When a guy suddenly “loves” you after you’ve left him it means that he’s just butt hurt. He didn’t think you would leave. He thought you were just going to accept his mediocre approach in the relationship. Usually they want to get back together do right for a moment and then leave you. He wants his manhood back. It wasn’t supposed to happen like this.
I can deff relate to Jess with her situation. Her ex suddenly confessing his love for her and doing all the things she BEEN asking him to do is deff a control tactic and manipulation Dudes get comfortable real quick and think you not going nowhere cause they finally got you but joke’s on them lol
The hurtfulness of an EMOTIONAL relationship is a level of INTIMACY that is so deep, it sits in the pit of your stomach knowing your partner gave such a sacred part of him/her self to someone else SUCKS!!! On a different note, LOVED Priince's contribution, "...not after I put MY HIP in it"!😱 Love your content!
👑Jess,, I'm Really feeling this. I'm here for your future "Conferences, Workshops, Seminars/ Audience Q &A's Sis👑, U really help us all. I'm in VEGAS & There's Absolutely A Stage Here with Your Whole Name On It!!!💓
This was it for me! I needed this discussion. After 15yrs (long story) I'm done loving to only be liked....and that's my new attitude! Thanks y'all!!! P.S I love this podcast and the crew!!!!!!!
I love Jess' vulnerability on this episode. I'm proud of you sis for realizing your worth and knowing when the love is not reciprocated to walk away ✌🏾
THIS episode was everything! Jess & Gerome I felt it! We grown & know what we want! JESS U LET IT OUT & WE HERE 4 YOU! U worth it! Don’t SETTLE. Half the package not gone satisfy your heart!
Exactly Jess you’re absolutely right , I just finally let go of a situation just like that the only thing is I wasted almost ten yrs on a person, to end up humiliated, hurt, feeling like I was cheated out of a opportunity of love that didn’t even exist. However I accept the responsibility of knowing it was my fault because people can only do to you what you allow. I feel for you that you had to experience that but I’m even more proud of you for choosing you and walking away when you did.❤️ Im rooting for you always, I pray love find you and your hearts remain open to receive it.
The last half of this was needed and deep…wow…so much shapes us as individuals in so many areas including LOVE. Wow, thank y’all for your transparency. ❤️
Rome-“I don’t really care about the legacy part” Priince-“what?” I cracked up because I feel Rome was so caught up on his response he disagreed with something that would’ve furthered his point. It’s okay though, we understand what you were trying to say.
Love the show. Happen to watch it and I’m just like I can’t wait until next one. Okay Jess and the fam talking about real life in our communities and etc. we need more of this.❤️🔥❤️🔥
Glad Jess left the recent dude. I seen the episodes of her new show & from the outside looking in it was giving secret life, don’t appreciate her, & narcissists vibes.
The kid last name part. In my opinion thats not a reason to break up. I mean just give the kid both of the parent's last names and move on. Especially if y'all have a solid non-toxic relationship.
If we have a child out of wedlock my child will carry my last name. Once we marry I’ll pay to get it changed. By law the child carries the last name of the mother, unless the father signs off (when you aren’t married). Idc if he gets mad.
The last name situation could be for many reasons Rome. When my husband, then boyfriend & I had our oldest child. I decided I wanted her to have my last name as well as his. He didn’t understand where I was coming from until we had our second child . Fast forward to 13 years later & three children later. We are married. Yet my last name is hyphenated with my Maiden name & my husband’s last….16 years together. Haven’t been smooth process at all. So if we was to had broken up for good. I would want our children to have both. My mother have three different baby fathers & she gave all of them her last name but mine & I always felt out of place. Never being close with my father. I just always felt a disconnect with the name. Until I became an adult. I decided to take pride in the name because even though I don’t know or close with any other ppl with that last name. I know myself & that was enough. That’s why communication is key. Not just reacting off of someone’s decision.
I’m glad Jess not with Daniel anymore I watched the first episode of Couple’s Retreat and I didn’t like him from the jump lol. Jess you will find your King 👑
He seems like a good enough guy, but he's extremely defensive. He says he comes with baggage "Five kids with 5 different women" like it's their fault....I think there was another episode where he said he's in therapy, and that's a good thing.
Rome ‼️‼️‼️‼️ “ who was in ya ear “ Mannnnnn the PROCLIVITY be REAL‼️ Damn Rome you hit that shit right on the head!!! Jess too‼️ “ DONT KEEP PLAYING ON MY FEELINGS “ 😮💨❤️🔥
All I know is men will accept your baggage you can have 30 kids and none from them they are going to still love you and want you especially if you're doing everything that he has never had from someone else to him now
I’m assuming the question about the baby’s last name was directed for couples that aren’t married. If they aren’t married I don’t see why the mother can’t choose to give the baby her last name. Even in marriages, sometimes people (mother’s) want to continue their families’ generation/name/legacy,etc. I think both parents want their child to have some part of them when it comes to names. If the mother wants the baby to have her last name, give the child the dad’s middle🤷🏾♀️ Not “we live together so why the child don’t have my last name?” How about we’re engaged why our child don’t have my last name
I can disagree with the statement “u can’t turn love off” because u can, someone can hurt u so bad that u don’t even know who they are (emotionally, physically, watever) anymore
Speaking to the last name thing, me personally I do think about how my family name won’t really continue past me and that makes me a lil sad sometimes but it’s life 😭
I didn’t give my children their father’s last name because in my family, if you aren’t married they take the mother’s last name if not both last names.
Another solid episode 👏🏽 just an observation and a long term supporter of Jess . She be picking the wrong niggas to pour into relationship wise . She gotta ask herself why she draws emotionally immature/ unattached men . You can tell by her new dude page that he’s a scammer / clout chaser . I can’t believe she even got him on national tv smh . Stop doing charity work ,Jess .
Oh I felt Jess on this one…story of my life 🙄😌🤷🏾♀️🤣👏🏾😎…he’s on block now though! I said oh uhuh we won’t make it to two years doing this ish…gotta go!
When a guy suddenly “loves” you after you’ve left him it means that he’s just butt hurt. He didn’t think you would leave. He thought you were just going to accept his mediocre approach in the relationship. Usually they want to get back together do right for a moment and then leave you. He wants his manhood back. It wasn’t supposed to happen like this.
I can deff relate to Jess with her situation. Her ex suddenly confessing his love for her and doing all the things she BEEN asking him to do is deff a control tactic and manipulation Dudes get comfortable real quick and think you not going nowhere cause they finally got you but joke’s on them lol
Preach
Women too but you right 🎯✅
I can relate.but yet want to keep me in your life.for what tho.
The hurtfulness of an EMOTIONAL relationship is a level of INTIMACY that is so deep, it sits in the pit of your stomach knowing your partner gave such a sacred part of him/her self to someone else SUCKS!!!
On a different note, LOVED Priince's contribution, "...not after I put MY HIP in it"!😱 Love your content!
👑Jess,, I'm Really feeling this. I'm here for your future "Conferences, Workshops, Seminars/ Audience Q &A's Sis👑, U really help us all.
I'm in VEGAS & There's Absolutely A Stage Here with Your Whole Name On It!!!💓
Jess u need to model them outfits either before or after the episode 😩🤩💞
Facts
Those pumps are DEADLY! 😩🔥
This was it for me! I needed this discussion. After 15yrs (long story) I'm done loving to only be liked....and that's my new attitude! Thanks y'all!!! P.S I love this podcast and the crew!!!!!!!
I love Jess' vulnerability on this episode. I'm proud of you sis for realizing your worth and knowing when the love is not reciprocated to walk away ✌🏾
THIS episode was everything! Jess & Gerome I felt it! We grown & know what we want! JESS U LET IT OUT & WE HERE 4 YOU! U worth it! Don’t SETTLE. Half the package not gone satisfy your heart!
Prince said if he put his good hip in it - we together. Lmao 😂
That took me out 😂
If you ever have to ask a person where you stand in their lives its not for you. A person's actions will tell you all you need to know.
Exactly Jess you’re absolutely right , I just finally let go of a situation just like that the only thing is I wasted almost ten yrs on a person, to end up humiliated, hurt, feeling like I was cheated out of a opportunity of love that didn’t even exist. However I accept the responsibility of knowing it was my fault because people can only do to you what you allow. I feel for you that you had to experience that but I’m even more proud of you for choosing you and walking away when you did.❤️ Im rooting for you always, I pray love find you and your hearts remain open to receive it.
Why is Jess so adorable.... Ughhhh 😫🥰🥰
I love jess outfit kills it every time.
All I can say is y'all solid as fux!💯Raw and real!🤣🙌 Keep going 💪🙏❣️
Jess talked way more this episode. I love the transparency. 🙌🏾 Yesss please leave us alone with the manipulation and toxic behaviors and go heal
The last half of this was needed and deep…wow…so much shapes us as individuals in so many areas including LOVE. Wow, thank y’all for your transparency. ❤️
"she might give you a place to stay" ...."ooooh, THere we go!" LMAO
Rome-“I don’t really care about the legacy part”
Priince-“what?”
I cracked up because I feel Rome was so caught up on his response he disagreed with something that would’ve furthered his point.
It’s okay though, we understand what you were trying to say.
19:42got me 😂 💀 He Was Glitching
Jess: It was Hard to get that out😂😂
This was a great conversation I needed more than 30 minutes.
Love the show. Happen to watch it and I’m just like I can’t wait until next one. Okay Jess and the fam talking about real life in our communities and etc. we need more of this.❤️🔥❤️🔥
I really fucks with Prince...he's always on point!
So glad Jess did what was best for HER!
My favorite episode so far! I FEEL YOU Jess
Priince is hilarious and Jess did what was best for her! Why be in a situation where the feelings aren't mutual ✌🏾
Glad Jess left the recent dude. I seen the episodes of her new show & from the outside looking in it was giving secret life, don’t appreciate her, & narcissists vibes.
"I didn't know you was going that way" 🤣🤣🤣 I love prince Lol
Really good episode loved the honesty n topics look forward to my Wednesday y’all be having me talking back to y’all through my phone 😂😂
Heavy on the “who’s in your ear” come on Romey Rome! You better speak that shit!
Jess that outfit is everything ❤️❤️
I love this episode- especially after watching the retreat show 😒 Ya so real and transparent!! Keep it up 🦾
The kid last name part. In my opinion thats not a reason to break up. I mean just give the kid both of the parent's last names and move on. Especially if y'all have a solid non-toxic relationship.
I love this podcast so many beautiful people.
Thank you for being so open.
I love & enjoy watching the episodes each week. Can ya'll consider doing 2 episodes a week
I be waiting for you guys! The topics really be on point.
You didn’t, you didn’t, you don’t, you don’t….I WON’T 👏🏽🙌🏽💯
Rome looked tight this whole episode 😩🤣🤦🏾♀️
Keep them coming y’all !!!! I’m SO here for reckless discussions 😆😆😆😆😆
This episode was so good and real!
So I guess Jess and the guy she tagged a few times not together anymore 😢 stay strong sis but you’re right know your worth 💯
If we have a child out of wedlock my child will carry my last name. Once we marry I’ll pay to get it changed. By law the child carries the last name of the mother, unless the father signs off (when you aren’t married). Idc if he gets mad.
Right what he thinking 🤣
The last name situation could be for many reasons Rome. When my husband, then boyfriend & I had our oldest child. I decided I wanted her to have my last name as well as his. He didn’t understand where I was coming from until we had our second child . Fast forward to 13 years later & three children later. We are married. Yet my last name is hyphenated with my Maiden name & my husband’s last….16 years together. Haven’t been smooth process at all. So if we was to had broken up for good. I would want our children to have both. My mother have three different baby fathers & she gave all of them her last name but mine & I always felt out of place. Never being close with my father. I just always felt a disconnect with the name. Until I became an adult. I decided to take pride in the name because even though I don’t know or close with any other ppl with that last name. I know myself & that was enough. That’s why communication is key. Not just reacting off of someone’s decision.
I’m glad Jess not with Daniel anymore I watched the first episode of Couple’s Retreat and I didn’t like him from the jump lol. Jess you will find your King 👑
I love this podcast because it’s organic 🙏🏾🥰big ups to all of you God Bless 🥰✊🏾🙏🏾
i glad i watch this video i needed the topic about you love the person but they just like you #muchlove!😆
Prince is amazing!
Why does Rome get so invested in these questions 🤣🤣🤣 he be tight 😭
definitely tight ...boy be straight in his feelings🤣🤣🤣🤣
He sensitive and whatnot😁
He seems like a good enough guy, but he's extremely defensive. He says he comes with baggage "Five kids with 5 different women" like it's their fault....I think there was another episode where he said he's in therapy, and that's a good thing.
Love this episode!!
I enjoyed this episode,it was so good.
#andanotherone... You deserve better Jess and I'm glad you came to that conclusion! Y'all so Baltimore❣️ I love it❣️
Back in the day. If you weren't married the child got the mothers last name
Keep in mind too that, you have people who is not ready to be in a relationship because they don’t even have a relationship with themselves.
Because people never realize what they have until it is gone and then they know the grass is not greener on the other side because they tried it
First comment stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏
Yessss I loved this episode!
Jess definitely pouring out her feelings..my girl hurt
Rome ‼️‼️‼️‼️ “ who was in ya ear “
Mannnnnn the PROCLIVITY be REAL‼️ Damn Rome you hit that shit right on the head!!!
Jess too‼️ “ DONT KEEP PLAYING ON MY FEELINGS “ 😮💨❤️🔥
Learned this the hard way this year but we on the up and up!
All I know is men will accept your baggage you can have 30 kids and none from them they are going to still love you and want you especially if you're doing everything that he has never had from someone else to him now
I’m assuming the question about the baby’s last name was directed for couples that aren’t married. If they aren’t married I don’t see why the mother can’t choose to give the baby her last name. Even in marriages, sometimes people (mother’s) want to continue their families’ generation/name/legacy,etc.
I think both parents want their child to have some part of them when it comes to names. If the mother wants the baby to have her last name, give the child the dad’s middle🤷🏾♀️
Not “we live together so why the child don’t have my last name?”
How about we’re engaged why our child don’t have my last name
💜Prince is my whole mood!
This was a good open honest discussion.
I needed this episode 😘
Y’all I like all of them but I love Prince. He seem cool AF!
Ayo Prince had me 😂😂😂😂 this episode
I would love for y’all to talk about baby daddy’s or ex always thinking they can come back
I love you too, Jess.
love da RECKLESS DUISCUSSIONS name
Jess, drop that zero you got girl. Prince was saying something without saying something. 🎯
Right on time ❤️
Jess said jody lmaooo
I agree with Rome. We grown my patience used to be so high and it’s so low now. I know what I want.
I can disagree with the statement “u can’t turn love off” because u can, someone can hurt u so bad that u don’t even know who they are (emotionally, physically, watever) anymore
That’s not turning love off it takes time to get to that point for somebody to hurt you so bad usually it adds
@@Utriedit215 I agree, it does add. It doesn’t happen over night. At least for me & my past relationships.
Hey everyone stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏
Not I’ll be your pen pal.. 😂😂😂😂
Loved this episode 🙌🏻
I like this show!
Best one yet
So I guess we know where her situation ended on Couples Retreat.
Speaking to the last name thing, me personally I do think about how my family name won’t really continue past me and that makes me a lil sad sometimes but it’s life 😭
Great episode 💯❤
Agreed with Rome!.."who was in your ear?"
I didn’t give my children their father’s last name because in my family, if you aren’t married they take the mother’s last name if not both last names.
He said I’ll be your pin pal Lmaoo I’ll write cha 🤣
Im here for it!!!
I love PRIINCE!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rome quiet as fuck when Jess start talking about her dude
All the time yup😂
Another solid episode 👏🏽 just an observation and a long term supporter of Jess . She be picking the wrong niggas to pour into relationship wise . She gotta ask herself why she draws emotionally immature/ unattached men . You can tell by her new dude page that he’s a scammer / clout chaser . I can’t believe she even got him on national tv smh . Stop doing charity work ,Jess .
Who is he
I love how you are ❤️✨ be blessed
Oh I felt Jess on this one…story of my life 🙄😌🤷🏾♀️🤣👏🏾😎…he’s on block now though! I said oh uhuh we won’t make it to two years doing this ish…gotta go!
Jess always trying to put Rome business out there but shut it down once he bout to start on her case 😂😂😂
Jess that outfit 😩😩😩❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ik y’all all got y’all own lives but can we get longer episodes down the line 🥺🔥
Love the show, watch every week … if you don’t mind the suggestion, the background music is a bit distracting and low key annoying.
I agree with u Jess !!
Lmaoaoaoa London wanted to do that party so bad 😭
Im glad jess not in her recent relationship anymore cause you can tell he didn't love her she deserve someone so much better
Who was she with?
Rome fried with the last name thing 😂 not because we live together 😭 like what ?
this episode was sooo fucking good man very honest and vulnerable .😂😂 I wish I had time machine 😂
She is so beautiful 😍
Once the judge it the gavel…I’m single