Rv Life | RV Dating Disasters | Meeting Singles on the Road | Romance While Fulltiming in a Camper
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Can you date while RV living fulltime?
RV life: Liz Amazing has the scoop on how to meet singles while living in an Rv while traveling on the road, shares the good, bad and CRAZY that happened when she jumped into the dating world-and then spills the beans on what she found when she googled one of the guys she’d been talking with. She also provides tips on what to do and what NOT to do if you want to date while living in an Rv
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Share your dating disasters here--! And any additional tips you may have.
Not sure I am going to enter the dating world ever again!
@@LizAmazing subscriber number 628 Dont give up....
I'm a gigalo I only charge $100 a night.
Dating is too goddam overrated plus women over 40 have unrealistic expectations
@@alfonsohernandez8793 You haven't lied Yet brother!
Hi Liz and everyone. My wife past a year ago and I have not dated for 35 years. Online dating kind of gives me the creeps thinking about it. I think I would like to meet someone but I'm busy most of the time with art and a seasonal sport. I travel and sometimes camp every other weekend in the Sumer to do my sport. I would much rather just happen to meet someone and see how things go. I find that social media is a bit untruthful about people. I use it for friends and family only and not all that often. I don't have a pet so it does feel a little lonely at times. Besides, folks can be on their best behavior for many months before they show their real selves. Online just seems weird. I don't know.
I think you are right about that. Online dating is not the way to go. As it turned out, I met someone the old-fashioned way - - a camping neighbor. And now we are together. So sorry to hear about your wife. Sounds like you still manage to have a full life - happy travels to you.
@@LizAmazingThanks for the reply. I'm new on here and getting caught up. Paul seems really nice and you two seem like a good match. Ive been following several build it yourself travelers. Most of them went to off grid living and building tiny homes. Interesting to me because I was a custom home builder for years. Life is good!
Enjoy! And I think that building your own travel trailer would be a fun project!
Weird and sometimes very dangerous!!
The type of men who go into full time RV life are likely extremely independent "individuals." Consequently, they are less likely to engage in long term relationships. They are a lot like Alaska men. "The odds are good, but the goods are odd." is a frequent saying of women who go to Alaska looking for a husband considering the ratio of women to men there.
I love that saying! Yes, I would have to agree that is the case with many of the solo Rvers I have come across-- men and women.
hilarious quote
Generally speaking maybe that’s true..... but I am looking for a committed relationship. Good luck in your search!!
Namaste 🙏
Generally speaking maybe that’s true..... but I am looking for a committed relationship. Good luck in your search!!
Namaste 🙏
😂Funniest thing I’ve seen all week! And what I know of Alaska, I’m sure it’s probably true!
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
Paul Baldassarre Wise words! Dating is soooo hard, especially when living in an Rv. But I sure am not going to chase after anyone. The key, of course, is to create a happy life that is not dependent on a partner.
Thank you!
@@LizAmazing Divorced just over 8 years from a complete psychopath/sociopath and have only dated 2 people over the periods of like a few months each. One was still seeing his ex in secret (I found out) and the other was weird in a way I wont post on here (scary). That was 6 years ago. Have not been on a date since. Not one. Men are not into older ladies AT ALL unless you are a billionaire and have tens of thousands of plastic surgery. It is pretty disgusting out there.
You are so right on all points! I wish I had this much insight 20 years ago!
Thanks so very much, Debbie!
I love the view out your window. I.ve had plenty of dating disasters too. I hope you find someone you can relate too!
Thank you! I am DONE with online dating. As a matter of fact, I met a solo Rver on the road and now we are together. Way better to meet the old-fashioned way! Glad you enjoyed the view-- that was Bend, Oregon.
This was great!! I love all your VLOGS, it's kind of like visiting with you again!!
Paula Jolly so glad you are enjoying them- and that must mean I’m being me, right? Well this may end up being a whole Rv dating series!!! Who knows! And thanks for commenting on YT, really helps my channel grow, getting comments! Hugs!
I like that you are centered and give practical, basic good advice. Nice going!
Thank you, Josh!
Just found your videos, love them. I am single and have been full time in my travel trailer for 5+ years now. I spend my time volunteering at state parks and national forest campgrounds.
Wow, that sounds fun. I just passed one year on the road and I love it. Happy travels!
First time I have seen one of your videos, I watched because no one is talking about this subject and I was curious. Not that Im dating but dealing with people wether for business, friends, or dating is essentially the same. Trust your instincts, be safe, have a conversation, and then decided if you like being around the person. I enjoy chatting with people and hearing there experiences in life or work even if its just a short encounter. People put a lot of pressure on themselves to find someone it must be incredible difficult these days. When I first saw the title I laughed and wondered if there was RVTinder or something crazy like that, guess I wasn't far off and thats great for RVers out there.
Best of luck to all on there journey's around the country, enjoyed your content
Thanks so much. Yes dating while living in an Rv is hard. I am definitely DONE with online dating. So grateful that I started dating someone I met the old fashioned way-- in person.
Hii Liz, I know this is older you were able to bounce back awesome. Good job.
Thanks Olivia, happy to be done with online dating!
I'm a single (div. 2003) chick that's been on the road full time coming up 9 years. I've often thought of writing a book (for comedic value) about the absolute rejects of society that think they're 'in with a chance' because you're a solo female. Jeeeezus!!! They're unbelievable.
Anyways, to the crux of the matter....I don't know why anyone would WANT to be searching for a partner in this day and age. Not only are they largely narcissistic these days, I certainly wouldn't or couldn't handle anyone in my space. My life is just fantastic cruising around doing what I want, going in the direction I want.....often lead by the toss of a coin...never having to discuss plans with anyone etc......I couldn't even share my life with a pet at this point lol....I just love doing my own thing so much.
Awesome!!! I so enjoyed my first year of solo rving. I loved having complete control of my day and my time-- not having to consult with anyone or compromise. And I am definitely done with online dating-- BUT honestly the low-lows on the road were way lower than when living in and part of a community. I think if I didn't move every two to three weeks that would go away as I would have felt more connected with my campground neighbors.
Ub-oh, when they start talking about the ex... haha
This was interesting to listen to.
And yes, "separated" can be French for "married man lookin' for trouble"...
It sure can! I am happy to report I am DONE with online dating!
Liz, great video. My wife died on 6/5/19 after a long illness. We had been rving full time but we had to stop. I've since purchased a new smaller RV and have lived in it since 2/17/20. I've just recently decided that I may want a traveling companion. Your video advice will be very helpful. Thanks.
Hi Jim, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. I am sure that is very tough. I'm glad that you wrote. I just camped next to a gentleman who is traveling alone and I was very impressed by the social network he created. He joined Escapees and did some trips with them as well as with WIN (WIN is mentioned in the video, the Wandering Individuals Network). From doing those trips he gained some friendships and now travels often and on with two or three other solo travelers.
I think that's an excellent solution on the way to meeting someone who may become a partner. I encourage you to also check out LOWS.
As for me, I am DONE with online dating! I actually met another solo traveler and we are together now. Here's the story: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
Wishing you all the best!
Super gr8 insights thank you for the heads-up
Thanks so much! I am glad to be DONE with online dating! Wishing you all the best.
Impressed with your reference to integrity. That is a really important factor to all relationships- personal, work , family. I have been so hurt by peoples lack of ethics and honesty , ie: Integrity. Good Luck in your amazing travels.
Thanks so much. Integrity is key for sure! I'm actually DONE with online dating-- but not with travels though!
Sheesh. And here I want to boondock in a 5th wheel toy hauler with just me, the bike and dawg. No visitors needed! If I want a date, I'll dry out a fig.
Ha! Love it! I have to say I am DONE with online dating for sure!
ROFLOL! Love your comment brother!
"dry out a fig" that's perfect, just made my day! thanks
@@ltwig476 Why not dry out a date.
Dry figs?
I don't get it.
Can someone 'splain it?
lol ... lol ... lol ... lol ... ...
I tried some internet dating several years ago but it seemed like there were a lot of problems with it - women who lied about their age or had an old photo, women who only wanted rich men, women who lied about various things, etc.
Yep, online dating can be treacherous! Be careful out there! Honestly from personal experience the best way is to just be nice to everybody- ya just never know!
I'm binge-watching your videos. They're so warm and personal. If you ever write a book, I'm sure it'll be a good one!
Glad your spinal pain is gone. I had it for about a year (not a herniated disc) and in my case, chiropractic took care of it. Plus daily spoons of Jell-o. Really.
That's awesome. So glad you found what works. And thanks for binge watching, so glad to have you here!!!
Thanks for the advice great advice
Awww, thank YOU!
When we ladies reach retirement age Men are more a hassle in my opinion! They can go their own way and leave me with peace!
Exactly! I am DONE with online dating for sure!
MGTOW just means we dont date, marry, or allow ourselves to get trapped in baby jail. if you respect our boundries we can be friends but that's as far as it will ever go. At 55 I have zero desire to get involved in anything like that again.
@@joedonbaker1673
The average marriage lasts 8 years. Best to assume there will be a horrific divorce in your future the moment you consider dating a woman.
Men have to pay to be in romantic relationships and we have to pay when the woman throws us out. Best to avoid the whole mess and enjoy your own life.
@@joedonbaker1673
Indeed. As a general rule when a woman reaches 45 or 50 her body is done, and her sex drive evaporates. But the same thing happens with familiarity. They get bored with you and cut you off in bed, pulling the rug out from under you completely, denying your selfish brutish needs. LOL. But if a man denies a woman in bed everyone has a seizure. The double standards for men and women are so distorted now that I generally refuse to interact with them unless they're someone really special and worth interacting with. As a general rule there is nothing like that. If the bedroom is off the table there generally isn't that much left. Just a woman who has a lot of needs, hangups and expensive medical and other needs and wants that she expects you to pay for. That's one reason I haven't dated since 2009.
@@bonniericica6895
*>Your wife is better off without you ..sadly to say!*
And he would have been better off without her. Example. When a friend of mine was jailed for three months on a false accusation by his enraged "no s@x for 2 years" wife (when he finally starved out and cheated on her), my friends and I visited him in jail. That was enough for me. I realized I could never go through what he went through without taking my own life and possibly several others. So I figured it was safer for everyone involved if I remained single. I made that decision in 1997. I will never be a slave. Get over it.
It's not all bad though. Without the drag factor of supporting you, your kids (and your divorce lawyer) I did ok. Paid off my first home (a nice condo) in 11 years, and paid off my house in 5 years. After that it was routine to live well on 30% of my mechanic wages. Wealth stacked up and I retired at 54. Now I'm ready to run around the country in a nice truck camper. I could afford one of those big boxy RV's but I like the maneuverability of a truck camper. Plus if you have surplus space, women will tend to want to move in. And once they're in they start getting rid of your stuff and filling your space with endless piles of her garbage. That's not happening. If the camper is small, they should never even bother. I'm also replacing the queen mattress with a single, to make my point very clear. I'm 55 now. Yes I know you don't need me sexually and I don't need you. So it's silly to expect a man to accept you now. You are nothing but expenses, demands, and then very likely a horrible divorce (unless you, like many women, go vulture and wait for us to die so you inherit my accumulated wealth. That's not happening either. Enjoy your cats and enjoy your catfood. The only relationship I have available to a woman is a distant friendship if she's a good person rather than a gold digger. At 55 though, the drives that force men into accepting the horrific risks of marrying a woman, are long gone. If I had an attractive and willing partner I'd only want it maybe every 5 or 6 days. Honestly, supporting a woman for that is stupid beyond belief. So you're on your own.
I created an email that had NO internet history so if I had decided to email back & forth with someone I didn't really know, they couldn't find out much. The problem comes when they want my phone number. That has some Internet history. Not much I can do about it. I investigated online phone numbers, i.e. Google, etc. That didn't work because you get this message after you dial saying something like "you're calling a computer" LOL So I have to be sure. I also had to take my photos down & just put some generic no face photo up because I was getting so many scammers, particularly on Plenty of Fish......great video though.
BW, I loved the analogy of an alcoholic and a co-dependent person, kind of like a key fitting exactly into a door. So true.
I love your Internet dating tips-if I ever decide to try online dating again while living in my RV, I will be sure to try that. I love the special email account idea.
Get a burner phone. You can give out your primary number once you've determined someone is not a flake.
@ A Smith, can u tell me How u make an internet email without it showing your real name? I'm not very tech savvy lol, thanks
Some good lessons. Thank You for sharing. im off to watch your drone vlog.
Happy droning! I hope I don’t drone on too much! ;-)
LiZ
Great video thank you! 👏👏👏👏
Thank you! Happy travels out there!
Actively dating is totally out of the question. There's a reason we're (me too) are out here in the wild America. Be handy, helpful, friendly is how I see it and observant as doing so. You'll feel the human experience clearly without a dating stigma interfering. Just being friendly has shown true colors way more than "Dating best behavior syndrome ".
Oh my gosh-- so true! I am DONE with online dating and absolutely know that meeting someone naturally is the way to go!
I found that same problem when I was doing online dating. Mostly ALL men do nothing but talk about themselves and pay little attention when it's your turn. Or make like you haven't lived until you go out with them!
Its why I don't even bother any more.
Yep. It was getting pretty discouraging. A lot of men are raised to be king of their household and are groomed to be the center of attention. The solution is to date younger men!
@@LizAmazing - But you found an older man. I've tried younger men. Even lied about my age to get them. I have always looked good for my age and didn't think they'd care when they found out I was older. But every single time when I came clean about my age, they would be totally shocked and wind up never calling again. So I just stopped looking altogether. I'm now 63 and have been alone since I'm 54. Its no longer lonely for me. I've grown accustomed to that old friend. You know that song "Hello darkness my old friend..."
@@Hard_Car_Life I did find an older man-- but he is not typical! I think we all need to be able to be our own best friend and happy with our own company. Sad but true. Hugs to you!
Sensible! Some situations are funny. Lol. I agree with your point of view! You appear to be very well grounded.
Hi Randy! Thanks so much! I appreciate the support. So glad I didn't settle for anyone I met from online dating sites. In fact, I met someone the old fashioned way-- a camping neighbor. So grateful!
Well, just started watching your current video's and have been AMAZED by them. When I came across this older video it was fascinating to me that you are aware of, "co-dependency" and I imagine other behavioral topics of which the typical person has no knowledge or understanding. Goes to show you are much more than an RV'er or just another pretty face. Proud to say my wife is lots like you. Thanks to her understanding and trail of tears through loss of children and abuse in her child hood years we have been married for 47 years. You and your partner are Aces with us!
Awww, thanks so much Vance. Really appreciate your comment and so glad to have you with us on the channel. See you in the next video!
I saw you video for the first time . I admired you for your ability to accept you have a part in your situation with other people . I am single a old fart set in my ways. My experience is as single seniors we all have life regulating factors. kids, animals ..... . it is had to find someone to fit it does not make anyone right or wrong just different . I will admit I am lonely and would love to have someone . but the loneliness is by far better the being with someone. That does not fit .
Oh so true! Wise words there. Im done with online dating, better to meet someone naturally- just say hi and be friendly to everyone.
@@LizAmazing that's the way to go Liz.I was part of the online dating scene and I am here to tell you it was a total freak show. I am now happily married and met my wife the old-fashioned way.Becareful and stay safe
@@LizAmazing not any easier meeting someone "naturally" people who have walked into my life have been disasters too
drewscott0 .
"Live amazingly".
Edwrd Seaga Yes, and sometimes that’s a struggle. Every time I fall down I just gotta pick myself up again.
@@LizAmazing Always my goal : ) 🌻
You made me smile, some people just have a unique skill or of, communication is key. Thanks for your thoughts.
Thank you! Yes communication is key for sure. So glad to be DONE with online dating!
One of the things no one talks about in these videos is having a social life and human bonds when you are on the road alone. Thanks for covering this topic.
You are so welcome! Yes, it's the low-lows that are so much lower when traveling solo. You have to really work at being social, making sure to greet a new camping neighbor when he arrives, for example. Thanks for watching.
Hi Liz! I’m really enjoying your channel and being on the “A Team”!
Just wanted to give my 2 cents about man #3, who didn’t get back to you.
Since he had a DUII, 3 things are likely. First, he likely has a drinking problem Drivers usually don’t get a DUI on their first, or even tenth, time doing it. Second, he might have watched your videos and seen that you are more of a “go deep” person, which means he would need to be willing to discuss his drinking. Third, he was probably drunk later in the day, and he either forgot to call, or he knew that he wouldn’t make a good impression in his inebriated state.
Yes, I’m making some big, bold assumptions here. BUT... I’m speaking from experience.
Really the main thing for you and readers to keep in mind is that by not contacting you, he still sent a message.
Yes, so very true, I agree with all that you wrote! That's really a good perspective that if he had a DUI then he likely did have a drinking problem. Oh well. No loss as I am now DONE with online dating. And welcome to the A Team!
Great video Liz, I've been on POF and it's sad how many phony's are out there. Best of luck to you.
You are so right! I am pleased to report I am DONE with online dating!
Great Advice!!
Thanks a bunch!
I love being a *single* independent woman. Good luck on your dating journey.🤞
Yep. I’m so glad to be DONE with online dating!
Casita Cathi me too! I’ve been single for years now after spending most of my life the other way. I love being single hanging out with my friends, kids, grandson. I’m TrueType independent in every-way and I wouldn’t change a thing
Date a Brit, it just so happens I’m one! 😃😀
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None of us are perfect, we just Think we are.
Liz Amazing
The main problem I see with online dating is, the dating sites give you 10 ton of BS to get you to sign up, telling you it’s Free!
Then when you sign up you find out its Not!
You’ve got to buy Credits to send messages.
Ive also seen some videos on TH-cam and Warn people of giving Bank Card Details .....in other words Don’t do it!
They will give people are kinds of BS, then you find out they’ve started to take $49.95 a month Etc for Membership, anddddddd make it Extremely difficult to cancel the membership.
Many of them are a Major League Con!
I would Never give my bank card details, but I can sure see what some of them are like with just emails.
I signed up to a few 3 years ago and I still can’t stop the stupid emails coming from the company, can you imagine the BS I would have had IF I had give bank card details!
If you want to find out who a person really is and how they truly feel about you, watch what they do not what they say. Actions truly are louder than words.....i.e. If a man or woman screams at traffic, waitresses, strangers etc.... Get ready your next.
Smart words for sure! Yep. I am so glad to be DONE with online dating!
Thanks for your advise. It's been a learning curve for me for sure. I hope to find my special someone thanks to your advise. Happy camping.
steve swanson Yes, for most of us entering the dating world can be a big adjustment. As long as we can treat each other with kindness, then navigating the singles pool will be much easier. Best to you in your search.
Consider going MGTOW. A divorce is impossible to recover from when you get older. After being obliterated in divorce court, an older man just has to live with the damage until he dies. Best to avoid the whole mess.
@@Vention1MGTOW Lol I couldn't agree more!!! Don't need leftovers and drama
@@patc1309
*>Don't need leftovers and drama*
No doubt. For me it's all about personal sovereignty. In fact my entire life is based on that.
I didn't want to get obliterated in divorce court so I never married. Wealth really stacks up when you don't have an overspending divorce prone wife draining all your labor and productivity. Paid off my first home (a nice condo) in 11 years almost without trying, then paid off my house in 5 years (and I did it on mechanic wages). Then I wanted to escape the massive fraud of monetary inflation of the dollar and protect myself from the way government can just drain your bank accounts anytime they want so I got into silver stacking and then bitcoin. Both of them paid off handsomely. And most recently when I got cancer I'm free to work on this problem without a wife screaming at me to take chemo (and bump up my life insurance for her big payday). I avoided it all. Now I'm 93 pounds lighter and I got a 10% decrease in my cancer blood test. It's not a slam dunk but I think I'm solving that problem. Fingers crossed.
The awesome thing about staying single is that it grabs all the power that is so often abused by women and the state, and returns that power to where it belongs, with US.
Women are learning that "my body my choice" applies to men as well.
Liz, We are excited! I discovered your site yesterday and have enjoyed several videos. THANK YOU!
We decided just this week to start RV living. Brand new!!
Plan for short trips for experience(s) this spring/summer, purchase in late 2021 and find situations for the two of us to be of service (a licensed councilor & a certified life coach) Jan, Feb, and Mar of 2022.
Thanks again. Subscribed and viewing your videos.
Maxine & David
Appomattox, VA
Hi Maxine and David! Welcome to the A-Team! Paul and I are very excited for you both. Sounds like you have a lot to look forward to! Yay!
@@LizAmazing Wow! Quick response.
We are excited/working on two fronts ~ RV & combining careers!
Thank you, Liz. Great personally!
STUDEBAKER:
I was living in South Bend when Studebaker shut down in Dec. 1963. (15 yrs old). Several issues but memory is they went on strike over an addition 5 minutes for lunch.
Now THAT was a (local) economic crisis! Still looking for a Studebaker Hawk or Avanti. ~David
@@davidleckrone90 You and Paul would get along famously! You two could talk for hours! Paul says he can only imagine the impact on South Bend.
You have to kiss a thousand toads to find a prince! Good luck, it's crazy out there.
Yes, you sure do! It sure is crazy out there. I ended up meeting a camping neighbor and we are together now so I am DONE with online dating. Best wishes to you, too.
That's not always a bad thing. lol
*Frogs. You’ll likely only get warts from kissing toads!
Glad you found someone, but we would have made a great couple.🤗
Awww, that's so sweet of you.
She found someone already? That was quick, for me at any rate.
She is beautiful 👍💛😍 all the good ones are taken.😒
Seems like being as busy as one must be with this kind of life, dating is kind of a luxury.
Yes. Hard to fit it in when living the dream! Thanks for watching
Love your drone footage segments!
Thank you much! And I am DONE with online dating, here is what happened next: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
To many dating scams, Not sure if I would I would go that route again.
Yep. I'm done with Rv dating for now. Not at all impressed with the quality of people.
The free sites seems to more notorious on that.
After seeing a man for the past five months, when it finally came down to it, he truly Dido show me exactly who he was and he’s not a very nice person so I e walked away, said goodbye without explanation and have blocked him from my life. Five months was too long to invest. ;)
Ana Petruska wow, good for you that it wasn’t longer before he showed his true colors. Best of luck in your next dating adventure. Are you using dating sites or meeting men naturally?
Liz Amazing no dating sites, I meet them here and there... lol
Kind of cute, but with a small child, (not that I’m in that interest area).
I'm available & certainly not an AZZhole.😄 tough to find quality while living the RV lifestyle.😒
@@CK-831 ...you are right! Don't try to go 51%! If 50% isn't good enough, then go your own way!
i’m glad you and paul found each other; i recently went away w someone and have wanted to travel w someone so much ( i commented about this the other day on another? video.. i like what you said about going deep as it cuts to the chase quickly
It sure does! I am so glad you get that, Bruce. And best of luck in your search. Paul and I hope to meet you in your travels!
This aged poorly.
well done video. you have your head on straight. happy to hear you found a buddy. now I'm off to see if old people can fly drones.
Hi Tim! Thanks-- yes I am so grateful I found Paul. And welcome to the A-Team so glad you are enjoying my videos.
Googling someone doesn't always provide accurate info. I've been alone for 15+ years and see that googling myself I'm married.
Ha! Good point.
I once got an email asking me to detail the presentation I had for the then new POTUS, Obama the next day.
Uhmmmmm...
Turned out the person googled a name that happens to be the same as mine. And while my surname isn't terribly common, there's at least 3 other Kate's, & we're all approximately the same age...
🤣
Waaaaay too much drama.
Yep. I can honestly say I am DONE with online dating!
Great video ... too funny... very entertaining lol
Thank you!!! It's a crazy out there. I haven't ventured back out to Rv dating world, but when I do I bet there will be another video!
Another great video. Thanks for sharing your online experiences. I found it to be very interesting. It just amazes me that common sense isn’t so common. 🤦🏼♂️ Best of luck to you and stay safe. 🙏🏼
Thanks so much, Jeffrey! Appreciate you being here!
Cut to the chase, you can get laid at a homeless shelter for a couple packs of cigarettes.
Thank you! That's good to know! ;-)
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I guess I said that for the sake of women who think It's worth more, hold out for a "commitment," or "waiting for the right one," etc.
one cigarette is good enough for me.
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Now probably be new surge of visitors to the homeless shelters. lol
Quick update. I went to the homeless shelter they wanted a carton. NFW. Guy has his pride lol
People just need to be honest but most men want to impress women in just a few minutes. Nobody perfect but if they've had a lot... of drama most of their life I'll respectfully smile and put the gas pedal to the floor.
Thats definitely the way to be. I dont want any drama in my dating life for sure!
John, men HAVE to impress women during their reproductive years, or go genetically extinct as I have chosen to do. Trying to attract a woman by being a good person or a nice guy is pointless. They want Christian Gray or an ex con who's been pumping iron in prison for the last decade or so.
I met my wife online 18 years ago, before it was cool. Your video brought back a lot of memories.
Hi Ed. Awww, so sweet. I am actually DONE with online dating-- but I sure learned a lot from this experience. Congrats to you and your wife!
@@LizAmazing I did too, 15 years ago. I thought she looked like Betty Crocker, so good to go!
Just found your you tube channel --I had to go back and read from the beginning -- Loving all your adventures --especially liked the shots of Lake Coeur d'Alene - my home for 30 years ---I am subscriber #255 and will continue to be a faithful subscriber -- I have to agree with you the PNW has the most amazing scenery!! You are amazing!!
Jenny Johnson Hi Jenny! Thank you so much and welcome #255! One day soon we will laugh at that, channel is growing fast! Yes that lake is SO gorgeous, do you recognize it on my banner shot? So much to love in this country. Looking forward to getting back to Idaho!
@@LizAmazing Yes i did recognize it --- as a matter of fact the very first photo i put on m y blog in 2007 was of Coeur d 'Alene Lake - near and dear to my heart
So very beautiful. I must get back up that way someday.
After "total lust" comes, I need a checkbook, nurse or both. No thanks.
Ha! So sorry that happened to you. Dating is not for everybody. I am DONE with online dating for sure!
MGTOW
Your a middle aged smart free spirit Woman. Pleasant to the eye I may add with a petite figure. Companionship and romance will not come from plenty of fish. As a 60 year old male I get a lot of smiles and conversation in the grocery store or church with good results. From my experience any of the Women on them dating sites where not for me. Best of luck to you.
Thank you. Yes I have ruled out plenty of fish. I think the best relationships happen when you meet naturally.
I asked God to bring me the right person and i met him within a week we have been married over 40 yrs
i SOOOOO agree with you on attracting what we get. Doing the deep dive and swimming under the waves to correct perspectives and become the me I've always wanted to be! I opened the cage and let myself out. Not sure why i thought I needed to be in it at all, let alone so long. Oh the stories we tell ourselves! ;)
Yes! Life is definitely a continuous journey of self improvement. Wishing you best of luck! And I am done with online dating. Here is what happened next: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
Liz, very astute advice! I hate interruptive phone calls. Two of my best friends, both female, do it to me all the time. Is it a wonder I’ve backed off calling them? Keep up the great vlogs.
Thanks so much-- and glad you are enjoying them! Yep, I have friends who multi-task on the phone. I typically ask if there's a better time for us to connect. AND it's a reminder that sometimes, I too, am guilty of the same. People can really feel when you are giving them your undivided attention and listening deeply and from the heart. I sure try to do that as much as possible.
I wish women would be wise enough to know a separated man is a married man....period.
Yep, he had no biz being on a singles site.
I agree. Totally.
I know that most women don't care if a guy is married or not,and same goes for many men because most men and women have no respect for anyone else's family or things.
older women bring lots of baggage into the relationship, get a fun young one!
Not always. And younger ones especially if you're over 50 and shes that hot 20 something you'll be watching her to closely. Not to mention the heart attack that's waiting for your silliness trying to keep up with her in bed!!
I'm recently retired, no RV yet and 67 next week. But I've recently been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer for the second time. Oh joys! And my SSI just got cut $500 after 40 years of hard work! I've got to get that money back!!
Thanks for the tips on sites as I'm looking for an RVer woman that wants a partner. My problem is this little cancer problem. Lol!
But with my 115 average weight at 5'9" makes me skinny that I can walk in a rain storm and come back dry! Then the damages done by cancer and the radiation that saved my life! Yep cancer took my teeth, (who knew?) damaged my tounge and throat so eating is a hard job getting food down which because I can't eat but a few onces a day makes a "dinner date" a little awkward! Thankfully the VA feeds me enough Ensure to stay alive! But 6 cases takes up space!!
What's so sad is I can cast iron cook like a champ and yes I can do a wicked Lasagna, many egg dishes and other fun foods that are silly soft and slippery! But things like steak I have to cut into thin little bits which is not the same thing as eating a nice big piece of juicy meat!
Women don't want that or the age.
All I want is a lady like me that needs a guy that's good with tools, a stove or fire pit and actually keeps a kitchen cleaner than Gordon Ramsey ever saw! Nothing in the sink and yes, I do windows! And as a retired trucker there isnt an RV site yet I can't get a class A with a toad into either forwards or in reverse! And yes I am on the roof keeping tabs on the sealant while watching for delamination and inside leaks!
You 2 stay safe Liz and hopefully I will someday be in an RV! Now to hit those sites up! Anyone else it takes me maybe 10 minutes to get packed unless you want me to bring my cast iron cookware with me.
Blue skies and safe journey's!
Oh! I'd rather have an older woman as they already know what they want and they train you for her likes and wants which is better than teaching a child everything!
@@rolloverriderpgr Must be very difficult dealing with cancer and also issues with SSI. And I cant even imagine dating at that age . ( I just turned 60 and feel like IM too old to date). I pray you get well and someone good comes along.
I am always amazed at how differently Vandwellers and RV couples handle and approach relationships, we tend to move much faster and have a shorter checklist. we meet, and if we like each other form a caravan of 2, and if we still like each other consolidate into one van and that could all be in a period of a few months.
Yeah, that may be true that VanLifers move quicker! I am now DONE with online dating because here's what happened next: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
You know Liz I was divorced for 12 months before even got back on the dating game as I had a lot of work to do on myself, please be careful & all the best for your knew life.🙏🏻
Thanks so much-- good advice for sure!
Not even a year since your husband, and your angry because a stranger on the phone has a life and pets? Could your controlling behavior have anything to do with your situation?
Thanks so much. I am sure glad to be DONE with online dating!
thats a bit harsh eh! so what if shes a type A personality!! THEY are the types that GET THINGS DONE!!
And who were you to come in here making assumptions about her marriage? That's actually controlling.
I went MGTOW and never been happier
Awesome! Sounds like a perfect fit for you!
I haven’t met any MGTOWs but I would not automatically say they are losers.
What is a MGTOW?
@Phil Meup what does it mean? MGTOW
@Phil Meup Ok soy boy who gets told what to do. What a pathetic loser you are. A sissified loser who would have no clue how to be a man
hi liz
so glad that you met paul and he found you… and you both seem to be a the level of independence and maturity and introspection to know that either may be gone tomorrow.. by choice or by health/ etc
i’m still looking - last night has a drink w a lady whose 5 pictures were all 10-15 years old - WOW!!!
Oh my gosh, Bruce! I feel ya. It's really hard to be doing online dating. Wishing you much look. And I've heard good things about eHarmony. I went on a date once with a guy who was also using photos WAY out of date. He said in his profile he liked to play tennis. When we met and I saw how he was 40 pounds heavier in person than in his photos, I asked about tennis. He said played 20+ years ago when he was in high school! Goodness!
@@LizAmazing thx liz
honestly i believe almost all the sites are pretty equal
i’m on 6-7 i think
… it’s ridiculous
Wishing you luck on finding someone compatible, fun and desirable. It might seem impossible at times but it does happen, often.
Thanks so much for the good wishes, Ray!
Great video! Life as a single can be fun
Yes it can!
Thats great im happy for you both
Thanks so much!
Hi miss Liz Amazing. I think you are really pretty and have a cool personality. Keep traveling, learning and discovering. 😎💃🌹😉
Awww, thank you! Yep, it's all about that-- living our best lives and picking ourselves up when we fall. Keep on keeping on!
After I turned 50 I don't try as hard to please anyone els, I have lost enough time on others. I don't like to judge anyone we all make our mistakes that is just life. I wouldn't know how to flirt anymore and my grammar isn't good :) any hoot thanks for sharing, its always a positive even from some negative :)
Thanks for this. Yes, it's always best to remain positive. Thanks for watching.
Excellent video. I used to travel a lot for my own business, from 1996 to 2015, and was willing to relocate, so I could honestly do Match with women in places I was willing to live. I have done more online dating exploration locally. The people issues, good or bad, are about the same. A distance relationship can work, but only if the distance is eliminated fairly soon. Because of that, the relationship needs both people being excited about each other, figuring out and knowing fairly soon. It would not make sense to move when a relationship is still casual, and the relationship will die off if you take a long time. I have only entertained the idea during periods of my life when I could relocate. I can do it again in 2021 because I retired, and I know where I am and where I am not willing to relocate, but local is much more workable.
Agreed. Great things to think about for sure. I am DONE with online dating because this happened: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
Thank you for the information.. I am single and looking for someone to share my life with !!!
Yes! I am DONE with online dating -- I met someone on the road the old-fashioned way. That's the best advice I can give: talk to everyone you meet! Best of luck!
Thank you for sharing your experiences in the dating world. I tried POF three times and won't try again. People not communicating is a big issue.
Yep. I'm so glad to be DONE with online dating!
Interesting. I stumbled on a video of yours regarding the trailer accident and found you to be insightful and highly intelligent. This then popped up in my feed too. Was just curious to see what else you had to say. Only because I like to study people (like a people watcher). Happily married and could care less about the dating life! Again, very insightful person and find you interesting. I wish you safe travels and adventures. You seem like a nice person and pray you find the right person that comes along. Now I have to wonder if I click on any more of your videos just because you're more interesting than what is on TV and I'm putting off my chores. Haha.
Hi! Well thanks for stumbling onto my channel- and more importantly thanks so much for your kind words!
I am glad to say I am DONE with online dating! I met another camper on the road and now we are together. Check out my DONE video that tells all about it! Welcome to the A-Team and thanks for saying hi!
If you and I are rockin ,don't bother knocking .😊
Hi Liz, I've been watching and commenting on your frame issue videos. I just came across this one so you probably won't read this but you do sound amazing. I have no skeletons in my closet so I hope we run into each other someday. In the meantime, I will follow your tips. I have made some great friends while camping and I hope to find a companion while doing what I love.
My wife and I have been looking to go full timing. Have a very short list after 1 year of research. She is semi disabled and Newmar great quality on on models and our Number 1 pick, is the only manufacturer that has Disabled models..The Canyon Star 3911 was our pick..now for 2021 BayStar 3811..when this virus quarantine is over and things get back to the new normal..we hope to be on the road. Great videos keep them coming.
Hi Doug! Thanks so much for your comment. That's good to know that they make models for disabled. Way to go Newmar for doing that! We love-love-love Newmar and have done a couple tour videos. Our favorite is the Mountain Aire.
We are near a Newmar dealer and if they have a wheelchair access model on the lot, we will do a video on it. Thanks so much for giving us such a great idea!
Paul and I are excited for you that you are shopping and planning to get out on the road. We are SO ready to continue living the Rv life.
Hope to meet you and your wife at a campground someday!
My late wife and I loved traveling in our motorhome. She passed away six years ago and I don’t travel much anymore. I have a number of female friends that I do things with but nothing serious. Most women I am interested in are not interested in RVing. For now, it’s me and my dog when I do travel.
I'll agree with all your tips here...Especially since your ( I guess) a full time traveler.
Yep, I am a fulltimer. I am done with online dating for sure. And actually I never did more than what I showed in the video-- just communicated with a few people online.
@Liz Amazing: I have giving up on trying to date. Too much BS. I have a great dog to share my experiences with. Never did the on-line date thing, and after research from other's experiences, I do not think I will. I am too old and nearing retirement. I want to live free from the drama and lies people seam to offer for financial security or scams. I recommend a great rescue dog.Works for me!
POF, at least for folks past a certain age, of which I'm one, seems to contain only the sludge at the bottom of the dating pool. 🙂 I'm new to your videos, so I'm late watching this one. Enjoy your travels!
Oh my gosh so true! While I am traveling and living in an Rv, I am thinking dating is off the table. I turned off POF and totally agree with your assessment!
That is sad. I know a couple that met on POF and have been happily married for many year now. I tried it and it did not work for me but I don't think of myself as sludge.
@@chuck3813 I met my other half 12 years ago on POF. He was my 2nd date. He's a great guy.
I've been dating for about 5 yrs and it's a jungle out there!!!
❤️ Liz 🔥
Great Video 👏👏👏🤣🥂
Hey Susan! Thanks. Guess I won't be needing these tips anymore!
Hello Liz... Came across your channel while researching RV living must say the POF site is a crazy site like yourself I was getting all around the country messages also.Im getting ready to retire soon n want to try this RV living.. Happy Trails n Im a new sub..
Hi Gary- welcome to the A-Team! Yes I am totally DONE with POF and online dating- it’s a zoo out there!!! Enjoy Rv living- it is fun just planning for it!!!
@@LizAmazing Thank you n yes im in that stage rite at 61 n still working n planning n saving for the over road journey.. To meet people with the same interests of living..
Love your videos ty for sharing 💜🙏😇☮️🕉️☯️🌺🌹🌸🌅🌻☀️🌄🌷
Thanks again!
Thanks 🙏🏻 for sharing... communication is key 🔑...
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You ARE a survivor, what an inspiration! Enjoy the beautiful moments in every day!
@ Tim Burton: I like your movies. 😉
I did not know there were so many resources for singles on the road. Those guys should definitely read Corey Wayne's book How to be a 3% Man or watch his videos. I have learned a lot from him and all the mistakes I have made in dating.
Nomadic RV Living haven’t heard of him, that sounds great. Of course a person has to want to improve. But I guess if they are not happy with their dating results then maybe they will.
I do not know if old people can fly drones lol . I have about 20 of them. I have not enjoyed flying them because I have had far
to many breakdowns with my motorhome. Seems everybody what has towed my motorhome has damaged it.
I just want to get back on the road and head south ! I really enjoy finding friends and sharing events. Life is to short just
enjoy yourself and everything else will fall as it may.
You are so right. It's definitely about experiences, not things. In fact, less stuff equals more life! Hope you get out on the road sometime soon!
being divorced and about to become a full time RVer I was wondering how you could meet other divorced people, thanks for sharing!
I know there are groups on Facebook for solo travelers. That would be your best bet. Thanks for watching and happy travels!
lots of good points about when a guy talks 90% of the time during the conversation. This is how we men avoid having to answer all the questions that a woman might be trying to ask in the conversation. A guy would feel he is being judged by his answer and she may potentially lose interest in him based on those answers
Yep, that very well could be that. Thanks for this!
Liz I can't find the DRONE video. Did you make it?
I sure did. Here it is: th-cam.com/video/2CYhi3JMKWU/w-d-xo.html
Tip 9 hit close to home . The only advice on relationships my dad gave me was , Don't ever chase after somebody , if they want to be with you ,they will be . And , Don't lie , She deserves better then that . I definitely agree that roles we play has a effect on who we attract . Also to much info early on is a red flag . BTW Plenty of Fish is a naughty website . Lots of cheaters and " professional ladies " on there . I still prefer meeting people by chance . Great tips ,great video .Thank you . Ps . I believe I violated your No. 1 tip
Hi Daniel! Thanks so much for commenting. Great advice and tips in your comment, love them! As you may know, I am DONE with online dating! Here's what happened next: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
Wow! So glad I am not in that game. Good luck finding a friend.
Yeah, online dating did NOT work out. I ended up meeting someone the old fashioned way-- YAY!
LMAO. You had to call one of the guys.....BOB!
Well, it was either that or Dick. :-)
This is cute knowing your future.
Yep! And I did my Pros & Cons of solo Rving right before I broke my hand....and you know the rest of the story!
this is hilarious to me. I ended up working for a dating mbrshp cuz of a fatal attraction I had eons ago. I wanted SCREENED applicants, lol. I also wanted personality testing for compatibility so you don't get just their version of who they are. I loved that job, it was video dating libraries. I signed up my next spouse, lol. We knew during the interviewing process. He asked the franchise owners could he date the staff. Then asked me out. He passed, and I tried online dating and it was AWFUL. One memorable funny experience was this guy came to my town, he had a friend there. He said he was almost 6 ft...let's just say being an avg height, he came up to my chin...I called him the elf...it was creepy that his hand was smaller than mine and I have small hands. His idea of himself wasn't grounded in reality. A PhD...I figured it was in fantasy thinking or something like it. I think dating over a certain age is just RISKY...too much baggage. I come with carry on, but most I meet have several trunks, lol.
Oh my goodness, we could definitely swap stories about online dating. I'm definitely done with that now. I tried it and I did not like it! Thanks for watching and see you in the next video
I chuckled watching 'n listening. Good conclusions on your part ! I'm 75, retired architect, divorced 38 yrs ago, extremely active & healthy, travel all over, presently traveling in 6 Southeast Asia countries ....will most likely will get a rig when I get back to the states in the spring 'n make my 10th trip to Alaska. I "LOVE" the outdoors & will welcome full time RVing ...it sure would be neat to find a "like minded" soul ....but dating sites??? Been there, done that ...and NOPE! Huge waste of time. HUGE! Respectfully, if I may say, you have a great personality, attractive, under 50 and outward going..... trust me, God will put the right person in your path. Hang in there 'n not worry. Patience :)
Hello and thanks so much for your comment. Sorry for the delay, TH-cam hid your comment for some mysterious reason. I appreciate your words and you are so wise. I think you will do just fine with RV life and it sounds like you are enjoying life no matter where you are or what you do. I look forward to meeting you someday as I appreciate your good cheer.
I agree with you 100% that online dating is a big NOPE! As a matter of fact, I met someone on the road who was my camping neighbor. Here is the story: th-cam.com/video/jvWDUG3zgdA/w-d-xo.html
Thanks again for your good wishes and encouragement. Wishing you happy and safe travels!
When you say google a persons first and last name, do you use a paid site for records? Just curious.
Nope, I just googled and this came up on the search as the DUII was published somewhere. But you bring up a good point. To do a thorough search, it might be advisable to pay public records. At least at some early point in the relationship.
OMG bob Aron and Carl keep running good choice
Yep, they were not for me for sure!