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It's called dementia.
@@yaelz Bingo!
I would like to watch one video just one with the police arresting this scammers!! ... People please don't fall in this traps!!! 😢
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Why do old people think young, beautiful ones would want to marry them? That kind of vanity is mind-boggling!
They are consumed by lust.
I think a lot of old people just don't realize how old they really are, because in their minds they're younger.
I also think a lot of them have lived pretty sheltered lives, most people they've come across in their lives have been who they claim to be. They haven't been trained in sceptical thinking, so perhaps the thought of a scammer haven't even crossed their minds.
And also, I think a lot are very stubborn, like the guy in this clip seem to be (I've only seen the preview so far), so if somebody in the family tell them something, they do the opposite, so they will have it their way.
I notice a lot of the older women who fall for these scams have one thing in common - I call it "mutton dressed as lamb." They dye their hair and are making an effort to look a lot younger than they are. So maybe they think they are attractive to younger men.
Hollywood actors/stars go for women 20+ years younger all the time. Dennis Quaid married a girl in her 20’s and he’s in his 60’s! Mark Anthony just married a woman in her early 20’s and he’s in his 50’s! A lot of men are always needing their ego boosted, when they don’t see how creepy they’re being. 😖
Trust me ,I get a few offers at 74 .It couldn't possibly be that I am a multi millionaire could it ?
He doesn't want a relationship or love. He wants eye candy young enough to be his granddaughter.
@charlisays Word exactly 💯 definitely a desperate person.
@@keciaaskew5166Naw, a narcissist
Give the guy a break. He's just a lonely, prideful, stubborn, old man stuck in the past, struggling to come to terms w/ loss, illness, aging.
@@ubahfly5409poor old predatory creep 😢
Ego. Big time
The father is not a “nice man” he’s a textbook narcissist. He loves you, as long as you do exactly what he says and don’t question him.
I dated a man like that. He was the nicest man ever as long as he wasn't disagreed with
You described my father 100%
@@cobravidsmine too, which is why I haven't spoken to him in over 10 years
And a total fool who let's his own bills go into arrears.
Baah he’s an old school latino street guy. My dads the same. Cuban from Miami, real old school. Him and his brother ran a crew and were gangsters. My dad was pulling women in their 30’s when he was in his 50’s-early 60’s.
The porn actress was absolutely right when she said, "I think some of you WANT to be scammed," and he freely admitted it when he said, "I don't care, this makes me happy." At that point, what can you do besides step back and let them give away all of their money to some guy in Nigeria?
Yeah instead of making your family happier with all that money, give it to the scammers in Nigeria. They already laugh their asses off for sure about men like him.
That’s what I thought. This is service for some of them, if I could make this a business I would but then I’d have no customers because they LIKE to be tricked. They like the initial persuasion because even when they’re told after that it’s a lie, they still go
@@HelenaRG71Jose the Intelligent MuGu 😂😂😂
The best part: these are your tax dollars going to them. I think that all boomers that buy gift cards in excess should be flagged and banned from receiving SS
It is some ppl crave to be exposed doing disgusting things black mail financial abuse all kinds of stuff I used to date this dentist chick & I had money & have no problem taking care of myself she would cash app me half her check within 2min of receiving it never allowed me to buy anything with the money either every Jordan dropped she waited in line for em even ones I didn’t want, I only wore Balmain & Diesel Jeans for like 2 years straight, granted I did actually fuck her brains loose 3-4x a week and spent time with her after a while she straight up said that I didn’t get the hint that she wanted to be used more & her fetish is getting used by “street guys” I was offended I only sold drugs I wasn’t a street guy I worked in a hospital 😂 she always asked why the hell do I get up & work when she’ll pay for everything it was cool until she said it out loud like that think I broke up with her like 3-4mo after that bitch would’ve murdered me eventually 😂
They way his family have to walk on egg shells around him, he’s not proud, he’s vain and aggressive; I feel for his family.
I agree.Very nice people his children are their mother must be really lovely.
He is a creep.
I would have kicked his ass out and I can see he is a bastard of an old man. I may not be the ‘best’ child BUT I am no one’s doormat and I would not put my own family on the line for this old coot.
I didn't see them walking on eggshells, I saw his son confronting him, proudly and honestly and without fear. I was thinking about how if it was my dad, we'd just have to let the scammers get him, because none of us would be brave enough to make a peep after all the years we were bullied by him. I thought Jose and Felix seemed to have a pretty good relationship.
It seems more like he is having cognitive issues after his stroke. It’s scary to think how when the brain starts going you become this vulnerable to predators
Why don't you match the catfished men with the women you get on your channel. They would be millionaires with the money they sent to each other 😂
They wouldn't want eachother! The oldies-grandmas and grandpas all want someone young and attractive, never mind themselves being old 🤔
Because they're not their type, a no body granny wants a oil tycoon general nascar driver
It won't work, the women want army men 30 years their junior and the men want barely legal girls or 25 years old porn stars.
That would be interesting, to set the catfished men and women up with each other. They could, indeed, put their money together and legitimately invest it. They'd be a lot better off.
@@JacobBitner With 6 pack abs
Team: It's a scam!
Jose: I don't care, it makes me happy!
Team: You're talking to a dude!
Jose: I didn't care, it makes me happy!
Team: He's black.
Jose: ...did you arrest him yet?
Lol😅😂😅😊. That took me out!!
Lmao
😂
DEAD😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣
He a good Christian but treats his family like shit. People really kill me 💀💀💀
I will never understand why elderly people trust complete strangers more than their own family. It's like their loved ones were all nasty money grabbers while a random person from the internet seems to be a saint. 🤦♀️
@Blue Cat People from 1930s-1950s had more trust. Sure there were con men bk then too but they are unfamiliar w/ cyber scams + they still think everyone is ‘ nice ‘
Lol😅
@c I disagree. Scamming has been around since time began! My dad was born in 1915 and he wouldn't have given a stranger a bunch of money! Some people are just stupid
I think it's because they don't truly understand the internet. They are used to trusting their eyes their whole life, so they believe that what they see with their own eyes is true. They have never developed a certain type of critical thinking.
Another factor is (and this is scientifically proven) that people who grew up with stict religious scripture that was not to be questioned, that they have more trouble with critically analysing any source of information, especially what is written down. That's why scammers especially target Christians (preferably older widows who married young), and go on Christian dating sites. How many times have we seen these older ladies who just got scammed out of thousands of dollars saying: 'But he said he was a Christian so I trusted him completely'.
And another factor is that these older widows never got into the modern dating market. They maried 50 years ago. They still are naive, inexperienced teenagers in a way.
I think these factors combined cause elderly people, and especially women, to trust others (too) easily.
I believe narcissistic tendacies on the part of the scammed could play a part.
I might be in the minority here, but I didn’t like that he hit on Bre 😑. I found it disrespectful and he seems like a bit of a creep.
Definitely a creep! Poor Bre 😕
I totally agree. 😠
Yeah, at 12:10 he asks Bre ‘what er you doing?’ As if he’s Joey from friends ffs. How YOU doing. I would have hung up on him. He’s way way outta his league. And if he wants to be dishonest regarding his profile, he’s going to get dishonesty right back. Whatta class A pervert! Check him for dementia.
It was so gross 🤮
Theres a Kiss song called Parasite. Reminds me of him
If u want to be scammed and that makes u happy then don’t you dare ask any of your family for money ever again
I didnt "love him" the moment i saw him. I saw a thoroughly unpleasant, arrogant, angry man who bullies and speaks badly to his son who only has his best interests at heart. Hes not a nice huy at all.
Jose hitting on Breanne was so uncomfortable, you could tell she really wasn't okay with it and he only said sorry when she told him she had a husband (i.e. is another man's property already). This man has a lot of issues with how he sees women.
I get controlling vibes right off the bat. It's creepy that he wants to date much younger too
@@albinosaschoopasquatch4455 Maybe he can't get any women to stay with him in real life.
Don’t be so judgmental. It’s part of Hispanic culture, “machismo”. Men are expected to make advances on women they find attractive. To do otherwise is effeminate.
He was acting like a creep. Not to mention at the time he thought he was engaged to someone, which would be disrespectful to his "supposed" fiance. It was really hard to feel sympathy for the guy.
Oh relax... nothing he did was sexual in nature and when she said she was in a relationship he backed off... he's 64 and lonely... give the guy a break... he was willing to send men money because he's so lonely
“It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled.”
- Mark Twain
Bre is so skilled in talking to people respectfully and she handled his creepiness well.
I had to stop watching there 🤢
This is a great group of folks, I am so impressed with their patience and delivery.
No surprise, the dude who built cash app was killed recently after diddy-bopping a guys wife. Xmiss ya!🤠
@@abdu1wahid105really?
Wasn't that dreadful? Watching that old fool hit on a lady young enough to be his granddaughter? Creep.
Classic stubborn father who ignores all the red flags, simply because it's his children telling him
Silly old man is upset that his family treats him like a silly old man
@@dollinterrupted , person who is too insensitive and dense to understand how strokes can affect cognitive functioning. You win the silly contest.
Yeah, in our family we say we need an ABM (anyone but me) source, as the parents will listen to a stranger but dismiss the same info from their grown children.
Happened to my mom,wouldn't listen,was relieved of 15-25k.
Didn't feel bad at all.
I had my mother do that as well so not just men. On her death bed, she admitted she was stubborn and a buttinsky [always butted into MY life, as if I was an idiot!!]. Hence, she would never believe me when I warned her of people taking advantage. The sheer arrogance!
He wants to live his life "his way." Then when he has no money left he'll wind up living with his kids, using up their resources (food, medical, housing, etc.) which essentially means that they are indirectly paying those scamners. Foolish old man.
He already lives with his son. Which makes it even more frustrating. His son is housing him and caring for him. He treats his son horribly while giving everything to strangers online.
My grandma was like this too. She fell for a bunch of scams and was giving away all her money, and when we tried to step in she lashed out at us and told us it's her money and her business and we have no say in it. But then every time she fell in too deep and we didn't immediately help, she would tell everyone how awful we were for not being there for her (obviously we would always help, but for the first few days while we were getting it together, everyone heard about how terrible we were). This was a cycle till the end. I'm afraid that it's extremely common with older ppl and I don't think there is a solution cuz most decent ppl won't let their ageing family members suffer, even though it'll cost them both financially and in terms of time
Caring for older people is a special kind of challenge.
Well, until then I'm pretty sure he gets to *spend his money his way* . I agree he's being an idiot, and maybe later he'll burden his family, but what the hell do you propose, that if you don't like how someone spends his money you come in and take over? WTF? Fascist much?
@@Sinsteel but his son has to give up his life to care for him? Then his dad doesn't pay his own bills? Why should his son do that when he could walk away?
Jose is rude, condescending, and disrespectful to his kids who clearly care about him.
It's amazing how prophetic Ava Addams was when she said "Some of y'all want to be scammed". What she said lowkey perfectly sums this guy up...
He is the perfect example!
She was bordering on rude, but she deals with this every day of the week someone is contacting her and asking for their money back. It would get old for sure especially where she is a victim herself.
@@shonii119 yep
OMFG I thought that was Ava Addams!!! Lmaoooo nooo way, that was a pornstar lmaoooo.
I tell people if you believe Addams' boobs are real, you're being scammed.
Want to thank the catfish crew for helping my brother, yes I’m one of his sisters the one sitting with him, blurred face, all this began after the loss of our mom, she was his everything, loneliness has taken a toll on him, the loss of our mom to Covid has broken us in different ways,,
I hope you found a solution and your family is at peace ❤
I hope your dad meets a nice lady locally.
Sorry about all the mean comments about your dad on here.
Y’all have wonderful genes. Jose is 68 looking all of 55. I really hope he puts his trust in you guys & the family feels more whole again. It’s a sad situation.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢😢
Looks like Breanne could have gotten some free Amazon gift cards from this guy.
That was such an embarrassment.
She stayed away for the second video call
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@martinrowland2593 LOL I noticed that too.
😂😂😂😂😂
I found it disrespectful how that old pig was allowed to make a move on one of the researchers, and it’s supposed to be fun and lighthearted, his overly macho demeanour is not something to look up, it’s gross and hugely disrespectful !
And they all like “he is SUCH A NICE GUY”. It’s revolting and nauseating
@@IneednewfridgeI agree with you. He is not a nice guy!
I thought the same thing. Smh
To be far, it’s probably dementia driven too. Very characteristic.
@@lizack3693 Maybe? - I'd still feel like that's another excuse, my grandpa had dementia and he wasn't sexist, on the contrary he just became sweeter and sweeter towards everyone.
"Your husband isn't here? That's his problem!" Says enough about this geezer.
He was saving face after being turned down. Get a clue
I tried that on your mom, but she didn't really get the clue either :( @@mycobrahatesyou
This guy was so rude and disrespectful. Drew has the patience of a saint and I hope he gets everything he wants for Christmas.
That’s because he thinks because hes been around longer that he knows more or better and that’s simply not the case
Eh he's just a curmudgeon. I like him, I think he's a sweetheart, deep down. His kids like him, and that says a lot.
@@Campfire30 He is just insanely stupid.
Exactly
for christmas 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"My last 3 wives all walked out on me"
Gee, that's hard to believe.
Why would a young gorgeous woman want anything to do with his elderly, infirm, broke ass? He's NOT trying to meet anyone his age, he's not trying to find love, he's trying to recapture his youth. Sad.
Heehee Carole..l assume you are American..first time l have heard the term " broke ass" love it. I know these stories aren,t funny but sometimes 😂😂😂😂😂
A lot of men that aged think they are “high value” at old age 😂
According to these men , women his aged have hit the wall .
He’s not trying to meet a woman, life partner he’s living in la la land to think that a young woman truly wants him and he’s old , sickly, and broke.
😄
He could EASILY find a woman, even one maybe 10 years younger because he is attractive for an old man and he’s definitely charismatic.
So harsh, but so funny and true! Men his age are looking for either a nurse or a purse. I'm in my 60's and wouldn't even want him! How could he possibly believe a young beautiful woman would want any part of sharing a life with him??? Good Lord! These people seriously need mental help!
LMAOOO damn
@@gretchenwieners3621 Yep! Carole D took the gloves off, baby!! Funny as hell! 🤣
I have a hard time feeling bad for some of these victims.
Yes i agree, his pride is really obnoxious
Me too he is going to do this again, he will lose his family and he wont care 😢
Put this man in a nursing home this is insane
This man should not be handling his own money.
He needs a pgt or one of his family to be his power of attorney for his finances.
@@ericrivera8410 He thinks a young, beautiful stranger would want to be his caretaker.
Legit- they need to force control. He’s behind on his mortgage and is the type that expects them to help when its all over
His daughter did take power of attorney. They want him to realize it's a scam!!
Yes I totally agree. All of these people, especially the ones that are seniors "age 58 an older" should not be in control of their money when the family finds out that they've been sending their money off to scammers instead of paying their bills
He is not being scammed, he is paying for a fantasy
They should all just hire an escort, face it would be better all round
Yeah he's just a John & nothing more
he had a stroke and cant stand on his own, and he thinks these women would want to marry him?
Probably, if these women were real, he would be expecting them to be his personal caregivers.
He wants to do everything his way and everyone stay out of his business until he needs their money for a scammer. Frankly this man is toxic and his family should stay away from him.
no, just stop giving him money...
This dad is a perv and was out of line talking to Breanne like that
This is what a decompensating narcissist looks like. He knows it's a scam, but it's the only way he has left to feed his grandiosity.
Yes, I have been learning about this. He had classic signs. They also get off on the power of what money does. The beauty begging woman (his control) sees her as damsel in distress (he plays hero). Likes power over family.
He didn't like reality though.. No turning around and thanking his son.
I've watched a few of these, it's a case of too good to be true but they are feeding an ego. After all who would marry someone they've never met? 😮
And this is why we don't need to feel sorry for this guy when he loses his car and his home...
@dustersinternational221 true, but wheres the power he feels now? Clearly he must feel powerless now. And how can someone not see the future and see how this would pan out for them.
FACTS!!!
@@dustersinternational221I have always asked myself that question.
Jose seems like a real piece of work. A big temper, silent treatment towards his son, immediately aggressive… yeahhh I bet that model wants you 😂
I have no sympathy for this one. This guy is beyond sad.
I love how the porn star straight out said, "I don't have time to be talking to you on the apps!"
And told them they must like being scammed.
She would not give a guy like him the time of day.
she's too busy on onlyfans
Well Lexi Belle was on tinder and it was legit! But also was kinda a thing of work because she later filmed her encounters with the guys she dated 👀
She's right about these people liking being scammed. Dude on this episode is the perfect example.
It is so sad to see a grown man act like a toddler ...
He might be early stages dementia
We see this every day in my country :D
@57blondylocks I suspect so
His Father needs to have a financial conservatorship.
How these guys maintain their professionalism is astounding. They give these fools dignity. Well done to the team.
Another clueless man with a big ego, and a chip on his shoulder that doesn’t want to be told “what to do,” but then, gets himself into lots of trouble because he won’t listen and take advice from others. My dad was the same way and had a lot of financial problems.
This guy is a perv trying to hit on Breanne right off just because she’s young and pretty. 😖
Yep, that part grossed me out. How was he so in "love" with this fiancee but immediately hit on Breanne?
That was cringe af.
@@ctilly5859 Because he's an idiot and far from a"man". He's for Russian gluag that would teach him whats a man.
@@jc6800 bet she went and had a shower and scrubbed herself well after that, guy gave the ick vibe hard
@@Hexighost 😂😂😂😂😂
When they showed the picture and said, “this is the person who makes you happy,” I died 😂
You won’t be missed.
His ego wouldn't let him say no to that question.
I know right😂
😂😂😂
How his emotions changed from that's what makes me happy! To Nooo 😂😂😂😂😂
I can’t with this man! He doesn’t know how lucky he is with these children that after everything will STILL put up with his nonsense🙄
This man has not smiled once. "My ex wives never made me happy." Good Lord
Perhaps he’s the problem, not his ex wives.
@terryKessler42719 my sentiments exactly
Sheeesh, nothing more cringe worthy than seeing an old man who hasn't learned to stop thinking with his little head and puts on a performance for every pretty face he sees
He’s the type that probably harasses pretty women in the grocery store telling them “they’re too pretty to be frowning” as she’s trying to buy tampons lol
@@MommyHadALittleOne you KNOW he is! Dirty old man!
@@MommyHadALittleOne these pervert grandpas make me sick 😫
Maybe an old unattractive woman who thinks that a much younger, hot model-looking guy is in love with her. There's enough cringe to go around.
@@MommyHadALittleOne lmao. What’s funny is that literally happened to me recently 😂 I can’t remember what I was buying but he scenario was exactly how you described 🤦🏻♀️ and I’m 42!!
It doesn't matter how many videos I watch, it's fascinating and scary at the same time to see these old men and women believing they can catch a model-level partner even younger than their own children.
People fall for the fantasy. They get a dopamine hit from contacting these people. It’s literally addictive. Just like online shopping or gambling.
Exactly---and they are broke!
Very strange isn’t it? The only way a person that age would be interested in someone 60+ is if the 60+ is extremely wealthy
And leave their brains in their pants... Looks wealthy and polished but can't afford lunch and begs for money, while the real person does not add up. Who would send money to a rich looking younger woman. They are truly 🤯
Yes males are so full of themselves they truly believe it is possible. TBH many are women too so I guess goes both ways.
This guy is incapacitated. He needs a legal guardian.
This dude is a constant victim.
If it was his children I'd take him to court for power of attorney.
“I don’t know who you are”, he tells Drew; meanwhile he is sending money to a bunch of people that he most definitely does not know!
It's amazing how it is literally easier to scam people, than it is to convince them they're being scammed.
It’s just pride isn’t it. People don’t like to admit they’ve been fooled. Same as with the jabs
🤯😬
The last 3 years of masks and "safe and effective" revealed alot.
Well-said. OMG - that's gold.
He is telling social catifsh "I don't know who you are", yet sending scammers money.
He's not looking for company. He craves reassurance that he's still an "Alpha Male". He wants men deferring to him and women acknowledging his sexual and financial power.
"financial power"??? He's broke. Can't pay rent or his car payment.
@@user-gj1me4mf5cdid you notice? He's delusional
After a stroke, I sincerely doubt his ability to have a sexual relationship as well.
Bingo
These old people need to realise that attractive young people would NEVER want them.
Exactly 😊
Three wives walked out on him? ‘Nuf said. Karma.
@@JaimeMesChiens bien merci
A man with such respect from his children? He married 3 bitches/hoes... nuff said
One has died you should not judge people like that
@@agrandesubstituicaothey all walk away, ther person ho die is his mother. I understand this.
80% of women initiate divorces in the U.S
i wonder who’s the problem and why it’s prone to happen
He says no one can tell him what to do. But the scammers are telling him what to do and when to do it and how much to send. 🤦♀️
😂😂😂
Don't tell me what to do unless you're a hot mama
His ability to objectify women is gross. Brianne is at work, how incredibly disrespectful of him to hit on her like that. He tries to completely diminish her worth as a professional by turning it into a power play.
I thought he hit on Bre.
The fact that he would rather pay random strangers he doesn’t know rather than his own bills is mind blowing 😢
He needs to remember something ..... He isn't living "life his own way" when he is constantly asking and borrowing money from others to do it.
Imagine all the time he's spent whispering sweet nothings into the ear of some African guy!
😂
He must be throwing up in the back of his throat thinking about sexting with a dude.
But telling him that is disrespect! 😂
Imagine, he thinks it's actually better than whispering sweet nothings to a real woman! 😆
This comment has me crying right now. 😭🤣🤣
“I’m a very good Christian.”
Said the lustful, prideful man.
wen he told drew i don't know who u r, y r u talking to me. that made me mad because he's trying to help, but wen complete strangers talk to him, he tells them everything n immediately trusts them
If this guy is for real, he would probably be an abusive husband.
Had 3 or 4 wives he said.
@@susanlett9632and they all left him 😏
@@kimberlykarpp6333 probably a cheater. He was hitting on the host of this show and 3 minutes later was showing an engagement ring he bought for another woman! Even in his prime he was probably a philanderer
I’m actually very proud this man is humbly accepting the karma god is serving on behalf of his ex wives.
@@user-in1dz2zk1s he said he's a very good Christian. Very good Christians don't tell you they are very good Christians!
Drew should be a Diplomat. Such a brilliant man.
For sure. He approaches even accusatory behavior with such grace and understanding.
He really pulled that one out of a fire, and you could tell he was upset. Bless him.
I agree. He is really good at de-esculating conflict.
He is already Ambassador to the Kingdom of Delusia.
@@wyganter 😂😂😂😂😂
Dude says he's 64 years old and the host says he looks good for a 68 year old....LOL!!
I'm not trying to be mean but I'm 53 and dating a 71 year old man (I'm also a home health aide) this man is not in very good shape for his age. My boyfriend rides his bike up to 15 miles a day. I know people age differently. It's sad to see a person that age in bad shape
He looks older than that!!
What gets me is that some of these people who fall for these scams would tell their homeless children to get a job before they gave them money, but they'll gladly send every penny they have to their name to a stranger they met on the internet.
This happened to my 73 year old neighbor. He was being scammed by some gorgeous woman claiming to be in the Ukraine. He sent her so much money that he ended up being evicted because he couldn't pay the rent. Two weeks before he had to be out, he had a heart attack and died alone. I think all the stress she caused him caused it. He wouldn't listen to anyone that she wasn't real...so very, very sad
That's so sad. Being scammed while being retired is more frightening because the opportunities to work to pay back the debt are limited or not possible (health issues/disabilities).
'she' probably wasn't a woman... some guy in Africa killed him
The stress HE caused him.
@@albin2232 How is Nigeria this time of year?
That's harsh - she killed him, really.
His eyes are on fire when he talks to Brienne. This is beyond disgusting.
Haha yeah it’s hard to watch. He’s a very weird dude
He was only convinced by the picture of the scammer that it was a scam too. Nothing they said mattered
Yep god forbid a man’s attracted to a woman .
Your body might age but your mind and thoughts can remain.
"Did you arrest him?" 😂😂😂😂omg, this grandpa
his insistence that a beauty would fall for him must be a form of body-dysmorphia (in reverse?)
You don't have 3 separate women "walk out" on a man if he is a loving >family< man. The wife is part of that family. A man may be a loving, amazing father but that doesn't make him a good husband or a respectful man toward women. Good father/good husband are not even close to the same thing. He has to be both to be a good FAMILY man
His daughter is in the comments saying he's such a great man. She's not seeing things from an unbiased point of view. He may have been an excellent father but obviously not a good husband. Even if people live in the same house they only see things from their point of view. Anyone whose been married for more than 4 or 5 years can tell you that only the wife and husband know what kind of spouse the other is.
Oh please - any woman who can't handle an old man flirting with them is not a real woman. There, that will put the cat among the pigeons.
@@jdee286are you a man or a woman? Just curious
@@Raya-ir4tm You can still be a good dad/mom and bad spouse at the same time. People get divorced all the time and that doesn’t automatically make the man a bad father or the woman a bad mother.
Maybe if he had tried to date a woman his own age with a few wrinkles and a post menopause waist, he wouldn't keep getting scammed.
I just have ZERO sympathy for him. His ego was his downfall. He's very lucky he has family that truly loves him and watches over him. But that's not good enough for him. He wants a supermodel.
He's a capitalist what did u expect
AF..
Amen!
@@raner2367 he's a good man then. Now excuse me while I return to my beautiful capitalist enriched life. 😂
That's the issue with 90% of them! They have delusions of grandeur, thinking that they are so special a hot p0rn star half their age wants them. Half of them seem like narcissists like they are sooo unique even Johnny Depp wants them 😂
@@raner2367 being a capitalist has no bearing on this whatsoever.....his being a stubborn foolish man does.
Sad when you believe people you never met before more than your own family. It is a sickness.
I’m starting to realize that these “victims” are more culpable than I first though. There’s definitely a level of narcissism in each one. They all think that someone young and beautiful would fall in love with them. Secondly, they know the truth yet still end up sending more money. Sad but makes me angry at the same time
The man wants to get scammed, which is really sad to see.
Kudos to Felix for looking out for his dad (who is frustratingly very stubborn).
He admitted it freely.
Its sad.
I feel for the kids. They have to watch him treat these scammers like queens while he treats his own kids like garbage. His son is dedicating himself to taking care of his dad, while he snaps at him for trying to protect him.
@@Oliviaandtrina So sad. He'll keep getting scammed because he seems to enjoy it. He shamelessly tried hitting on Brianne from Catfished while being helped....He's out of control
@@MyNameIsUnavailable He's so delusional.
No Kudos. Leave the man-baby to marry the internet scammer. There are decent people who need that kind of concern and people are wasting their energy on this fool 🙄
this guy can be as stubborn as he wants, but the game changes when he is dipping into his family members pockets to finance these scammers
The fact that they’re willing to do stuff like that boggles the mind. Like, you want to give away all your money because there is a false promise of having your fake girlfriend with you in person, whatever. What would make you think it’s worth it for your family to lose money to them? You think this person is so great that your children will thank you for spending their money to bring this stranger into their life?
@@dharmallars This family is living off their father. Maybe he could pay the bills if they helped him instead of living off him…. Who need’s family that is sucking him dry!!! He is 64… if you live with him why not help out… He is 64 years old🤮
i love the way Drew talks, so intelligent and thoughtful, and chooses his words wisely.
What a stubborn narcissist.
Parents tell their kids to watch out for strangers online but don’t take their own advice
well, to be fair, the internet wasn't invented when these people were raising kids, but yes I get your point.
@@lisawentworth6831 not true I'm nearly 60 and I had to tell my daughter not to talk to strangers on there.
@@lisawentworth6831 still they’ve grown up by the same principles to be cautious of strangers
Underrated comment
I hate being around guys that try and talk to every girl they meet it’s kind of sad honestly.
It's pathetic. The world is not a giant speed dating site
Exactly. It's weird, uncomfortable and annoying.
This man is so prideful and stubborn that he'd rather willingly get scammed by men pretending to be women, before he listen to his family because if he does, he'd no longer be doing "whatever he wants". This is so sad and twisted. And you can see he's ashamed, he was gazing down. But still said these scammers "make him happy" just because he can't fathom the idea of taking some advice from his children. I am shocked.
that lady was right, some people enjoy being scammed
He has sent money to 10 different women?! Oh good grief Jose, you need a 12-step recovery program because this is an addiction. I hope he realizes his family only wants to save him from being scammed out of all his money.
These scammed people get angry at their family and friends and want them to "butt out" of their business. Then, the s**t hits the fan and all their money is gone, some lose their homes too. They then turn to the very people they were cussing out for help!! Just boggles my mind every time!
It's a very odd psychological thing. Personally I start see a million red flags any time a super model sends me a friend request like one should. I feel sorry for people who don't see obvious red flags
You must not been in love
That's exactly what happened with a coworker. Seriously she tried to warn her family member and they didn't listen now they're at my coworker's house because they're broke with nowhere to go.
Recall the woman whose dad dropped dead on street with £2900 for his wife whose dying of kidney disease who turned out to be a 23 yr Nigerian man wearing his victims wife's wedding ring boasting scam bling.he lost his home and money left in a motel pre death
@@cedricliggins7528 This is not love. Love is actually being with somebody and sharing. This BS is the absolute polar opposite of 'love.' Old dude says here 'they make me happy.' Just feeding his desperation. That is not love. A smart person trusts family members with more sense than a pack of fugly grasping scammers online. THIS IS NOT LOVE. EVER.
this man trusts complete strangers n believes them n believes his own children r lying, this man is something else
Omg a suspended license he’s not even caring about ppl on road
There's no fool like an old fool. I feel sorry for his family.😞
Drew has a level of tact that can't be learned. Legitimately impressed by his approach to these situations
He’s very good at talking to these people and letting them down softly
He’s very impressive
Yes he's an exceptional communicator & so compassionate & patient.
That's one stubborn old man. He still wants to send money to scammer because it makes him feel good.
His kids should set up a fake account. Maybe they can get some of the money back.
I can't imagine talking to a woman like he did Bre without knowing her. Much less when you're seeing her for a potentially embarrassing situation. He knew he had 0 chance but just wanted to assert some dominance.
I think Jose was a player back in the day
Bre is fine AF
Yup, exactly, assert some dominance. Because as delusional as he is, he knew deep down that he’s making himself look like an absolute loser to them going into the situation, so he felt the need to aggressively "flirt" with her to try and convince the men that he "still got what it takes blah blah blah"… Not because he wanted to make her a compliment, but just to make HIMSELF feel better in that situation.
This is the type of guy who sees like, a fan page on Facebook repost a picture of Rihanna, and comments underneath “wow you’re so beautiful baby, my name is Jose, how are you doing tonight sweetie”
@@PaperPlateCloroxagree. She’s gorgeous and smart and sweet too. David is a lucky guy :) idk if they have kids but if they do I bet they’re adorable
He needs someone appointed as a guardian to control his finances. He doesn’t seem like he can be reasoned with. Might be because of the stroke.
@Britt Brat Agree Sibling went to attorney, did guardianship, full access to bank accounts,investments, DNR [per her wishes], had stuff notarized, etc. Now elderly mom = safe. Playing bingo, watching, cinema, music, gardening plant stuff. She’s safe. We took her iPhone and iPad too. [Before all of this, she’d tried to call 911 to say she wanted to go back to the hospital as if she was being held against her will . That false accusation could have landed my sibling in jail for some fake ‘ elder abuse’ claim.]
Yep, I’ve seen this with lots of stroke and dementia patients.
Ugghhh dude, the toxic machismo of this guy. Acting all aggressive towards men but acting all sweet to women.
Why don't they take him to a senior daycare so he can meet someone or get home involved in some activity
Because no one likes him. He's rude and gross.
Mr. Pink walls' relationship with his family is being affected by his own ego. He stopped talking to his son for over a year because he thought his son disrespected him for telling him something that he didn't want to hear. He claims to be his own man but needs his son to send pictures of gift cards for him and almost lost his house.
“Mr. Pink Walls” lol
He’s a child basically.
@@trashyraccoon2615 Nothing new for him...did you miss the part where he had a pack of kids, and his wife kicked him out and he moved in with his mistress?! Boo hoo for the aging cheater that has lost his mind and wallet.
I always love how these people tell their beloved, friends and family to butt out and mind their own business and I love to see the look on their face when they realize they were scammed and they should’ve listened to those very people who were trying to warn them!
I don't get why the family members want to say "it's my life", "I can do what I want", etc. But when they have no more money left, these are the very people they will go to for help. This man would have to rely on his kids if he has no more money. He's not being fair to his kids.
They re so open with everyone a lot of the time and unless I was that tricked I think I'd be embarrassed of their reaction and even if I believed it I would wait til the person really showed up to say anything, I guess telling everyone and being excited is part of the scam, and Idk if the scammers encourage this telling everyone too cause it's ironic that I would think telling everyone would maybe make them realize the scam cause if you hide it you won't even have the chance of an intervention
I don't think this one understands. He looks defiant.
This dad is a pervert
@@jdstep97 correct it ends up being their problem because they will have to support him financially
19:32 Amen to that!!!! You said it! She’s adult actress and has ZERO patience for any immaturity or bs and not gonna sugar coat it for anyone who wants to live in the world of illusions.
She's mentally ill too , just in different ways.
She should make him her client. He's paid enough for the experience.
She’s preaching the choir!
Jose narcissism is his weakness! It prevents him from realizing that he's being punked! I am single, and love it! Relationships, and love is false hope!
When someone has a stroke it almost always affects their brain and cognitive abilities. The family should get a Power of Attorney over his financial, legal and medical issues. The fact he found out it was men in Ghana and Nigeria and still wanted to send money because it made him happy means that this is going to keep happening because he can't seem to comprehend exactly what is happening.
Exactly!!!
I completely agree with you.
I was just going to say, this should be grounds for taking care of his finances for him. Give him an allowance, that's all.
He seemed to just say that to prove a point, and not fess up to being bamboozled. Just my opinion. He was embarrassed but didn’t want to show it.
Most definitely.l
Jose is a creep. The way he was flirting with the young woman and then backed off because she said she was married - he needs to learn to leave women the hell alone. 🤮🤮🤮
That wasn't bad at all. He said she was pretty and he was respectful about it. Older guy, different ways but from this I don't see him as a bad guy
No
@@kait4824it’s perfectly cute behaviour in a sexist society.
Let’s progress
@@M_SC How do you change someone to your own opinion without infringing on free rights. You can encourage others but you can't make them
The fact that he backed off after learning she was married is good! People do not have to flirt in a way that pleases you!!! She was not offended, so get over yourself DAMN!
He has Dementia ... they need our help . Dealing with this issue with my mom . I Finally realized she has had dementia for approximately 4 years that I was not clued into about ... Dad has dementia.. take away his money and keep it save from him . Trust me on this
So sorry about your mom. But I disagree. He’s always been like this, it’s just slowly getting worse. He had 3 ex wives walk out on him, so he’s been like this for a long time. These poor adult children. They know if he gives away all his money, he’ll be forced to move in with one of them. Can you imagine living with this old coot?