"To Be A Man" | (DAX) - MEGA REMIX Reaction!
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I'm glad I didn't make you uncomfortable by the end! haha I'm the second guy singing. Thank y'all for your honesty, I love the real reaction. You had one of the most raw reactions in my opinion, because you weren't afraid to say exactly what was on your minds. I just dropped a really raw music video called Dear YHWH. I don't know your beliefs on God, but regardless, I'd really love your honest thoughts in a reaction. Thanks again. Ben :)
We appreciate it 😌 🙏 we will check it out, thanks!
You sound good too bro. :) support frm the philippines.
@BenBeckerMusic - I think yours is the best verse! Hope to see more from you in the future! By His grace!
Ben , your verse is probably my favourite . Just because my dad taught me it’s ok to cry as well. I’m not religious , but I’m getting more and more curious about becoming a Christian as life goes on. I need some guidance and support , and it seems to help a lot of people .
Impressive Ben ✌️❤️😊
He actually complimented his dad for teaching him to acknowledge his emotions before speaking about his faith
Was going to say the same thing. They missed that one.
Yeah he said “daddy taught me that was how to put a fire out” talking about crying his eyes out.😊
It is not men that need to be taught to cry, it is women that need to be taught to be perceptive and have compassion.
Buddys reaction was great and she once again digs the hole a little deeper
Of course the woman has to flip things and make it about themselves lol
Literally EVERY man relates to this song, you'll never find a single one that don't.
As someone said in the comments, i feel sorry for your man.
How you going to take a song that points out how lonely and depressed men feel and how much is put on men which doesn't get talked about and flip it to girls feel more like this then man smh 🤦
This is the type of girl that you turn around and haul ass from. How anyone could hear this, and then proceed to say that women feel this more than men is just mind blowing. It’s socially acceptable for women to show their feelings, but men are looked at as weak/sensitive and are put down for it (hence the phrase “man up”) Other than that though, fantastic reaction!!
typical toxic woman making it all about her.
I had the same thought listening to her
I agree the song is "What is a man" and she has to bring women into this conversation. Could you imagine if we were listening to a song about women and then comment about we men feel similar, we would be bashed for not understanding how a woman feels. Bs
Bro. Came here to say the same thing. I hope she sees and hears the comments and starts to understand that she is the problem and stops gaslighting. Two videos on the same topic and she hasn’t learned anything. Every new verse she just thinks, “how can I compare this to the women’s perspective”. She’s just out here living the literal battle of the sexes.
11:48 amazing how a woman can make ANYTHING about themselves. SMH
The fact that you had to explain yourself in the beginning of the reaction, and flipping it back to what it's like for women, speaks volume about you as a person. I feel sorry for your man though.
Sad part is that he and MANY men realize this red flag way too late.
If a woman only listens to you in order to reply instead of simply listening to try and understand. RUN..
Do women have their own issues? Of course.. and we hear about them ALL THE TIME..
But damn let guys speak up and say, I'm feeling this sorta way. He's quickly shut down with his feelings invalidated by a woman making it about women.
Nearly 70% of suicides are men and many people don't even bat an eye. Why?
Because they know that a significant portion of those men delete themselves due to the actions of a woman.
IKR. I agree.
Out of respect for my mother, I won't say what I want to. I won't lie. The part where she took back and made it about women and compared men to women took the rage meter off the charts. But again as men we try to understand what women mean. So I'll end this by saying that you're absolutely right. It's your reaction to this song and I respect your opinions on this matter. Keep up the good work with the reactions.
The fact this woman kept bringing up women’s sides of these issues. Couldn’t finish the video. I’ll just never understand why women have to defend their issues when men speak about theirs.
Well said. That's one of the issues this song is pointing out.
It shouldn’t surprise me how much your girl doesn’t get it, never open to her about your struggles because she’s shown she can’t help you. Get a brotherhood of solid men to rely on
He's already relying on several coping mechanisms like gaming, smoking, etc. His fiance is a great person with very little understanding of how it is on the men's side & that's completely fine. But I do hope both of you can grow. I'd suggest go to a gym and workout together. And become better for each other.
Shes heartless. You can see her frustration and impatients during the whole video. Deep breaths, cracking her knuckles and the faces she made thru out the song are a sign. Run brother, she aint worth ur time.
Honestly man shits insane
The most telling sign is when she said" BUT women feel like this too so"....
@@ThePitbullsrking
I am 100% woman and I can honestly tell you NO the hell we do not!!!! So she don't speak for all women.. SHE MUST HAVE A PAST WITH A FEW BOYS INSTEAD OF MEN!! HUGE DIFFERENCE
Ok.. I just reacted to Dax to be a Man on this channel and well my comment is there, but man the cojones on this lady to say that more women relate to this song than men is just ridiculous imo.. 🤷
Stay strong bro 💪
My thoughts exactly bro. For this lady to even try to throw that in there is wild to say the least
Lmao the idea more females would feel this.... definitely not.....
Thank yall. i switched to Venda (a south african language)
Very cool! Thanks for sharing 👍
This is what the song is about again a woman has to make it about them and ignore the male..... This video shows that exactly
Women tend to forget that in most cases they have a lot more outlets to use when it comes to mental health.. friends, family.. most men don’t have that in order to express themselves without judgement. Great song, awesome artists..
I think your woman gonna get a lot more comments again. Generally women always express their feelings and it's the men that usually can't. They really don't talk to other men like females talk to their female friends. Hence that's why DAX put this out. Everything DAX says in this song is statistically right.
Mainly because men are told to just “MAN UP”
Yep i thought same thing
Truth
I agree. I am a woman and women always have to make it about themselves when it comes to men's issues, which proves that women don't understand. There are so many women empowerment songs and as soon as a men empowerment song drops ,we hear about women issues and single mothers. It just proves Dax's point in the song.
@@darcymiller9308As men are killing themselves and dying young at overwhelmingly disproportionate rates. Today you'll find women who stand over the bodies of these dead men and still make the situation about themselves.
My only knit pick with your reaction is at 11:50 when Rabecka says that she "bets more women feel this way than men do." I'm sorry, I acknowledge that there's women that feel like this, but to just blanket statement say that this is probably a bigger issue for women than men immediately gives fuel to Dax's reasoning for the song. Plus you bring up that you potentially get to the point of annoyance that Vincent won't share his emotions, you even within 20 seconds say you realize men are brought up being taught to hide/bottle up their emotions, I don't know his upbringing, but maybe that is the very reason he can't properly convey his emotions. That he possibly doesn't have a lot of experience with conveying them because of said upbringing. So getting annoyed may just make him want to bottle them even more, perpetuating the cycle of annoying you and him not communicating his feelings. You seem like a nice person Rabecka like you said you just might be able to convey fully what you mean into cohesive thoughts and it comes out sounding wrong. ❤
Yeah seems she is missing the plot. Woman cry on a mans shoulder men cry alone in there car before coming in the house or when there alone in the shower. Woman run home to dad when life is broken men pull the trigger.
Every reaction I’ve seen from a woman’s perspective has said similar things. Men just need to learn it’s ok to express their feelings. It’s ok to cry. That’s not what this song is about at all. The best way to put this song into words is actually another artists verse to this song that I heard. Men build the boat and they let women on it. When that boat is sinking men are expected to let the women off first and go down with there ship. I’m sorry women I get that a lot of you have opinions on this subject and can empathize but there’s not a single one of you who knows exactly what that feels like. There are women out there who build there own lives and build there own boats. But when there boats are sinking the world gets around them to patch the holes or that women is going to be the first one off. And no one will ever question her for it. A man gets off first and he’s a dead beat piece of shit abandoning her.
The words to the second guy’s “Bar” was I only have a FEW examples of man in my life and only one made perfection life like…”
He did talk about the other father figure. that was the first verse. His Earthly father taught him it was ok to cry.
Why did she say that. Women can always express their feelings. People perceive that as normal. Men get looked at as weak or sensitive if they express how they really feel. I've shown this song to men and women and none of the women I know were able to relate. They said they always get to show their feelings but men never do. However every man I've shown this to has 100% related to this song. To say that, to me, is showing that you disagree with the stuff in this song.
Run dude
Run fast
The two words he was talking about was the shortest verse in the bible. And it came after everyone ran to Jesus asking him with tears in their eyes why he didn't come soon enough to save Lazarus. And those two words were. Jesus wept. To this day it's one of the most beautiful verses. Because it shows just how human he was too.
The only women who can relate to this song is the very very VERY strong single mothers out there because this song is mostly about having to hide how you feel so you can keep moving, providing, etc shout-out to all you single mothers out there love you all
Jesus wept… and so can you is the bar he used. The second artist love❤
He mentioned the other man at the beginning. He said "Daddy thought that's how you put a fire out"
i'm 18 yrs old and i'm starting to become a man and i'm battling with depression and bipolar and boxing is helping with this but not many women understand the depression and terrible feelings that men have. Thank you guys for reacting to this! True tears were flowing
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Just wanna say I've seen this video alot but I have watched thia specific reaction alot. I find myself coming back everytime so thank you for doing what you two do.
Wow, thank you
The line Jesus wept and so can you. Hit hard because as a little boy we wasn't supposed to and as a man when I lost my baby boy I sucked it up for years and years down the road I lost my mom and sister I still feel I have to break down alone and leave it in God's hands
You don’t like the second guy’s stance and the way he appears but He’s the most favored verse and vocal of all the reactions of this Dax’s Mega Remix!
Cap! Every reaction I’ve watched.. almost everybody say they felt the black mens verses more, so much they even play it back a couple times.
@CFACN is it because they were rapping?
So its about race nickel with the hard er
@@Huge_XG-Xpop_Stan honestly for me my absolute favorite was the 3rd guy... no rapping but that guy hit me hard in feelings I've felt.. and the Father of 7 also hit deep... Then after that the father who's baby momma left him(he was the one in red).. then the guy at the end did amazing as well
So men are struggling and women and society aren't understanding them. That's what this song is about. I'm one of them! Now all you clowns can argue about is color? No wonder!
There’s a story about a man talking about why he won’t say what he’s thinking or share his feelings, etc… and he points to his wife and children saying that they’d rather he die on top of his white horse than see him fall from it
This chick missed the entire point.
The fact u have to keep explaining yourself says all we need to know......
Wow. Its obvious the man here gets what this video means. And she is clueless.
10:29 she actually says "please don't hide yourself" behind Dax "i can't hide myself"
Jesus lady listen to the song you are the reason this song exists
8:37 this is my favorite verse. I've said that for years "most men are halfway dead inside" myself included
Man I hate how she just turns it around and makes it about women…is that insecurity that she thinks it’s a rip on women? It’s NOT
So typical
Men, we need to foster a culture in which we teach our sons & brothers to develop the kind of relationships with other men with which we can share our frustrations, emotions and trials, so that we can be the rock our wife and family need when we are home. Only men can truly understand the struggles of being a man. Women can offer sympathy but only men can offer true empathy. Seek Wisdom.
I know man wth 😮
This song is what the "red pill/manosphere" is about at its core.
Leave it to a feminist to take a song, wrote for, and about men and twist it saying "women somehow understand it better."
Even when the world doesnt show you the SAME LOVE!!!!!
When you get frustrated by him not opening up and telling you what he needs, what he wants, or how he feels.
Take a step back and ask yourself this simple question. Why doesn't he feel comfortable or secure in telling me?
Just know that as men, we have often immediately regretted opening up, and doing the exact same thing your frustrated at him for not doing.
It's a learned behavior. The consistent reactions to our action causes us not to act.
It's easier for us to just shut up and suck it up, rather than having to apologize or clean up the mess had we said something.
Love me some Ben Becker voice of an Angel..(Don't 4get Jesus wept & brother so can you)
What an Amazing collaboration ❤🎉
I love your content and i wanna say as a man I agree with Becka, their are many women out there who do understand how men feel, this stigma about men are supposed to be tough is a societal issue not necessarily a woman's issue. Many women are incredibly understanding and supportive of their men just like Becka is with Vinnie on their Monsters reaction when she was emotional because she knew what that song meant for Vinnie. Keep being you Becka
Love that Dax flexes by doing remixes with other Independent artists. Fuego!
I think the second guy that talked about only have 2 fathers he said in the beginning that his daddy said that its ok to cry its how to put a fire out ❤
The second on hit so real. I was raised by my grandparents and it wasn't so much raised as given a place to grow up. My grandpa was retired and did nothing but fish and sit around the house. I had to try to figure out how to be a man and I fucked it all up severely till about 4 years ago when Tom Macdonald gave me a light to get out of the darkness. Almost 50 now and I am alone and pathetic. I do not use my past to make excuses though. My actions were 100 percent my responsibility. I can only go forward and try to live the next half of my life better but man it hurts so much to know that I wasted my youth.
Absolutely 💯 keep ur head up 💪
Men:
Don't avoid the struggle, push into it.
There is purpose in the pain.
There is value in the struggle.
There is no GLORY and HONOR without Suffering.
BE BRAVE.
So she has heard the song twice and still doesn't get it. Here's how a conversation would go with her:
•Her- hey what's wrong..tell me
•Him- i feel like you don't listen to me
•Her- well how do you think i feel when you leave the toilet seat up
Hi, it's Becka. I get the song. What I am saying is that I think more women understand this than men think. We know you have been taught not to show emotions, and it's very hard. I have dealt with some very manipulating men. You know the type that cheates and steals from you, or get hooked on drugs and when you try to leave the toxic relationship, they wanna cry and act like babies, so you stay so they can manipulate you more.. i spent 5 years with a man because i tried to show him his importance and love he never had before. In the end, it was me that realized how he just broke me down. I have a 9 year old son, and I have raised him to express his emotions instead of holding them in. I explained to him how society teaches men that it's not okay to cry. I have also taught him what toxic signs are in a relationship. His father was a piece of work. Sitting in jail atm.. he hasn't seen his dad for 3 years, and his brother passed away this last year on mother's day in a head on collision with a semi truck at the age of 16. He has gone through a lot, and I am always there for him
Maybe while listening to the song, I should have tried to slow down my emotions. And really explain better what I meant. I was referring to the boys out there, not men!
Enjoyed your video...she had more to say...
Finaly:D Been waiting for you two to upload your reaction:P
Hope you enjoyed it! It was blocked 🚫
Romeo The Great white sings in English and Venda a dialect from northers South Africa. He has some great songs you might want to react to :)
In christ i have the father and that holds me together in the darkness All Glory to God Almighty 🙏❤
So I've been meaning to do this for a while.
This is my verse to dax song what it's like to be a man so here it is. I hope you enjoy
Dax hook
I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home
My verse
As a single full time father of 3 /
2 boys and a girl one autistic one with adhd/
Taking care of everything on my own trying to build a dream/
No one to to turn to when we face all of life's adversities /
There's no movement for men were told to just keep moving/
Theirs no outlet from the pain no way to sooth it/
We just have to bottle the feeling and live an illusion/
We have to be our own savior somehow having to find a way to just do it /
Our only value is how much we can provide /
Having to stay strong to the world while at night we cry threw our eyes/
Knowing no one would care even if they saw threw us acting as If everything's alright /
And if he says he's alright just know it's a lie /
Cuz men know deep inside no one cares if we confide /
About how we feel until we feel dead inside/
It's the unspoken truth that simple goes undressed /
It's the cold hard truth we simply don't confess /
I know this verse won't change a thing I just had to get it off of my chest/
Dax hook
I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home
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She made the expression of these men about women. 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Don’t agree how she said woman can agree with this more then man they could never know what it’s like to be a man not a diss just my opinion
GOD gave men a mother, a sister, and daughters if that can't get them to soften up i don't what would. Church also why families struggle in their marriage. 25 years of teen mothers and fathers playing house until the money comes up. A lot of kids being raised by kids.
Dax is a real one for putting these people on the map💯
So true
2nd guy with the long hair, I believe that God Himself is your vocal coach. That voice!!! More importantly Jesus wept line hit hard. The world needs saving. Death and Life is in the power of the tongue. Continue to use it wise! Overall, everyone was amazing!!!
He did explaingn when he said daddy taught me thats how u put a fire out
Dude… run fast and far away.. Trust
Hey @realreactions! Great reaction as always! I hope Dax continues to do these MEGA REMIXES. They're fantastic!
I hope so too!
still wondering why kh's verse didn't make the cut,😅
@@hatershater7539 that’s what I was wondering too. Maybe next time Dax does one of these MEGA REMIXES, he’ll include a verse from Knox Hill.
@@austindermody302 right,, this is no competition but come on,"" he got a dope verse too"" but this gives us hope for a second round eh"?😁
@@hatershater7539 you never know, my friend.
Girlfriend: I'll take a clue for $300 Alex
I’m a disabled man and I cry all the time.
I don’t care how many times I watch To be a man, I cry from the jump. I haven’t seen my sons in 13 years and I haven’t seen my daughter in 3. ( long stories) but a few months back my eldest son reached out to me and I asked if he wanted to call and he said no because he wasn’t sure if he could hold back tears. I’m like, son don’t be afraid because I will ball for sure and if I ever get to see you again, I will latch onto your neck and never let go. Then I shared the to be a man mega remix video and he was surprised. We later ended up having a 6 hour conversation (2 on the phone and 4 on video) and yes I cried….and afterwards I wrote poems about it.
Dad’s don’t be afraid to show the softer side of yourself to the children you care for. Respect!!!
But I also got excited when I saw the black guy come in with Gray beard and killed it
That dude on the TV has a crazy vocal range
Valid point there yes the song is about men but it could go both ways
Fellas, never, and I mean never ever marry a woman who you think is *only* there for what you can provide. It will never last and only get worse and it starts your relationship as one that is transactional instead of one built from genuine desire.
There is no way more women could feel the true meaning of this song than men we as men does have ta live this s**** everyday women have no idea so miss me with that one
She was just saying that more women can understand how we feel. Then we think they do..
@RealReactions to be real with you with de way women does think in this time it's hard ta believe with so much 304 girls and they line of thinking look at all the podcasts and you well see how to me 90 percent of women does be all about their self your wife is in the ten percent so you are lucky 🙏
Woman always gotta some how make it about them. Then try to explain how they aren't doing that. Just have her look at statistics then get back with us. Hope you find a woman that will see your point of veiw 1 day without making it about then my guy until then Goodluck.
Among 18 to 29 year olds,, 63% of men versus 34% of women considered themselves single. 60% of those single men are actively avoid relationships.
The current climate of women attacking men is going to result in a self fulfilling prophecy. Growing old, being childless, and dying alone. All in the name of "I don't need no man" where instead of working to try to understand us, women just demand more of us.
The future is bleak for these modern women, and they'll have nobody to blame but themselves. 28% of men and 30% of women 50-64 years old and 25% of men and 39% of women age 65+ years old are single.
Women today have this false reality that a man will always want them. The statistics show that there's going to be a reckoning when they're alone later in life as their looks have failed, and their only marketable trait is their personality.
Yeah... good luck to them as many men are waking up and not dealing with the BS anymore
Truth
I gave a like for my man here...
The woman/girlfriend still doesn't understand and that's ok she willl never understand what it's like to be a man. 🤷
Being a man, I can say that 100% of every man that listens to this song can relate. The second line of the song said, “I don’t expect you to understand. (He is talking to woman). We men know if you ladies get the song or not. No matter if you say, you get it. We know!
Hope you are having a good day and hope u enjoyed your day yesterday I consider you guys friends
Appreciate it 🙏 💯
Love you guys. Beka 6:46 you said some people don't have a good man in their life. That's the point of the song, alot of women who don't believe that they have a good man in their life are over looking the issues that these artists speak of. You never thanked the man next to you while a bunch of men are singing their feelings that you claim u understand.
You are correct, I did not thank the man next to me at that time. But I do thank him off Camara every day.
How can you not notice. He did mean his dad. His dad told him it's ok to cry. That's how you put out the fire of pain. You sound like you don't really listen to the words
To be a man but "woman can relate more" bullshit
The switching voice man, is from Africa
as a man who spent years feeling this way in my late 20s i went to therapy to finally deal with my past. and i think problem is the divide in what each we are taught growing up. for men its being told from father, adults, peers we get taught to keep the emotions inside deep. so when they finally do come out we dont know how to handle them so they come out like a dam breaking and it looks like Anger, uncontrollable crying, self deprecating when all we need is someone to listen and steady us.
but problem is alot men have partners/GFs who see that "anger,crying" and them bad eggs teach them men "ow so everyone was correct to keep it locked away" and it just causes more divde between women and men.
for any man reading this and get angry and direct it towards women Dont brother, becuase there are good eggs out there and the women in your past dont define all women they go through simlar stuff we arnt aware of too. and seek therapy, even Online groups who are going through simlar stuff can help. (you arnt alone in what your feeling and there are people out there who and willing to help you climb out of that dark hole.)
Peace!
His father told him how to put the very first words of the song
No judge 😮
Not to sound mean, but why does she look so mad ?
She's definitely not mad or upset. In most reviews, she has this , in my opinion, beautiful zen facial expressions. She has all her senses wide open to absorb all feelings of the video they watch. She has a beautiful soul, I believe......
@@mickkalshoven5 really? With her comment that more woman feel this way then men? What you simping for?
16:55 Romeo ThatGreatWhite switches to a South African language called TshiVenda
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Run away.. 😮
I think it's hard to even know what's wrong anymore when life Sux worse than ever
Your right !
💯
His daddy told him when he crys that's how you put out a fire. When your hearts a blaze. So he did reference his dad as a good man
She wears the pants 😅
😆 🤣
Careful!
Absolutely
Dax brother, I feel you. And Vinny……. Don’t loose her. Real talk, no one’s perfect; don’t waste time ❤❤❤❤
Its the pressure and the sense if we're not being productive at all times than we're wasting time.
Funny because I didn’t look at dude the whole time… just her she was reserved I think because of him but her reaction was what I was looking at
Calling a man a baby for feeling like they cant live without their chosen woman is insensitive, many cant, she becomes the one thing that gives him a reason to continue fighting. Many men die after losing their other half. Not because they are babies, but because they have nothing left to fight for.
11:48 I agree...those ladys who have not IG or TikTok. 😉
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As far as I know that he put an open mike on TikTok and the one we all loved or he loved made it in the song
Great job.
Thanks for the visit
I dont doubt some women can relate especially these days where we are all working ourselves to the bone to provide
Ha I love Knox too. Thanks for your reaction.
Damn @kavemanbrown took his bars like a shotgun straight to our feels... So much respect!
The fact that you had to open up the video defending yourself shows your mindset. I went back and watched you other reaction. I genuinely feel for your dude here. Good dudes need good women. Lol ain’t even finna watch y’all’s reaction. L
Dude seems like he is being dommed by the chick
@@capcrunch7838 %100 agreed. Beta.
07:40 he never said two..he said "a few"