what i've learned dating in 60 countries | FULL TIME TRAVEL
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.พ. 2025
- Dating these days is exhausting….. IN EVERY COUNTRY! I’ve dated in over 60 countries and this is a little explainer about my outlook on dating, my experience dating and what it all means.
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You don't have to give up the travel to raise a family, but you may have to pause it for twenty years. Knowing that it is only a pause, and not a "never again", it will be easier to take.
You have to choose. Every choice excludes other possibilities. Not choosing is also a choice.
🖤🖤🖤 Love your vids!
Also, I totally feel you.
I hope you find someone fucking amazing.
thank you 💘 i appreciate you so much
You may not need to choose ❤ some men LOVE to provide and would be happy to nourish and give to you so much, your past experiences and all. For many years i had people tell me id have to marry a guy a decade or more older than me. Not so. My man is 3 years older. Happily with the man im building a life with who is well travelled, liberal and conservative minded, and over the moon to take me on travels and provide for me. I am loving happy and in my mode of genius. You have the right mindset having a list of who you want, that will help. Having little tolerance for bullshit is so good and exactly where its good to be before meeting the right one 💯
oh my goodness. i am so happy to hear this and thanks for your encouragement. manifesting this for my life
a provider is not going to give you a second chance. You don't look or sound like a mother. You are waiting to find the man before you start to live like someone who could manage a family. So men who really want a family think of you as a very low likelihood mate. The tats, the constant moving. No stability. You are a hook up, not a future wife and mother. Do you understand that children need stability. With children it does not matter what you want. It matters what they need.
Why men get pressure is an interesting point
If loving someone gives me pressure 💯 it must be good
I would certainly try to live with that pressure if it was me and I would love it as I do not meet a woman in your capacity nowhere near to it , definitely that pressure would give me excitement and joy and would certainly make me happier and I would hold on to it forever. I love ❤ that challenge.
They are definitely out there. I met my husband at work, I’m in kcmo. He has that masculine/provider thing but also liberal open thinking and we have some traditional roles in our relationship. He is 17 years older than me, I hate to say this because I’m sure you have heard it a lot but it does happen when you least expect it.
I'm so happy to hear that!
Honey, it is not your travelling. You are deep rich soul with a lot of experiences and you will not settle for any shallow connection, emotional unavailability, manipulation, games, etc. People fear vulnerability and that`s the whole problem. Hurt people hurt people - a lot of them belong in the therapy rooms and not in the dating scenes. This is all it is - people keep bleeding on people who did not wound them in the first place despite the countries. Keep going, keep standards high - the right one will join you along x I am 39, single for 4 years for a first time since I was 19 and I would rather be alone than feeling lonely with somebody else ever again. I did not go through so much in my life, did not work on myself for so long just to be dragged by toxicity of the people who are not on the same page and emotional intelligence level. Being single sometimes is a blessing and being in unhappy relationship just not to be alone might be a biggest curse of this modern society.
trying to really internalize the fact that I would rather end up alone than me with someone that I feel like I’m settling for. And I definitely agree with you… The world is not a deep place. Theres a huge value placed on the superficial and I refused to accept that reality with something as important as my life partner. appreciate you sharing your perspective🩷🩷
Traveling will impact the ability to date; especially dating with the goal of long-term commitment in mind. In my early 20s, I traveled nearly constantly for work: 3 months here, 6 months there, 1 year somewhere else. When you know that you'll be leaving again in 6 months, or that the other person will be leaving again in 6 months, it is very hard to let yourself get overly emotionally attached.
Saying that "you'll stay for the right person" doesn't necessarily make it that much better.
From a travel perspective, my advice to her would be: Figure out where you would like to have your children raised (which, since you don't want to go back to the States where you're from). Find someone in that area, and when you date, realize that you'll be dating the entire family, especially mother, grandmothers, and sisters since they will form your support network in raising the kids.
Yeah, and later we will see the YT films her asking in tears where "All the good men are"
Well run-through women will have a hard time finding a good man for long term relation.
Well, lets be honest, ... no chance at all.
You have the right mindset. You should really care about the family you’re joining and who you would be raising kids with, it’s life changing. I’m sorry you’re hurting right now, there is love out there that’s right for you.
thank you so much! 🥹💘 i know it’ll come
A lot of your realisations are correct. Not many guys would be willing to commit to a woman who is floating around the world from place to place. If you want kids, you will also need to think very hard about what support system you have around you in terms of family and friends. Who will look after your child when you're sick and your husband/partner is at work? etc. I am British and my ex-wife is Canadian. We lived in England together for 12 years and had 2 kids. She found it very hard being a mother and not having the advice and support of her mother and sisters around. If you choose to settle down outside of the U.S. and have kids, you will be on your own and you may find that difficult. If you don't like American guys, you could date foreign guys living and working in the U.S. because it's a lot easier for a guy to be a Dad in a foreign country than for a woman to be a Mom abroad. Also, just take it from me, marrying or being in an LTR with someone from another country is pretty challenging in itself. Not only the cultural differences, but you may always feel like one of you isn't truly home, and that can create tension and fights. This is the kind of thing that doesn't really matter if you're just "dating" and having short term flings, but it's really important if you're going to get married and/or have kids.
Awesome video. Wishing you the best.
thank you 🙏🏼
Oh man, you have been out of touch for a while.
Good on you for trying to interact with society again.
We all find our niche. Wandering souls reach a point where they don't know how to take root, not comfortably, not for long.
People rooted don't know how to wander, not comfortably, not for long.
If there is imbalance in partnership lifestyles, that imbalance comes from within.
Sort that out, you might stop travelling.
You seem to be searching for the other side of who you could have been.
We all make choices. Accountability to one's self is the only accountability that matters.
Men don't want to be with a woman who is likely to betray them.
That's not shallow. That's commitment. What makes you afraid of it?
It's too intense for you, btw.
Longer the list, longer the trauma due to no self accountability.
Longer lists? Today is the last day you will be this young.
Stop wasting time.
Dating impossible? You make yourself impossible to men.
Cause most men are done with this now.
Strong independent just means Single. Permanently.
The. Wall.
interesting. i am very liberal. i am more of the provider type. however, i have to be with a woman that is the masculine one. it is just my nature.
Interesting! Could you please explain why? Thanks
@@EgleA-u8e I have no idea why. i have always been like that. the older i get the more i accept this fact. however, when it comes to providing and stuff like paying for dinner i am dominant.
@ I am asking because I am someone who would be most likely considered as a masculine woman - I stand in my own power, I take care of my own emotional needs, career, instead of waiting to receive I work for things to get them without relying on anyone else. This whole feminine/masculine stuff is so abstract and subjective - to each person it will represent different meaning, needs and wants. All I want is an equal partner with emotional intelligence, vulnerability and mutual reciprocity. No one gives or takes more, we both put in work. Good to know that there are men out there who are not intimidated by that!
@@EgleA-u8e I totally agree. I am the same way.