking about things i love because i can never shut up. thank you:)
This made me get watery, thank you so much. So much a part of ADHD is this crushing low self esteem bc “why can’t I just be _blank_”
thank you
Is a pleasure! 🤗 sad to hear that actually 😔 so I am sending loads of hugs🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Thank you for the sweet words and kindness. Most people would look down on us with ADHD/ADD/AUTISM/Autistic spectrum and just label us annoying and replaceable, childish, immature, etc. (like my ex did when i have the 2nd and 3rd ones I mentioned) him and all my ex friends including those that were red flags 🚩 all along but I was too naïve at the time to see those flags. Glad I am getting myself out of toxic friendships that cannot handle someone autistic and childish (yep directed at my ex friend from junior high)✌️👋🚩
This is so nice. I feel as though my brain never stops and it’s hard to accomplish anything. It’s so difficult having all these thoughts and ideas which never materialize because of executive function issues. It’s nice to know that those thoughts are appreciated though.
That's what this is all about, accepting one another, no judgements or hate, ADHD is not an excuse, it's your blueprint since birth, accept the fact that you stand out, you're unique, let go of trying to be normal, you are normal because you are you. ❤🌿
It is a disability still, and it's hard to manage or can be. Thank you for reminding me that there's more to it than just failing to take care of oneself
This kinda made me tear up a bit. I'm always afraid people think I'm annoying.
This Guy made me feel good for having ADHD 😊
I have severe ADHD and I’m medicated, immediately made me cry… there is so much negativity around people like us. So many “fix yourself” mentalities. Not once have I been told someone likes my ADHD.❤️❤️
Awwww thx I for ADHD was bad and I was really sad I had it I didn’t feel like a normal person thank you for the great announcement is thank you because I have ADHD to
Sometimes, it's downright lovely to be Neuro Spicy. ADHD has some definite benefits! 😊
Thank you! 42 year old ADHD veteran woman salutes you.
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i was fully not sure what to expect with this but im so happy with this as someone with adhd traits. self esteme boost
This actually made me tear up ❤ Thankyou
Thank you. This felt like a hug.
You have no idea how much this means to so many of us. Hearing the positives is usually a follow up to “yes you stink at adulting but hey at least you’re…”
This is really nice.
I am honestly surprised by how little so many of you hear something positive about yourself 🥺 This shows how our society fails at acknowledging people’s strengths and potential💔 I am glad my videos can help so many❤️🥰
Thank you sometimes I have a hard time talking I have dyslexia as well
Thank you for this. It's hard to remember that there are people out there who love you for the way you are, even if you don't right now.
Such a great comment! Absolutely mate!🤗
Aw thx for enjoying the roller-coaster conversation. My hubs calls them tangents. It's taken him yrs to catch on to how to roll with it. I used to get embarrassed by not "staying on topic" but every off shoot in the conversation really does pertain to the core conversation.
It's beautiful coming across people without adhd that enjoy and appreciate the conversations they have with me.
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!
Most people are sooo annoyed about exactly those traits you mentioned !!!!!!
God, it good to know SOMEONE likes our ADHD passionate personalities !!!
We exist yes!🤗 be you and do you!😁👍
Thanks for the appreciation 💙❤️
🤗✨👍
I've been trying to fight against my adhd since 5th grade but after seeing this maybe I'll try to learn to accept it and stop acting against who I am on the inside appreciate it man
Please do. You people make life more interesting and give boring things a little spark. Just what the world needs.
Awww I always feel guilty about my jumping around conversation style. I LOVED this and it earned you a new sub, thank you for loving us weridos
Thankyou so so much, when you have adhd you often develop low self esteem because it feels like everyone hates those very qualities that you just said you loved. So Thankyou for that. It feels good to hear this.
Yea i have it its hard for people with it im still trying to fight it today
I like people with a personality❤ so dont let them put you down.
Yeah it’s because the _qualities_ make it harder to pay the bills. Can’t afford therapy but can’t get a second job because I’m stressed out with the one I have. A family isn’t even on the table anymore I just want an apartment and to not feel like a drain on society while overwhelming myself daily.
@@Thomas_Wintersas much as it pains me to admit this, in many cases it’s true, I’ve noticed that many homeless people or those who have fallen through the cracks of society are good hearted and empathic people with brilliant and creative minds but absolutely no discipline, self regulatory skills or executive function - textbook undiagnosed and unmanaged ADHDers with no support systems.
I have ADHD 😎🔥 and I don't see it as weakness 😅 I used it as my SUPERPOWER
Thank you so much. I struggle to find things about myself that are positive. I’m fact I have been shamed so much for the very thing you are praising me for. Through teared up eyes, I thank you.
All the things allllll at once!
YEP!!! ALWAYS - unless I'm asleep! 🙄
Thank you 🥹
I haven’t been diagnosed with ADHD yet but I relate a lot to the symptoms. It’s funny because the people closest to me often say similar things when they talk about me. They say I’m passionate, inspiring, curious, and intelligent. I might be messy, disorganized, and idealistic but I’m glad that there’s also lovely things, too. :)
Sounds like fantastic people to have in your life ☺️👏 keep being you!🤗👍
I am crying here.
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Thank you for an ADHD person who doesn't get a lot of love from most of neurotypical people it warms m'y Heart. You're so kind thank you. Adhd peolple need a lot of love and compassion. I just can't with angry, feisty people who dont listen to anyone. I hate annoying people, dumb people so thank you. I drifted a bit there I just feel like I Can Say the truth to you
It’s a pleasure😁 yeah I am honestly surprised how starved you guys are from positivity and praise🤔
I can relate tho as I have dyslexia and dyscalculia myself 😌
The best conversations are my semi regular mind melds with my other nd friends
Thank you for this ❤ it's really nice to hear.
🥰🤗
Thank you. Sometimes it is hard because I have so many things I dislike about myself
Glad I could spark some self love in you🤗 keep it up you are doing good!❤️
this made me feel warm inside
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thanks for appreciating how we can't help but talk about what we love, I got bullied in high school for it ❤
There isn’t anything better than talking with someone who are passionate about something. Then there is them who want to stop us, we have to stop listening to them😤 keep shining your light mate❤️✨
@@madsjohanogaard ty❤️
Thank you! Im tearing up right now, like a lot, I needed to hear this! ❤️
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This is so sweet! I always get so nervous and frustrated when speaking with neurotypical people because I’m like “why can’t I just have a normal conversation?”
This reminds adhd also forms the good parts of u
Where has this guy been my entire life.
Hehe right here😉🤣✨
@@madsjohanogaard well my name is Tessa Rose Scherbel & I'm the reasoning behind all your art & studies
I have ADHD it’s been really hard this really encouraged me and I just now am realizing that everytime im around people I make them happy cause I’m always happy! Except when I’m in math…
😂
I really hope more people could think this way🤗🤗
Me too!😊
Thanks for your kind words as someone who has ADHD I always get scared that people won't accept me for it but you really encouraged me thank you❤
Just seeing the text made me cry, most people think I’m crazy because of my ADHD
I know I'm late to the party but I just needed to say that this video means so much to me. I'm always worried that my ADHD is what causes people to not like me and this is the first time I've ever heard someone say they like me BECAUSE of my ADHD. I needed to hear this so badly. Pardon me while I cry in the corner rn
Come here 🤗 you are not late and no need to cry in the corner, allow to express your feelings 😉 glad you found it useful!🤗
Life would be boring wothout a little spark. The world needs people like you.
I wish i could meat more people like you
I do too. There aren't enough of him. I think most people are too busy to notice that sometimes there's some real brilliance in all the blithering.
I'm in tears... You don't know how much I needed to hear this. All my life this trait has been a bother for so many people. In the end, I stopped trying to meet new people. Because I thought my conversation style was a problem
I’ve been struggling lately with my adhd, I’ve had a rough time with algebra and I get really self conscious aware of my impulsive decisions. I needed this, thank you ☺️ ❤
I am a problem solver ... my adhd is a gift 🎁
That mindset will take you faar mate!😉
I have friends who have it and I think I might have it too. I've found using messaging systems with the reply feature to work really well. We'll end up having these huge non-linear conversations together.
Amazing! What kind of programs/apps do you use?🤩
Thanks buddy, from someone whose been told all these traits are negative by many people over the 40yrs I've been here, this was heartwarming.
❤️🤗
A person with ADHD that makes me and other people loved
Aww! As someone with ADHD this really lifted my spirits! Having ADHD can be rough socially sometimes. I'm glad that our internal chaos & passion can be fun for the people around us 💜
Thank you! And thank you! I was searching for a video on an ideal day for someone with ADHD. This was even better! What a gift.
Thank you!!!!
Just thank you
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I often have people say they cant keep up with me. Sometimes its hard to take but overall, I love having that passion and energy. Thanks for the good vibes!
Dont let them bring you down!✨ its a pleasure 😊✨
I'm finnaly being loved, even for my disorders 🥰
Thats how it should be!😉 you deserve love!🤗
Man this made my day thank you really
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I have ADHD and this just make my day ❤️❤️❤️
☺️✨
This made me cry... 😭 After a lifetime of being criticized for exactly these things, hearing someone say that they love us BECAUSE of them just absolutely broke me. Thank you. 🥺❤
I’m diagnosed with ADHD and I feel shame of it sometimes so this makes me feel better ☺️
Thank you!! That meant so much to me❤
Thanks bro this really encouraged me and ment a lot so thanks
Got your back😉👍
Thanks for the encouragement it meant alot to me 🙂 I'm proud of myself and will never feel down thank you
Glad to hear 😊 keep being proud of yourself 😉 but it’s ok to feel down at times even necessary for growth, but its all about how long you want to stay in that mindset 😉 find your balance and keep shining✨😊
I've never heard it put like this. thank you my friend. I usually call it scatterbrained, but you give it such a positive outlook. I love you too brother!!
Its all about perspective my friend😉🤗
Thx bro this meant a lot to me cause everyone I know doesn’t have adhd and doesn’t understand me
I hope u use this shot to help you explain yourself to others😉 it’s a pleasure mate!✨🤗
This is so nice thank you for these specific examples
Np Mate!😉👍
Your welcome ☺️❤️❤️❤️ and thank you for your kind words ❤
Thanks, I really needed that right now
Got you😉✨👍
As someone with ADHD I alway thought talking for a really long time and about different things was annoying, and I (we) not even realize it; until someone says so, So hearing this really means a lot so thank you for brightening our & my day 😊
🙏 💓 🤗 Awww love you too. 🥳 So beautiful for ADHD to be recognised/acknowledged for its positives. I also find others with ADHD fascinating & inspirational. In actual fact those I connect with/have in the past have/had it too. Our brains work differently and the world needs variety. This is all. Much love. 🙌 🫂 ✊ 🧠 💌
I have adhd and I call it my superpower and when people make fun of me I say do you have a superpower b/c I do
I LOVE that!!!
So cool, I often feel like people think I'm crazy. My ex used to call me the tangent queen. Highly distractible is what it is I guess. Mind always on the wander....
Glad u liked it😊 in some situations it can be difficult and even seen as a negative trait to some, however in other settings it is beneficial 😉there are for sure a balance that one needs to find for oneself😉 I find you guys to be very inspiring when you are allowed to and Ofc allow yourself 😉 keep being yourself despite what others may think 😉✨
Life would be boring without you
Thank you for appreciating one of our many assets. 😊❤️
Thank you so much for this. It is beautiful to see the positive side.
It’s so so important!😁✨
Thank u brother,
This hit home I'm healing from self loathing, for feeling like an alien my whole life, like I do not belong on earth.
Thank you brother
I tend to be a diagnostic tool for adhd, because people from completely different backgrounds will bond with me, get to know me, and then I explained that what we have in common are our awesome ADHD symptoms 😂
Tysm🥰 thats so niceee
Thank you 🥰
My plessure😉✨
🥹 thank you
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Woooow appreciate this so much not everyone understands but thank you so much... U get it
Got your back🤗✨👍
My new favorite TH-camr
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❤❤❤😭😭😭 thank you, sometimes it’s nice to know people and understand how I think
You made me cry thnk uh
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Just found out after 30 years that I have it and damn I appreciate you for this!
Congratulations so happy you are finally seen🤗 it’s a pleasure ☺️✨
I love this video! Thank you for this!
My plessure☺️✨
With someone with ADHD: I am glad there are people like me out there with the same thing I have because this vid made me smile so big ❤❤
I have adhd and this really made me happy thank you for showing kindness
Thanks this meant a lot.
It’s a pleasure ☺️✨
Thanks man ❤ we love people like you too
☺️✨
thank you. xx
Wow,thanks man. I was just diagnosed,and I kinda felt like a failure? I was depressed about it,like there was something wrong with me. But you made me feel special and good. Thank you ❤
You are not alone or a failure mate! ;) It's all about perspective! Much love to you and don't let others stop you ;)
@@madsjohanogaard thank you so much. It means al lot
Just because we’re divergent doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. I’ve found having ADHD we see the world around us in such a complex unique way and it’s always Interesting what our minds can notice and come up with. Thankyou for appreciating our differences of seeing the world.
Exactly!😉✨
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I’m 40 years old and just realizing I have ADHD. I’m an artist and always just considered myself a creative thinker… so many ADHD traits lead to low self esteem and lowered self confidence… thank you for this inspiring reminder for us all to feel loved and appreciated for who we are and both what AND how we contribute in wonderfully different ways ❤