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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ม.ค. 2021
- When you get angry what can you do?
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#MuftiMenk #AngerManagement #Islam
it's so hard to not get angry when people keep pushing you to limits but I will try my best inshallah I go well make dua
I’m the same, I have major anger issues but will try my very best to control it inshaallah
same it’s so hard when they keep pushing ur limits and they know you will get mad yet they still do it
@@AishaAlMidfa me too, I just fought with my family from my problem
Islam send us to the next level
MashaAllah
So true
“The tear of the sinner is more beloved to God than the arrogance of the righteous man.”
Subhan Allah wa bi hamdihi🕊
Ameen
@@kayesmith9414 th-cam.com/video/okijHgN0R0I/w-d-xo.html
How to deal test, Quran Solution
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Very true my brother 💧
From where is this nice quote if i may ask ?
When someone sees the thumbnail of mufti menk , half the anger will go away 😁😁
Absolutely
Bilkul sahi.
I agree 😭
Looking at that after your comment made me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂
Jazak ALLAAH
AsSalaamu'Alaikum
My brothers and sisters, the BEST advice is: "The moment you get angry, just make a dua and that dua will surely be accepted as this way you'll ask Allah that I suppressed my anger purely for you, now please accept my dua in return and surely He will accept it, it is guaranteed" ❤👍🏻
Can you plz tell if it is written in a hadith or is it an advice from you? Jazakallahu khairun
@@LoveAllah... Not sure, but it's worth trying
Jazak Allah Khair
I literally snapped not long ago felt so guilty afterwards and then this came up on my screen SubhanAllah Alhamdullillah
Allah heard your struggle
@@realtalk675 ❤👍
Hehehe, me too.
I snapped too and it made things worse. Now its war over here lmao
If u have angry issues, one of the reasons that could be is ur sleeping times. It is proven if u sleep late u wake up angry or u will act up more.
May Allah forgive all our sins and bless us with his mercy🖤
Ameen.
Aameen
Ameen sum Ameen ❣️
Ameen ya Allah
Amen
when i am angry, I cry. I cry so hard until I am beat. Thats how I extinguish and supress my anger and holding myself from venting and shouting to other people
m.th-cam.com/video/GIndHeZTULM/w-d-xo.html
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Same situation
Not a good way tho because you still reacted your emotions still engaged the best way I have learnt till is to take more time to think that way you can also get a non-reactive personality which is good attribute.
It was same for me too but a learned to control my angry without crying
Almight Allah grant us patience so we can pass the test easily.
Ameen🤲
Ameen
@@saiyan7677 th-cam.com/video/okijHgN0R0I/w-d-xo.html
How to deal test, Quran Solution
Aameen
Subhan'Allah I was feeling anger and this video notification come.. and now I'm not angry... Subhan'Allah
Same
Alhamdulillah
May Allah bless you,and you may prosper in both worlds Ameen 💐
@@goodwords1696 Ameen... And to you too bro.. may Allah protect and guide you in at every step of life ameen
@@beautifulquranrecitation4051 Alhamdulillah
Ameen
JazakAllahu khairan
Alhamdulillah we started a series of 1000 precious Quran Q&A, uploaded 65 precious Quran Q&A. In Sha Allah you will love to know them all
May Allah bless you with immense knowledge and you may prosper in both the worlds Ameen
Alhamdulillah
I can't control my Anger...this is my weakness...😭😭😭😭
I can’t control my anger either
Exercise and let it out on there. You will boost your workout to a high level and in return feel great.
Okay thanks for the advice
@@harlem6365 💛👍
Me too ;(
I’m a simple man I see notifications form mufti menk I run so fast grab the phone and click fast and watch it in full screen mashllah 😂😂
Please pray for all of the ummah to be in control of our anger, feelings & emotions. May allah guide us & forgive us. May allah protect the ummah. Ameen 🤲🤲🤲
Ameen allahuma Ameen
Ameen
May ALLAH azzawajal help us restrain anger in all situations.
Ameen
Ameen allahuma Ameen
Ameen
Ameen❤❤🤲🤲🤲
I was struggling so much with anger. I searched for lectures that might help me with this. But the prize of swallowing your anger! SubhanAllah!
JazakumAllahuKhairan!
Recite this for hassanats "Allahummaghfirlil muslimeen wal muslimaat, wal mu'mineen wal mu'minat, Al-ahyaa minhum wal amwaat"
Ameen🤲💖
Thanks mufti for uploading this, I needed it today, I was ungry with my dad for leaving my daughter sick at home, alone and went on his business. May Allah give me strength to control my anger
Allaahuma Ameen ❤
May Allaah the almighty make me and all of us from those who extinguish their anger, aameen ya rab.
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Ameen ! Thats a nice prayer
Can I do this,, because I always struggle to hold my anger even in the middle of fasting,, and I feel regrets after that,,, and I've always pray to get sabr but fail again and again,, may ALLAH SWT guide me to get through my problems. Amen allahuma Ameen.
Stop being such a snow flake, i bet your the type of person to blame others for making you angry.
@@cc-xz9rp wow, that advice will help him
Hey start to read Surah duha after every prayer it will help you in sha Allah and is possible read surah muzamil before sleeping
@@cc-xz9rp I don't think that advice will help him
Sheikh May Protect you and Preserve you for long. Ameen
This is the hardest thing, Subhan'Allah
Here's my perspective. When I am angry it's so difficult for me to exist and to do anything. So I feel like I am going to get sick. So if I suppress my anger I will be rewarded and inshallah I will get my reward sooner. May Allah give me strength to not get angry and if I do to not lash out or hurt someone in any way. Ameen.
Alhamdulillah.. May Allah SWT protect me and everyone from anger.
Aamiin
May Allah subhanahu wa tha ala help me and all the ummah to control anger and have patience
Assalamualaikum to my muslim brothers and sisters.muchlove from Malaysia 🌻⭐💛
Walekumassalam wa rehmatullah he barakatu.
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Asslamalakum everyone🤝🤝🤝. Don't be angry. Thank you mufti sahab .
dont be angry is like telling a sad person dont be sad or be happy. like ok thanks that really helped. dont be angry wow really helps LOL
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
I wish I could become someone who suppresses anger...😭😭😭
It’s not that hard just ask allah to guide you
When angry take slow deep breaths.
Say A`oodhu billahi minaash- shaytaani ar-rajeem (I seek refuge in Allah from Satan the accursed)
Don't wish you can do it if Allah wills try your best brother/sister
may ALLAH SWT protect all MUSLIMS of the world and drive them to the righteous path, may we succeed in achieving HIS SWT rejoice AAMEEN...
Ameen allahuma Ameen
May ALLAH SWT help us to control our anger...Ameen
Disease of soul: anger.
May Allah (swt) protect us. (Ameen)
Aameen.
Much needed reminder.
جزاك الله خير الجزاء 💕
May Allah grant you jannah ❤
Beautiful. Mashaa Allah,Tabarakallah. May Allah help us control our anger. Ameen
Thank you so much Mufti Menk
Jazakallahu khayran 😊
Shukran for the khutbah
Alhamdulillah
Beautiful Quran Q&A for our brothers and sisters to prosper in both the worlds
May Allah reward you immensely Ameen
Alhamdulillah
What a wonderful message to awaken to. Thank you.
MashaAllah 💚, such beautiful talk.
Nice reminder,Jasak Allah Khairan sheikh
Allah is talking through you . Exactly what I needed right now . May Allah grant you all your wishes . Thanks
Thanks a lot Mufti Menk☺️ I Don't know how is it possible but always when I need some suggestions or helps about my life i always get it here alhamdulillah.
JazakAllah Khairen shiekh
Dua to me brothers and sister and mufti sir control over all my angry In Shaa Allah. Allah give hidyat. Ameen summa Ameen Rabul Alameen
I’m going to share this video with my husband so please pray he gets it and be happy and change in’sha’Allah Jazak Allah brother mafti
Subhan Allah! Especially in these trying times people do need to hold on to their temper. It can work wonders Subhan Allah! May Allah make it easy ❤
Jazak ALLAH khair
My Mentor Menk 💓💯.I Love you for the Sake Allah SW.may Allah protect you and you.Jaza Ka Allah
Allahu Akbar...may Allah tala gives me good temperament
Jazaakallaahu khayran Mufti Menk, baarakallaahu fiik
My life is miserable coz of my anger psychopath behaviour. I’m not myself when I get angry. And the bad thing is I always feel angry, negative thoughts comes to mind. Tiny bit of things can make me cause a whole scene of anger.
Even I don’t like myself. But to be honest, I always lost my mind when I see something unfair, unjust and lies.
Need dua 🤲.
May Allah strengthen you in the temper control department. Ameen.
same
@@sandralim2609 may Allah help you find inner peace happiness and joy
@@shiblyraihan8027 thank you brother 🫡
Thank you so much mufti menk sir. I loved your last line you said, " Allah says that person is not powerful who outwrestle others, but who controls his anger."
سبحان الله one of the best and important
MashAllah ya Mufti ❤❤❤
Salam Alaykum Waramotullahi Wabarakatu, Thanks for sharing. May Allah SWT make it easy
to overcome Anger. Jazakallahu Khairan. May Allah SWT bless you and others propagating
our beautiful Deen Islam positively.
May Allah blessing you Sir Menk 🌹
Asalamualikum to all Sisters and Brothers, Jazakallah Mufti Menk, May Allah Give you Jaza Ameen
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
حفظك الله شيخنا الحبيب
May Allah swt forgive our shortcomings and guild us through the straight path. Aameen YARABB
May Allah give baraka in ur life whenever i feel any problem.i get ssolution for that
Fun fact: my mom grabs the belt everytime I miss a prayer mashllah I love her 😂😂 ❤️
In Sha Allah..
May Allah (swt) make us among those have the quality of sabr (patience) and may Allah give us the strength to take control of our emotions during difficult times. May Allah strengthen us with those whom he has given strength, guide is with those he has guided and may Allah take us to his care with those whom he has taken to his care, Ameen ya rabbi alameen
Ameen ❤
jazak Allah khayr
by listening his bayan only i feel comfort
Best bayan
Mufti Menk what a legend
MashaAllah Allah bless you shikh
The best advice ever
I Lost Anger Now & Fought With Hostel Room Partner. Please Pray For Me To Control My Anger 🙏
Oh my mufti Menk i just not hearing what people say about wrong to me i work at a placen65 persons iam me alone is a muslim lady imagine the anger when i got promote i just read all beautiful verses of theQuran deep in my heart i ignore their hate i make me as a model how people who loves ALLAH SWT must bebin conduct MayALLAHSWT BLESS ALL MUSLIMS AND GIVE US JANNATHUL FIRDAUS
Masha Allah
Sometimes I really feel like I’m gonna go supersaiyan but may Allah help everyone reading this to become calm and to have their anger under control
I needed this for my anger thank you brother
Ma sha Allah ❤️
Thanks!
Mashalah amazing and attractive front could turn on the subtitles to watch without volume
Slmz i gt lot after anger because my husband only sit on the phone and talk to he sec wife and nt read at all am i rongt to gt angry with my husband because i wt him to read plz tell me so i cn do bet inshallah Ameen 🤲
May Allah straighten me jm trying to control my anger
Subhanallah may Allah bless you and your family🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋
Mashallah
Alhamdullilah❤️
Am working on my self to be good muslim and my only problem is anger my Allah make it easy for me and all muslim umah
Allahhuakbar!!! We all make choices May Allah increase our Imaan Ameen!
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Masaallah Awesome
Thank you
Thankyou
Assalam-o-Alaikum
Walaikumasalam warahmatULlahi wa barakathu
@Mehmood Adam done bro
May Allah help us all and guide us .. I feel like my relationship between my father and mother is breaking down especially during Ramadhan. I’m not perfect but I just feel like I’m lost and maybe it’s me that has the problem. It’s so upsetting
When ever i get really angry and sometimes it shows even when you try to controll it maybe our iman isnt that strong. I feel great regret after and ask Allah to give us control over our anger and emotions.
I hope Allah forgive my sins, I don’t control my anger I just get angry alot thank you mufti!
May Allah bless us.
May Allah bless my parents.
May Allah guide us to the right path.
Alhamdolillah, may Allah give us more SABR hmsultan Mindanao Philippines
I am such an angry person and it came about from years of being either abused or totally ignored. I may have a neurological condition that makes others see me in a different light and may be what caused all that. I'm older now, and every time I think I have got this beat, it comes back. It will start from several things happening one right after the other (the same day) and I get so frustrated that I lash out. I feel terrible afterwards, but I can't stop myself. I know there must be some magic words to help my understanding so I can get out of this place. If anyone knows what they are, please say! I think what Mufti Menk said is right, if you have the right understanding of Allah, you just won't do this. I'm searching for what to do.
Lol I got same story. I think the root is pride to our anger. We can’t tolerate disrespect bc our opinion of ourself is inflated and somethings we refuse to bend the knee to people that do us damage to us like we use to and regret.
@@yo-ma7701 Thank you for saying this. It helps, and I think you're right! Except, our opinion of our self may be deflated and that causes the problem because we don't respect ourself enough. T'hank you.
May Allah(swt) make my exam easier (Amen)
Becoming angry when needed is normal. But as I tell my own subscribers--staying in that state is not. Suffering from chronic anger causes a few problems. First it impedes your progress. By draining your energy that you should be using to advance yourself. Ever been angry all day at work then skipped that night workout? That's probably why. But it also isn't physically healthy and can lead to long term effects on the heart and doctors now think future cancer as well. Not to mention high blood pressure. There are two simple methods I tell my own people how to control anger. One you have with you--your breathing. You can breathe in a meditative state while walking down the street. You picture a coil slowly unwinding as if you were breathing through your stomach. Slow and in and out. Wind the coil and let it go slowly. It calms you down and if you do it every few hours for maybe ten reps then it keeps you calm. Second--reflect on what you are growing angry about. Is it really going to affect you even four months from now? You'll find many times it won't. So I would use these techniques to minimize anger so you can only progress forward. Hope that helps someone out there---Charles
MashaAllah
Subhanallah 💕
Amen ya rab 🙏🏼
Salaam from Nottingham Uk
SubhanAllah
I came to because, I always speak more and my words might hurt people though I do it unintentionally now I want to get rid of this bad habit. May Allah fulfill our wish and give us everything what's good for us. Ameen.
MashaAllah 💕