This is only the case if the Pluto person is unevolved. Manipulation transforms into empowerment. Controlling becomes undying support. Don't let people think that all Pluto contacts like this end up in some insanely jealous, abusive aspect. It isn't.
This is exactly how it turned out for my relationship. We had some toxic mindsets that have changed since we transformed ourselves. Now our relationship is the healthiest its ever been and i wouldn’t change it for anything!
I agree Pluto doesn’t have to be negative definitely depends on how each person is mature enough to see what needs to be done with that particular union
I have this in my Natal chart and synastry chart with my boyfriend of 4 years. We definitely have transformed since these 4 years But i can only Thank him for it. I am a much better person thanks to him and he is a much better person thanks to me. We helped each other to remove all of our toxicity and now our relationship is the most loving out of all relationships i have ever experienced. I don’t think this aspect has to be dangerous, it all depends on the persons involved. For us we have become stronger than ever thanks to this aspect.
@@CleoraAleise in our relationship it was losing all of the men in my family and he helped me get through processing the grief of losing my little brother my papa my dad and my uncle it was the hardest thing I've ever been through and I'm so glad he was there for me
Hi! Thanks for confirming it. I have this aspect with my whole generation and I always felt like they gaslighted me - treated me badly and then blamed me for it.
I did have this aspect with someone, I was the ascendant, I did lose myself completely and I think he did too, but I felt it more I guess. I always felt like he was physically after me, like he would look at me with intense stares for long periods of time like a crazy person, he would make me talk to him even when I tried to avoid. I always physically felt like something was wrong tried to stay away, but his presence made me kind of insane, my mars was also conjunct his sun, and his mars was in opposition with my venus. He was definitely minipulative, I never understood why he was always after me, but now it's been 4 years and I've realized he minipulated me into falling in love with him, I was never going to love him otherwise. One more thing that really bothered me was that he made me talk to him in person but he would completely ignore me online. And he would play those sort mind games all the time. And I always doubted myself and my own sanity because I felt like an imposter to my own emotions and feelings, he invalidated my feelings all the time. His pluto is trine my mercury as well. These mind games really felt so damaging and the effects last a long time almost 3 years. I'm finally over him and I no longer care, I did lose myself, it really hurt
I am very intimate with Pluto as the Ascendant person in a Pluto conjunct Ascendant romantic relationship. You are very right in highlighting themes of intense attraction, power, and the unconscious. But the highest expression and intention of Pluto's unwavering contact is transformation. Even though it was one of the most psychically torturous romantic relationships I've known, it created conditions that offered me a choice: to evolve or not to evolve. I almost consider Pluto a benevolent planet now, having experienced the most profound spiritual evolution and inner work. Though it arose from being completely broken down, I did break through and uncover unconditional love and my own power, from within and unattached to external circumstances. Thank you for the insight!!
Spot on! I wish I would’ve known about this aspect before getting into a relationship with the Pluto maniac we had a very tight orb, not to say all the Pluto people are completely nuts but my ex became psycho I ignored all the red flags 🚩 I thought he was so controlling because he was being protective over me.. I lost myself completely he even put me in harms way more than once! My advice to others is be careful with this aspect in SYNASTRY it can easily become psychotic attraction!!
@@irme8930 it’s scary! They never let you go either. They will always be obsessed with possessing us. it’s been 2 yrs since I moved across the country to get away from the nut job and he still finds ways to contact me very obsessive behavior..😳
I’m the ascendant person , and my Pluto is in his sun. Long term relationship of 8 years but yes in beginning was crazy highs and lows but overtime gets much easier .. if both are mature and it’s extremely rewarding, I think it’s twinflame relationship
I'm in love, he's trying to get me. His Pluto is in quadrature on my ASC, his Mars in my 7th house - in opposition to the ASC. It is desolate despair. Attacks on ASC have no perspective, because all areas of life are affected - AC, IC, DC, MC. Does it balance any positive aspect?
I have this placement exact with my boyfriend of 5 years things are going strong but I'm nervous now... He helped me get through the death of all of the men in my family too, my little brother my dad my papa and my uncle. Now it's just my grandma my mom my little half brother and sister and I. I can't be the same person I was when we got together even if I wanted to be. I've lost so much of my life septemeber 2018 to January 2020 my little brother died about a year after my dad and my papa died 7 days after my brother. Rest in Peace guys be good up there. ❤️
I’m the Pluto person but I don’t want control. I’m the most shy and awkward timid person ever, people have control over me.. but I have Lilith conjunct Pluto in my third house natal so I have trouble when it comes to communication.. would this aspect work ever if you don’t have a strong Pluto and the aspect is only 3 degrees in our synastry?
WoW. Now it all make perfect sense. I also know to stay away from Pluto person. It's been a rough 10 years. But now I know why. Thank you for the video. It's going to help me in the future. Thanks again,....
I have this with a whole gen that im around so much, their pluto squares my ASC, conjucts my NN, opposes my Gemini moon, sits in my 10th house. Super intense interactions which can either be positive or negative, extremely karmic for my own self growth.
Same I don’t get it I have this in my natal why is it that I’ll have this same aspect with people my age and if I go to the Pluto in Scorpio generation their Pluto squares my moon … am I supposed to just be hurt in love this is confusing for me
@@Mysticalbeing.xx444 yes it supposed to effect people 4 years older or younger around the same age but I’d also check my Chiron and make sure it isn’t in Libra
Thank you. I new something was off. We've only been chatting a couple of weeks although we've known each other all our lives through mutual acquaintances. I get nervous after our talks even when it's just over the phone. My chest will physically feel pain or be heavy. There is more to the story of course, he's never been a 'good' boy and I don't think adulthood has changed anything. Thanks for this.
I dont understand. So the passion and attraction is only felt by the ascendant person? Or si mutual? I have 0.1 aspect with someone (that someone is scorpio)
The other a$$hole feels it too, but they hide it. The whole relationshit is about them hiding their feelings from you and making you feel miserable. If you don't have many other positive aspects, you'd better leave them at "hello". I had this aspect with my whole generation, childhood friends and they made my youth miserable. All the push and pull and when the relationship ends, they blame you. After you cut them off, they become obsessive and start to stalk you while in the relationship they never appreciated you. They cry in the corner over you but they never have the guts to send you a message. Pathetic Losers acting like babies. Typical Pluto psycho stuff.
@@irme8930 😭😭😭😭omg you just read us. I was the pluto in my last relationship but he had pluto square ascendant natally as well. I miss him but I'll never reach out, especially hearing that I was the crazy obsessive one. I don't think I took him for granted in the relationship though, I just wanted him all to myself & he felt suffocated and felt like he couldn't have friends. But we have a SHIT LOAD of karmic overlays in our synastry so it was bound to be toxic anyway.
Comparing pluto in aspect to venus, what is pluto after with the asc?, With venus they want their love and attention, but what do they want from ascendant what makes them want to own them?, I have a leo ascendant which is squaring alot of scorpio pluto people, what do you think about those planets with those signs? And thank you so much for your videos ❤️
Hi Cinderella. Thank you for your kind words :) with pluto square asc, Pluto wants to own Ascendant person as a whole. His body, mind, soul. Pluto wants to have power over their appearance, goals, the way they present themselves to the world. It is more personality thing.
@@modernastrology4521 got it. Another question please i seem to not really know the exact time i was born so there is a big chance i might have this aspect in natal chart, pluto sq asc wide degree, are there any traits or signs to know if i do have it?, I'm a cancer sun with pisces moon and leo rising and no scorpio placements or plutonic aspects and only Jupiter in 8th house, but somehow i feel like I'm scorpionic or give those vibes, i don't know what causes that. I'm so sorry for the long questions I'm just really confused❤️❤️
I had this with an ex. I was the Pluto. I just wanted a long term relationship with her. The whole thing was just not transparent. She was definitely magnetized by me and left me after 2 years because of family/societal/religious expectations of who she can be with. I had a really hard time moving on.
So my story is that was the only bad thing in a synastry with a guy I started to date. I started to feel smth is wrong, even though we r greatly compatible. I think thats why i even started to be suspisiois. It turns out that he has a wife. He says that this is something he would tell me later on, and it is complicated issue (maybe he/they wamt to brake up) i havent taled to him yet about it....only notified him that i know....i am so happy it happened merely after a month. He says it is smth that he is going through now...and in general he always hoped for someone like me and blah blah. In over all he is very supportive and good guy....cant even belive it to be honest. That is a schock...and in my synastry with him, it was the only bad thing that said probably love affair and excpet that ALL aspects ore off the chart. It makes it even more diffuclt becasue that mean we are compatible but cant see how this can be resolved. Not to mention my Ascendand is Leo...very prideful
I think both people feel it. The struggle for the Pluto person is not to be downplayed. The fact that it's a generational planet has nothing to do with it. Pluto in one's chart shows what is repressed, suppressed in the personality. The Pluto person may no be aware that what they're experiencing is their own problem, but they feel it strongly too.
I'm the Pluto, it's early. We also have Pluto sq sun, Pluto conjunction sun, and moon sq Pluto. Some of these are because of natal squares that neither can avoid within certain generations.
I have my pluto square his ascendant in tight orb and oh my God it's unhealthy. He cheated on his current gf with me and we simply can't stay away from eachother. I'm just as obsessed with him. I do have my Mars in his 8th house and my Venus in his 11th so there is a lot of idolization going on which masks itself as love but I'm completely crushed by this fling. We only saw eachother 4 times and I feel like I will never forget this man.. so don't worry about pluto not having the same feelings because he definitely has, he just doesn't show it as openly like you do
Hello Beata, I like your videos and thank you for them. But in this video, I did not catch, what is exactly behave of Pluto person to ascendant and what has Pluto person´s motivation (except own and manipulation)? Because I don't believe that every Pluto person who has this aspect with Asc. in synastry is a manipulator person. And I did not catch, how to feels ascendant person. Thank you. And last one - could you make a video "mars trine pluto in natal", please? This is a position in my chart. Thank you. Have a nice day.
it's not manipulation just for the sake of manipulation. It's to keep someone in your life because you're affraid of losing them. it's a selfish and insecure reason. it can play out in many ways.
Gigi Emma: Ok, that makes sense. But not for all. I have this contact with my family member and we have been last 30 years in a stable and nice relationship. My Scorpio´s pluto is strong in my natal chart but is also harmonious - it does not have any squares or oppositions. So that is the thing that needed to be said. Depends on who the pluto person is and what pluto looks like in natal. Like always. Is much more things that needed to be evaluated.
I have this aspect between my father (pluto) and me (ascendant). It is really desperate, I don't see a way for us to get along, since he is imposing his will onto mine and it hurts too much. Additionally our plutos also square each other.
I got sick in that short relationship, he was playing me from the stars and was already in a couple with an other woman, he made me believe that he loved me but he only wanted to f**** me, he played so much mind games on me, being Nice in the same Time, I started doubting my self, got ashtma and anxiety… I had to leave! I am my self à strong pluto mercury person, what saved me? My mars on my ascendant squarîng Uranus , and trining pluto, he didnt expect me being such a rebel!
This is true. I am the most in control person, never like any guy and I met someone we have this aspect. I am the ascendant person and I'm so magnetized by him. It is an incomprehensible, unexplainable feeling. It also feels heavy in a way that makes me want to run away. And that was before I saw our synastry. I think I am going to lose myself, if I get involved. We also have: His Pluto Square my Venus My Venus Sextile his Pluto His Jupiter in Sag sextile my Venus My Jupiter Sextile his Venus His Venus Square my Uranus His Ascendant in Virgo trine my Venus in Capricorn My Mars in Virgo conjunct his ascendant in virgo. My Venus Square his Mars His Mars in Cancer opposite my Venus in Capricorn My Venus in Capricorn opposite his Sun in Cancer My sun in Sag Square his Venus in Leo His sun in cancer opposite my Venus in Capricorn My Sun are conjunct his Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, and MC and a bunch of other conjunctions.
I have this too with my crush and I feel the exact same way, him being the pluto person and everything I've read about this aspect is so scarily true it's unreal
I'm in love, he's trying to get me. His Pluto is in quadrature on my ASC, his Mars in my 7th house - in opposition to the ASC. It is desolate despair. You'd avoid this self-respecting partner, wouldn't you?
I have this with someone but I am the Pluto in Scorpio and he is the Ascendant in Taurus in 4 degrees. I am confused because I feel I am obsessed with him and he has been going through a lot and he keeps on telling me that he is stuck and he wants to leave everything behind and it hurts me to tell me to go but I want him happy. Once I told him to go and find his peace, he got angry. He doesn’t want me to say or think of that but that is all what he keeps telling me. So honestly, I don’t know if he is obsessed with me but I feel that I am lost in him and honestly I am so in love with him, I want it all. We both have fears. So I don’t know about who feels what but I think we both feel it.
@@alerosexoxo yes you both feel it but i see that pluto more cuz you are jealous you want him to stay with you forever you want protect him you want to posess everything about him i feel you
I have it. I also have a boyfriend that i share this aspect with. For us it has helped us to transform into better people. I am a plutonian so for me transformation is something that comes easy to me anyways. This dangerous part that She is talking about, didn’t resonate with us.
@@simoly7893 It didn't because most certainly you have many other positive aspects in sinastry. If you didn't have the other aspects, it wouldn't have worked so well.
Hi, Modern Astrology! First of all, congratulations for your amazing channel! I love to see your videos, you are one of the best astrologers on TH-cam. Regarding this video, I would like to ask you what should I do if I have this aspect with my whole generation of "friends". Many of them demostrated not beeing real friends sometimes. What do you advise? Thank you very much and blessings! ❤
Thank you. I have this aspect with someone in synastry in a six degree orb with me being the ascendant person in the dynamic, and yes I can confirm this. Fortunately, it’s not too tight, but yes, at six degrees it’s still felt. But I also noticed that my Pluto sextiles his ascendant by 3 degrees. I can’t say how that might impact him? But, my BML is conjunct his NN by 1 degree in his eight house?? His sun conjuncts my Pluto by 1 degree. Hmm
Bonjour, j'ai ce placement et je suis la personne Pluton... mais la passion est pas forcément mauvaise on a tendance à diaboliser appart si il ya trop de possessivité... Ce placement est léquivalent de lilith conjoint soleil? merci
DNice0592 Hi, Pluto is always very strong, even with easy aspects. However, I personally think that this experience can be very enriching and transformative for ASC person. Again, Pluto’s energy is irresistible but this time it can lead to some great relationship experience.
Probably be careful that the Pluto parent doesn't try to control, obsess over, hover over, manipulate, or over protect the child. Avoid giving the child the silent treatment when desiring a change in their behavior. The child may not be comfortable being himself in around the parent for fear of judgment or punishment or may feel controlled. That is if the parent is pluto. If the child is pluto, the child may be obsessed with being close to the parent, or could be manipulative in big or small ways, possessive in a way, and it may cause jealousy between other siblings and the Pluto child because the Pluto child may want the parent to themselves. May give parent silent treatments. May cause severe struggles for power and dominance depending on how the parent and child relate to each other and how much respect, both ways, is given. Heavier if there are multiple pluto aspects. Probably much easier if the parent is pluto and is aware of the presence and power they have. I think other "good" aspects would probably lessen the heaviness here and this placement could manifest as a deep, plutonic bond where the child and parent are very close and watch out for one another. Could be great for growth if healthy.
I have this aspects in my natal chart (0 orb). Also i am daiting with someone. We have this aspects (0orb) our synastry chart. I like him and I want to him love so badly. But i have no fucking idea about after. Its feel like just instinct
Hi . I think you will see new things you haven't seen before in my chart 11:43am East Los Angeles December 30 1981 for example Pluto conjunct Jupiter and Saturn in the 7th house with no houses or planets in Virgo or Pisces. No Virgo or Pisces plus 28° moon in aquarius in the 11th Capricorn house.
This is only the case if the Pluto person is unevolved. Manipulation transforms into empowerment. Controlling becomes undying support. Don't let people think that all Pluto contacts like this end up in some insanely jealous, abusive aspect. It isn't.
I think it willl be end harmonious if it's an easy aspect but for hard i dthink so
@@meriemmeriem9727 Then you do not understand how Pluto can transform.
This is exactly how it turned out for my relationship. We had some toxic mindsets that have changed since we transformed ourselves. Now our relationship is the healthiest its ever been and i wouldn’t change it for anything!
@@joshuatoms7664 i was in pluto ascendznt one i think that it's hard but it transformed me for the better
I agree Pluto doesn’t have to be negative definitely depends on how each person is mature enough to see what needs to be done with that particular union
I have this in my Natal chart and synastry chart with my boyfriend of 4 years. We definitely have transformed since these 4 years But i can only Thank him for it. I am a much better person thanks to him and he is a much better person thanks to me. We helped each other to remove all of our toxicity and now our relationship is the most loving out of all relationships i have ever experienced. I don’t think this aspect has to be dangerous, it all depends on the persons involved. For us we have become stronger than ever thanks to this aspect.
Thank you for sharing a positive point of view
Gotta go through hell & back first
@@CleoraAleise in our relationship it was losing all of the men in my family and he helped me get through processing the grief of losing my little brother my papa my dad and my uncle it was the hardest thing I've ever been through and I'm so glad he was there for me
A lot of gaslighting. No thanks. I’m the ascendant person ... ✌🏾🏃🏾♀️💨
Hi! Thanks for confirming it. I have this aspect with my whole generation and I always felt like they gaslighted me - treated me badly and then blamed me for it.
Omg this!!! The gaslighting is insane & when I call him out on it he continues to do it.
I did have this aspect with someone, I was the ascendant, I did lose myself completely and I think he did too, but I felt it more I guess. I always felt like he was physically after me, like he would look at me with intense stares for long periods of time like a crazy person, he would make me talk to him even when I tried to avoid. I always physically felt like something was wrong tried to stay away, but his presence made me kind of insane, my mars was also conjunct his sun, and his mars was in opposition with my venus. He was definitely minipulative, I never understood why he was always after me, but now it's been 4 years and I've realized he minipulated me into falling in love with him, I was never going to love him otherwise. One more thing that really bothered me was that he made me talk to him in person but he would completely ignore me online. And he would play those sort mind games all the time. And I always doubted myself and my own sanity because I felt like an imposter to my own emotions and feelings, he invalidated my feelings all the time. His pluto is trine my mercury as well. These mind games really felt so damaging and the effects last a long time almost 3 years. I'm finally over him and I no longer care, I did lose myself, it really hurt
This sounds like my exact scenario with this guy 😳
I am very intimate with Pluto as the Ascendant person in a Pluto conjunct Ascendant romantic relationship. You are very right in highlighting themes of intense attraction, power, and the unconscious. But the highest expression and intention of Pluto's unwavering contact is transformation. Even though it was one of the most psychically torturous romantic relationships I've known, it created conditions that offered me a choice: to evolve or not to evolve. I almost consider Pluto a benevolent planet now, having experienced the most profound spiritual evolution and inner work. Though it arose from being completely broken down, I did break through and uncover unconditional love and my own power, from within and unattached to external circumstances.
Thank you for the insight!!
Spot on! I wish I would’ve known about this aspect before getting into a relationship with the Pluto maniac we had a very tight orb, not to say all the Pluto people are completely nuts but my ex became psycho I ignored all the red flags 🚩 I thought he was so controlling because he was being protective over me.. I lost myself completely he even put me in harms way more than once! My advice to others is be careful with this aspect in SYNASTRY it can easily become psychotic attraction!!
U were pluto or asc please
@@زينبالجميلة-ق4ط I was the ascendant person
@@Aries_Fire89 thank you so much
Sounds familiar. I had this aspect with a jacka$$ who was a real Psychopath.
@@irme8930 it’s scary! They never let you go either. They will always be obsessed with possessing us. it’s been 2 yrs since I moved across the country to get away from the nut job and he still finds ways to contact me very obsessive behavior..😳
I’m the ascendant person , and my Pluto is in his sun. Long term relationship of 8 years but yes in beginning was crazy highs and lows but overtime gets much easier .. if both are mature and it’s extremely rewarding, I think it’s twinflame relationship
I'm in love, he's trying to get me.
His Pluto is in quadrature on my ASC, his Mars in my 7th house - in opposition to the ASC.
It is desolate despair.
Attacks on ASC have no perspective, because all areas of life are affected - AC, IC, DC, MC.
Does it balance any positive aspect?
I have this placement exact with my boyfriend of 5 years things are going strong but I'm nervous now... He helped me get through the death of all of the men in my family too, my little brother my dad my papa and my uncle. Now it's just my grandma my mom my little half brother and sister and I. I can't be the same person I was when we got together even if I wanted to be. I've lost so much of my life septemeber 2018 to January 2020 my little brother died about a year after my dad and my papa died 7 days after my brother. Rest in Peace guys be good up there. ❤️
😭such a tragedy. Sorry for your loss
@Modern Astrology Thank you so much for your support I love your videos and perspective.
I’m the Pluto person but I don’t want control. I’m the most shy and awkward timid person ever, people have control over me.. but I have Lilith conjunct Pluto in my third house natal so I have trouble when it comes to communication.. would this aspect work ever if you don’t have a strong Pluto and the aspect is only 3 degrees in our synastry?
WoW. Now it all make perfect sense. I also know to stay away from Pluto person. It's been a rough 10 years. But now I know why. Thank you for the video. It's going to help me in the future. Thanks again,....
I have this with a whole gen that im around so much, their pluto squares my ASC, conjucts my NN, opposes my Gemini moon, sits in my 10th house. Super intense interactions which can either be positive or negative, extremely karmic for my own self growth.
Same I don’t get it I have this in my natal why is it that I’ll have this same aspect with people my age and if I go to the Pluto in Scorpio generation their Pluto squares my moon … am I supposed to just be hurt in love this is confusing for me
@@Mysticalbeing.xx444 yes it supposed to effect people 4 years older or younger around the same age but I’d also check my Chiron and make sure it isn’t in Libra
Thank you. I new something was off. We've only been chatting a couple of weeks although we've known each other all our lives through mutual acquaintances. I get nervous after our talks even when it's just over the phone. My chest will physically feel pain or be heavy. There is more to the story of course, he's never been a 'good' boy and I don't think adulthood has changed anything. Thanks for this.
Please you were ascendant or pluto
@@حليمةالحلوة-ح7ن ascendant
Update. I found out his birth time. My Pluto is squaring his ascendant as well, and a might tighter orb...
@@mantuli8500 oh dear 🤣 how did that play out
Please do the Pluto trine asc in synastry I cannot find info about it online
I have this as a double whammy with someone... our ascendants are conjunct within 3 degrees as well. Scary
I dont understand. So the passion and attraction is only felt by the ascendant person? Or si mutual? I have 0.1 aspect with someone (that someone is scorpio)
It's mutual
The other a$$hole feels it too, but they hide it. The whole relationshit is about them hiding their feelings from you and making you feel miserable. If you don't have many other positive aspects, you'd better leave them at "hello".
I had this aspect with my whole generation, childhood friends and they made my youth miserable. All the push and pull and when the relationship ends, they blame you. After you cut them off, they become obsessive and start to stalk you while in the relationship they never appreciated you. They cry in the corner over you but they never have the guts to send you a message. Pathetic Losers acting like babies. Typical Pluto psycho stuff.
@@irme8930 😭😭😭😭omg you just read us. I was the pluto in my last relationship but he had pluto square ascendant natally as well. I miss him but I'll never reach out, especially hearing that I was the crazy obsessive one. I don't think I took him for granted in the relationship though, I just wanted him all to myself & he felt suffocated and felt like he couldn't have friends. But we have a SHIT LOAD of karmic overlays in our synastry so it was bound to be toxic anyway.
Comparing pluto in aspect to venus, what is pluto after with the asc?, With venus they want their love and attention, but what do they want from ascendant what makes them want to own them?, I have a leo ascendant which is squaring alot of scorpio pluto people, what do you think about those planets with those signs?
And thank you so much for your videos ❤️
Hi Cinderella. Thank you for your kind words :) with pluto square asc, Pluto wants to own Ascendant person as a whole. His body, mind, soul. Pluto wants to have power over their appearance, goals, the way they present themselves to the world. It is more personality thing.
@@modernastrology4521 got it. Another question please i seem to not really know the exact time i was born so there is a big chance i might have this aspect in natal chart, pluto sq asc wide degree, are there any traits or signs to know if i do have it?, I'm a cancer sun with pisces moon and leo rising and no scorpio placements or plutonic aspects and only Jupiter in 8th house, but somehow i feel like I'm scorpionic or give those vibes, i don't know what causes that. I'm so sorry for the long questions I'm just really confused❤️❤️
Ok
His Pluto and Mars attacks on my ASC = not perspective, because all areas of life are affected - AC, IC, DC, MC.
Does it balance any positive aspect?
I had this with an ex. I was the Pluto. I just wanted a long term relationship with her. The whole thing was just not transparent. She was definitely magnetized by me and left me after 2 years because of family/societal/religious expectations of who she can be with. I had a really hard time moving on.
So my story is that was the only bad thing in a synastry with a guy I started to date. I started to feel smth is wrong, even though we r greatly compatible. I think thats why i even started to be suspisiois. It turns out that he has a wife. He says that this is something he would tell me later on, and it is complicated issue (maybe he/they wamt to brake up) i havent taled to him yet about it....only notified him that i know....i am so happy it happened merely after a month. He says it is smth that he is going through now...and in general he always hoped for someone like me and blah blah.
In over all he is very supportive and good guy....cant even belive it to be honest.
That is a schock...and in my synastry with him, it was the only bad thing that said probably love affair and excpet that ALL aspects ore off the chart.
It makes it even more diffuclt becasue that mean we are compatible but cant see how this can be resolved.
Not to mention my Ascendand is Leo...very prideful
I think both people feel it. The struggle for the Pluto person is not to be downplayed. The fact that it's a generational planet has nothing to do with it. Pluto in one's chart shows what is repressed, suppressed in the personality. The Pluto person may no be aware that what they're experiencing is their own problem, but they feel it strongly too.
I'm the Pluto, it's early. We also have Pluto sq sun, Pluto conjunction sun, and moon sq Pluto. Some of these are because of natal squares that neither can avoid within certain generations.
Well, too late for me lol my daughters father & I have this aspect in our synastry. I'm the ascendant person, ugh.
I’ve this aspect, his pluto square my ascendant, and he’ve venus and mars in scorpio... does he feel physical attraction too?
I have my pluto square his ascendant in tight orb and oh my God it's unhealthy. He cheated on his current gf with me and we simply can't stay away from eachother. I'm just as obsessed with him. I do have my Mars in his 8th house and my Venus in his 11th so there is a lot of idolization going on which masks itself as love but I'm completely crushed by this fling. We only saw eachother 4 times and I feel like I will never forget this man.. so don't worry about pluto not having the same feelings because he definitely has, he just doesn't show it as openly like you do
can you update please?
@@gigiemma3192
Hello Beata,
I like your videos and thank you for them.
But in this video, I did not catch, what is exactly behave of Pluto person to ascendant and what has Pluto person´s motivation (except own and manipulation)? Because I don't believe that every Pluto person who has this aspect with Asc. in synastry is a manipulator person. And I did not catch, how to feels ascendant person. Thank you.
And last one - could you make a video "mars trine pluto in natal", please? This is a position in my chart. Thank you. Have a nice day.
That’s what I’m saying. Like I don’t get it
it's not manipulation just for the sake of manipulation. It's to keep someone in your life because you're affraid of losing them. it's a selfish and insecure reason. it can play out in many ways.
Gigi Emma: Ok, that makes sense. But not for all. I have this contact with my family member and we have been last 30 years in a stable and nice relationship. My Scorpio´s pluto is strong in my natal chart but is also harmonious - it does not have any squares or oppositions.
So that is the thing that needed to be said. Depends on who the pluto person is and what pluto looks like in natal.
Like always. Is much more things that needed to be evaluated.
Hi I’m sorry for bothering,but I wanted to ask if this aspects signifies physical attraction as well?
Yes, absolutely
@@modernastrology4521 tysm!
I have this aspect between my father (pluto) and me (ascendant). It is really desperate, I don't see a way for us to get along, since he is imposing his will onto mine and it hurts too much. Additionally our plutos also square each other.
I got sick in that short relationship, he was playing me from the stars and was already in a couple with an other woman, he made me believe that he loved me but he only wanted to f**** me, he played so much mind games on me, being Nice in the same Time, I started doubting my self, got ashtma and anxiety… I had to leave! I am my self à strong pluto mercury person, what saved me? My mars on my ascendant squarîng Uranus , and trining pluto, he didnt expect me being such a rebel!
I (⬆️) have this placement with my mother (♏️). Does anyone have any suggestions on where to find information on understanding familial synastry?
This is true.
I am the most in control person, never like any guy and I met someone we have this aspect. I am the ascendant person and I'm so magnetized by him. It is an incomprehensible, unexplainable feeling. It also feels heavy in a way that makes me want to run away. And that was before I saw our synastry. I think I am going to lose myself, if I get involved. We also have:
His Pluto Square my Venus
My Venus Sextile his Pluto
His Jupiter in Sag sextile my Venus
My Jupiter Sextile his Venus
His Venus Square my Uranus
His Ascendant in Virgo trine my Venus in Capricorn
My Mars in Virgo conjunct his ascendant in virgo.
My Venus Square his Mars
His Mars in Cancer opposite my Venus in Capricorn
My Venus in Capricorn opposite his Sun in Cancer
My sun in Sag Square his Venus in Leo
His sun in cancer opposite my Venus in Capricorn
My Sun are conjunct his Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, and MC
and a bunch of other conjunctions.
I have this with some one and I’m obsessed. I’m lost, don’t know who I am anymore and we are not even in a relationship yet. This will not end well...
I have this too with my crush and I feel the exact same way, him being the pluto person and everything I've read about this aspect is so scarily true it's unreal
I'm in love, he's trying to get me.
His Pluto is in quadrature on my ASC, his Mars in my 7th house - in opposition to the ASC.
It is desolate despair.
You'd avoid this self-respecting partner, wouldn't you?
I have this with someone but I am the Pluto in Scorpio and he is the Ascendant in Taurus in 4 degrees. I am confused because I feel I am obsessed with him and he has been going through a lot and he keeps on telling me that he is stuck and he wants to leave everything behind and it hurts me to tell me to go but I want him happy. Once I told him to go and find his peace, he got angry. He doesn’t want me to say or think of that but that is all what he keeps telling me. So honestly, I don’t know if he is obsessed with me but I feel that I am lost in him and honestly I am so in love with him, I want it all. We both have fears. So I don’t know about who feels what but I think we both feel it.
@@Daonlygirlintheworl1 who is the pluto please ??
@@alerosexoxo yes you both feel it but i see that pluto more cuz you are jealous you want him to stay with you forever you want protect him you want to posess everything about him i feel you
His Pluto is opp my ascendant (0 orb) and my pluto is square is ascendant (2 orb). Lordt
Please do planets aspects to MC in synastry . Hope to watch your videos
Can you make video about Jupiter square/opposition Saturn ? I love the way you explain, it’s easy to understand thank u 😘
We have it both directions in our synastry.... Cancer -libra - Capricorn.... What do you think this effect is?
What if the ascendant person already has the asc square pluto in natal chart?
Same here lol
I have it. I also have a boyfriend that i share this aspect with. For us it has helped us to transform into better people. I am a plutonian so for me transformation is something that comes easy to me anyways. This dangerous part that She is talking about, didn’t resonate with us.
@@simoly7893 It didn't because most certainly you have many other positive aspects in sinastry. If you didn't have the other aspects, it wouldn't have worked so well.
Can it be even the exlerince is bad but all otjer aspects are good, still possible to overcome it? Or it is there only for the lesson to be learned
oh lord. i have this going one way where i am pluto and then the conjunction between the two where I am the ascendant.
Hi, Modern Astrology! First of all, congratulations for your amazing channel! I love to see your videos, you are one of the best astrologers on TH-cam.
Regarding this video, I would like to ask you what should I do if I have this aspect with my whole generation of "friends". Many of them demostrated not beeing real friends sometimes. What do you advise? Thank you very much and blessings! ❤
Yes natal charts are crucial
Thank you for the warning
Thank you. I have this aspect with someone in synastry in a six degree orb with me being the ascendant person in the dynamic, and yes I can confirm this. Fortunately, it’s not too tight, but yes, at six degrees it’s still felt. But I also noticed that my Pluto sextiles his ascendant by 3 degrees. I can’t say how that might impact him? But, my BML is conjunct his NN by 1 degree in his eight house?? His sun conjuncts my Pluto by 1 degree. Hmm
Do you have Pluto opposite ascendant in synastry or the square?
Bonjour, j'ai ce placement et je suis la personne Pluton... mais la passion est pas forcément mauvaise on a tendance à diaboliser appart si il ya trop de possessivité... Ce placement est léquivalent de lilith conjoint soleil? merci
Hi! How about Pluto square ascendant in a composite chart ?
Hi! Do you have this with someone? Can you please share your experience?
Hi Beata, what about Ascendant trine Pluto in synastry?
DNice0592 Hi, Pluto is always very strong, even with easy aspects. However, I personally think that this experience can be very enriching and transformative for ASC person. Again, Pluto’s energy is irresistible but this time it can lead to some great relationship experience.
Modern Astrology Thank you for taking the time to reply.:)
What if, I am Scorpio ascendant and he is Libra Pluto? Will the effect be similar for the ascendant person?
What about child and parent that has this aspect any advice
Probably be careful that the Pluto parent doesn't try to control, obsess over, hover over, manipulate, or over protect the child. Avoid giving the child the silent treatment when desiring a change in their behavior. The child may not be comfortable being himself in around the parent for fear of judgment or punishment or may feel controlled. That is if the parent is pluto.
If the child is pluto, the child may be obsessed with being close to the parent, or could be manipulative in big or small ways, possessive in a way, and it may cause jealousy between other siblings and the Pluto child because the Pluto child may want the parent to themselves. May give parent silent treatments.
May cause severe struggles for power and dominance depending on how the parent and child relate to each other and how much respect, both ways, is given. Heavier if there are multiple pluto aspects. Probably much easier if the parent is pluto and is aware of the presence and power they have. I think other "good" aspects would probably lessen the heaviness here and this placement could manifest as a deep, plutonic bond where the child and parent are very close and watch out for one another. Could be great for growth if healthy.
Physical abuse
@@anditsreyna020 what you mean by abuse
I have this aspects in my natal chart (0 orb). Also i am daiting with someone. We have this aspects (0orb) our synastry chart. I like him and I want to him love so badly. But i have no fucking idea about after. Its feel like just instinct
Hi . I think you will see new things you haven't seen before in my chart 11:43am East Los Angeles December 30 1981 for example Pluto conjunct Jupiter and Saturn in the 7th house with no houses or planets in Virgo or Pisces. No Virgo or Pisces plus 28° moon in aquarius in the 11th Capricorn house.
Can u do the meaning of Pluto square the asc natally!
I like your orchid, very Venus in Virgo
My Pluto |_| HC Ascendant
My Ascendant * HC Pluto (exact)
Double Whammy
What about Asc in scorpio mars in cancer ??
I don’t understand….