Social Media Games Your Ex Plays When They Still Have Feelings For You

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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @chainglory
      @chainglory 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't get this. If you're in no contact, you shouldn't be looking at their social media.
      Period

    • @mohanmandala7617
      @mohanmandala7617 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tnks

  • @silvermont331
    @silvermont331 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I miss 😢Margaret RIP❤

  • @masudzhasan5879
    @masudzhasan5879 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Watching stories is just a manipulative action to keep hope alive in someone and keep them in back burner

    • @DJVibeDubstep
      @DJVibeDubstep 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Joke was on her when it was me and my amazing girlfriends 3 year anniversary who's a lot hotter lmao

    • @masudzhasan5879
      @masudzhasan5879 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @DJVibeDubstep i gave similar dose of ego destroy to mine last week with the girl im dating who is 100 times hotter lmao

    • @tatianacooper8406
      @tatianacooper8406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@DJVibeDubstep nope you're still caring if shes jealous

    • @dmitryisaev5955
      @dmitryisaev5955 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I noticed a fake account watching my stories. I was pretty sure that it was her. I waited for 3 weeks, she didn’t reach out, so I got annoyed by this behavior and made my profile private…

  • @avritalianna
    @avritalianna ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm tired of this social media games. It's almost 3 months after the broke up. He still have our pictures in his Twitter account. But in his Instagram, he posted a highlight story about the broke up like he was the one who struggling a lot. In another highlight stories, there's a picture of someone's arm with a tattoo of his favorite book's cover. I suspect that arm is his rebound. Before that arm post, he was in private mode. But after that he changed in public mode so I could see what he posted. Like he's doing it just to show me his rebound. I thought he is a narsistic avoidant. He told that he wants to be free and wanna do some stuff its only happen if he doesn't have a partner idk. I'm tired of his games. I'm still in no contact and work on myself any way. Thanks Craig, Victoria and Margaret. You're so helpful! ❤

  • @Ianocity
    @Ianocity ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I just find it funny that she left me on read for 3 weeks then liked my message 3 days ago and that's all

  • @stu713
    @stu713 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It’s funny, I was literally thinking about this topic yesterday and today. It’s been a while since my ex and I broke up (over a year). I have done lots of growth in that time (quit bad habits, lost 85lbs, etc). But her social media has given me pause to wonder. Watching all my stories; and as of late posting about how “she’s hard on any guy who enters her life” etc. I’m pretty sure she’s still single since the break, but that doesn’t mean much. But I’ve gotten the vibe she still is posting about me, etc. but that might just be confirmation bias.

    • @Quin.Djarin
      @Quin.Djarin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This situation mirrors mine😑

  • @stevieberisha561
    @stevieberisha561 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I don’t have social media lol I went no contact and disappeared of the face Of the earth she has no idea what I’m doing and I have never broken no contact in proud of myself for not begging pleading and doing alll that I feel clarity

  • @briteidea08
    @briteidea08 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Once I stopped looking at my exes social media. My life got better. It took a few months after she broke up with me. Told me she didn’t have feelings anymore. Didn’t see me as her life partner. Fast forward over a year. She reached out to me about her friend passing away. Which was very odd to me.

    • @rogue6344
      @rogue6344 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Perhaps you’re still her safe place & she wanted your shoulder or she thought her friend’s passing would get you to contact her but when you didn’t she reached out instead.

    • @briteidea08
      @briteidea08 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Ehh?? If I was her safe space. She would have worked on the relationship we had. I wouldn’t have been emasculated or ridiculed in front of her friends near the end. When it all ended. I would look back and check social media. She made sure to post things that would upset me. Ran off to a so called friend and went on a multi state road trip with him.
      Nobody from her side reached out to me. Never a single word. When I started actually reflecting and talking to others about what happened. There were clues she had been talking to her friends about us. I was walking on egg shells by then. Never felt so small in my life.

    • @suzannedouglas1068
      @suzannedouglas1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She wanted your emotional connection.

    • @briteidea08
      @briteidea08 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@suzannedouglas1068 Which is nuts in my opinion. Kinda shows her maturity level. Break someone down and their heart. Then a year later reach out to them. I eventually responded. As I was on the road and had met that particular friend of hers. But wasn’t really nice about it.

  • @mikeu1858
    @mikeu1858 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She just posted a picture with my hoodie 4 weeks after the break up ! Saying how letting go is hard but sometimes holding on is harder. Sitting back and enjoying my pop corns . I did not blocked her but I guess I see her for who she is now.

  • @jkd211978
    @jkd211978 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Why do they post publicly when they never used to? They post personal things on what they are doing.

    • @suzannedouglas1068
      @suzannedouglas1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg same here!! 😂

    • @suzannedouglas1068
      @suzannedouglas1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They want to all of a sudden show us how great their life is and how happy they are..😂😂😂

    • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
      @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same mines is doing it she’s super reserved and so unlike her to post bout her day and ect like to get my the til. While she watches and screen shots mines

    • @ShanitaBartlett
      @ShanitaBartlett 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same here hes been posting his ass off and he never did maybe four five times a year now its alot alot

  • @IndianAwaara
    @IndianAwaara 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No contact does work, My wife unblocked me after 1 month of no contact even after I chased her for 2-3 months 😊

  • @sombermercy
    @sombermercy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please do a video covering what to do if you and your ex both have careers that require you to use and post on social media often. For example I make comics and music and need to post regularly on 3 different social accounts. I get anxiety about it sometimes due to breadcrumbing

    • @michaelring462
      @michaelring462 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was wondering about this also

  • @luwiz4168
    @luwiz4168 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    my ex posted a lot and even posted a song about a breakup, time and distance (die for you by the weeknd). I am almost day 60 of NC, not sure what to think of it tho...

    • @ivydune4185
      @ivydune4185 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      update?

    • @luwiz4168
      @luwiz4168 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ivydune4185 she is posting stuff like not sure if I lost the love of my life or dodged a bullet and also posting stuff about loneliness after her rebound failed. She did unblock me off everything and messaged me about work stuff but nothing substainal. Been focusing on me and my career, improving myself, dating around and I think has taken notice.

  • @partizan4ever84
    @partizan4ever84 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My wife broke up with me 1 month ago,blocked me on social media and now she unblocked me and saw she posted every day about me that i am a narcist and evil,posting on fb she is a victim for 28 years of our relationship,i try not to react to her but i still love her ,dont know what to do

  • @DarinDmarkovic1
    @DarinDmarkovic1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Make a video about this. She’s liking my friends pics over and over now, she’s never liked anyone’s posts like that

  • @ezekielv2479
    @ezekielv2479 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Coach, i was wondering if you can cover the topic “She Broke Up with Me, Twice.”

    • @coyotecomando1
      @coyotecomando1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave her for the streets king

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    2.5 years amd we still are doing this

  • @gerold89
    @gerold89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Married 7 years, separated 5 months, out of nowhere she blocked me on instagram and also deleted all photos of us on her instagram. And I haven’t really talked to her at all recently or did anything to trigger it..

    • @gerold89
      @gerold89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If she blocked me why would she delete all our wedding photos and everything even if I can’t even view her profile. The only reason I found out is because my friends can see her profile.

    • @gerold89
      @gerold89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And In the last month or more she hasn’t posted anything or even stories

    • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
      @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Means she moved on you should to

    • @gerold89
      @gerold89 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 yeah, she just recently told me she wants 6 months of no contact, then after we can get together and see if we can work it out. Meanwhile she still hangouts with my sister and works for my mother a couple days a week, and she still has some of her stuff in my house that she’s leaving there because she says she doesn’t need it currently.

    • @gerold89
      @gerold89 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 she just recently said she wants 6 months of no contact, then after that we can see if we can work it out. She still has some stuff at my house, and when I mention her to take it she says she doesn’t need it right now so she’ll just leave it. And she still hangs out with my sister and also works for my mom’s company 2 times a week.

  • @basantidevi2305
    @basantidevi2305 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I did this. I posted memes about things that applied to my heart. He left narcissisticly, devalued and discarded. Shamed me. When I’m cut I bleed out and he hated I posted memes. Tried to control me. It’s not accidental but partially it is. If someone cuts you you bleed. Why can’t exes understand that. If you cut me you don’t get to decide how I heal. And I loved him dearly. Wanted to marry him. Then he started assuming every single post was about him of course narcissisticly. Even when a meme wasn’t. I wanted him to get what he did on some of the memes. I wanted him to think. We’re in our 50s too.

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev5955 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Neither of us is posting… and I am not checking her profile, as we were not friends on social media.

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He liked my most recent story on fb and if he did it in an attempt to get me to reach out I hope he knows it won’t work, I’m not breaking no contact 😅

  • @kurtcloete125
    @kurtcloete125 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi so does it mean there’s still hope she’s coming back if she keep posting and being happy even when she never done that?

  • @PB-md3nt
    @PB-md3nt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was blocked for over a month this past breakup, there's been multiple breakups. I'm now on day 38 of No Contact, which I was the one to initiate, and no desire to break it anytime soon. I find it odd that she's posting things on Facebook that I am almost thinking she wants me to see that she's done with the past...Why not make that post for friends if she was "Over the past"?

  • @doohoss1
    @doohoss1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Question for you, my ex and I recently broke up because I wasn’t committing and working with her enough. I’ve been fighting to get her back and that hasn’t gone to well. She recently divulged when things got heated on the phone four days ago that she’s seeing someone and they are already boyfriend and girlfriend. It seems a bit fishy. My question is why does she still have allot of pics of me and her being close on instagram, saying she loves me in those pics, even a good percentage of the pics on there that don’t show me are the ones I took of her and the times we had together yet she doesn’t have any pics about her new boyfriend? In the past she would block me, but she hasn’t now? Also she wants to still come by and take my dog for walks and to spend time with him, says it’s good for her mental health and for the dog. Why would she do that if she has a new boyfriend already? She already has two cats of her own.

  • @toomuch3233
    @toomuch3233 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why did my ex comment on my friends post when she has never interacted with my friend whatsoever.? She knows he’s my friend. It’s been 10 months since I last spoke with her and absolutely no contact!

  • @917sue
    @917sue 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man the games!! I agree it was his ego talking when he said I’d always be “a chapter” in the book- but 20 years later he’s following me on IG and my husband too! I’m sure my ex wanted my husband to ask me about him with the follow! My ex is living with another woman and yet he continues to like my posts and even dislikes them. Is that still ego? Baiting me? WTF

  • @okasart
    @okasart 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked one of my guy friends and we both were going through a rough patch so we would talk about it often. We had a deeper connection in that way. He used to like all my posts and like my stories which some were me posting selfies. He gave me mixed signals for months after he caught on I liked him and then it felt like he basically ghosted me. I confronted him about it and said let’s just go back to being friends and he said he could’ve liked me but decided it wouldn’t be a good idea. He then started dating someone else and I’ve never talked to her before in my life and she’s suddenly talking to me constantly. I noticed he was no longer viewing my story or liking my posts and I thought it’s just cause he finally decided he didn’t want to date me. Flash forward seven months and he went back and unliked every post he previous had likes on.
    Do you think maybe his girlfriend doesn’t want him liking my posts? Or does he just no longer like me as a person? I don’t understand why he’d do that. We both agreed we’re chill and on good terms, and I stopped liking his posts too because I just don’t know why he would do that

  • @nicholasrose2880
    @nicholasrose2880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I looked at her page and it hurt my feelings soo much but she's still posting about it wtf

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So we breakup after 3 years on / off , then she used it as an excuse to disgard me, I was blocked then unblocked ghosted then blocked , i chased for 2 years thrn gave up started dating someone new, posted it on social media etc had couple of nice dates...Suddenly she started posting quotes abiut , ' So nice to be free' and ' nothing better then inner lasting peace ' and , 'Nothing more awesome then a woman who will rise up again..' 😂😂😂 Thoughts ? All my pictutes were wiped off her social media after breakup..Im still blocked but we have mutual friends on Facebook

  • @ucungiibrahim3178
    @ucungiibrahim3178 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderfull picked some thing😊😊😊

  • @Troy12-fitnessmodel
    @Troy12-fitnessmodel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My ex has broadcast she's single...pringle life so painful

  • @Theloveinabubble
    @Theloveinabubble ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a huge doubt.
    Is there any correlation with avoidant attachement and narcissism? I've been reading about both and they exhibit quite similar behaviours regarding the post-break up scenario, how do I diferentiate if my ex is a narc or an avoidant?

  • @ceyciemateo9411
    @ceyciemateo9411 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mines posting angry bitter posts…. 9 weeks later

  • @nicholasrose2880
    @nicholasrose2880 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you craig

  • @jeffestrada8
    @jeffestrada8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How would you read into her texting me she misses me a lot and has been thinking about me. Told me she took me off her social media and while texting sends me friend requests.
    Yet tells me she is not ready to forgive me and go back to being together.
    Makes me head spin

    • @skyfall1481
      @skyfall1481 ปีที่แล้ว

      Until you learn to let this go, she will continue to play you.

    • @InfinityOnHi
      @InfinityOnHi ปีที่แล้ว

      if she's broken no contact, you tell her that as long as there is no trust, no relationship or friendship can exist between you guys. respect and trust are more important than love my friend.

    • @InfinityOnHi
      @InfinityOnHi ปีที่แล้ว

      but don't initiate contact just to make the statement, bring it up the next time she reaches out.

  • @John-ee5dh
    @John-ee5dh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex girlfriend is still on my Facebook page she says she hates me i don't block people , we broke up because of her father always running me down which felt like she didn't want to be with me anymore so I said to her you don't want to be with me anymore she said yes i don't want to be with you so I said goodbye joy she had all these reasons we should be friends i said no go away

  • @robinthompson8480
    @robinthompson8480 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this just apply about women ? Or do men do it as well ?

  • @mjgray0820
    @mjgray0820 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wouldn’t know what my wife is posting because I went off social media but do know she still got us as married and has my family on her Facebook

  • @almab586
    @almab586 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why my ex bf always gave 💯 hearts ❤ on my hi5 and then greeted me HBD in advance and on my birthday with emojis but still not talking to me on getting back 😅
    I will observe him for a month since we just split for 45days now

  • @BLACKFEATHERFITNESS
    @BLACKFEATHERFITNESS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex looks at my whatsapp status

  • @aryasf3359
    @aryasf3359 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if she deleting chats bilaterally after 50days no contact?

  • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
    @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if they’re trying together et your the ruin ins coislmedia suddenly and started saying and screen shotting your pics and posts again while in no contact

  • @jcc6356
    @jcc6356 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My ex posts memes on her WhatsApp status so I can see them. Should I respond with memes too or with some underlying messages or meanings?

    • @xanderholmes2194
      @xanderholmes2194 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shouldn’t reach out at all

    • @xanderholmes2194
      @xanderholmes2194 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let her directly reach out to you

  • @chrisprophet9699
    @chrisprophet9699 ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting a deja vu here

  • @thearmaanshaik
    @thearmaanshaik ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ex was viewing my stories but suddenly she stopped! Like I was posting about where i went and all! and she stopped viewing what does it mean

    • @shuvachakraborty6356
      @shuvachakraborty6356 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same happened with me, u have any update ?

    • @thearmaanshaik
      @thearmaanshaik ปีที่แล้ว

      believe me! she ain't worth bro. see ofc idk what has happened in your relationship but ignorance is the best policy. Give her zero attention, don't look at her story and yeahdon't post tooo regularly like post MAX 4 stories in a day. dont exceed!!! and she texts you I miss you, please don't fall for it coz I did the same mistake. so Dont fall for her texts be casual. if she says I miss you just ignore!!!!
      @@shuvachakraborty6356

    • @ARB249
      @ARB249 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!! My ex dumped me, blocked then unblocked me on iMessage (2-3x), some days into No Contact he unadded me on Facebook, unfollowed me on Instagram but stayed friends with me on Snapchat. He didn’t watch my stories for the first week of no contact, then the second week he was watching my stories everyday… then he suddenly stopped watching my stories and unadded me on Snapchat as well??? Very confused. (Most my stories consisted of the flashbacks Snapchat autogenerates from 1y ago today etc, so my stories weren’t related to my current situation)

    • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
      @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Moved on o trying to move on

  • @pasti_kadasti2179
    @pasti_kadasti2179 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I mean she blockt me and my mother
    But she didnt Block my friend who i know for 17 years and he can see her posts
    And i actually dont get it 😅she knows he will tell me , but i told him not to say anything

  • @shailashree-d6m
    @shailashree-d6m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My ex bf unfollowed me in Instagram. But he didn't block me and remove me as a follower. He made his account public.
    What's the intention behind this ?
    His friends stopped watching my stories and stopped supporting me. Is there any way he is stalking me ?

    • @max_gezer
      @max_gezer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same thing I did. The question to you is why would his friends follow and support you if you are not the part of their friend life anymore. Accept the fact that he is trying to move on with a break up.

  • @suzannedouglas1068
    @suzannedouglas1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He hasnt posted on FB for years! He doesnt even do FB .. but he knows I am so I know hes trying to get my attention. I know it. We recently spoke. He asked for a job. I said no. He said I should come to visit him. I told him Im in a new relationship. But things are up in the air. Which they are. He wants me to see how great his life is 😂.. thats fine. I remember when we woukd break up he would post his pics. Now its stories. Ok so what does that do anyways. I need to stop watching. I blocked him.

  • @big_b_01
    @big_b_01 ปีที่แล้ว

    coach why my ex posting sad thing on social media!

  • @johnraf4825
    @johnraf4825 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What if she doesn't post anything?

    • @zacdeeds87
      @zacdeeds87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      depends, she may be truly trying to get over you. or she may be so depressed that it hurts to even be on social media. either way you should be focused on moving on.

  • @suzannedouglas1068
    @suzannedouglas1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He cannot comment on my facebook bcus hes not my friend!!

  • @dannycolwell8028
    @dannycolwell8028 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What about when they delete all the pictures?

    • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
      @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Means they’re moving on o want a fast intense reaction out of you

  • @runiczugzug
    @runiczugzug ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She likes some sad quotes and some quotes are often times narcissistic like i didnt treat her bla bla bla...

    • @zacdeeds87
      @zacdeeds87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol same

    • @runiczugzug
      @runiczugzug ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zacdeeds87 Yeah its hurts so bad. I’ve never fell for someone as hard as i did for her. And even after breakup i was on my knees first time in my life because of her.
      And then i stumble across posts with sad love quotes or some that say “i am scared if you ever loved me” “most love is lost” “you thought he is the one”

  • @nicholasrose2880
    @nicholasrose2880 ปีที่แล้ว

    These insults aren't memes they are straight up typed up posts lol

  • @hama.c.s5418
    @hama.c.s5418 ปีที่แล้ว

    dont let see just dont

  • @SuperDrumdrumdrum
    @SuperDrumdrumdrum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's my EX girl friend and her EX, posting my content 🤣🤣chaos......

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tbis doesnt spply to the Female Covert Narc

  • @beautifuldisaster905
    @beautifuldisaster905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my thing why is the lover the so called new girlfriend making pages talking about me

  • @BruceJC75
    @BruceJC75 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She never even posted anything about the relationship lol. Textbook avoidant…

  • @mariotibbrine1
    @mariotibbrine1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a bunch of "secret not so secret fans" if the shoe fits wear that sole out. if they identify with a post of mine negative or positive those are their feelings if the post is negative and they identify with it perhaps they should change that about themselves and not be such a p.o.s 😉