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@@derapospatz5164 precisely! Reward the good, point out the mistake or what's wrong. If you don't reward the good, there's no incentive to do it again, nor do they realize what's good. If you don't point out what's wrong, then they don't know what's incorrect. If you don't punish it, they won't know it's wrong. Some people consider being told they are wrong as outright persecution!
"here you dared to let yourself shine through...and you can do that with everyone in your life, including you." Ugh. Jordan just has a way of speaking straight to the soul.
@@BrodBrolinI think they're quoting a specific line that they really resonated with and felt like would exemplify the idea of Dr. Petersons capacity to communicate specific ideas effectively with simple language.
@@TheAkdzyn "I think they're quoting a specific line that they really resonated with and felt like would exemplify the idea of Dr. Petersons capacity to communicate specific ideas effectively with simple language." Ugh. @TheAkdzyn just has a way of speaking straight to the soul.
@@drstuartjacobsen he recovered from it. You have no idea how much inner strength a full detox of opioids or benzos takes. Show some respect to problems you would buckle beneath.
As a nurse in a prison, I did that with an inmate just yesterday. He offered shampoo to a man that had nothing .. and I said “I saw that!” ❤ He smiled.
It's heartbreaking when humans no matter their age can't see their beautiful inner light of all they could be no matter what it is. He who is in you is greater than those in the world.
What does he mean by that? Does he mean you can train yourself to do the right things by patting yourself on the back? Or do we know the original recording, so we could hear if he elaborates?
@@Concojone5 For me it meant exactly what you said - patting myself on the back - too much of the time I am my own tyrannical master. I dont congratulate myself, only criticize myself, I tried it - when I did something good I was encouraging of myself and my mood lifted significantly, it was amazing
The holy spirit is the spirit of God and Jesus Christ who lives on you . Every time you blasphemy against the holy spirit is considered a great sin towards your life source. Please stop saying bad words against the holy spirit. Repent and ask for forgiveness and save your soul from Hell.
Not enough people focus on how much effort Jordan must put in checking each of the essays and then providing the students with customised personal feedback. Much respect to such a teacher who really aims to make their students better persons
Yet a prestigious institution where he tought gave him the sac for the rejection of woke rules on the use of Pronouns...U of T lost a great Teacher. Shameful!
I recently ate out at a late lunch by myself, there was a family of four across the table and the father was beautifully involved in his two daughter’s lives. I had heard him imparting general and lifelong knowledge unto them throughout my time at this establishment. After I had finished eating, I stacked all of my plates to make the waitress’s job a bit more convenient and he used that opportunity to publicly call me out as an example. It was never a comment that was meant to be directed towards me, but when you direct your energy and thought towards others and for others, you can learn quite a bit. In that moment, I had gathered what it meant to be a great father. A silent, meaningful transaction between people.
This is the kind of father I'm going to be. Thank you for sharing! It was a lovely story. Heh. Shockingly, people respond WELL to positive feedback. Who knew?
I'm sure he's grateful to you for setting a good example that he could point out to his kids. If we all cared about setting a good example for whoever might be watching, maybe the next generation will have a brighter outlook than we do.
@@jeronimovanegasperez9579 true but irrelevant to my statement. What JP calls a compliment is to me harsh cirtism. Generally he sounded pretty arrogant there.
@@kape2469 obviously you don’t have a clue about what I’m talking about, and have made a sweeping assumption about what I do based on your ignorance of the topic.
@@khecidsdragons7777 Ouff....why so defensive? You could also see it as something positive that someone is questioning your statement, but you chose not to. These are simple questions that need answers, otherwise your statement is not complete. Accept the challenge, it would help you to grow.
I handed in an essay in the early 1960s. My tutor had put, 'This is well observed, and at times most felicitously expressed'. Now I am a writer. I have never forgotten the encouragement.
Makes me think of when you're be messing around in school and accidentally do something cool and you thought no one saw but one person would just be like "I saw that" and it would make your day
encouragement is so important. So so important, and there is nothing wrong with saying that. I wasn't encouraged enough in many aspects of my life, so i learned to encourage myself. Encourage your kids and loved ones. Regardless of what you may thing, we all NEED it.
This is what discouraged me from writing. I used to really enjoy it, then i had an English professor in college that would fail every one of my papers that i would really think about and put my heart and soul into. It was always something grammatical and she would never reinforce that i was genuinely trying to express myself; i just needed some grammar improvement. It really crushed me; she didn't like me for some reason. Wish i had had a teacher like him
Me too. After that expwrience i just folliwed the basic essay rules....i tro....3 paragraphs and a conclusion about boring crap. Got better grades if i wasnt opening my soul ortrying to be creative. Life canbe a mystery unfolding from our minds or we can follow the rulrs and drudge out a proof if whatever.
The Teachers and Professors that encouraged me, made my World go around. I loved their classes and learned more from them than any others. GOD bless the TRUE ENCOURAGERS on this Earth🙏🏻
I’d cry if this man said a word behind me on a train bus or sidewalk idc where jordan Peterson surprises me puts my mind at ease stops me from over thinking because he is already making me do that without a thought in my mind I’d love to just say hi and get a quick hug I just want to hear the man with my own two ears a conversation is a bit much to ask for but to just see him would make me go insane what an amazing role model,man,human etc he’s the guy I wanted to raise this mind of mines i can’t help but think about most of the things this man talks about I’m so upset you were sent to me at this late age in my life or that I listened this late in my life but I wish to be a man just a man
See the more this man speaks the more we see positiveness and light shining through a dark world I'm very glad this man's alive he's being a great inspiration to me and I want to thank him very much for what he says that's why I appreciate you
Mr. Jordan Peterson, I wish we could have more people like you in this world! Keep doing what you’re doing because you make a difference in this world! You are an antidote to the chaos! ❤
every teacher should take this advice.... when I had a teacher who called attention to a particular good thing I did, I would go out of my way to do anything I could to rise to their appreciation
Amén!!! How we all crave attention, belonging uniquely and profoundly (fully at the identity level of who we are)!!! Literally setting or providing opportunities for the person to set their RAS on stepping up and being and seeing their inner greatness!!!! Way to be Doc!!!!!!!!!!❤
I did this with my children and now have 2 wonderful daughters and both are teachers! I hope they are doing this with their students, as Jordan did, as it truly changes lives for the better.
Or worse... You never know which teachers want you to be a MOUTHPIECE for their OWN ideas and ideologies until you have accidently pissed them off (which is not hard to do). Not risking my grade just to FAaFO.
@@Verbux if god is real teachers will be the FIRST people into heaven. last will be those who condemn one of the core pillars of our society to hell because they feel they should work to the point of self destruction, all while they are increasingly belittled and denied the resources to live in health and dignity
This is what I use for my software engineering team I'm supporting as a lead. It works indeed. I never saw people change so quickly, while feeling good about themselves for it. I think the clue here is that most people don't get enough well meant compliments. So you calling it out in the moment, where there is sensory evidence that it exists and you understand the impact of, well.. you cannot dismiss reality when its in front of you. You're essentially forcing an alignment between two differing perspectives. Being aligned with others makes us feel more free, as it means we now have collaboration opportunities on top of the mastery we've displayed. ergo.. complimenting people, no matter the age, on their ability to manipulate reality and you acknowledging the positive outcomes.. works!
@@msc8382threw the whole thing by saying manipulate reality rather than what he’s saying which is to be true to who they actually are. If reality changes as a byproduct of that it’s not manipulation. It’s the complete destruction of manipulation and no longer being changes made via illusory adherence to a structure weak enough in the first place to be collapsed by authenticity.
Yes!!! I've taken the time to drop hints to my coworker that i notice what she does when she thinks no one else is looking. She genuinely seems happier to be at work, I'm soooo happy i can help her see that she makes a difference
This is absolutely true. I will never forget my 11th grade english teacher's to my response essay about death of a salesman. The prompt was some generic b.s. which he was better than asking for that easay and after like 12 hours of blankly staring at my monitor I had a psychological break and just went off on how much of a p.o.s. cliche the book is and how it's given way to much attention and how I just don't even give a sh** about the essay prompt so much that I don't care if he failed me for it. I was the only person in the class to get a 100% on that essay. I was typically pretty quite in that class but when I did answer I was usually a bit snarky (he was a wise ass teacher so he enjoyed that type of banter) so my essay was a bit exteme and out of character. The fact he asked me to step out in the hallway the next day and make sure I was okay (bc it did read a bit like a manic break) was such a genuine gesture from a typically stereo type of a grumpy 60 year old teacher. I also had his wife as a teacher in middle school - a class in which I punched another student in the face because 5 times in a row he smacked my head as he walked by within like 15 minutes. After class She flat out told me she was glad I stood up for myself and put him down. The kind of teachers that change students lives
I can't understand how everybody loves this. What I'm hearing is JP's technique to get students to write more and more of whatever he agrees with. I had professors like this at university. You can tell immediately from their comments on your work exactly what they think on the subject and that if you want good marks going forward, you'll think so too.
@@Na_bruhYou can call it manipulation of you want, but you can't fake sincerity well. You have to be able to recognize genuity that they themselves already know about, and be willing to compliment them on it. People hand out fake compliments for fake accomplishments all the time, do you feel good when that happens? "Congratulations, you were on time today!" You don't care. But when someone notices a new shirt that you are wearing, or compliments your weight loss when you haven't drawn attention to it, THAT is a feeling you can't fake.
I try to give out compliments daily. I gave one to a young lady at the grocery store, mentioning her nice hair. She looked up, and said thank you. “It’s been a long time since I’ve heard a compliment” . Bet she looked even better the next day.
I love this man. I need to start listening to his courses again. My life has really fallen apart… but I truly believe he can help guide me back to the track…How I get on the track and keep moving forward is up to me though
@@creativebuzzevents his whole thing is to sell you his ideology, thus growing his fandom and fame by making you think he's smarter than he actually is. He never gives actual advice. He just rambles but sugar coats it with fancy words to trick people into thinking he actually gave solid advice. Neil degrasse tyson does a similar thing. Just a washed up astrophysicist getting nowhere else in his field so takes a shot at topics he has no clue on and only gets away with it because he can use fancy words.
i mean, it's simple. reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. the key is that most people are so tuned in to bad behavior that they forget to reward the good.
I'm 60 and I can't wait to go back to school with Dr Peterson in his new university. The only one meaning anything in the end. Historically I feel blessed for the opportunity.
It's easy to find something bad. And most people can't wait to point that out. Please take the time to praise the things that people do well . This alone will make the world a better place. 💯
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Thank you for posting this. It saved me so much time searching!
Hm, would it be because I am in Europe that I can not acces this full video, or is it taken off? 📴
Would be lovely to see the complete interview 🙏🏾
@@auroravenancio8346 Video is still up. Might be a location issue.
@@auroravenancio8346maybe you don't need to because it IS innate ❤🎉🎉. It will come to you naturally. ❤
Thanks for the sauce
Rewarding the positive is indeed more effective than punishing the negative.
Remember he also mentioned that the rest was bs lol
Not the positive, the positive that portrays the exact person they are.
Missed the point.
The best thing is what he did.
Doing both.
Yeah I don't think so
@@derapospatz5164 precisely! Reward the good, point out the mistake or what's wrong.
If you don't reward the good, there's no incentive to do it again, nor do they realize what's good.
If you don't point out what's wrong, then they don't know what's incorrect. If you don't punish it, they won't know it's wrong. Some people consider being told they are wrong as outright persecution!
"here you dared to let yourself shine through...and you can do that with everyone in your life, including you." Ugh. Jordan just has a way of speaking straight to the soul.
Bro I literally just watched it why did you have to repeat it
@@BrodBrolinI think they're quoting a specific line that they really resonated with and felt like would exemplify the idea of Dr. Petersons capacity to communicate specific ideas effectively with simple language.
@TheAkdzyn ask him if he believes in god and get back to me.
@@TheAkdzyn "I think they're quoting a specific line that they really resonated with and felt like would exemplify the idea of Dr. Petersons capacity to communicate specific ideas effectively with simple language."
Ugh. @TheAkdzyn just has a way of speaking straight to the soul.
@@BrodBrolinyou’re being a jackass for no reason
Good teachers teach, great teachers inspire
Beautifully put. X
Bad clinical psychologists get addicted to benzos 😂
@@drstuartjacobsenimbecile
Sounds like a cliche from a person who judge others out of animosity or jealousy.@@drstuartjacobsen
@@drstuartjacobsen he recovered from it. You have no idea how much inner strength a full detox of opioids or benzos takes.
Show some respect to problems you would buckle beneath.
This makes me not only feel good, but hopeful🙂
I got F in every writing assignment throughout my schooling. I only wrote truth. They wanted BS
@@jame452 HA!😀 Besides hearing, I can feel that myself. They called it ADHD🙈😮💨
Great times...
I'm just imagining yelling "HA! I saw that" and patting them and walking away. Lol
@@ari3lz3pp😂
Me too
As a nurse in a prison, I did that with an inmate just yesterday. He offered shampoo to a man that had nothing .. and I said “I saw that!” ❤ He smiled.
cool fake story bo
@@ningsblackeyego home
When he said “including you” my mind just blew, he’s right, holy crap
It's heartbreaking when humans no matter their age can't see their beautiful inner light of all they could be no matter what it is.
He who is in you is greater than those in the world.
What does he mean by that? Does he mean you can train yourself to do the right things by patting yourself on the back? Or do we know the original recording, so we could hear if he elaborates?
@@Concojone5 For me it meant exactly what you said - patting myself on the back - too much of the time I am my own tyrannical master. I dont congratulate myself, only criticize myself, I tried it - when I did something good I was encouraging of myself and my mood lifted significantly, it was amazing
The holy spirit is the spirit of God and Jesus Christ who lives on you . Every time you blasphemy against the holy spirit is considered a great sin towards your life source. Please stop saying bad words against the holy spirit. Repent and ask for forgiveness and save your soul from Hell.
@@rrmm2644 sucketh thy testacleas
Not enough people focus on how much effort Jordan must put in checking each of the essays and then providing the students with customised personal feedback.
Much respect to such a teacher who really aims to make their students better persons
I did that as a college prof. That's what good teachers do.
Often they’ll pass off the essays to graduate students. I can’t believe he actually read the essays. He was and is an incredible teacher!
Yet a prestigious institution where he tought gave him the sac for the rejection of woke rules on the use of Pronouns...U of T lost a great Teacher. Shameful!
@@karenk2409that’s what good teachers do, but you’d be surprised how many don’t care enough to do that
I recently ate out at a late lunch by myself, there was a family of four across the table and the father was beautifully involved in his two daughter’s lives. I had heard him imparting general and lifelong knowledge unto them throughout my time at this establishment. After I had finished eating, I stacked all of my plates to make the waitress’s job a bit more convenient and he used that opportunity to publicly call me out as an example. It was never a comment that was meant to be directed towards me, but when you direct your energy and thought towards others and for others, you can learn quite a bit. In that moment, I had gathered what it meant to be a great father. A silent, meaningful transaction between people.
Thank you for sharing this
This is the kind of father I'm going to be. Thank you for sharing! It was a lovely story. Heh. Shockingly, people respond WELL to positive feedback. Who knew?
Damn. Thank you for this. I aspire to be that father one day.
I'm sure he's grateful to you for setting a good example that he could point out to his kids. If we all cared about setting a good example for whoever might be watching, maybe the next generation will have a brighter outlook than we do.
RESPECT!!
A true hero brings the hero out of others.
Real positive reinforcement
Idk JPs idea of a compliment: "All you wrote was absolute garbage, except one sentence".
Em okay thanks?!
@@nostalji93positive reinforcement is not the same as lying.
@@jeronimovanegasperez9579 true but irrelevant to my statement. What JP calls a compliment is to me harsh cirtism. Generally he sounded pretty arrogant there.
@@nostalji93 Lmao keep up that victim complex bro it will take you far in life.
@@Ethiixx L fanboy take.
As a behavior analyst, this is the one thing I would tell absolutely anyone about how to change other people’s behavior.
But that's the standard behavior and education of US society to praise everything and now look what they have become. How will you explain that?
And also: How will you know that the person's judgement is correct and it's not a means of manipulation?
@@kape2469 obviously you don’t have a clue about what I’m talking about, and have made a sweeping assumption about what I do based on your ignorance of the topic.
@@khecidsdragons7777 Ouff....why so defensive? You could also see it as something positive that someone is questioning your statement, but you chose not to. These are simple questions that need answers, otherwise your statement is not complete. Accept the challenge, it would help you to grow.
@@khecidsdragons7777 And i haven't made any assumption about you? Where are you taking this from?
This man talks with his heart and soul he puts all his energy into the conversation.
He talks on stage for money, yeah totally with his heart
The power of positive reinforcement
Jordan is just so cool when he’s pushing the positivity tip, it’s warming wisdom for the soul 🤜🏽💥🤛🏽❤
I handed in an essay in the early 1960s. My tutor had put, 'This is well observed, and at times most felicitously expressed'. Now I am a writer. I have never forgotten the encouragement.
Nice! I've written some jokes before, never stories.
@@vincenzobonadonna4556
Does it mean you're interested in writing stories?
Positive reinforcement in truly SEEING them. What a blessing!
Makes me think of when you're be messing around in school and accidentally do something cool and you thought no one saw but one person would just be like "I saw that" and it would make your day
Jordan peterson is like a good mom. 😊
He is a great man, that is not like anyone.
A good DAD.
Father
Dad*
I pictured the same thing
Shine on you crazy diamond!
Positive reinforcement is powerful in love, in teaching, and when training pets.
Damn this is amazing. I wish I would have him as my teacher. They wouldn’t let us shine though at my school.
You're an amazing soul Jordan Peterson🌈💞🌞 Thank you
encouragement is so important. So so important, and there is nothing wrong with saying that. I wasn't encouraged enough in many aspects of my life, so i learned to encourage myself.
Encourage your kids and loved ones. Regardless of what you may thing, we all NEED it.
Jordan Peterson 🙏
You're an inspiration. You have made my life better. Thank you for what you do.
This is what discouraged me from writing. I used to really enjoy it, then i had an English professor in college that would fail every one of my papers that i would really think about and put my heart and soul into. It was always something grammatical and she would never reinforce that i was genuinely trying to express myself; i just needed some grammar improvement. It really crushed me; she didn't like me for some reason. Wish i had had a teacher like him
What an awful "teacher." Criticizing instead of inspiring and guiding.
Me too. After that expwrience i just folliwed the basic essay rules....i tro....3 paragraphs and a conclusion about boring crap. Got better grades if i wasnt opening my soul ortrying to be creative. Life canbe a mystery unfolding from our minds or we can follow the rulrs and drudge out a proof if whatever.
I wish you could come and teach at all the public high schools kids need to hear this type of teaching❤🎉
A professor did exactly that with one of my essays. I loved him for it, then I did the same with my own students years later ❤
I do that with my staffs , it works they strive to bring you good news all the time
The Teachers and Professors that encouraged me, made my World go around. I loved their classes and learned more from them than any others. GOD bless the TRUE ENCOURAGERS on this Earth🙏🏻
Positive reinforcement in its purest form
This is what he calls "little genuine encouragement".
I saw that act with integrity and courage the truth
What?
.....what? What?
...@@ClarkPotter
@@buffoonerieSay what again mofo, I dare you!
at least you tried lmao
😂
Don’t let them change you! We need you the way you are! You have given me so much insight. & truth. Fight! Fight! Fight!
This guy is going to be the very best grandpa
He's already a grampa.❤
His daughter has two children and I’m not sure how many his son has, 1-2 for sure. Lovely families
Jordan, you are a gift to this world!
I wish I’d had teachers a bit more like Jordan Peterson, what an amazing guy.
What a blessing you are ✨️🙏🏾🙌 blessings to you and yours ✨️ 🙏🏾
Most students spend their educational life receiving the opposite feedback. Bullshit and cliché is encouraged, shining a personal light is discouraged
All teachers need to be this devoted
What a beautiful human being.. 😊 WE LOVE YOU JORDAN ❤
This man is a treasure ❤
Acknowledgement & validation
thats what we ALL need. ❤🌍🌠
As a teacher, i 100%agree with that. I do that on math with my students. Prob and acknowledge where they truly got it and they "get" more of it
That’s actually how I train people in boxing and martial arts 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
I’d cry if this man said a word behind me on a train bus or sidewalk idc where jordan Peterson surprises me puts my mind at ease stops me from over thinking because he is already making me do that without a thought in my mind I’d love to just say hi and get a quick hug I just want to hear the man with my own two ears a conversation is a bit much to ask for but to just see him would make me go insane what an amazing role model,man,human etc he’s the guy I wanted to raise this mind of mines i can’t help but think about most of the things this man talks about I’m so upset you were sent to me at this late age in my life or that I listened this late in my life but I wish to be a man just a man
Thank you Jordan Peterson. You are brilliant.
A Smile, from my whole face. Thank you for sharing that!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Way to go!!! Love that... ❤ Wonderful share!!
Pondering on what that looks like, to do for yourself.. 🤔😊
Many blessings, thank you!!
One of his best & most concise pieces of advice.
Thank you Dr. Peterson for sharing this encouraging message! But, how can someone do that?❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
See the more this man speaks the more we see positiveness and light shining through a dark world I'm very glad this man's alive he's being a great inspiration to me and I want to thank him very much for what he says that's why I appreciate you
I want to be more like Jordan Peterson when I grow up!
Typical JP, he buried the lead. "Here you dared to let yourself shine through ... and you can do that with everyone in your life, including you"
its lede in this particular case.
Love this man’s ethos!
Mr. Jordan Peterson, I wish we could have more people like you in this world! Keep doing what you’re doing because you make a difference in this world! You are an antidote to the chaos! ❤
Exactly. Praise them!
As a wife and mother I must say this could not be more true. ❤️ I was told this is called, “gathering good evidence” and it changes lives.
"Including you"
That hits hard
every teacher should take this advice.... when I had a teacher who called attention to a particular good thing I did, I would go out of my way to do anything I could to rise to their appreciation
And every parent. My mother criticised and disparaged everything I did, so I stopped trying and never achieved much.
Amén!!! How we all crave attention, belonging uniquely and profoundly (fully at the identity level of who we are)!!!
Literally setting or providing opportunities for the person to set their RAS on stepping up and being and seeing their inner greatness!!!! Way to be Doc!!!!!!!!!!❤
WELL DONE DR JORDAN PETERSON SIR. THIS IS AN EXCELLENT MESSAGE. THANK YOU FOR SHARING IT.
What a great mind dr Peterson is!
good one... the joke, not the mind
I did this with my children and now have 2 wonderful daughters and both are teachers! I hope they are doing this with their students, as Jordan did, as it truly changes lives for the better.
Works every time. Good also multiple, even though generations. Cloud Atlas.
I have true genuine love for that guy
✨
What you praise will grow!
What you critize will die! ❤
Words of encouragement ... appreciating something.
Imagine raising your children without the clichés and lies, but rather authenticly. Now imagine praising their authenticity.
Great man and psychological support. ❤❤❤❤
AMEN!! 🙏🙏🙏💖💖 THANKS PROF. DR. JORDAN B. PETERSON 🎉🎉🎉😊😊
The man's so fuckin right on that. So rare but god damn.
This is what a teacher should be. Sadly, most of them will do the exact opposite, just to be able to get on with their lives as fast as possible.
Or worse...
You never know which teachers want you to be a MOUTHPIECE for their OWN ideas and ideologies until you have accidently pissed them off (which is not hard to do).
Not risking my grade just to FAaFO.
can’t blame them, they’re criminally overworked and even more criminally underpaid
@@goblinsuburb When god gives us our final judgement, such excuses will not suffice.
@@Verbux if god is real teachers will be the FIRST people into heaven. last will be those who condemn one of the core pillars of our society to hell because they feel they should work to the point of self destruction, all while they are increasingly belittled and denied the resources to live in health and dignity
@@austinspare6214and Jordan doesn't want you to be a mouthpiece for his ideologies?
This is how I raised my kids. It works.
This is what I use for my software engineering team I'm supporting as a lead.
It works indeed. I never saw people change so quickly, while feeling good about themselves for it.
I think the clue here is that most people don't get enough well meant compliments. So you calling it out in the moment, where there is sensory evidence that it exists and you understand the impact of, well.. you cannot dismiss reality when its in front of you. You're essentially forcing an alignment between two differing perspectives. Being aligned with others makes us feel more free, as it means we now have collaboration opportunities on top of the mastery we've displayed.
ergo.. complimenting people, no matter the age, on their ability to manipulate reality and you acknowledging the positive outcomes.. works!
It's called positive reinforcement.
@@missionpupa exactly.
Any other tips?
@@msc8382threw the whole thing by saying manipulate reality rather than what he’s saying which is to be true to who they actually are. If reality changes as a byproduct of that it’s not manipulation. It’s the complete destruction of manipulation and no longer being changes made via illusory adherence to a structure weak enough in the first place to be collapsed by authenticity.
What makes Jordan Peterson's Wisdom so invaluable is that he really cares about the welfare of other human beings.
beautiful that he cares !
Yes!!! I've taken the time to drop hints to my coworker that i notice what she does when she thinks no one else is looking. She genuinely seems happier to be at work, I'm soooo happy i can help her see that she makes a difference
For example? I am a bit confused
Jordan helping students find and develop their voice.
This is absolutely true. I will never forget my 11th grade english teacher's to my response essay about death of a salesman. The prompt was some generic b.s. which he was better than asking for that easay and after like 12 hours of blankly staring at my monitor I had a psychological break and just went off on how much of a p.o.s. cliche the book is and how it's given way to much attention and how I just don't even give a sh** about the essay prompt so much that I don't care if he failed me for it.
I was the only person in the class to get a 100% on that essay. I was typically pretty quite in that class but when I did answer I was usually a bit snarky (he was a wise ass teacher so he enjoyed that type of banter) so my essay was a bit exteme and out of character. The fact he asked me to step out in the hallway the next day and make sure I was okay (bc it did read a bit like a manic break) was such a genuine gesture from a typically stereo type of a grumpy 60 year old teacher.
I also had his wife as a teacher in middle school - a class in which I punched another student in the face because 5 times in a row he smacked my head as he walked by within like 15 minutes. After class She flat out told me she was glad I stood up for myself and put him down. The kind of teachers that change students lives
The real insight here is that you can watch for this sort of thing which will then adjust the things you look for in a more positive direction.
What an incredible man! 👏
I can't understand how everybody loves this. What I'm hearing is JP's technique to get students to write more and more of whatever he agrees with.
I had professors like this at university. You can tell immediately from their comments on your work exactly what they think on the subject and that if you want good marks going forward, you'll think so too.
Just love this guy
It’s not often I agree with JP, but he nailed this one.
So basically, you make ppl love you because you actually care.
You trick people into loving you through manipulation, yeah.
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@@Na_bruhYou can call it manipulation of you want, but you can't fake sincerity well. You have to be able to recognize genuity that they themselves already know about, and be willing to compliment them on it.
People hand out fake compliments for fake accomplishments all the time, do you feel good when that happens? "Congratulations, you were on time today!" You don't care.
But when someone notices a new shirt that you are wearing, or compliments your weight loss when you haven't drawn attention to it, THAT is a feeling you can't fake.
Yes sir it’s true. Blessings when we build each other up. Fined it once and all of a sudden it’s every where.
I try to give out compliments daily. I gave one to a young lady at the grocery store, mentioning her nice hair.
She looked up, and said thank you. “It’s been a long time since I’ve heard a compliment” . Bet she looked even better the next day.
I wish I had concentrated this more into my children. I still can! Thanks
I love this man. I need to start listening to his courses again. My life has really fallen apart… but I truly believe he can help guide me back to the track…How I get on the track and keep moving forward is up to me though
I think that we tend to forget just how much experience this man has had in his life in many areas especially interacting with people
In being a conman?
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Why do you think that?
@@creativebuzzevents his whole thing is to sell you his ideology, thus growing his fandom and fame by making you think he's smarter than he actually is.
He never gives actual advice. He just rambles but sugar coats it with fancy words to trick people into thinking he actually gave solid advice.
Neil degrasse tyson does a similar thing. Just a washed up astrophysicist getting nowhere else in his field so takes a shot at topics he has no clue on and only gets away with it because he can use fancy words.
i mean, it's simple. reward good behavior and punish bad behavior.
the key is that most people are so tuned in to bad behavior that they forget to reward the good.
This world needed this man.
Building self ❤. Well done Sir.
I'm 60 and I can't wait to go back to school with Dr Peterson in his new university. The only one meaning anything in the end. Historically I feel blessed for the opportunity.
It's easy to find something bad. And most people can't wait to point that out.
Please take the time to praise the things that people do well .
This alone will make the world a better place. 💯
All art is self-expression but not all the self-expression is art
You’re doing God’s work Dr. Peterson 🙏🏼
❤❤❤I love this piece of advice
Thank You
I love this! Solid advice.
I did this with an ex and he improved so much and I didn’t even really do anything. Just encouraged and noted the little things he did.❤