Chairwork: Be, Talk to Your Abuser for 10 Minutes

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  • @candybell84candybell86
    @candybell84candybell86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank You Mr.Vaknin!
    "Do you know what you are?
    You are a manuscript oƒ a divine letter.
    You are a mirror reflecting a noble face.
    This universe is not outside of you.
    Look inside yourself;
    everything that you want,
    you are already that."
    Rumi

  • @shanaeflores
    @shanaeflores 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I did the chair work and it freed me from the hatred I felt for my dad who took my virginity when I was 14. I no longer have nightmares and I don't see him as an enemy. I've moved on.

    • @livamoore5566
      @livamoore5566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💕🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💎👑✝️

    • @krissiskloset1177
      @krissiskloset1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m so sorry that happen to you. Praying 🤲🏾 for your continued healing ❤️‍🩹 dear

    • @shanaeflores
      @shanaeflores 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@krissiskloset1177 Thank you!

    • @user-ny6xl8jc1h
      @user-ny6xl8jc1h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My sister
      May god give you every happiness in this universe, sending you love my dearest
      Sister. Being a woman requires too much strength.

    • @shanaeflores
      @shanaeflores 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@seamr05 Thank you!

  • @cookinglikeastar6117
    @cookinglikeastar6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I find myself doing chair work while in severe conflict in family situations. I didnt even realize my brsin was doing it!

  • @Valoelify
    @Valoelify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Have you ever watched the "Hannibal" TV series from NBC, Professor Sam Vaknin? It was cancelled after 3 seasons because humanity cannot handle anything that is different and outside the box, much like yourself. It is on the american Netflix should you be interested. Hannibal (the cannibal) is a psychologist in the series whom one could consider a highly manipulative psychopath, but not really, or a narcissist, but not really... or both and neither, because something in him cares about this one specific individual. Very complex. The series is a fictional one, but deeply psychological and intelligent show about murderers, psychopats, narcissists, sociopaths, killers, an FBI agent with an Empathy disorder to where he almost becomes like the killers that he tries to understand in order to catch them. So many disorders and everything in-between as well as many mixed into unique characters, all the psychology ventures into a FAR deeper level than anything else I've ever seen, much like the depths you go into.
    I recommend it to you and ask that you perhaps make a video about it someday because I as well as many others are insanely curious about what a deeply unique and intelligent mind like yours would think of it. To have your unique opinion and take on it all would be mind-blowingly fascinating.

  • @muellerjean-baptiste5465
    @muellerjean-baptiste5465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brillant and so true...I hope you got to taste the sweet nectar of bliss in true integration, you just described the ultimatum path to true freedom in the first part of your video. I wish you a wonderful journey

  • @muellerjean-baptiste5465
    @muellerjean-baptiste5465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And I Light add, Seine-Saint-Denis is the closes we have in the West to the old sages of India and the Upanishads. Einstein said: I would like to adhere only to Spinosa's God, if there was any God. In your introduction, science and religion merge...depleated from the wrong overlays, the true meaning of being saines through. This Nothingness is at the samedi tome Everythingness, of which we are all part of, made of. Every scientist would have to agree that there is in essence no such thing as separateness. And the ego as an essential instrument of being able to function as a humanbeing, is not annihilation, but integrated in the whole, giving so to speak access to far more than what we commonly might percieve.
    There is no lack of, no pain, possible in such a state. It is true healing. And a bliss for the surrounding too...

  • @muellerjean-baptiste5465
    @muellerjean-baptiste5465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry, my Phone autocorrected...horribly...not Seine Saint Denis..SPINOSA of course..and many other mistakes...truelly sorry...