Sweetie you had me the moment you said you first need to identify who you want to be. Anyone can make a list of goals but a true level up requires reinvention. I am here for it sis. Let’s Do This!!!
Great and Insightful content thanks for sharing sis! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
@@gracedaniels6172 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
@@eiraantoinette6793 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
How to reinvent yourself 1. Deciding who I want to become 2. Accept and let go of past versions of yourself 3. Adopt to the right habits ,routines and mindset 4. Simplify your life as much as you can 5. Create an easy to follow productivity system 6. Be tough and push yourself
Today is my 4th day on my feminine journey, I've been working out at least 2hours every morning, I feel refreshed, relieved, I have a 18month old daughter so I'm trying to get my mommy pouch down, I've been depressed for as long as I remember but recently something just clicked in my mind, like "what am I doing just sulking around, being a mom and not taking care of myself physically and mentally or even emotionally?" I was feeling suicidal but I won't let it feed off of me no more...I want to feel free and confident and I'm commiting every, single, day until I reach there!
Currently running on the treadmill as I’m listing to this. I agree you don’t need to wait until the begin of the year to reinvent yourself! I started my fitness journey in December and I’m still going…20kg down now
@@samrawitalemseged8379 thanks for the reminder!!! You're absolutely right to start NOW don't delay the self journey til another year. You motivate me to start these goals and self love wellness journey now instead of Dec/January new year resolutions 👏💖✨.
I love to see young black women taking control of their lives and making changes to better their quality of life and future, taking care of our mental state. We got this ladies👏🏾
I started mine 04/28/2022 by removing social media apps off of my phone that filled up A LOT of my time. definitely on a self-reevaluation journey so i’m glad I came across your video
Thank you for adding no. 2 as letting go of past versions of yourself. I feel like everyone who does videos on improving life, never talk about that. I'm here for it. Thank you!
I agree, I’m still holding onto my pre COVID self and it’s caused me depression. I’ve been trying different things that haven’t worked but I think she might have cracked the code.
Thank you so much for sharing! So many WANT to reinvent themselves after the last 2 years but don't know HOW TO! I love your analogy of seasons - in my experience giving ourselves time is the most difficult but also most rewarding habit to make our progress stick.
I have been reinventing myself since the year started and at some point I felt like I wasn’t doing enough.But after watching this video I feel like I’ve been too hard on myself.Thank you for sharing this.
"Letting go of the old version of yourself." Deep but true statement. Indeed, it does start with the mindset. I love your videos. Coming ng across your video was no accident. Great content.
This resonates with me so much. Every time look back at who I was, I cry. 😢 Becoming a coach was not on my radar. I didn’t know people would pay me for my knowledge and expertise outside of a job. I’ve broken free from being a victim to become a warrior. #stillaworkinprocess though. 😊
Thank you so much for reminding me that even "just" folowing your daily morning routine is enough to renew yourself. I want to become better version of myself, but for now I'm building my Healthy daily routines. New subscriber here! ❤️
Omg girl i also almost became my best self 2019 and that was all lost and i miss that version of me. But the pandemic gave me so much time to focus on other areas and work on my business like never before
I just want to unlock the best me, the things I want in life the women and mom I want to be, finding friends who are supportive and I really want to change the way I spend money and save and go on trips and enjoy life. I love this
This is inspiring! And we must acknowledge that life comes in seasons, things come and go and that's okay. "Don't let life happen TO you, let life intentionally unfold FOR you." Preach, sis! 🙌🏽Love the advice you shared in this video, Montelle!
This resonates so much with me. I’ve been unhappy for awhile and was recently diagnosed with yet ANOTHER dis-ease. It’s a wake up call that it’s beyond time to make the necessary changes in my life.
This was sooooo good. I'm in the season of reinventing myself after having 3 kids back to back....to back lol. My youngest just turned one and I'm ready to level up. But when you said figure out WHO I want to be first...🤯. I love that, now I can really have a visual of who I want to be and how I want to live myself. So I thank you for opening my eyes a little bit wider to the possibilities of a better me.
YESSSS to stop reminiscing about who you were before. I was so caught up in how I was just beginning a career too, over 700 credit score, new car, new apartment and it all went away! I lost my job, my credit, got into debt, loss my apartment and for the past two years I’ve been so lost. Thank you for this video because it’s help me to understand it’s about time I rebrand myself.
Love all these tips they are so useful!! I am actively trying to implement most of them so to see you talk about them gives me so much reassurance, I love how you said even if you just stick to your morning routine it’s already a good year. I think it’s such a good way of framing it xx
I really resonate with the mention of 2019 being your best year because that was me and I kind of do still hold on to 2019, I’m trying to let that go, slowly but surely😩
This video is right on time! I’m in the process of vlogging my weight loss journey but I plan on that being just the start I want to be a whole new woman in the next year.
Omg, the lightbulb moment just turned on. I have been completely ignoring my identity and realising who I am should align with what I want to achieve. Thank you for this video ❤
I’ve never seen before, but I’m so glad I clicked on this video! At the end of 2021 I was doing great! I was really getting into yoga and Pilates, and I was losing weight. Feeling confident and going out a lot, and then on the first day of 2022 I sprained my ankle and got COVID. Completely killed any progress that I made and I’ve been wallowing for months. I need to let go of my disappointment and get myself back on track!!
I could not love this any more. You took a very important topic and simplified it to where anyone can apply the simple steps and see success. Thank you.
U know dear, for some people your videos can be a little enlightening but for some people like us your words and way of explanation is like getting out of the depression. Especially, on those days when we have different mood swings, are lost in some different world for a week maybe, and not able to cook even.
Step by step it will all come together... I really wanted to start a TH-cam channel for the past how many years I procrastinated, but now I'm happy I started, it's all worth it at the end,so enjoy the process
7:00 omg this was totally me. Recently I just had to just accept the season im in I can’t travel , I can’t go out , lost some friends . I Just had to accept the season I’m in knowing I’m becoming better stronger more successful.
Yes! Thank you Montelle!!! ❤ I’m currently reinventing myself too! And have an idea to record a similar video with my starting point and then check after 6 months period! Can’t wait 🎉❤
"Letting go of the old versions of yourself." Wow, that is so powerful to me. This actually scares me a little thinking about it. I need to chew on this for a moment. Lol
This was Right on Time 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank Youuuu . . ❤️ "Accepting and letting go of past versions of self". . . . That's the One🙌🏾🤞🏾❤️. . I'm going to watch this every morning while transitioning into the Best Version of myself. . I appreciate this Video.
I've done it in one year so I know for sure that you're going to change everything your desire to ❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 can't wait to see the change in your video's 🧚🏾♀️
Thank you for posting this!! I totally resonate with you about holding on the identity of your 2019 self. That has been me and this week I decided to let it go!!
I only recently found your channel, and am already loving your videos just after watching this. I’m definitely planning on a personal reinvention and really can’t wait to see how I grow and change. ✨
Montelle its the letting go of the old identity for me!!! After living in Asia for 4 years and then moving back to my home country (US) it has definitely been a process these past few months living back in Atlanta and thinking about all of the things that I was doing abroad and who I was and letting go of the old me and redefining this new beginning in my life and who I desire to be and what I have to do to become this new person in this new place. #Letgoofheoldversion. I definitely have been trying to get out of the feeling of being stuck. Thank you I really needed this
Damn this video was perfect timing! This is exactly what I want rn. Working on the right mindsets and habits and Identify and aligning yourself to receive the material is a great way to do it.I feel like I was trying to do it the other day around.
I have been watching all your videos for 3 hours straight!!! I’m logging off 💀💀💀 I love your content! Thank you beautiful. Just what I needed when I was about to give up! Ily ❤
Your videos are so informative! Thank you 💓 I took notes for this I’m a 20 yr old content creator who wants to be able to enjoy my money by living life fully with courage and confidence bc I am very ambitious 🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾 no more allowing set backs or past failures, fears, to hold me back.
Ahhhh I love this… I’m in the season of level up! For the past 3 years.. I’ve changed so much.. I’ve changed how I look at t he world, money, relationships… This new brand is a Bad Bitch that travels, has luxury everything, Masters degree, Six figures, fit IT girl 😃… I’ve had my Erykah badu, I did the entrepreneur thing, I did the popular girl thing… I’m ready for the change.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾..
June 21, 2022 I'll begin reinventing myself! I've watched several of your videos and I always leave feeling motivated. I have been an entrepreneur for 6 months now and didn't hesitate to purchasing the book. I'm ready to push harder while staying consistent.
Thank you 🙏 I tumbled into your video for a purpose. I have been lost for over 2 years and just recently started to put my life back together. Little that I know I am in a process of reinventing myself without knowing it. Even some family members noticed and mentioned that I becoming a better version of myself. I believe everything happened for a reason. Seeing and watching your video was not by accident it was a reassurance that I’m in the right track and that I need most of the tools you have mentioned in your video. One is I have to let go my past self and put all my positive energy into my new self. Thank you so much I believe you are God ‘ s sent
I liked your comment bcs I'm doing the same, it's been 2 years also since the last time I completed my everyday to do list! 🥰 sending much love, lets conquer ourselves. 💪
I just had the idea of instead of doing an improvement for 1 year, I can do 12 weeks. Just to start to build the momentum. And then continue after those 12 weeks
About the pushing yourself to the limit…I did this for about four years and it broke me. Not only did I get used to constantly feeling beat up, and keeping my head just above water, but I actually got addicted to the stress and the cortisol. I realized later though that the reason this happened is because yes I was militantly punishing and beating myself up every day, but I also wasn’t in alignment. There’s a HUGE difference between pushing yourself for the sake of it, and pushing yourself out of a true underlying self love, and wanting to see yourself succeed. This is what I was missing the first time and it was an absolutely horrible experience. So if you’re going to push yourself to your limit, make sure it’s out of love and not coming from a place of self hatred!!
WOW You had some wonderful tips here and it is so amazing to see how much you grew since this video. Very inspiring words you shared, I particularly like the "Let go of the past version of yourself". I worked for 20 years to become a music producer and DJ and achieved much with it but felt like I hit a ceiling for myself and I could not break through. But organically I have found that traveling and helping others is my calling but I have been afraid to put the old version of myself to rest and embrace the new self completely. That is until now, you words help cement this idea to allow myself to grow into who I am meant to really be. Thank you for that! -Christo
I have to be hard on myself , it's needed... Yes this is what I have been doing for the past 1 month and yeah ...I can't believe iam doing things I thought were impossible example 1,000 jump rope everyday... stay strong everyone.
Love this video, I'm going through literally everything you said right about now. Successful pre covid, then 3 years later it all changed. Decided to level up and focus on the things that I truly love. I've just qualified as a fitness trainer, after 7 weeks studying. I've started my TH-cam Channel after years of procrastination, and have been consistent with it. My third love for cooking, I will be attending a culinary class to help master the art of food presentation. We can change a whole lot in a year if we just focus, be consistent and true to ourselves.
This is the video I was looking for! I recently left an abusive relationship and I am working on figuring out who I am again…I love all of these tips thank you ❤️
I most definitely agree with what u said about not having to wait until January to start over! This is how i used to think and I’ve recently realized that i can restart whenever i feel like i want to write a new story in my life 🤍 love the video and ur so beautiful. Definitely subscribing now ! 🤍
Omg, this video literally confirms everything I have been feeling. When you mentioned ‘2years of holding on to your past self’. But then after learning a lot from my present situation I am willing to step back and choose aspects of both the past and present experience to choose an identity.
TH-cam recommended this video to me and I couldn’t be more happier that I watched it. I just turned a year older last week and I am in the journey of making better choices and healthier decisions this year 💪💪🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you for sharing your experience and for the inspiration! I started my social media detox yesterday. I have done it before when I deleted my FB account and did not miss it at all after 1 year, so I can do that!! I am focusing on listening to positive, educative podcasts instead, might start learning some new skills, even a third language,,,,why not! and also stick to my exercise routine and self care, journaling, starting an online store, a abrand...oh and for me personally, giving up alcohol for good. :) GOOD LUCK & BLESSINGS EVERYONE...we got this! let's get ready for the next level in our lives....NEW EXCITING EXPERIENCES & AMAZING PEOPLE AWAIT FOR US!!! And the new US!!
This was truly inspiring, thank you for those actualy helpful advices! It feels refreshing to see something else than "change your aesthetic" or "work out" in this video format.
I like that you said to let go even if it was positive cz I felt like I finally broke through and was loving it up feeling amazing about myself then I fell into a rut and I keep thinking I need to get back to how I was before this but better things are too come!!!!
Definitely earned a new subscriber out of me!! first video i’ve come across of you and let me just say this was absolutely amazing, informative, and just the match i needed to spark my season of reinvention!!! i literally took notes on each point and will use it as a reference point throughout my journey. about a week ago i said to myself “this summer is personal for me” and at the time i didn’t really know exactly what that meant but for this video to end up in my suggestions feels like a confirmation!!! THANK YOU for creating this video and sharing your wisdom 💕
Holding on to things I almost build and who I almost was !!!!!! That's exactly what im going through . Letting go of old Me and building up this new me
Reinventing myself has been hard but I wanna start a new cycle. I need to start now because I am beautiful but I wanna be a more beautiful version of myself. Only 21 but I wanna feel less overwhelmed and depressed. ❤️😅
I’m always coming back to this video to remind myself what I need to do to change. This is very well said and extremely useful❤️thank you so much for helping me and others to change for the better💋
Just discovered your channel by the 12wk year video.. Right on time! I’ve been trying some things on my own, but missed a little motivation/direction. Now watching this vid with literal tears in my eyes. I needed someone to tell me these things. I don’t have many people around me who think this way, who want to be/get better.. so thank you for you! ❤
wow! i really appreciate your content. this was well needed. i relate to you so much. i feel the same exact way about everything you said. you really spoke to me so thank you 🙏🏾
This Video Resonated With Me So Much. You Were Talking & I Was Finishing Your Sentences! I Know This Is My Rebirth Season, I’ve Shifted My Mindset & So Much That I Had Thought Wouldn’t Be A Part Of My Reality Is Manifesting & Revealing Itself. I Love How You Basically Said Let Your Life In 2019 Go, Bc You Are Not That Same Person. I Swear When I Left The Office In March Of 2020 I Had No Idea What Was In Store. I Lowkey Was Beating Myself Up Bc I Felt Like Where Did Time Go & What Have I Been Doing? I Was Adjusting & Surviving. That’s All I Could Do, COVID Was The Black Plague & Then We Had Riots In Chicago, Mentally Exhausted Would Be A Nice Way Of Explaining My State. I Had To Really Reflect & Give MYSELF GRACE For That Season.
Thank you immensely for this video, and making the steps practical. I've been wanting to create a 2022 vision board of exactly what I want to achieve but felt weird since it's the middle of the year already. So thank you for showing you can start your plan at any point of the year (so glad to have found your channel from this & will be following along with your videos as I dive into this new chapter)
Definitely understand what you mean by pushing yourself and being harder on yourself. I’ve been through a lot lately so I’ve been coddling myself a bit (perhaps too much at this point). It’s time to light it up and push myself into the future and toward building the life I want. Great video!! 😀♥️
Truly, thank you. I’m always watching random motivational videos in the morning but this is exactly what I needed. Thank you for being so practical and action focused.
Thank you! I am so happy to hear your thoughts about pushing yourself. There is this trend now that is all about being relaxed and not working hard. I agree, work hard for your goals!💕
can you also do a video on how to prioritize things in your life? such as having a business or a job while also taking care of your mental health, paying bills and taking time for yourself!🥺💕
Sweetie you had me the moment you said you first need to identify who you want to be. Anyone can make a list of goals but a true level up requires reinvention. I am here for it sis. Let’s Do This!!!
Let’s go!!! 🔥🙌🏾💫
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I love this energy!!
thats the key I want to be so many things though
Right!! I had to pause the video to figure that out.
Great and Insightful content thanks for sharing sis! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations Kimaya Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
@@gracedaniels6172 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
@@kimayaknight7180 How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you kimaya keep it going 🎉👍
@@eiraantoinette6793 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
How to reinvent yourself
1. Deciding who I want to become
2. Accept and let go of past versions of yourself
3. Adopt to the right habits ,routines and mindset
4. Simplify your life as much as you can
5. Create an easy to follow productivity system
6. Be tough and push yourself
Thank you so much ❤
Well thank you.
Today is my 4th day on my feminine journey, I've been working out at least 2hours every morning, I feel refreshed, relieved, I have a 18month old daughter so I'm trying to get my mommy pouch down, I've been depressed for as long as I remember but recently something just clicked in my mind, like "what am I doing just sulking around, being a mom and not taking care of myself physically and mentally or even emotionally?" I was feeling suicidal but I won't let it feed off of me no more...I want to feel free and confident and I'm commiting every, single, day until I reach there!
Currently running on the treadmill as I’m listing to this. I agree you don’t need to wait until the begin of the year to reinvent yourself! I started my fitness journey in December and I’m still going…20kg down now
Amazing results!!!! You should be so proud love 👏🏾❤️
@@MontelleBee Thank you my lovely! Love your content & personality! Glad I found you on here ❤️🥰
@@samrawitalemseged8379 thanks for the reminder!!! You're absolutely right to start NOW don't delay the self journey til another year. You motivate me to start these goals and self love wellness journey now instead of Dec/January new year resolutions 👏💖✨.
@@anitaknight3915 that’s amazing!! I am wish you all the best with your journey! 🥰🤗
I love to see young black women taking control of their lives and making changes to better their quality of life and future, taking care of our mental state. We got this ladies👏🏾
Yesss we do!!! 👏🏾❤️
Yes 👏🏾
I started mine 04/28/2022 by removing social media apps off of my phone that filled up A LOT of my time. definitely on a self-reevaluation journey so i’m glad I came across your video
I love this for you!! ❤️
I'm on day 6 of no social media and I thought I wouldn't cope but I've found more fulfilling things
Started mines the 18th of July. One week in. So far, so good. No social media.
I have just started my journey and TH-cam recommended this! I subscribed straight away
Thank you for adding no. 2 as letting go of past versions of yourself. I feel like everyone who does videos on improving life, never talk about that.
I'm here for it. Thank you!
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Good point. It’s a big part of the process.
I agree, I’m still holding onto my pre COVID self and it’s caused me depression. I’ve been trying different things that haven’t worked but I think she might have cracked the code.
Thank you so much for sharing! So many WANT to reinvent themselves after the last 2 years but don't know HOW TO! I love your analogy of seasons - in my experience giving ourselves time is the most difficult but also most rewarding habit to make our progress stick.
Thanks for watching Kai! I absolutely agree, we need to give ourself grace and time🙌🏾
I have been reinventing myself since the year started and at some point I felt like I wasn’t doing enough.But after watching this video I feel like I’ve been too hard on myself.Thank you for sharing this.
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"Letting go of the old version of yourself." Deep but true statement. Indeed, it does start with the mindset. I love your videos. Coming ng across your video was no accident. Great content.
Absolutely 🙏🏾❤️ and thank you love!
This channel appeared at the perfect time in my life...and now this video is the confirmation and reminder I needed...thank you
I'm so glad you found my channel ❤
This resonates with me so much. Every time look back at who I was, I cry. 😢 Becoming a coach was not on my radar. I didn’t know people would pay me for my knowledge and expertise outside of a job. I’ve broken free from being a victim to become a warrior. #stillaworkinprocess though. 😊
LIFE COMES IN SEASONS: even you are in a season of confusion be present & embrace it! Such a powerful info you shared! Thanks a lot! 💝
Thank you so much for reminding me that even "just" folowing your daily morning routine is enough to renew yourself. I want to become better version of myself, but for now I'm building my Healthy daily routines. New subscriber here! ❤️
Yes absolutely! And welcome 🤗❤️
Omg girl i also almost became my best self 2019 and that was all lost and i miss that version of me. But the pandemic gave me so much time to focus on other areas and work on my business like never before
Yup, I can relate!
I just want to unlock the best me, the things I want in life the women and mom I want to be, finding friends who are supportive and I really want to change the way I spend money and save and go on trips and enjoy life. I love this
This is inspiring! And we must acknowledge that life comes in seasons, things come and go and that's okay. "Don't let life happen TO you, let life intentionally unfold FOR you." Preach, sis! 🙌🏽Love the advice you shared in this video, Montelle!
Absolutely!! ❤️
This resonates so much with me. I’ve been unhappy for awhile and was recently diagnosed with yet ANOTHER dis-ease. It’s a wake up call that it’s beyond time to make the necessary changes in my life.
This was sooooo good. I'm in the season of reinventing myself after having 3 kids back to back....to back lol. My youngest just turned one and I'm ready to level up. But when you said figure out WHO I want to be first...🤯. I love that, now I can really have a visual of who I want to be and how I want to live myself. So I thank you for opening my eyes a little bit wider to the possibilities of a better me.
YESSSS to stop reminiscing about who you were before. I was so caught up in how I was just beginning a career too, over 700 credit score, new car, new apartment and it all went away! I lost my job, my credit, got into debt, loss my apartment and for the past two years I’ve been so lost. Thank you for this video because it’s help me to understand it’s about time I rebrand myself.
Love all these tips they are so useful!! I am actively trying to implement most of them so to see you talk about them gives me so much reassurance, I love how you said even if you just stick to your morning routine it’s already a good year. I think it’s such a good way of framing it xx
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Finally a representative of my culture helping me and not pressuring
I really resonate with the mention of 2019 being your best year because that was me and I kind of do still hold on to 2019, I’m trying to let that go, slowly but surely😩
Hey, do you perhaps know what song is playing at the start of the video?😂
Good Morning I just wanted to say thank you…..I am in my late 40s and thoroughly enjoyed this video. Very inspiring 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for watching ❤️
This video is right on time! I’m in the process of vlogging my weight loss journey but I plan on that being just the start I want to be a whole new woman in the next year.
I love that for you!! You've got this sis ❤
Omg, the lightbulb moment just turned on. I have been completely ignoring my identity and realising who I am should align with what I want to achieve. Thank you for this video ❤
Literally just came across your video after promising myself to make serious changes in my life. This video is gold. Thank you ❤️
Ahh I love that for you! ❤️
I’ve never seen before, but I’m so glad I clicked on this video! At the end of 2021 I was doing great! I was really getting into yoga and Pilates, and I was losing weight. Feeling confident and going out a lot, and then on the first day of 2022 I sprained my ankle and got COVID. Completely killed any progress that I made and I’ve been wallowing for months. I need to let go of my disappointment and get myself back on track!!
I’m so glad you found this video at the right time. You have the opportunity to reinvent yourself everyday ❤️🙏🏾
I could not love this any more. You took a very important topic and simplified it to where anyone can apply the simple steps and see success. Thank you.
U know dear, for some people your videos can be a little enlightening but for some people like us your words and way of explanation is like getting out of the depression. Especially, on those days when we have different mood swings, are lost in some different world for a week maybe, and not able to cook even.
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Step by step it will all come together... I really wanted to start a TH-cam channel for the past how many years I procrastinated, but now I'm happy I started, it's all worth it at the end,so enjoy the process
Yes!! Congratulations. A year from now, you’ll be happy you started 🙏🏾
@@MontelleBee thank you 💕💛
7:00 omg this was totally me. Recently I just had to just accept the season im in I can’t travel , I can’t go out , lost some friends . I Just had to accept the season I’m in knowing I’m becoming better stronger more successful.
Absolutely 🙏🏾🤩
I so agree with the past versions of self. I just came to this realization recently but you worded it so perfectly.
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No idea how this video appeared on my radar at this moment but it’s exactly what I needed.
Yes! Thank you Montelle!!! ❤
I’m currently reinventing myself too! And have an idea to record a similar video with my starting point and then check after 6 months period! Can’t wait 🎉❤
"Letting go of the old versions of yourself." Wow, that is so powerful to me. This actually scares me a little thinking about it. I need to chew on this for a moment. Lol
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I can’t keep thinking about my mistakes in my past. I want to be excited for my future instead of dwelling on the past.
Thankyou for posting this at the perfect time for me! I’ve been needing to reinvent myself but had no clue where to start, I’m starting today 💕
We love to hear it!!!! You’ve got this beaut 🙏🏾🤍
Good for you! Me too!!!! I need to start living my best life again, reinventing and investing in myself again! 🥰
This was Right on Time 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank Youuuu . . ❤️ "Accepting and letting go of past versions of self". . . . That's the One🙌🏾🤞🏾❤️. . I'm going to watch this every morning while transitioning into the Best Version of myself. . I appreciate this Video.
I've done it in one year so I know for sure that you're going to change everything your desire to ❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 can't wait to see the change in your video's 🧚🏾♀️
Thank you beautiful!!
Thank you for posting this!! I totally resonate with you about holding on the identity of your 2019 self. That has been me and this week I decided to let it go!!
I love this for you ❤
your page was recommended by someone at work and let me say i will be staying .very insipirational and useful advice
Aw I love that! Thank you love ❤️
I only recently found your channel, and am already loving your videos just after watching this. I’m definitely planning on a personal reinvention and really can’t wait to see how I grow and change. ✨
Ahh I’m so happy to hear that love ❤️ you’re so welcome ✨
Montelle its the letting go of the old identity for me!!! After living in Asia for 4 years and then moving back to my home country (US) it has definitely been a process these past few months living back in Atlanta and thinking about all of the things that I was doing abroad and who I was and letting go of the old me and redefining this new beginning in my life and who I desire to be and what I have to do to become this new person in this new place. #Letgoofheoldversion. I definitely have been trying to get out of the feeling of being stuck. Thank you I really needed this
Damn this video was perfect timing! This is exactly what I want rn. Working on the right mindsets and habits and Identify and aligning yourself to receive the material is a great way to do it.I feel like I was trying to do it the other day around.
I have been watching all your videos for 3 hours straight!!! I’m logging off 💀💀💀 I love your content! Thank you beautiful. Just what I needed when I was about to give up! Ily ❤
Actually it’s about to be 4 hours NO LIE! Look at your analytics lol! Thus my last video until tomorrow ❤❤❤ thank you 🙏
Your videos are so informative! Thank you 💓 I took notes for this I’m a 20 yr old content creator who wants to be able to enjoy my money by living life fully with courage and confidence bc I am very ambitious 🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾 no more allowing set backs or past failures, fears, to hold me back.
Off topic but I really love your voice.
It sounds so pretty, friendly and genuine. New subscriber here!
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Thank you so much. And welcome 🤗❤️
Ahhhh I love this… I’m in the season of level up! For the past 3 years.. I’ve changed so much.. I’ve changed how I look at t he world, money, relationships… This new brand is a Bad Bitch that travels, has luxury everything, Masters degree, Six figures, fit IT girl 😃… I’ve had my Erykah badu, I did the entrepreneur thing, I did the popular girl thing… I’m ready for the change.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾..
June 21, 2022 I'll begin reinventing myself! I've watched several of your videos and I always leave feeling motivated. I have been an entrepreneur for 6 months now and didn't hesitate to purchasing the book. I'm ready to push harder while staying consistent.
Thank you 🙏 I tumbled into your video for a purpose. I have been lost for over 2 years and just recently started to put my life back together. Little that I know I am in a process of reinventing myself without knowing it. Even some family members noticed and mentioned that I becoming a better version of myself. I believe everything happened for a reason. Seeing and watching your video was not by accident it was a reassurance that I’m in the right track and that I need most of the tools you have mentioned in your video. One is I have to let go my past self and put all my positive energy into my new self. Thank you so much I believe you are God ‘ s sent
That’s amazing! I’m so glad you’re making noticeable progress. You must be so proud ❤️ and I’m happy you found my content at the right time! 🙏🏾✨
I liked your comment bcs I'm doing the same, it's been 2 years also since the last time I completed my everyday to do list! 🥰 sending much love, lets conquer ourselves. 💪
I just had the idea of instead of doing an improvement for 1 year, I can do 12 weeks. Just to start to build the momentum. And then continue after those 12 weeks
Yes that’s exactly what I’m doing!! I recently started reading “The 12-week year”
About the pushing yourself to the limit…I did this for about four years and it broke me. Not only did I get used to constantly feeling beat up, and keeping my head just above water, but I actually got addicted to the stress and the cortisol. I realized later though that the reason this happened is because yes I was militantly punishing and beating myself up every day, but I also wasn’t in alignment. There’s a HUGE difference between pushing yourself for the sake of it, and pushing yourself out of a true underlying self love, and wanting to see yourself succeed. This is what I was missing the first time and it was an absolutely horrible experience. So if you’re going to push yourself to your limit, make sure it’s out of love and not coming from a place of self hatred!!
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You had some wonderful tips here and it is so amazing to see how much you grew since this video. Very inspiring words you shared, I particularly like the "Let go of the past version of yourself".
I worked for 20 years to become a music producer and DJ and achieved much with it but felt like I hit a ceiling for myself and I could not break through. But organically I have found that traveling and helping others is my calling but I have been afraid to put the old version of myself to rest and embrace the new self completely. That is until now, you words help cement this idea to allow myself to grow into who I am meant to really be. Thank you for that!
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I have to be hard on myself , it's needed...
Yes this is what I have been doing for the past 1 month and yeah ...I can't believe iam doing things I thought were impossible example 1,000 jump rope everyday... stay strong everyone.
Love this video, I'm going through literally everything you said right about now. Successful pre covid, then 3 years later it all changed. Decided to level up and focus on the things that I truly love. I've just qualified as a fitness trainer, after 7 weeks studying. I've started my TH-cam Channel after years of procrastination, and have been consistent with it. My third love for cooking, I will be attending a culinary class to help master the art of food presentation. We can change a whole lot in a year if we just focus, be consistent and true to ourselves.
This is the video I was looking for! I recently left an abusive relationship and I am working on figuring out who I am again…I love all of these tips thank you ❤️
Good on you love! Enjoy this new season of self-love and evolution ❤️
@@MontelleBee thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I most definitely agree with what u said about not having to wait until January to start over! This is how i used to think and I’ve recently realized that i can restart whenever i feel like i want to write a new story in my life 🤍 love the video and ur so beautiful. Definitely subscribing now ! 🤍
oh my gosh this video is THE glow up video ! looove it
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Finally, a youtube video where someone isn't bulshitting. Thanks girl.
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Omg, this video literally confirms everything I have been feeling. When you mentioned ‘2years of holding on to your past self’. But then after learning a lot from my present situation I am willing to step back and choose aspects of both the past and present experience to choose an identity.
This is the type of black woman I love seeing ,keep preaching sis 😘😘🥰🥰🥰
Thanks sis 🥰🥰
Thank you sis 🤍
TH-cam recommended this video to me and I couldn’t be more happier that I watched it. I just turned a year older last week and I am in the journey of making better choices and healthier decisions this year 💪💪🙌🏾🙌🏾
I’m so glad this video found you at the right time 🙏🏾❤️
and your life literally changed 😍
Yess!!! It has 🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience and for the inspiration! I started my social media detox yesterday. I have done it before when I deleted my FB account and did not miss it at all after 1 year, so I can do that!! I am focusing on listening to positive, educative podcasts instead, might start learning some new skills, even a third language,,,,why not! and also stick to my exercise routine and self care, journaling, starting an online store, a abrand...oh and for me personally, giving up alcohol for good. :) GOOD LUCK & BLESSINGS EVERYONE...we got this! let's get ready for the next level in our lives....NEW EXCITING EXPERIENCES & AMAZING PEOPLE AWAIT FOR US!!! And the new US!!
Omg I love this video & yasssss holding on to 2019 that year was everything to me ❤️❤️❤️
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This was truly inspiring, thank you for those actualy helpful advices! It feels refreshing to see something else than "change your aesthetic" or "work out" in this video format.
I like that you said to let go even if it was positive cz I felt like I finally broke through and was loving it up feeling amazing about myself then I fell into a rut and I keep thinking I need to get back to how I was before this but better things are too come!!!!
Better things are definitely coming! Just keep moving forward ❤️
Thank you so much for this wake up call, God willing From today onwards am in..Its never too late.
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Definitely earned a new subscriber out of me!! first video i’ve come across of you and let me just say this was absolutely amazing, informative, and just the match i needed to spark my season of reinvention!!! i literally took notes on each point and will use it as a reference point throughout my journey. about a week ago i said to myself “this summer is personal for me” and at the time i didn’t really know exactly what that meant but for this video to end up in my suggestions feels like a confirmation!!! THANK YOU for creating this video and sharing your wisdom 💕
Aw thank you for your comment! I’m so glad this video resonated with you. And welcome!! 🤗❤️
Holding on to things I almost build and who I almost was !!!!!! That's exactly what im going through . Letting go of old
Me and building up this new me
Reinventing myself has been hard but I wanna start a new cycle. I need to start now because I am beautiful but I wanna be a more beautiful version of myself. Only 21 but I wanna feel less overwhelmed and depressed. ❤️😅
You’ve got this love!! Let’s start this journey together ❤️
Ok TH-cam algorithm this was the content I needed 👌🏾
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I’m always coming back to this video to remind myself what I need to do to change. This is very well said and extremely useful❤️thank you so much for helping me and others to change for the better💋
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girl all your vids are popping up on my page love you literally thanks for the vids
Yess I love that! 🙌🏾❤️
I agree the main thing I took away is determining who I want to be and scripture is key and girllllll simplifying my life. Start with decluttering
Absolutely!!!
This is a great video! I've been sleeping on myself too! I gotta do better!
Thank You! I really want to reinvent myself. I appreciate your details and suggestions to do so.
Thanks for the information...I really like the consistent ritual part... that's something that I would like to do this year...be more consistent
Just discovered your channel by the 12wk year video.. Right on time! I’ve been trying some things on my own, but missed a little motivation/direction. Now watching this vid with literal tears in my eyes. I needed someone to tell me these things. I don’t have many people around me who think this way, who want to be/get better.. so thank you for you! ❤
wow! i really appreciate your content. this was well needed. i relate to you so much. i feel the same exact way about everything you said. you really spoke to me so thank you 🙏🏾
This Video Resonated With Me So Much. You Were Talking & I Was Finishing Your Sentences! I Know This Is My Rebirth Season, I’ve Shifted My Mindset & So Much That I Had Thought Wouldn’t Be A Part Of My Reality Is Manifesting & Revealing Itself. I Love How You Basically Said Let Your Life In 2019 Go, Bc You Are Not That Same Person. I Swear When I Left The Office In March Of 2020 I Had No Idea What Was In Store. I Lowkey Was Beating Myself Up Bc I Felt Like Where Did Time Go & What Have I Been Doing? I Was Adjusting & Surviving. That’s All I Could Do, COVID Was The Black Plague & Then We Had Riots In Chicago, Mentally Exhausted Would Be A Nice Way Of Explaining My State. I Had To Really Reflect & Give MYSELF GRACE For That Season.
Ahhh I love this for you!! 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you immensely for this video, and making the steps practical. I've been wanting to create a 2022 vision board of exactly what I want to achieve but felt weird since it's the middle of the year already. So thank you for showing you can start your plan at any point of the year (so glad to have found your channel from this & will be following along with your videos as I dive into this new chapter)
You’re so welcome Marilyn ❤️🙏🏾
It’s bold and honest- and why not? We only get one life so all power to you love 🙌🏾👍🏾
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Not a bold statement at all! If you can believe it, you can achieve it! ❤
Very well put. Also love the soft glam!
Definitely understand what you mean by pushing yourself and being harder on yourself. I’ve been through a lot lately so I’ve been coddling myself a bit (perhaps too much at this point). It’s time to light it up and push myself into the future and toward building the life I want. Great video!! 😀♥️
Absolutely 🙏🏾❤️
Truly, thank you. I’m always watching random motivational videos in the morning but this is exactly what I needed. Thank you for being so practical and action focused.
Oh I love this comment! I’m glad you find value in my videos ❤️
Love your content and your insights - always listening while writing notes 💘
The 12-week year is an AMAZING book. I’m going over the book with my Bookclub in December to jumpstart our 2023.
Yes it is!! 🙌🏾
Thank you! I am so happy to hear your thoughts about pushing yourself. There is this trend now that is all about being relaxed and not working hard. I agree, work hard for your goals!💕
Exactly!!! We’ve shifted from “hustle-mode” to “soft-life” lol. I like to be somewhere in the middle 🙏🏾
can you also do a video on how to prioritize things in your life? such as having a business or a job while also taking care of your mental health, paying bills and taking time for yourself!🥺💕
Great video idea! Sure will ❤️
You are such a beautiful mind.
That’s exactly what I needed to hear ✨
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I just love the title of this video. I haven’t even watched it and I had to hit the “Like” button.
Ah thank you love!!
Love this! Perfect timing. Thank you for sharing !
I can see I will binge watching your content today !!! Looks right up my alley especially the 12 week year book! Sense I have it too
Ah I love it 🙌🏾x
First full video I’ve watched of yours & you didn’t lie once ! Cheers to us on reinventing ✨
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Be hard or tough on yourself resonated with me to get stuff done and 20% of work produce 80% of results