do we buy him?/Ernie gets a prepurchase check up!!

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  • @laurasimpson7211
    @laurasimpson7211 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    That vet earned his money that day and probably saved you guys thousands of dollars!

    • @kevinbell5663
      @kevinbell5663 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      He did a great job

  • @sewingstoryprojects6178
    @sewingstoryprojects6178 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Gosh looking at him, he seems a bit underweight and has no topline development for as much as they say they are working him. That vet is awesome! I would trust him to check any horse I would consider. I know Ernie seemed so nice and he is but not for what Lily needed him for.

  • @angiegranberry3366
    @angiegranberry3366 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Just from watching this video he did not at all look healthy and hearty! Lily your parents exactly did the right thing!! I know it is a disappointment but sweetheart the horse of your lifetime in in your future!!! Praying from a lifetime horse lady!

  • @kimberleyfrie2515
    @kimberleyfrie2515 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Good job Mom and Dad on being advocates to ensure Lily gets the best possible horse for her needs.
    I'm sure you will find the perfect horse soon Lily.

  • @pamelajacobson960
    @pamelajacobson960 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Don't worry Lily, your next best horse is out there, and you will find it. It's good that you got a good vet to check Ernie. He will get a good home but something less athletic than you need. Love your channel, reminds me of my own days with horses. Have fun!

  • @lisadominguez6140
    @lisadominguez6140 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    U don’t want to start with that to deal with.
    As much as it breaks Lilys heart.
    The vet did a great job

    • @lisadominguez6140
      @lisadominguez6140 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      As well as physical issues the pain my cause behavior issues, I know u went through a lot with Peaches,

  • @karlaschaffner6592
    @karlaschaffner6592 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Awww. As the doctor made his final announcement, and I watched you crawl deeply into your jacket, even pulling your neck in (kinda like a turtle) my heart cracked a little for you. I know how it is to want something so badly that we literally dream of it!
    You know what I tell myself when that happens? (And it still does, from time to time, even though I'm older).
    I tell myself that I DON'T want a house that I'll have to sell. Again.
    And I encourage myself with this idea: if a horse as great as Ernie isn't the best horse for me, I can't even IMAGINE how fabulous the right horse will be.
    Hugs for you, Lily.

  • @gracefulcat68
    @gracefulcat68 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    that guy is a great vet! lily, i know its hard looking at new horses to buy.. i want to buy them all, but in reality, i know i can't. ernie is a great horse, i'm sure.. but he is not the horse you NEED to do what you want! i'm sorry you were so sad, too. i've wanted to rescue horses but not in the position to do that, yet.. one day i will.. and one day soon, you'll find your next horse, i promise!

  • @sharonhuelsman
    @sharonhuelsman 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Lily! I’m sorry that this was such a disappointment. You are a very wise and strong young woman and you have wonderful parents!

  • @kimalots9353
    @kimalots9353 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    So sorry that he didn't pass the exam. But you did the right thing for Lily. Y'all will find her the mount she needs to progress in her chosen field of hunters and jumpers

  • @imogenethomas1138
    @imogenethomas1138 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lily, I’m so sorry Ernie didn’t work out for you. You guys were very smart to have an excellent equine vet check him out. Keep looking sweet girl, your dream horse is out there.

  • @whats_herName
    @whats_herName 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Spinal problems are not easy to comfort when the horse you love so much hurts. After riding day after day which every girl wants it would only get to be more uncomfortable for Ernie to the point after more time living with it, he could even get grumpy and not even wanting to be touched. Physical therapy for horses can get quite expensive as the kissing spine gets even worse as they age. Lily you will want a horse you can get on when you want to ride, not when your horse wants you to ride. I pray that God sends your buddy jumper right into your heart very very soon.

  • @tammydialgray2835
    @tammydialgray2835 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I'm so sorry Lilly. I know that was heartbreaking. I am so glad you have horse people to help you find the right horse for your situation.

  • @patseemore5019
    @patseemore5019 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    God will lead you to your jumper, be patient.

  • @VannaWhiteboard
    @VannaWhiteboard 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so sorry, Lily. That is a lot of disappointment to deal with. You are doing a good job at shopping for the right fit. Be gentle with your sweet heart. You will fall in love with every animal you meet, and that is not a bad thing.

  • @marthareedy
    @marthareedy 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aw, Lily, a perfect horse is waiting for you too. Praying for you sweetie.

  • @stacey_h
    @stacey_h 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Unfortunately you don't have enough experience yet to know what he was looking at but I could tell when you brought him out of the stall that he most likely had some back issues. He also had a lack of muscle tone in the neck and along his back. This usually happens with back issues. I rode hunter/jumpers and 3 day eventing for over 10 years. I had a thoroughbred who developed a back issue, but back then there wasn't all the therapies available to help. She still loved to jump but it was hard to get any kind of consistency in flat work and dressage. We retired her early to become a broodmare.
    I'm sorry Lilly. Your parents made the right decision. It's hard finding the right horse. Now a days you need to do exactly what they did by getting a very good vet hospital to do that kind of pre-purchase exam. I don't know if you had an experienced trainer, with at least 15 years experience showing and training, come with you when you looked at Ernie. This is really critical nowadays because there is a lot of bad horses for sale. A very good trainer could pick up the slight bit of lameness and the sore back he had before your parents had the purchase exam. It also helps with the broken heart you are facing now. I know what that feels like because it happened to me with my first horse when I was 10.

    • @ncoppens
      @ncoppens 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree with you 100%. It is hard to see with the long coat, but he looks to be skinny, very poorly muscled in the neck and hind. The coat also looks dull. Most important is that this horse that seems to be really sweet kicked out as soon as he went to the end of his back and while lifting the hind legs. Poor thing must be in a lot of pain.

  • @l-egg-acyacres5732
    @l-egg-acyacres5732 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry Ernie didn't work out. I have been in the horse industry all my life and sometimes it is just how it goes. Even though it can be very frustrating, the right one is out there, don't give up. I am so glad you guys went to Tryon and got a great exam. ( I have actually worked with that vet. He is awesome!!! ) I was so happy to see him on your video!!!
    I was 9 when I got my first horse, he was 3 off the race track. I had had "some" lessons but we were pretty new starting out just like you are. My brother-in-law gave me that horse and he will forever be part of me. Good luck Lily !! I am rooting for you !!!

  • @heyheyitrachelgray
    @heyheyitrachelgray 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    LILLY!!! my heart hurts for you!!! I really wish you could have gotten him cuz I saw how happy he made you when you rode but just imagine a horse that is able to be there AND grow with you too!!! You will find your baby I promise!! I can’t wait to see your journey continue. You definitely have a viewer in me!!

  • @shirleymurphy1958
    @shirleymurphy1958 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There is a horse out there that's perfect for Lilly it just going too take time . Great Vet.

  • @sharonbormann8875
    @sharonbormann8875 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So sorry Lilly 😢 you will find the perfect horse for your wants and needs. It was wonderful you had Ernie checked. You wouldn't want to see him in pain either from the workouts

  • @denisebair9542
    @denisebair9542 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I know this was very disappointing but the right horse is out there waiting for you. All these experiences are good because you are learning so much and through them you will be able identify the right horse.

  • @lynnfiegl4953
    @lynnfiegl4953 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m sorry Lily! You will find the right horse 🐎! But it sure is a bummer when you have your heart set on him!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🐎🐎

  • @karenarnold7693
    @karenarnold7693 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awe, I'm so sorry Lily that this horse didn't work out. Just remember that you will find the right horse for you. Stay strong.

  • @bekind4018
    @bekind4018 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You did the smart thing by having a prepurchase vet check. I alway told my lesson kids and their parents it can save you so much heartache in the end. You also know you are not going to be asking him to perform and do things that will only make his condition worse. The right horse is out there. In the meantime, have you considered leasing a horse that you may be able to show?

  • @diannemiller4754
    @diannemiller4754 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I'm so sorry, Lily😢
    It am praying the perfect horse comes your way soon 🙏

  • @hannahm1256
    @hannahm1256 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Oh bless you all, my heart sank as much as Lilly’s when the kissing spine was mentioned, he seemed like such a sweet horse but totally right decision sadly 😢 xx

  • @mtnlindama8146
    @mtnlindama8146 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very interesting video. I hope you can find a horse that will work for you soon. Patience.😊

  • @gailharris-dz2sh
    @gailharris-dz2sh 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry that Ernie did not work out Lily . Your horse is out there waiting for you. I’m excited to see you with your future horse!

  • @dawnschmidt3309
    @dawnschmidt3309 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So sorry Ernie didn’t work out for you but your dream will come along! He would have been a hard keeper on grass hay and pasture. Also with your Dad not wanting you to blanket a horse that’s something else to keep in mind when picking a horse. Thoroughbreds are more thin skinned and have a harder time in cold wet weather than other horses when not blanketed or don’t have some kind of shelter.

  • @stephaniedavis7033
    @stephaniedavis7033 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    get experience and unfortunately - many OTTB's have spinal issues. poor guy, done his job all his life - he just needs to be allowed to be a horse. There are so many out there you will find the right one, it just takes time.

  • @time4paws
    @time4paws 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s gonna be okay Lily.
    The right horse will come along.
    Keep the faith.

  • @ellyntallon2255
    @ellyntallon2255 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Too bad Lilly 😢I know you were excited 😊 but this is a good eye opener to take your time on finding the right horse for you and what you have future plans for 😊❤

  • @Kitty_911
    @Kitty_911 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm so glad you went to a vet that explained things and gave you a good run down, Keep chin up and always try more then one horse when looking at one to buy good luck on your search I do hope that horse gets proper care from current owner to help him.

  • @joanhale2420
    @joanhale2420 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Lily, I am so sorry to hear this. You made the correct decision in not going ahead with the purchase. He would have become worse, been in a lot of pain, and would have started bucking. You will find the right horse for you.

  • @nutequest
    @nutequest 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kissing spine is not uncommon in Thoroughbreds unfortunately. A standard bred might be better for you. I love them, calm, can do anything including jumping, hardy and live quite a long time. I had one still being ridden at 34. She ended up with cancer and had a 2 year retirement before, at 36 it was time to say goodbye. Appaloosas can be good horses for jumping and eventing too. I had a 40 year old who could still be ridden but only had one eye and his other eye was failing. Tbs are generally not so tough and require more care like shoes, special diets, more regular dental and more prone to issues like kissing spine, navicular disease, ulcers and more. You can sometimes get good ones but they aren’t common.

  • @ashleynichols6156
    @ashleynichols6156 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey Lily I'm so sorry it didn't work out. Ik how you feel. This has happened to me many times and it hurts but remember that God's paving the way for an even more special horse/pony❤

  • @patriciadean5452
    @patriciadean5452 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    #theLilyRhodesShow, Lily, I am very sorry. I know this was hard on you. I saw your Papa video, but watching yours to give you income earned. I think you need to make more videos to earn a lot. The kind of horse you need to move foreward in your journey will cost a lot more than what Ernie would have cost. I had tears with you.

  • @jennykiest169
    @jennykiest169 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm SO SORRY, Lily. But at least you know before you get too attached to him. Hugs!

  • @kar702
    @kar702 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is Lilly looking for a thoroughbred in particular? I don’t understand why she would, because I think they’re too delicate. We only had one, so that’s the only experience I have. I was wondering why she wasn’t going for a saddlebred when she’s wanting to do all the different types of competition riding ect.

    • @gailholt41
      @gailholt41 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely LOVE my Saddlebred!

  • @sowmanyseedlings
    @sowmanyseedlings 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 So sorry it didn't work out Lily. Looking forward to your meeting your next prospect. Hang on to that vet!

  • @tecter100
    @tecter100 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm crying right along with you , Lily..

  • @chelledegrasse2787
    @chelledegrasse2787 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You made the right decision.

  • @timbrelman
    @timbrelman 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lilly, patience will help find the perfect horse for you.
    With eventing you really need a super sound horse.
    Patience now will help you in your riding experience overall.

  • @MematheLion
    @MematheLion 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    God has a different plan for you Lilly! Just believe! It’s still sad, but I’m praying! 🙏

  • @ncoppens
    @ncoppens 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are several things you can check before you have a vet come out. Feel the legs for bumps and hot spots.
    See if you can lift all the legs without problems. It is a good indicator for back problems like you see here and also because you don't want to risk a child to get kicked. You can put some pressure with your fingers on both sides of the spine and feel your way to the back like the vet does. You don't want to get an extreme response. This kicking out is a horse that is already screaming at you, most just pull back at specific spots. Have the horse stand straight and look from the back if the hips are at the same height left and right and the spine looks pretty straight. See if you can bring an experienced horse person to the first visit to a horse you are interested in to buy. This prevents already getting attached to a horse that is not going to pass the vet check for sure.
    I am glad you chose to have an excellent vet check him out, it saved you all a lot of money and even more heartache in the future.

  • @LakeMissoulaAquaticsandPlants
    @LakeMissoulaAquaticsandPlants 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aw man, what a heart breaker😢 Sorry Lily.

  • @lindafoster9009
    @lindafoster9009 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Heartbreaking, but the right horse is out there. Keep looking.

  • @juliahelland6488
    @juliahelland6488 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I owned quite a few horses as a child and as an adult. As you well know buying a horse is a financial and an emotional investment. I am so glad you decided to spend the money for the evaluation and extras. Lily may feel broken heartened, but she hopefully learned very valuable lessons on what to look for when purchasing a horse. What really got my attention was the owner only had him for a few months, and the previous owner only had him for about 6 months. At that point, i watched him trot back and forth in the barn and could see he was in some pain. The outside lunge confirmed it. He was in pain, which prevented him from performing lope.or canter. I'm sure Lily is sad about not getting him, and it will take some time to get over that sadness. 😔

  • @wildedibles819
    @wildedibles819 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Ernie will find someone now who will know the truth but be ok with what he's doing now or lower level job
    He will be ok and people will have more information because it's tied to his chip
    Much love xoxox thanks

  • @LB-gr7gu
    @LB-gr7gu 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lilly my heart is now invested ❤️ I want this perfect for you .. For you 💗 let's be patient and knowledgeable 💕

  • @cz1135
    @cz1135 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    $10,000 horse just became a $1500 or good home horse unfortunately.

  • @TobyCatVA
    @TobyCatVA 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lily, dear girl, just know there is a perfect horse out there dreaming of the little blonde girl that will be their forever friend and God will see your paths meet. This was but a step further down that road.

  • @Lovehorses123Thereadorbs6
    @Lovehorses123Thereadorbs6 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cant wait to see if you get him! ❤

  • @Valentine-Channelle
    @Valentine-Channelle 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s so hard but definitely not the horse for Lilly huge hugs sent xxxxx

  • @donnastelzl4729
    @donnastelzl4729 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There is a wonderful rescue in Virginia i bet they could match Lilly with her next horse. They are well vetted and know their horses. Contact colbys crew rescue in Charlottesville VA they will do a wonderful job matching her to a perfect horse.

  • @wildedibles819
    @wildedibles819 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hugs

  • @englishgreenbackyardsustai6902
    @englishgreenbackyardsustai6902 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yes buy him it cute name for him

  • @FencemastersDrivewayReplSpecia
    @FencemastersDrivewayReplSpecia 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm sorry about Ernie😢❤

  • @larrynotuom3232
    @larrynotuom3232 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry, just keep looking. You'll find the right one.

  • @FREETHINKINGAlex
    @FREETHINKINGAlex 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Purchase 👍🏼

  • @freemanfarms2011
    @freemanfarms2011 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You can find a nice horse for under 10K, you did right by Lilly and Ernie

  • @lilyivers3489
    @lilyivers3489 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @PerfumeFlora
    @PerfumeFlora 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aww :(( Lily.. If i was you i would give up Ernie and look for different horse instead of wasting my money on paying vet bills, treatment bills, etc for sick Ernie

    • @PerfumeFlora
      @PerfumeFlora 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Or you can just bring Peaches back if you want bigger horse because i've heard you changed your mind from not fitting with big horse to now fitting with big horse

  • @ladydragon3648
    @ladydragon3648 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would be saying sorry but NO that is talking a lot of money now. Ya Lilly id willing to work for it BUT I will be to much money for you to save up to pay. I would think.

  • @NilaRegenstein
    @NilaRegenstein 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So sorry Lilly. 😢 You will find a horse 🐎 that is healthy and will jump and jump.

  • @FREETHINKINGAlex
    @FREETHINKINGAlex 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Maybe Shae rom Free spirit equestrian could do a joint video with you and take Lilly to an auction…

  • @GrandmaKarenHasAFarm
    @GrandmaKarenHasAFarm 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm sorry for your disappointment, Lily, but it will be worth it when you find the right one.

  • @GetToTheFarm
    @GetToTheFarm 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Connected Star/Stripe

  • @Janis-s1k
    @Janis-s1k 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Poor Lily, am sure theres a horse out there waiting for you!

  • @rechelprinsloo1252
    @rechelprinsloo1252 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Try Horse Plus

  • @Valentine-Channelle
    @Valentine-Channelle 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The last thing Lilly needs is a horse with back problems I could tell by his condition he was not right

  • @csprings71
    @csprings71 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think you need a horse smart person to help you pick the horses to look at, and look at several horses before deciding...

  • @beckytaul4355
    @beckytaul4355 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    sorry baby girl😪

  • @blusurf9964
    @blusurf9964 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    more like a "vet tutorial" instead of a vet check People should leave vets alone to concentrate on the task at hand. Glad the kid stopped petting the horse while the vet wants to look at its teeth.

  • @cynthiakelly202
    @cynthiakelly202 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just wasn't meant to be, not any easier though.life is full of disappoint,look on the bright side.

  • @sharonhaas8503
    @sharonhaas8503 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💝❤‍🩹💖

  • @juliecoggins1170
    @juliecoggins1170 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just by appearance he has a flat backend or poor muscle development currently. It a sign often of pain.
    If you learn what good conformation looks like, you’ll see it when things don’t look good.
    Free Spirit Equestrian on TH-cam goes to lots of auctions and she teaches what bad confrontations looks like in comparison to what might be a horse that can be worked with, she has a good eye.
    A channel like hers could be helpful and fun for you. I’m sorry lily, I know how disappointing this is.

  • @jillp3761
    @jillp3761 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That doesn't look like a healthy horse to me ???? 😢😢

  • @rechelprinsloo1252
    @rechelprinsloo1252 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You don't want a horse that is going to be costing you a lot of money when he gets older.

  • @rechelprinsloo1252
    @rechelprinsloo1252 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Try Horse Plus humane society

  • @FREETHINKINGAlex
    @FREETHINKINGAlex 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He’s rally skinny and looks in poor condition…. I feel so sorry for that horse… he’s really not receiving the right care..

  • @maltipoosoffgrid6868
    @maltipoosoffgrid6868 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That not in SC it's in North Carolina 😶

  • @portialancaster3442
    @portialancaster3442 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Spell check. Two errors in the first 10 seconds of the video!

    • @csprings71
      @csprings71 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let's get critical on a kids spelling or typing skills

    • @sharonbormann8875
      @sharonbormann8875 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Get a life

    • @portialancaster3442
      @portialancaster3442 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sharonbormann8875 Don't you think Lilly would want it fixed?

  • @lilianrhodes-heatley6443
    @lilianrhodes-heatley6443 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's weird, I watched this exact vlog a few days ago 🤔

    • @AB-ol5uz
      @AB-ol5uz 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      probably on lily's channel.

    • @lilianrhodes-heatley6443
      @lilianrhodes-heatley6443 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @AB-ol5uz this is her vlog... the lily Rhodes show. Maybe I saw it on her dad's vlog earlier... Meh oh well.

  • @kerstinmahnke8863
    @kerstinmahnke8863 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would not even bother with a horse that under weight,horrible convermation.not a good prospect.i think you need to look at some more money to spend to buy something better.

  • @pattyguillory
    @pattyguillory 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Parents please check her spelling is bad.show is cute I enjoy it

    • @BlueberryGirl723
      @BlueberryGirl723 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s “moye” likely a typing error than bad spelling. It happens.

  • @Maggieroselee
    @Maggieroselee 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤ LOVE how you are learning the responsible way to get your next horse with goal to be eventing! Be nice if you can start working with responsible breeders who have same goals as you from their horses. ❤ Someone like this th-cam.com/video/pDYLvXuZWBg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=4YOXYrV9b9VZGJDa in the USA!

  • @kerry17
    @kerry17 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Keep looking girlfriend. Much better is out there promise. It's on its way to you. Be patient. Hard as it may be. God has got you. ❤️🙏🫠