I love the idea of a goodbye bash. My aunt had one! She had kidney failure and was in dialysis for a long time. Her health was declining and she said she just could feel that she wasn’t going to last much longer. She said she didn’t want people to cry too much when she died, she wanted us to be happy and celebrate her life! So, she planned a going away party :’) She invited all of the people she wanted to see, had a beautiful party, and it was an amazing thing for everyone. She got to leave on her terms and say her final goodbyes to everyone while she was still able to, and we got to have an amazing memory of her to help us have closure once she was gone. I’m absolutely going to do the same if the universe allows it.
That sounds so beautiful. I have a terrible fear of death, I get really bad panic attacks when I think too much about it but I feel that maybe in the future doing something like a going away party might help me feel better :)
I commend your aunt, and the idea makes me smile. She took something scary and out of her control and just put her terms on it. I think that’s something we can all learn from her. Even the scary and uncertain things can be less scary if your able to put your own control in it. I love the idea of a going away party. We celebrate birth, so why not positively celebrate the life of a loved one before they die? Everyone gets closure, the death is associated with happy moments and memories, and everyone who may not otherwise get to say goodbye (ie living out of the area, going to college, going to be deployed overseas, etc). And I’m sure everyone would like to say goodbye before the person in question passes away.
Let's be real Brexit happened only so UK doesn't have to deal with immigrants from Eastern Europe and pay taxes to Eropean Union which supports most European countries.
I noticed this too and was like “why weren’t other people talking about this more”. Like first of all, you should know which tupperware are yours and he’s just stealing someone else’s food? And then her food is gone, so what can she eat? She brought her food for a reason because she can’t eat the food at their house. That’s really fucked up. And it’s happened multiple times.
@@legumefiend While out house is commonly used to refer to a toilet outside in America in other countries an out house literally just refers to any building outside of the house. Just because it means one thing where you live doesn’t mean there isn’t an alternative meaning.
Eugene was so great in this, love when he really gets comfortable and really expresses himself. Him talking about how Matt improved his life and cleaning skills is a great example of a healthy and stable relationship that helps people grow!
I’d beef with Keith’s “I don’t care if it’s messy, so why should I clean” statement. If you’re in a partnership, you should help contribute to a comfortable environment for everyone IMO. So I hope he was exaggerating about the 95/5 Becky to Keith cleaning ratio lol
I came here to see what Ariel was upset about and I can see why. Ned is an ungrateful brat who doesn’t appreciate his lovely wife’s unwavering support. It’s like Ariel has three kids to look after, not two.
@@Langas217 pretty sure it's the addressing the beef with the try guys video - th-cam.com/video/xikTRmkvPdc/w-d-xo.html (I'm kind of backtracking through the videos, so I might be wrong)
I thought it had been going on for a year as of September 2022. So my assumption is it started around September 2021, meaning this was a few months before the affair started. But I could be wrong.
I lost my parents 15 months apart in 2017/2018 and at my mom's service we had a DJ playing all of my mom's favorite music and my dad's service was a tribute motorcycle ride and was hosted at his favorite bar in our town. Their services were about them & all of the beautiful memories we all have with them. ❤
Thank you! My mom was only 44, my dad had just turned 50. We still have our amazing step dad with us and we make sure he is appreciated every single day! But really you can do whatever you want to honor someone, it doesnt have to be traditional by any means. I think we are firm believers in our family that it shouldn't be the same every time.
I noticed that you guys kept trying not to get too deep as you were getting closer and closer to talking about racism and bias. You guys talking about these topics is so important. Please keep doing it.
Yea in my opinion YCSWU deals better with talking about hard topics. Serious topics like racism, sexism, etc. Talking about late stage Capitalism and classism would be welcomed for sure too.
Agreed, sometimes the attempt to divert away from these naturally occurring conversations surrounding race/class etc is a bit awkward. We're here because we enjoy them not because it has to remain light all the time - particularly in a longer podcast format. I've definitely noticed this quite a few times for sure!
I think they maybe want to be an escape for people, something that just makes you smile for an hour. They touch on important issues and make their views clear but I think they just want to make sure people know what they’re getting when they click. People know a TryPod episode will make them feel joy, maybe the only joy they feel all day in these times. I do really love when they talk about serious topics, I wish they had another podcast or something just for that. When Zach announced his podcast I was hoping it would be one where he got to talk about politics/society/etc because he seems to be really intelligent and passionate about those things.
Everyone's beef with cleaning, Eugene going off about the monarchy, Keith mentioning Taco Bell yet again and ending off with veggie tips; THIS is why listen to the TryPod!
I like how Keith was explaining how he has glasses so he can't see anything when he showers anyway so cleaning shower doesn't matter much and the camera moves over to Zach quietly laughing to himself in agreement
My Oma is still haunted by the memory of her father being taken away by the Naz*s to a concentration camp. He was a member of the Dutch resistance, smuggling people, and he saved even more lives in the camp by sharing rations and caring for the others. He survived the camp and has a plaque or something in a temple somewhere (Israel I think) as a Blessed Gentile. History is so important, I really loved this pod guys. And yes all the support to Meg & Harry!
as a British person I can say, hand on heart, a lot of us would happily watch the monarchy crash and burn. it's an outdated emblem of inequality, colonialism and most progressive, younger people hate it or at the very least are apathetic - Eugene is more than right
although it's important to note that royal fanaticism and racism is very much rooted in British culture and, even for left wing politicians, criticism of the royal family (particularly the queen) is immediately shut down. So called British civility is a veneer hiding a lot of darkness and we just don't need a colonial figurehead to symbolise the extraordinary pain this nation has caused
basically a lot of British people want to leave this shitty rock sliding further into authoritarianism (I mean essentially banning fucking protest this week) but we're stuck. so yeah fuck the monarchy
oof- i always want to know what the british people think pf the monarchy! and the issues with Diana, Charles, Camilla. and if you guys are supportive of Harry and Meghan.
@@yveewong Honestly I think it's incredibly divided but I would say a majority of people are supportive of the monarchy in a very vague way as there is so little education on the atrocities Britain has committed. I personally had to get to university level History before a lot was even touched upon. I'd honestly say Diana is popular, it's easy to martyr and revere the dead, Charles/Camilla lightly unpopular (used to be very unpopular) and Meghan it's a largely generational divide. Most people in their teens, twenties, thirties even are at the very least somewhat sympathetic but the media is so increasingly right wing and monopolised people are just barraged with inherently racialised criticism of her. Sorry long ramble but honestly screw the monarchy, they have no real political power but their social power is damaging enough!
knowing what we now know, rewatching old vids of ned, how did i not notice i dont like him as much as the other guys? ive never heard the other guys say anything that made me go... oh. maybe we shouldnt have said that one out loud. but ned, its pretty frequent
A genuine thank you to Zach for venting about cleaning and apartment life. I needed to hear it cause I’ve been thinking “wtf is wrong with me that I can’t keep this place immaculate!?” But I also work from my apartment and I’m doing my MA from my apartment now. It sucks and it’s depressing.
I’ve been binging this entire podcast from beginning to end, and while Eugene is often not there, and while he doesn’t talk AS MUCH, when he DOES talk, it’s always either hilarious, smart as hell, or both. Love you Eugene. Love all you guys.
I felt so bad for Keith when he was talking about everyone only talking about Eugene on HIS twitter, but he wanted a compliment every now and then too! That's part of my problem with some of Eugene's fanbase, is that they're like this (if you know, then you know).. I love ALL of you, Try Guys!!
Ummm I love that Ned has the time to carefully put away each dish in its particular spot and enjoy each second of it... the fact he has time to squeegie a shower... Ned if you have time to do this you are not doing enough!!!!
I disagree. Mess gets me stressed. But I do have a solution... baskets, baskets where you throw things into and you try to score imaginary points! I do have the clothes chair... but I need to sit in the chair daily in the pandemic, so its cleaner now.
my personal solution to this problem was to change my lifestyle from apartments to offgrid trailer/van life and GET RID OF DAMN NEAR EVERYTHING almost 10 years ago. can't make (as much of) a mess if you own a much smaller amount of things and a wardrobe of only favorite clothes. having a much smaller space forces you to keep it clean(er than usual) and makes it easier to find stuff when looking for them. literally only downside is I have to do laundry every week as opposed to twice a month because I don't have as many changes of bedding/clothes, but it also means laundry day is SUPER fast and easy.
I think it's almost the opposite. I think foreigners are more likely to be interested in the monarchy because they have that romantic idea of princessess and fairytails
Personnally, being a 24 yo belgian living in the uk, i can confidently say that not a lot of people from my generation cares about the monarchy ! I will say though that people care about it slightly more in the uk than we do on Belgium (litteraly, king who?) 🤷🏼♀️ Older people are more into it !
As someone who grew up in England and moved the the U.S., I have never been asked more questions about the monarchy than in the U.S. British people, from my experience, were much less interested in/supportive of the monarchy than Americans before the Oprah interview.
For what it’s worth guys, I’m a grown woman and I can’t stand cleaning, and I don’t really feel any better when my space is clean and organized. 😂 It feels like such a scam but my boyfriend can’t think when the place is dirty, so I make an effort. I like having a shit nest though! I know that shirt I want is beneath the Ulta box in the pile, but I don’t know which drawer or closet it’s in when I put things away lol!
To me cleaning and organizing are 2 different things! I like organizing and putting things in their place, I don’t like scrubbing dishes, floors, the shower, etc. I can organize and rearrange all day but hate scrubbing and cleaning!
My mind works just like Keith's when it comes to be not tidy. If I put something away in a drawer, it is gone, but if I place it willy-nilly out in the open then I will know where it is by just knowing how my mind works and where I would be more likely to have placed it.
I love how Zach calls out politicians when better examples is celebs, entertainers, athletes, influencers. Its crazy how brain wash people will follow stars no question asked to defend them and how they pick and choose double standard of when shoe is on other foot they will defend some but condemn others for doing the same thing.
I guess it would be a good idea but considering that Eugene almost just went to his stepdads funeral I don't think he would think it would be that fun.
@@BB-bq5eg Yeah, I definitely agree lmao. I think having a funeral themed video at this point in time is in poor taste, but it would definitely be entertaining later down the road.
Is it bad that I kept getting frustrated when the guys were talking about house work and how their spouses wanted things cleaner than they cared about? Invisible labor is a thing that many people (usually women) are forced or expected to do for their partners because of this "I can stand it to be dirty. If someone wants it clean they can clean it" attitude.
My personal experience has made me think that this "whatever" attitude about shared labor in the house stems from the issue that when boys grow up it's not often a cultural norm to expect them to pitch in with chores and housework and cooking. They end up without the skills, relying on a partner to teach them or care for them etc.
Yes! My mom stayed at home with me when I was born, so she also took care of house work during the day. When she went back to work, guess who kept doing all the house work? It was the status quo and never changed.
Ya especially Keith... it’s not fair to put 90% of the cleaning on your partner just cuz you can stand to be in a pig sty. It’s called being an adult and taking care of yourself!
^^^^^Agreed about Ned. While he plays up the "I just do whatever my wife tells me to do I'm so dumb" angle for comedy, I think that irl Ned and Ariel may have one of the more equitable het relationships of the group. EDIT: I was proven wrong recently! Good going Ned
Y'all joke about "that's what you come here for" in regards to intellectual and colorful conversation segways, but it really is what I come to the podcast for. All five of you are so unique from each other, but have shared experiences, which makes your commentary so delightful and thought provoking. It's a fun podcast, I look forward to it every week and listen to old podcasts often.
Hey guys I love that you talk about topics like colonization and nationalism. As a person with doble nationality (US citizen and Costarican) I appreciate very much that you discuss and question this things. Keep it going, I love to hear your opinions
the topic of the british monarchy triggered me…i’m a 2nd generation singaporean born and raised in singapore…Singapore was under british colonialism, i can’t remember the history i learnt in school but i’d say the major takeaway is that Singapore is an English speaking country but most of us are bi / tri lingual (speaking our native ethnic language too)
A bar code on every item--great idea Keith. I live on a boat. And everything I own is in a spreadsheet. I search my spreadsheet whenever I need to find anything.
I found out this year I am autistic with adhd. My shit messes have always been there. It’s chaotic looking but it’s organized to how I know and want it. I hate when it’s disturbed too. >_< so hearing Keith talking about it is refreshing in the sense. I am not alone. Lol
@16:07 preach Zach, preach!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Listening to you guys and YCSWU during my daily routine of washing the dishes helps keep my sanity in check. So thank you everyone for making these! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😘😘😘
With Ned talking about influencing Wes’ interests I babysat for a boy that loved anything you would assume a little boy would. He had a single mom who did introduce him to ‘girls’ toys and he never wanted anything to do with it so I think some kids just gravitate towards certain toys.
Can we have a 'Who do you think you are' Kieth video. Hire some experts to really look into his family tree and see if he is really related to the Habsbergs.
Love Matt! Such a good Italian boy! Italian kids are raised to clean and keep the house spotless! (I'm still really messy in my own place, but when I clean, I deep clean! )
I was gonna say that too. (I have adult ADD). But people can have elements of it and not be ADHD or ADD. They would have to have the multiple "symptoms" /habits to have ADHD/ADD. But when Keith and Zach said the thing about needing to see the stuff to remind them or putting the reminders at the door, my ADD heart did feel seen. Lol
@@movi3srock that’s true! It’s not the first time I’ve noticed them talking about stuff like that but it’s the first time I had to say something lol just think it’s interesting might be more the creative minds issue
So my friend was just diagnosed with adhd and he said as a kid his room was constantly messy because he had to “be able to see everything to know where it is.”
@@fenestrapain so people with adhd actually have a problem with object permanence. So if we can’t see something we kind of forget it exists. It’s hard to explain to people who don’t experience it.
@@fenestrapain yes! Me! Even as an adult. So my partner gets annoyed a lil. That all my supplements and such permanently live on the coffee table. Or if I have to take care of something, like a piece of mail or a project, it literally has to live on an open table in the middle of everything, so it's in my face everyday. Which also means all of my stuff is always in the way lol. But working on it. I only got diagnosed in my late 20s. Cuz as a kid the doctor just told my parents that because I got good grades I couldn't have it. 🙄🙄🙄
This episode was honestly amazing. I found myself repeatedly responding to the screen aloud (I'm fully sitting in the middle of the kitchen, too, so there's that) but the way that each of them spoke so seriously and eloquently was really refreshing from what we normally get to hear on social media platforms. Thank you for not being afraid to speak your truth.
If they remote pod they should just change their backgrounds to their try colors. Two of them sort of did that once and it looked fantastic and professional !
Ned, you are such a good dad. The fact that you even thought about your emotional responses to trucks and how that might affect your child's likes and interests is unfortunately something that is not very common. Your boys are lucky to have such a self-aware dad 😄
Miles literally said it's 2020 twice and the more I think about it, the harder it's getting to convince myself that it isn't anymore. Yearlight savings time?
Try Guys, I GET you! My ADD makes cleaning a week long project for my tiny studio apartment. I must say, I use the File folding (Marie Kondo folding style), and you will be AMAZED how much space you will have in your dressers. Baskets and bins will be your friend. Keith, clear bins and even labels can help if you need to see everything. Everyone has different organizing styles. It’s just a matter of finding a system that works for you. I don’t need labels, but I have bins and baskets everywhere to keep everything contained.
When Eugene went off on the British monarchy, it hit my soul in the best thank you for speaking on it type way because I’ve had these conversations with people and it’s interesting to say the very least
This was so wholesome! I love being able to see not only the wildly funny side of you guys, but also the calmer, insightful and incredibly smart side in this podcast. ❤️
This was a fucking SUPERIOR episode of the TryPod. The organic interplay between Eugene's eloquence on macro-issues, Zach's intelligent and often impassioned insights and Keith's down-to-earth, relatable AF perspectives on this variety of material made for such poignant and engaging conversation. Even the end-of-pod advice (which most often serves as a hilarious row) from King Miles this episode was pleasantly relevant and so on point - we stand a prepped veggie. 🥕What pure JOY I experienced to hear from the hearts and heads of these intelligent men. Thanks TRY GUYS ❤
Canadian here - lol appreciated the shout out. We trade a lot with Britain but no direct payments back to them for anything! 😊 We have a Governor General here who acts as the "representative of the Queen." It's mostly a figurehead role but they do have some governmental powers within our govt structure. :)
I love the idea of a goodbye bash. My aunt had one! She had kidney failure and was in dialysis for a long time. Her health was declining and she said she just could feel that she wasn’t going to last much longer. She said she didn’t want people to cry too much when she died, she wanted us to be happy and celebrate her life! So, she planned a going away party :’) She invited all of the people she wanted to see, had a beautiful party, and it was an amazing thing for everyone. She got to leave on her terms and say her final goodbyes to everyone while she was still able to, and we got to have an amazing memory of her to help us have closure once she was gone. I’m absolutely going to do the same if the universe allows it.
That sounds so beautiful. I have a terrible fear of death, I get really bad panic attacks when I think too much about it but I feel that maybe in the future doing something like a going away party might help me feel better :)
I commend your aunt, and the idea makes me smile. She took something scary and out of her control and just put her terms on it. I think that’s something we can all learn from her. Even the scary and uncertain things can be less scary if your able to put your own control in it. I love the idea of a going away party. We celebrate birth, so why not positively celebrate the life of a loved one before they die? Everyone gets closure, the death is associated with happy moments and memories, and everyone who may not otherwise get to say goodbye (ie living out of the area, going to college, going to be deployed overseas, etc). And I’m sure everyone would like to say goodbye before the person in question passes away.
This is beautiful
that is awesome and painful ❤
My condolences for our loss, she sounds like she was amazing. ❤️❤️
"NO ONE TOLD ME BEING A HUMAN JUST MEANT CLEANING ALL OF THE TIME" Same Zach, same.
my favorite moment is eugene ranting about the monarchy and zach quietly whispering "i love this"
I know I love it too
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@@justseizurealeks 36:03
Let's be real Brexit happened only so UK doesn't have to deal with immigrants from Eastern Europe and pay taxes to Eropean Union which supports most European countries.
I also love this. And I'm British.
Ned: YOU THREW OUT MY FOOD?!?!
Also Ned: Eats the the Nannys food despite her dietary restrictions
Now we all know why, he only cares about himself
I noticed this too and was like “why weren’t other people talking about this more”. Like first of all, you should know which tupperware are yours and he’s just stealing someone else’s food? And then her food is gone, so what can she eat? She brought her food for a reason because she can’t eat the food at their house. That’s really fucked up. And it’s happened multiple times.
Which episode does he talk about that
@@jaydelbosque1110yeah, right are they making this up?
I love that narration of how Becky comes over to say Hi to Keith in their guesthouse and he says sorry honey I'm at work 😂
outhouse means toilet outside lol keith and becky have a guesthouse
@@legumefiend While out house is commonly used to refer to a toilet outside in America in other countries an out house literally just refers to any building outside of the house. Just because it means one thing where you live doesn’t mean there isn’t an alternative meaning.
@@Bea-a-deer Thank you for explaining, I didn't know about the other interpretation as I'm not from the US
oh wow, thank you... your comment made me realize that I have now achieved the ability to tune her voice out.
@@legumefiend wow so American of you to not know outhouse may mean different things elsewhere
Eugene was so great in this, love when he really gets comfortable and really expresses himself. Him talking about how Matt improved his life and cleaning skills is a great example of a healthy and stable relationship that helps people grow!
Ha, Ned bitching about Ariel messing with the fridge yet he's busy messing with Alex.
Oooooof
I hope the try wives have a counter podcast next week where they talk about their beef with the guys.
This is a fantastic idea!!!
I’d beef with Keith’s “I don’t care if it’s messy, so why should I clean” statement. If you’re in a partnership, you should help contribute to a comfortable environment for everyone IMO. So I hope he was exaggerating about the 95/5 Becky to Keith cleaning ratio lol
@@frostyskeletons8950 agreed, cause the way he's going about it is a surefire way to breed resentment
They did
your wish has been granted
I came here to see what Ariel was upset about and I can see why. Ned is an ungrateful brat who doesn’t appreciate his lovely wife’s unwavering support. It’s like Ariel has three kids to look after, not two.
do you know in which video Ariel talks about that? thanks :)
@@Langas217 pretty sure it's the addressing the beef with the try guys video - th-cam.com/video/xikTRmkvPdc/w-d-xo.html (I'm kind of backtracking through the videos, so I might be wrong)
Funeral arrangement candid competition
Actual good idea down here in the comments!
Uhm, yeeeesss!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😭😂😭 Miles' character would have NEVER made more sense than that candid competition!
I'm so down
Oh god yes. There is one season brewing anyway i think
Omg 😂 I hope they see this
So gross that Ned was likely cheating when he recorded this complaining about Ariel. 😢
I thought it had been going on for a year as of September 2022. So my assumption is it started around September 2021, meaning this was a few months before the affair started.
But I could be wrong.
@@hazza335 I'm sure there was feelings I doubt Alex is the first girl he's been thinking about. He always boasted about how much of a "player" he was.
@@cicic5340 ew...
How dare they use Ariel as clickbait?! Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am baited lol
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uhm YES 😂😂😂 I see a queen, i click.
I lost my parents 15 months apart in 2017/2018 and at my mom's service we had a DJ playing all of my mom's favorite music and my dad's service was a tribute motorcycle ride and was hosted at his favorite bar in our town. Their services were about them & all of the beautiful memories we all have with them. ❤
Their services sound lovely , this melted my heart, bless you x
Thank you! My mom was only 44, my dad had just turned 50. We still have our amazing step dad with us and we make sure he is appreciated every single day! But really you can do whatever you want to honor someone, it doesnt have to be traditional by any means. I think we are firm believers in our family that it shouldn't be the same every time.
I love that Eugene is the messiest person in the Try Fam, and the two cleanest people are his partner and wife 😂
@@lettucewater6890 Becky? lol
I noticed that you guys kept trying not to get too deep as you were getting closer and closer to talking about racism and bias. You guys talking about these topics is so important. Please keep doing it.
Yea in my opinion YCSWU deals better with talking about hard topics. Serious topics like racism, sexism, etc. Talking about late stage Capitalism and classism would be welcomed for sure too.
Agreed, sometimes the attempt to divert away from these naturally occurring conversations surrounding race/class etc is a bit awkward. We're here because we enjoy them not because it has to remain light all the time - particularly in a longer podcast format. I've definitely noticed this quite a few times for sure!
I think they maybe want to be an escape for people, something that just makes you smile for an hour. They touch on important issues and make their views clear but I think they just want to make sure people know what they’re getting when they click. People know a TryPod episode will make them feel joy, maybe the only joy they feel all day in these times. I do really love when they talk about serious topics, I wish they had another podcast or something just for that. When Zach announced his podcast I was hoping it would be one where he got to talk about politics/society/etc because he seems to be really intelligent and passionate about those things.
As a British Asian, I agree. The UK is the highest distributor of independence days 😂
Hahaha this phrasing is *chefs kiss*
This is my favorite comment ever 😂
Everyone's beef with cleaning, Eugene going off about the monarchy, Keith mentioning Taco Bell yet again and ending off with veggie tips; THIS is why listen to the TryPod!
I like how Keith was explaining how he has glasses so he can't see anything when he showers anyway so cleaning shower doesn't matter much and the camera moves over to Zach quietly laughing to himself in agreement
My Oma is still haunted by the memory of her father being taken away by the Naz*s to a concentration camp. He was a member of the Dutch resistance, smuggling people, and he saved even more lives in the camp by sharing rations and caring for the others. He survived the camp and has a plaque or something in a temple somewhere (Israel I think) as a Blessed Gentile. History is so important, I really loved this pod guys. And yes all the support to Meg & Harry!
as a British person I can say, hand on heart, a lot of us would happily watch the monarchy crash and burn. it's an outdated emblem of inequality, colonialism and most progressive, younger people hate it or at the very least are apathetic - Eugene is more than right
although it's important to note that royal fanaticism and racism is very much rooted in British culture and, even for left wing politicians, criticism of the royal family (particularly the queen) is immediately shut down. So called British civility is a veneer hiding a lot of darkness and we just don't need a colonial figurehead to symbolise the extraordinary pain this nation has caused
basically a lot of British people want to leave this shitty rock sliding further into authoritarianism (I mean essentially banning fucking protest this week) but we're stuck. so yeah fuck the monarchy
oof- i always want to know what the british people think pf the monarchy! and the issues with Diana, Charles, Camilla. and if you guys are supportive of Harry and Meghan.
@@yveewong Honestly I think it's incredibly divided but I would say a majority of people are supportive of the monarchy in a very vague way as there is so little education on the atrocities Britain has committed. I personally had to get to university level History before a lot was even touched upon. I'd honestly say Diana is popular, it's easy to martyr and revere the dead, Charles/Camilla lightly unpopular (used to be very unpopular) and Meghan it's a largely generational divide. Most people in their teens, twenties, thirties even are at the very least somewhat sympathetic but the media is so increasingly right wing and monopolised people are just barraged with inherently racialised criticism of her. Sorry long ramble but honestly screw the monarchy, they have no real political power but their social power is damaging enough!
@@natasha7760 wow i appreciate the info hun! ❤ and that is sad that you need to get into university level to really know the deep truth.
"I kinda of need to see things to remember they're there" me too keith... that's how my adhd got diagnosed
But then at a certain point it has the opposite effect and the thing blends into the background and disappears because it’s always there.
exactly. so we all know what that means: we're losing everything anyways
We have a rule in our house where if it's not written on our calendar I am not responsible for remembering it and it's great
@@nightsgrow6575 that’s why I rearrange my entire room at least 4 times a year because I get so frustrated 😂
Is no one going to mention how Ned “Against Pants Only Wearing Shorts From Now On” Fulmer is wearing jeans!?!
😂😂😂😂😂 you should try comedy with this wording!
knowing what we now know, rewatching old vids of ned, how did i not notice i dont like him as much as the other guys? ive never heard the other guys say anything that made me go... oh. maybe we shouldnt have said that one out loud. but ned, its pretty frequent
A genuine thank you to Zach for venting about cleaning and apartment life. I needed to hear it cause I’ve been thinking “wtf is wrong with me that I can’t keep this place immaculate!?” But I also work from my apartment and I’m doing my MA from my apartment now. It sucks and it’s depressing.
Try guys explaining their reasons as to why their bg isn't aestheic is me explaining my messy room to my mom 😂
I’ve been binging this entire podcast from beginning to end, and while Eugene is often not there, and while he doesn’t talk AS MUCH, when he DOES talk, it’s always either hilarious, smart as hell, or both. Love you Eugene. Love all you guys.
I felt so bad for Keith when he was talking about everyone only talking about Eugene on HIS twitter, but he wanted a compliment every now and then too! That's part of my problem with some of Eugene's fanbase, is that they're like this (if you know, then you know).. I love ALL of you, Try Guys!!
“I’d like to throw a pre-emptive funeral” lmao pack it up Augustus Waters🤚🏻
I love Eugene even more now because he went off about the British monarchy
Ummm I love that Ned has the time to carefully put away each dish in its particular spot and enjoy each second of it... the fact he has time to squeegie a shower... Ned if you have time to do this you are not doing enough!!!!
"except for eugene, eugene's perfect"
- I live for miles and eugene's friendship 😳😳😳
I think all of us with ADHD can relate to the sh*t nest. Object permanence? I don't know her.
I disagree. Mess gets me stressed. But I do have a solution... baskets, baskets where you throw things into and you try to score imaginary points!
I do have the clothes chair... but I need to sit in the chair daily in the pandemic, so its cleaner now.
i’m absolutely that way!!! i live the shit nest life
my personal solution to this problem was to change my lifestyle from apartments to offgrid trailer/van life and GET RID OF DAMN NEAR EVERYTHING almost 10 years ago. can't make (as much of) a mess if you own a much smaller amount of things and a wardrobe of only favorite clothes. having a much smaller space forces you to keep it clean(er than usual) and makes it easier to find stuff when looking for them. literally only downside is I have to do laundry every week as opposed to twice a month because I don't have as many changes of bedding/clothes, but it also means laundry day is SUPER fast and easy.
Don't know executive functioning either....
I'm really late to this but OMG yes ADHD - object permanence barely exists for me. Piles are my filing system
Miles, with a ridiculous Southern accent: "The human eye is a fantastic beast." 😂
23:58 Ned starts being ungrateful
Thanks for this!! You saved me time
Thank you!!
I don't know why but I think Zach looks very happy here, like genuinely happy at heart. I am very happy for him❤️
“A lot of British people really love the monarchy”
Literally could not be further off lmao
_The Royals help the tourism_ Puh-lease 👀
I think it’s the older generations that are more into the monarchy these days
I think it's almost the opposite. I think foreigners are more likely to be interested in the monarchy because they have that romantic idea of princessess and fairytails
Personnally, being a 24 yo belgian living in the uk, i can confidently say that not a lot of people from my generation cares about the monarchy ! I will say though that people care about it slightly more in the uk than we do on Belgium (litteraly, king who?) 🤷🏼♀️ Older people are more into it !
As someone who grew up in England and moved the the U.S., I have never been asked more questions about the monarchy than in the U.S. British people, from my experience, were much less interested in/supportive of the monarchy than Americans before the Oprah interview.
For what it’s worth guys, I’m a grown woman and I can’t stand cleaning, and I don’t really feel any better when my space is clean and organized. 😂 It feels like such a scam but my boyfriend can’t think when the place is dirty, so I make an effort. I like having a shit nest though! I know that shirt I want is beneath the Ulta box in the pile, but I don’t know which drawer or closet it’s in when I put things away lol!
Eugene going off on the British monarchy is everything I needed today! Yessss
Ned is wearing PANTS. He said he would never wear pants again....
@34:50 this is THE most time for which Eugene has talked in a podcast and I'm living for it
Eugene you should rant more often
To me cleaning and organizing are 2 different things! I like organizing and putting things in their place, I don’t like scrubbing dishes, floors, the shower, etc. I can organize and rearrange all day but hate scrubbing and cleaning!
eugene could have summed up his lil rant with `my partner is a virgo´ lol
Eugene has beef with the British monarchy
Ireland, Scotland, and Wales: GO OFF DUDE END THEM
Zach! You lost the opportunity to bring back candid competition but make it funeral
This needs more votes lol
I miss candid competition sooooooo much
Nobody need Candid competition back. Its a waste of air space.
My mind works just like Keith's when it comes to be not tidy. If I put something away in a drawer, it is gone, but if I place it willy-nilly out in the open then I will know where it is by just knowing how my mind works and where I would be more likely to have placed it.
I love how Zach calls out politicians when better examples is celebs, entertainers, athletes, influencers. Its crazy how brain wash people will follow stars no question asked to defend them and how they pick and choose double standard of when shoe is on other foot they will defend some but condemn others for doing the same thing.
Eugene going off ab the British monarchy is how I feel and it feels so good to hear someone say it bc I can’t find the right words
The Try Guys Try To Throw Their Own Funerals - make it happen!
I guess it would be a good idea but considering that Eugene almost just went to his stepdads funeral I don't think he would think it would be that fun.
@@BB-bq5eg Yeah, I definitely agree lmao. I think having a funeral themed video at this point in time is in poor taste, but it would definitely be entertaining later down the road.
@@haneullee0109 Agreed! One to bank for the future
Thats what I said 😅
The way Eugene sounded exactly like Matt when he said "Those beautiful little dots" caught me off guard
Is it bad that I kept getting frustrated when the guys were talking about house work and how their spouses wanted things cleaner than they cared about? Invisible labor is a thing that many people (usually women) are forced or expected to do for their partners because of this "I can stand it to be dirty. If someone wants it clean they can clean it" attitude.
My personal experience has made me think that this "whatever" attitude about shared labor in the house stems from the issue that when boys grow up it's not often a cultural norm to expect them to pitch in with chores and housework and cooking. They end up without the skills, relying on a partner to teach them or care for them etc.
yeah agreed/ will say of the bunch ned seemed to have the best attitude tbh
Yes! My mom stayed at home with me when I was born, so she also took care of house work during the day. When she went back to work, guess who kept doing all the house work? It was the status quo and never changed.
Ya especially Keith... it’s not fair to put 90% of the cleaning on your partner just cuz you can stand to be in a pig sty. It’s called being an adult and taking care of yourself!
^^^^^Agreed about Ned. While he plays up the "I just do whatever my wife tells me to do I'm so dumb" angle for comedy, I think that irl Ned and Ariel may have one of the more equitable het relationships of the group.
EDIT: I was proven wrong recently! Good going Ned
Y'all joke about "that's what you come here for" in regards to intellectual and colorful conversation segways, but it really is what I come to the podcast for. All five of you are so unique from each other, but have shared experiences, which makes your commentary so delightful and thought provoking. It's a fun podcast, I look forward to it every week and listen to old podcasts often.
Matt is such a Virgo lol
THE THUMBNAIL AGED SO BAD LMFAOOO bye
I need a "HISTORY CLASS IS PROPAGANDA" shirt, thx.
Fuck yeah.
35:48
“I’m Korean and I’m speaking English right now. That’s fucking crazy!”
I laughed so hard 😂😂😂
Wow the thumbnail and title did not age well
Magnatiles are THE SHIT!!!! My daughter got a huge set for Christmas and I stayed up late playing with those things the whole week after!
40:15 - Ned wasn't born to do shit. He was born to cheat. #feelingpetty
Zach complaining about cleaning but I just feel for Ned. I have 2 kids and nothing EVER stays clean lol
Hey guys I love that you talk about topics like colonization and nationalism. As a person with doble nationality (US citizen and Costarican) I appreciate very much that you discuss and question this things. Keep it going, I love to hear your opinions
YES EUGENE GO OFF ON THE MONARCHY!! IVE BEEN WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT M&H !!!!
Miles THANK U. I DEF THINK THE BOYS NEED TO MAKE A PRETTIER BACKGROUND. it's like instant soothing or mildly depressing. The choice is theirs.
Zac and Keith lacking object permanence and Zac's frustration with the constant cleaning... MOOD
The ADHD struggle is real
the topic of the british monarchy triggered me…i’m a 2nd generation singaporean born and raised in singapore…Singapore was under british colonialism, i can’t remember the history i learnt in school but i’d say the major takeaway is that Singapore is an English speaking country but most of us are bi / tri lingual (speaking our native ethnic language too)
A bar code on every item--great idea Keith. I live on a boat. And everything I own is in a spreadsheet. I search my spreadsheet whenever I need to find anything.
I found out this year I am autistic with adhd. My shit messes have always been there. It’s chaotic looking but it’s organized to how I know and want it. I hate when it’s disturbed too. >_< so hearing Keith talking about it is refreshing in the sense. I am not alone. Lol
@16:07 preach Zach, preach!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Listening to you guys and YCSWU during my daily routine of washing the dishes helps keep my sanity in check. So thank you everyone for making these! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😘😘😘
I squeegee my shower. I’m telling you, it actually cuts down on the cleaning because it becomes much less dirty in the first place.
I love Eugene's beef about the monarchy.
I blame the try guys for the excessive amount of eggs I've started eating during this pandemic
With Ned talking about influencing Wes’ interests I babysat for a boy that loved anything you would assume a little boy would. He had a single mom who did introduce him to ‘girls’ toys and he never wanted anything to do with it so I think some kids just gravitate towards certain toys.
Can we have a 'Who do you think you are' Kieth video. Hire some experts to really look into his family tree and see if he is really related to the Habsbergs.
Love Matt! Such a good Italian boy! Italian kids are raised to clean and keep the house spotless! (I'm still really messy in my own place, but when I clean, I deep clean! )
Okay so...Zach and Keith sound like they're describing ADHD. Because that's my adult diagnosed ADHD brain works.
I was gonna say that too. (I have adult ADD). But people can have elements of it and not be ADHD or ADD. They would have to have the multiple "symptoms" /habits to have ADHD/ADD.
But when Keith and Zach said the thing about needing to see the stuff to remind them or putting the reminders at the door, my ADD heart did feel seen. Lol
@@movi3srock that’s true! It’s not the first time I’ve noticed them talking about stuff like that but it’s the first time I had to say something lol just think it’s interesting might be more the creative minds issue
So my friend was just diagnosed with adhd and he said as a kid his room was constantly messy because he had to “be able to see everything to know where it is.”
@@fenestrapain so people with adhd actually have a problem with object permanence. So if we can’t see something we kind of forget it exists. It’s hard to explain to people who don’t experience it.
@@fenestrapain yes! Me! Even as an adult. So my partner gets annoyed a lil. That all my supplements and such permanently live on the coffee table. Or if I have to take care of something, like a piece of mail or a project, it literally has to live on an open table in the middle of everything, so it's in my face everyday. Which also means all of my stuff is always in the way lol. But working on it. I only got diagnosed in my late 20s. Cuz as a kid the doctor just told my parents that because I got good grades I couldn't have it. 🙄🙄🙄
The try wives need to do a response beef!
Try wives high court!!!
I have no idea if it's high court but when they do that debate as to what's right. It was like EARLY try wives.
Eugenes rant about the Monarchy was *Chefs Kiss* Thank you for that! 1 million percent agree!
EUGENE'S BEARD IS THE ONLY THING WHICH CAUGHT MY EYE 👁 AND I WAS ONLY LOOKING AT THT BEAUTY 😌😌 OOPS I NEED TO WATCH THE PODCAST AGAIN 😬😅🥳🥳
The “shit nest” is also an ADD thing. All my add relatives have the needing to see things to remember them thing (including me)
This episode was honestly amazing. I found myself repeatedly responding to the screen aloud (I'm fully sitting in the middle of the kitchen, too, so there's that) but the way that each of them spoke so seriously and eloquently was really refreshing from what we normally get to hear on social media platforms. Thank you for not being afraid to speak your truth.
Zach going off about having to constantly clean while trying to work out of an apartment
Me: I feel so seen!! 😁
“Zachs goodbye bash” AFSGHJK BYE THATS WHAT IM GONNA DO
If they remote pod they should just change their backgrounds to their try colors. Two of them sort of did that once and it looked fantastic and professional !
YES MATT!!! That's how you clean
Ned, you are such a good dad. The fact that you even thought about your emotional responses to trucks and how that might affect your child's likes and interests is unfortunately something that is not very common. Your boys are lucky to have such a self-aware dad 😄
Haha
Well welcome to being a stay-at-home parent Zach. It's at least 80% cleaning.
Miles said it was the year 2020 and I literally thought I accidentally started watching a pod from last year
Say's "I know how to hold a traditional Jewish Funeral" also says "Rest in Peace"
Miles literally said it's 2020 twice and the more I think about it, the harder it's getting to convince myself that it isn't anymore. Yearlight savings time?
The youtube algorithm really has the best timing 😂
Try Guys, I GET you! My ADD makes cleaning a week long project for my tiny studio apartment. I must say, I use the File folding (Marie Kondo folding style), and you will be AMAZED how much space you will have in your dressers. Baskets and bins will be your friend. Keith, clear bins and even labels can help if you need to see everything. Everyone has different organizing styles. It’s just a matter of finding a system that works for you. I don’t need labels, but I have bins and baskets everywhere to keep everything contained.
When Eugene went off on the British monarchy, it hit my soul in the best thank you for speaking on it type way because I’ve had these conversations with people and it’s interesting to say the very least
Eugene is always spilling good tea!!
Zach squinting his eyes when Ned says he likes to put away dishes
This was so wholesome! I love being able to see not only the wildly funny side of you guys, but also the calmer, insightful and incredibly smart side in this podcast. ❤️
“im korean and im speaking english right now” IM DEAD AJXHSNJDNFFBNDJJ
Eugene went OFF and I am HERE FOR IT
Ned shaking his head as Zach is ranting about cleaning is the same feeling I had.
This was a fucking SUPERIOR episode of the TryPod. The organic interplay between Eugene's eloquence on macro-issues, Zach's intelligent and often impassioned insights and Keith's down-to-earth, relatable AF perspectives on this variety of material made for such poignant and engaging conversation. Even the end-of-pod advice (which most often serves as a hilarious row) from King Miles this episode was pleasantly relevant and so on point - we stand a prepped veggie. 🥕What pure JOY I experienced to hear from the hearts and heads of these intelligent men. Thanks TRY GUYS ❤
When Miles kept talking about it being 2020, I legitimately had a groundhog day moment of panic where I thought I went back to March 2020
Canadian here - lol appreciated the shout out. We trade a lot with Britain but no direct payments back to them for anything! 😊 We have a Governor General here who acts as the "representative of the Queen." It's mostly a figurehead role but they do have some governmental powers within our govt structure. :)