Kate.. you hit the nail on the head!!! He video called me Christmas Eve, when his wife stepped out to run Christmas errands. 😮😔. I kept getting a home wrecker vibe, while watching him make pancakes with his mother who was giving him & me the evil eye and disgusted looks. It was horrible. Well God is going to get me through this. I can't do another year living in the fringe of a relationship that will never be, and also acquiring a disrespectful stance in another woman's marriage. His mother stared at me and sent the signal. Stay away from my son. And I don't blame her. She probably got in his ass about even video calling me. I've been a widow for 7 years, I was happy married the 24 years, The wife is always right in these situations and the husband like this guy ..is just greedy. Thank you for being so empathetic for this platform or population that I am sadly a part of.... I fell in love with a lie and I'm trying to undo it. Thank you KATE for your work and purpose, You understand and you want us all to do better and get out of it🙏
Hi @celestehaynes8261 I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's definitely not easy to navigate. You deserve to be met with compassion and understanding 💕 I am sending you so much love and prayers your way as you untangle your way out of this 🤍
Dear Kate, finding this message just save me❤️🩹 things have been really challenging😮💨…the lack of self steam, shame, feeling used….I’m sure you are the one who understands deeply what I’m talking about💔I’m going through a hard time that I didn’t see it was coming. It’s been horrible, so thank you so much for this message❤️🩹 if it’s not asking too much please sending me good vibes for me to overcome this…💔
What you described is all i've ever wanted in my life... i ache for that person wherever they are, and xmas time, where my friends all retreat into their special someone just highlights the emotional emptiness so much more. The anxiety from being so alone and having no love, no physical touch, no emotional connection is indescribable.
I'm so sorry, loneliness and feeling isolated is not easy and often something we have grown very familiar with. May each day bring you closer to having a full heart with deep connections 🌸💕 You deserve to experience what your heart craves. No longer feeling like it's too much to ask for or too far away. 🤍
To answer the question, for me, it does get easier. I’m single with no kids. I have five siblings and least 39 nieces and nephews. So I have options at holidays time. But on Christmas Eve, I chose to drive three hours away and spend it with my widowed mom that is in a nursing home. I’m also a very devout Christian. So after I spent Christmas Eve day with my mom, I went to my hotel, got my Bible and went sit in the hotel coffee shop at had my Bible study time. On Christmas morning, I went back to the home and spent the day with my mom. I said all of that to show that I’m ok with being alone for Christmas. Instead of focusing on myself, I focused on my mom. Yes, it would have been been better spending it with a significant other, but I’ve come to realize that if I’m not ok with being alone, I put undeserving pressure on a person to make me content. I have my house, my good job, my truck, my car, my truck, my gym, my church, my old cat and my old blind dog. I hope all of that makes sense
@apriljohnson1067 I'm so sorry 💔 Significant events spent away from the person you love is not easy.🌸Sending you so much love. May this year bring you closer to the connection, commitment and emotional intimacy you crave.
Kate.. you hit the nail on the head!!! He video called me Christmas Eve, when his wife stepped out to run Christmas errands. 😮😔.
I kept getting a home wrecker vibe, while watching him make pancakes with his mother who was giving him & me the evil eye and disgusted looks. It was horrible.
Well God is going to get me through this. I can't do another year living in the fringe of a relationship that will never be, and also acquiring a disrespectful stance in another woman's marriage. His mother stared at me and sent the signal. Stay away from my son. And I don't blame her. She probably got in his ass about even video calling me.
I've been a widow for 7 years, I was happy married the 24 years, The wife is always right in these situations and the husband like this guy ..is just greedy. Thank you for being so empathetic for this platform or population that I am sadly a part of.... I fell in love with a lie and I'm trying to undo it. Thank you KATE for your work and purpose, You understand and you want us all to do better and get out of it🙏
Hi @celestehaynes8261 I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's definitely not easy to navigate. You deserve to be met with compassion and understanding 💕 I am sending you so much love and prayers your way as you untangle your way out of this 🤍
@@katelondon01 🙏❤️🙏
Dear Kate, finding this message just save me❤️🩹 things have been really challenging😮💨…the lack of self steam, shame, feeling used….I’m sure you are the one who understands deeply what I’m talking about💔I’m going through a hard time that I didn’t see it was coming. It’s been horrible, so thank you so much for this message❤️🩹 if it’s not asking too much please sending me good vibes for me to overcome this…💔
What you described is all i've ever wanted in my life... i ache for that person wherever they are, and xmas time, where my friends all retreat into their special someone just highlights the emotional emptiness so much more. The anxiety from being so alone and having no love, no physical touch, no emotional connection is indescribable.
I'm so sorry, loneliness and feeling isolated is not easy and often something we have grown very familiar with. May each day bring you closer to having a full heart with deep connections 🌸💕 You deserve to experience what your heart craves. No longer feeling like it's too much to ask for or too far away. 🤍
@@katelondon01 Thank you Kate, i appreciate your kind word and your video, keep up the great work, you have a really kind heart 😊
@@PerthSurfer Thankyou @BillysFingers 🙏
To answer the question, for me, it does get easier. I’m single with no kids. I have five siblings and least 39 nieces and nephews. So I have options at holidays time. But on Christmas Eve, I chose to drive three hours away and spend it with my widowed mom that is in a nursing home. I’m also a very devout Christian. So after I spent Christmas Eve day with my mom, I went to my hotel, got my Bible and went sit in the hotel coffee shop at had my Bible study time. On Christmas morning, I went back to the home and spent the day with my mom. I said all of that to show that I’m ok with being alone for Christmas. Instead of focusing on myself, I focused on my mom. Yes, it would have been been better spending it with a significant other, but I’ve come to realize that if I’m not ok with being alone, I put undeserving pressure on a person to make me content. I have my house, my good job, my truck, my car, my truck, my gym, my church, my old cat and my old blind dog. I hope all of that makes sense
Hi @Allen-a-tor I am glad it's gotten easier for you and you have found happiness in all that you do have in your life ✨You deserve happiness 🙏
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He spent Christmas with me. And I spent NYE with friends. And now I just feel so empty
@apriljohnson1067 I'm so sorry 💔 Significant events spent away from the person you love is not easy.🌸Sending you so much love. May this year bring you closer to the connection, commitment and emotional intimacy you crave.