Stop reacting to a reality you don’t want to keep attracting
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 พ.ค. 2024
- Today I’m sharing your 2 options in life that you always have whenever something happens: react or respond and how important it is to stop giving any attention towards things you do NOT want to see in your life.
I’m explaining how to change your internal mindset and beliefs and also how to rewire your nervous system to respond in a more emotionally intelligent way.
I hope this video helps you 🫶🏽
If you have any topic suggestions or questions, put them in the comments and I’m happy to help 🤍
With love
Xoxo alina ❤️
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Reacting means you haven’t passed the test, but that’s okay because overtime you stop doing that naturally and mature 😊
Exactly 🫶🏽
Yes beating yourself up over not passing the test throws you out of alignment and lowers your frequency. Acknowledge and move on, don't make it that deep, have fun with it ❤️. This was so good! Yes And?!
utter new age nonsense it natural to react to situations
@@opticalman6417no one ever said it was unnatural. They're saying it is, actually. Just that you shouldn't let yourself get lost in feeling as though you are failing.
But also don’t place limiting beliefs on yourself. There’s no test you need to pass, nothing is testing you. You’re just thinking in opposition and need to find the best way for you to not do that, and saturate your mind with thoughts of already having said manifestation.
This right here folks, when you stay above the emotions and hold your higher awareness in the face of the triggers…a whooole new reality is coming in. It’s actually pretty wild when you start seeing it happen right in front of you. You are the creator, truly. Literally how you upgrade your nervous system. Meditation soo important in helping this so you have space to respond instead of the familiar reaction
Yessss this 😍🙏🏽
sure. If thres bad news, bills/invoices...i just say, yes and?! and the Bill get higher/ and it gets worse.
@@madlenj.4644 no you trust that you’ll receive the money to pay it. But if you’re over reacting like omg why is this always happening to me??!! You’re right away affirming that these situations keep on happening to you. When you react calm and collected saying it’s already figured out, I always have enough money to pay off you’re in a better emotional state to actually solve a situation. That’s called emotional intelligence not ignorance
Couldn’t have said it better!! Such a great perspective 🙌🏼
@@alyssaklemple yeah just don´t pay the bills because you don´t like them, like you said..ignore them. But instead get dunning letters with higher payings even more pressure and other consequences. You can apply this to anything in life.
I'm just now starting to realize what she's saying. Understand that your POWER lies in responding from your true state which is that of a Limitless Being!
AMEN 🙏🏽✨🤍
i feel like this video was made just for me. as a stripper i created a life for myself based on that income alone and when things started hitting the fan at the club (multiple sexual assaults & physical fights) i became so depressed and really dwelled in the victim mindset to the point i refused to go back to work and claimed the incidents as “always happening to me” as u mentioned while also deciding that i wanted a life of passive income where i wouldn’t have to interact. i quite literally expected God to drop my rent on me out of the sky and when the miracles werent happening and i started losing money I would get even more defeated & depressed on top of the trauma i was dwelling in from being assaulted. this video really made me realize how important it is to train your mind and body to persevere despite the trauma because stopping and sinking in the trauma will only create a deeper hole for u to dig yourself out of. I can see now that pushing thru and continuing to work until your manifestations come may be the best way to let go of yesterday’s pain and heal. u cant spend too much time thinking about the trauma when ur busy going after what u need
Wishing you healing and strength ❤️❤️❤️ And of course a beautiful life
Resist nothing. Accept everything
I am now 80 years old and when I look over my life I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles, never wavering from my core beliefs, has ensured my well being all along the way.
Amen and self control is a fruit of the spirit. I strive to master this by Gods grace.
Possibly THE only manifesting video you need right here. Observe don't react the people around you expect you to bite and think you are disinterested but if you want to evolve as a human in the 5D you got to change even if it stings a little. Much love and light ✨️ ❤❤❤❤
Thanks
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She’s good! 🫶🏾
Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
So Sorry you’re going through a breakup that is never easy I truly understand 🙏🏽
If you fought for her and you done your best to get her back, maybe it’s time to think about focusing on yourself now and if it’s truly love or just an attachment because we’re afraid to be alone, can’t love ourselves enough and are afraid of rejection. I truly believe that people come into our lives either to teach us something or to stay and if they don’t want to stay I let them go. There’s no point in forcing and trying to bring someone back who’s on their own journey and don’t want to be with you for whatever reason. I believe everyone we lose is just to make room for better people and maybe it’s time to work on yourself now to become your best version of a man and then meeting the one that you don’t see coming right now but once you do, it’ll all make sense and she’s maybe even better for you 🙏🏽
so well said. it takes a certain degree of consciousness and pay attention to our thoughts and the quality of them, realizing we can pick how we want to feel...we also have a choice...also accept that everything we have in our life, we put it there (there is nobody outside of ourselves) so we learn and grow to the best version that we can be. xx
Exactly, choice comes with consciousness 🫶🏽
You can design your reality
not exactly that deluded thinking
Thank u NEXT, LEARN from it and focus on what u do want and stay in RECEIVING MODE.
focus on WHAT U DESIRE , CONCENTRATE ON IT HOLD ON TO IT.
NOT ON WHAT U DONT WANT AND WHAT HURT U, …
⭐️energy , thoughts C R E A T E reality!🙌🏽⭐️
🩷🩷🩷👌 Yes! Well said 🙂
Here’s what I understood;
What is the smartest way???
Not reacting.
Use emotional intelligence!!
Current: Old patterns that are repeating. Triggers
New reality needs to be created.
Reality shows you things that you keep on asking for. Your old thought patterns.
Change your reaction, navigate your new reality.
Respond without letting your emotions guide you.
Stop giving attention to small things.
Act as if nothing happened.
Yes, and? It
Whatever you focus on, good or bad, that’s exactly what’s gonna happen
Stop letting your emotions play with you.
Do manifestation as you want, but change your patterns.
If you keep looking for missing things, you still won’t achieve it despite manifestation.
Reprogrammé body and mind
Just breathe.
Ask why is this happening? What does it teach me?
Old belief system needs to be ditched in order to grow and do better
Be conscious about stuff.
I’m not a victim but the creator so I chose to take a situation in a different way that seems best for me
Transform
Let the triggers trigger you. Notice how you respond to it.
What can I do now?
Accept this is your reality.
Is there a new choice that you can think of??
Not reacting - letting go
Choose now??
Choose different
Manifest change!!
Regulate nervous system!!
You can choose to have a different reality than others
Rejection - accept it. (Maybe it’s good for you)
Affirm what you want, and what is good for.
Stop thinking negatively
Ditch “why always me??” mindset
Be the change you want.
“I don’t longer accept this behaviour”
Stop letting people belittle you
Make internal shifts.
Call your power back
Become magnetic to things you want in your life
Don’t entertain toxicity
Don’t hold grudges with people who don’t even value you. (Don’t give them power over you)
Comfort zone ~ toxic
Life is not happening to you, but for you.
Life is your mirror. You reflect back what you see.
Respond in conscious, smart and intelligent ways.
Attract the right signs.
Don’t give your power away too easily.
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Recently, I had an unpleasant experience with a cousin who's 15 years older than me and is extremely immature. In that happening, I've spent the last few days in a state of perpetual anger because this wasn’t the first instance that she mistreated me in this manner. I have been spending my days in complete anger and rage, the only reason it's not any other emotion like shame or embarrassment is because I know how emotionally immature she is so I can't care. But it really put into perspective how I mostly never manage my emotions and always put them in the back of my mind but constantly feel them anyway. Now I understand that this is the Universe testing me, I just need to accept what happened and let it go, I need to learn to deal with my anger as it is. I still have a long way to go.
I keep thinking about all my exes and how poorly I was treated and I get so emotional and “react” by ranting about what they did to me in detail to strangers on the internet. I wish it was easier to let go. People are just like “let it go” but I can’t seem to do it.
I just keep thinking about it, and my entire being is taken over by bitterness, resentment, anger and sadness and I can do nothing to stop it. I did what was supposed to do, I broke up with all of them, that was the easy part, but the memories still haunt me.
I love me, God loves me and my family too, but for some reason I keep going back to how they made me feel so unloved and worthless. It’s hard to tell myself I’m not the victim when in fact I was a victim many times. 😢
There’s no point in dwelling on the past, you gotta live in the present moment. Stop repeating and renting about it. Stop saying it outloud. Every time you feel bitterness, instead try to say towards them: „May you be safe, may you be healthy, may you be happy, may your mind be at ease.“ and then repeat towards yourself to forgive yourself also.
when you learn to send love instead of bitterness to them and to you, learn to heal your nervous system - that’s when you can heal fully.
It’s not about that you never been a victim, yes maybe you were at a point, where you also tolerated this, from a place of what your best knowledge was, but do you want to stay a victim? You need to forgive yourself first of all 🤍
Writing can definitely be helpful though. Try to pinpoint where these kinds of traumas originated (most often it’s our parents). I wrote a letter to my mom where I poured out all the bad feelings and then burned it.
I also did a therapy called cutting the ties that bind which I found quite helpful.
Could it be a possibility that the reason you keep going back to how they made you feel unloved and worthless is because it was you yourself that made you feel those things? I say this with compassion and from personal experience. It’s never outside of yourself even though it may feel like it. You will feel better when you really examine how you allowed those behaviours to happen. That’s your work for moving on.
Oh my gosh, I did not realize that all that time I was reacting a lot, I attracted the same things into my life over and over again. I’m so lucky I found your video, thank you so much!!
Makes me so happy 🤍
I have been going through a really rough time. Always acting based on my emotions fucking everything up..thank u
Show yourself grace, we’re all just having this human experience 🫶🏽
I’m literally going consciously play that part in the Ariana grande song in my head every time I feel like reacting: “yes, and…?” 💅🏻🎧
Hahahah yessss do it 😂😍
Insightful video! Mastering emotional intelligence is important to navigate life's challenges. not only it can changes our personal reality but can also inspire transformation in the environments we influence. 🔑
I used to be extremely triggered by a family member. 4 years ago I met a spiritual therapist who taught me about the energetic chords we have with everyone and how to “untangle” them. I started a practice of imagining this person and releasing any of their attachments seeded within me, and sending it back as pure light. And imagining any pieces of myself I had attached to them and calling it back.
Literally in real life our relationship began healing and became so much more chill, they stopped caring so much about controlling me and I stopped caring about controlling their reactions.
It was the beginning of me stepping into my true life path. By letting go of my resistance and triggers to them, they were freed up to let go too
@@boundlessoul_studios love that 🥰 I also done a lot of chord cutting / untangling work so it def worked for me as well!
Needed this. Jesus protect my children both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed because I’m on my own as a single mother. My husband passed many years ago. I have no one to turn to, but God. Heavenly Father. Give me strength as I struggle to buy groceries, and as I struggle to pay rent every month is a struggle and I’m in fear of losing my home. Please keep my sons safe and protect us from the evil ones of this world. 💕
If u need anyone to talk to I am here for you cuz I went through a similar situation and it can be quite hard but you got this never give up especially for the child also having a daughter and raised her by myself it's not easy but it will pay off all at the end and through every hardships we find strength ❤️
You are so strong ❤️ and your strength will be rewarded. Please always hold your head high and feel proud of yourself because you are doing your absolute best and haven’t given up. Don’t be afraid to reach out to the state, charities, food banks whatever possible to help you all out. Thinking of you and sending positive energy your way ❤️
Sending you love sweet friend. I will be envisioning health and abundance for you and your loved ones 🤍
praying for your family ❤ you will get through this
You’re doing amazingly just as you are right now! Keep going! The best is yet to come! 🥰🥰♥️🙏
The timing of this video is just ridiculously fitting😭😭😭 thanks for the video tho!!!🤍🤍
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This is so TRUE! Thanks for the reminder ✨
this is very true. i needed to hear this, thank you
I really needed this I will try to remember this video negative response to reality is my biggest weakness. Thanks for it
Thankyou for giving the power back in to our own hands❤
Thank god I found this video today. This helps me a lot. You deserve a subscriber.
Been watching manifesting videos for many years, this is a very special perspective i am grateful for you ❤️ you are beautiful thank you 🙏
This is so true, and well explained! The person you really are.. doesn’t really care as much as that other person inside of you does.
Great advice and reminder. Thank you so much
Love this Aliana! Thank you for the theoretical slap I absolutely needed today.
This is true wisdom ❤. So young and powerful you are
Great advice ❤ Thank you so much I'm dealing with stress and now that I know I have total control over it, I will choose not to react to it
Yes love this! 🙌🏼 it’s not about controlling but guiding your emotions for your own best ❤️
@@alianajolie yes thank you 🤍 your advice really really changes my life, and also the tapping solution that you mentioned at the end works for me. today i feel much better and calm. Thank you for bringing great contents to this platform 🥰🥰🥰
@@EstelleTuong makes me so happy to hear love, keep going 🥹🥰
Today my higher self has spoken to me through you. Thank you for channeling the ONE ❤
thankyou for this assertive video and thank for the job that you have do
That was excellent .💥
Thank you
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Thank you for the reminder.
I think, your intuition brought you, where you needed to go. Inuition not always leads us to where it is fluffy, but to where we need to be, to grow.
I experienced sth.like that, I moved from my home and my soultribe, to live in a community. I thought it was horror, we stayed there 2 years and moved to the place of the parents if my partner. I loved this place, when we visited them. But when we moved in, the real horror started. Not because of them, but spiritual attacs, isolation, very dark energy in this house. And I coudn't move away. Last time I tried, I hurt my back and leg and had to stay. BUT...
...I grew so much! Today I feel, it had to be that way, now I am on my track and humbled.
Greetings❤
Such great advice! Thank you!
Phenomenal insight, thank you!
Woman😍how r u so knowledgeable and amazing! What crazy things u must’ve been through in life to have this amazing mindset
This video came on the perfect timing, love it
I needed this video exactly right now. Yesterday I did something that I usually do in an argument and after I was like.. this is what I always do.. and I should’ve done it differently. I think that shows that I’m becoming aware of my ego, and now I know that I have to take control of it
Yesss these are the growing moments love that 😍✨
i just came across your channel, this video was uploaded at the perfect time! .such a beautiful message which you articulated so well💖 going to watch all your other videos now🥰
Thankyou so much lots of love and light ❤
you explain this very clearly, thank you :)
Been watching this video for a week consistently the first day I did not understand nothing but now is a whole different story. I play you in the background while I read my book or read my affirmations. Thank you so much!
Wow love to hear that! You can literally see yourself grow as every time you listen to it, you hear something different- not because it wasn’t there, but because YOU change and hear exactly what you need to hear in that moment 🫶🏽 keep being so consistent!
Your words are so beautifully expressed, and I wish you knew just how deeply I needed this video at this very moment. Thank you 💓
Thank you very much so happy to hear this 🥹✨
This is so fitting, exactly what I needed to hear!! Thanks Aliana!
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Your video came at the right timing! I was spiraling over my manifestation, as my emotions got the best of me out of seemingly nowhere. Having the self control to stop myself from following said thoughts, giving less attention other than what's needed (allowing myself to feel, the opportunity of being human), has allowed me to take my power back from these old stories from repeatedly replaying itself.
Now, I have personally experienced instant manifestations, whereby my reality changed in an instant as the past and future does not exist as per Neville's teachings. There is power in focusing on the present, because the only thing that is certain, that we can 'control' is the now. Worrying over different timelines is counterproductive to the future I'm building. So, why not put that focus and attention onto a timeline that transcends a human's notion of time?
Thank you for this powerful message!! I am so grateful I found this 🙌🏼
Thanks Girl 😍🫶🏽🫶🏽
i was on a break from studying when i came across this video and i am so glad that i saw it because there were particular stuff that were being a burden on my mind and this video simply helped me sort it all out.
Love to hear this 🥰🫶🏽
This video was very helpful thank you very much!❤
That is what I needed to hear. I appreciate that, thank you! 💓💓💓
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OH my GOD this is exactly what I had to hear right now. Thank u UNIVERSE to give this information to me. Very GRATEFUL. I had last 2 days so much transformation. And exactly now how to respond on something. I am going to save this towards BEST videos
Ahh so happy to hear this girl! So excited for your transformation 🙏🏽✨🪐
@@alianajolie thank u so much i get gootspots everywhere
lovely reminders to be grounded in calmness, poise and staying your higher self. thank you aliana
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No one has ever explained it this way thank you so much! So helpful
Happy you like it ! 😍
THANK YOU THANK YOU. This video came to me. I am dealing with bad acne and I have been making it worse by spending so much energy on it, crying over it. This is just an old trigger from teenage years. It's my inner child coming out. (And I went off hormonal birth control after being on it for 10 years lol). I will now not react to it.
This was such an excellent breakdown of how to shift states. Something definitely clicked for me after this. Thank you very much 🙏🏼
Happy to hear 🫶🏽
Very on point…and perfect timing! Let’s move on and live the reality we prefer NOW❤
Amen 😍
Insightful, thank you❤
BIG thank you for this! you had no idea how much i needed to hear this
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So wise for such a young woman. Thank you for this.. Needed this and making thst interal shift.
Thank you so much 🥺🤍 really happy to hear!!
You spoke with so much passion. This is your best video! ✨Keep up this great work!
The best is yet to come hehe 😍 but thank you!
Thank you for this video 🤍
Having this video on repeat. Thankyou so much 🤍.
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We’ll explained an much appreciated blessings 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is so insightful. Thank you
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I definitely needed this message
I really needed to hear this lot of my confusions were cleared. Thanks a lot💞💞. Sending u lots of good wishes. May God bless u Always 💓
God Bless 🫶🏽✨
Thank you 🙏🏽 for creating this video. I needed to hear and see this message.
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Thank you so much. Such great information. I wish my younger self knew this, but now I can practice this and teach my son, niece and nephews 🙏
And that will be your greatest gift 🤍
new subbie here. ❤ I needed to hear this especially when I was in a very confusing place in life- between trying to heal and reverting back to my unhealed mindset.
Thank you and welcome here 😍
Yes can totally relate to that! Right now is a very transformative time where old habits are coming up again so this is your time to release all that’s no longer serving you 🫶🏽 you got this!
This is a great video about how to claim back your power and to break cycles. One of the best in awhile! Thank you. 🤩
Perfect confirmation I’m on the right path and leveling up and you just gave me the cheat code to beat the final boss (trigger)on this level ( seeing this as a video game is a gamechanger) and transcend to my desired reality ❤ Subscribed! I love ya❣️
Ahh welcome 😍🫶🏽
Great advice! Thank you 🌿💚✨
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I took so many notes from this video girl this is a gem
Yeyy happy to hear!!
just started watching you! i love the way you explain things, this vid helped me get out of a small depression episode. much love x 💋💋
Aww that makes me so happy 🥹❤️ blessings!
Wow! I needed this! Awesome video
Thank you!
one of the best videos I've ever seen. it's already the third time coming back here, whenever I am triggered, these wise words are what I try to keeo in mind and remember as much as possible, so I can regulate myself
Love to hear this 🥰🙏🏽
Thank you so much for sharing your energy and this wonderful reminder! ❤ Being aware of the triggers and patterns that show up then standing firm in my new identity and staying true to who I Am now💥 the Universe will have no choice, but to conform to my new identity 🎉Yay! All our power is in the present moment and 3-D circumstances do not matter 💫 More responding and Less reaction✨ so good!
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Such a good video and exactly what I needed ❤
Wow, just when I needed this reminder.
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i really needed this ! because i'm always triggered by some old pattern thoughts from the past , now that i've watch the video i will never react to them , i will recognize the trigger and don't pay it the attention it wants to grow more. thanks girlyyy🥰 new subscriber !!!
Yes love that! 🥰 welcome here!!
Great video thank you! I would love to see a video dedicated to regulating your nervous system and your experiences with that 🙏
Thanks for your comment 🥰🫶🏽
I’m not an expert when it comes to that I’m working with experts myself who are experienced and licensed basically to do so, such as therapists, healers and practitioners. I do that on the Platform I talked about in the video, that I linked in the description box, it’s called Inner Bloom and is a mindset, manifestation, healing & emotional wellbeing platform for women, and that’s where I learned it also ❤️
Such a great video, I was getting stuck in my manifestation but I guess I needed to hear this ❤
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Thank you so much for this video.... I needed it so much right now.... I can't believe this but thank you.... Your an Angel 😇💫😇
Aww thank you 🥹✨
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Thank you for your great tips 👍
Exactly what I needed to hear today. blessings 🙏🏽
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I needed this, thank you.
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Thanks so much , you help me ❤
Bless you
needed this ❤
I love this explanation ty!
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IV had know one to really explain anything to me you have helped me understand a lot think you very much ❤
Very well put! I guess I kinda GOT it now...✌️😎
Heard it many times before, but not like this... Thank you so much 😊
Thankyou sis I needed this today ❤️🔥
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So much of wisdom in a nutshell ❤
This content is top!! I resonate fully with what you say and I hope you grow to 1 million subscribers so your message reaches all the ears it needs to!! ❤ you're better than 99% of content creators on this niche I saw.
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What a wonderful and informative video - thank you very much.
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Absolutely loved this video thank you.
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