My Ex Wants To Stay Friends. Is That A Good Idea?
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- Should I stay friends with an ex? Does your ex want to stay friends? Many times your will will want to stay friends with you after a breakup. I discuss what happens if you do that.
Craig discusses situations where your ex wants to stay friends. Is it a good idea?
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I think it's a slap in the face, when your ex wants to be just friends when you you were romantically involved.
Thank you brother you really are a man ..I said to myself once you break up with a girl an she says ..want to be friends I. Always say nah fuck you get the fuck outta hefe
I agree with you 5000%
Friends with exes is never a win. Just walk away and find someone who actually believes you'd be an awesome life partner.
My ex just texted me yesterday this same exact thing. He said we can't be together that our relationship will never be there same. But that we can be friends WHAT?! I told him sorry but no because I loved him and being friends was not going to work. Then he said he will always love me and to please not block him from WhatsApp. But right after that I blocked him because I refuse to be an option. U either want me now or u don't but I won't hang around waiting it's that simple. Yes I love him but I have dignity
Good! I have a similar situation that came up recently. I don't get these people.
You're a very strong woman I wish I could be like you.
Just happened to me too. Soul crashing😔
Hope you are better now
What end up happening?
my ex tried to pull the friend zone thing on me and I think it the most selfish idea ever.
What end up happening?
@Samuel Garcia you dont know my situation with my ex so keep your comments to yourself. He was cheating, lying and neglected me. Why would I want to be friends after that abusive behavior?
So, your ex broke up with you and offers you a consolation prize called 'friend'. Do you really want that? I mean do you really want that prize given by the person who didnt see you good enough to be their gf/bf?
Nobody wants a consolation prize In a relationship. It's like you willing to wear the dumb hat and walk down the streets. Cut your losses and tell them nicely you cant be their friend, and wish them goodbye
Just move on and never get in touch or answer their texts/calls, you don't need to explain yourself to them. I personally wish that my ex dies alone in the street like a stray dog!!!
mine wanted to be friends. i've always never settled for less because that's not what i want. she wanted to be friends, i wanted more. a week later i did try to be friends but i ended up liking her again. i quickly realized it's impossible to be friends with someone you want to be romantically involved with. i would just end up hurting myself over and over. that really isn't fair to be friends when you put so much time and effort into someone. it's the worst feeling in the world besides the break up. you actually see how much you are worth to them when they just shove you in the corner.
She broke up with me about a month and a half ago. Since then we been constantly texting each other and met up a few times, under the basis of “friends”.
However, I came to realize that my feelings for her were just too strong. She was happy with whatever that we had, which was a “text-only friendship”. I guess she was confused with her decision to break up with me and she just wanted someone to continue to be there for her; showing her care and concern. What about my feelings? The heartache, the misery, the confusion; just to name a few.
I couldn’t take it and I told her that as much as I wish to be her friend, I wasn’t ready until I could face her without having any expectations or hope.
We both love each other. I love her, I love her with all my heart and I will always love her. However she wasn’t ready to fight for me-for us. She wanted to learn “self-love” and better herself, and she wanted to do all of these by herself. It felt like my heart was broken into a million pieces...
I guess what I am saying is, letting someone go doesn’t mean that you stop loving them..sometimes you let them go so that both of you can heal in peace. If you truly love someone, you will love him/her irregardless of a relationship..
this is beautifully written
I don't want friendship because I know what I can offer as a romantic partner. I have some value due to all of the hard work I put in.
This is very similar to what happened with my ex with the monkey branching and her wanting to maintain a friendship because she didn't want me to "think I didn't matter to her." I think in many of these instances, as you pointed out, they want to keep you as a back up plan, but also to lessen the guilt they feel over their choice to entertain offers from other people, then ultimately acting upon them. It's a manipulation tactic they use to let themselves off the hook while gently phasing you out of their life for good. No bueno my friends, best to sever ties completely, unfriend and block.
Hey Coach. My ex not only reached out with a direct contact after a few indirects but two days ago told me she still loved me, missed me, and wanted to see me. She told me that she had tried to date and no one had measured up the quality of man I was when we were together. She told me she was attracted to me because my capability to love. She even reminisced and got in the shower and talked to me on speaker phone like we used to in the mornings. I was in No Contact for almost 7 months and it was pure hell. In that time, I have watched 381 of your videos to this point, I got a local therapist, read 86 books on self improvement, relationships, and attachment styles, along with meditating. I would say I have done pretty good on getting better. I will also say that every single thing you teach in your videos has occurred exactly as you said it would. EVERYTHING! I know it is still early now that she has made contact and the hard work is too just begin but I believe with everything thing in me that if not my ex I will make a great partner for whomever enters my life again.
You doing great. But why you are willing to be her doormat? While you were seeking help and went for therapy to fix your broken heart, there she was dating and sleeping with different men, tasting different male genitals.
Then she realized you were her best after letting men scrubbing their shoes on doormat (which is you) before letting them in her house. Do not stoop that low, man. She left you once, she might leave you again. Tell her nicely she left the person who truly cared for her and that person will never come back. Meet her one last time for closure. Tell her you cant talk to her while in shower etc.
Bid her goodbye. I did that a couple of years back to the girl i dearly loved, it was pain. I needed 3 years to get over her. You will too, my man
@@edgeofugly the 'ol hairy genital taste test? Ewwww...!
Good for you!
That’s exactly what it is. Settling. Everyone deserves happiness.
I rejected friendship, I can't watch her walk off into the sunset with someone else.
She even did an indirect direct approach, we texted for a while I asked to meet up for drinks and she said she wasn't interested in reconciliation, but now she orbits my social media and is usually first to see my posts.
Shame I think what we had is really rare, but she walked away from it and there's nothing I can do.
It's up to her
A great relationship has great communication. That means knowing how to effectively express yourself and how to listen properly that’s what coach Craig is teaching us thanks coach
When my ex girlfriend asked me if we could stay friends, i replied i needed time to think about it and im so glad i did that. Now i'm on my 3 weeks of No Contact and im working on myself everyday, watching this type of videos everyday!!. Trying to be a better version of myself.. How can we stay friends when we have strong feelings for someone, i beliebe that doens't work for me. If she eventually reach out i want to be prepare mentaly and emotionaly . I remember she even said when she broke up with me, she wanted to keep traveling and exploring like we used too do when we were together but for me it wouldnt be the same.
Great job, keep heading in the right direction.
No way, wish them well and End it.. why put your self thru that..Better friends are everywhere! Don't get Hoover'd into their bag of tricks.
Vannessa West I agree. Your ex will not spare you the details of their new romantic escapades and, because the offer of friendship is almost always manipulative and inauthentic, hearing those details from an ex you still want romantically will cause endless fear and loathing. It's best to just move on with your life.
MrRhn Sad , i believe that a lot of these ppl. Have Narcissistic Personality disorder.
Steve Urquhart Manipulation is his middle name ! & Yes i totally understand and agree with you.
what if he wants to hang out with me after no contact for a month.....but not really talking abt relationship...does it amount to friendship ......i mean in implied way is this good idea to accept this offer after i have rejected his friendship offer.
rebita chanu It really depends upon his agenda. If he just misses you and wants to see you once in awhile for whatever reason (e.g. To assuage guilt; to create envy or need; to satisfy doubts) then it's probably not in your best interests to "hang out" particularly if it's in a group setting. But if he wants to meet with you privately and casually without the pressure of a relationship it might be a good opportunity for you to make your intentions clear and gauge his interest. It's possible he thinks he made a mistake. However, if you do choose this path you should at least have an email session with Coach to be prepared for it. Good luck.
This video is a good one. Shows how guys keep their options open and by hanging out with you you get put on hold when you could be exploring your own options. Coach Craig you are the best!
Coach Craig - could you do a video on “ why I keep dreaming of my ex” ? Does anyone else have this problem ?
nicole browne Because you're thinking of him.
I saw you comments everywhere. I think we both are dealing with the same thing right now. How's everything going right now hun?
@@marosales1987 I don't know if that's the truth...When I was thinking 24/7 about him I never dreamt of him but now that I think less regularly about him, bam, I had a dream last night where I would hang out with him for the first time after we broke up (that hasn't happened yet and I must admit that it makes me a bit anxious, we broke up on a distance). We were hanging out and then he told me that he was with someone else and I tried to keep it together but I couldn't do it and then I started asking a looot of questions about them and he could tell I was uncomfortable and then I don't remember it clearly, but I think the new lover was coming to meet us lol that's when it gets blurry. And then I woke up.
I think it works both ways.. after waking up, I think are we going to work it out because we looked happy in my dreams or is she thinking about me to where I dream about her..?
Even when I dont think about my ex, she pops up in my dream. I wish I'd never wake up but only wake up to more hurtful thoughts.
Who Knows What Dreams Are Telling Us..
I Even Started Reading Horoscope Message and Even that's scared me..
Everything I'm going through, I'm reading myself in that story..
My ex came back after 7 months for my birthday. She wished me happy birthday and asked to meet up since she had a t-shirt. I saw this as an indirect direct approach. So i went with it and accepted the meetup. Not even 20 minutes into the meetup she states that she now also like women and whished to pursue things with a women. I was confused as hell since i didnt talk about relationships or anything. and after that she stated that she just wanted me to know that. I just tried to make it a fun meetup, yet after she stated that she just wanted to be friends, which i had declined twice in the past. Im super confused, but unfortunately do not have the funds for a coaching with craig. I am probably just going to decline friendship again and move on for good. Someone who cant accept that i want more than friends, and can also not accept when i decline an offer... should not get any more attention than which i already gave her.
Yeah I just had this nonsense about 10 days ago. I have been answering her text or phone call, and now I’m thinking I don’t think I’m gonna be able to do that for much longer. Life’s too short play these games. It’s time for me to MoveOn.
It's been years since our split (long distance) and my ex still insists on being friends. Three years to be exact. I always tell him no, and every time he gets mad. Just last week he called me after eight months of silence; even though he has a girlfriend now. Had to go through the same 'we can't be friends' talk like we always do. Big yikes - all I can do is roll my eyes at this point.
Katherine quit answering the phone. let him FEEL the loss.
Lol!!
I tried and blew up in my face! Never again will I be that weak!
Your channel, in all its chapters, with help from dearest Margaret, and brilliant Victoria- it's always radiated such positivity and honestly that in itself is probably the most healing part of your program! ✨️ Thank you for all you do. It's comforting knowing that if things get rocky, you guys do more personalized coaching and are here to help. No offense but I hope I dont need it but if I do, hey I know exactly who to come to! 😂❤ Thank you guys!! 😊
This saved my day. I did exactly what you advised here and I was perturbed about whether I did the right thing. Now you've confirmed I'm on the right path. I feel so relieved. Thank you.
My ex and I met up today after 7-weeks since she broke up with me. Our meet up today went well. Despite me trying to not focus on the break-up, she took the conversation that way. I found out that she is due to get a hysterectomy in a couple of weeks to stop her cancer from spreading and she is quite devastated about it as she's always wanted, children. I felt that she was being honest and she was in tears a couple of times while talking about her health. She has said that while she is dealing with health issues that she can only offer friendship. I could tell that she still cares and she even stated that if it wasn't for her health, we wouldn't have broken up. I do want to support her in her health battle and since she feels that I didn't show my emotions and affection enough during the relationship, I don't want her thinking that I'm just walking away. Should I accept friendship to support her in this?
Of course be her friend for this.. shes dropping you hints but confused.
Hey Craig,
My Ex wanted to do this Friendship thing and I did my best but then found out my Ex is with someone new..
I told her I'm not unhappy with her decision and she had the nerve to say, Well Were Divorce..! Lol
I was upset and reached out to the guy, let all my anger out on him. Not long after my Ex reached out and told me her New Guy is not going to talk to her and dont want anything to do with her..
From there she was upset, changed her number. So from there I did no contact with her, it's been a challenge but doing good..
Were in contact through email because of the kids.
Now she reaches out to me upset and blaming me for her problems, saying she going through rough times and says she sorry.. lol
No contact does work and I'm trying to keep my space from her but when kids are involved its difficult. The kids are having fun and my focus is all on them.
Thanks to all your videos.
You and Margaret are Awesome people.. thanks for saving me..
That sounded pretty rough mate. Hope things are better for all involved now. May I ask why you wanted to contact your ex's partner? I always feel that would be crossing a line and unless that person was in any danger then it would be best to leave them to figure things out for themselves. Even as revenge I doubt it would bring me any pleasure if all I wanted is my ex partner back, though I can see why some people might be tempted to warn their ex's new partner of certain traits and behaviours. But I find that my traits and behaviours can be very different depending on the relationship I'm in. I would have thought that you contacting her bf would trigger feelings and resentment that would make co-parenting very difficult. How did you overcome that?
It’s been two weeks exactly since he broke up with me and he reached out today and asked if I was okay and asked if we could still be friends... I’m so discouraged I got so excited when he reached out and thought he’d say he missed me or wanted me back but he just wants to be friends?? He says he wants to reassure me that it isn’t me he just realized he wasn’t a relationship kinda guy... was with him for 1.5 years
What end up happening?
@@A2Kaid we are not back together but I definitely can say that Craig is right in the sense that no contact does get their attention. He will spam me constantly to this day but has yet to say that he wants to get back together and I myself am at a point where I don’t know if I would even want to get back together with him... it does get better
@@Zayngels17 Wow the fact that he is still messaging you I means he still has feelings and interests. I'm going through this situation now and I'm going to tell her no way to friendship.
Big NO don't want that be a freind , it's very uncomfortable , and no self respect , because you know to yourself that you Love Him so so much as your Lover not a freind .!!!!!
Venus ( nickname )
What end up happening?
My ex wanted to be friends after the break up and then friends with benefits with cocktails and shopping and hanging out for hours. He would leave kissing me for ages, but saying that he doesn’t know what it is but something is wrong that I am not the one. This has gone on for 5 months with him texting most days , even buying me gifts on occasions as he wants me as a friend as I’m so “ special”. Such a confusing feeling it makes you feel crazy and I have lost self esteem. Thanks for making me feel like I made the right (brave ) decision x
It’s trap she gonna found another dude and leaves you alone
My ex told me after 8 days after break up tht he had sex after 3 days n date a old friend.. N maybe they just passed by allllll the years... She understands him n know him soooo long.
Yeah that romantic bla bla made me feel gr8
This one confuses me, becauase we shouldn't be their friend, but if they reach out we shouldn't ignore them. So when they reach out 9 times and we are answering them because we are told to not ignore them, but to them they are thinking we are being friends and cool with eachother. So how do you know what to do here? My ex started reaching out after 2 months, about every 5 days, sending friendly surface level messages, then saying he misses me as a person, telling me he bought me a gift. But never stepping up to see me or connect in a romantic way. I put myself in the position to let him think it's ok to reach out when he feels like it. Now I HAVE to stop answering him becauase he was friend zoning me. Now I'm in no contact again but in a worse position because if he reaches out again I feel I shouldn't respond anymore. This is confusing. The videos never tell you what to actually do or say in this situation. Just don't ignore them but don't be their friend.
Maybe...being friends with an ex is not such bad thing. Just because he is not ready for a relationship with me, he could still be a good person and a good friend or a workout buddy at the gym...
I got threatened if I want to be friends and if I didn't he block me off his phone ..his already blocked me off Facebook anyway ..im in no contact at moment...this is true...I agree with you...he had empty words n broken pr
My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago and has been very hot and cold with me since. She said initially that she definitely wanted to get back together one day, then said she doesn’t want a relationship. She has always said she wants us to be friends though. Sometimes she’s very nice to me, other times she ignores my messages and can appear to be quite bitchy toward me.
Ryan Daniel Stop staying in contact with her! Move on and wait till she reaches out. You don’t want to be her male girlfriend.
Update???
@@dwightschrute8141 I ended up totally cutting things off with her, I messaged her once when one of my family members was terminally ill who she'd been quite close with and we met up, she asked me a few more times to meet up after that but I'd just say I was busy
How about his ex, turned into his friend, was there from the beginning of our dating. She contacted him and my ex texted her back. I became insecure and didn’t like the situation, so I talked to him. It never changed. They went out and again went out when I was at his apartment. We argued and fought because of that. Dating over a year, we broke up, and he asked me to be his friend. I said, no. I didn’t want to be like his ex bothering a couple.
One of my ex’s ( which is my daughters mom ) we are great friends and co-parents , and she is also helping me through my most recent break up ( which the relationship lasted 4 years ) my daughters mom and I have no interest other than being co parents . She’s in a relationship with another man and I’m totally fine with it , I even like the guy . So it honestly depends on how the break up went and if it was mutual break up or not . But my most recent ex that I’m struggling to get over I could never be friends with her because I wanted to be married to her and have more kids with this woman . She used me , left me for another man .
Should you unfollow them from social media? If you’re not going through the friendship route
Yes. Why let them see any part of your life? You will just manipulate your posts with them in mind. They will still control your thoughts.
What if we decided to be friends because we are working on ourselves before getting into something more serious?
No, work on yourselves apart, being friends during will only lead you there, leave the door open if you both want something later
Update???
OK so... I saw my ex of 5 years on a party last weekend... We hadn't spoken in months... (he broke up with me, never fought or had any arguments but he basically is in a sort of quarterlife crisis or so it seems). It actually went surprisingly well. He is very conflict-avoidant and confrontation-avoidant, but when he saw me he said hi and hugged me. I was surprised. We talked and laughed some. It went better than I had expected.
After that, I texted him to ask him to play a game with me we used to play together. He replied by saying he was afraid that I was having 'false expectations', that he still supports the choice he had made to break up and didn't want to get my hopes up. That, if I was expecting anything other than just a platonic meeting, it wouldn't be a good idea for the time being. I replied that I didn't expect anything but that I am really curious how he is doing now etc. Then he said he was just worried about that, but that we could catch up in a while, since we haven't spoken in a long time.
I actually really don't expect anything, I can hope for something in the future maybe, but I'm not expecting anything from him at this moment and don't want to force him into anything other than just having a good time and catching up. I do hope I won't die on the inside, or leave feeling sad... But there's only one way to find out. I am happy we can catch up, that might make the magic that's arround this elusive man of who I keep asking myself how the fuck he is doing now, fade a little bit. Also, he can see that he doesn't have to be afraid that I will jump on his dick the second he says 'Hi' to me, lol. So I have no idea if this is a good idea or what I'm putting myself into, but what's life without taking risks?... Lol.. Also, when he left me he was still crazy about me... I don't think his love for me will ever be completely gone, although he will probably never admit that.
I don't know if I can be his friend, I still have feelings for him, but I'd be happy to see we wouldn't have to be awkward anymore when we're around each other.
How’s it now?
Update?
My ex is dating someone new and she still contacts me almost every week and she never mentions her boyfriend she mentioned it once about 3 months ago but that was it. Does this mean she still wants to be with me? Does this mean she still at least interested?
Josh Courtois yes
It means she doesn't respect either of you. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't talk about the person they're supposedly supposed to be romantically involved with? Furthermore, do you really want to be treated like an option for her to go to when things aren't going well for her in bed?
Update?
Hi craig, Me and my ex had an ugly terribly breakup in jan and we started talking again in March and had a relationship that had no commitment cause she doesn’t want any commitment but we cared about each other. We made a deal to have a clean cut in March because she’s having an exchange to Japan. But last month, she said I’m suffocating her again, stressing her out, making her mentally ill and she said she’s not treating me right or can’t give me what I want so then she made the decision to cut it off clean with me. She brought her friend to come grab her stuff from my place because she’s not comfortable with me alone. She didn’t even want me to celebrate her birthday with her. She doesn’t really reply my messages unless it’s about getting each other’s stuff back. Is there something I can do to get her back? Please help!
Sometimes things just don't work out for either of us, we can agree to go our separate ways and appreciate what we did have. It may also take some time to come back as friends.
My broke up with my ex happened a few years ago. And just last week I became friends with my ex. Spoke to him to the first time. I'm sure nobody's going to support my my friendship. I'll be expecting hateful comments. I expected his friendship. I did make my own choice. I'm happy he's my friend.
PSYHHO therapist :P
I'm just joking with you dude! ;) Your videos are great and have actually helped me very much :D thank you!
Craig, what should I do? My ex is dating someone new but she talks to me still and I've told her that I cannot be friends with her and she got upset when I said that because I don't want to be her backup or know she is with a new man. I ask her if she is talking to anyone and she said no. Should tell her I know she is talking to him because there is a pic of her having dinner with him at his house or should I just ignore her text messages? I think she still has feelings for me but I think she likes the excitement of this new guy but doesn't want me to date anyone or have me if it doesn't work out. I think also is avoidant in relationship's. I need help!!! Please!!!
Beau Conley should go no contact and don’t reach out to her!
What if they have kids together? and he’s good friends with her new husband . So he’s friend’s with his ex and she’s remarried and he’s good friends with her NEW HUSBAND?
Somebody give me their thoughts?
My thought is they do it for the kids. Because the kids still want to see their dad and love there dad. My Mom and Dad split up back in 2014 I was pretty devastated that year my 2014 was a mess. my dad lives with somebody else but they're not merred though I think they're like couples. I live with my mom. But moving to new houses was painful it was a new change. But I'm better now I'm used to this house now. Yeah if you have kids you could stay friends you for the kids. Or something like that. But usly if you have kids you have no choice. choice.
I just did this ..I told him I cannot be his friend ..his angry
Yep. He’s mad. Just happened to me. This is because they were used to us letting them have their way all of the time. So one sided. Let him be mad.
Coach what if you asked to be friends because you followed a stupid ex back program that said it was the best way of getting her back.
🤣🤣🤣 same here
Update???
What are you losing by saying no, I'm not cool with that?
my ex said: let's be friends and see what happens.. I want to take it slow --> my ex broke up with me because he hasn't felt the same feelings, he had in the beginning of our relationship. What should I do Coach?
Same boat here. I still love him but he said he can't commit just yet. I understand because i broke his trust. All he can offer is still friendship. It is emotionally exhausting and draining.
@@chonkybenetgods I know it's hard. Last time I saw him I said: if you want to see me, text me first because I don't want to be pushy like I was before. It has been 4 days now.. I think it's the best that we still remain friends and do it slowly.. Give it time and let them come to you. Because if they miss you, they will make the time and effort it needs.
Its the same exact thing that my person told me. Said that why am i forcing things out, that i should learn to take things slow and see what happens. I feel like i have no power over it.
Update???
@@chonkybenetgods update?
My ex Boyfriend Broke up with me
Because he got A lot going on
Then he Ask me
Can we Be friends
I'm shy but just want too say that you make me glad too here your videos you and your helper...
My ex texted several texts. Hi how are you doing? Then political texts. I never responded and don't intend to especially when ex is in a committed relationship
What if you were friends before you went out and want to say friends and your okay with him dating and dont care what he dose is it okay to stay friend
It's up to you and what you want
Yeah i was miserable when i was my ex girlfriend's friend
How can I Politely tell him I can’t be friends with him I don’t ! I want him all mine or I don’t want him at all .. see he keeps msging me and I can’t work out if he genuinely misses me and loves me or he is just being a “friend “
Hi coach Waleed again forgot to tell you I'm married with two kids but separated now for almost three months.... really need your advice....
How can u accept him to be friend, I'm not crazy ok, im mature enough to forgive what he done to me
I need some insight please. My date bought his ex-girlfriend/lover a gift on OUR third date!!!!! Didn't even offer to buy ne anything at the moment. ( He knew my feelings regarding staying friends with old lovers.. ....i think it invites problems). I got angry and ended the date! Comments please!!!
Broken promises....
I think my ex likes to show off how good he’s doing and how happy he is without me. That’s why I removed him from my Snapchat. He looks at everything I post but I don’t see his because I felt that he’s just playing games and he’s already with someone else (coworker)obviously they had something since before we broke up. Anyway do not stay friends it hurts us
Did they contact you?
Mine does too but I am not easily impressed.
What school did you attend Craig?
What if I asked her to be my friend but she broke up with me please help I really need help
Im trusting you coach Kenneth
My bf of 2 years left me for a rebound. After 7 months he’s back. He says he ended it with her about 6 weeks ago. She wasn’t right for him at all. He wants to see me again but just casually. I’m giving it a shot. He is still friends with the rebound he broke up with and she sends him memes constantly. I’m trying really hard not to let it show that it bothers me. I just worry that if he could come back to me what would stop him from being with her again. Granted our relationships was much deeper and longer. He said she was never more than a fwb for 5 months. It’s just hard to not show jealousy. I’m trying to lean back and just be fun so he wants to continue spending time with me as I want our relationship to grow again rather than stay casual
I can't let him go because I love my x we both still have sex, and decided to be friends but i moved across the country to avoid him and i keep flying over to see him, someone help 😂
Craig you can use my situation i got anxious 3 times im trying to get on same page now she wants friends but fir 3 months mixed messages she dumped the rebound . Wants friends but i told her my intentions is to commuicate better with her. But please can u tell me what to do when she dont know what she wants .she gave me money her car i see her 2 times a week she say i love you but hot and cold cause i get anexious. I know i twice i need to walk away cant bring myself to do it .
Hiw do in get out of her control
Can you make a video. Why men (over 50’)end the relationship over the phone.
My 49 year old gf ended a 4 year relationship by text! 😭 I’m 53
my new boyfriend doesnt want me to be friends with my ex. i get it but i wish it was ok with him.
Why would you care about being in contact with ex if you’re in a relationship?
YOUR CURRENT BF IS INSECURE!!
TRUST ME I WAS THE INSECURE ONE IN MY RELATIONSHIP AND IT FUCKED UP THE BOND BETWEEN ME AND MY GF
If your bf had high self esteem and secure person he wouldn't feel this way.
After a month of no contact she texted me lots and we talked bt she still calls mi baby and some tym ma name bt she only wants friendship and no more of us bt I rejected clearly en then no contact again and forever
Thanks for this video coach! Your amazing 😳
U are too
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Bs it always comes back n bite you....no matter what you do
Perfect.
if he still loves me would staying friends make him not be able to resist being back with me? Even if it hurts me like hell...
He will want you and you wanting to be friends only is cruel and you should let him go unless you feel the same
@@DarknessIsThePath he broke up with me. Its me wanting him back
@@niccikirkham1939 Oh, if he wants to be your friend, you say you do not want that but a relationship, if he has feelings for you and does then take it slow, if he insists on being friends tell him that you cannot do that, wish him well and move on. Pretending to be his friend will only make him look better and he WILL only see you as a friend and nothing else
Of course HE has to reach out to you first, never you
She asked me to be friends on Sunday, it’s been over five months we have been apart.. she’s five weeks away from giving birth... in my situation should I be friends? @Coach Craig Kenneth
Nope 👎 and nope 👎
Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 6 years of relationship out of which 2 years was long distance. she tried to be friends with me but after 15 days of breakup i started no contact and came to know that she was talking to someone else alot. i broke the no contact when she contacted me after 7 days as i asked her about the calls and she said that she is not in relationship. but i did not made any mistake after that call. she started to be nostalgic. i completed no contact for 25 days. Now i am going to meet her as we are in long distance. should i continue to get her back or its time to move on.
Rahul Sharma move on. You broke up now the long distance won't help. She will leave you when she gets sick of long distance or if someone comes around who she will be attracted to
I settled😑
Terri Fitts how u settled ??
Look you are a man if you have feelings for her be a man and go get her! go to meet up with her re-attract her! you can get her back let her see that you want her but you dont need her make her. get her attract to the new you! show her that your a better man! dont just stand around you can do it! if you want to dont her then move on your choice date other women if you want but what im telling you is that you can spark back and make her have feeling for you again! make her laugh and smile give her a good time! but just be you be real! if you want her then go get her! you have my support
megamanzotax123 I messed up my no contact as i talked about getting back together after no contact. I went to meet my ex after no contact and we had good two days meeting but after that i called her and asked about getting back together and she got irritated as why i did not talked about it when we were meeting. She got angry . And she end up saying that i will never understand her. What should i do now. Should i go no contact again. What should i do now.
We decided to be friends, it was her idea, but she fcking ignores me now, wtf ?!?! Everything was cool at the beginning and now it doesn't look like a friendship.... I am moving on with life but we have a dept and I help her paying it off. So once a month we meet up and when we meet she smiles a lot and I can't help myself and smile and laugh also, I still love her but after a breakup she's weird as fck... she likes my Facebook posts, watches my stories, she has a bf... What should I do man, block her?
In most cases they want to phase you out of their lives by slowly being your "friend", but they only do it to make it easier for them to leave you completely by learning to take you for granted once their love has completely been lost
Dear Craig I've been friends with my ex before we dated and want to know if it's okay to stay friends after four years but it wasnt much of a relationship it was more of a friend relationship he started dating again but it doesn't bother me he was 30 years older then me
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@@clarissarussell8208 what??
Ignore her and carry on.
Please someone tell me what should I do when in moment of despair I agreed and promised him my forever friendship just so I dont lose him. Should I text him specially for that if we rarely talk anyway? To explain im not okay with it? I think he should know I changed my mind...
I want to stay in touch with my ex. I also thought of not staying friends but the absence of him in my life made me so sad that after two weeks of no communication finally I reached out to him and he said that he can only be friends with me and nothing else and even though I don’t like the idea but if at least I am friends with him I can get to see him or talk to him.
@@pritha12345 how are you doing?
A A I am not doing fine to be frank. I have recently come to know that he has moved in with a new girl and has been staying with her since February and has even taken her to a family vacation to Florida with his parents and brothers in March. Now I understand the reason why he has me blocked on his phone for over a month. He doesn’t know that I know that he has moved in with a new girl. I asked him couple of times to take his stuff from my home but he always gives one or other excuse to not to come. Last week he called me up and said that he is “happily single” even though I didn’t enquire about it. He told me that he would come this weekend to pick up his stuff from my home but I know he would again give me some excuse.
@@pritha12345 would u mind sharing which month you broke up? Cause it seems he "moved on" fast which would only be a relief that you didn't lose anything precious since he's that fast. He doesn't care about his stuff, neither should you
@@pritha12345 Btw I think Craig Kenneth is quite toxic after some research, I advise you to watch Russel Brand on break ups or Alan Robarge if you're into healing videos idk what's your goal :)
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stop crapping on about your business
Lol are u trying to tell me how to run my channel?
If you are good at something,never do it for free..
My ex and I met up today after 7-weeks since she broke up with me. Our meet up today went well. Despite me trying to not focus on the break-up, she took the conversation that way. I found out that she is due to get a hysterectomy in a couple of weeks to stop her cancer from spreading and she is quite devastated about it as she's always wanted, children. I felt that she was being honest and she was in tears a couple of times while talking about her health. She has said that while she is dealing with health issues that she can only offer friendship. I could tell that she still cares and she even stated that if it wasn't for her health, we wouldn't have broken up. I do want to support her in her health battle and since she feels that I didn't show my emotions and affection enough during the relationship, I don't want her thinking that I'm just walking away. Should I accept friendship to support her in this?
This is a late reply from me and I hope you are in a better place now.
Even in that situation you shouldn’t be friends. You obviously want more and you should keep suffering for her because she has to undergo treatment? She doesn’t want to face the consequences of the breakup
If she really wanted to be with you, she would make it work