Absolutely! When you understand your own worth and the value of your presence, it becomes impossible to settle for less. It’s all about knowing your value and respecting yourself first. 💪
In my opinion, when someone returns after a period of no contact, it's often due to unresolved feelings, curiosity, or realizing what they lost. The absence creates a void, triggering a desire to reconnect. Whether it's a need for validation, emotional security, or simply to revisit the past, the pull is undeniable.
So true! The need to reconnect is often fueled by the realization of what’s missing, which makes them question their decisions. It’s that psychological cycle we all go through at some point.
After 1 year and half that she left me after 28 years together, I'm using no contact. During this time we always stay in contact for our kids, butnow they are over 18 and I'm in nc for 6 weeks and things are changing. She contacts me randomly and I.... Silence ! And she contact me and I stay silence I only contact my kids every 4/5 days just to wish them a good day. Now, if she is determined to come back, well, otherwise I 'll move on. Infact I'm dating a model 23 years younger then me
This will be the hard bit. I've had NC 11 weeks, and I that time dhe doesn't care. In fact just wants her stuff. Up and down emotions , she swears at me by text even told me she is now fxxxxxg someone in a relationship, why does she need to tell me these things ???
It sounds like the no contact period is giving you some much-needed space to reflect and regain control. It’s interesting how people sometimes reappear when they sense you're moving on. Regardless of what happens with her, it’s good to see you taking charge of your own path and exploring new possibilities. Keep doing what makes YOU happy! 👏
It sounds like you’re reclaiming your power and focusing on your own happiness, which is exactly what Stoicism teaches us. Silence speaks volumes, and it’s clear your actions are causing her to reflect. Whether she comes back or not, you’re showing strength by prioritizing yourself and exploring new opportunities. Keep moving forward-you’re writing a new chapter on your terms!
She didn't appreciate me and now the ground is shifting after 117 days no contact. She is trying get me to react in a poor manner by manipulating me. I see it more clearly now because of no contact. Each day I'm getting stronger. I will never let her hear my voice ever again taking my power back!!!
Nice she's probably going crazy to hear your voice, until she hears your voice she will feel back to normal and maybe could move on. But by not hearing your voice she's going to keep you in thier head haha good on you 👊💪 stay strong know that your awesome and unique
I can totally relate to what you're saying. No contact is a game changer when it comes to gaining clarity and strength. It helps you see through manipulation and regain your power. Keep staying strong! 💪
So true! You can't force people to appreciate the time you've invested in them. If they don't get it, that's a reflection of their own lack of awareness, not your value. Keep moving forward! 🙌
That’s such a strong perspective! Knowing that your presence is a gift is part of what makes no contact so impactful. It leaves others with the realization of what they’re missing. Stay grounded!
This explains so much! 😲 The no-contact rule doesn’t just make them miss you-it forces them to confront their feelings and regret. Stoicism teaches us to stay calm and unbothered, while they spiral in confusion. Genius! 🔥
Yes! That’s the power of the no-contact rule. it makes them reflect and regret, while we stay focused and unshaken by their chaos. Stoicism is a game-changer when it comes to maintaining peace and emotional resilience. Stay strong! 💪
I asked a girl on a lunch date a couple weeks ago. We had a great time and she said she wanted to do it again, before we left. I asked her on that weekend if she wanted to go to lunch again the next week. She said of course and she’d let me know a good day. I didn’t hear back from her all week. I called her out for not keeping her word and told her I’d leave her alone if she wanted me too. She apologized, but I don’t expect to hear from her again and I’m not reaching out again. I felt it was inexcusable to not take a minute of her time to communicate with me if plans needed to change. I was proud I set a boundary and spoke up for myself.
Great job setting boundaries and standing up for yourself! Respecting your own time and energy is key, and it's a reflection of self-respect. If someone values you, they’ll show it through their actions, not just words. Stay strong and keep prioritizing yourself! 💪
Absolutely, stepping back can be incredibly powerful. It gives both you and the other person the space to reflect and assess the true value of the relationship. It's not easy, but growth often comes from these challenging moments. 💪
Absolutely! No contact is a powerful tool for self-respect and personal growth. It's about regaining control over your life and valuing your peace of mind. Stay strong 💪 and always prioritize your well-being!
It can work in both cases because the psychology behind it isn’t just about physical presence, it’s about emotional absence. Whether it's a short-term relationship or long-distance, if the connection was strong, no contact can make the person realize what they’re missing and can lead them to return to seek closure or rekindle things 😊
Thanks for your feedback! 🙏 I’ll work on improving the voice-over quality for future videos, but I’m glad you enjoyed the commentary and insights. Your support means a lot!
You're doing an amazing job balancing no contact with the responsibilities of being a parent. It's not easy, but by keeping things short, you're protecting your peace and showing true resilience. Keep it up! 🙏💪
Doing this with a lady I was in love with and had the most incredible sex with. But once she started disrespecting me and my boundaries, I called her out on it and she denied all of it. Finally I just stopped responding to her. It's been around a month since I've heard from her. My guess is she'll eventually reach out, but I will be abrupt with her and let her know I'm no longer at all interested and to not reach out again, because I am DONE!!!!!!
Sounds like you're setting healthy boundaries and staying true to yourself. 👏 It's tough to walk away, especially when there were strong feelings involved, but self-respect always comes first. Keep holding your ground, you’ve got this! 💪
*THIS IS WHY THEY RETURN AFTER NO CONTACT - HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY EXPOSED | STOIC MINDSET*
It's amazing how psychology explains so much about our actions. Thank you for breaking this down so well.
I'm glad you found the breakdown helpful! Psychology really gives us a powerful lens to understand human behavior. 😊 Thanks for watching!
My presence is a gift!
Absolutely! When you understand your own worth and the value of your presence, it becomes impossible to settle for less. It’s all about knowing your value and respecting yourself first. 💪
My presence is a gift .
In my opinion, when someone returns after a period of no contact, it's often due to unresolved feelings, curiosity, or realizing what they lost. The absence creates a void, triggering a desire to reconnect. Whether it's a need for validation, emotional security, or simply to revisit the past, the pull is undeniable.
So true! The need to reconnect is often fueled by the realization of what’s missing, which makes them question their decisions. It’s that psychological cycle we all go through at some point.
Don’t chase. Replace.
My presence is a gift 🙏🙌
After 1 year and half that she left me after 28 years together, I'm using no contact. During this time we always stay in contact for our kids, butnow they are over 18 and I'm in nc for 6 weeks and things are changing. She contacts me randomly and I.... Silence ! And she contact me and I stay silence I only contact my kids every 4/5 days just to wish them a good day. Now, if she is determined to come back, well, otherwise I 'll move on. Infact I'm dating a model 23 years younger then me
This will be the hard bit. I've had NC 11 weeks, and I that time dhe doesn't care. In fact just wants her stuff. Up and down emotions , she swears at me by text even told me she is now fxxxxxg someone in a relationship, why does she need to tell me these things ???
My dream dude,she did you a favor
It sounds like the no contact period is giving you some much-needed space to reflect and regain control. It’s interesting how people sometimes reappear when they sense you're moving on. Regardless of what happens with her, it’s good to see you taking charge of your own path and exploring new possibilities. Keep doing what makes YOU happy! 👏
It sounds like you’re reclaiming your power and focusing on your own happiness, which is exactly what Stoicism teaches us. Silence speaks volumes, and it’s clear your actions are causing her to reflect. Whether she comes back or not, you’re showing strength by prioritizing yourself and exploring new opportunities. Keep moving forward-you’re writing a new chapter on your terms!
You should care more about your children because they are everything and our future.
She didn't appreciate me and now the ground is shifting after 117 days no contact. She is trying get me to react in a poor manner by manipulating me. I see it more clearly now because of no contact. Each day I'm getting stronger. I will never let her hear my voice ever again taking my power back!!!
Nice she's probably going crazy to hear your voice, until she hears your voice she will feel back to normal and maybe could move on. But by not hearing your voice she's going to keep you in thier head haha good on you 👊💪 stay strong know that your awesome and unique
I can totally relate to what you're saying. No contact is a game changer when it comes to gaining clarity and strength. It helps you see through manipulation and regain your power. Keep staying strong! 💪
TRUTH TO THE CORE!!!!!. AMEN!!!!!.
Yes! This is the core of human nature, and it's why no contact works.
My previous time is a gift and if they don't see it. That's on them
So true! You can't force people to appreciate the time you've invested in them. If they don't get it, that's a reflection of their own lack of awareness, not your value. Keep moving forward! 🙌
My present is a gift
My presence is a gift❤
That’s such a strong perspective! Knowing that your presence is a gift is part of what makes no contact so impactful. It leaves others with the realization of what they’re missing. Stay grounded!
This explains so much! 😲 The no-contact rule doesn’t just make them miss you-it forces them to confront their feelings and regret. Stoicism teaches us to stay calm and unbothered, while they spiral in confusion. Genius! 🔥
Yes! That’s the power of the no-contact rule. it makes them reflect and regret, while we stay focused and unshaken by their chaos. Stoicism is a game-changer when it comes to maintaining peace and emotional resilience. Stay strong! 💪
I asked a girl on a lunch date a couple weeks ago. We had a great time and she said she wanted to do it again, before we left. I asked her on that weekend if she wanted to go to lunch again the next week. She said of course and she’d let me know a good day. I didn’t hear back from her all week. I called her out for not keeping her word and told her I’d leave her alone if she wanted me too. She apologized, but I don’t expect to hear from her again and I’m not reaching out again. I felt it was inexcusable to not take a minute of her time to communicate with me if plans needed to change. I was proud I set a boundary and spoke up for myself.
Great job setting boundaries and standing up for yourself! Respecting your own time and energy is key, and it's a reflection of self-respect. If someone values you, they’ll show it through their actions, not just words. Stay strong and keep prioritizing yourself! 💪
@ thank you for the response! I have come a long way in the last few years after struggling with codependency and being a people pleaser.
It’s hard to let go, but sometimes, stepping back is the only way to see if someone truly values you.
Absolutely, stepping back can be incredibly powerful. It gives both you and the other person the space to reflect and assess the true value of the relationship. It's not easy, but growth often comes from these challenging moments. 💪
No contact isn't about punishing the other person, it's about reclaiming your power and protecting your peace. Stay strong, no matter what.
Absolutely! No contact is a powerful tool for self-respect and personal growth. It's about regaining control over your life and valuing your peace of mind. Stay strong 💪 and always prioritize your well-being!
Thank you.
You're welcome! The psychology behind no contact is definitely eye-opening, isn't it? Glad you found the video helpful.
Thank you
You're welcome
Does this work when there was a strong connection even though a short term relationship??
It can work in both cases because the psychology behind it isn’t just about physical presence, it’s about emotional absence. Whether it's a short-term relationship or long-distance, if the connection was strong, no contact can make the person realize what they’re missing and can lead them to return to seek closure or rekindle things 😊
the cg voice over is messed up but the commentary is good
Thanks for your feedback! 🙏 I’ll work on improving the voice-over quality for future videos, but I’m glad you enjoyed the commentary and insights. Your support means a lot!
Hard to keep no contact when Ive got 2 kids and ive got to see her everyday but I keepeverything short and very quick.
You're doing an amazing job balancing no contact with the responsibilities of being a parent. It's not easy, but by keeping things short, you're protecting your peace and showing true resilience. Keep it up! 🙏💪
She texts my son to see what he is doing. She reaches out to me to see what he is doing and I don't respond.
Use the grayrock approach
And does this work if a long distance relationship where we cannot "SEE" each other on a regular basis?
Doing this with a lady I was in love with and had the most incredible sex with. But once she started disrespecting me and my boundaries, I called her out on it and she denied all of it.
Finally I just stopped responding to her.
It's been around a month since I've heard from her.
My guess is she'll eventually reach out, but I will be abrupt with her and let her know I'm no longer at all interested and to not reach out again, because I am DONE!!!!!!
Sounds like you're setting healthy boundaries and staying true to yourself. 👏 It's tough to walk away, especially when there were strong feelings involved, but self-respect always comes first. Keep holding your ground, you’ve got this! 💪
@thestoicreminder thank you. I used to be that codependent needy guy... not any more
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My presence is a gift
My presence is a gift
Absolutely, your presence is a gift! When you truly embody that mindset, it shows confidence and self-worth, which often draws others back.
My presence is a gift