S2Ep47: GET UP! GET OUT! DO SOMETHING! - Life After Divorce

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  • @AbiyahBina
    @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for your comments. I would like to say to all those that leave comments about my dog Bella. Bella is doing great. She is healthy and growing. She gets plenty of outside play and goes on plenty of walks. I don’t film everything I do. Keep that in mind when you jump to insane conclusions about how I treat my dog. I only will accept constructive criticism not assumptions. ❤❤❤❤

    • @LauraRoss-dy3nn
      @LauraRoss-dy3nn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The only reason we commented on that issue of Bella is because you went to the nice park with the lake n said you can't bring Bella, that she wasn't good the first time you took her. So we said well help her by exposing her to new places especially outdoors at the beautiful lake that you got to enjoy. Then you went home to get dressed n go out to dinner. The time you spent admiring yourself in the mirror n saying how cute you were a dozen times, well that could have been Bella time out on a nice walk. No need to block us, we are unsubscribing. But please give beautiful Bella an active dog life. Thank you

  • @samanthaheath8664
    @samanthaheath8664 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I literally just watched Winter Is Blue vedio, and he spoke about getting out by yourself. Then I watched your video, and before you got out of bed, you spoke about getting out of the house. I have been struggling with sadness and have been inside these four walls for too long. I really appreciated what you said and followed it up with action. Thank you

    • @user-mu3xk7ie2t
      @user-mu3xk7ie2t 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Confirmation💕

    • @sittingpretty64
      @sittingpretty64 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You hit the nail on the head. We deserve so much more. Let's take the power back.

  • @Blessed2Bme73
    @Blessed2Bme73 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I Love the affirmation, beautiful

  • @vfrazier3329
    @vfrazier3329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    YES, GETTING OUT AND STAYING ACTIVE 🏃🏾‍♀️ IS MEDICINE FOR THE BODY AND SOUL. 😊

  • @LauraRoss-dy3nn
    @LauraRoss-dy3nn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Please do more dog things with Bella so she can have a good dog life

  • @unitedspiritsvillage
    @unitedspiritsvillage 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rise and Shine, Yes, I understand getting out feels hard sometimes especially if I have a lot on my mind. My doggies provided incentive for me to walk them an hour twice a day. They are both gone so I must rely on myself. ❤❤ do you still have Bella? She may be the perfect road doggie and outdoor motivation. (My dogs were Bella and Appa and they loved being with me). Much love. Thank you for your videos.

  • @marissamovingon
    @marissamovingon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm not gonna admit the amount of times I rewound and watched the wasp attack 😂🤣
    Your dinner outfit, makeup and jewelry were 🔥🔥!!

    • @SimplyRena
      @SimplyRena 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂 you too, huh?

    • @TierraSanea87
      @TierraSanea87 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me 3 🤣🤣🤣

  • @RenitaBrown-w4l
    @RenitaBrown-w4l 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hey Gurl!! I’m glad you got out and got some air. My son gets on me ALOT about that.

    • @sittingpretty64
      @sittingpretty64 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We deserve to love ourselves. This video has forced me out of the house. We have to take the power back.

  • @AlwaysLoveYourselfFirst7
    @AlwaysLoveYourselfFirst7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Peace Love & Blessings 🙏

  • @venetiakelley
    @venetiakelley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Looks like a beautiful area to take a stroll.

  • @rileyriley2313
    @rileyriley2313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you thank you thank you❤ this video really resonated with me

  • @andrettagordon6282
    @andrettagordon6282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think this what l should start doing. Having to have injection in both of my eyes. Leaves me a little depressed. Can't drive too far anymore But God is keeping me. Love be bless ❤🙏

    • @tonijones4018
      @tonijones4018 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending prayers and you got this

  • @keithanderson429
    @keithanderson429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ❤ to see you out the the house and up beat again you can overcome any obstacles in your path your way more then cutie or beautiful keep on moving and grooving

  • @venetiakelley
    @venetiakelley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I can see you being a Life Coach Abiya 👀

  • @betterdayz4678
    @betterdayz4678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ha! That was my goal for this week get up get out and do anything!! Just do something lol! Thanks for the content!

  • @sittingpretty64
    @sittingpretty64 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen. We deserve to treat ourselves with love.

  • @LauraRoss-dy3nn
    @LauraRoss-dy3nn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That lake was the perfect place to take Bella. She wont ever learn to behave if you dont expose her n gelp to train her. Its sad how much she is stuck in that apt.

    • @abbigailclay4116
      @abbigailclay4116 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it's a bit selfish to keep the dog confined in a cage while you enjoy the fresh air outside. She's just a puppy, and that's typical behavior for puppies. I don't understand why people get dogs if they're just going to keep them locked up all the time. If you could imagine being in that cage yourself, you'd understand how Bella feels.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @abbigailclay4116 it’s called kennel/crate training. Haven’t you heard of that. Or maybe you like to clean up dog poop and piss inside your home. I know I don’t.

    • @LauraRoss-dy3nn
      @LauraRoss-dy3nn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AbiyahBina My dog is crate trained, completely n loves her crate. It's like her bedroom n safe place. All potty is done outside. But that has nothing to do with what we're saying. U need to spend time with Bella on walks, fun walks n training walks. Along with play time outside such as that beautiful lake. U said she was too young. No she's not. How will she learn to socialize n behave at such places if she's always at home alone. Then you left her again to go out to dinner. Which is all good, except did she have any outdoor fun in between your fun times that day? I was excited to watch your videos more when you got Bella, but so far it's been pretty much about where you go, n things you do.

  • @Carlsjennifer
    @Carlsjennifer 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really enjoyed your video hun❤❤👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💥💥

  • @deloFergie
    @deloFergie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey there…..you bought up some very good points!!!!! Makes a person start to think about what they’re going to do ABOUT THE REST OF THEIR LIVES 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @1lottiedottie
    @1lottiedottie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Abiya please take Bella out with you. She is just a puppy and she deserves to be out side more and getting to enjoy the fresh air too. You don’t have experience raising a puppy so it’s not easy for you. You need to “socialize” her now while she is young. If you keep her away from people, when she is grown you will have a harder time getting her comfortable around people. Being around only you, will cause her to be over protective and not trusting of strangers. The only way she will “be ready” is for you to take her out now. Getting excited when meeting someone new is very normal and you need to teach her to sit and be calm. Take her to the pet store weekly. That is a great place to socialize her and people there will not mind her excitement. Are you teaching her to sit at home? That will help when want her to calm down. People at parks usually are used to dogs and are friendly. Please take her out more than just to do her business. She needs to know that the world consists of more than the apartment and a crate. Please make it a special time every weekend to take her out for a few hours if not for the day. Maybe enroll in some basic obedience classes at a local pet store. This would be good for both of you and are not too expensive. I’m glad you had a nice day out and evening with your family. Give Bella hug for me❤

    • @jackiejones6989
      @jackiejones6989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally agree ❤

  • @lucyjay7963
    @lucyjay7963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a lifelong learner never too old to learn. 😊

  • @10WB2setup-lc8dp
    @10WB2setup-lc8dp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Abby hope all is well❤

  • @EvolvedNish
    @EvolvedNish 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so awesome so glad to see you out and about. You was looking good girl!!!! I love the confidence its so inspiring 🥰 Do you know I wasn't feeling my best earlier this week as well and the only thing that brought me joy was your video from you vanlife days of when you went to key west and spent the day by yourself! You had a ball it always brings me joy. So maybe when you are feeling down sometimes go look at how much fun that Abiyah had that day Im sure you will remember the joy you felt. Peace and Blessings 🫶🏿✌️🏿

  • @sherribatko8981
    @sherribatko8981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It sounds like you got the motivation, now put it into action😊good luck
    Maybe join a group of ladies, or mix group who like to go biking, walking, etc
    You're still young, use it❤❤❤

  • @LisasEnchantedLife
    @LisasEnchantedLife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl the way I just jumped out my chair when you hollared at that wasp! 🤣

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @LisasEnchantedLife
      @LisasEnchantedLife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AbiyahBina I thought someone was coming to get you 🤣🤣😂

  • @DaquanHodge
    @DaquanHodge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your beautiful!!!!! Keep going queen!!!!!

  • @shenaatchison5561
    @shenaatchison5561 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You So Much for the laugh. 😅😅 That's EXACTLY how I act when I see insects, bugs. etc.

  • @faygray2076
    @faygray2076 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad to see you is enjoying yourself

  • @sherribatko8981
    @sherribatko8981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh, this would have been great for your dog. They need this type of interaction while they are young
    So she can be used to being around people. And dogs are a great meeting and conversation piece
    Next bring your dog 😊

  • @janettetaylor5695
    @janettetaylor5695 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you is the best way to start your day. You are beautiful and I hope a lot or every woman watching this video learn something ❤️. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mamaryfromthesouth9869
    @mamaryfromthesouth9869 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I can’t believe that so many of these comments are about telling you how to take care of your dog this is not the first time you had a dog my God it’s just a dog ! what about Abiyah well being and her motivation to try and get her own personal life back on track

    • @catann9818
      @catann9818 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was thinking the same thing. So concern about the dog that they willing to bring her mood down.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are exactly right. I can’t believe all the comments on here about my dog. My dog is just fine and she’s healthy and gets outside almost daily. I just don’t film it. And you’re right, I’ve had a dog since I was kid. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sittingpretty64
    @sittingpretty64 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just want to say thank you. Your series of videos is exactly how my life is right now. I'm starting a new business but I'm so scared of failure. I cousin was telling me to just do it and stop putting it off. I purchased the van cash and the only overhead is the insurance, which is extremely expensive. Thanks so much for these videos. I'll be 60 in October, my husband is in the streets, I was in denial. I'm so afraid.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got this. I was afraid at first too. Afraid of the “what if’s” but I did it anyway and it was one of the best decisions I’ve made. So GO FOR IT!!!

  • @libbybertrand9320
    @libbybertrand9320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your energy Abiyah! You looked beautiful in your outfit for dinner🥰

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @keithanderson429
    @keithanderson429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😍😘 looking amazing as usual you make the clothes look good

  • @SC_RAYE
    @SC_RAYE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s what’s up Abiyah!!! Right on time as usual!! Loving your positive energy!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @Butterfly_Dreamz
    @Butterfly_Dreamz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this for you🌹💜

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im glad you enjoy yourself by enjoy the beautiful weather,when its nice outside i will go to west county mall to shop or the galleria to see a movie,hope you are having a wonderful thursday and stay safe out there🤗❤️

  • @DaquanHodge
    @DaquanHodge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes affirmations !!!!

  • @uniceeunice6573
    @uniceeunice6573 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you.

  • @barbara514
    @barbara514 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always find time to make yourself feel like you love you. U made a wonderful decision to get outside and enjoy time with family

  • @WhollyLivin
    @WhollyLivin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The only way she's gonna get ready is to integrate her. Or get a trainer to assist you.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I’m aware of that. I usually take her to the dog park and to a different park that doesn’t have as much traffic and people. She’s learning

  • @SimplyRena
    @SimplyRena 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Abiyah, I'm a 50-plus woman who totally agrees with you that we should get out. I'm refusing to allow any grass to grow under my feet, girl, lol.
    Have you considered day camping like going to the lake and cooking some of your old van life meals? Do you miss vanlife?

  • @lucyjay7963
    @lucyjay7963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im alone but never lonely. I love my peace n joy. Negativity not for me. I love being alone. Have a blessed safe peaceful day.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m slowly getting there. 💜😊

  • @euphoricenergytodaywithlor2717
    @euphoricenergytodaywithlor2717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very beautiful day indeed and getting out of bed is a great way to start lol 😂 love you 🥰 I was just in St Louis east saint Louis and Fairview to eat lunch 🥗 mmm yummy and girl you made me jump out my seat when the wasps came 😅yikes love it and your looking fabulous and dinners always good 😊great visit today

  • @cw5258
    @cw5258 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are that one Abiyah. Stay Fabulous and Blessed. ❤🙏🙂

  • @steveowlhollamac8065
    @steveowlhollamac8065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GREETINGS FROM ST.LOUIS , MISSOURI

  • @carolynrains-es7kx
    @carolynrains-es7kx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Abiyah😊

  • @Lady.T16
    @Lady.T16 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GIRL YOU SCARED MEEEE 🤣

  • @Sunrise-k56
    @Sunrise-k56 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are very cute in your outfit!

  • @pennywawiorka6431
    @pennywawiorka6431 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Abiya, you look very attractive in your outfit, think both ways you had it with the colors were nice👍. Loved the atmostphere of the lake also, out and about, yeah!!!!!

  • @venetiakelley
    @venetiakelley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the name of your van.

  • @ummebrown377
    @ummebrown377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG😜50 huh??? Lawdy We are some Beautiful People
    Love ya Lady❤

  • @paulahenderson9878
    @paulahenderson9878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looking great.

  • @exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430
    @exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We love you 🥰

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love you too 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ewaters7283
    @ewaters7283 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You will always learn.

  • @billyflood2430
    @billyflood2430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the SCREAM I SCRUMPT at that wasp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @inezmccray8082
    @inezmccray8082 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OK, let's do that again, girl you move fast LOL

  • @euphoricenergytodaywithlor2717
    @euphoricenergytodaywithlor2717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very beautiful day indeed and getting out of bed is a great way to start lol 😂 love you 🥰 I was just in St Louis east saint Louis and Fairview to eat lunch 🥗 mmm yummy and girl you made me jump out my seat when the wasps came 😅yikes love it and your looking fabulous and dinners always good 😊great visit today 😊love bell bottom jeans 👖 😊

  • @shamikasmith69
    @shamikasmith69 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your moment with the wasp is so me!!! Except you didn’t use the extra characters I would have lol

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @lindalarkin4218
    @lindalarkin4218 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice video 😊

  • @joannjoann3449
    @joannjoann3449 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello abiyah 💚💚🙏

  • @QueenBaha
    @QueenBaha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌴☀️The title alone made me do CARTWHEELS 🤸🏾‍♀️ I think that’s what’s missing for now☀️🌴

  • @bonniekaye
    @bonniekaye 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *You look so beautiful!*

  • @CarlaRFowler
    @CarlaRFowler 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    19:58 ♥️

  • @WhollyLivin
    @WhollyLivin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Where's Bella, this would have been a perfect time for us to see her have fun. I'm sure she's grown since the last ear infection. Also she is your emotional support dog... Try to treat her as such get her a red collar. She could feel. When you were mourning as well as what ever your feeling now... That's why she follows you to e each room. ❤

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She has grown a lot. Over 30 pounds.

  • @WhollyLivin
    @WhollyLivin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU LOOK FABULOUS... YES!!!!

  • @mildredgay7861
    @mildredgay7861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bella needs to experience things to, best way to train her if ur not taking her to a trainer

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She does get to experience things. I just don’t film her walks and time at the dog park.

  • @bonniekaye
    @bonniekaye 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🙂👍♥️⚘️⚘️

  • @Ladyv1900
    @Ladyv1900 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ✊🏾👁️👁️u whip tha wasp azzz🤣😂 tha why wasp didn’t get N enjoy dinner w/family 🍽️ u 👀look cutie🤗

  • @Blessed2Bme73
    @Blessed2Bme73 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Abiyha you look so quite

  • @darlenegodfrey1121
    @darlenegodfrey1121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where's your dog❤

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lol. I don’t take my dog with me every where I go. She good where she’s at.

  • @venetiakelley
    @venetiakelley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How far is that lake from your house about?

  • @sistaanclyned
    @sistaanclyned 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is the puppy?!? She is supposed to be your companion. If you’re going camping without her then sounds like she should be with a family who will appreciate her and give her the life she deserves.

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG. Y’all crack me up. 😂

  • @melanied6777
    @melanied6777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You dance in the mirror like my daughter when she fashions clothes, yes lady, you look cute! 😊

  • @venetiakelley
    @venetiakelley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You so silly….

  • @celestial1952
    @celestial1952 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why get a dog….thats my question….

  • @darlenegodfrey1121
    @darlenegodfrey1121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get over yourself, Where's JESUS 😂❤

    • @AbiyahBina
      @AbiyahBina  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My faith is a huge part of my life and lifestyle 💜