You’re right, yesterday I found a comment from a lady stating, “I want a Godly man.” When I visited her page she has a playlist with the name “Secular Music.” By the videos alone she was not lying being secular music. Came back to her comment and wrote, “You need to align yourself with God. ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and His Justice, everything else will fall in their place.’ By listening that type of music you’re opening a portal for Satan and his demons into your life.” Let’s hope she does what she needs to do to accomplish anything on God’s name and honor.
You don’t need to be with someone that is far ahead of you on the spiritual path, but rather someone that is willing to go to the fullest length on that path with you.
My wife and I both had our own list of what we wanted in a spouse and God laughed at us both and none of what we were looking for was on either of our lists besides being a Christian. You may THINK you know what you want but just listen and watch to what God has for in store for you and you’ll TRULY be blessed by it. Just make sure you’re both equally yoked and they love God more then anything else and then pray about it, He’ll let you know!
Yes like my ex pastor husband did. He will beat me in the house while pregnant and go outside to "evangelise" then come back and say he saved a soul today and my mouth will just stare at him opened 😮. Please choose a man that will have strong values and believes in God. Many false prophets and hypocrites during the end times.
You can teach your dear daughters whatever you want but a man has it 50% in him to kill your sweet darling daughters it's not really what you teach your daughters it's the amount of time you will be there checking in on the relationship while you are still alive.
Y’all missing the point OP made. A man who “Loves” God. Big difference. Being religious, going to church, and evangelizing doesn’t automatically mean you love God. Unfortunately we can do all those things without giving ourselves completely to God to change us. The Bible talks about this. Hence reason to watch people’s actions and not what they say. You can’t say you love God and not exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. Loving God requires death to self (flesh) and picking up your cross to live your life for him so that you can bear fruit. Galatians 5:19-23 lays out what actions to look for. Have a blessed day.
This. Thank God it was His way and not mine, because my husband went from drug addict to pastor and I’m glad I didn’t tell God “no this isn’t good enough for me. He has to be perfect first “
@@cameocaprice7366 Absolutely. I think it's just something she desires in her heart. We all do that, you know? I hope she doesn't miss out because of that tho. What's the old adage..."If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."? Lol. ❤❤
Beautiful. As long as Christ is the foundation upon which a relationship is built the distance you already walked does not really matter imho. May God bless you.
My wife is a third generation preacher's kid, very pure in heart. I was a druggie hippy when I met her. As a five year old she prayed that God would give her a husband that was a preacher. I got saved her in her parents church, married her. 48 yrs of marriage, 35 yrs starting a church and pastoring it together! God used her to heal my broken heart and together we have touched many lives for Christ! Think about it!
Only God! 🙌🙏 Thank you for this wonderful testimony of God's grace and mercy. Does not matter the person, God knows the heart and the plans and purpose for each of us. We just have to trust our Heavenly Father. He loves us. ❤
You girls are doing great. I would love to meet you guys physically. I'm a Nigerian, from Plateau State. I'm single and seriously trusting God for a wife for many years now. I have a dream to relocate to the United States of America one day. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist. Currently doing my master's in a field of Medical Laboratory Science and trusting God to prepare and write the American Society of Clinical Pathology international (ASCPi) examination to enable me secure a job in the United States of America and relocate. If or when I relocate, I will love to meet with you guys. Thank you and God bless!
That's exactly the man I had, and I took him for granted. He was much older than me and he was just an amazing man. He was the most loving person I ever have known. He passed away with cancer March 15, 2024. I miss him terribly every day and wish I could have known how special he truly was before he was diagnosed with cancer. You never know what you have until you lose it. At least I know he is with the Lord and one day we will be together again.
I am so sorry for your loss. Bereavement is a painful journey especially when you deepy loved the person you've lost. I pray that you will know God walking with you through this time. You may question at times where God is but later you will know that he was with you all along ncluding those times when it seemed he wasn't. God bless you.
Thank you for your time to even read my comment and respond. This is definitely a journey, the Lord is testing me, and for a moment I was completely failing. But I am beginning to get back to myself, the person Mel helped me become. He was such a blessing to me, and I thank the Lord for bringing him into my life. There are moments that I find myself angry with God, but mostly I am angry with myself. Had I not have been so selfish and careless for Mel and his discomfort I believe that we could have found the cancer. But I have learned something about myself and I will forever try to be better, to listen, and to act. Mel and I knew something was really wrong but we ignored the signs and the thoughts, the Holy Spirit. This is where I grow up and become the woman Mel strived for me to be. Bless you all.
A sad thing that has happened is so many are after a man who has already finished his journey and then they want to meet him at his finish line; to "help him" celebrate (with his winnings). They don't want the inconvenience of waiting for the journey.
Same goes to a man, this is dangerous times. Porn, only fans, narcissistic people, delusional and deprived minds. Self centred instead of putting family and God first. Be careful out there!
Once your Married it's for like Roman 7:2-3kjv. If you know people the divorced and remarried and their partner still alive they are living open adultery sinning against God and there partner. Luke 16:18kjv. Mark 10:9-12kjv Matthew 5:31-32kjv. Malachi chapter 2:14-17kjv.
From one who’s happily married to the same woman for 43 years - the key is first BEING the right person and then letting God lead in CHOOSING the right person.
Actually you are wrong. If we are reasonably mature and socially adjusted, we can be happy with many thousands of different people. The one and only soulmate is a myth and a lie infatuated people want to believe.
We are at the beginning of the end of times. Marriage is from God because God created Eve from Adam and gave him Eve, and this is where God created marriage. So marriage is from God but Satan is against everything that belongs to God, and this is why the devil made many youths single, to divorce, to make abortion, enforced them to be engaged in same-sex marriage, which even the animals can't do, etc. By the way, I myself am single.
Also, remember Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t ever feel like you are further along than other believers because God will show you just how much you have left to learn. We are ALL on a journey seeking after God. There is no spiritual gauge with which we can rightly measure others. Like Pharisees, some may have lots of head knowledge of the Word, but only God truly knows how close someone is to Him.
Sometimes we get so interested in looking for what we seek that we don’t recognize the thing that God puts in front of us. The Bible tells us to seek and you shall find. That is what we are taught, but sometimes we’re too busy seeking through our human eyes that we don’t miss what God shows us what he has put there in front of our spiritual eyes. We are all spiritual beings and Jesus wants us to learn from his teachings. When we look for a mate we aren’t supposed to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend material we look for Husband and Wife material. And grow in His grace together.
Half true there, brother. Attraction plays a very important element as well, it has to show some glimpse of Realization or else what differs them from anybody?
Love is about finding the right person in every situation, so work harder on yourself the time you meet the one make sure you are the right person simple 😂or choose to learn before cause we all going to count on you whether you like it or not 🧐🤣👋
Ever since I was baptized in the Holy Spirit I encounter people who are sick, need healing, in pain or have other physical problems and I have had the privilege of laying hands on hundreds of people in Jesus name and I’ve seen more people get healed than I can keep track of and most of them were healed instantly. I love being in His presence. Now I just need someone who will walk beside me in this gift. I’m looking for my best friend, the one God created just for me. I know she’s out there.
Amen & Amen to this!!! If he’s not spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially & morally compatible to me, then I’m better off single. Settling is overrated! 💯💯💯
So Interesting to see so many sides to her desire in a man of God in her life. I totally understand her point & thank her for being vulnerable & sharing one of her deepest desires with us. She is a Christian so she is speaking both logically & spiritually. I am pretty sure she knows its not about just getting a guy who is further along in faith but someone who is deeply in love with God who has something to bring to the relationship for the long haul. Only God can give her that peace & confirmation that she so desires. God created us, so he knows what he is doing with her faith in God. From experience, I had a desire for my man to love God more than me & was goal driven. And.....God answered my prayer and beyond... God is amazing. I couldn't share this desire with others because people would not understand and see it one-sided. We have been married for over 8 years this year & he still leads us in the Lord every day. ❤
This woman took the words, thoughts, compassion, understanding and wisdom out of my heart! Yes exactly…a Godly woman desires a Godly man that knows the deeper things of God and is on a higher level than her❤. Amen sis amen
@@wiseman4160 The mirror correctly said that she looks competitive in the dating pool, so she got full of herself and overreached. To her, likely everything started to look like a settle that is not good enough. This is why she basically set the bar at the level of a priest or a pope. Or maybe she's just virtue signaling to cover up her inner thot lol
Let's see Pound of make up ☑️ Attention seeker ☑️ Thinks very highly of themselves (prideful) ☑️ No doubt materialistic ☑️ A virgin? No ☑️ You know, I think I'll pass on this one👎
She’s not that close herself. Women who are truly devoted to God to the level she speaks on do not care about keeping up on social media. She’s dated men who God would not approve of all her life that alone tells you about the choices SHE makes which reflects on her. I’ve heard many women talk like this yet their actions always say otherwise. Gotta always watch what they do and not what they say.
Social media is a part of how she and many others earn their living. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop the content every week, film, refilm if necessary, edit the videos. The cost of mics, lighting, making sure their appearance is presentable (the reason 75% of you men are here). I believe she does other things to earn an income as well though. You watching this video and commenting is putting food on her table, yet you're complaining.
All I’ll say is, don’t block your blessings. The spouse that God has in store for you may look nothing like what you see in your head. Don’t let God put someone good into your life, and you miss them looking for someone else.
People aren't perfect and we all come with flaws. The beautiful things about relationships is funding someone with the same commitment as you, someone who wint give up when things get difficult.
Sometimes being single is the only way your life can be quiet enough, so you can truly listen to God. The right person is someone that you see God in, and they will make you grow closer to Him.
Yes yes yes! This is so true. I love being single because it does, indeed afford you the quiet time to really tune into God‘s instruction. At least, for me, being single, has truly allowed me to silence the noise, have an enormous amount of me time, and has helped me further understand and appreciate the basic elements of life.
After several years of dating I was looking for a life partner. I got down on my knees and said God your word says to ask and you shall receive. I believe this and I am asking you for a wife. One that is smart, beautiful, and knows how to cook as I love to eat. Within that month I saw her and knew she was the one and even asked to meet her parents to show I was sincere in dating her honorably. 8 months later I proposed got married 3 months after that. She is beautiful; engineering degree, loves to cook. 2 year later had our first child. We have had more kids in our 35 years together. God is so good. Don’t give up on God.
Oh wow nice! I'm an engineer, i love history, and im a christian. And i love cooking. Ive had suitors but things dont work out because they are not men of God and because im waiting til marriage. I pray that the right man of God finds me in the right time😊
Good 4 you, but many are not so lucky : And, some prefer Not to defile their souls with the love for females, because they Love God Faaar Far Above everything else . th-cam.com/video/YIHMPc6ZCuI/w-d-xo.html&pp=ygUaZGlyZSBzdHJhaXRzIC0gc28gZmFyIGF3YXk%3D
I knew how to be loved treated in way I wanted to be from young kid thanks to my well adjusted loving parents who I trusted & honoured. We were shown not just told good examples of how to live take care of ourselves given respect trust protected. Regularly told how much we were loved wanted made their life ❤ I truly believe because we grew up in such a close connected family that it definitely contributed to both my Brother & I growing up to be strong independent proud & appreciative of our lives given. I definitely can say I only had good young men I dated who always looked after me well because of the way I was raised/treated...all thanks to my parents who were the best 💞
@@abella11 Certainly… “Feet of clay” is simply a figure of speech for areas of life where the flesh is still active and not submitted fully to the Holy Spirit. Aside from Jesus himself, all men and women battle with these areas. That is why marriage is such a wonderful gift. It reveals many blind spots, exposes our pride and selfishness, and reveals areas where we still need to grow. While it is healthy in some ways to set a very high bar for our future mate, we must also understand that we must be prepared to bring a very large vessel filled with grace to the marriage, because forgiveness will be hugely needed. Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth, once said that a healthy marriage is the union of two people who have learned how to forgive. Even the most godly man who studies theology, is very familiar with his Bible, and leads his household well will need forgiveness and grace on many occasions. So will his godly wife. After 26 years of marriage to a godly woman, who married me because she thought I was that, godly, biblically sound man, I can confidently say that It has been boatloads of forgiveness and the unlimited grace of God that has fueled our success thus far… and we continue to discover unsubmitted areas that still need work. Dream, big, forgive big! Extend grace big.
@@abella11we are all but dust. Dust with water and the breath of Life breathed into his frame. This could be an issue if delivery, but standards are powerful and great, but the next level of faith for her will most likely be humility in trusting the Lord in being led by someone that is not perfect.
I'm an evangelist in what she's saying here is very true I'm very cautious in ministering to women because they quickly become attached to you when you are guiding them spiritually and biblically I wouldn't go with somebody either unless they are further in their face than I am and really truly love the Lord Jesus Amen to what you're saying in this video that's wisdom sister
I have been with the same man since I was 18, we have grown together, our faith has grown, and we are going to have a son. God has blessed us so much. 🙏 but when we both got together neither of us was the best. But we want to be better for God and for eachother. And growing together has been amazing and has been the foundation of our journey together.
I'm with the same man since 16, married in Barbados at 21, we are 45 now, we met via our local CB radio gang, kids talking on the C B and meeting up. We don't do religion, the CB brought us together. My brothers CB 😂😂😂.
I married a very good woman that has great faith, More than I had. Because God loves us so much he saw inside my heart and brought me up to speed real fast. Don't discard Christian men who are not up to speed. God will bring it out of him!! It's just another form of Evangelizing!!
This is why it's important to not just be a Christian, but a true Christian, a believer. Jesus clearly said you should be evenly yoked. There is a reasom why he said that and many 'Christians' love to find imaginary loop holes in this simple command. The man must lead his family spiritually. It's fine to be a good Christian man, perhapse not to even be an outspoken man in the congregation but it's totally different to marry a man who is not spiritual or a man who has fleeting faith. It's dangerous for your own spirituality. When hard times come and tough decisions need to be made, those that may even test a family's spirituality, you need a Godly man who is strong in the faith. Don't be fooled.
1. What do you understand by being led spiritually ?? 2. Having a lot of knowledge of theology or the Bible does not necessarily mean you are more advanced in your faith. The most important thing is to live in obedience to God, to live a life that is pleasing to him. 3. Knowing scriptures does not mean you understand the Word of God, although to understand the Word you must know the scriptures. In French we say: La Parole de Dieu c'est la révélation derrière les écrit dans la Bible.
She's into her religion too early that she's gonna get burned out and have nothing but resentment for it later. She should've waited until she matured and realized what she's based her life around.
I have a husband like that and it’s worth the wait! There are many great men out there that truly love God and who make great leaders and will always pray for their wife and love her!
Leaders? Marriage is a partnership not a follow the leader train wreck. Paul wrote that submit/ obey shit and Paul is the Benjamin wolf antichrist. He plagiarized one of his 3 contradictory conversion stories from Eurpidedes and then From THE SAME PLAY, Antichrist Paul plagiarized his escape from prison by earthquake story. Jesus warned you 6 ways from Sunday about Paul. The Ephesians turned away from him. Paul admitted "All in Asia have turned away from me." Ephesus was in Asia. Jesus commended the church of Ephesus in Revelation for trying the apostles and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus by that time.
I completely agree! I didn’t want any woman that would hinder my faith or resist following God. When God led me to her, we both knew it was right. Now, it’s been 27 years and we still are in agreement and growing in Christ! Stay true to yourself and be patient.
I’m single as well, because no relationship I was in was approved by god, I’m waiting for the right one that god has for me. Because I know god has my future spouse.
Someone can be full of head knowledge, self-righteous, and memorize the entire bible and have a theological discussion. And yet have no clue what it means to truly abide in Christ and allow His life to flow through you! Just having a revelation about all of this. Thank you Jesus!
Very well said. It's good to know scriptures but it's about your relationship with Christ. How you react in everyday ups and downs. in your faithfulness. you said best in all the post.
Very very true. God's word is important but if we don't know Him know Him it doesn't matter. I couldn't agree more with you I say it all the time. Jesus will teach His children one to one in relationship.
@@parentscribjudgment is necessary in the church we must judge and hold other Christians accountable because they are supposed to know the truth already there is no excuses in Gods house God hates excuses everyone is without excuse the Bible says
@@Adam2-13 so on what grounds are you judging her, what wrong did she do now. Ain't people just judging her based on assumptions? Have you met her before?
Thats a good desire. The reason I married my wife was because I was able to talk to her for hours about God and it was genuine. The foundation of our relationship is the will of God. If you do that, you will have good marriage.
But how long will you be single ? A strong bond builds at a young age, when you share and create great memories with one another and feel connected with their families.
Honestly im scared to start a journey with someone lets say age 26 or 31..like she says building a bond at a young age and not gave went througgh so many thungs in life is strong@Vs1one
I knew a men of faith was the one for me. I remember after our first date my husband sent a paragraph long prayer. 4yrs later I still receive them! Our conversation has turns into insightful conversations then breaking into a heartfelt prayer over us…that’s the man I was waiting for ❤
I remember thinking this, and maybe not for her, but for me, it was pride and immaturity. I married a wonderful man who is growing in his leadership and I’m growing in my submission. You have to be ok to submit to a man who isn’t as far along as you’d like but has the earnestness and potential to get there.
Years ago, I met a man who knew the Bible front to back. Raised in church and could hold a good Bible study. BUT he was void of the presence of Jesus. He had no true relationship. Come to find out he was doing this with many women in the church. I was just 1 of em. This was of my doing not God too. But I NEVER felt the presence of Jesus with him. See a man can give you so much theology but NOT love Jesus at all. Meanwhile, there's a man who may not be as biblically literate who Loves Jesus and SHOWS Jesus in his actions and CAN authentically lead his family and Love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Ladies let Jesus CHOOSE your spouse no need to go on endless dates. God can direct every other part of your life, so why not in your season of wanting a mate? Let HIM CHOOSE. 😊 Trust him with this!! And yes! Most certainly pride. I'm not married yet. But this was my thinking too. Had a long, exhausting list of spiritual things I wanted in my husband. God humbled me and told me, nope. Are you marrying Jesus in the earthly flesh? No. You're marrying a human. And he will have flaws. As long as he is willing to grow with you and Jesus, God will be glorified. He must be glorified in our weaknesses. Prayerfully, her mind changes, and Jesus shows her this is not what truly matters. But that he truly follows Jesus foremost in all his imperfections. Leadership will grow. She wants an already made man. Can this happen sure? But what is God's plan for HER ultimately?
Well, I do think some of the high standards are just plain having a BS meter and selectivity, our healthy hypergamy if you will, but yes, feminism has been a poison suggesting women don't need men. We DO! We need GOOD men!! @@beingroxy
I always have wished the same that you, someone that love my lord Jesus Christ more than me, I know there is someone out there waiting for letting me be her lovely husband, I'll keep praying for that day to come to live a love like Song of Solomon's book🙏🏻🙌🏻❤
Amazing she's seeking an eternity union wow if a woman talked to me this way there will be a unbreakable fusion I'm a patient man for a woman like this it's a salsa and tango to death do you part its a pure feeling when you know you know theres such a passionate connection spirituality I believe this is a true marriage that will last forever god first wife second kids third and then your career the lord will provide nurrish and fulfill everything you will ever want or need in a covenant
Agree. I waited, too, for the right one. I thought I found the one (a Christian guy from a different church) when I was 23, my first date. A few guys courted me who came from same church, too. But it seemed that these guys I first dated were not mature enough for me to lead me spiritually. And thank God I waited for the right one and God gave me my husband now. ❤❤❤ We are 11 years married now.
You just motivated me🥹 I'm 24 and still waiting to find a girl that goes to the gym and want to grow physically, mentally and specially... Spiritually with me😭😭😭... Please lord hear my prays 🙏😭😭😭
Also bear in mind that men are usually very intimidated by and insecure about approaching extremely beautiful women. So God must give your Mr. Right a healthy dose of boldness. Please, please, please don't settle for a man you don't find physically attractive just because he's a great theologian. Mr. Right will be the right one, not a compromise that you try to justify because people keep asking or reminding you that time is ticking.
She’s in just another dream world that is ruled by her dreamy ego. Why is this any different than finding your “Prince Charming”. All words and looks eventually wear thin and then what. Fear is an emotion that wears many masks!
As someone who is very spiritual but not religious, I think there is some truth to what you're saying for this girl/girls in her situation... though I suppose it goes much deeper than we are assuming here, probably more complex than what we assume so we should reserve judgement since it's not something hurting anyone, just her/their spiritual development journey, maybe it's exactly where she needs to be at the moment... the good thing is she is looking and has made her life revolve around spirituality rather than materialism... I'd say she's doing good in my book - ie. not everyone's goal/journey is that of a nun/monk/priest/etc - even though I've essentially crucified myself spiritually, I still allow myself to be extremely flawed as an individual since truly the framework of god or the spirit is such that it exists to guide us out of our mischievious selfishness and to a greater purpose in life... so we remain flawed regardless of how spiritually inclined we are, but we get really good at catching ourselves degrading and thus immediately correct ourselves to get back on track and even further along... perhaps that's what is or will happen for this girl/etc. @@abelmcguire1951
That’s a blessing God has put this in your heart and will give you the desires of your heart. It’s just the being patient and waiting till He puts this man in your life. He will and believe God is preparing this man as we speak.
I wish that I had waited for a godly man, not someone who said he accepted Christ, someone whose life actually reflected a transformation and love for God. It would’ve saved me twenty years of loneliness, rejection and loss and our children so much pain, confusion, anxiety and stress. It robbed me of a husband and them of their childhood. It is very difficult to forgive myself for the choices I made. Who you join your life to will make all the difference. Choose carefully and wisely. Do not bond with their trauma. Do not try to rescue or heal them with your live. That is the work of the Holy Spirit. Do not fall in love with their potential. Connect through your shared values and your love for God. I wish I could go back in time and have an opportunity to marry a sincere, kind, man of integrity and have a Christ centered home.
@paulwise998 we all received the Holy Spirit The minute we got saved! The Holy Spirit lives in us at the time of our conversion. The gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit are completely different and comes after we develop our personal relationship with God by repenting of our sins daily, fasting, praying, worshipping, reading and studying the Bible, living Holy and getting to know God on a deeper level
I am thankful to GOD for marrying a man who led me to the faith in JESUS CHRIST. We always talked and discussed about GOD and HIS WORD. One thing he always tell me, in whatever I do, think and say always give glory to GOD.
God has made all of us, and everything. Loving god starts with growing less selfish and more alrtoist, loving others, caring for them, being friendly, and look for god in everyone's heart.
I love that she's honest and that she's on the path of her journey.. then again where he is in his life within his journey . That through grace that whomever continues to grow even better and stronger yet independently yet together in that journey as one sharing this in a lifetime... it isn't easy .. at all ... but as harder without it ...
Yeah but she is delusional. She wants a spiritual man who is 6 feet or more, makes mid-Six figure income, is a 10 in the looks category, is willing to do the household chores, etc.etc.etc.😮🤣😘👋
You’re missing out on Psalm 69: Save me, O God; for the waters are come in unto my soul. It’s so sexy when a woman recite it, especially in bed. “Oh God, oh god, oh come, oh come in unto my @&$&@“
I'm a 27 year old male ...still I'm single because I'm representing Lord and talking about him all the time & took the life(professional career & all other things) less serious therefore I'm hesitated by all the peoples who came in my life path. I'm seen as a Joker, I'm seen as a sinner, I'm seen as a dust in the hood by all others. But you know what I'm still joy, in eternal peace & bliss in My one & only Lord. 😅
As a Christian man who studied theology, masters to be exact, I searched for someone to match my faith. Thank God I finally did. Not only in education but serving in Gods kingdom as well. You’ll find that man, but be the person you’d wish to have and you’ll be that much closer.
This girl is suffering from the ultimate "daddy's girl" complex. She perceives herself as "greater" than every single man she sees because she is believing the lie her earthly father sold her that she is a princess. She believes the lie that she is better than any man out there, which is how her earthly father has crippled her. This is sad. I know gorgeous young women, one who is 35 and a committed Christian who wants to find her husband; badly, in fact. However, no guy has yet measured up. Part of it is that feminism has killed healthy masculinity by "toxifying" it and vilifying it. Part of it is the fact that he father has hamstrung her by searing her sense of what she wants in a mate. She will end up an old spinster. VERY sad, and so is this girl in the video.
Yeah luckily for all of the guys out there, this chick is going be alone forever because no one is good enough for her. Half of the earth dodged a bullet.
When she gets the handsome fella with the big church, they will direct your p.os. car to the lot in back of the church, that leads to the back row seats, for ugly people, so you don't ruin the pod cast. They still need your money for the hair color appointment tomorrow, and the tan salon the next day, and so on.
I agree 💯. My father isn't a christian, everything I know I had to learn from my church bible studies and from studying by myself. I also wish to find someone I can listen & learn from about Theology.
Praise God to hear that there are still young people talking like this !!! God will bless you with the right man in your life dear, just wait for that moment, it will come. God is faithful in all things. Let God's will be done, not yours. If you have prayed and asked Him, then have the faith and trust and wait. Still, you need to do some fasting and earnest praying and get close to the Lord so you will get the impressions from the Holy Spirit and He will guide you where to go or what to do. All praise to God !!!
I was on a Chistian dating site for two years and could not find a Godly woman that could understand the deep things of God , i gave up and he saved a woman that was broken like i had been broken , 3 years later she knows the bible better than any woman ive known . Thank you Jesus
Praise God brother, that's great to hear and I'm so happy to hear that you no longer feel the need to spend time on dating sites. God bless you and yours always
'christian dating sites" really shouldn't be used to be honest. Real followers of Yeshua don't have to position themselves at all God will do all of that. Christian dating sites, really defeats the whole purpose of waiting for God's pick and what God has for His children that's His BEST. It's basically taking control in one's hands and against God's word because people are not patient. With that being said, glad it worked out for you the way Our Father wanted it and not your way. Good testimony I hope people read your comment and listen and learn. Jesus Bless you.
It’s not about theology. It’s about knowing The Triune God in such an intimate way that everyone knows that there is something different about you, without speaking about Him. The fruits of the spirit : love, joy peace, patience gentleness kindness faithfulness and self control are evident in all you say and do. That’s the husband I met and married. Thank you Jesus for your kindness in bringing him to me.
@@christopherhoye975 You CAN know the triune God without theology. I did. I knew Him at 6 yrs old when He came to me and I hadn't been to a church, read a child's Bible or had any knowledge of theology. I knew Him and Know Him today.
Yuppp…My husband must be more spiritual than me. He must be the one teaching me the Bible. He must be the one that hears even more clearly from God than me. He must wash me with the Word of God each and every single day! It’s not just a desire it’s a necessity atp. Selah 🙏🏽❤
those men are taught to stay away from dirty women. The ones who try dirty women tend to get burned. The bible teaches adam not to deal with an unruly wife.
If a man knows the voice of the Holy Spirit, and the voice of Satan, and He is a real child of God and God is watching him all the time. The devil will be buried and never have a voice in the marriage. Truth by experience. This is an extraordinary power of God
Usually the devil comes through the woman. The weaker vessel. Always has been that way biblically throughout history. Both parties man and woman need to be on there toes. Always. Which doesn't happen. So at the very least both parties need to have immovable love as a foundation in there soul for there spouse. And a maturity.
The sad part for me is that ex did do such things in front of me, but little did I know that he was listening to the devil all these time. He turned out to be an abusive narc who portrayed himself to be an angel.
Romans 7:2-3 King James Version 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Luke 16:18 King James Version 18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Matthew 5:31-32 King James Version 31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12 King James Version 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
@@trevrockrock16 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22 “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalms 37:4 I never said every single person is meant to be married. He calls some to be single, but clearly this lady desires a godly husband. Thus my prayer for Him to bring her to the man has for her. You know, it’s not very “christian” for you to jump to conclusions about people you don’t know and say their faith isn’t genuine and they’re not a Christian.
@@trevrockrock16 If you keep reading in that same chapter you’ll see that staying single is PAUL’S preference for us, not a command! “I say this as a concession, not as a command.” 1 Corinthians 7:6 Jesus, in fact reiterated what was said in Genesis. “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-6 The “Therefore” portion was Him adding to the OT verse telling us to still obey the OT in regards to marriage. God is not a god of confusion. The entire Bible is His word and has no contradictions. Jesus himself quoted from the OT in the NT all the time, thus showing the OT is not null and void. He even said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17 “You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me,” John 5:39 - The scriptures Jesus is talking about are all in the OT, again showing that the OT is not void. The entire Bible speaks of Christ and is still relevant and truth.
Zoey, You came from somewhere- this is what is MISSING… But where? ???God was just bored and created the Universe and ALL of us??? No, He says I KNEW YOU BEFORE I FORMED YOU IN YOUR MOTHERS WOMB” One of the most import verses for clarity in ALL of scripture… I suggest that this life is an opportunity to be reconciled to Almighty through Christs sacrifice (the Door) and obedience (the WAY) to Heaven… Christ saved and continues to guide you to the light and away from evil…
At first, I didn't know why I was remaining single. Till I heard about Corey Ten Boom. Then I began to just hear more sermons from a variety of godly man, that my hunger and thirst is growing I'm blessed, although I pray for the married, elderly, parent less and for the sinners.
When I met my wife I was so lost. Not an atheist, but just so mad at the world, and no direction. She spoke of God to me and introduced me to Christian music. On my birthday 15 years ago she took me to see Third Day in a small venue. I was drinking the whole way up there, not knowing she was going to surprise me. I had been battling alcoholism since a young age and when I saw the sign on the theatre that said, Third Day live, I just broke down and cried like a little kid. I walked into that concert smelling like beer, buzzed, wondering what people would say. But God was with me there. Shining His light on us. Pouring Himself into my brokenness. Blessing us. He saved me. He blessed me with an amazing wife and best friend. I say this because I believe that sometimes a good woman can also lead a man. She had faith in God, in our marriage. We now have a strong marriage and family, with God as our center. Our kids know God, and this story too. I want women to know that they also have so much power to help a man, to influence a man in a positive way so they can see God in you, and seek Him. A woman’s faith is just as powerful as a man’s.
God chose a man for me that wasn't even close to believe in God. But he listens and his faith is growing. He trusted me right from the beginning and turns to God more and more by himself. It's beautiful to witness the unfolding of his own path in God. Even when he doesn't recognize it, he speaks the wisdom of God to help me grow and walk on this path. As God wants more souls to awaken to Its glory, i think we should lead those souls ready to open their heart to God but unaware yet. It's not easy, even challenging, but so rewarding in God going out of our comfort zone.
I've gotten that far through centering prayer,listening prayer,soaking worship,and studying the nondual Christianity, I just gave you everything you need without having me in your life, And I'm single because I realized the value of my soul and I know my worth, If a female can learn to just soak in gods presence and add value to my life, I may think about being with her.
This is exactly what I was looking for in a future husband! When my now husband and I went on our first date he took me through a psalm, teaching it to me, and I knew right then he was the man I was going to marry. It was so precious and I’m so thankful for his spiritual leadership! I have grown so much in my faith since marrying him!
This is beautiful indeed. It would be so beautiful to have this experience especially on a first date if the guy and the girl both intentionally bring their Bibles. After talking to each other and getting to know one another in a cafe or something, they could just break bread together and study the word of God for some time, just imagine having that intimate time together with God, ughh my heart😩. This is a way to show commitment in seriousness with intentionality to honor God and the relationship the girl and the guy are pursuing together You know when that happens he is the keeper and so is she. Now this is a desire to have.
Are you saying there is more true men of God than women ? Do you go to church ? I think the ratio of spiritually disciplined people is quite equal that’s only my real life observation though
@@rainsara2795 I took his comment to mean that women have to be very disciplined in their submission to what he THINKS is a true man of God. But I could have taken it wrong. I am a Christian feminist woman married happily to my partner who happens to be Muslim. We have a boy and a girl both raised Christian with full knowledge of Islam who have both graduated from college. My daughter is a mechanical engineer ( rocket scientist)married to a nice Christian man and they have 3 children. My son is a heart surgeon like his father. He, too, is a Christian married with 2 young children. I NEVER would EVER submit to a male just because he was male. If he was my employer, I'd submit to his reasonable requests. I taught my children the same. We are equals. Sometimes I lead in things. Sometimes my husband leads in things. I am led by Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I go to NO man for what I can get directly from God. Between you and me, most men are STUPID. Not mine; but most. These FAKE Christian guys complain feminists wacked their balls. Nope. feminism just EXPOSED them as the eunuchs that they already are. They did it to themselves. Can you imagine standing next to a guy that you have to blow hot air into all the time just to puff up his ego? Or can you imagine dummying it down spiritually so your husband can feel like the "leader"? The whole message of the torn vail is that ALL believers have direct access to God through Jesus in us. That is also how we HEAR His VOICE audibly, make trips to heaven ( it's IN HIM), exercise the Spiritual gifts of healing, prophecy and words of knowledge. Thank God I don't have to go to the Pope. Thank God that I don't have to go to my husband or ANY man. I have an EQUAL say in what goes on in our home. For instance, if I wanted to move to Florida and my husband wanted to move to Pennsylvania, we would either mutually agree on the location or I would move to Florida and he could move wherever he wanted. There is NO rule that I submit or obey him just because of his plumbing. These poor churched boys still want to be gods. None of that comes from Jesus. If a man is really a man, there is no woman on the planet that can emasculate him. It's really difficult to find an intact Christian male. You'll find one on the farm long before you'll find one attending these FAKE churches today. I'll tell you a man's "role" in the household: Replace the engine in the truck faster than I can do it or I'll replace the engine and he can clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner. These "churched" boys want a female and a family to rule and reign over. They can find that in Mormonism.
Interesting. By her standards she would never marry a man like you bc you’re not “further along” than her. But you and your wife did it (which is completely okay) and grown. Glad you’re both being blessed brother.
When I was around 15, I asked God to send me the perfect woman to marry. And I got married at the age of 35. Before I got married, I had several girlfriends, but after a few weeks in the relationship, there was a sign from God telling me that I got the wrong person. I was never desperate to get married. I have been married for over 12 years, but family, love, and faith are still growing.
This is nice, been the same for me God always showed me the wrong one after a short time into the relationship. I dated some lovely ladies but they weren’t searching for God the way I was.
Story of my life I was too smart to be fooled by every girl I dated Never liked anyone within a few months together as I was not a simp Finally got married at the age of 31
I pray that you read PPROVERBS 31:10 to 31 and learn from God ,this is the Woman that God loves to see and bless ,please see your self and understand what are your doing and what you project to Woman
The problem with that is that people lie all the time about their faith and their values. Personally I would focus on being that person you want to find
I’m not sure she fully understand what that type of man would come with. Men like that tend to want to go into monasteries, and serving the Lord is their #1 priority, not a woman. I’m not so sure she’s gonna enjoy that.
No. I understood her. You need to be in her spiritual level to agree with her. There is a level you'll get with God that nothing else matter anymore. she is just putting God first, that's all.
@@dapootolasun1852 this is not how God created women. If you’re a woman who only wants to serve the Lord and nothing else matters, then it’s best to become a nun. Most women are more practical than that. As soon as they start having children priorities really shift, and she will want a partner who is present with the children, with her, who pays attention to her and makes her feel like a woman. It’s too hard to find a man who has the entire package, from the type she describes. I know the types, they tend to not make the best husbands. You can’t do it all.
I hopefully one day I will be worthy and ready to meet and cherish somebody like this God willing because she has beauty on the outside and lots of beauty on the inside stunning the both of you are hallelujah that they’re still women that strongly believe in Jesus out there Gives me a lot of hope
Not true, God helps those who helps themselves. People who just sit around and wait for someone special to come into life won’t receive that kind of blessing
@@vincew4297 After being a Christian for over 50 years.. I say that you are right. Also Christians have a misconception of divine protection. So many good disciples have been killed in history. (martyred). starting with Stephen.
Comment section seems to forget that the lady said "For me". She wants and deserves a man that will lead her, this is the desire that God put in her heart.
@@skyislight3804she will find him coz the same way there are women who as on the spiritual path, there's also men in the same journey and when you find your partner... Damn even Christmas can compare to that joy
@@ralfulrich6254that s a worldy perspective she won’t as long as she is obedient to God submits to him and she will eventually submit to her future husband, walks in faith, and strives to be the spouse she desires in her future spouse she is good.
The amount of bitterness in these comments simply because these women are conventionally attractive and talking about Jesus at the same time is actually insane
you mean plastically attractive - they have had plastic surgery already .... how is that Christ like to focus on your appearance in a fake way? it's not
@@sassysays29To be modern means to accept these things as common practice even with girls within the church. They dont see it as being artificial or vane, specially if they come from fsmilies with a lot of money
Great girl!! Congratulations because you wait for God!! And that is wonderful because others, like me we made the mistake to wait and we doing wrong and suffer the consequences.
There is nothing better than growing in faith together and watching your relationship grow from the struggles of life together. Theres nothing greater than walking together in life. How does one expect a great man to just show up in life. Men and women were created for eachother to help eachother.
Word of advice: always watch what a woman does, not what she says.
Stay Blessed
Ty🙏
Very true brother.
Jezebel..pub crawler..
You’re right, yesterday I found a comment from a lady stating, “I want a Godly man.” When I visited her page she has a playlist with the name “Secular Music.” By the videos alone she was not lying being secular music. Came back to her comment and wrote, “You need to align yourself with God. ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and His Justice, everything else will fall in their place.’ By listening that type of music you’re opening a portal for Satan and his demons into your life.” Let’s hope she does what she needs to do to accomplish anything on God’s name and honor.
She doesn't look any humble from inside, just listen...
@@LdAmaro71 is music considered a sin in Christianity?
You don’t need to be with someone that is far ahead of you on the spiritual path, but rather someone that is willing to go to the fullest length on that path with you.
Wow, good one!!
I screenshot it your comment, so I never forget it
In the U.K. you’ll never find a woman that looks as good as her that preserves her virginity. Literally impossible. I might need to move to the US🤣🤣
Also someone who is further along spiritually may want someone just as equal or further than he is.
Just my thoughts
Unfortunately hypergamy can't be hacked
My wife and I both had our own list of what we wanted in a spouse and God laughed at us both and none of what we were looking for was on either of our lists besides being a Christian. You may THINK you know what you want but just listen and watch to what God has for in store for you and you’ll TRULY be blessed by it. Just make sure you’re both equally yoked and they love God more then anything else and then pray about it, He’ll let you know!
haha nice one
As a Man I totally agree with her. I am teaching this to my daughter. If women chose Man who love God more than them. They will love you for sure. ❤
Yes like my ex pastor husband did. He will beat me in the house while pregnant and go outside to "evangelise" then come back and say he saved a soul today and my mouth will just stare at him opened 😮. Please choose a man that will have strong values and believes in God. Many false prophets and hypocrites during the end times.
Lmfao literally all my married religious friends all cheat
Grow up
There's no infinite recipe to Monogamy
You can teach your dear daughters whatever you want but a man has it 50% in him to kill your sweet darling daughters it's not really what you teach your daughters it's the amount of time you will be there checking in on the relationship while you are still alive.
Y’all missing the point OP made. A man who “Loves” God. Big difference. Being religious, going to church, and evangelizing doesn’t automatically mean you love God. Unfortunately we can do all those things without giving ourselves completely to God to change us. The Bible talks about this. Hence reason to watch people’s actions and not what they say. You can’t say you love God and not exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. Loving God requires death to self (flesh) and picking up your cross to live your life for him so that you can bear fruit. Galatians 5:19-23 lays out what actions to look for. Have a blessed day.
@@karter64 and you have x ray eyes 😆 you can oick out the wrong and right liars 😆 don't make me laugh and grow 🪴 up
My husband and I grew in faith together.
This.
Thank God it was His way and not mine, because my husband went from drug addict to pastor and I’m glad I didn’t tell God “no this isn’t good enough for me. He has to be perfect first “
@@cameocaprice7366 Absolutely. I think it's just something she desires in her heart. We all do that, you know? I hope she doesn't miss out because of that tho. What's the old adage..."If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."? Lol. ❤❤
Beautiful. As long as Christ is the foundation upon which a relationship is built the distance you already walked does not really matter imho. May God bless you.
You need to follow him.
That's really precious
My wife is a third generation preacher's kid, very pure in heart. I was a druggie hippy when I met her. As a five year old she prayed that God would give her a husband that was a preacher. I got saved her in her parents church, married her. 48 yrs of marriage, 35 yrs starting a church and pastoring it together! God used her to heal my broken heart and together we have touched many lives for Christ! Think about it!
Only God! 🙌🙏 Thank you for this wonderful testimony of God's grace and mercy. Does not matter the person, God knows the heart and the plans and purpose for each of us. We just have to trust our Heavenly Father. He loves us. ❤
Wow! This is great! So touching.
You girls are doing great. I would love to meet you guys physically. I'm a Nigerian, from Plateau State. I'm single and seriously trusting God for a wife for many years now.
I have a dream to relocate to the United States of America one day. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist. Currently doing my master's in a field of Medical Laboratory Science and trusting God to prepare and write the American Society of Clinical Pathology international (ASCPi) examination to enable me secure a job in the United States of America and relocate. If or when I relocate, I will love to meet with you guys.
Thank you and God bless!
Spot on ! Well spotted. @@abel4776
Praise GOD. Amen ! The Lord Jesus is Awesome ! GOD Bless you guys !!
That's exactly the man I had, and I took him for granted. He was much older than me and he was just an amazing man. He was the most loving person I ever have known. He passed away with cancer March 15, 2024. I miss him terribly every day and wish I could have known how special he truly was before he was diagnosed with cancer. You never know what you have until you lose it. At least I know he is with the Lord and one day we will be together again.
MHSRIP
Amen
Im so sorry rip ❤ you will be with again
I am so sorry for your loss. Bereavement is a painful journey especially when you deepy loved the person you've lost. I pray that you will know God walking with you through this time. You may question at times where God is but later you will know that he was with you all along ncluding those times when it seemed he wasn't. God bless you.
Thank you for your time to even read my comment and respond. This is definitely a journey, the Lord is testing me, and for a moment I was completely failing. But I am beginning to get back to myself, the person Mel helped me become. He was such a blessing to me, and I thank the Lord for bringing him into my life.
There are moments that I find myself angry with God, but mostly I am angry with myself. Had I not have been so selfish and careless for Mel and his discomfort I believe that we could have found the cancer. But I have learned something about myself and I will forever try to be better, to listen, and to act. Mel and I knew something was really wrong but we ignored the signs and the thoughts, the Holy Spirit.
This is where I grow up and become the woman Mel strived for me to be.
Bless you all.
A sad thing that has happened is so many are after a man who has already finished his journey and then they want to meet him at his finish line; to "help him" celebrate (with his winnings). They don't want the inconvenience of waiting for the journey.
Well said.
No one has ever finished their journey!
@@jamtime69 Fair enough! That's true. I just meant already having some amount of financial freedom, but yeah...we are always improving 😁
@@jamtime69 way to totally miss his point.
@@everythingmatterstheory7043 I didn't miss anything
It is better to be single than settle for the wrong man!!! (or woman)
Same goes to a man, this is dangerous times.
Porn, only fans, narcissistic people, delusional and deprived minds. Self centred instead of putting family and God first.
Be careful out there!
Or women
Once your Married it's for like Roman 7:2-3kjv.
If you know people the divorced and remarried and their partner still alive they are living open adultery sinning against God and there partner. Luke 16:18kjv. Mark 10:9-12kjv Matthew 5:31-32kjv. Malachi chapter 2:14-17kjv.
Amen to that ❤
@@JediKnight006any women abuse me, her funeral is the next day
From one who’s happily married to the same woman for 43 years - the key is first BEING the right person and then letting God lead in CHOOSING the right person.
Actually you are wrong. If we are reasonably mature and socially adjusted, we can be happy with many thousands of different people.
The one and only soulmate is a myth and a lie infatuated people want to believe.
"111" 🙌💯
We are at the beginning of the end of times. Marriage is from God because God created Eve from Adam and gave him Eve, and this is where God created marriage. So marriage is from God but Satan is against everything that belongs to God, and this is why the devil made many youths single, to divorce, to make abortion, enforced them to be engaged in same-sex marriage, which even the animals can't do, etc. By the way, I myself am single.
That's well said
@@cammontreuil7509You're pooping on their parade just let them think what they want to
Also, remember Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t ever feel like you are further along than other believers because God will show you just how much you have left to learn. We are ALL on a journey seeking after God. There is no spiritual gauge with which we can rightly measure others. Like Pharisees, some may have lots of head knowledge of the Word, but only God truly knows how close someone is to Him.
I agree wholeheartedly.
Sometimes we get so interested in looking for what we seek that we don’t recognize the thing that God puts in front of us. The Bible tells us to seek and you shall find. That is what we are taught, but sometimes we’re too busy seeking through our human eyes that we don’t miss what God shows us what he has put there in front of our spiritual eyes. We are all spiritual beings and Jesus wants us to learn from his teachings. When we look for a mate we aren’t supposed to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend material we look for Husband and Wife material. And grow in His grace together.
“I sent you five good men and you keep turning them down. Quite being such a girl!!”-God
😹😹amen
Love isn't about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person.
DING-DING-DING-DING-DING!!!
The ego judges
Half true there, brother. Attraction plays a very important element as well, it has to show some glimpse of Realization or else what differs them from anybody?
Love is about finding the right person in every situation, so work harder on yourself the time you meet the one make sure you are the right person simple 😂or choose to learn before cause we all going to count on you whether you like it or not 🧐🤣👋
Are you saying she needs to not be religious?? Clearly not
Not just theology, but someone who is truly humble. Many proud men can talk about theology. Being married to a prideful person is hard.
EXACTLY
True theology will lead to Godliness
Theologians aren't christian and christian are not theologians
@@nathanmccumber8965Some are
Everybody on TH-cam need get off study God word king James bible God word in English. Including myself. These woman know not Lord Jesus Christ
Ever since I was baptized in the Holy Spirit I encounter people who are sick, need healing, in pain or have other physical problems and I have had the privilege of laying hands on hundreds of people in Jesus name and I’ve seen more people get healed than I can keep track of and most of them were healed instantly. I love being in His presence. Now I just need someone who will walk beside me in this gift. I’m looking for my best friend, the one God created just for me. I know she’s out there.
I’ve been with my Husband for 20 years and understand you. I am so happy I found a true Spiritual Leader. He is amazing ❤
As a wife to a man who loves talking about theology, and leading his family spiritually, I approve of this message!❤
Gods not real 😂😂😂😂
@@suspecthighly9852 You are crossing someone’s freedom of choice! You try to force your belief on someone else.
Aren't christians supposed to be virgins till marriage? 🤔 grifter?
Good thing to cause if they weren’t religious looks like they probably wouldn’t take you based on ur looks
@@otiliamanuelajurj doesn't feminists already do that?
Be careful to not wait forever and not find anyone, generally you have to grow together spiritually
Not sometimes. All the times.
Sometimes in this case means the exactly same thing as all the time. @@WatchList-xf8ic
Based!!
You still have to be equally yoked.
She's not going to sleep with you bro.
Amen & Amen to this!!! If he’s not spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially & morally compatible to me, then I’m better off single. Settling is overrated! 💯💯💯
Amen!!!!!
So Interesting to see so many sides to her desire in a man of God in her life.
I totally understand her point & thank her for being vulnerable & sharing one of her deepest desires with us. She is a Christian so she is speaking both logically & spiritually. I am pretty sure she knows its not about just getting a guy who is further along in faith but someone who is deeply in love with God who has something to bring to the relationship for the long haul. Only God can give her that peace & confirmation that she so desires. God created us, so he knows what he is doing with her faith in God.
From experience, I had a desire for my man to love God more than me & was goal driven. And.....God answered my prayer and beyond... God is amazing. I couldn't share this desire with others because people would not understand and see it one-sided. We have been married for over 8 years this year & he still leads us in the Lord every day. ❤
This woman took the words, thoughts, compassion, understanding and wisdom out of my heart! Yes exactly…a Godly woman desires a Godly man that knows the deeper things of God and is on a higher level than her❤. Amen sis amen
A "Godly woman" doesn't casually speak of "all the great guys" she's slept with.
Absolutely ridiculous.
Lol, so she wants to marry the Pope.
Amen 🙏🏽
Why does she have no accountability. Maybe she should look in mirror and become person she is trying to attract. And also not be delusional.
@@wiseman4160 The mirror correctly said that she looks competitive in the dating pool, so she got full of herself and overreached. To her, likely everything started to look like a settle that is not good enough. This is why she basically set the bar at the level of a priest or a pope. Or maybe she's just virtue signaling to cover up her inner thot lol
Something tells me that nobody is gonna be far along in their faith enough to satisfy this woman.
Christian friends are the worst especially if they are religious like her.
Let's see
Pound of make up ☑️
Attention seeker ☑️
Thinks very highly of themselves (prideful) ☑️
No doubt materialistic ☑️
A virgin? No ☑️
You know, I think I'll pass on this one👎
She’s not that close herself. Women who are truly devoted to God to the level she speaks on do not care about keeping up on social media. She’s dated men who God would not approve of all her life that alone tells you about the choices SHE makes which reflects on her. I’ve heard many women talk like this yet their actions always say otherwise. Gotta always watch what they do and not what they say.
Her laugh in the beginning said it all
Social media is a part of how she and many others earn their living. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop the content every week, film, refilm if necessary, edit the videos. The cost of mics, lighting, making sure their appearance is presentable (the reason 75% of you men are here). I believe she does other things to earn an income as well though. You watching this video and commenting is putting food on her table, yet you're complaining.
All I’ll say is, don’t block your blessings. The spouse that God has in store for you may look nothing like what you see in your head. Don’t let God put someone good into your life, and you miss them looking for someone else.
that last sentence really spoke to my spirit 😮💨😮💨😮💨
People aren't perfect and we all come with flaws. The beautiful things about relationships is funding someone with the same commitment as you, someone who wint give up when things get difficult.
Sometimes being single is the only way your life can be quiet enough, so you can truly listen to God. The right person is someone that you see God in, and they will make you grow closer to Him.
Quelle belle phrase 😮 je suis d’accord
Amen ,amen
Yes yes yes! This is so true. I love being single because it does, indeed afford you the quiet time to really tune into God‘s instruction.
At least, for me, being single, has truly allowed me to silence the noise, have an enormous amount of me time, and has helped me further understand and appreciate the basic elements of life.
I understand each one of you because where there’s silence is peaceful, but in my case I long for that Godly companion. 🙏🏼
Unfortunately god is a fictitious construct of the human mind. Sad to see
After several years of dating I was looking for a life partner. I got down on my knees and said God your word says to ask and you shall receive. I believe this and I am asking you for a wife. One that is smart, beautiful, and knows how to cook as I love to eat. Within that month I saw her and knew she was the one and even asked to meet her parents to show I was sincere in dating her honorably. 8 months later I proposed got married 3 months after that. She is beautiful; engineering degree, loves to cook. 2 year later had our first child. We have had more kids in our 35 years together. God is so good. Don’t give up on God.
Beautiful ♥️
Oh wow nice! I'm an engineer, i love history, and im a christian. And i love cooking. Ive had suitors but things dont work out because they are not men of God and because im waiting til marriage. I pray that the right man of God finds me in the right time😊
@@roses993 Hi, can I ask to see you on instagram..? there is no private messages on youtube
Good 4 you, but many are not so lucky : And, some prefer Not to defile their souls with the love for females, because they Love God Faaar Far Above everything else . th-cam.com/video/YIHMPc6ZCuI/w-d-xo.html&pp=ygUaZGlyZSBzdHJhaXRzIC0gc28gZmFyIGF3YXk%3D
@@roses993I'm right here
Really need to hear this and know that patience, faith, and love is the key to keep going. God bless you sister🙏💞
Couples need to be ‘in Alignment’ - Mind, Body, and Spirit.
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I knew how to be loved treated in way I wanted to be from young kid thanks to my well adjusted loving parents who I trusted & honoured. We were shown not just told good examples of how to live take care of ourselves given respect trust protected. Regularly told how much we were loved wanted made their life ❤ I truly believe because we grew up in such a close connected family that it definitely contributed to both my Brother & I growing up to be strong independent proud & appreciative of our lives given. I definitely can say I only had good young men I dated who always looked after me well because of the way I was raised/treated...all thanks to my parents who were the best 💞
@@jangriffin-fi1yx you are a blessed person and clearly are grateful. 😇Not everyone shares your experience which is a sad state of affairs.
@@Supportfreespeech True & that saddens me greatly as kids do not ask to be born. Thank you for your kind words 🤗 💗
Aligned with God's will and equally yoked by God's grace.
Ladies, when you find this man, he will have feet of clay, just like you do. Much Grace will be required, no matter who that man is. All the best.
Hopefully no iron and clay....that's a world power
@@abella11 Certainly… “Feet of clay” is simply a figure of speech for areas of life where the flesh is still active and not submitted fully to the Holy Spirit. Aside from Jesus himself, all men and women battle with these areas. That is why marriage is such a wonderful gift. It reveals many blind spots, exposes our pride and selfishness, and reveals areas where we still need to grow. While it is healthy in some ways to set a very high bar for our future mate, we must also understand that we must be prepared to bring a very large vessel filled with grace to the marriage, because forgiveness will be hugely needed. Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth, once said that a healthy marriage is the union of two people who have learned how to forgive. Even the most godly man who studies theology, is very familiar with his Bible, and leads his household well will need forgiveness and grace on many occasions. So will his godly wife. After 26 years of marriage to a godly woman, who married me because she thought I was that, godly, biblically sound man, I can confidently say that It has been boatloads of forgiveness and the unlimited grace of God that has fueled our success thus far… and we continue to discover unsubmitted areas that still need work. Dream, big, forgive big! Extend grace big.
Or stinky feet. But at least his theology will be straightened out.
@@abella11we are all but dust. Dust with water and the breath of Life breathed into his frame.
This could be an issue if delivery, but standards are powerful and great, but the next level of faith for her will most likely be humility in trusting the Lord in being led by someone that is not perfect.
@@Heytherebuds sounds like a cyborg; iron mixed with clay.
Focusing on God in your singleness is such a blessing I will never forget. I never appreciated it till those days were gone!
The scripture says it pretty good.
You will be concerned more about them than God.
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I'm an evangelist in what she's saying here is very true I'm very cautious in ministering to women because they quickly become attached to you when you are guiding them spiritually and biblically
I wouldn't go with somebody either unless they are further in their face than I am and really truly love the Lord Jesus Amen to what you're saying in this video that's wisdom sister
I have been with the same man since I was 18, we have grown together, our faith has grown, and we are going to have a son. God has blessed us so much. 🙏 but when we both got together neither of us was the best. But we want to be better for God and for eachother. And growing together has been amazing and has been the foundation of our journey together.
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This is so awesome ❤
Are you married?
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I'm with the same man since 16, married in Barbados at 21, we are 45 now, we met via our local CB radio gang, kids talking on the C B and meeting up. We don't do religion, the CB brought us together. My brothers CB 😂😂😂.
I married a very good woman that has great faith,
More than I had. Because God loves us so much he saw inside my heart and brought me up to speed real fast. Don't discard Christian men who are not up to speed. God will bring it out of him!! It's just another form of Evangelizing!!
Yes God not another female
And that's just it, not every woman is the same. So many women will be happy with someone that's on the journey with them rather than ahead.
True
This is why it's important to not just be a Christian, but a true Christian, a believer. Jesus clearly said you should be evenly yoked. There is a reasom why he said that and many 'Christians' love to find imaginary loop holes in this simple command. The man must lead his family spiritually. It's fine to be a good Christian man, perhapse not to even be an outspoken man in the congregation but it's totally different to marry a man who is not spiritual or a man who has fleeting faith. It's dangerous for your own spirituality. When hard times come and tough decisions need to be made, those that may even test a family's spirituality, you need a Godly man who is strong in the faith. Don't be fooled.
I agrée
1. What do you understand by being led spiritually ??
2. Having a lot of knowledge of theology or the Bible does not necessarily mean you are more advanced in your faith. The most important thing is to live in obedience to God, to live a life that is pleasing to
him.
3. Knowing scriptures does not mean you understand the Word of God, although to understand the Word you must know the scriptures. In French we say: La Parole de Dieu c'est la révélation derrière les écrit dans la Bible.
Hint a State that flips tree times and becomes a cross.✝️ amen. Think foundation 🕯️❤️🔥🌱💥✝️📜🕊️🌄📬
This girls parents did a top notch job. Well done!!! I want my daughter to speak these words too one day.
How do we know she didn’t just finish 3 hours of squirting videos last week?
Amen amen
As long as she loyal
She's into her religion too early that she's gonna get burned out and have nothing but resentment for it later. She should've waited until she matured and realized what she's based her life around.
How? She's been ran thru? She ain't wifey material
I have a husband like that and it’s worth the wait! There are many great men out there that truly love God and who make great leaders and will always pray for their wife and love her!
She's casting a wide net 🐟 , he's got to be out there somewhere.
I came to God a little over a year ago, now i’m just looking for a woman of God
Leaders? Marriage is a partnership not a follow the leader train wreck. Paul wrote that submit/ obey shit and Paul is the Benjamin wolf antichrist. He plagiarized one of his 3 contradictory conversion stories from Eurpidedes and then From THE SAME PLAY, Antichrist Paul plagiarized his escape from prison by earthquake story. Jesus warned you 6 ways from Sunday about Paul. The Ephesians turned away from him. Paul admitted "All in Asia have turned away from me." Ephesus was in Asia. Jesus commended the church of Ephesus in Revelation for trying the apostles and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus by that time.
Amen sister! 🙌
@@MandyAltamiranowow, where did you go wrong in your doctrine? You sound very bitter.
I completely agree! I didn’t want any woman that would hinder my faith or resist following God. When God led me to her, we both knew it was right. Now, it’s been 27 years and we still are in agreement and growing in Christ! Stay true to yourself and be patient.
I’m single as well, because no relationship I was in was approved by god, I’m waiting for the right one that god has for me. Because I know god has my future spouse.
Someone can be full of head knowledge, self-righteous, and memorize the entire bible and have a theological discussion. And yet have no clue what it means to truly abide in Christ and allow His life to flow through you! Just having a revelation about all of this. Thank you Jesus!
Very well said. It's good to know scriptures but it's about your relationship with Christ. How you react in everyday ups and downs. in your faithfulness. you said best in all the post.
Very very true. God's word is important but if we don't know Him know Him it doesn't matter. I couldn't agree more with you I say it all the time. Jesus will teach His children one to one in relationship.
At least they started from somewhere, is it not better to encourage, than judge her based on assumptions?
@@parentscribjudgment is necessary in the church we must judge and hold other Christians accountable because they are supposed to know the truth already there is no excuses in Gods house God hates excuses everyone is without excuse the Bible says
@@Adam2-13 so on what grounds are you judging her, what wrong did she do now. Ain't people just judging her based on assumptions? Have you met her before?
Thats a good desire. The reason I married my wife was because I was able to talk to her for hours about God and it was genuine. The foundation of our relationship is the will of God. If you do that, you will have good marriage.
Amen
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That's what I'm prying for. I want a woman who loves God first so that we can both fully commit to pleasing Him! 🙌
I agree
Praise the Lord
But how long will you be single ? A strong bond builds at a young age, when you share and create great memories with one another and feel connected with their families.
It doesn’t work that way for everyone.
Honestly im scared to start a journey with someone lets say age 26 or 31..like she says building a bond at a young age and not gave went througgh so many thungs in life is strong@Vs1one
@@Andrianapm1first get an education so you can articulate your thoughts properly and use proper spelling and grammar. 🥴
@TheBlogWasWendi omg I didn't even notice lol. Must've been autocorrect
Yes ma'am, beautifully spoken. I pray you get what your heart desires! 🙏
I knew a men of faith was the one for me.
I remember after our first date my husband sent a paragraph long prayer. 4yrs later I still receive them! Our conversation has turns into insightful conversations then breaking into a heartfelt prayer over us…that’s the man I was waiting for ❤
Amen to you
i am looking for a woman like your man.
Wow I'm so happy for you
Exactly that's the man my soul is longing for with whom the conversation turns into some insightful conversation❤
I'm glad that works for you ..
I remember thinking this, and maybe not for her, but for me, it was pride and immaturity. I married a wonderful man who is growing in his leadership and I’m growing in my submission.
You have to be ok to submit to a man who isn’t as far along as you’d like but has the earnestness and potential to get there.
Years ago, I met a man who knew the Bible front to back. Raised in church and could hold a good Bible study. BUT he was void of the presence of Jesus. He had no true relationship. Come to find out he was doing this with many women in the church. I was just 1 of em. This was of my doing not God too. But I NEVER felt the presence of Jesus with him. See a man can give you so much theology but NOT love Jesus at all. Meanwhile, there's a man who may not be as biblically literate who Loves Jesus and SHOWS Jesus in his actions and CAN authentically lead his family and Love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Ladies let Jesus CHOOSE your spouse no need to go on endless dates. God can direct every other part of your life, so why not in your season of wanting a mate? Let HIM CHOOSE. 😊 Trust him with this!!
And yes! Most certainly pride. I'm not married yet. But this was my thinking too. Had a long, exhausting list of spiritual things I wanted in my husband. God humbled me and told me, nope. Are you marrying Jesus in the earthly flesh? No. You're marrying a human. And he will have flaws. As long as he is willing to grow with you and Jesus, God will be glorified. He must be glorified in our weaknesses. Prayerfully, her mind changes, and Jesus shows her this is not what truly matters. But that he truly follows Jesus foremost in all his imperfections. Leadership will grow. She wants an already made man. Can this happen sure? But what is God's plan for HER ultimately?
Well, I do think some of the high standards are just plain having a BS meter and selectivity, our healthy hypergamy if you will, but yes, feminism has been a poison suggesting women don't need men. We DO! We need GOOD men!! @@beingroxy
Very true. You set expectations for a man and we will struggle through anything to meet them. Don't set expectations and we will drift lazily.
That was well said.
Is youtube hiding comments? I can't see my original comment lol?
I always have wished the same that you, someone that love my lord Jesus Christ more than me, I know there is someone out there waiting for letting me be her lovely husband, I'll keep praying for that day to come to live a love like Song of Solomon's book🙏🏻🙌🏻❤
Amazing she's seeking an eternity union wow if a woman talked to me this way there will be a unbreakable fusion I'm a patient man for a woman like this it's a salsa and tango to death do you part its a pure feeling when you know you know theres such a passionate connection spirituality I believe this is a true marriage that will last forever god first wife second kids third and then your career the lord will provide nurrish and fulfill everything you will ever want or need in a covenant
Agree. I waited, too, for the right one. I thought I found the one (a Christian guy from a different church) when I was 23, my first date. A few guys courted me who came from same church, too. But it seemed that these guys I first dated were not mature enough for me to lead me spiritually. And thank God I waited for the right one and God gave me my husband now. ❤❤❤ We are 11 years married now.
Praise the Lord!❤
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You just motivated me🥹 I'm 24 and still waiting to find a girl that goes to the gym and want to grow physically, mentally and specially... Spiritually with me😭😭😭... Please lord hear my prays 🙏😭😭😭
Also bear in mind that men are usually very intimidated by and insecure about approaching extremely beautiful women. So God must give your Mr. Right a healthy dose of boldness.
Please, please, please don't settle for a man you don't find physically attractive just because he's a great theologian. Mr. Right will be the right one, not a compromise that you try to justify because people keep asking or reminding you that time is ticking.
Good testimony.
To be this young, so anchored in faith and know exactly what you want is such a blessing...God bless this young lady.
She’s in just another dream world that is ruled by her dreamy ego. Why is this any different than finding your “Prince Charming”. All words and looks eventually wear thin and then what. Fear is an emotion that wears many masks!
As someone who is very spiritual but not religious, I think there is some truth to what you're saying for this girl/girls in her situation... though I suppose it goes much deeper than we are assuming here, probably more complex than what we assume so we should reserve judgement since it's not something hurting anyone, just her/their spiritual development journey, maybe it's exactly where she needs to be at the moment... the good thing is she is looking and has made her life revolve around spirituality rather than materialism... I'd say she's doing good in my book - ie. not everyone's goal/journey is that of a nun/monk/priest/etc - even though I've essentially crucified myself spiritually, I still allow myself to be extremely flawed as an individual since truly the framework of god or the spirit is such that it exists to guide us out of our mischievious selfishness and to a greater purpose in life... so we remain flawed regardless of how spiritually inclined we are, but we get really good at catching ourselves degrading and thus immediately correct ourselves to get back on track and even further along... perhaps that's what is or will happen for this girl/etc. @@abelmcguire1951
It's not what she wants but what God has planned for her
@@abelmcguire1951if you're not a practicing Christian, you won't understand the importance of what she's looking for.
more like indoctrinated by family and community from a young age and still hasn't questioned the difficult things in christian theology.
That’s a blessing God has put this in your heart and will give you the desires of your heart. It’s just the being patient and waiting till He puts this man in your life. He will and believe God is preparing this man as we speak.
I wish that I had waited for a godly man, not someone who said he accepted Christ, someone whose life actually reflected a transformation and love for God.
It would’ve saved me twenty years of loneliness, rejection and loss and our children so much pain, confusion, anxiety and stress. It robbed me of a husband and them of their childhood. It is very difficult to forgive myself for the choices I made.
Who you join your life to will make all the difference.
Choose carefully and wisely. Do not bond with their trauma. Do not try to rescue or heal them with your live. That is the work of the Holy Spirit. Do not fall in love with their potential. Connect through your shared values and your love for God.
I wish I could go back in time and have an opportunity to marry a sincere, kind, man of integrity and have a Christ centered home.
My hubby is 100% this. Praise God for him! I respect and admire him more than anyone I've ever met.
Have you received the Holy Ghost since you believed?
You are blessed. It's so hard to find a man so in love and with such a deep faith in Our Heavenly Father. I pray I find this one day. 🙏
Your blessed..
Always felt like this young girl.. still haven't know a God fearing Man ✝️📖🙏🏼
@paulwise998 we all received the Holy Spirit The minute we got saved! The Holy Spirit lives in us at the time of our conversion. The gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit are completely different and comes after we develop our personal relationship with God by repenting of our sins daily, fasting, praying, worshipping, reading and studying the Bible, living Holy and
getting to know God on a deeper level
I am thankful to GOD for marrying a man who led me to the faith in JESUS CHRIST. We always talked and discussed about GOD and HIS WORD. One thing he always tell me, in whatever I do, think and say always give glory to GOD.
God has made all of us, and everything. Loving god starts with growing less selfish and more alrtoist, loving others, caring for them, being friendly, and look for god in everyone's heart.
I love that she's honest and that she's on the path of her journey.. then again where he is in his life within his journey . That through grace that whomever continues to grow even better and stronger yet independently yet together in that journey as one sharing this in a lifetime... it isn't easy .. at all ... but as harder without it ...
It's Soo good to hear a woman talk with such enthusiasm about religion and relationships
Yeah but she is delusional. She wants a spiritual man who is 6 feet or more, makes mid-Six figure income, is a 10 in the looks category, is willing to do the household chores, etc.etc.etc.😮🤣😘👋
And she is beautiful too......
May God bless her and all of us!
Yeah
Agreed
Yes and she's gorgeous to boot
I married a woman who likes to talk theology. It has blessed my life like Psalm 128.
You’re missing out on Psalm 69:
Save me, O God; for the waters are come in unto my soul.
It’s so sexy when a woman recite it, especially in bed. “Oh God, oh god, oh come, oh come in unto my @&$&@“
Wish I could have found that.
66 now. Maybe there's still a chance. Been looking in the wrong places probably.
Thanks Ajpreus, 🙏, I pray that God might do the same for me!
Thanks, Andrew 🙏, I mean!! Be blessed 🙌 🙋
I'm a 27 year old male ...still I'm single because I'm representing Lord and talking about him all the time & took the life(professional career & all other things) less serious therefore I'm hesitated by all the peoples who came in my life path. I'm seen as a Joker, I'm seen as a sinner, I'm seen as a dust in the hood by all others.
But you know what I'm still joy, in eternal peace & bliss in My one & only Lord.
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They is so beautiful that she has a yearning and a desire to be lead spiritually Lord please send her a mighty man of valor
As a Christian man who studied theology, masters to be exact, I searched for someone to match my faith. Thank God I finally did. Not only in education but serving in Gods kingdom as well. You’ll find that man, but be the person you’d wish to have and you’ll be that much closer.
This girl is suffering from the ultimate "daddy's girl" complex. She
perceives herself as "greater" than every single man she sees because
she is believing the lie her earthly father sold her that she is a
princess. She believes the lie that she is better than any man out
there, which is how her earthly father has crippled her. This is sad. I
know gorgeous young women, one who is 35 and a committed Christian who
wants to find her husband; badly, in fact. However, no guy has yet
measured up. Part of it is that feminism has killed healthy masculinity
by "toxifying" it and vilifying it. Part of it is the fact that he
father has hamstrung her by searing her sense of what she wants in a
mate. She will end up an old spinster. VERY sad, and so is this girl in
the video.
A friend of mine married her husband when he had no faith. 30 years later, he's an amazing man of God. Everyone has a different journey.
So Christian’s should make sure they marry someone with degrees? I don’t see that in the Bible at all…
@@QuoyamGod never sends nobody to those Jesuit bible colleges. Just study your King James Bible
@@Quoyamchristian aren't theologians and theologians aren't christian.
God is not trinity or oneness those man made doctrines of devils.
Stay away from narcissistic types guys.
Yeah luckily for all of the guys out there, this chick is going be alone forever because no one is good enough for her. Half of the earth dodged a bullet.
That’s the perfect guy for her bc that’s what she is
When she gets the handsome fella with the big church, they will direct your p.os. car to the lot in back of the church, that leads to the back row seats, for ugly people, so you don't ruin the pod cast. They still need your money for the hair color appointment tomorrow, and the tan salon the next day, and so on.
@@johnsimoney2035absolutely agree with you!
That is exactly what she is... using anyone spirituality intead of having her own journey
I agree 💯. My father isn't a christian, everything I know I had to learn from my church bible studies and from studying by myself. I also wish to find someone I can listen & learn from about Theology.
Praise God to hear that there are still young people talking like this !!! God will bless you with the right man in your life dear, just wait for that moment, it will come. God is faithful in all things. Let God's will be done, not yours. If you have prayed and asked Him, then have the faith and trust and wait. Still, you need to do some fasting and earnest praying and get close to the Lord so you will get the impressions from the Holy Spirit and He will guide you where to go or what to do. All praise to God !!!
I was on a Chistian dating site for two years and could not find a Godly woman that could understand the deep things of God , i gave up and he saved a woman that was broken like i had been broken , 3 years later she knows the bible better than any woman ive known . Thank you Jesus
Praise God brother, that's great to hear and I'm so happy to hear that you no longer feel the need to spend time on dating sites.
God bless you and yours always
You do know the bible is mostly fiction right?
'christian dating sites" really shouldn't be used to be honest. Real followers of Yeshua don't have to position themselves at all God will do all of that. Christian dating sites, really defeats the whole purpose of waiting for God's pick and what God has for His children that's His BEST. It's basically taking control in one's hands and against God's word because people are not patient. With that being said, glad it worked out for you the way Our Father wanted it and not your way. Good testimony I hope people read your comment and listen and learn. Jesus Bless you.
Hahahahaha
Hahaha better stay seated 😆
It’s not about theology. It’s about knowing The Triune God in such an intimate way that everyone knows that there is something different about you, without speaking about Him. The fruits of the spirit : love, joy peace, patience gentleness kindness faithfulness and self control are evident in all you say and do. That’s the husband I met and married. Thank you Jesus for your kindness in bringing him to me.
Yes. And also GOODNESS !
You can’t know the triune God without theology
@@christopherhoye975but you can totally know theology and not KNOW God. I feel like the lady in this snippet likely meant the latter, too
@@christopherhoye975 You CAN know the triune God without theology. I did. I knew Him at 6 yrs old when He came to me and I hadn't been to a church, read a child's Bible or had any knowledge of theology. I knew Him and Know Him today.
@@MandyAltamirano
Theology is literally the study/knowledge of God.
Girl, he better be further. That desire to be led is STRONG
Yuppp…My husband must be more spiritual than me. He must be the one teaching me the Bible. He must be the one that hears even more clearly from God than me. He must wash me with the Word of God each and every single day! It’s not just a desire it’s a necessity atp. Selah 🙏🏽❤
those men are taught to stay away from dirty women. The ones who try dirty women tend to get burned. The bible teaches adam not to deal with an unruly wife.
Believe me, if you don't marry a man who listens to holy spirit. The devil will destroy your relationship.
If a man knows the voice of the Holy Spirit, and the voice of Satan, and He is a real child of God and God is watching him all the time. The devil will be buried and never have a voice in the marriage. Truth by experience. This is an extraordinary power of God
Usually the devil comes through the woman. The weaker vessel. Always has been that way biblically throughout history. Both parties man and woman need to be on there toes. Always. Which doesn't happen. So at the very least both parties need to have immovable love as a foundation in there soul for there spouse. And a maturity.
The sad part for me is that ex did do such things in front of me, but little did I know that he was listening to the devil all these time. He turned out to be an abusive narc who portrayed himself to be an angel.
Bullshit
I've seen non Christian marriages happier than Christian marriages.
This is my story!! ❤ 🥲 🙌
GOD has blessed our marriage and our children because of our obedience to Him.
Total BS😂😂😂😂😂😂
So few of you left out there! Most modern women are de-mons in disguise!
Ten years in and we love serving GOD together. ❤
@@3178527 congrats ignore the troll.
Wait, and see.
I wanted to just sit and be guided by the spirt the soul that sets you on fire that never lets the foundation to be disturbed with the world and flesh
Amen God has someone for all of us my pastor said wait on your Issac don't settle for Ismael you Issac will come
It really is a blessing to have Biblical conversations with my husband daily. I pray God brings you to the man He has for you.
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@@trevrockrock16 I didn’t say it was. What’s your point?
Romans 7:2-3
King James Version
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Luke 16:18
King James Version
18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Matthew 5:31-32
King James Version
31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12
King James Version
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
@@trevrockrock16 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
Psalms 37:4
I never said every single person is meant to be married. He calls some to be single, but clearly this lady desires a godly husband. Thus my prayer for Him to bring her to the man has for her.
You know, it’s not very “christian” for you to jump to conclusions about people you don’t know and say their faith isn’t genuine and they’re not a Christian.
@@trevrockrock16 If you keep reading in that same chapter you’ll see that staying single is PAUL’S preference for us, not a command! “I say this as a concession, not as a command.”
1 Corinthians 7:6 Jesus, in fact reiterated what was said in Genesis. “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-6 The “Therefore” portion was Him adding to the OT verse telling us to still obey the OT in regards to marriage.
God is not a god of confusion. The entire Bible is His word and has no contradictions. Jesus himself quoted from the OT in the NT all the time, thus showing the OT is not null and void. He even said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17
“You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me,” John 5:39 - The scriptures Jesus is talking about are all in the OT, again showing that the OT is not void. The entire Bible speaks of Christ and is still relevant and truth.
this is such a word, yes yes yes
lead me, teach me, take me through the deeper revelations of the word and Christ 😭💯
Period. 💯
Zoey,
You came from somewhere- this is what is MISSING…
But where?
???God was just bored and created the Universe and ALL of us???
No,
He says I KNEW YOU BEFORE I FORMED YOU IN YOUR MOTHERS WOMB”
One of the most import verses for clarity in ALL of scripture…
I suggest that this life is an opportunity to be reconciled to Almighty through Christs sacrifice (the Door) and obedience (the WAY) to Heaven…
Christ saved and continues to guide you to the light and away from evil…
Total crap and denial of Jesus.
Jesus said "You have no need that any MAN should teach you. The Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth."
Salvation is a solo membership not a duo
At first, I didn't know why I was remaining single. Till I heard about Corey Ten Boom.
Then I began to just hear more sermons from a variety of godly man, that my hunger and thirst is growing
I'm blessed, although I pray for the married, elderly, parent less and for the sinners.
When I met my wife I was so lost. Not an atheist, but just so mad at the world, and no direction. She spoke of God to me and introduced me to Christian music. On my birthday 15 years ago she took me to see Third Day in a small venue. I was drinking the whole way up there, not knowing she was going to surprise me. I had been battling alcoholism since a young age and when I saw the sign on the theatre that said, Third Day live, I just broke down and cried like a little kid. I walked into that concert smelling like beer, buzzed, wondering what people would say. But God was with me there. Shining His light on us. Pouring Himself into my brokenness. Blessing us. He saved me. He blessed me with an amazing wife and best friend.
I say this because I believe that sometimes a good woman can also lead a man. She had faith in God, in our marriage. We now have a strong marriage and family, with God as our center. Our kids know God, and this story too. I want women to know that they also have so much power to help a man, to influence a man in a positive way so they can see God in you, and seek Him. A woman’s faith is just as powerful as a man’s.
Good for you man
Love this testimony 🥲 God bless you & your family 🙏
Hallelujah, praise the Lord. Our God is amazing God.
God chose a man for me that wasn't even close to believe in God. But he listens and his faith is growing. He trusted me right from the beginning and turns to God more and more by himself. It's beautiful to witness the unfolding of his own path in God. Even when he doesn't recognize it, he speaks the wisdom of God to help me grow and walk on this path.
As God wants more souls to awaken to Its glory, i think we should lead those souls ready to open their heart to God but unaware yet. It's not easy, even challenging, but so rewarding in God going out of our comfort zone.
God works in many ways and not everyone's story is the same due to that. Yours is very encouraging sister.
Yes this is God's purpose in relating now. It is sad little Christians have their heart open for this because this is what God's heart is like. ❤
Mines the same way! He wasn’t more spiritually mature than me but he was willing and that’s all that ever matters. ❤
Thank you much for saying this!
This is encouraging, thank you for sharing. I pray that mine will be more willing
I understand her 101% 🤝
I've gotten that far through centering prayer,listening prayer,soaking worship,and studying the nondual Christianity,
I just gave you everything you need without having me in your life,
And I'm single because I realized the value of my soul and I know my worth,
If a female can learn to just soak in gods presence and add value to my life,
I may think about being with her.
This is exactly what I was looking for in a future husband! When my now husband and I went on our first date he took me through a psalm, teaching it to me, and I knew right then he was the man I was going to marry. It was so precious and I’m so thankful for his spiritual leadership! I have grown so much in my faith since marrying him!
Pharisee
This.
Wow, I love this. Makes us single women want to keep waiting and preparing
This is beautiful indeed. It would be so beautiful to have this experience especially on a first date if the guy and the girl both intentionally bring their Bibles. After talking to each other and getting to know one another in a cafe or something, they could just break bread together and study the word of God for some time, just imagine having that intimate time together with God, ughh my heart😩. This is a way to show commitment in seriousness with intentionality to honor God and the relationship the girl and the guy are pursuing together You know when that happens he is the keeper and so is she. Now this is a desire to have.
Most women can't handle the level of discipline that comes with a true man of God I promise you
It takes a hell of a man to be better than no man at all. I married a great Muslim guy. Christian guys want someone to rule and reign over.
yep because God will expect more out of THEM
Are you saying there is more true men of God than women ? Do you go to church ? I think the ratio of spiritually disciplined people is quite equal that’s only my real life observation though
@@rainsara2795 I took his comment to mean that women have to be very disciplined in their submission to what he THINKS is a true man of God.
But I could have taken it wrong.
I am a Christian feminist woman married happily to my partner who happens to be Muslim. We have a boy and a girl both raised Christian with full knowledge of Islam who have both graduated from college. My daughter is a mechanical engineer ( rocket scientist)married to a nice Christian man and they have 3 children. My son is a heart surgeon like his father. He, too, is a Christian married with 2 young children.
I NEVER would EVER submit to a male just because he was male. If he was my employer, I'd submit to his reasonable requests. I taught my children the same. We are equals.
Sometimes I lead in things. Sometimes my husband leads in things. I am led by Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I go to NO man for what I can get directly from God. Between you and me, most men are STUPID. Not mine; but most.
These FAKE Christian guys complain feminists wacked their balls. Nope. feminism just EXPOSED them as the eunuchs that they already are. They did it to themselves.
Can you imagine standing next to a guy that you have to blow hot air into all the time just to puff up his ego? Or can you imagine dummying it down spiritually so your husband can feel like the "leader"? The whole message of the torn vail is that ALL believers have direct access to God through Jesus in us. That is also how we HEAR His VOICE audibly, make trips to heaven ( it's IN HIM), exercise the Spiritual gifts of healing, prophecy and words of knowledge. Thank God I don't have to go to the Pope. Thank God that I don't have to go to my husband or ANY man.
I have an EQUAL say in what goes on in our home. For instance, if I wanted to move to Florida and my husband wanted to move to Pennsylvania, we would either mutually agree on the location or I would move to Florida and he could move wherever he wanted. There is NO rule that I submit or obey him just because of his plumbing. These poor churched boys still want to be gods. None of that comes from Jesus.
If a man is really a man, there is no woman on the planet that can emasculate him. It's really difficult to find an intact Christian male. You'll find one on the farm long before you'll find one attending these FAKE churches today.
I'll tell you a man's "role" in the household: Replace the engine in the truck faster than I can do it or I'll replace the engine and he can clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner.
These "churched" boys want a female and a family to rule and reign over. They can find that in Mormonism.
@@rainsara2795
That's gonna change EXTREMELY SOON!
He's out there, he's tried in the fire and coming out like Gold! 🙏🙏🙏
Bless them,who despised me or any one.said the Lord Jesus.
I’m so thankful that God yoked me with a Godly woman who is further along in her faith journey. She has been a blessing for me in my faith journey.
Interesting. By her standards she would never marry a man like you bc you’re not “further along” than her. But you and your wife did it (which is completely okay) and grown. Glad you’re both being blessed brother.
That's really nice 😊
It’s not real though. It just makes you feel good.
Amen
When I was around 15, I asked God to send me the perfect woman to marry. And I got married at the age of 35. Before I got married, I had several girlfriends, but after a few weeks in the relationship, there was a sign from God telling me that I got the wrong person. I was never desperate to get married. I have been married for over 12 years, but family, love, and faith are still growing.
This is nice, been the same for me God always showed me the wrong one after a short time into the relationship. I dated some lovely ladies but they weren’t searching for God the way I was.
Amen
God sure took his time.
How did you guys meet if you don’t mind me asking? Was it in a religious event or out in the wild?
Story of my life
I was too smart to be fooled by every girl I dated
Never liked anyone within a few months together as I was not a simp
Finally got married at the age of 31
I pray that you read PPROVERBS 31:10 to 31 and learn from God ,this is the Woman that God loves to see and bless ,please see your self and understand what are your doing and what you project to Woman
The problem with that is that people lie all the time about their faith and their values. Personally I would focus on being that person you want to find
I prayed for a husband who loves God more than me and he answered me 18 years together 14 married, we also waited till marriage❤
You waited till marriage? Now were you a virgin?
4 years dating? This is not permissible according to the Bible.
I’m not sure she fully understand what that type of man would come with. Men like that tend to want to go into monasteries, and serving the Lord is their #1 priority, not a woman. I’m not so sure she’s gonna enjoy that.
Welp i mean God should always be your first priority if you are in a relationship for both the girl and the boy. Thats a healthy relationship.
No. I understood her. You need to be in her spiritual level to agree with her.
There is a level you'll get with God that nothing else matter anymore. she is just putting God first, that's all.
@@dapootolasun1852es verdad la entiendo ella busca a su san José a la persona que la ayude en su camino a la santificación
@@dapootolasun1852 this is not how God created women. If you’re a woman who only wants to serve the Lord and nothing else matters, then it’s best to become a nun. Most women are more practical than that. As soon as they start having children priorities really shift, and she will want a partner who is present with the children, with her, who pays attention to her and makes her feel like a woman. It’s too hard to find a man who has the entire package, from the type she describes. I know the types, they tend to not make the best husbands. You can’t do it all.
@@dapootolasun1852lmao do u really believe that😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hopefully one day I will be worthy and ready to meet and cherish somebody like this God willing because she has beauty on the outside and lots of beauty on the inside stunning the both of you are hallelujah that they’re still women that strongly believe in Jesus out there Gives me a lot of hope
I think they are both more into their looks than anything else.
You are on the right path. Those who wait God will send someone special in their lives.
not necessarily...
Not true
Not true, God helps those who helps themselves. People who just sit around and wait for someone special to come into life won’t receive that kind of blessing
@@vincew4297 After being a Christian for over 50 years.. I say that you are right.
Also Christians have a misconception of divine protection. So many good disciples have been killed in history. (martyred). starting with Stephen.
@@vincew4297 I agree with you 1000%. No doubt about that.
Comment section seems to forget that the lady said "For me". She wants and deserves a man that will lead her, this is the desire that God put in her heart.
True
Correct.
She’s not gonna find it unless it’s a man twice her age
@@skyislight3804 True
@@skyislight3804she will find him coz the same way there are women who as on the spiritual path, there's also men in the same journey and when you find your partner... Damn even Christmas can compare to that joy
Hallelujah sincerely amen 🙏 thank you sisters FATHER GOD BLESS YOUR CHILDREN ,THANK YOU FOR BLESSING US,HELPING US YOUR CHILDREN ,
Pride cometh before destruction and a haughty spirit before the fall.
So so wonderful to see healthy strong spiritually uncompromising women, the smile of heaven is over you xx
Don't you see it? They will likely end up with a cat or two
@@ralfulrich6254that s a worldy perspective she won’t as long as she is obedient to God submits to him and she will eventually submit to her future husband, walks in faith, and strives to be the spouse she desires in her future spouse she is good.
The amount of bitterness in these comments simply because these women are conventionally attractive and talking about Jesus at the same time is actually insane
It's crazy
Yeah it's ridiculous
😂
you mean plastically attractive - they have had plastic surgery already .... how is that Christ like to focus on your appearance in a fake way? it's not
@@sassysays29To be modern means to accept these things as common practice even with girls within the church. They dont see it as being artificial or vane, specially if they come from fsmilies with a lot of money
Y'all our both so beautiful spiritually and physically God bless you! Keep believing and spreading the gospel. ❤
Great girl!! Congratulations because you wait for God!! And that is wonderful because others, like me we made the mistake to wait and we doing wrong and suffer the consequences.
God designed us to be led spiritually by the HOLY SPIRIT, not by another person, including a spouse.
god speaks to us through people
No god is leading us by rules and manners documented in Quran, there is no third party in between, it doesn't make sense anyways, wake up people
@@bluetiger5852did god wrote the quran himself😅
What trash is this??? Have you not read Genesis 2 or Ephesians 5:22-24??? Wives are to be led by their husbands AND by HOLY SPIRIT.
@@bluetiger5852 Bro, this is a discussion amongst Christians. You're on the wrong thread. Turn to JESUS!
There is nothing better than growing in faith together and watching your relationship grow from the struggles of life together. Theres nothing greater than walking together in life. How does one expect a great man to just show up in life. Men and women were created for eachother to help eachother.
That is very true statement
Agreed
True.