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- This is a must watch video where Daniel discusses 5 things every guy without a father should know and understand. We are living in a society where more and more fathers are absent. Growing up without a dad may have a profound influence on young men and woman, but we should remember that we are not our fathers. You are your own person.
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In this video, Daniel Maritz from DLM Men's Lifestyle discuss 5 things that every guy without a father should know and understand. A lot of guys had no father figure growing up, and this may have a profound effect on their lives. So many men did not have a healthy father and son relationship and many kids are growing up without a dad, making them think "Why does my dad not want me".
Keep in mind that your father figure does not have to be your biological father, you can choose your own father figure to learn from. This is a must watch video where Daniel talks about the dangers of a fatherless society and also gives you some life advice on what you can do to break this cycle. Choose to be an overcomer and be the change that this world needs.
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21 years old and I still ask myself why I can't get over it 😊
Ur not alone
My father dead when I was 16 years old and now I'm 22 .. it's hard man
I thought I was over it at 21 , then I had kids and it got 2x worse. Seeing exactly what my father walked out on.... I just can't imagine not being here with my sons! I'll never understand
Hits hard😊
Me too man
It's sad, i lost my father when i was 10, i always see him drinking, that's why i always avoid him. And my mother died when i was 1 year old. No parents to teach me. And im here learning how to be a good man. I'm 14
You got this bro
Stay strong little bro...stay strong and trust no one
With JESUS YOU WILL SUCCEED
I gotchu bro watch spriitual so videos he also has no dad like me
God bless you dear stay strong and stay safe.
My father abandoned me and my mother from my birth .now I'm 17 and growing up with my own hard work and mindset. Yah it is hard to not getting any thing from dad what everyone gets.But I will be rich by my own hardwork.and i will always keep my mother happy 🙂
You a dream Stan?
hey man i’m 17 too todays father’s day and it never really bothered me before but i finally was honest with myself today and cried over it and finally texted him today after cutting him off i just wanted to reply or something
Keep going bro u got this🥺🥰🥰
@@jeykies3745. idiot. Why do you like those kindmof memes
Same. I am 17 too
I've never my dad. I think about it every single day. I've always lacked guidance, just turned 34, I'm a mess. Appreciate your video, love to everyone.
Same!
Me too bro!
Same 😞
I’m 31 same here, but we can’t give up.
I’m 31 and my life is a wreck, father left when I was 6, mother moved out to another country at age 13, no language . I’ve floating around for too long, i just want my soul to get resting.
28 years old and still get in my feelings that my punk ass father ain’t wanna be around me. I never had a dad and I have a lot of problems that I think may stem from it, but my daughter, my beautiful life changing daughter, will never know the pain I feel. I’m not perfect I’m learning and teaching myself how to be a strong patient leading husband and father to my tribe.
Respect
💕💕💕💕
You a G 💯 👊🏾 nothing but respect
Love your comment. Loving your partner and children will bring you a wonderful life.
@@margareth1504 year later we’re still in love she’s still the one and my daughter sees everyday how a man should love and respect a woman. Thank u.
God has been my Father never met my dad till I was 40 years old God is a father to the fatherless rise up my brother and sisters 🙏
Me and my dad were playing hide and seek .....,...i still cant find the guy
That's sad 🤭😔
Me 2 😅
Do you think they are hiding together
@@olibarahosasa1137 it sucks a lot but i cant wait to have my own children like you so i can guve them a childhood with a dad like i wanted
You suck in that game
That was great! 🤣
My dad just died because of stroke while he's in duty, I salute my father for his job to protect and provide the foods and money we need, the lessons we learned, right now we are still in debt we are lack of money to pay the right amount of money for his coffin, I'm broke, I'm sad, I grieved in pain, he's a very strong person I know, I'll make sure i will follow his step and continue his journey amd dream, prayers for my father🙏😢
The child with no father can be the best father for their child &he is great that protective ,feeding,pillar support like father often not there with him but he survived in the society where the other people are like eagerly waiting foxes for killing the baby deer .I am facing it too
What evidence of a fatherless boy becoming the best dad? It's rare because the collective of fatherless men are to damaged to be good dads. Stop being naive.
Exactly, how can a father raise teach and discipline his son if his father wasn't there to do the same for him. It's sad, especially when your dad comes back into your when your already coming into adulthood. I definitely understand that along with others.
@@jeremyborno6502 not a lot but few can grow up to be a fine man I see myself as a piece of rugged metal that will eventually become a fine blade maybe one that eventually becomes sharper than the ones that started out nicer
I am a 12 year kid I don't have father thanks guys for motivating me 😊
Not exactly not all guys without a father become a good father. My father lost his dad wen he was 11 and he grew up without him and he couldn't at all connect with me, he was ambitious and emotionally absent, never had a conversation with me apart from asking about school. And then he died wen I was 12. So I worry if the cycle continues.
I grew up without a father,I was raised by two beautiful women,my mum and my grand mum,I used to question who my dad was but she didn't tell me so I chose to be quite,kids made fun of me,it was so hectic to me,I accepted my self,chose not to hurt mum coz may be that man hutted her,and by asking I was opening up the wound,mum died with the secret,till now I don't know who my dad is,I respect mum and my grand mum for the love they showed me,rest in peace mum,my grand mum is still alive and I love her so much.
I know it's been a year and all but I just couldn't scroll down without saying anything. I know the pain of not having a father and had cried countless nights justing wishing nothing but something which many people have, a father. Please do your best, make your grandma and your mom in heaven proud. They would have struggled a lot for you. I just had my mom and no one else. The pain has never left my heart it just caused eternal depression I guess. Sorry for being too emotional. Have a great day ❤️
@@rahulm4187 thanks so much,may God give you strength to overcome it all, just be strong,I know it's not easy.
I dont know how to say it
But my life story is the same as yours @Nancy Auma
@@virajhetti1977 hugs bro,may God be with us,the best thing to do is to accept the reality however how much it hurts.
I’m literally on the same boat trying to figure out how come my mom hasn’t told me about my father? But i assume that he must’ve done something really bad for her to not tell me who he was.
28 years without my dad in my life and its eating me up everyday this video gave me a light I haven't seen in awhile 🙏💙💔
I’m 21 and for my 20th he didn’t even wish me a happy birthday I feel so sad 😭 lonely unloved by him
@@CollinDC51 I’m sorry to hear that keep your head up man your not alone 🙏
@@killickhunter2902 thanks man Im trying but I feel very lonely
@@CollinDC51 I feel you, it’s so heartbreaking 💔
@@kevincruz-hernandez6321 I know right it sucks
Thanks for this man he passed on when I was 5
So sad i can understand this pain i was in 3rd that time we can create a whatsap facebook group to motivate each others.
@@sagarmeenaa0808 Can I join
Mine passed when I was 5 and now I’m 18 and it feels like It is harder than ever right now
I'm 24 now. About to be 25 soon. I lost my Father when I was 2. I remember him everyday. I have to remember to be Strong without him.
Mine passed when i was 12 and the most heartbreaking part was that he died after 4 days after my birthday :'(
Why this happened? 😭 ,
Now i am gonna be 20 soon but i still cant get over his death that's why I dont celebrate my birthday and see it as my fault
I was knowing my father is dying in front of me I couldn’t kiss him and hug him for the last time in my life just bec I didn’t want him to fell that he is dying 😰 he was my real hero he was my everything ... miss you so much dad 😓
Keep your word, fulfill the obligations you agreed to, don't speak ill of others, be on time, accept responsibility, practice restraint and discipline, never give up, forgive yourself,.and most of all respect yourself and insist that other respect you as well.
I never know my father, and looking for the right friends made me literally without friends
Better to be alone, than in bad company.
@@URKCEHinoSuu true ❤️
They arnt real friends then
I'm fatherless and happened to experience bad relationships socially....thanks Daniel for this video.
Me too. But it won’t always be like that if you strive to fix it. Consider it (just being a solid man) part of your personality. Be honest with others. People are more understanding than we give credit to.
I never had a dad for me it feels terrible
@@perrolocoytso the car is the reason u don't see each other?
It's kinda sad that fatherless is an insult these days
Yeah, it hurts us real hard
Never knew who my father was and as a father of a 11 yr old daughter I know I will always be better than he was as I'm there for my daughter.
I didnt grow up with a father figure cause mine was killed when i was 6 and everyday i pray that we can re unite together as father and son.
As someone who has been struggling with abusive father, this does help! And yes, there are good men who can be your role models and show you kindness. That's what I needed, and I luckily got it.
Thank you for sharing Daniel!
Not all men are abusive like that - and you are proof! Show the world that you are rising above.
Thank you so much for making this! Wish I heard this when I was a younger dude. Growing up, I felt like I had to be my own man and just “figure it out” on my own. Perhaps you can relate.
Without guidance from a proper father figure, I felt rudderless and made many mistakes...still do. But I keep pushing and try not to be too hard on myself.
Rise above the urge to use growing up w/out a dad as an excuse/crutch.
Another thing... I was blessed with a wise and loving mother; but no matter how much perspective and life advice you get from your mom, it’s important to seek additional advice from a man.
Whether a role model, relative, boss, neighbor, or even in books or videos like this... A man’s advice and life lessons will often differ from a woman’s. It will make you a stronger, wiser and more confident man.
I can only hope that young dudes head this advice.
Never stop seeking - it is our unique responsibility.
You would be such a good father figure
Marry him first.
Sorry for the PJ.😂
He really would be. He is the definition of healthy masculinity.
He's model.
Big fan bro love from india 🇮🇳
This made me cry i wish my dad was around he's been in prison for all my life
Me too man
same man
My dad never cared about me, taught me anything, or wanted me around. I spent years trying to be a better man than him; I’ve tried to do honorable and admirable things. I still have a ways to go, but I’ll never quit or give up. Great video.
Me too. I never see him until now.
@@mmchavez1972heyy you're not a man this video ain't for you illegal
Same
Thank you for this amazing video. I’m over 50 and never saw my father again after I was 12 years old. After a lot of current failures, I finally decided to search for videos dealing with men who haven’t had fathers in their lives. Better late than never, I hope.
"Be the father you Never had"- my mama dukes 🤍💯🤜
Why do we always try to be happy but feel broken when we suddenly talk about our father, why does it hurt so much
Facts man
that's life. we all must stop breeding and end humanity
My father died of cancer when I was in 4th grade in 2013 when I was 10. He left not even a single dime and we still are living a life of misery
Also, My father Died When I was in 4th grade in 2015 when I was 11, we were rich but now our condition is not good bas chal rha hai...
I've heard most of this a thousand times. Maybe it hit harder because I was looking for it, but... Hearing what you need to hear at the right time can be liberating... My father was a suicide .. "I am not him", I keep telling myself... My mother raised me. The strongest person I know. Half of me is her. I think half of me says to keep going... Interpret the rest as you see fit.
Yes, I did need to hear this. Thank you, DLM.
My father was the best .
He can't show me how much he love me but understand him feelings and
I love my dad.✌️✌️✌️
Let him know. Maybe just show him your comment here. Don’t expect a bunch of mushy emotions, but he will appreciate.
@@lunarvision Thanks for your concern .
Thank you for taking this difficult subject, Daniel. This is sadly very true. Having worked with school children in Special Ed, after gaining my trust, they told me their life stories.
Thank you for making this video bro I've been looking for something like this video for a long as I lost my father in 2018. I'm 17 right now I'm trying to be responsible but I have been feeling a lack of guidance in my life. Thank you so much sir. No one makes videos like these in TH-cam. Thank you so much.
I've never seen my father in my life, he died when I born, and I don't know the feeling of having a father, I wish I could see him in my life one time
Damn, I feel you... Lots of us out there just like you. Keep his life/memories alive and just do whatever you can to be a good dude. What else can you do, ya know? His legacy will live on in your good life - mistakes and all.
@@lunarvision sure thing man, thanks for saying that bro
@@luka888. Absolutely! It’s a secret/burden guys like us carry - but that weight makes us stronger in life. Stay true and be good - there’s someone out there pulling for you.
@@luka888. My parents got divorced not long after I was born. I just found out he passed away 3 years ago. But always remember, everytime you look in the mirror, he is staring back at you. 🙂..God bless.
@@markhewitt4307 God bless you too, my man I feel ya
My father left me 6 years ago because of work, but he never gave my family money but only sometime
Even though we disagree at times, I know and understand how lucky I am to have a father.
My heart earnestly goes out to all those people who had to grow up without a father (or with a father who just doesn't give a sh*t).
Hold strong. It'll be okay.
The ones that nope out really piss me off. I struggle with international problems. I've jumped the freaking border to reach my son,...and I remain on the edge of NY just in case I need to do it again . Because my own father noped out early for my birthday. Permanently. So when I meet a boy that noped out on his...it is visceral , my disdain.
To those left behind, keep walking forward. Never give up. It WILL BE OK. Just keep on putting one foot in front of the other and keep moving forward.
@@ATSucks1 you're a great dad Russell
Same
Lucky
I agree
What a great video! So encouraging! Thank you Daniel!
Amazing video, Daniel, deserves a million views. I'm a dad who had no father and you summed it up perfectly. .
This video is so motivational and it helps me through tough times knowing I don’t have a dad to count on
Thankyou for such a video it was very helpful as I have no father plz leave a heart brother❤️😌
YoU do have one brother in UK
@@ragulmanohar305 thankyou brother💪✌️
@@pankajpawar9736 thanks mere bhaii💪❤️✌️
@@ragulmanohar305 @Pankaj pawar means alot ❤️❤️
Same here sister ... I lost my father when I was only 19 ..😔😔
This is called called a 'gem of a content'😊❤️🙏
This gives me self confidence... May i lost my dad.... But I'll be a Best for my son....
Thank you brother... ❤
I wish you strength and wisdom to become the kind of man you would admire and the kind of man your son would look up to. All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder yes bro.... I'll be the best for my son.....
Thank you for this video, it really hit home for me 🙏🏾
I’m 36 years old and my father wasn’t in my own life, i want to learn how to be a man! To become the best version of myself! It hurts, I think about it a lot but I’m pushing to not let it define me!
The most wonderfull video... I hadn't seen before...Thank you so much Daniel....love from India
Personally I wonder how i could have been if a good father had been present. Another part wonders if i care enough.
My father died when I was 9 of a heart attack right in front of me dropped dead. At 25 now it’s still hard I don’t ever forget that day always think about it every day. But I use his absence as motivation as he was a great man as I strive to be the same. Work hard on yourself your education and physical health. Best of luck everyone happy holidays.
I'm 34 and my father left the family when I was around 8, I can barely remember him. But I use to see him passing by on a rusty old bicycle every day, I assumed he was coming back from work or something. I never said something to that person, he never said something to me, he didn't even look at me, but you could tell he was looking straight at the front, like forcibly ignoring his surroundings.
I never knew if he was my real father or not, I remember we called him by one name, but some years ago I was looking through some documents and my birth certificate says a different name.
I'm 34, and I can't find my inner voice, that moment when I saw him every day, and I didn't say anything, and he didn't do anything, I was there on the sidewalk, and he just swift passed right beside his son. That mute moment stuck with me all this time. Now I can't face some situations, I find it very hard to stand for myself, like if I was waiting on him to say something, and try hard to endure life.
I send a big hug to everyone that is going through this situation. You are awesome and no person, father or not, will make a difference in you.
And know this, facing situations "like a man" means not blaming others for your actions and life choices. Not to take it on your wife, son, mother, or friends. Life is hard, but no matter what happens, only you can come out of "that" place where you are, and no one else is to blame, not even you.
Perhaps that friend didn't advise you well, that boss didn't hire you, that girl didn't write you back... well it's not their fault, is no one's fault. You followed that advice because you didn't know better, now you do, you didn't get the job because you didn't what it took, now you know what you want and need. That girl didn't give you a chance, now you know what type of partner to look for.
Look past them and keep on living, know to receive a word and use it with your will.
You are very grateful and good man Daniel
👍🙏wise words of wisdom...and character building advise💛
Thank you Daniel I really needed this video ❤️
Great Job!.. appreciate it your content. Keep-up this good work.
You have a strong motivational voice bruh , hats off
Realy a great motivation video..
I remeber that these type of video's helped me when i lost my father at a jung age..
Thank you so much brother for this video. We orphans appreciate it. May God bless you.
A great video, and an uncommon theme.
Awesome
Great video. Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏
I love that there are people like you!!!
Thank you for such beautiful word...its been 15 years since my fathet died. I was 10 and the youngest brother was 3.
My mother worked very hard for us and she still use kind words for her husbend although he was not ideal husband or a fathet figer...I thank God that besides his negative habits,i nevet saw him hitting my mother. I sometime wish that he could have givin us more time so i could be more confident in life.
My role model.
Daniel Maritz always giving good advice on both channels
Needed to see this today brother. Thank you.
U r a beautiful soul... Love from 🇮🇳🇮🇳
society needs a brother like u..
Thanks for this talk new dad!
Thanks Daniel for the amazing vedio ! Really appreciate it ! Love from India !
Thanks man DLM great video I feel much better .
Honestly, at times your videos are boosting me up. And your new look is very cool comparing to your old one. Love & Support from India
Thank you bro for the advice 😢
Thank You for making this video ❤️
I'm 12 and a strong boy raised without a father, I'm preparing for the future since am going to become a teenager in a year. I have decided to act now and do the right things to become a man. This video is going to boost me to become the person, The man I desire to be and the man I need to become.
Same here brother, we are strong, we're gonna go trough it!
This is great!
It’s late to comment, but I just wanted to say thank you, I’ve never met my dad. It’s hard, and it’s nice knowing I’m not alone here.
When your theme music play i'm having goosebumps ..❤️❤️❤️❤️keep up the good work bro
You created this video for me. Thank you
Thank you for offering great advice
This video can be a gamechanger in one's life.
Thankyou so much
This video is what I needed 10 years ago, I had low self-esteem all my life
Now I'm 24 and I feel broken, too late for me.
Young people take advantage!
U r not that late bro... Something is always better than nothing... U have life to come... Live 🤗
@@BrajnandanSinghChauhan-yn6gl Thanks Bro! It's just I Really feel Old, If I was 16 or 18 I could try it.
Now in the "Adult World" is more difficult, responsabilities, Work, real problems, its frustrating to realize at this age
@@alexvg7662 yes... Your situation is obvious.... But bro that's what life is 🤷🏻♂️... Keep going keep breathing keep living 😉🤗
You’re young !!! Start now , 20 years from now you’ll regret not taking a chance
You are doing the right thing now. Reaching out and admitting your situation. Wayne Dyer said it best. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Do it now. God is your father.
Love from India
such an amazing video sir
Keep it up!!!
Very good words Daniel
Thank you for this. It can be hard to find father figures in your life but I know that one will come eventually. Thank you!
💙
I'm a 26 years old struggling with depression, after many months of introspection I came to understand that most of the problems I've had throughout my life are because of my father completely abandoning my family when I was 4 (maybe less).
I mean problems like lack of social skills, impossibility to excel at anything I do, always feeling inappropriate in each context (I didn't even give a shit about my father, I made as he never existed because I hated him).
Imagine living like that troughs all your adolescence and early adult life.
Realising what brought me down all my life is what ultimately worsened my depression.
Now because of this I'm living through the worst challenge of my life and this video really helped.
Some of the things might seem corny but they're true and it's nice to hear them said by someone who ACTUALLY BELIEVES them.
Bro I have the exact same issues. Mine left after I was born or even earlier. I am similar in ways like him from the bad: womanizer( but cant hold a relationship or develop) social skills that are pretty good but where non existent if not my urge to better them, never excelling at anything. I dropped out of high school, sunstance abuse. You name it
@@Acid22X🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
U are amazing Daniel...its very great dat u care for others too... seriously this video is the route to lead a ryt life...
GREAT VIDEO. THANK YOU FOR DISPARATE CONTENT. LOVE YOU, BRO.
You are awesome Daniel👍🏼
😁🙏
Good word bro!
Wow this is encouraging
Thank you I haven't learned those until I saw this video
Amazing will start from today itself
My dad passed at 6, I am now turning 15, I wish I could find someone who was like him, he was a good man who could team someone how to be a real successful man, with real respect.
Same, my dad passed away when I was 7 years old. I still remember the good times I had with him when I was still a kid. I'm 21 years old now and everyday is hard not to think about how my life would be if he was still here with me.
Wow..
Ive never been this early...
Keep up the good work bro🔥🔥
I’m 60 years old and my dad split when I was 3 and he never looked back. I’m still pissed off. I’m a parent and a grandparent now and I love my family more than anything. I would never do what my dad did to me.
Your absolutely correct boys who grow up with an absent father or an abusive father or an ignorant father are far more likely to drop out of school, to drop out of college, to get kicked out of the military, they are far more likely to not be motivated into playing sports to become athletes, they are far more likely to lose their jobs, they are far more likely to be evicted from their homes, they are far more likely to end up being homeless, they are far more likely to get addicted to alcohol & drugs, they are far more likely to join cult groups, gang groups, hate groups, terrorist groups, they are far more likely to commit violent crimes, mistreat women, bully other men, abuse children, they are far more likely to be arrested & mistreated by corrupted cops, they are far more likely to get harsher longer sentences in prison by the criminal justice system, they are far more likely to be physically abused, raped, sexually assaulted in prison, they are far more likely to get the death penalty, they are far more likely to be put on death row & to be executed to death and that would be the end of their life. When I mean far more likely I do not really mean they will completely just saying that they will mostly end up that way because male nature is wild most obviously contains sex and violence. That is why compassionate responsible fathers matter it is very important thank you very much.
@Ky Jelly We need compassionate fathers and compassionate mothers period.
Appreciate it the advice man needed this as a 21 year old
Great video...thanks
God bless
Love from India
One of your best video bro
Thanks for making this video man!
Powerful. You are right this is by far the most important topic to deal with! I would love to share with you how I have been healing the wounds of absent and abusive fathers. I would love to be a guest on your show!
This was so beautiful. Made me cry but I'm sending to my sun because he's an amazing young man! My Baby Genius!!!
I dont really have a father figure in life and i havent since i was 4 because my parents divorced and as soon as i heard the beginning i almost cried man.
God bless you, brother.
This show is more valuable than Alpha M on TH-cam. Love it 👍
As always ... Awesome video boi
tysm for this wonderful video.