Though I 100% agree, in general.. When a person is invited to a wedding - there is meant to be a bit of an exchange, taking place. Yes, it is customary to give the bride and groom gifts and/or money - though, it’s generally in exchange for the celebration and event that takes place, and what is meant to go along, with that. Such as dinner and drinks, dancing, etc. And all around good time. Especially, if people are traveling and going out of their way, to attend. However, this isn’t some friend of this woman or whatever, that is getting married - it’s her damned brother. She is digging her heels in, to be difficult and entitled - not on genuine principle. This is the type of family and sister One can never rely on, in times of need and emergency - let alone celebration. I feel for that brother. My family is a lot like this, also.
This is how narcissists work. They do not think of a gift as a gift. It is a transaction that they can cash in on later. This is how their "love" is. It will always be conditional, no matter how much you, a non-narcissistic person, may care about them.
For real. I could understand and sympathize if it was only that she couldn't afford a proper gift after spending $500, but her attitude and entitlement that she has of "Relationships are transactional and I should get something out of YOUR wedding" just makes her so repugnant.
She’s autistic, I’m pretty sure. She’s rationalizing everything she’s doing to a logical level, rather than thinking about societal norms. Like Sheldon cooper would on TBBT💀
I copped out when she said "You know...I'm a Virgo. You get it" Seriously, what? Why do some people excuse their awful behavior because of their Zodiac sign? It has nothing to do with anything.
I've just noticed, for some reason, that the people who say this shit are always Virgos or Scorpios. Not sure what either of those mean in terms of when they were born or as a person or whatever but uh... It's always those two that I hear when they're talking about horoscopes like, "you know, that's why I don't have to be held accountable for my actions."
As someone who doesn’t even know my fucking zodiac sign and firmly believe that fact is the ultimate answer, I will never understand the fuckers who say that “Oh, I’m a (insert whatever sign you are) so that’s why (insert random shitty behavior).” It’s simply a way to protect all of your problems and behaviors onto something that may or may not even exist.
1. She is mad at her sister, so she punishes her brother?! 2. She knew the sister had made mistakes in the past, yet she gets offended when asked for help about something that's literally specific to her needs. 3. She expects a return on investment for a wedding gift😂?? 4. She gossipped about the situation and her family to a handful of her friends before even deciding to record & post the TikTok. 5. Begs for feedback, but when she gets the feedback, she deflects, blocks people, and can not accept any type of backlash Just performed a narcissistic evaluation.😂 Edit: I almost forgot she bases her personality on her astrology symbol, and she considers having yo go get chinese for herself as being a "caretaker" for her brother and sister. The entitlement is literally insane.
Especially when she says the the comments have some type of trauma. When she is the one that probably has the trauma. She obviously doesn't really care about the brother and sister. Because of how she talks down to them. They are humans and that day wasn't about you but she obviously had to have it about her because she probably was like that with them growing up. Calling the sister a failure when she can't even be bothered to feed her own kid just to prove a point. That's disgusting.
Self centered comes in every astrological sign. She's using her interpretation of the traits of her star sign to excuse herself for behaving like a horrible human being, and somehow, she thinks it's justified because....Virgo. Stop it. Get some help.
The gift at the wedding is not to help cut costs. Traditionally the parents pay for the wedding and the gift are to help the couple start their life and marriage/family.
Traditionally, yes. But not so much anymore. In cultures, religions, or communities where people still wait until they return from the honeymoon to begin cohabitating, that's probably still the case... But not when a couple is already established in a home together. Now the gift registries include honeymoon and wedding expense funds and stuff like that.
Rage bait implies that they don't belive what they ate saying and are just trying to get attention and resources becuase they have zero talent. Some people genuinely belive the stuff the spew out and are willing to lose freinds money and resources for it
I have autism, i have food sensory issues also I have medical conditions that require certain things regarding food. Here is what you do… you plan a head and make do! The coordinator was probably asking which place because if they choose place A and it wasn’t “vegan enough” a fit would be had. Also you are able bodied with access to a car, pick up your own food. That’s not being an assistant. Why wouldn’t she just take charge of the situation in the first place? “Hey don’t worry about me I’ll get my food, I’ll probably just need it warmed up”
Typical narcissist. Create the problem, be super confrontational when the try to fix the problem and then blab about being a victim. If I was your family next time you just don't get invited.
When I was in the army, there was a guy in our squadron who was a Muslim. I remember in the field once, we were lining up for the first hot meal in weeks. Roast chicken and baked potatoes. He goes up to the guy serving when it's his turn and says "I'm a Muslim". The guy plops a dry baked potato on his plate and told him to enjoy. Nobody really cared, and the Muslim soldier laughed. Some people need thicker skin when it comes to their make believe dietary restrictions. The Muslim guy at least had a religious reason. I was also at a wedding once, where the groom was a close friend. He asked me to go to the store half way through the reception to go pick up a few more cases of beer and crushed ice, as they were running low. I didn't say "Absolutely not. Why would I do that?". I did my pal a solid, and went on a beer run. And this is her brother? She must be a hoot at Thanksgiving dinner, but she's probably the kind of person who denounces Thanksgiving as a genocidal holiday targeting First Nations people.
As someone with a restrictive diet for medical reasons, I'd be fine picking up my own food if they asked or I've even brought my own. She acted so entitled for no reason.
Legit. Had to do this once for a wedding I did attend, cause I have a pretty restrictive diet. I had zero issues picking up/bringing my own meal cause why the hell would I make the coordinators and caterers go out of their way to buy extra product to make a SINGLE meal. I've worked in catering, its stressful as hell! They don't need *more* work.
Y’a my only gripe is they called two hours before and if you’re not planning on that blergh. But then she was like oops gonna withhold the present for this mistake so I can’t be on her side at all😂
The fact that she called those out calling her out as having "unhealed trauma" before looking at her entitled self in the mirror? She's living in the land of Delulu! I wouldn't blame her brother and sister cutting off contact with her after dealing with her bs on one of the most important days for wedding. Toxicity at it's finest!
I just Google, "Is Chinese food vegan?" The result said that most sauces are made with chicken broth. I wonder if she knew that since she didn't place the order. According to Google, most Thai food is not vegan. I wonder if she was positive that hers and daughter's food was.
The people that are most vocal about being vegan aren’t actually vegan. They just do it for attention or to simply boost their ego being they’re doing something “good” for the world 😂
Mhhmm.. true. From the video you can't see much but I bet she'd need some salad and even if she doesn't it wouldn't hurt. (Before anyone accuses me of fatphobia of whatever just know that I would need to eat more salad myself, it's not fatphobia it's "staying healthy")
My cousin got married not long ago. Her sister and me didn't even eat at the wedding, we were hosting the guests. We waited until the wedding ended to eat with the rest of the family who were cooking and helping. They did the same on my wedding!! It's not because it's transactional, it's because we care and love them.
same here in desi weddings at subcontinent. I dont get the whole europe wedding getting rsvp and stuff. Here we feed everyone from the wedding guests to photographers to the staff and still we get left with enough food that we pack it and send it to both groom and bride family so they dont have to cook the next day and get some rest
I did this my mom wedding.. or staff have problems in kitchen they was few cook short so I just go help there my dress and stuff 😅 my mom was little upset they didnt even ask her if that was ok.. but I was just like “party itself have too much ppl” and she was ok.. also we had family foods what is server in every wedding and bigger birthday and they have problem get food taste right.. so I did help with that too 😅 I did got food tho..
This girl is a bad sibling for sure. My step sister got married a while back and I didn’t hesitate to help out afterwards to clean up and get the dishes cleaned so they could save some money on the venue. Like damn they just spend a ton of money and have gone through all the hassle of getting the whole thing organized and she can’t even have the curtesy to pick up her own special food order, that’s just ridiculous.
I get the sneaking feeling that she’s been lying from the start and intentionally made sure she would not get a vegan dish just to make things about herself. She just has that vibe.
Right! The reception was OBVIOUSLY catered, somehow. I feel… SALAD was an option (as it always is with caterers) and the caterers probably offered something like rice and said they’d roast the vegetable sides in olive oil instead of butter, and she was like, “I don’t want no damn salad and rice.”
I have a pretty strict diet due to health issues and I’ve been to 4 cousin’s weddings and my sister’s wedding and I always ensured my own food because it’s not their responsibility to make those extreme accommodations on their special day.
I have two vegan cousins and they do the same thing. I was offended at first because I'd go out of my way to have vegan options available but then I realized they're just saving me the trouble.
4:02 ughhhh. She really thinks it’s about the meal. Meanwhile the wedding cost $10k+. She’s entitled person that became a vegan and doubled down. So obnoxious.
You don't need to say that she is vegan, and say that she is entitled. If she's vegan, being entitled is implied. Entitlement and privilege are prerequisites for veganism.
@@pkz420 How is being vegan entitled when you as a meat eater are feeling entitled to animals lives. Also, you can eat vegan for cheap it doesn't require privilege.
@@silververnallbells191 When Vegans need labs to get meat tasting whatever the hell ya want. You cannot critique nature when you need affronts to nature in order to taste something you have right in front of you as a human who can hunt. So 🤷🏾♂️
10:29 bruh she’s too lazy to even sit up to defend herself. Literally laying on a cozy, expensive pillow and she actually believes she’s the righteous one.
@6:15 she says she drove 5 hours to get to the wedding, so she drove, and went straight to the wedding, no hotel stop. But earlier in the video she said she told the coordinator that she lives only 15 minutes away from the venue! Which is it, Karen?
What a narcissist. For her, the problem isn't her behavior, but all people, who call her out. They all must have trauma issues, she can't be wrong 🤦♂️
Not only is it not a big deal, it's not even the brother's fault! According to her tge coordinator asked her to pickup the food so I fail to see why she would punish the brother????
I'm not sure why my comment got deleted, and I hadn't seen her 2nd tik tok yet 😅 she does mention it in that one, lol. But, yes, I totally agree. I also don't understand how she thinks her "clarification" would make things better! Like, "ohh now we understand, you're totally right, girl."
She spoke about the sister (wedding coordinator) like she was just some lady. Like referring to your sibling my their job title is kinda odd to me. I see them as a sibling before their job title. I can imagine she left a negative yelp review on her sister because she wasn't satisfied with the service.
Can’t speak for @Finnjaymakes but … I’m pretty sure what they said isn’t racist. They’re most likely talking about all races as a whole. Grow up. Not everything is racist.
@@Amy_T85 Never Said anything about Racism. I just Judged her based off of the Title. (Also I Just woke up Because I was Violently Coughing) So I’m not gonna Argue
Imagine turning your personal decisions into everybody's problem lol. It's even worse when it's your brother's wedding which she cant compromise on. She just proved that she's an horrible person to be with. I feel bad for whoever decides to be with her
As a Nigerian... I am so used to seeing siblings of the bride and groom being part of the event coordinators. As a sibling, you are the one other family and friends would call if they need anything. So I find it super weird that she's this nonchalant about her brother's wedding.
As an American, a lot of times certain family members get cut off because they or their significant other are complete pieces of shit and will treat you and the people you know like shit. Take my brother for example, as soon as I move out of his place it's no contact because his wife starved me for weeks, his wife constantly disrespects me and my fiancée, my brother defends her behavior, and he constantly lies about willing to help me
I had a friend that admitted to me that the only reason they hung out with me was because I paid for their food when we went out to eat. (I was raised being told: "eating in front of people without offering them any is rude, unless you offer and they say no.") and all this friend normally had a her house was: cereal, canned food, or roman (she lived with her parents, we were 16) and we would go walking up town a lot, and it normally got late afternoon. so she would suggest stopping somewhere for lunch (she would never bring money), so I would pay her side, (despite not having much money myself) picture this happening almost every other day for 3 years. yet her acting like spending one dollar on a cheep necklace for my birthday (ONE TIME) was too much.....
Man, if I had a dietary restriction and Im going to a wedding, I'd have my own food to be sure. Theres no guarantee that the coordinator will accommodate a singular person when they have several things and people, mainly bride and groom, to deal with. Theres a lot on their plate so to expect them to start bending to the will of guests is outlandish especially when there were readily available options. Its not like its a destination wedding where the guests have to wait or be late to make sure they eat something, its in a city with 8 other stores, she just wanted to paint them all as the bad guy, I wonder what the family dynamic is like....
5:30 #3 only giving gifts in order to get sth in return If you expect sth in return then it's not a gift. It's a transaction, a purchase, buy/sell situation. A gift is only truly a gift if you get nothing in return for it, or at the very least not expect sth in return
I’m a vendor at weddings, one time I saw a heated argument between the sound guy and the wedding coordinator over a miscommunication, trust me, your Chinese food problem is as important as a dirty napkin in a garbage dump
Highly doubt she’s single. There’s a simp for every woman. She could go around shooting men in the foot and one of those men would still willingly say “Thank you for taking my toes off queen. Can I please take you out on an expensive date?”
Wait she thinks $25 per person is cheap for a wedding? That is sadly pretty standard for catering. Planning a wedding right now and my catering is $25-30 per person depending on which menu I pick.
So one thing that stood out to me is that it’s her brother and close friends wedding and her sister is the coordinator… seems like a family affair and you weren’t included you’re just invited as a guest…. There’s a reason for that. IJS
In other words her sister has a successful business, her brother got married to her friend. I'm guessing she's lashing out at the brother for "stealing" her friend. What a damn child.
I am struck speachless with infuriation... The fact that she's saying that it's ridiculous that they won't pick it up because it's so close to the wedding venue, yet at the same time she's saying it's outrageous that she should have to pick the food up herself because she drove so far when she's getting there an hour early, giving her plenty of time to go a few blocks to pick up the food. So she's made these people pay for it and refused to pick it up, or, if they hadn't payed yet, the restaurant employees did the labor for nothing because of her... W... T... F...?
@@ambersummer2685 We are animals, mammals specifically. Belief has little to do with it when we share so many traits with other mammals. Even if you're a creationist, you flat out can't deny that God made us in the same category as Monkeys, Dogs, Cats and other mammals, albeit us as supposedly his master creation so we get sentience and intellect. It's just logical.
@@stankobarabata2406 Oh yeah I added that disclaimer in case someone religious freaked out about my statement about us being animals. I believe we are, just with intellect
I hear that she has the one happy vegan cat in thw whole world. I've never seen it eat the salad she puts out for it.... but she swears up and down he does so it's cool guys.
This just seems so narcissistic. The whole world needs to revolve around them and if someone won't serve you then you are so toxic or idk. So she just goes to tiktok and expects the world to clap for her. What does she want us to say? YOU GO QUEENNN💅💅💅 And what narcissists also do is direct everything to themselves like "I did so much for you!" Kinda thing. They just want you to look past the wrong and focus on the 'positive things.' People need to grow up lol.
Honestly the part that bothers me most is that she made her child vegan :p vegetarian is fine, but with veganism you don’t rly get all the essential amino acids & nutrients your body needs to thrive. Adults can make that choice for themselves, but for growing children that didn’t choose their parents - it’s just frustrating
Was looking for this comment. She was willing to not feed her daughter food because she chose to make her daughter vegan and be petty enough not to get her the food just to later blame her brother and sister, that's messed up.
Yeah i wondered if anyone else had caught that, first it was her son and then it was her daughter, although these days maybe her son became her daughter on the drive over 😅
12:00 well now that makes a lot of sense... I was wondering why the "coordinator" wasn't bending over backwards for her. It's because they're all family, and they know she's a PITA, and this is always an issue with her, and they were like nope, not this time. Narcissists truly never do anything unless there's something in it for them. They tally. They think that gifts are transactional, and not just because.
@@jenneacubero1036Her ancestors would give her brother and his wife a gift if they were invited. Wait till she attends a Nigerian wedding where guest throw money on the dance floor to the bride and groom. Nobody gets paid back for that. They do that for baby showers too.
1 - is her car and lifestyle completely vegan? and 2 - she be a thiccen nugget for someone that only eats grass and ice cubes... the math aint mathin'....
@@Michael-es4dtmost junk food actuqlly isnt vegan they contain milk(yk a animal product) so that automatically disqualifies most of it then most suaces are made using animal fat and oils as well... so unless ur eating a salad or going to a vegan restaurant u aint finding vegan junk food 😂
We just spent 10k on catering, we haven’t opened our gifts(we asked for money) and I do not expect to cover even half that cost in gifts. If she wasn’t related to the coordinator and was just a guest I would consider asking her to grab her own food to be unprofessional, I only had one vegan meal and I made sure that it was taken care of and I think it’s very unusual that in 2024 the caterer didn’t have one vegan option or couldn’t figure out how to cook a one off vegan meal. Working with family can be very detrimental to your relationship with them and I really think that is the root of the problem here, her feels got hurt because they were family and thought they were special and in the other side thinking ther relationship means that even in high stress or serious situations their boundaries are the same as if it were a normal day.
Wedding gifts "traditionally", are to help a new family get a start... not help cut wedding costs, or a "celebrate you". Traditionally the wedding is paid for by the brides father. The gifts are to help start a family and furnish the new family home. Small appliances, kitchenware, home-goods, baby stuff, or cash. They were not personal, or fun gifts like Christmas or a birthday. They were functional gifts to help start a married-family life. Much of that has changed, sure. But that was Western tradition.
@@CraigTraversIm no vegan but I feel like that would cause a lot of problems if everyone doubled their meat intake .. 😭😭😭 Besides… Who could afford it 😭
The level of entitled people that are also narcissistic on social media is crazy these days. I somehow missed the part where she thinks "any" Chinese food is going to be vegan...rofl
Honestly the entitlement is crazy, I do not expect the wedding coordinator to worry about my specific food need and yes I have dietary problems but guess what ? It’s not about me, it’s not my wedding tf am I gonna do
@@SindyJ37with the way she acts ... the fact that she's a single parent, with that attitude and entitlement? let's just say the math IS mathing. makes sense that no decent man would tolerate her bs, i feel for any man that accidentally gets sucked into her orbit 😂
Wow… the way she threw her sister under the bus before we knew she was her sister🤨She says “her track record as a coordinator is not great” or something to that end. That was gross because no matter how bad her sister is at this job, she’s always gonna look like the ah for speaking about her that way. Unless you’re doing actual business, relationships *should not be* transactional. Of course if you’re giving everything of yourself and there’s no reciprocity, then by all means leave/set some boundaries. However, if everything you do for someone receives an asterisk until you get something in return, you are the one who’s triggered and needs therapy. The way she weaponized therapy terms and completely misused the concepts of colonialism and patriarchy is infuriating. You know, since those things are actually real and persist as serious problems in our society today, but this gives validity to the people who say those that see it are pulling it out of nowhere. The lack of self awareness for someone who uses such big words is a giant red flag for me. Being in a relationship with her of any kind must be a maddening experience. I would bet the gift of her attendance would’ve readily been returned and exchanged for something more pleasant if given the chance.✌️👋🙂↔️
How did she drive 5 hours and spend 500$ dollars?? An't no way!!! 😂😂😂 I bet 500$ she ate before she got there and then cried about not having rabbit food at her brothers weeding.
I vouch you can be annoyed with driving 5 hours and your food not being there or it being wrong but it’s not your day just get something or shut up and enjoy the event
Tbh I think the wedding coordinator should be the one who picks up the food, but if I was her I would’ve just felt with it and picked it up without complaining.
So driving 5 hours for a wedding, she couldn't have driven ten minutes more to get the food? Also not giving a gift just because of this when it's not about you on that day, but about the bride and groom? That's just sad.
Does she not know what a gift is??? Your not meant to be getting somthing back! ITS A GIFT! The narcissism is disgusting
Though I 100% agree, in general..
When a person is invited to a wedding - there is meant to be a bit of an exchange, taking place.
Yes, it is customary to give the bride and groom gifts and/or money - though, it’s generally in exchange for the celebration and event that takes place, and what is meant to go along, with that.
Such as dinner and drinks, dancing, etc.
And all around good time.
Especially, if people are traveling and going out of their way, to attend.
However, this isn’t some friend of this woman or whatever, that is getting married - it’s her damned brother.
She is digging her heels in, to be difficult and entitled - not on genuine principle.
This is the type of family and sister One can never rely on, in times of need and emergency - let alone celebration.
I feel for that brother.
My family is a lot like this, also.
This is how narcissists work. They do not think of a gift as a gift. It is a transaction that they can cash in on later. This is how their "love" is. It will always be conditional, no matter how much you, a non-narcissistic person, may care about them.
For real. I could understand and sympathize if it was only that she couldn't afford a proper gift after spending $500, but her attitude and entitlement that she has of "Relationships are transactional and I should get something out of YOUR wedding" just makes her so repugnant.
6:02
Boy, in retrospect, that is indeed a *_wild_* statement isn't it...
She’s autistic, I’m pretty sure. She’s rationalizing everything she’s doing to a logical level, rather than thinking about societal norms. Like Sheldon cooper would on TBBT💀
I copped out when she said "You know...I'm a Virgo. You get it"
Seriously, what? Why do some people excuse their awful behavior because of their Zodiac sign? It has nothing to do with anything.
Your personality doesn't come from when you were born. It comes from if you're an ahole or not!
I've just noticed, for some reason, that the people who say this shit are always Virgos or Scorpios. Not sure what either of those mean in terms of when they were born or as a person or whatever but uh... It's always those two that I hear when they're talking about horoscopes like, "you know, that's why I don't have to be held accountable for my actions."
I’m a Virgo and I won’t claim her✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
As someone who doesn’t even know my fucking zodiac sign and firmly believe that fact is the ultimate answer, I will never understand the fuckers who say that “Oh, I’m a (insert whatever sign you are) so that’s why (insert random shitty behavior).” It’s simply a way to protect all of your problems and behaviors onto something that may or may not even exist.
I hit five people w my car, but it’s okay. I’m a Capricorn 🤪
1. She is mad at her sister, so she punishes her brother?!
2. She knew the sister had made mistakes in the past, yet she gets offended when asked for help about something that's literally specific to her needs.
3. She expects a return on investment for a wedding gift😂??
4. She gossipped about the situation and her family to a handful of her friends before even deciding to record & post the TikTok.
5. Begs for feedback, but when she gets the feedback, she deflects, blocks people, and can not accept any type of backlash
Just performed a narcissistic evaluation.😂
Edit: I almost forgot she bases her personality on her astrology symbol, and she considers having yo go get chinese for herself as being a "caretaker" for her brother and sister. The entitlement is literally insane.
Especially when she says the the comments have some type of trauma. When she is the one that probably has the trauma. She obviously doesn't really care about the brother and sister. Because of how she talks down to them. They are humans and that day wasn't about you but she obviously had to have it about her because she probably was like that with them growing up. Calling the sister a failure when she can't even be bothered to feed her own kid just to prove a point. That's disgusting.
Was her astrology symbol an asshole?
dw she a virgo
Self centered comes in every astrological sign. She's using her interpretation of the traits of her star sign to excuse herself for behaving like a horrible human being, and somehow, she thinks it's justified because....Virgo.
Stop it. Get some help.
@@ThisAlphaWolf nah its all good cuz she a virgo trust
The gift at the wedding is not to help cut costs. Traditionally the parents pay for the wedding and the gift are to help the couple start their life and marriage/family.
The BRIDE’s family pay. Unfortunately, too many single mothers, so this tradition is gone.
@@darylrichardson8567thats very strange to me. In my culture the man does, he even pays a dowry
@@hotmess9640the dress the bride's family pays for
Traditionally, yes. But not so much anymore. In cultures, religions, or communities where people still wait until they return from the honeymoon to begin cohabitating, that's probably still the case... But not when a couple is already established in a home together. Now the gift registries include honeymoon and wedding expense funds and stuff like that.
This feels like rage bait, but I can’t tell with people anymore.
Rage bait implies that they don't belive what they ate saying and are just trying to get attention and resources becuase they have zero talent. Some people genuinely belive the stuff the spew out and are willing to lose freinds money and resources for it
@@extoyshred2957 You have a good point.
skibidi bait
Fr some people nowadays are actually this stupid.
believe in every bait out there to be entertained
"My gift was my attendance" is an absolutely diabolical thing to say. Can't even fathom a more narcissistic thing to say
Im tired of these narcissistic girls on tiktok thinking that they can do whatever they want without any consequences
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She’s a grown overweight woman
Except they can cause there is never consequences
@@Ruggi21 You're really not helping.
@@razztastic but unfortunately, it’s true
“I am nobody’s caretaker” uhhhh…your kids maybe? Professional victim.
The coordinator is their sister, seems like just a family affair and she chose to be the witch of the family.
I was thinking I bet this isn't even a happy family
@@Ready-ForTheEnd
Bro when he's finished with this wedding: 🏃🏾♂️💨💨
It seems like everyone is the family was pitching in to help except her.
I have autism, i have food sensory issues also I have medical conditions that require certain things regarding food. Here is what you do… you plan a head and make do! The coordinator was probably asking which place because if they choose place A and it wasn’t “vegan enough” a fit would be had. Also you are able bodied with access to a car, pick up your own food. That’s not being an assistant. Why wouldn’t she just take charge of the situation in the first place? “Hey don’t worry about me I’ll get my food, I’ll probably just need it warmed up”
Typical narcissist. Create the problem, be super confrontational when the try to fix the problem and then blab about being a victim. If I was your family next time you just don't get invited.
When I was in the army, there was a guy in our squadron who was a Muslim. I remember in the field once, we were lining up for the first hot meal in weeks. Roast chicken and baked potatoes. He goes up to the guy serving when it's his turn and says "I'm a Muslim". The guy plops a dry baked potato on his plate and told him to enjoy. Nobody really cared, and the Muslim soldier laughed. Some people need thicker skin when it comes to their make believe dietary restrictions. The Muslim guy at least had a religious reason.
I was also at a wedding once, where the groom was a close friend. He asked me to go to the store half way through the reception to go pick up a few more cases of beer and crushed ice, as they were running low. I didn't say "Absolutely not. Why would I do that?". I did my pal a solid, and went on a beer run. And this is her brother? She must be a hoot at Thanksgiving dinner, but she's probably the kind of person who denounces Thanksgiving as a genocidal holiday targeting First Nations people.
As someone with a restrictive diet for medical reasons, I'd be fine picking up my own food if they asked or I've even brought my own. She acted so entitled for no reason.
Ditto.
Legit. Had to do this once for a wedding I did attend, cause I have a pretty restrictive diet. I had zero issues picking up/bringing my own meal cause why the hell would I make the coordinators and caterers go out of their way to buy extra product to make a SINGLE meal. I've worked in catering, its stressful as hell! They don't need *more* work.
Y’a my only gripe is they called two hours before and if you’re not planning on that blergh. But then she was like oops gonna withhold the present for this mistake so I can’t be on her side at all😂
@@withcharmtospare
Yeah, she took the type of problem you'd bring up at the next family reunion and 📈
My cousin is a vegetarian and always brings their own food for holidays and get togethers… it’s not that big of a deal.
The fact that she called those out calling her out as having "unhealed trauma" before looking at her entitled self in the mirror? She's living in the land of Delulu! I wouldn't blame her brother and sister cutting off contact with her after dealing with her bs on one of the most important days for wedding. Toxicity at it's finest!
delulu kinda sounds delicious though
The lady thinks giving a gift is reciprocal! The problem is her!
Narcissists operate transactionally.
on very rare occasions things work like that but usually both people are aware beforehand
Compliments are reciprocal. Not gifts!
Luckily i don’t have a sister like this.
I’m at loss of words, speechless
@@asarishepard8171 I no longer reciprocate comments. I just say, "Thank you" & move on.
The fact she would let her own kids go hungry before feeding them regular food is so sad neglect fr
I just Google, "Is Chinese food vegan?" The result said that most sauces are made with chicken broth. I wonder if she knew that since she didn't place the order.
According to Google, most Thai food is not vegan. I wonder if she was positive that hers and daughter's food was.
That was my FIRST thought. Unless it’s a specifically vegan restaurant, she’s out of luck.
Yeah I found this to be the weirdest suggestion lmao like btch have a salad it ain’t your day lol.
This was my first thought as well!!! I was like “……? 🤔 Chinese??? There's no way thats vegan”
The people that are most vocal about being vegan aren’t actually vegan. They just do it for attention or to simply boost their ego being they’re doing something “good” for the world 😂
I'm sure she believes Panda Express is Chinese food
99% of weddings have salads, she obviously wasn’t happy with it, so she doesn’t get to eat. Done.
Ohh u are right.... there is always some greens ... she could even eat the grass
Mhhmm.. true. From the video you can't see much but I bet she'd need some salad and even if she doesn't it wouldn't hurt.
(Before anyone accuses me of fatphobia of whatever just know that I would need to eat more salad myself, it's not fatphobia it's "staying healthy")
My cousin got married not long ago. Her sister and me didn't even eat at the wedding, we were hosting the guests. We waited until the wedding ended to eat with the rest of the family who were cooking and helping. They did the same on my wedding!! It's not because it's transactional, it's because we care and love them.
same here in desi weddings at subcontinent. I dont get the whole europe wedding getting rsvp and stuff. Here we feed everyone from the wedding guests to photographers to the staff and still we get left with enough food that we pack it and send it to both groom and bride family so they dont have to cook the next day and get some rest
I did this my mom wedding.. or staff have problems in kitchen they was few cook short so I just go help there my dress and stuff 😅 my mom was little upset they didnt even ask her if that was ok.. but I was just like “party itself have too much ppl” and she was ok.. also we had family foods what is server in every wedding and bigger birthday and they have problem get food taste right.. so I did help with that too 😅
I did got food tho..
This girl is a bad sibling for sure. My step sister got married a while back and I didn’t hesitate to help out afterwards to clean up and get the dishes cleaned so they could save some money on the venue. Like damn they just spend a ton of money and have gone through all the hassle of getting the whole thing organized and she can’t even have the curtesy to pick up her own special food order, that’s just ridiculous.
I get the sneaking feeling that she’s been lying from the start and intentionally made sure she would not get a vegan dish just to make things about herself. She just has that vibe.
There would be no meat in the dish in the wedding if she order it for dinner. Yeah man I have to agree with you and it’s no brainer to do this.
Right! The reception was OBVIOUSLY catered, somehow. I feel… SALAD was an option (as it always is with caterers) and the caterers probably offered something like rice and said they’d roast the vegetable sides in olive oil instead of butter, and she was like, “I don’t want no damn salad and rice.”
I wouldn't be surprised if she lied about being vegan💀
There’s always vegan options, they just want SPECIFIC DISHES (fruits,salads,seafood they don’t care)
I have a pretty strict diet due to health issues and I’ve been to 4 cousin’s weddings and my sister’s wedding and I always ensured my own food because it’s not their responsibility to make those extreme accommodations on their special day.
I have two vegan cousins and they do the same thing. I was offended at first because I'd go out of my way to have vegan options available but then I realized they're just saving me the trouble.
4:02 ughhhh. She really thinks it’s about the meal. Meanwhile the wedding cost $10k+. She’s entitled person that became a vegan and doubled down. So obnoxious.
yes she has i kid i bet she is single
You don't need to say that she is vegan, and say that she is entitled.
If she's vegan, being entitled is implied. Entitlement and privilege are prerequisites for veganism.
@@pkz420 great take
@@pkz420 How is being vegan entitled when you as a meat eater are feeling entitled to animals lives. Also, you can eat vegan for cheap it doesn't require privilege.
@@silververnallbells191
When Vegans need labs to get meat tasting whatever the hell ya want.
You cannot critique nature when you need affronts to nature in order to taste something you have right in front of you as a human who can hunt. So 🤷🏾♂️
10:29 bruh she’s too lazy to even sit up to defend herself. Literally laying on a cozy, expensive pillow and she actually believes she’s the righteous one.
@6:15 she says she drove 5 hours to get to the wedding, so she drove, and went straight to the wedding, no hotel stop. But earlier in the video she said she told the coordinator that she lives only 15 minutes away from the venue! Which is it, Karen?
I feel bad for the girls who are named Karen. Seriously.
Typical well actually I had to do this and that and that’s y it’s the end of the world and it was so hard for me so pity me 😢
@laurenelizabeth2505 True, me too. I know several women with that name, and they are sweethearts.
IKRRRR!!!!
I'm pretty sure she said she was 15 minutes away at that point. Not that she lives only 15 mins away.
What a narcissist. For her, the problem isn't her behavior, but all people, who call her out. They all must have trauma issues, she can't be wrong 🤦♂️
Not only is it not a big deal, it's not even the brother's fault! According to her tge coordinator asked her to pickup the food so I fail to see why she would punish the brother????
Cuz she is so self-absorbed and miserable she feels entitled to make EVERYBODY else miserable too.
@@Froggy_Bomb yeah they mentioned that also. She just sounds all-around entitled and probably completely miserable to be around.
I'm not sure why my comment got deleted, and I hadn't seen her 2nd tik tok yet 😅 she does mention it in that one, lol. But, yes, I totally agree. I also don't understand how she thinks her "clarification" would make things better! Like, "ohh now we understand, you're totally right, girl."
My cousin is vegan and she brings her own food whenever we have family functions
She spoke about the sister (wedding coordinator) like she was just some lady. Like referring to your sibling my their job title is kinda odd to me. I see them as a sibling before their job title. I can imagine she left a negative yelp review on her sister because she wasn't satisfied with the service.
Damn. Who TF would do this? The things People do For clout concerns me.
racist
Can’t speak for @Finnjaymakes but … I’m pretty sure what they said isn’t racist. They’re most likely talking about all races as a whole. Grow up. Not everything is racist.
@@Amy_T85 Never Said anything about Racism. I just Judged her based off of the Title.
(Also I Just woke up Because I was Violently Coughing) So I’m not gonna Argue
@@Finnjaymakes damn they after you even tho ur comment said nothing about Race😂
@@Finnjaymakesdude ur just getting attacked for nada rn lol
Imagine turning your personal decisions into everybody's problem lol. It's even worse when it's your brother's wedding which she cant compromise on. She just proved that she's an horrible person to be with. I feel bad for whoever decides to be with her
As a Nigerian... I am so used to seeing siblings of the bride and groom being part of the event coordinators. As a sibling, you are the one other family and friends would call if they need anything.
So I find it super weird that she's this nonchalant about her brother's wedding.
As an American, a lot of times certain family members get cut off because they or their significant other are complete pieces of shit and will treat you and the people you know like shit. Take my brother for example, as soon as I move out of his place it's no contact because his wife starved me for weeks, his wife constantly disrespects me and my fiancée, my brother defends her behavior, and he constantly lies about willing to help me
I had a friend that admitted to me that the only reason they hung out with me was because I paid for their food when we went out to eat.
(I was raised being told: "eating in front of people without offering them any is rude, unless you offer and they say no.")
and all this friend normally had a her house was: cereal, canned food, or roman (she lived with her parents, we were 16)
and we would go walking up town a lot, and it normally got late afternoon. so she would suggest stopping somewhere for lunch (she would never bring money), so I would pay her side, (despite not having much money myself)
picture this happening almost every other day for 3 years.
yet her acting like spending one dollar on a cheep necklace for my birthday (ONE TIME) was too much.....
I'm glad it's "had." I was raised that way too. Not great to have people taking advantage of you.
100% this chick is pissed her brother is getting married, and she knows she never going to be.
And she is getting bald... its like a discount woopie goldberg
I also really hope she won’t procreate. Imagine how insufferable her kids would be😂.
@@OG_Sneert0130 she mentioned in the video she has a kid tho
@@basicallyweird I like to call that: the gift that keeps on giving.
Shes the type of person who’d ask for a gift in someone else’s birthday
Man, if I had a dietary restriction and Im going to a wedding, I'd have my own food to be sure. Theres no guarantee that the coordinator will accommodate a singular person when they have several things and people, mainly bride and groom, to deal with. Theres a lot on their plate so to expect them to start bending to the will of guests is outlandish especially when there were readily available options. Its not like its a destination wedding where the guests have to wait or be late to make sure they eat something, its in a city with 8 other stores, she just wanted to paint them all as the bad guy, I wonder what the family dynamic is like....
5:30 #3 only giving gifts in order to get sth in return
If you expect sth in return then it's not a gift. It's a transaction, a purchase, buy/sell situation. A gift is only truly a gift if you get nothing in return for it, or at the very least not expect sth in return
A return on a gift? That's like an oxymoron, you don't get a return off a gift, it's not an investment
It's an investment into Bros happiness
17:22 She really just said “I’m not the caretaker for anyone else” when that little bit of “labor” did indeed involve feeding HER child 😭😭
Their wedding wasn't all about me!!!
MEEEEEEEEE
RHEEEEEEEEEEE!
she just wanted an excuse to not buy a gift. If she did her food, it would of been some other eexcuse
"Some of your responses are Rude and PATRIARCHY... AND COLONIALISM!"
Wow 😅 4 seconds at the start of the video and her career has been ruined🤷🏻♂️
*rooted in patriarchy, but yea, this was a wild situation to try and throw these buzzwords in 😂
What career.
Right? Getting out all the buzzwords.
@@djwolfenstein
Huh...
Good point!
Narcissists going to deflect.
I’m a vendor at weddings, one time I saw a heated argument between the sound guy and the wedding coordinator over a miscommunication, trust me, your Chinese food problem is as important as a dirty napkin in a garbage dump
I'm getting jealousy vibes. She is just jealous that he is getting married and she is single and miserable.
And she just prepared herself a single bed for a few decades.
Well, I’m not sure if a partner was mentioned, but I would be surprised if she had one
it's a mystery why she would be single.
Highly doubt she’s single. There’s a simp for every woman. She could go around shooting men in the foot and one of those men would still willingly say “Thank you for taking my toes off queen. Can I please take you out on an expensive date?”
Wait she thinks $25 per person is cheap for a wedding? That is sadly pretty standard for catering. Planning a wedding right now and my catering is $25-30 per person depending on which menu I pick.
My Ex-wife had almost the exact same response when her sister picked a restaurant that had no Vegan options for the Rehearsal Dinner.
Good thing she is your Ex-wife 😂
@@thestonedrone
And that I'm not stuck with her debt.
So one thing that stood out to me is that it’s her brother and close friends wedding and her sister is the coordinator… seems like a family affair and you weren’t included you’re just invited as a guest…. There’s a reason for that. IJS
In other words her sister has a successful business, her brother got married to her friend. I'm guessing she's lashing out at the brother for "stealing" her friend. What a damn child.
She’s also a single mother, if I was in her position I’d be miserable too😭😭😭. Still doesn’t justify how she acts tho😅
Bet shes thinking we were supposed to be single girlies together forever!
Probably a single mother too
I am struck speachless with infuriation... The fact that she's saying that it's ridiculous that they won't pick it up because it's so close to the wedding venue, yet at the same time she's saying it's outrageous that she should have to pick the food up herself because she drove so far when she's getting there an hour early, giving her plenty of time to go a few blocks to pick up the food. So she's made these people pay for it and refused to pick it up, or, if they hadn't payed yet, the restaurant employees did the labor for nothing because of her... W... T... F...?
all I know is this is a drama llama that won't be invited to any more family functions
Thankfully at the cook out she’ll be cooking for herself or be asked to bring the drinks😂
🤦🏽♀️... If you are expecting a return that's an investment, a GIFT is literally the polar opposite!
She’s the type of person who would get made at a newborn for refusing to drink vegan milk instead of breast milk.
If you think about it, breast milk isn’t vegan🤔….and we’re technically animals (depending on your beliefs)
@@ambersummer2685 We are animals, mammals specifically. Belief has little to do with it when we share so many traits with other mammals. Even if you're a creationist, you flat out can't deny that God made us in the same category as Monkeys, Dogs, Cats and other mammals, albeit us as supposedly his master creation so we get sentience and intellect. It's just logical.
@@stankobarabata2406 Oh yeah I added that disclaimer in case someone religious freaked out about my statement about us being animals. I believe we are, just with intellect
@@stankobarabata2406fax, god made us like the other mammals. Our mothers still have to give us breast milk.
I hear that she has the one happy vegan cat in thw whole world.
I've never seen it eat the salad she puts out for it.... but she swears up and down he does so it's cool guys.
This just seems so narcissistic. The whole world needs to revolve around them and if someone won't serve you then you are so toxic or idk. So she just goes to tiktok and expects the world to clap for her. What does she want us to say? YOU GO QUEENNN💅💅💅 And what narcissists also do is direct everything to themselves like "I did so much for you!" Kinda thing. They just want you to look past the wrong and focus on the 'positive things.' People need to grow up lol.
Honestly the part that bothers me most is that she made her child vegan :p
vegetarian is fine, but with veganism you don’t rly get all the essential amino acids & nutrients your body needs to thrive. Adults can make that choice for themselves, but for growing children that didn’t choose their parents - it’s just frustrating
Was looking for this comment. She was willing to not feed her daughter food because she chose to make her daughter vegan and be petty enough not to get her the food just to later blame her brother and sister, that's messed up.
If you can’t get all the necessary stuff from a vegan diet then it’s not fine.
@@Justin-pe9cl I said vegetarian is fine, not vegan - vegetarian includes eggs, dairy, other animal products, just not meat directly 👍
@@MaddieFishblob Ah, I read vegan
I hope someone calls CPS on this heifer.
$25 in chinese food for one person?! is she ordering three entrees? and you know this narcissist isn’t going to tip
How tf does a 5 hour drive cost 500$? Is she driving an M1 Abrams?
😂 Maybe she was going full throttle in a Hellcat all the way there.
She must got that new gas guzzler Jeep
😂😂😂
Becuase she is a liar and wants to make herself seem like a victim
She was lying dummy
this is what jealousy looks like, she is so unhappy that she isn't married herself, so she acts out like this
Why not just have pockets filled with peas. Snack anytime
😂
Honestly a big brain move right there haha
Has 9 hours to make hair look ridiculous, but not a 30 minute round trip to pickup your specific food for you and your child...
So is it a son or a daughter? 🤔 she’s can’t even tell the truth about that how can you believe anything she says
Yeah i wondered if anyone else had caught that, first it was her son and then it was her daughter, although these days maybe her son became her daughter on the drive over 😅
She's childless pretending to have a kid to use as a sympathy weapon disgusting
12:00 well now that makes a lot of sense... I was wondering why the "coordinator" wasn't bending over backwards for her. It's because they're all family, and they know she's a PITA, and this is always an issue with her, and they were like nope, not this time. Narcissists truly never do anything unless there's something in it for them. They tally. They think that gifts are transactional, and not just because.
somehow i love her family... i suspect the reception was amazing without her there
It was BETTER without her
I agree with that
I'm gonna be honest, I don't think she ever had a gift for them.
Not the colonialism card. Gurl sit down 😭
@gaby-leighjonathan2207
I just... I'm _just_ not seeing it. 🤦🏾♂️
Her ancestors would've been disgusted.
@@jenneacubero1036I’m sure they’re okay
@@jenneacubero1036Her ancestors would give her brother and his wife a gift if they were invited.
Wait till she attends a Nigerian wedding where guest throw money on the dance floor to the bride and groom. Nobody gets paid back for that. They do that for baby showers too.
@@jayqwuan Disgusted and okay.
It’s not “just cutting cost”. It’s showing your family members how much you care for them… Jesus Christ this woman is special.
1 - is her car and lifestyle completely vegan? and 2 - she be a thiccen nugget for someone that only eats grass and ice cubes... the math aint mathin'....
She thinks that Chinese food is healthy so yeah
Oreos and chips are vegan lol. You can still get fat.
@@Michael-es4dt I’m pretty confident Oreos are indeed not vegan
@@Ruggi21 Really? I was fairly sure they were. Whether or not they are, there's a shit ton of junk food that's vegan. I've seen some big ass vegans.
@@Michael-es4dtmost junk food actuqlly isnt vegan they contain milk(yk a animal product) so that automatically disqualifies most of it then most suaces are made using animal fat and oils as well... so unless ur eating a salad or going to a vegan restaurant u aint finding vegan junk food 😂
We just spent 10k on catering, we haven’t opened our gifts(we asked for money) and I do not expect to cover even half that cost in gifts. If she wasn’t related to the coordinator and was just a guest I would consider asking her to grab her own food to be unprofessional, I only had one vegan meal and I made sure that it was taken care of and I think it’s very unusual that in 2024 the caterer didn’t have one vegan option or couldn’t figure out how to cook a one off vegan meal. Working with family can be very detrimental to your relationship with them and I really think that is the root of the problem here, her feels got hurt because they were family and thought they were special and in the other side thinking ther relationship means that even in high stress or serious situations their boundaries are the same as if it were a normal day.
Wedding gifts "traditionally", are to help a new family get a start... not help cut wedding costs, or a "celebrate you".
Traditionally the wedding is paid for by the brides father. The gifts are to help start a family and furnish the new family home. Small appliances, kitchenware, home-goods, baby stuff, or cash.
They were not personal, or fun gifts like Christmas or a birthday. They were functional gifts to help start a married-family life.
Much of that has changed, sure. But that was Western tradition.
2 hours before sounds pike they just wanted her to have fresh food that wasnt a day old
Vegan: not buying meat from the store
Animal: still dead
I eat twice more meat to compensate
@@CraigTraversIm no vegan but I feel like that would cause a lot of problems if everyone doubled their meat intake .. 😭😭😭 Besides… Who could afford it 😭
@@mariaelenahkptrue, I’m poor
@@CraigTravers"let's protest these assholes by being assholes"; winning tactics 🤡
@@mariaelenahkp Don't worry, I'll donate my meat to help
Sounds like there's some jealousy issue there. And why was she even mad, Chinese food ISN'T VEGAN.
more than happy that i never installed or used tiktok
Me too. I will never download TikTok. I will never even make an account.
Same here. Never had a Twitter account either. And I definitely won't now, since I'm not into eugenics and failed art students from Austria.
Based off that BMI ain’t no way she an actual Vegan 😂
Oreos are vegan 😋
Lazy vegans eat SO many french fries. The easiest choice at any restaurant when you just can't stand to look at another salad.
@@johnwethekylowThose salads aren't that healthy anyway when people load them down with dressing. Lol
Man, to think she'd act like this on her own brothers wedding 🤦♂️
gifts are like taxes, you dont get anything back for it
The level of entitled people that are also narcissistic on social media is crazy these days.
I somehow missed the part where she thinks "any" Chinese food is going to be vegan...rofl
She'd be like that regardless
Honestly the entitlement is crazy, I do not expect the wedding coordinator to worry about my specific food need and yes I have dietary problems but guess what ? It’s not about me, it’s not my wedding tf am I gonna do
Ugh I’m so tired of these grotesque “women” thinking everyone gives af about their problems🤢🤮
Likewise...sounds like she had a kid but no man...shocker!
How to say your a racist without saying your a racist
@@SindyJ37with the way she acts ... the fact that she's a single parent, with that attitude and entitlement? let's just say the math IS mathing. makes sense that no decent man would tolerate her bs, i feel for any man that accidentally gets sucked into her orbit 😂
As a woman myself, I agree like I just wanna tell them to shut the F up
@@sassysarah39 a respectable woman 🫡🤝
VERY VERY VERY SELFISH OF YOU TO GIVE ONE MEAL THE SAME IMPORTANCE AS “ A WHOLE WEDDING “ (not the right time to be a “brat diva”)
To be fair, the only part of weddings I care about is the food... And the open bar... And the bridesmaids...
Wow… the way she threw her sister under the bus before we knew she was her sister🤨She says “her track record as a coordinator is not great” or something to that end. That was gross because no matter how bad her sister is at this job, she’s always gonna look like the ah for speaking about her that way.
Unless you’re doing actual business, relationships *should not be* transactional. Of course if you’re giving everything of yourself and there’s no reciprocity, then by all means leave/set some boundaries. However, if everything you do for someone receives an asterisk until you get something in return, you are the one who’s triggered and needs therapy. The way she weaponized therapy terms and completely misused the concepts of colonialism and patriarchy is infuriating. You know, since those things are actually real and persist as serious problems in our society today, but this gives validity to the people who say those that see it are pulling it out of nowhere. The lack of self awareness for someone who uses such big words is a giant red flag for me. Being in a relationship with her of any kind must be a maddening experience.
I would bet the gift of her attendance would’ve readily been returned and exchanged for something more pleasant if given the chance.✌️👋🙂↔️
"My food is cheap"
*tells us how her food is over twice the cost of normal food*
How do people just come out the womb and act like this? 😭
Has to be a family curse. You can’t make this shit up 💀
All black women
Professional victim is such an accurate statement
I'm sure there was some delicious grass all around the Church. Why didn't you just eat that?
Works for cows🤡🪴🌿🐮🐮🐮🐄🐄🐄
If she knew about how to use a lawn mower to cut the grass.
This heffa acts likes she about to gift this couple a brand new house. Girl, bye. You could have kept these feelings to yourself.
why is she obese if she has a vegan diet? isnt it supposed to be healthier?
🤭
You don’t need to consume meat to overeat
Sugars can do that to you, for example Oreos are vegan and are packed with calories.
i don't feel bad for laughing maniacally that was so funny
She probably just started and is pretending to be all serious about it like she's been doing it for years.
How did she drive 5 hours and spend 500$ dollars?? An't no way!!! 😂😂😂 I bet 500$ she ate before she got there and then cried about not having rabbit food at her brothers weeding.
6:53 was waiting for the astrology sign lol
You’re both the same weight 👏
I thought she said that she would pick it up?!?!now she’s saying the coordinator asked her to pick it up! OMG!
nah, your gift ain’t your attendance, the best gift you can give is your absence
If it's transactional what thing of value is she providing to his brother? Cus all she is saying is absolute garbage.
I vouch you can be annoyed with driving 5 hours and your food not being there or it being wrong but it’s not your day just get something or shut up and enjoy the event
She fusses so much her hair line is running to the back of her head.
Chinese food is vegan?
Nope , all sauces have a chicken broth base.
What I’m saying, what Chinese food is vegan?
The food was probably just too fancy for her so she used that as an excuse
Right ? Most Chinese food I have had had chicken in a lot of it. And pork
There are vegan dishes
I’m A Virgo And I Don’t Even Act Like This.
i think the reason she was acting this way was because she is related to them
Tbh I think the wedding coordinator should be the one who picks up the food, but if I was her I would’ve just felt with it and picked it up without complaining.
"Some of your comments are colonialism" 💀💀
So driving 5 hours for a wedding, she couldn't have driven ten minutes more to get the food? Also not giving a gift just because of this when it's not about you on that day, but about the bride and groom? That's just sad.
Well done! The effort and passion are evident.
she actually just broke a nerve i didnt even know i had..