“I’m tired of circling back. I just want to go forward.” Quote of the day. Inspired me to not cut again but keep going. Also, can be used for other aspects of life.
Instead of adding a prepoo, in a warm shower, I wet my brush and begin detangle my hair from tip to root. The gel that is already in my hair becomes hydrated and imparts the slip that I need to detangle. As I have resistance in detangling I wet my brush in with water in a warm shower. This usually takes 10 minutes and then I proceed to rinse under my shower head.
I am feeling you on the ends feeling way more dry no matter what the cleanser is. I love that you are trying to find what’s working for YOUR hair ❤💙Say it louder for the people in the back. Thank you about the feed back on the oil pre poo/ detangling… because this has been done for centuries and it’s crazy to hear people saying it doesn’t work etc, it’s about how you are doing it and what oil are you using.😊
This is going to be the year and you know what I'm talking about. As a twist out natural, I loveeee hearing about your wash n go journey and your conclusions. Down to a science✨ wishing you ease this year.
I’m claiming it! I also love watching your twist out natural hair routine, and journey. So inspiring. One of these days this year I’m going to try twist out because y’all make it look so goood 💜 thanks Kia!
You just made me realize why I love the Pattern Detangling as a leave-in, as opposed to a prepoo. You're right that it's great at making the hair curl, which is great for styling.....not so much for detangling. That's also why I don't exactly love the African Pride prepoo for detangling. It really causes my hair to snag after a while because it's defining my hair. Great insights!
Finding a happy medium with cleansing has been my biggest hurdle. I’ve dealt with overcleansing to the point of dramatically raising my hair’s porosity, and I’ve battled with dehydrating product build up. My goal is to never have to endure either of those ever again, so I’m looking forward to seeing how you approach your cleansing process from here on out 🙏🏽 If you decide to create a Patreon, I’d definitely join. Your content is so high quality and informative (a rarity in the natural hair space, IMO) that I feel like I’d get my money’s worth.
I’m definitely trying to buy less this year, after a year of experimenting and figuring out what works best for me and finding some staple products! Otherwise, my main goal is to keep growing out as much as I can and just maintaining healthy hair 😊 I definitely learned a lot about my hair in 23 and sort of feel like I started my hair journey over fresh, which is a nice feeling.
Sounds like a sound and well tested regimen. I've returned to hot oil pre-poo. Most often I apply to targeted areas: Perimeter, ends, and crown. Cleansing 2-3x/week works. I totally agree with "low-buy". In fact, I am only repurchasing staples on sale!🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing your experience and reflecting on your current and future hair journey! Its great for thinking about where I want to go with mine in the future. Combo I had to talk about somewhere: By the way, since you love slip, I recently stumbled upon a LEGENDARY combo that I just had to tell someone about - So I've been kind of lazy and I haven't been deep conditioning. Instead, I use garnier's sleek & shine conditioner mixed with africa's best ultimate herbal oil and cantu kids styling custard (to be honest tho, it doesnt really feel like it does anything, I just chose it for the polyquaternium-37 in it). The oil works wonders- like the conditioner is the base and then the oil comes through with THAT SLIP; at that point, I wasn't even finger detangling because my hair detangled itself, it was smooth like butter -and the best thing is that these products are so cheap that I don't feel bad about using a bunch of product. I will say though, I've decided to do twists for a bit so I'm not sure how it would pan out as a wash & go but you neeed to try the conditioner and oil. My twists came out looking like I used a curling wand and I'm horrible at twists 😂 And regarding leaving a conditioner that's not marketed as a leave-in in my hair, my hair dried easily (didnt feel wet but still felt moisturized). I've experimented by leaving some deep conditioners in my hair and I found that they seriously retain water in my hair despite a long period of time passing (and usually water in hair for too long damages it). Curly hair is just a different breed when it comes to conditioners tbh and my hair doesn't really mind leaving conditioners in my hair so I just save money in doing so.
I'm going through a similar transition period around the shampoo I'm using weekly! My end just aren't feeling right and I get my hair trimmed regularly. I'm transitioning to using my moisture shampoo 2 weeks in a row then my all-purpose on the 3rd week(which I'm still deciding on which one is better for my hair), but I'm strongly considering just focusing on my scalp and not as much concentration on my ends. Also considering going back to deep conditioning weekly until my ends are back to a normal state. I love following your journey and everything you've shared has been so helpful!!!❤
I appreciate sitting in on your thoughts for your 2024 hair. I’ve had to actually strategize regarding my hair care for 2024. My hair has grown significantly since my big chop almost 1-1/2 yrs ago (I transitioned for 6 months before the big chop) and I’ve had to take stock of what I want to “do now” know what I mean? I discovered that my hair loves petroleum jelly as a moisturizing sealant and I just trimmed my hair today….all by myself!! I did it in the way that works for me. I’m protecting my hair during the Winter months with twists under head wraps and I feel good about this decision….although my husband tells me that he’s forgotten what my hair looks like! 🤣 I’ve learned that I seriously have to moisturize my hair even though it is in twists that never see the light of day. I wear WnG throughout Spring, Summer and Fall. I went with the Anthony Dickey method for my WnG hair and found “Perfection”! I don’t use co-Wash products….I call it a “Water Wash”. Hydrating my strands, rinsing off all products…applying conditioner and leave-in and calling it a day! Best of all….I will be washing my hair with water or shampoo IN THE KITCHEN SINK! I can not stand in the shower…naked and cold….just for my hair. 🥶 Thank you for inviting us to develop our individual intentionality regarding our hair care for 2024. Well done!!! 🙂
You too?! I cannot stand in the shower that long. I’m on well water so I don’t have a water bill but I still feel so wasteful when the shower water runs that long and being naked and wet that long standing there just grosses me out. I’m going back to the kitchen sink. And I don’t have to bend my head over. I can hold my head up and use the sprayer so the water runs downwards on my hair just like when I’m in the shower.
H2O Capsule (Amazon) is a great water bottle. I have a half gallon and full gallon. I had zero issues with my half, but there aren’t water fountains at my job where I can refill it midday. It has time markers too.
Great video! I was over-cleansing with shampoos and it caused irreversible damage for me. I have fine hair that is prone to more frizz before my wash day, so I've found the balance with using a pre-wash hair mask that has more emollients/humectants alongside the oil bc it softens my hair and gives it a hydrating boost for the shampoo. Re-introducing light-weight oils/creams and products that have oil as a primary ingredient is also helping my hair to make sure it's not brittle during the week :) My current hair goals are embracing my tight coils and continuing to invest in plant-based products/companies that are healthy for my skin/body.
Great video! I just discovered damp detangling last week myself. I was tired of the shower water getting cold and decided to detangle on dry hair. I spritz a little water in it and added just a tiny bit of the Curlsmith Curl Bond treatment. I was worried becuase it had been 2 weeks since my last wash. But I ended up losing the same amount of hair that I normally lose in 1 week...half of what I expected. Going to be trying this more often for sure!
Brittney, yes clay wash is money. It clarifies without stripping. I use a rhassoul clay that I buy on Amazon by Halal Everyday (the bag lasts forever). Over time, the clay also makes my 4c curls pop, pop, pop! It can take practice (to get the best consistency for you) but hopefully you like it! So true on rushing through detangling being the Achilles heel! Same for me too. Thanks for your content.
I found your content about a month ago and I'm obsessed. I wear a wash n go most of the time (you can see in my video). I first had my hair cut at Hair Rules in NYC and now I maintain it on my own. The only thing is, I'm not retaining length. My fro has been about the same for a few years. I'm excited to try out some of your techniques to see if I can get over the hump. Re: Shampoo - Aunt Jackie's Oh So Clean is my holy grail moisturizing shampoo. I can literally detangle with it. But I'm a product hoarder so I'm now trying out something from Camille Rose. I hope 2024 brings you all the hair joy in the world!
I'm with you on the love of mousse. I realized that I was using mousse literally every week with every set. Even though I started trying different creams I ended up feeling like they were just an extra layer of product with no real benefit for me. So I decided to just use leave-in (moisture milk) and mousse (The Doux Honey Foam) for my sets whether it's a wNg or twist out. And it has simplified styling so much..and it works great for me.
I hope that you achieve all that you want with your hair, your channel, and your life!!💜 After being diagnosed with CCCA in Dec 2022 my only goal is to keep my hair on my head. I don't use any product that isn't approved or prescribed by my derm.
Welp, to answer your question I am currently wearing my hair straight because of the weather. It's a nice change of pace and I don't have to deal with the humidity. So I go see my stylist and she blows my hair out and I get a silk press. It usually last about 3 weeks if you take good care of it. It's been a much needed break from my wash and go, Even though I love it, lol But I have been enjoying not washing my hair every other minute. This is really giving my hair a chance to just relax and breathe... And no I don't mean relax as in a relaxer LOL But I am enjoying the silk presses. I enjoyed your pep talk as it definitely spoke to me. Glad things are going well for you and again I'm still jelly that you got to sit in Tippy's chair!!!!!!!! Fan girl here.
Welcome to the Fable and Mane GANG. I actually don’t use it to detangle I use it the night before I wash (my hair is still short) . But I’ve noted your technique when my hair gets longer. You might also like Shaz & Kiks Essential Prewash it definitely will help detangle without the clumping and the benefits of fable and mane.
Omg, my jaw just dropped, lol you got your hair style by TIPPY!!!! 😮😮😮 She has been in the game for so long and is so freaking talented like so amazing!!!! I am officially super jelly but I'll get over it, lol wow what an experience!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bri, PREACH GIRL, PREACH!! AMEN!! I'm feeling you on that. love your self, love your hair, love everything about yourself, because God make no mistakes. I love my hair so much its crazy. I get a lot of stares and mouth hung open , only because they have never seen anyone hair like mine. I take good care of my 4c coily shorthair and my curls pop a lot. To be honest " I THINK I'M CUTE WHEN GET DRESS AND GO OUT! I get lots of compliments on my hair. When you take time out to do your hair and pour love into it , it shows. my hair is flurishing so much, ....my hair clumps up now which make styling easier. and Yes Bri , I copy off the Quidad products also. my hair love those products. Thank you Bri so much for all that you do for us. God Bless you! have a wonderful day
I loved the end. I'm also in a space where I want the best for my hair and I am going to do everything in my power to make it happen. I've been learning so much in my 4 year journey that I am ready to take it to another level. This year is going to be awesome! I've learned so much from you and appreciate you sharing your journey. Thank you!
Have you tried using the African Pride pre-poo as a styler ? We have very similar hair texture and I agree with your point of how defined it makes my hair during the “Detangling” . So I’d be open to using it as a styler . BUT I’m not sure of the drying results being that it isn’t made to stay in
I haven’t, but when I used it as a prepoo it was reminding me of a wore version of curly magic. I definitely don’t think it’d be good as a styler, but I do know it makes my hair react like a gel styler does.
So glad to see you talking about ur hair experiences again! Man u make that fable & mane oil sound so good, I've seen it on TikTok but was wary about its hype being paid sponsorships and I already have so many oils. I tried oil detangling dry because another certain stylist said it was the best thing to do. I tried it for about a month (so like 4 washes) it didn't work at all for me, it was too dry and I lost a lot of my ends. But I don't even think i've seen that AHG video about damp detangling with oil before! So I might have to try again with oil but damp. I was damp detangling with another product tho, Epres, it's another bond builder, but it's a very watery mister and has a softening effect so it's surprisingly not bad for detangling damp!! the only drawback is that it dries relatively quickly so i had to work in smaller sections than desired, but the fast drying aspect makes it great for overnight usage. Epres did actually help a bit with my heat damage, as it used to be straighter but it's a little slow to work considering the significance of my damage (took about 2 months/8 washes to see an improvement in my elasticity) and I know it's the Epres working because I've had heat damage 3x now over the last 10 years and i never saw any improvement before (back then the only thing you could do was protein treatments and grow it out, which didn't do shit for me really aside from grow new hair) However, I'm taking a break from buying another set of Epres vials, because I wanted to use k18. So I wanted to see how k18 reacts with my (now heat-damaged,) hair alone. (actually, I typed this out before you mentioned Epresdaunting in the video looool). That and I plan on big chopping in the spring, so I'm very interested in getting to k18 and getting at least 6 usages out of it since idk when my hair will ever be this damaged again. and hopefully it never will be lol. but I was curious to see if I could potentially find a sure way to "heal" heat damage through bond repair in the future. I hadn't Epres tried using oil with epres, but another creator I like was doing it and I was soo curious, but because I'm "testing" I held back lool I actually have the weirdest experience with my current shampoo (Adwoa Baomint) it used to tangle my hair up so bad (but i had like 3 bottles and the deep conditioners is very good at detangling so I didn't mind), I think because it was too moisturizing. but I want to say that ever since i got heat damage, it doesn't tangle as bad if at all. maybe it's the looser texture because I used to be very 4C, and now I've got multiple textures between 3C and 4B. but I do still plan on changing my shampoo to something else I'm also not that into raw oils, but I love hair oils for how soft and buttery they feel, they glide through hair very well too when formulated nicely. When it comes to trims, i'm actually trying to aim for trimming less, but I'm still trying to figure that out without getting an excessive amount of damage, which is why I'm just starting over since my split-end damage has been pretty aggressive for the last few years and I realized why (both my and my stylist's detangling brush, an EZ detangler). But basically, i havent retained any length over the last 5 years between my own and my stylists bad habits. I know i typed a lot, but I can't help it. not really anticipating how people will treat me aftecuttingIut my hair especially since I don't plan on telling anyone irl. they'll all just talk me out of it because my hair is longer than most girls around me but it's only about armpit length really and i want to get my hair longer, the split ends are holding me back. but there's not many girls who have hair just cut off like that so you give me a lot of courage for talking about your experience all this time, so thank you a lot for being a creator. Also hey i actually think you have the perfect kind of content for tiktok. So i'm sure you will figure out what works best for you if you ever go through with it!
I don't like detangling in the shower either. Not because it takes long for me because my hair isn't that dense; I just don't like all that hair in the tub and drain. I started pre detangling on damp hair. But I use conditioner or leave in. I even used Quiet Calm Curl Control once and I really liked my shampoo experience afterwards. I also start with a wide tooth comb, then follow up with the brush. As for cleansing, if you are cleansing twice a week, do you have to double cleanse each time? My understanding is double cleansing is necessary when the first round isn't sufficient. Lastly bond builders, I'm not so sure K18 makes a noticeable difference for me. But I have begun using Aveda's bond building leave in. They even have a bond building styling cream. I opted for the leave in because I didn't want any hold in the cream. I've been liking my hair more since I incorporated it. I use it as a leave in post conditioner not in place of conditioner like K18 suggests.
Oh my gosh, I have both of these! I haven’t used them yet, but these are the only two clay cleansers/detoxes I have right now, so it’s great to know that they are working for you.
This year, I think I wanna focus on the shape of my hair and not just going after length. I still want length, but I’m not always loving my shape like I want to. I also want to take better care of my ends.
Great video and love your thoughts at the end ! For me in 2024 I just want to be able to style more my hair . I've twicked my routine like reintroducing leave in back in 2023 and since it has gotten colder I've be prepooing . I always done it but for the past two year I kind of let it go because I felt it would make my wash day to long. The day before wash day I prepoo with warm water with aloe vera or light oil. I feel my hair likes it and I see less hair in the shower.
Also, have you ever tried their vitamins? I've been taking the curlsmith vitamins and they really are a game changer. It's been over a year now and I can say I have seen such a change in the overall look and feel of my hair. It's stronger than ever and very resilient.
I like to buy my new products at target cuz if i dont like it, imma return it! Ive returned so much stuff that juat didnt work for me. Didnt spend a dime finding new products unless they actually worked.
Love your channel! You’ve really helped me navigate the *formulated* butters and oils journey 💚. Have you tried the following combo: Kinky Curly Knot Today, She Scent It Plum Nectar & Agave Custard, and ENBBA Naturals Gel? This is my go to combo every single wash day. The shine, definition, moisture and overall lightness has seriously pushed out every other combo. I am currently using squalane oil for my finishing oil, like a pea size amount once my hair is completely dry. I’m super stoked to see your 2024 journey and as always thanks for sharing your journey
Pre-poo for the win! I started last month and I use Aunt Jackie's Knot on My Watch (on dry hair). I loovvee it!! Also just started using CURLS Creamy Curl Cleanser because I wanted a gentler cleanser. It's low suds... pretty much a co-wash I guess. But I really like it. And it clumps my curls so much and feels really good.
I only use products with oils and butters formulated for them. Every 3mos trim for me. I almost changed it and I saw your video and it reminded me why change it.
Don't go long in between washes/detangling. Like I do that every 7 to 9 days. Even if it's just detangling and putting my hair back in a style and not washing. The more shedded hair, the most complications with detangling. Detangle before washing. Use slippery products like a conditioner before shampooing to detangle first. Even if you wash every two weeks, always re moisturize and style after a week to get some of those shedded hair out
I have med-high dense hair. Try starting by working your hair in sections. Take your time detangling. I like to start off by finger detangling (it helps to separate knots and get rid of shed hair).
Thank you so much . I do detangle with conditioner before shampooing. I think my problem is that I don't detangle as often because of my schedule. I appreciate your response.@@curlynella1011
Noted. I will also apply this to my regimen. I just dread having to detangle. I know it is part of the process though. I am not trying to complain, believe me. I just want to simplify things that way I won't feel overwhelmed. Thanks so much for your feedback. I appreciate it. @@CakednBaked1
LOVE this video, it’s really nice hearing you talk about your plans and your hair. Great video 💕✨ my goals for 2024 are to grow my hair out. I’ve been a blonde wash and go natural since late 2022 and I cut my hair a few months ago. I’m excited to use the products that I love and see my hair flourish ☺️
When you said, "We've already done that. We were doing that back in the 2010s...It doesn't work, we've moved on to this." I'm assuming you were referring to the daily cowashing or the Anthony Dickey method. What have you heard about why it doesn't work? The same reasons why you say it didn't work for you? Too laborious?
I was speaking in general about anything that I try. I’ve had people tell me that it’s an old method, and that we moved onto something that works better. However, I wouldn’t have known it didn’t work for me if I didn’t try it myself. Now I know that cleansing my scalp two times a week is what I need. But even that is something that other people think is too much. For me, the Anthony Dickey method is too laborious. I don’t think it’s harmful. I just know that if I hate doing it, I’m going to damage my hair doing it.
ive also thought something similar for cleansing. i dont bring the shampoo down on second cleanse in the week cause i dont need too. also yeah the oil prepoo i see most ppl do on damp hair 12:18
I have come back to this video so many times. Lol. It's so good. This time though 🤣 I'm back to say I finally bought the Ouidad Cleansing Oil Shampoo and 🤯🤌🏾😍 I'm mad I waited so long. I kept being wishy washy about getting it for many months. Got it a few days ago at Sally's for 25% off. It is worth EVERY penny! Thank ya for sharing. 🎉
I would just caution - too much of a good thing isn’t necessarily good. There are reports of folks that have hair damage from over-use of bond builders. Especially in terms of using all of the products of the line. I’ve seen some examples presented by stylists on IG. If your hair is in overall good health, I think that’s the risk. I have bleached hair, but still only use Olaplex once a month, with a protein conditioner every other week. For me, that’s been more than enough, to the point that my hair is doing so well that I’m growing out my short tapered cut.
I have the Innersense true enlightenment scalp scrub, but the product that I purchased this month is the Amika Reset. I apply this to my scalp to have a pre-poo that is sudsy on my scalp after I’ve let the oil sit for hours. It sudses up really well and it does a nice job of cleansing my scalp. I hadn’t really thought about apple cider vinegar tonics, so thank you for pointing that out. I’ll definitely look into them! Any suggestions?
I use epres and it’s really good. Very easy to use, and you can use it overnight. And I find that I really did not need to spray a lot into my hair to get a coated. Just suction my hair and sprayed it and really massaged it into my scalp put a cap on and went about my day until I was ready to wash it. I think it’s a lot better than The olapex Just cause I can go about my day while using it. It works really well for my lifestyle. I think you might like it. 22:01
Yes, for a wash and go. For example, the pattern cream. I do have a video where I used it underneath their custard, but not a gel. I absolutely loved it.
Honestly, it went by really fast because I was doing it so much that my hair wasn’t tangled or anything. It became a part of my shower routine. I would just wake up an hour earlier so that I would have time to wash and then sit under the dryer. I just hated touching my hair every day lol it felt like a chore. I stopped looking forward to it, and started dreading it around day three and four. I was like Yep, this ain’t gonna work for me.
Girl I don't how anyone can detangle in the shower I could never the way I despise it 😣 no matter how many times I watch people do it that could never be my journey if I can't do it outside the shower im throwing the entire wash day away
Hi Brittany I’m sorry that when you big chopped your hair in 2020 that people were mean to you 😢. When you say people were “mean” to you do you mean that they treated you differently because you have short hair?
Basically, people who liked me because of my hair are no longer are in my life. It really illustrated how big of a role hair and the concept of beauty plays in how you’re treated. People would stare at me a little too long with weird faces, I noticed people weren’t as kind as when my hair was longer. I had people who were close to me say nasty things. It just showed me a lot about the perception of beauty and how that plays out in the real world treatment of a person.
@@BrittanyMiaOn a similar note, I have two daughters who were once overweight and have since lost weight. They both say people in general are much nicer to them now. It saddens them both that they are treated differently just because they’re slimmer 😢
“i’m not what has been done to me, i am how i respond” 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My grandma used to say everything come back. I’m 73 and I’ve had to learn to be me and appreciate me so I get your rant.
“I’m tired of circling back. I just want to go forward.” Quote of the day. Inspired me to not cut again but keep going. Also, can be used for other aspects of life.
I said ain’t no way I’m watching this whole 40min. And what I do? Watch it and about to watch again. 😂
this was me lolol
🤣 I knooow. When I was editing, I was like ain’t no way this is 40 minutes. But it was worth it!
@@BrittanyMiamake more long videos! i love them and your entire personality!
Instead of adding a prepoo, in a warm shower, I wet my brush and begin detangle my hair from tip to root. The gel that is already in my hair becomes hydrated and imparts the slip that I need to detangle. As I have resistance in detangling I wet my brush in with water in a warm shower. This usually takes 10 minutes and then I proceed to rinse under my shower head.
I am feeling you on the ends feeling way more dry no matter what the cleanser is. I love that you are trying to find what’s working for YOUR hair ❤💙Say it louder for the people in the back. Thank you about the feed back on the oil pre poo/ detangling… because this has been done for centuries and it’s crazy to hear people saying it doesn’t work etc, it’s about how you are doing it and what oil are you using.😊
This is going to be the year and you know what I'm talking about.
As a twist out natural, I loveeee hearing about your wash n go journey and your conclusions. Down to a science✨ wishing you ease this year.
…also love lab muffin and uhh I want that fable & mane oil, but you know, “no buy” until I just have to have something✨
I’m claiming it!
I also love watching your twist out natural hair routine, and journey. So inspiring. One of these days this year I’m going to try twist out because y’all make it look so goood 💜 thanks Kia!
I just know you’re gonna love it whenever you do get it. It’s so good 🖤
That's so true, wash and gos do not break off your hair, we do!!!!
I truuuuuly believe this. I know for a fact that they don’t work for everyone, but they can for sure.
You just made me realize why I love the Pattern Detangling as a leave-in, as opposed to a prepoo. You're right that it's great at making the hair curl, which is great for styling.....not so much for detangling.
That's also why I don't exactly love the African Pride prepoo for detangling. It really causes my hair to snag after a while because it's defining my hair. Great insights!
Exactly!!
Finding a happy medium with cleansing has been my biggest hurdle. I’ve dealt with overcleansing to the point of dramatically raising my hair’s porosity, and I’ve battled with dehydrating product build up. My goal is to never have to endure either of those ever again, so I’m looking forward to seeing how you approach your cleansing process from here on out 🙏🏽
If you decide to create a Patreon, I’d definitely join. Your content is so high quality and informative (a rarity in the natural hair space, IMO) that I feel like I’d get my money’s worth.
I’m definitely trying to buy less this year, after a year of experimenting and figuring out what works best for me and finding some staple products! Otherwise, my main goal is to keep growing out as much as I can and just maintaining healthy hair 😊 I definitely learned a lot about my hair in 23 and sort of feel like I started my hair journey over fresh, which is a nice feeling.
Sounds like a sound and well tested regimen. I've returned to hot oil pre-poo. Most often I apply to targeted areas: Perimeter, ends, and crown. Cleansing 2-3x/week works. I totally agree with "low-buy". In fact, I am only repurchasing staples on sale!🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing your experience and reflecting on your current and future hair journey! Its great for thinking about where I want to go with mine in the future.
Combo I had to talk about somewhere:
By the way, since you love slip, I recently stumbled upon a LEGENDARY combo that I just had to tell someone about - So I've been kind of lazy and I haven't been deep conditioning. Instead, I use garnier's sleek & shine conditioner mixed with africa's best ultimate herbal oil and cantu kids styling custard (to be honest tho, it doesnt really feel like it does anything, I just chose it for the polyquaternium-37 in it). The oil works wonders- like the conditioner is the base and then the oil comes through with THAT SLIP; at that point, I wasn't even finger detangling because my hair detangled itself, it was smooth like butter -and the best thing is that these products are so cheap that I don't feel bad about using a bunch of product. I will say though, I've decided to do twists for a bit so I'm not sure how it would pan out as a wash & go but you neeed to try the conditioner and oil. My twists came out looking like I used a curling wand and I'm horrible at twists 😂
And regarding leaving a conditioner that's not marketed as a leave-in in my hair, my hair dried easily (didnt feel wet but still felt moisturized). I've experimented by leaving some deep conditioners in my hair and I found that they seriously retain water in my hair despite a long period of time passing (and usually water in hair for too long damages it). Curly hair is just a different breed when it comes to conditioners tbh and my hair doesn't really mind leaving conditioners in my hair so I just save money in doing so.
I'm going through a similar transition period around the shampoo I'm using weekly! My end just aren't feeling right and I get my hair trimmed regularly. I'm transitioning to using my moisture shampoo 2 weeks in a row then my all-purpose on the 3rd week(which I'm still deciding on which one is better for my hair), but I'm strongly considering just focusing on my scalp and not as much concentration on my ends. Also considering going back to deep conditioning weekly until my ends are back to a normal state. I love following your journey and everything you've shared has been so helpful!!!❤
African Pride Preepoo is amazing. I just started prepooing last month and I love it.
My sister loves that one. I tried the Just For Me Curl Peace detangler and it’s my favorite
I appreciate sitting in on your thoughts for your 2024 hair. I’ve had to actually strategize regarding my hair care for 2024. My hair has grown significantly since my big chop almost 1-1/2 yrs ago (I transitioned for 6 months before the big chop) and I’ve had to take stock of what I want to “do now” know what I mean? I discovered that my hair loves petroleum jelly as a moisturizing sealant and I just trimmed my hair today….all by myself!! I did it in the way that works for me. I’m protecting my hair during the Winter months with twists under head wraps and I feel good about this decision….although my husband tells me that he’s forgotten what my hair looks like! 🤣 I’ve learned that I seriously have to moisturize my hair even though it is in twists that never see the light of day. I wear WnG throughout Spring, Summer and Fall. I went with the Anthony Dickey method for my WnG hair and found “Perfection”! I don’t use co-Wash products….I call it a “Water Wash”. Hydrating my strands, rinsing off all products…applying conditioner and leave-in and calling it a day! Best of all….I will be washing my hair with water or shampoo IN THE KITCHEN SINK! I can not stand in the shower…naked and cold….just for my hair. 🥶 Thank you for inviting us to develop our individual intentionality regarding our hair care for 2024. Well done!!! 🙂
You too?! I cannot stand in the shower that long. I’m on well water so I don’t have a water bill but I still feel so wasteful when the shower water runs that long and being naked and wet that long standing there just grosses me out. I’m going back to the kitchen sink. And I don’t have to bend my head over. I can hold my head up and use the sprayer so the water runs downwards on my hair just like when I’m in the shower.
H2O Capsule (Amazon) is a great water bottle. I have a half gallon and full gallon. I had zero issues with my half, but there aren’t water fountains at my job where I can refill it midday. It has time markers too.
Great video! I was over-cleansing with shampoos and it caused irreversible damage for me. I have fine hair that is prone to more frizz before my wash day, so I've found the balance with using a pre-wash hair mask that has more emollients/humectants alongside the oil bc it softens my hair and gives it a hydrating boost for the shampoo.
Re-introducing light-weight oils/creams and products that have oil as a primary ingredient is also helping my hair to make sure it's not brittle during the week :) My current hair goals are embracing my tight coils and continuing to invest in plant-based products/companies that are healthy for my skin/body.
Great video! I just discovered damp detangling last week myself. I was tired of the shower water getting cold and decided to detangle on dry hair. I spritz a little water in it and added just a tiny bit of the Curlsmith Curl Bond treatment. I was worried becuase it had been 2 weeks since my last wash. But I ended up losing the same amount of hair that I normally lose in 1 week...half of what I expected. Going to be trying this more often for sure!
Brittney, yes clay wash is money. It clarifies without stripping. I use a rhassoul clay that I buy on Amazon by Halal Everyday (the bag lasts forever). Over time, the clay also makes my 4c curls pop, pop, pop! It can take practice (to get the best consistency for you) but hopefully you like it!
So true on rushing through detangling being the Achilles heel! Same for me too. Thanks for your content.
I found your content about a month ago and I'm obsessed.
I wear a wash n go most of the time (you can see in my video). I first had my hair cut at Hair Rules in NYC and now I maintain it on my own. The only thing is, I'm not retaining length. My fro has been about the same for a few years. I'm excited to try out some of your techniques to see if I can get over the hump.
Re: Shampoo - Aunt Jackie's Oh So Clean is my holy grail moisturizing shampoo. I can literally detangle with it. But I'm a product hoarder so I'm now trying out something from Camille Rose.
I hope 2024 brings you all the hair joy in the world!
I love these longer form videos! and I love how you go about analyzing your hair. Its really a love language between you and yourself!
Focusing this year on overall health vs hair products and technique. I have anemia so I need to fix that first before my hair can thrive.
Same. Have you tried the Megafood Blood Builder? It’s helped me so much.
@@BrittanyMiayou are the second person to recommend it. I’m going to try!
I'm with you on the love of mousse. I realized that I was using mousse literally every week with every set. Even though I started trying different creams I ended up feeling like they were just an extra layer of product with no real benefit for me. So I decided to just use leave-in (moisture milk) and mousse (The Doux Honey Foam) for my sets whether it's a wNg or twist out. And it has simplified styling so much..and it works great for me.
I am so glad somebody else said it. I feel the same way my ends don't need shampoo every time i do prepoo with oil and my hair loves it.
If there was a *prettiest woman without makeup conrest* you'd win....you certainly have my vote!
We appreciate you! ❤
I appreciate your in depth explanation of what you have discovered so far, and your future plans.
I hope that you achieve all that you want with your hair, your channel, and your life!!💜 After being diagnosed with CCCA in Dec 2022 my only goal is to keep my hair on my head. I don't use any product that isn't approved or prescribed by my derm.
you're the only youtuber that keeps me engaged for a whole 40 mins 😂😂😂😂😂 I love your long videos.
I really enjoyed this video! 🥰💙.. Thank you so much for sharing 💙.. I agree 100% .. I want my natural hair to be extremely healthy!
Welp, to answer your question I am currently wearing my hair straight because of the weather. It's a nice change of pace and I don't have to deal with the humidity. So I go see my stylist and she blows my hair out and I get a silk press. It usually last about 3 weeks if you take good care of it. It's been a much needed break from my wash and go, Even though I love it, lol But I have been enjoying not washing my hair every other minute. This is really giving my hair a chance to just relax and breathe... And no I don't mean relax as in a relaxer LOL But I am enjoying the silk presses. I enjoyed your pep talk as it definitely spoke to me. Glad things are going well for you and again I'm still jelly that you got to sit in Tippy's chair!!!!!!!! Fan girl here.
Welcome to the Fable and Mane GANG. I actually don’t use it to detangle I use it the night before I wash (my hair is still short) . But I’ve noted your technique when my hair gets longer. You might also like Shaz & Kiks Essential Prewash it definitely will help detangle without the clumping and the benefits of fable and mane.
Omg, my jaw just dropped, lol you got your hair style by TIPPY!!!! 😮😮😮 She has been in the game for so long and is so freaking talented like so amazing!!!! I am officially super jelly but I'll get over it, lol wow what an experience!!!!!!!!!!!!
She’s amazing 🤩 such a great personality and so talented! You’ll have to check her out now that she has a salon in Downtown KCMO. Hair Love KC ❤️
Bri, PREACH GIRL, PREACH!! AMEN!! I'm feeling you on that. love your self, love your hair, love everything about yourself, because God make no mistakes. I love my hair so much its crazy. I get a lot of stares and mouth hung open , only because they have never seen anyone hair like mine. I take good care of my 4c coily shorthair and my curls pop a lot. To be honest " I THINK I'M CUTE WHEN GET DRESS AND GO OUT! I get lots of compliments on my hair. When you take time out to do your hair and pour love into it , it shows. my hair is flurishing so much, ....my hair clumps up now which make styling easier. and Yes Bri , I copy off the Quidad products also. my hair love those products. Thank you Bri so much for all that you do for us. God Bless you! have a wonderful day
I loved the end. I'm also in a space where I want the best for my hair and I am going to do everything in my power to make it happen. I've been learning so much in my 4 year journey that I am ready to take it to another level. This year is going to be awesome! I've learned so much from you and appreciate you sharing your journey. Thank you!
I know what you said about buying for 2024. However, I'm hoping you give Kinky Tresses shampoo a try
Have you tried using the African Pride pre-poo as a styler ? We have very similar hair texture and I agree with your point of how defined it makes my hair during the “Detangling” . So I’d be open to using it as a styler . BUT I’m not sure of the drying results being that it isn’t made to stay in
I haven’t, but when I used it as a prepoo it was reminding me of a wore version of curly magic. I definitely don’t think it’d be good as a styler, but I do know it makes my hair react like a gel styler does.
So glad to see you talking about ur hair experiences again!
Man u make that fable & mane oil sound so good, I've seen it on TikTok but was wary about its hype being paid sponsorships and I already have so many oils. I tried oil detangling dry because another certain stylist said it was the best thing to do. I tried it for about a month (so like 4 washes) it didn't work at all for me, it was too dry and I lost a lot of my ends. But I don't even think i've seen that AHG video about damp detangling with oil before! So I might have to try again with oil but damp. I was damp detangling with another product tho, Epres, it's another bond builder, but it's a very watery mister and has a softening effect so it's surprisingly not bad for detangling damp!! the only drawback is that it dries relatively quickly so i had to work in smaller sections than desired, but the fast drying aspect makes it great for overnight usage. Epres did actually help a bit with my heat damage, as it used to be straighter but it's a little slow to work considering the significance of my damage (took about 2 months/8 washes to see an improvement in my elasticity) and I know it's the Epres working because I've had heat damage 3x now over the last 10 years and i never saw any improvement before (back then the only thing you could do was protein treatments and grow it out, which didn't do shit for me really aside from grow new hair)
However, I'm taking a break from buying another set of Epres vials, because I wanted to use k18. So I wanted to see how k18 reacts with my (now heat-damaged,) hair alone. (actually, I typed this out before you mentioned Epresdaunting in the video looool). That and I plan on big chopping in the spring, so I'm very interested in getting to k18 and getting at least 6 usages out of it since idk when my hair will ever be this damaged again. and hopefully it never will be lol. but I was curious to see if I could potentially find a sure way to "heal" heat damage through bond repair in the future. I hadn't Epres tried using oil with epres, but another creator I like was doing it and I was soo curious, but because I'm "testing" I held back lool
I actually have the weirdest experience with my current shampoo (Adwoa Baomint) it used to tangle my hair up so bad (but i had like 3 bottles and the deep conditioners is very good at detangling so I didn't mind), I think because it was too moisturizing. but I want to say that ever since i got heat damage, it doesn't tangle as bad if at all. maybe it's the looser texture because I used to be very 4C, and now I've got multiple textures between 3C and 4B. but I do still plan on changing my shampoo to something else
I'm also not that into raw oils, but I love hair oils for how soft and buttery they feel, they glide through hair very well too when formulated nicely. When it comes to trims, i'm actually trying to aim for trimming less, but I'm still trying to figure that out without getting an excessive amount of damage, which is why I'm just starting over since my split-end damage has been pretty aggressive for the last few years and I realized why (both my and my stylist's detangling brush, an EZ detangler). But basically, i havent retained any length over the last 5 years between my own and my stylists bad habits.
I know i typed a lot, but I can't help it. not really anticipating how people will treat me aftecuttingIut my hair especially since I don't plan on telling anyone irl. they'll all just talk me out of it because my hair is longer than most girls around me but it's only about armpit length really and i want to get my hair longer, the split ends are holding me back. but there's not many girls who have hair just cut off like that so you give me a lot of courage for talking about your experience all this time, so thank you a lot for being a creator. Also hey i actually think you have the perfect kind of content for tiktok. So i'm sure you will figure out what works best for you if you ever go through with it!
I don't like detangling in the shower either. Not because it takes long for me because my hair isn't that dense; I just don't like all that hair in the tub and drain. I started pre detangling on damp hair. But I use conditioner or leave in. I even used Quiet Calm Curl Control once and I really liked my shampoo experience afterwards. I also start with a wide tooth comb, then follow up with the brush.
As for cleansing, if you are cleansing twice a week, do you have to double cleanse each time? My understanding is double cleansing is necessary when the first round isn't sufficient.
Lastly bond builders, I'm not so sure K18 makes a noticeable difference for me. But I have begun using Aveda's bond building leave in. They even have a bond building styling cream. I opted for the leave in because I didn't want any hold in the cream. I've been liking my hair more since I incorporated it. I use it as a leave in post conditioner not in place of conditioner like K18 suggests.
I'm fighting over-cleansing by cowashing with clay cleansers (Innersense detox clay mask thing and Trepadora clay rinse). Works for meee
Oh my gosh, I have both of these! I haven’t used them yet, but these are the only two clay cleansers/detoxes I have right now, so it’s great to know that they are working for you.
Love the Innersense detox mask. It is SOOO softening and gentle. 🤌🏾
Yes, some pre poos reactivate the products you have in your hair that's why I use oil on damp hair
This year, I think I wanna focus on the shape of my hair and not just going after length. I still want length, but I’m not always loving my shape like I want to.
I also want to take better care of my ends.
Great video and love your thoughts at the end ! For me in 2024 I just want to be able to style more my hair . I've twicked my routine like reintroducing leave in back in 2023 and since it has gotten colder I've be prepooing . I always done it but for the past two year I kind of let it go because I felt it would make my wash day to long. The day before wash day I prepoo with warm water with aloe vera or light oil. I feel my hair likes it and I see less hair in the shower.
Keep doing you! My afro has become my signature look but as I continue to grey I’m considering locs…5-10 years from now
Hey Brittany! I really appreciate you sharing your wash and go journey. Looking forward to seeing what 2024 has in store for you 🩷
Such great information! Thanks for sharing your experience. (I love Ouidad's oil shampoo, too!)
Also, have you ever tried their vitamins? I've been taking the curlsmith vitamins and they really are a game changer. It's been over a year now and I can say I have seen such a change in the overall look and feel of my hair. It's stronger than ever and very resilient.
I like to buy my new products at target cuz if i dont like it, imma return it! Ive returned so much stuff that juat didnt work for me. Didnt spend a dime finding new products unless they actually worked.
Try no suds shampoo. I’m looking into NYC curls curls cleansers or hair rules cleanser.
Love your channel! You’ve really helped me navigate the *formulated* butters and oils journey 💚. Have you tried the following combo: Kinky Curly Knot Today, She Scent It Plum Nectar & Agave Custard, and ENBBA Naturals Gel? This is my go to combo every single wash day. The shine, definition, moisture and overall lightness has seriously pushed out every other combo. I am currently using squalane oil for my finishing oil, like a pea size amount once my hair is completely dry. I’m super stoked to see your 2024 journey and as always thanks for sharing your journey
Love your videos! Great insight and information. Have you tried the Hairrules cleanser for hair?
Thanks! I purchased it on Black Friday! I’m soooo excited to try it.
Pre-poo for the win! I started last month and I use Aunt Jackie's Knot on My Watch (on dry hair). I loovvee it!! Also just started using CURLS Creamy Curl Cleanser because I wanted a gentler cleanser. It's low suds... pretty much a co-wash I guess. But I really like it. And it clumps my curls so much and feels really good.
I only use products with oils and butters formulated for them. Every 3mos trim for me. I almost changed it and I saw your video and it reminded me why change it.
I hate detangling as well! I have high density hair & it is time consuming. Can anyone give me tips? I surely will appreciate it.
Don't go long in between washes/detangling. Like I do that every 7 to 9 days. Even if it's just detangling and putting my hair back in a style and not washing. The more shedded hair, the most complications with detangling. Detangle before washing. Use slippery products like a conditioner before shampooing to detangle first. Even if you wash every two weeks, always re moisturize and style after a week to get some of those shedded hair out
I have med-high dense hair. Try starting by working your hair in sections. Take your time detangling. I like to start off by finger detangling (it helps to separate knots and get rid of shed hair).
Thank you so much . I do detangle with conditioner before shampooing. I think my problem is that I don't detangle as often because of my schedule. I appreciate your response.@@curlynella1011
Noted. I will also apply this to my regimen. I just dread having to detangle. I know it is part of the process though. I am not trying to complain, believe me. I just want to simplify things that way I won't feel overwhelmed. Thanks so much for your feedback. I appreciate it. @@CakednBaked1
LOVE this video, it’s really nice hearing you talk about your plans and your hair. Great video 💕✨ my goals for 2024 are to grow my hair out. I’ve been a blonde wash and go natural since late 2022 and I cut my hair a few months ago. I’m excited to use the products that I love and see my hair flourish ☺️
I love these hair goals! I feel very aligned with you on a lot of them 👍🏼
Is pattern your favorite combo? I cant find an up to date go to video for your wash and gos
Yeah. I’m always using Pattern beauty leave in and custard or Innersense quiet calm curl control, and I create volume.
Such a great vid. Rant was 💯💯
Appreciate it ✨
When you said, "We've already done that. We were doing that back in the 2010s...It doesn't work, we've moved on to this." I'm assuming you were referring to the daily cowashing or the Anthony Dickey method. What have you heard about why it doesn't work? The same reasons why you say it didn't work for you? Too laborious?
I was speaking in general about anything that I try. I’ve had people tell me that it’s an old method, and that we moved onto something that works better. However, I wouldn’t have known it didn’t work for me if I didn’t try it myself. Now I know that cleansing my scalp two times a week is what I need. But even that is something that other people think is too much.
For me, the Anthony Dickey method is too laborious. I don’t think it’s harmful. I just know that if I hate doing it, I’m going to damage my hair doing it.
@@BrittanyMia Got it.Thanks!
That last message should be your upload to tiktok. 👏 🎉❤
ive also thought something similar for cleansing. i dont bring the shampoo down on second cleanse in the week cause i dont need too. also yeah the oil prepoo i see most ppl do on damp hair 12:18
I have come back to this video so many times. Lol. It's so good. This time though 🤣 I'm back to say I finally bought the Ouidad Cleansing Oil Shampoo and 🤯🤌🏾😍 I'm mad I waited so long. I kept being wishy washy about getting it for many months. Got it a few days ago at Sally's for 25% off. It is worth EVERY penny! Thank ya for sharing. 🎉
Transitioned to crochet for the winter
I like no foam cleansing creams for my hair
Love to see the grind ❤❤❤❤❤
Yes well said 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻💖 my hair goals dealing with Gray hair 😉
You got this 💪🏾❣️
Waiting on the updated detangling process?😊
I would just caution - too much of a good thing isn’t necessarily good. There are reports of folks that have hair damage from over-use of bond builders. Especially in terms of using all of the products of the line. I’ve seen some examples presented by stylists on IG. If your hair is in overall good health, I think that’s the risk. I have bleached hair, but still only use Olaplex once a month, with a protein conditioner every other week. For me, that’s been more than enough, to the point that my hair is doing so well that I’m growing out my short tapered cut.
What about scalp scrubs and apple cider vinegar tonics rinse along with your co-wash routine?
I have the Innersense true enlightenment scalp scrub, but the product that I purchased this month is the Amika Reset. I apply this to my scalp to have a pre-poo that is sudsy on my scalp after I’ve let the oil sit for hours. It sudses up really well and it does a nice job of cleansing my scalp.
I hadn’t really thought about apple cider vinegar tonics, so thank you for pointing that out. I’ll definitely look into them! Any suggestions?
Is it the HoliRoots Fable & Mane oil that you use?
I use epres and it’s really good. Very easy to use, and you can use it overnight. And I find that I really did not need to spray a lot into my hair to get a coated. Just suction my hair and sprayed it and really massaged it into my scalp put a cap on and went about my day until I was ready to wash it. I think it’s a lot better than The olapex Just cause I can go about my day while using it. It works really well for my lifestyle. I think you might like it. 22:01
When you say you’re using light butters, is it for a wash’n go? Do you have a video where you used it and did you top with a gel?
Yes, for a wash and go. For example, the pattern cream. I do have a video where I used it underneath their custard, but not a gel. I absolutely loved it.
How did you have time or energy to cowash your hair everyday?? I feel like if I did that I wouldn’t get anything else done😂
Honestly, it went by really fast because I was doing it so much that my hair wasn’t tangled or anything. It became a part of my shower routine. I would just wake up an hour earlier so that I would have time to wash and then sit under the dryer. I just hated touching my hair every day lol it felt like a chore. I stopped looking forward to it, and started dreading it around day three and four. I was like Yep, this ain’t gonna work for me.
Amen on the low buying year. I’m using what I have because they’re good products that work but I’m done.
Tfs.
Girl I don't how anyone can detangle in the shower I could never the way I despise it 😣 no matter how many times I watch people do it that could never be my journey if I can't do it outside the shower im throwing the entire wash day away
Hi Brittany I’m sorry that when you big chopped your hair in 2020 that people were mean to you 😢. When you say people were “mean” to you do you mean that they treated you differently because you have short hair?
Basically, people who liked me because of my hair are no longer are in my life. It really illustrated how big of a role hair and the concept of beauty plays in how you’re treated.
People would stare at me a little too long with weird faces, I noticed people weren’t as kind as when my hair was longer. I had people who were close to me say nasty things. It just showed me a lot about the perception of beauty and how that plays out in the real world treatment of a person.
@@BrittanyMiaOn a similar note, I have two daughters who were once overweight and have since lost weight. They both say people in general are much nicer to them now. It saddens them both that they are treated differently just because they’re slimmer 😢
OGX. Is some cheap oil Melanin hair care oil is light and great . However, I can’t find a good stylist 😢
Melanin oil is my holy grail🫶🏽
It’s cheap, but it works for many people. Love the melanin HC oil.