Strong INFP Vibes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ส.ค. 2024
- INFP in everyday situations. What are they gonna do? how are they gonna act?
Lets find out!
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Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is an introspective self-report questionnaire indicating differing psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions. The test attempts to assign four categories: introversion or extraversion, sensing or intuition, thinking or feeling, judging or perceiving. One letter from each category is taken to produce a four-letter test result, like INTP or INFP
INFPs are weird. It's hard being one. But as frustrating as it is I do love my weirdness; being nice, being kind and getting excited about the world are awesome. The world was not really set up for us though
true...
that hit the spot
sigh every now and then i find myself in that headspace where i wish i never came to be because i'd rather be non-existent than NOT AN INFP
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Truth
This is so uncomfortably relatable and yet so comfortably familiar.
Haha! Well said! So uncomfortably relatable, yet so comfortably familiar 😂😁
I love it, the strange way…?
Too relatable for my taste
So uncomfortably relatable and yet so comfortably familiar , I love it.
Perfect words, I couldn't say it better 👍😊
“You would rather break some laws than break some hearts” hahahahah truuee
This is not true. I was in relationship with INFP 3 years and he broke my heart.
@@kasiasaved6233 I‘m sorry to hear that :( I don’t know what happened but it’s not okay. Though he was probably not okay too. I think none of us is. I think as much as being introverted and sensitive makes you want to run and hide a lot, going so far as to shut people out completely, every strength can turn into a pit. People who talk a lot can easily say things that they shouldn’t, people who talk less can easily stay quiet on things that matter.
We all know what it’s like to feel pain and we’ve all been the one hurting others. And Jesus, God in the flesh, died taking all that pain on himself on the cross so that we can be with him where there is no pain. Sorry for this little evangelism but I could just cry every time I think about it 🥲
@@aylinm.3589 Thank you sooooo much for your anserw. Everybody is diferent no matter of personality profile or how to call it. Things I told about happend 8 years ago and I moved on. And I love Jesus as well. Thank you once again for what you wrote.
@@kasiasaved6233 hahahah and here I thought your name having „Saved“ in it could mean you’re a believer 😂😂😂 the world sure is small 🥲 ✨ God bless you Kasia, hope we’re all meeting in the air soon ✈️
@@aylinm.3589 So good to meet a fellow Christian infp. I'm convinced we're the rarest of them all. I'm so relieved I'm not the only one with this driving issue. I literally used to pull off the road whenever someone came up behind me lol. I once ended up almost stuck in someone's driveway. I thought it was a road, but then there was nowhere to turn around. Oh my. Kinda glad I don't have my license anymore🤦🏻♀️😅
one time i was ordering KFC and the cashier heard me wrong (like B1 became E1 or something), so instead of a normal meal i got a bucket combo for 4 people… the moment i realized they were preparing my food already, so instead of asking them to change it i just took the bucket home… (there were people behind me and i dont wanna bother the people preparing the food, i would rather just pay 4 times the money i expected to) So yeah I just ate as much as I could and put the rest in the fridge for tomorrow >_
As any polite human would do 🤣🤣
Lmao yes, i recently went to cafeteria and ordered a food. But they switched my order with one that cost less than what i paid for but i didn't say anything and just took and ate the food because i didn't want to start an argument and cause trouble for the chef
Relatable from infp-t
LOL
Sounds like something i would do...we are truly a huge case 😂😭
INFP: totally ok if you can't, no pressure, if you'd rather run me over with a car that's totally fine, I get it
INFP's friend: PLS JUST LET ME HELP FOR ONCE 😭
So very true. Blessed are the friends who call us on our "unworthiness" and help vigorously.
@@andeannafarnes4719 9
I swear I've said this exact same thing before 😂😂😭😭😭
Then you look to them and say: “No.”😁
Them: 😐
You: 🙂
What friends?
The "adoption of a character's personality" thing really hit home.. i'm still a peridot after 5 years though. usually it lasts a week.
Which character is it? 😄
@@BenjaminSpicy Peridot from Steven Universe
I will forever be obsessed with Peridot!! Her personality is addictingly charming
OH MY GOD SAMEEEEE 😭😭😭😭
Until I watched this video I thought it was just a "me thing" that I took on behaviors and mannerisms of TV and movie characters. Now I know it is an INFP thing, which I most definitely am proud to be. xD
I have had to make a promise to myself to never play my favourite favourite songs in front of people because I know I'll quietly die inside if they don't listen to it or even worse, criticize it. When that happens, my spirit leaves my body.
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Haha same 👍
I do it only if I know their taste already and a song fits it 😂
I did this once. A friend came to visit and walked in while I was listening to music and asked to hear some of it. I quickly looked for the least cringy or controversial song I could find then spent a minute soaking in anxiety while she just sat there and said nothing. I eventually turned it off. And she asked me why I turned it off and said that I interrupted her vibing. 😅
Same.. even now share my music preference only to my closest friend.
I was laughing with a group cause I couldn't understand what they were talking about, but they were laughing, so I laughed too. They asked me why I was laughing. That's when I found out they had been speaking hindi.
Oof
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dskkshskfh LMAO- me's an Indian and Ik our people would defo look at your side and ask such a question-
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"You can't articulate what you know is right" HITS so hard goddamn ! That's how I never used to participate in debates.
Story of my life! Its so frustrating...
I took a debate class in high school because I thought it would help with my public speaking skills. NOPE. And then in college I took a public speaking class, because it was required, but also because I thought that I might get better at public speaking. STILL NOPE.
@@OfficialSeth The way you articulated this was hilarious 😂
Kudos, you succeeded !
lol that made me realize if not I use to think I was stupid.
This is accurate but somehow exaggerated, but as an INFP, I am finding this funny 😂
The fact that I can relate to that exaggerated part🗿😩✨
@@rudrikasoni7516 oh you're still precious especially in God's eyes 🤗
@@dafffodils thanks for saying that ✨❤️
@@rudrikasoni7516 sure! cause it's true 🥰
the fact that I can relate to the exaggerated parts so well 😂
The part about going from art to psychology and then watching camping content is just, really relatable
😅😅😅😅😂😂😂❤
I hate how almost everyone one of these scenarios has happened to me. I just recently learned I’m an INFP and I can’t believe how accurate this is.
Every INFP's life summarised in 20 minutes.
My Short story:
I was working in a company that was assembling bikes. So my job was to prepare front wheels and pass them over. So everytime I was giving them to that man and he would pick them up from me I was saying Thanks. It was so silly because I was doing it automatically. Until one time that man said: you know, you don't have to thank me everytime. He brought me back on earth, since I was lost in my thoughts. He seemed a little bit angry so after that I was repeating myself: just don't say thanks, don't say thanks 😄
Btw I Loved your video. From an INFP from Poland 🇵🇱
Haha 😄 great story 😂
This is literally me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It so tough worrying that you'll accidentally offend someone. Lots of time lost in that worry 🙃
People in this world aren't ready for neverending positivity. They just don't understand it.
The ending was spot on.
Why are things like this so Precisely accurate? Like watching this and every single thing is like a flashback to Own life experiences.
The dog boop is the best transition ever
I am happy I am not a shy INFP. Being shy and INFP sound like a social death sentence.
Yeah, it is really a drag...
Fortunately for an INFP a social death sentence isn't that big a deal. It's like being banned from a forum you didn't visit much and hadn't even bothered bookmarking. You'd even let your browser save the password, that's how unimportant the forum was to you. And they'd banned you for being mildly ironic because they didn't realise you were being ironic even though contextually it was quite obvious. And even if you hadn't been being mildly ironic and had actually meant it, it still wouldn't have justified a banning. So you still wouldn't have felt bad, but because you were in fact being mildly ironic you feel that being banned was actually a bit of a compliment... but you don't follow that thought any further since that would require identifying a compliment you couldn't refuse but didn't consent to accepting. The last thing you needed right now was to be burdened with a _seventh_ compliment to add to the others you'd had in your life and relived behind locked doors in the dead of a moonless night, biennially.
But I'm glad you're happy you aren't a shy INFP. And if I'm being ironic there, it's very very mildly. So mildly that I don't even know myself. But it would be a self-deprecating irony anyway. Or would it be implying that you should want to be a shy INFP? Is that what I really think? Why would I think that? I wouldn't think people should want to be like me, but I absolutely think we need more people who are like me but not me. Not because they're like me, but because they're awesome. Unlike me. Similarities being superficial due to the vast and imprecise distances which separate us all, until we die and everyone who never knew us but thought they did mourn the person they invented in their heads, inspired by real events involving us. Which is less tragic for we shy INFPs since (due to our social death sentence) fewer people falsely believed they knew us and we falsely believed fewer people knew us too. So the lie that dies with us is a much smaller lie than dies with most people. It is the last mask of all: our face.
And no, what I just wrote does not totally make sense. In case you're wondering. I was mostly just playing with words. Which is as pithy a summary of human life as I'm capable.
I have a theory that the sense of self is in fact a social adaptation. So when people talk about the evils of the illusion of self and identifying with your sense of self, it reminds me that I need to talk less and spend more time alone. Both of those, though. I'm alone right now but talking a whole bunch. Time to fix that. Have a nice day!
yep, i have no social life and have copletely lost my will to live. still here tho
@@jeffjones7108 Your comment is pure genius. Pure. Genius. So much is it pure genius that it trumped my infp need to not hurt anyone's feelings because I couldn't help laughing out loud over and over as I read it, even while worried that my hubby (who is playing guitar singing gospel songs 3 metres from me) might think I was laughing at his singing, or that at best I was being rather inconsiderate. So with only mild irony but mostly genuine gratitude and admiration, thanks a lot! It's even better that your work-of-art of a comment is humbly displayed in the middle of nowhere as though it were not something that should be enjoyed and admired by the world or at least much more than the few people who happen upon it here!
This is hilarious and fairly truthful. I constantly hide from acquaintances at the grocery store. I will walk to the opposite side of the store that I need to be on to avoid them. I don't like running into people that I'm not prepared to talk to. I would rather hide. The funny thing is. I was daydreaming about going to Poland to see a castle yesterday. I actually even looked up plane and hotel ticket prices and thought really hard about randomly flying there by myself, lol.
I once walked a extra 15 min because I didn’t wanna meet the same busdriver…
I do this too. 😂
Same! And just yesterday I was looking at prices for the Bahamas. Really need a vacation.
@@emmeli_melin1137 thats iconic
I've done that but it was for Portugal. I saw a video about moving to Portugal so I watched it and I was like "Wow. Portugal is so beautiful. I want to move there." So then I started heavily researching it like the best towns to live in, how to get citizenship, real estate in Portugal, what it's like for Americans to live there, and then I looked at the clock and it was 4 in the morning and I was practicing Portuguese and I suddenly thought "What the hell am I doing? I'm broke and don't even have a passport so how am I supposed to move to Portugal?" And then I was sad, and went to bed, and then when I woke up I researched it some more.
You know it would be extra INFP to invent an imaginary romance in your head with the guy who was going to Poland while on the plane.
Edit: nvm 😂 the waiter with the cute smile is in the bag!
Also, I definetly did the thing where I became the character from a movie and even dressed like her cause I liked the whole thing so much 😳
I'm so happy I'm not the only one who makes imaginations I'm my head Lmao. I finally found a comfortable place T^T
Relatable😭😭
My problem is that I always find characteristics in characters in television shows that I really love....and when other people have a crush on me I don't realize until they tell me or someone else tells me if they flirt....but my TV character expectations will not settle...( I usually like the ENFJs 2w3 and ENTJs 8w7) ...and now....well...I'm lonely with my dreams of becoming a pediatrician, a physical therapist, a national geographic photographer, etc.
- INFP. 9w1
Me totally not over here cosplaying as Ladybug from Miraculous Ladybug who just happens to be ENFJ. I'm not creepy I just have wierd interests.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 too accurate
How do you know INFP's so well?? 🤯 You're the first one I've seen who has so accurately portrayed the inner workings of an INFP.
On a video call, I interrupted my friend and told them "wait you speak, you go first" but then they said they had never met anyone so polite in a video call before and then when it got late I spent like 5 mins trying to decide how to say "Hey I would like to sleep now" so I just kept saying random words like um and maybe and then my other friend asked me "Are you OK?" And I just said "no" because I couldn't figure out how to say that I wanted to leave in a nice enough way but in the end I told them 😀
Hey, uh, mind if I ask what does your "Z A G" mean?
"I don't know how to talk"
As an INFP I apologised for apologising, then I apologised for my habit of apologising.
As an hardcode INFP, I can confirm that each instance in this video is spot on!! I may not show it externally, bt that's what I ALWAYS feel.. honestly, I even cursed myself to a great extent for being like this, life is hard being an INFP with these traits you know!
All my life, i thought i was the wierdiest person.
Hello INFPs, I had a good laugh watching my life summary in 20mins
Omg an INFP uploaded a video? I’m really curious how long it took to make and edit this piece. 😬😆It’s been a year i have edited and uploaded a video 💀 because i can’t choose a topic and if i do, perfectionism comes in :(
YO THAT'S A MOOD
Same am the oogway of procrastination 😅
Watch a documentary on Teddy Roosevelt. It helped me. Choosing doesn't necessarily choosing not to do something else. You can do that other thing too, later
@@MrArtVein thank you. I will check him out. That’s the TEDDY ROOSEVELT, former U.S. President right?
I feel you. I haven't done anything with music due to over think and over inflated expectations....
This happened to me a couple of days ago. I'm a fourth year medical student, scrolling through Instagram. I saw a post about some guy winning a pommel horse competition. I was inspired. I never ever did anything remotely close to gymnastics in my life, yet I started to wonder whether I should give up medicine to become an International gymnastic judge. I even started looking up a courses online I could take for like the whole night. Of course it died there but still, that would be very fascinating 😂
Btw, I am the only one incredibly ashamed of showing others my favorite songs? I mean, I feel soooo exposed and vulnerable it's almost uncomfortable. Plus I'm always sure they're never gonna be able to appreciate it. The only person I've been doing this with is a friend of mine, who I recently found out is an INFP too lol.
Most of these are far far more of a push over than I actually am... I'm not THAT nice! However the not articulating your point in the moment is soooooo frustrating! I'm like no, I know what I'm talking about. Brain:.........Flat line. 20 minutes later in private, Brain: hey here's all the points you should have made. Thanks! Thanks a lot.
That was so true! I do often have issues communicating efficiently. That's why I always lie in bed at night thinking about what I should have said in an argument a few years back.
I'm 37 and I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up! I'll figure it out right? Lol
An older-than 37 year-old INFP: good luck with that!
A 35 year old Infp can we hold hand together?
I'm a 29 year old INFP and I am scared now! LOL
I'm 23 and you guys are scaring me😂
good luck with trying things out! 💛
I'm an enfp but I related to 80% of this 😂
For the longest time I thought I was an INTP but recently I retook the personality test, got INFP and now I really feel like I´ve found my people!
Pandemic prolly pushed you over. I feel I'm INTP in work environments since it required me to find facts investigation analytics etc. But when the pandemic office became home and I lost my job I embraced my INFP personality and began thriving at home
@@MrArtVein Yes, I suppose some jobs can make us change how we behave. Sorry about your job btw I hope you find something soon.
Well that's what Jeff Daniels said to Jim Carrey!
I always panic before i order food so i ordered the same food and the same drink for my entire teen years. My parents would always ask me didnt i wanted to eat/drink something else? They would try to call the waitress again and i would stop them, it's okay. I guess i'll just eat the same menu for the rest of my life XD it took a very long long hours of practice before i can actually get to eat what i want to eat for a day.
And they probably attributed your limited palette to being a picky eater, when actually you were in fear for your life 😆
The struggles some don't understand...
As an INFP-A, I feel like I don't quite get the full experience that T types get so much crap for. Most of these resonate with me, but not quite to the same deep level.
I'm an ambivert and love socializing with people, so long as they can hold a decent conversation. Once I'm home though, im just like "Ahhh, quiet happy place. Leave me the f*ck alone."
Then a few days later, this burning need arises and I'm all like: "I need lively and smart people to talk with. I need intelligent conversation, NOW dammit."
To my fellow INFPs, keep doing you and being 100% yourself. Keep growing into the beautiful person that you are. 💛 find something you absolutely love, that thing that you loved most as a child, that thing you've always done naturally. Be the artist you always wanted to be, embrace your loves wholeheartedly and unashamedly. No one can be you. You are unique to the world and are radiantly beautiful because of it. We are the butterfly, the rainbow, the sunset. We are the ones that others stop and stare in awe of our sheer beauty.
And if no one else tells you today, you can at least hear it from me. You may not always be understood, but you are definitely loved.
I feel both validated and hurt at the same time lol 😂
MY FAVORITE VOICE CRACK normal people have have NO CLUE how real this is
Now I know what not to do or say in these scenarios incase i ever actually go outside and talk to people 👍
"I performed an activity yesterday. Please wait 3-5 business days to submit another query." 😂😂😂
You know you're an infp if you relate to the driving one even though you don't drive.
I never enjoyed being so personally attacked before, it was like a 20 minute roast 😂 Also that movie reflected on the screen at 15:08 is Amélie, it’s like an INFP fever dream
as an infp t
I can't stop laughing 'cause this is so true. (I laugh at myself) 😅😅😅
I can't even order my own food.
So true, I'll have what there having 😂
I just took the MBTI test again and I was skeptical when I got an INFP, it just seemed so wrong. But then I watched this video and I have had all of these experiences almost exactly the same and I just accepted my fate as an INFP
When I saw the Joker movie, I WAS the Joker, especially after realize the character is an INFP... So yeah, I can relate a lot with the part of adopting a character's personality. 😖
Ps: I’m not saying the Joker is an infp, he is not. BUT in the movie he is an infp (before becoming evil.)
Ps2: Sorry if you don't understand the last part, my english is not that good yet😅
@Hope McEnder Idk if this is a joke or something xD but in case it's not...
I can relate with you, but I've been doing some research and I'm not a sociopath or something (sometimes I just get tired of people and life in general)
If you're in doubt, I recommend you to do some research too :)
The good part is that as infps, it is very difficult for us to hurt other people, so don't worry.
Hope you are doing okay!
Ooo i can relate to this. Long time ago i said to my friends I'm kind a bastard and jerk. So savage. Etc.
But I'm so shocked they looked at me not like that. Almost all people see me the opposite. In this point i just realized I'm too bias and blind to see my self (I'm on negative mental state) cold, dark, gloomy, muddy etc... i don't know about my self. And i want to know my self more after. Pivoted my POV to my self, questioning my self alot etc it's really help me...
It's seems we try to hurt ourselves and others cause inside we are in pains (due our sensitive nature) but couldn't see it. If we found & heals the wounds INFPs are very loveable, warm, caring, understanding etc...
I learn to embrace & accept all the spectrum of emotion & feelings (- 0 +) as it is. Cause i know I'm not type who can control emotions & feelings so i choose to understand them.
Sorry for my ramble episode 🤣
@@L4LA0412 Nono it's totally fine! I'm really happy to find a place where I can understand more about other infps :)
Thank you so much for sharing your experience!
@@dannycloud2002 thank you so much 🥰
Joker was a very good movie. Lots of people definitely cried for him during his scenes. People understood him and his struggles for a Just society
I'm INFP and this video only describes how I want to behave and react but I've learned SKILLS ...😆 🤣 😂
I needed this today. Was having such a terrible day and crying and crying because I'm an INFP who does that and then I watched this and had my first laugh at 3:10 in the afternoon.
For the eye contact, when i talk to people i love to see their eyes. But then during the conversation, i noticed they're not looking at my eyes. They're looking at my mouth? So i got weirded, monologue happens, and missed what they actually were talking about.
And another is when someone talk about a drama or movie i've never watched before. Maybe a character they were into so much, but just to be nice i guess?, or maybe i'm actually too lazy to let them talk more?, i would just agree with them, talk as if i know the drama or the movie or the character and man i'm good at talking about things i never knew about, people would buy it and they would stop talking. But then another episode comes out, they would start talking about it again, and now i'm too late to say i never watch the drama or movie, i would google or watch them just to know what to talk about the next time we would have this conversation again. But then no, people don't talk about it anymore XD
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17:39 This is solely why I don't reply to the text until they mention what they want from me (notifications...)
"What was the reason?"
[this just popped up in my head. I can't- 💀💀💀]
just had to say I just love this channel and this community. it's like a safe space for me. where people understand and are never mean 😭😭😭 many experience the same stuff as me. there's stuff that i get really anxious about, and seeing someone talk about it in such an amusing way makes me feel at ease... thank you so much 🤗🤗🤗
Yeah, if someone asks if I am busy, I ask why - YOU BETTER EXPLAIN OR I'M BUSY ANYWAY!! xD
Omg i laughed so hard this is so accurate, being an INFP is the equivalent of being high 24/7
Benjamin you are great ❤️. I recently found myself as an INFP, and since then I'm watching INFP videos and your's also. By watching your videos is really a therapy for me. You're so on point and I relate myself so much that I can't tell you☺️. Sometimes I really laugh like hell😂, and that is the best thing, best moment that could happen with be in the entire day. May god bless you 🙏🏼.
Thanks a lot!!! ❤️
I'm glad you like it! 😄😄
This is such a desert for my INFP heart! Honestly I never felt so understood, like whaaaa-
Thank you for this video. I've had a rough day (making phone calls, people asking why don't you visit me...and so on) and I needed a good laugh to help me pull through. (Even if every boop was a personal stab at my soul...)
I have experienced at least a good majority of these things to some extent and it feels good knowing I'm not alone 😁 Keep the videos coming!
This one time in university, we had an extra class on a weekend. We were informed via group chat to show up to class at a certain time because a few classes were missed. I had to take an expensive Uber as my van wasn't available that day. I reach my uni, go to my class and I'm literally the first one there !!!! I was honestly so happy about it. However 10mins pass, no one shows up. 20mins pass, still no one not even the teacher honestly it was weird, then after like 45mins, my class door finally opens and its the........cleaner. he looks at me all sus and says what the hell am I doing in an empty class and I say, we have class lol. He just cleans up the entire place and leaves and I'm just sitting there like a dumbass. I msg in the group and no reply and out of fear of missing my class I wait almost two hours lol (our class was supposed to be 3 hours long) and then I just come back home in another expensive Uber. I could've eaten like 5 nice meals with that money. Later on the teacher just sent a stupid excuse of why he didn't show up that day, what my stupid self can't get is, how the hell did not even one person other than me show up? am I missing something?
Ugh i got really frustrated when this happened to me. Like how can they know something, when did i miss the info.
@@BbyXxXBeaST that's what I'm saying !!!! Am I so oblivious to my surroundings, is what I ask myself daily.
This happened to me years ago. Worse off it was a 7 or 8pm class and it was a snow storm. I drove 50 miles to class and got there but the door was locked and I spent 10 mins walking around asking folks. I ran into my classmate and we waited another 10 mins thinking he was caught in the storm. Til we looked in our spam and saw that class was cancelled. We had a campus bus that took you across to the parking lot but it was so bad they weren't running anymore. So I walked 25 mins in the storm to my car then drove an hour and a half home which normally takes 45 mins tops, but the roads were terrible. Apparently he sent the email out 10 mins after I left the house but I didn't see it because I was driving smh. So I got in the habit of being ahead at least 2 weeks in all my classes. If I needed to skip a class or didn't feel like going, I just didn't and it never affected my grades. In fact I missed 5 days in one class and even had the older version of the book $6 vs $120 no brainer for me and didn't even but the other one and I passed the class with more than 100%. So I learned a valuable lesson that day. Do what works for you. That's how the INFP wins. Figure out their rules and make them work for you
They all talked and decided not to go, you were not in the circle. Happened to me too sadly........
Teacher informed everyone in english literature of the last year of high school....that there would be an important exam. She badly planned the year. Nobody knew until less than a month before....EXCEPT NOBODY informed me because she only notified everyone through her facebook group messages.
She was not friends with me. Why would I be friends with this woman who nitpicked why I was 5min late after walking 45 mins in the snow as buses where I lived where cancelled?! But she let off girls who were 20min late because their parents dropped them off via car...so traffic is only acceptable if you own or go by car?!
Non of the girls informed me because they bullied me and never invited me to hang out with them. FML. I'm still mad at age 30.
My favourites one is the taxi hail and Poland flight.
I just deleted my entire comment-essay becouse I'm scared someone will read it, and my thoughts are too chaotic for communication.
But I know our type isn't very vocal and I need you to know I care Benjamin, so I'm writing this instead. Thank you, you make me feel understood. It's very rare feeling for me.
Stop this painful yet comfortably relatable attack right this instant!
A week ago on the bus I accidentally pressed the stop button at the wrong bus stop, but I didn’t stay on the bus because then the bus driver would’ve stopped without reason, and I didn’t tell them it was an accident. I simply walked off the bus there at the wrong stop and walked home🌚
i think i'm an INFP, i relate to almost everything, exept for the job part, i want to be a teacher. sometimes i imagine myself doing another job but then i tel me "no keep teacher in mind, it's easier that way"
Really enjoyed this video! You love teasing us by showing us our life, don't you!!! 😂 Well I feel like commenting on almost every situation shown here as so many are very much relatable! But thank goodness, I have grown and started being a bit assertive in certain situations!!! I feel I will be watching this again, it was so good! 😂
Oh my gosh...I'm dieing over here because THIS IS SO TRUE...I would do the exact same thing. I have so many stories where I have gotten myself on the other side of the country for no reason just because I didn't want to make people feel bad and I don't want to feel like a dufus. 😅🤣
And yes, Drew Barrymore was my adopted personality. I had so much in common and loved, obsessed over her characters. I felt so weird!!!...but when I found out my personality type and these videos and its been my Savior as far as knowing....THERE ARE OTHERS LIKE ME! LOVE MY INFP TRIBE!🦋
Benjamin, you are my favorite on utube when it comes to INFP videos. You are sooooooo spot on.
Thank you for doing these for us!
BOOP!👃
Spicy! I've been waiting to see this video... it was lovely interacting with you recently. Looking forward to seeing that philosophical or psychological content you mentioned.
...boop
It feels like I'm having a relatable conversation
Man, why u so damn accurate 😭 especially in a part where I like to feel my self loved from a stranger, daydreaming about them. And part when I pick someone's character from an anime. Bruh u are sociopath know these things 😂 SUBSCRIBED
2:14 Hol up, what do you mean "go to a Restaurant"
Had to go to a therapist one time, and i told them I'm down and anxious a lot. And then told them the cause, and my plans on coping it up. So basically i just solved my problem. I was also kept awkwardly laughing while i speak to her, it seems like my problem was not serious. So yeah, my anxiety is severe now
So sad that infp can be the victim of bullying...
Lol "going to live in Poland just to be nice"
how are these all so accurate omg
"You would rather break some laws than break some hearts" yea i did 🙂💔
Till NOW I thought my heart, mind and existence were a mishap. THANK YOU 🤗
Hi.... love ur voice from a fellow INFP 💖
@@yoyo-sm1ro awwww thankuuuu 🌹
That joke said twice would be so fatal for the rest of this lifetime
Some of these I would never dare to do 🤣 I feel so bad for my fellow infps. I don't put my self in most of these situations lmao.
an infp and i used to live alone away from my family in a whole different city. i wasnt familiar with the public transportation, i wanted to go to the train station by public transportation and after the minibus took a different turn i realised i took the wrong one. so i just sat there for a good 5 minites and decided to stop in front pf a hotel bc i had 2 huge bags with me and i thought that it would look nornal, someone traveling with bags and checking in a hotel. i wanted to order an uber bike but i didnt have internet so i walked aaallll the way to the first wrong turn and took the right minibus. normally it takes 15-20 minutes to get to the train station, that day it took me alnost an hour just :)))
Omg why is this so accurate 😂 BOOP
the driving one is REALLY me tho. so is the rehearsing in the mirror for pizza, but then having a massive courage spike when somebody else is too shy to call for pizza
This was so accurate I felt called out!
The pizza call, the showing a song, the getting off a bus and walking with headphones on- 😂
I related to almost everythingg
✨️Storytime✨️
So my best friend plays the drums (she's very good btw!!) and one time in middle school the principal asked her to perform a song in front of the whole school. She was super nervous. Between my friends I'm kind of known as a singer (?) I'm not good at all like no technique whatsoever, but I was part of a choir when I was younger (tho I couldn't understand anything we were being taught cause I was so little) so people always thought of me as a good singer 😂
So then my best friend asked me "You wanna sing this song that I'm doing a drum cover of?". She didn't pressure me or anything but seeing her so nervous I magically just developed some confidence out of NOWHERE cause I just felt so bad for her and knew what it felt like having all the attention on you (actually I didn't but the idea seemed terrifying). I didn't even know the lyrics to the song I literally read them off my phone.
It wasn't that bad & people told me I did good but I was so embarassed. One of the most reckless things I've EVER done, I still wonder how I actually managed to do it.
Oh and one time I started learning a bit of sign language (tho I don't know any deaf/mute person) cause I read a book with a deaf character and it inspired me so much! 😂
Lol wow , I can totally relate to jumping into situations to help others to my detriment😂… and I met a very nice man at work who was hearing impaired and I fantasized forever at how special he would feel if I could learn signing. Embarked on learning… until I forgot I guess. 😢
@@raqlew7021 Awwee 😭
That's so cute! I'm glad you could relate! And ty for replying!!! ^^
The TV show one is so relatable. I’m literally in this situation tight now! 😅 I didn’t know that this was an INFP trait.
OH MY GOSH HOW ARE YOU READING ME LIKE A BOOK ToT
Anyway, here's an incident that happened to me about two days ago ON MY BIRTHDAY. I went out with my girl to meet her up cuz it's been a really long time and I miss her so much. So yeahh we went to this shop to get ice cream and some drinks. She was about to pay for her stuff, she put her money on the counter while waiting for the cashier to get her ice cream and all. The ice cream is done, the cashier passed the ice cream to her, and my friend grabbed it with her hand full of her drinks and purse. My dumbass was being nice and "helpful", thought it would be nice to help her get her "change" and help to put it in her purse. I grabbed the money that she put on the counter (for the payment) cuz I thought that was her change, the cashier was grasping the banknotes that I was tryna grab. I was so confused and my friend was like "That's the money for these things". I was like... 😳
should I sprint as fast as Usain Bolt or dig my own grave and bury myself six feet under the dirt? I'll never be going out again, like ever. Thank god no one was behind us though.
There's something about your tone that makes your videos seem wholesome.
Your voice really reminds me of that rock guy from Thor.
So glad I watched this, I haven't laughed so much. Brilliant.
This is 💯% on point. It's a little scary. Great video ❣️
The accuracy is scary !!!!!!!!
It took me so long to realize that a bar and a pub are basically the same thing.
The part about the song 😂
So true. The rage was building just hearing about it
I can relate with everything. Very INFPs daily situations 😞
Watching your videos feels so good 😂😂 .... Feels like someone truly explaining my feelings 😂
6:33 I'm happy you used a pic of a Muslim woman the other TH-camrs don't do that 😭😭💞
This video reminded me how I used to work in small open space area, where all people just loved to eat lunch together. I used to always wait for them to finish, so I could eat alone in quiet. I could sat there for few hours hungry just to not meet everybody in a kitchen. This one time, I decided to go to nearby restaurant, I ordered my meal, have a time of my life scrolling on the phone while I was eating, and just before I finished I've heard familiar voices from people who just entered the restaurant. Yup, my coworkers decided to pick the same restaurant as I did, they sat down close to the waiters and a register so I couldn't go pay for my meal unnoticed even tho I almost finished. I was on an edge whether to go there and awkwardly wave them and pretend I haven't noticed them earlier, or just sit there for next hour and wait until they finish. Of course I sat there for next hour.
i been taking the test like every three year or so thinking maybe i changed. but nah. INFP always. i loved that part about wait 3-4 working days for next social event.
Wow! How long did it take you to finish this 20 minute video Benjamin? I was working on my recent video for more than a week again! I will publish it tomorrow. It's 11 minutes long! So I have decided to try to keep my videos around 5 minutes from now on 😂
Too much work but I love how the video has turned out!
Now, I'll continue watching your video! 😄
It took me about a week but I edit a lot on my phone to speed up the process 😄😄 thank you 😄
@@BenjaminSpicy The video is so good! Thanking you on behalf of all my fellow INFPs!
@@BenjaminSpicy this is a power tip right here. I recently started designing on my phone. It's beautiful
The best thing that ever happened to me is me recently getting to know that there are a lot of people like me out there called Infp’s and that I am not alone
the one with the headphones got me. I hate it when I'm listening to music and someone wants to *talk* like 😣
also "you have to go out sometime" called me out.
Some of these were very silly, but I did laugh. I felt the Brits in the pub for sure.
You aced it!
So accurate I'm crying
I felt so understood. Watching this and writing this will probably eat half my social energy for the day. In a few hours, I'll probably overthink writing this comment, how awkward and embarrassing it must look, and consider deleting it... but what if a stranger notices I deleted it and realizes I'm a coward? I'll tell myself no one will probably see it, anyway, and try not to feel anxious when it randomly comes to mind for the next week.
If someone randomly likes the comment, even if weeks later, I will be anxious and delighted. Someone out there noticed me, and not even in a bad way! I would take a bullet for that stranger. I would also hope that stranger forgot about me right after. If someone replied... I'd sit on the kitchen floor chewing my nails and considering deleting my account entirely. I settle on pretending I never saw the reply, because normal people would be busy with other things and forget they saw it. That would be a more normal response than panicking and deleting my account, right?
I will hit the arrow to submit my comment before my rationality kicks in, or I would simply delete the whole thing and never comment at all. Ugh, I wish I had a different brain.
ive never seen a video that describes me so well, great video!
Haha, I love the fact, that you choose my country as the strange, random one, in your sketch ;D Kisses from Poland
The driving bit is me!!!!!
The first one I relate so much to. My parents are not fluent in English so I always have to call to make appointments, order pizza, ect. But no matter how many times I have made a call, I still get a crippling anxiety when ringing the phone.
The driving one is so real it hurts. My INFP mind that tends to overthink things is the reason that I have yet to get my license at age 21.
I'll be silent. This is too true...