Why do people bully each other on dating apps?
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Hey Daniel, I'm an autistic musician and producer and I would love to share my music with you 💜💜💜
This says you posted 30 minutes ago and new tab with youtube says this video was posted 11 minutes ago. Are you a time traveler? (that's how Occam's Razor works, right? no other simple explanation)
@@eset5806 i was just wondering how he actually did it, then i realized he doesnt have to publish the video immediately
Cherry Blossom.
@@everyoneelsemovedonfan yeah same I covered one of his songs on harp
I completely forget he has a life outside of being the powerful entity known as 'hoodie guy'.
Happens to the best of us
Hoddie Guy is the best character! 👌 🙌
@@Professor_Toothpaste I've always had a soft spot for Dennis bless his little heart
+@@Professor_Toothpastehoodie
Who's hoodie guy?
Update: I have yet to get a permit to install a doorbell that plays ”You’re not invited” by Daniel Thrasher.
That's hilarious, goals
Why isn’t it a short?!
I would love that!! Thanks for the idea
you need a permit for that?!
@@MidnightNachos depends on where you live! especially if you rent, fall under a HOA or live in a government assisted facility
"BUT IM A GOOD BOY, IM SUCH A GOOD BOY" is too real
I want to leave your comment a like, but it's at 69 and I don't want to fuck it up
@@Meggzilla you did the right thing
As a good boy I disagree
@@voltmatrix1250 are you joking or are you offended i cant tell sorry-
@@gabbieblue Joking
The impersonation of men being offended and saying “I’M A GOOD BOY! I’M A GOOD BOY!!!!” is waayyyy too accurate lmao. They get so defensive over the fact that ALMOST EVERY woman has a bad experience with a dude.
@@LycanKai14 fear and insecurities?
@@LycanKai14 I was giving other potential reasons. But yeah...I've seem some guys get obsessive about it. It is weird to be so obsessed with how people you don't know may view you.
It would be funny if they are so afraid of being a social outcast for something they didn't do, they become a social outcast for something they did do.
The worst thing is that a popular new feminist mantra here in Germany by big feminist influencers is now too "Don't be so quick to judge men you don't know, it's sexist to be prejudiced and fearful towards them without even knowing their intentions!"
Not all of them outright say it like this, but it's more than implied.
I mean, they still tell women to be careful, but it doesn't sit right with me how they bring forward the point of "blanket suspicion", and everyone in the comments is eating that up
I do honesty think there is a problem with “men suck” type-statements. I know the vast majority of people who say stuff like that don’t actually mean all men, but there are a minority who do, and things like that can accelerate such beliefs. Women do need to be careful and have their problems recognized, and the men who are weird do need to be called out, but it’s common for guys to be looked at with suspicion without showing any red flags. Even if you don’t personally believe all men suck, seeing people online talk about how often men as a whole are all the time can develop subconscious prejudices you might not even be aware about.
To me it’s kinda the same as “women suck” jokes. In the right crowd these jokes can work if your audience knows you’re joking or exaggerating these are fine, but in the broader world where people can have very extreme opinions, you have to realize that these type of statements are often gonna be taken at face value.
@@Netheraptr yeah men get a bad rap. There's terrible men and there's fantastic men, and everything in between. Same goes for women. People shouldn't generalise
10:33 Regarding turning against someone when they don't reply immediately, Daniel is right. YOU'LL BE FINE. I messaged a guy on OkCupid and didn't hear back for a few days... He replied "Hey! I'm sorry, I haven't been on here much lately." We celebrated 5 years married this May.
Yeah, I didn’t reply for a few days because I missed the notification, but next month it’ll be six months we've been talking every day. Not quite comparable to a marriage but things are going well! No reason to freak out over a few days.
Right! People have lives, it's fair to not be all the time into the dating game.
It's also like... I'm not trying to buy you, it's not like the housing market where I really wanted that home. I'm talking to a person and a person can just not like me from the first moment and that's okay. If someone doesn't want to text me willingly, I don't want anything to do with them either because obviously, we don't fit, but I won't insult them over it.
I take "I like to laugh" to mean you're always down for a silly, goofy time. Everyone enjoys something humorous from time to time, but not everyone is down to clown 24/7 lol.
Except everyone has a different definition it seems when they say "I like to laugh", so when someone else says it they might mean something completely different.
@@victoriah.20 for sure, I get that. That's just my interpretation :)
i like to throw bad puns every chance i get, laugh at dumb things, and i always like to make my friends laugh……. but some days im just 😐😐😐😐 for like the entire day 💀
+@@victoriah.20 Fun fact: this is true of every single thing any human says ever!
@@NeuvalenceLmao you sound like a fun friend
Being afraid of (creepy, aggressive, unknown)Men seems like a rational fear rather than irrational tbh.
but they didn't say that. They said men.
Being afraid of every man is an irrational fear.
No it isn't. Almost every woman on the planet has bad experiences with men. All you've done is prove that you're one to be avoided. Go outside, you've probably forgotten what grass looks like @ReptillianStrike
@@ReptillianStrike12:55
@@ReptillianStrike where did they say every man? "Men" is obviously used as a general term, to describe a commonality within a very large group. And I think people like you know this, because there are also guys who use phrases like "women are so..." be it complimentary or insulting. If a man says "women are beautiful," do you argue with him that he can't possibly find every woman in the world attractive? Maybe you don't realize you're doing it, but this kind of thing is just ignoring the meaning of the speaker to strawman an argument you don't like.
@@KooblyK the difference is that nobody is offended by saying "every x is beautiful"
And saying "every x is beautiful" is considered a good thing. That's what's being advertised by the body positivity movement.
And I find fault with people saying "every women x" as well. Just not as much because I'm personally not a woman, obviously.
"Everybody dates"
AS AN AROACE, I AM ABOVE YOU ROMANTICS (/j)
my brain immediately, I'm also aroace. We are above others' dating shenanigans mwa ha ha!
Sameeeeee
@@crowbirdy heheheh we shall rule the world (eventually)
Me too! Everything’s fine and I float on my little I’m-not-interested-in-people- and-I’ll-never-have-these-problems cloud happily until… one of my besties goes through a relationship crisis and needs advice and I hastily have to scour my brain for what other people have said in similar situations 🫠😭. And then I feel like a bad friend if I say ‘maybe ask someone else’ even if that’s perfectly valid and they’re grateful for my honesty. Still, AROACES UNITE! 💪
The garlic bread empire shall rise!!!!
This video is just a disguised grammar lesson and I appreciate that
I'd never considered the possibility of maple syrup getting behind my knee. To think it could have happened earlier tonight while baking. It is a dangerous life I lead.
Daniel has SHINY OBJECT SYNDROME
Yeah it's called ADHD
@@antine1279 😭I opened the reply not expecting that
the dodged a bullet song is a BANGER 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
the chorous sounds like its from red dead redemption 2 tbh
the triplets 🙌
We need him to release it
We need a Daniel Reacts album😭
I'm almost disappointed that I've never experienced online dating, it's like being locked out of a wild "chance encounters" perk in a video game 😂
Nah I feel more like the guys in WWII managing to dodge the draft. Insanely lucky.
this would make more sense to say on his main channel but him and man carrying thing would be the most fitting collab ever
That’s a collab I’ve never even considered but it makes a ton of sense. Man Carrying Thing’s merch post is also right below this vid on my feed lmfao
...How?
@@kevwoxsame omg
I didn't even realize I was on his second channel 😂
MAIN CHANNEL? WHERE'S THE LINK PLEASE?!
🎶 I JUST DODGED A BULLEEEEET 🎶
I was looking for this😂😂😂😂
The depersonalization advice is very good, just don't take it too far and become a robot.
This might be the first time I've seen dissociation recommended as advice 😅
Its not that you should depersonalize, its that you should actually make yourself be ok with being single. As in, don't attach all of your self-worth, hopes, and dreams on getting a relationship, to the point that every rejection is a knife in the heart. Let a relationship feel like a gift that would be great to have, rather than a necessity you can't live without. Just let go a little.
Ironically, this attitude will make you seem like a more confident person, which is attractive, so dating will actually be easier for you emotionally AND in terms of success. Win-win.
Comedy show sounds like a sick first date. Up there with magic show and karaoke. The real me is GOING to come out, and my date will know right away if they want to see me again.
I almost went out with a guy I wasn’t sure about just because he asked me for a coffee and comedy show 😂 He ghosted me before the date though, but no loss since I was unsure about if I wanted to go or not anyway
@@JasminMiettunen Sounds like he does NOT like to laugh.
First date with my now husband was to see a horror film at the movies (Drag me to hell - awesome movie) and he saw all my crazy condensed into 1.5hrs (hiding behind hands, ducking down to the floor, covering my ears, and eating 5000 snacks and still being hungry) here we are 15 yrs later 🤷♂it works
Yeah comedy show sounds fantastic, the only minus is you can't really talk much but you can always go for drinks later
I met my husband on Facebook dating app but before I meet him I ran into all kinds of stupid. My favorite thing is when you tell them its not going to work out so they start insulating you and you're appearance. Then they tell you you'll die alone with cats.
i would love some insulation, its cold in england
It's a defense mechanism against rejection, and women do it to. I just broke up with a woman who blamed me for everything and doubled down on her own failings when I pointed them out.
@@ReptillianStrike it's only a defense mechanism for people with insecurities, and who are lacking the maturity to not lash out like a five year old with a sailors mouth. It's not ok no matter who is doing it, and it's a great way to know who to avoid.
@@martibee8984 I wasn't defending it.
Don't tell men not to get rude when they don't get answered immediately, or aren't swooned over. It's how we immediately know we're better off not getting to know them more, and guys like that will only be polite a little longer. The block/report options are great for them.
It is a good thing for youths to learn as a life skill in general though.
Speaking as a straight dude who has heard women say some absolutely heinous shit, I'm gonna have to agree hard; letting the assholes in the world wave their red flags openly saves everyone a lot of headache.
I love how he says "In Florida, we say 'what up dawg?' all the time'' as if that's something unique to Florida lmao
The spartan rant had me cackling 😂😂😂
There's a couple of guys in my life who it seems like they genuinely don't love to laugh! They'll talk for hours about something that's made them angry in the news or at their job or whatever. But if they hear a joke, they might nod, or crack a smile if you're lucky, but no laugh.
I want people to know I'm not one of those types of guys.
Maybe the genuinely don't find those jokes funny and instead of laughing out of societal politeness they just don't? And could be laughing at home watching things others may not find funny though they do? What people find funny is very personal and just because you never see someone laugh when you're around them doesn't mean they never do.
@@victoriah.20 why are you defending these hypothetical super serious people you don’t know? 😆
Personally, I have a difficult time laughing. I can find things funny, but actually laughing just doesn't happen. Almost every time I laugh with my friends, it's a forced, rehearsed laugh. Not because I'm trying to be fake, but because it's the only way I can express how I found something funny.
@@victoriah.20let's defend toxic masculinity more instead of praising someone for trying to be more in touch with their feelings, eh? I'm being sarcastic, if your super serious brain couldn't pick up on it
Where can I find this army of Spartans leading men to war against the enemies?
Ancient Greece
Or Tinder
Probably Netflix xD
"nose ring looks stupid" guy clearly doesn't have a job... or friends... or a life... or even a pet.
"you can't handle this lady" Most people can't handle dead weight.
Like nose ring cow did 😂😂
@@irabucc469 Found the guy 😂🤣 Still going steady with your hand there, bud?
I'm worried Daniel is eating gemstones.
Woww Daniel you spit some straight up philosophical magic dust in the form of words when you described putting yourself out there in the dating world as an avatar and to not take things personally, this is gonna help me in life so much thank you
What the??
No one:
Daniel thrasher: My irrational fear: MaPLe SyRuP On ThE InSiDe Of My KnEe
😂😂😂??
It is a truly horrible experience
…why do you know??
@@ashgerth4360 I was an odd child
@@AlineedsanapI… am so sorry but I read that to the tune of Jojo Siwa’s Karma 😭
’I was a wild child 🎶’
I can guess how that would feel and I'm cringing at the thought of it 😂😂
I zoned out at the “never let men know peace” part, and I came back to hear Danny talking about Spartan I got so confused
20:50 This reminded me. One of the best ways to see how many NPCs there are is by working at an airport convenience store. Everyone thinks they are so unique but I can guarantee you we are all basically the same. Everyone complains about the same things. Responds using like the same 4 different options to my customer service scripts: There's a funny option, a basic option and a rude option and no response. Everyone asks the same questions. And after seeing hundreds of people a day like I do, you realize that there are so many similar faces that you often forget if the person that just walked up has been there before or not. Its an international airport but let me tell you everyone is the same, doesn't matter where you're from. Humans are just human. We do and need the same things at the end of the day lol. I think about that often. Of course their are things that set us apart as individuals but in an environment like this (a place that is non political, not based on any particular interests, not targeting any specific demographic) you see that at the base everyone is the same.
Not a good or a bad thing, just an observation. I had a racist coworker and it kind of baffled me that she could remain that way and not see how similar everyone is. I guess she was in denial that she was just the same as them.
I think it's good that we are so similar. The world would be a much harder place if we weren't all very similar at our core.
People can already be cruel, even with our similarities. Imagine how much crueler humans could be if we didn't share anything with the people around us. Empathy is already hard for a lot of people. It becomes even harder when you have nothing in common.
It kinda reminds me of sting's song "Russians" about the cold war.
"What might save us, me and you
Is if the Russians love their children too."
It's a frightening thought, that we aren't as individual as we think, but I think in the end I'm very grateful for it.
It's even worse at the gate. Everyone stands in line with their boarding pass in one hand and hand luggage in the other. Everyone acts the same, no individuality anywhere.🙄
On the other hand, putting that your most irrational fear is men is a great way to invite abuse from men but also a fantastic way of filtering in the right kind of people. Anyone who takes issue with that is either not gonna match or match just to shout abuse at them. Anyone they match with who doesn't do that is probably a bearable person to be around.
My least favorite NPC moment is when the girl posts a selfie of her AND ALL OF HER FRIENDS as the 1st picture on the profile. Like why? Like I am trying to look at you and see what you look like not everybody. It’s worse when they have like one solo picture then you have to fish them out of all the other pictures, like ugh. Just have pictures of you! Daniel, you da bomb!
daniel is the only one I will listen to for dating advice
9:45
“Apostrophe, R, E!!”
I understand your pain, Mr. Daniel. I understand your pain.
I almost made joke by changing the “your” in my sentences to “you’re.”
12:36
“This is where the comma is important.”
Your understanding of grammar is a wonder to behold.
I feel the same way! 😂
What is with women who won’t split the cheque? My husband and I split the bill all the time when we were dating. I do not understand how a person can think men and women are equal, and also think it’s a man’s job to pay for everything.
The really bizarre thing is that I know women who make a lot of money too! So it’s not like they can’t afford it and need a man who can provide, they just feel like it’s not their job? I dunno, it feels insanely old fashioned to me.
right? it feels old fashioned to me as well. but, there are old fashioned people out there who have refused to allow me to pay for my half despite that i wanted to and had the means to. some people just value that i guess, like holding the door and or pulling out the chair. nothing wrong with being 'old fashioned' as long as both sides are in agreement over it I think. good to know up front? on the other side of the spectrum, I wouldnt be able to stand being with someone who always wanted to pay the full bill. once or twice for a special occasion maybe, but never all the time.
@@TheSilverInfinity I see what you’re saying but I feel like there’s a difference between old fashioned chivalry like holding a door open and paying for everything. I dunno I guess because women work now, it feels like that part is obsolete. Also it’s free to hold a door open. And even so I wouldn’t want someone to feel obligated, it takes all the romance out of it.
But then again, this year I told my husband that I want him to buy me flowers on Valentine’s Day 😆 so I guess I have my own old fashioned ideas.
Some women string men along for free meals at restaurants. Ofcourse they don't want their meal ticket ruined by the expectation that she would split the bill.
Also, some women are just entitled to men's money and effort. They believe in the idea that they are the prize, and men have to jump through all of these hoops to catch her. So they expect men to continue to uphold these traditional gender roles but refuse to reciprocate and perform their own stereotypical gender roles.
Well I'm a woman who tends to split and he always insist on paying everything 😂 he's great otherwise, not sexist based, but I'm puzzled why it's that important to him, let me pay!!!
Tbh I don't trust men who force me to except them paying for me. 1.) Asking if I would like it can be cute but straight up ignoring what I said and going on with it makes me feel like what I want is not important to them. That if they think they are doing the right/good thing, they can force it on me. That's a red flag. 2.) If they are old fashioned in one area, there's a chance they will be old fashioned in other areas (other areas that are no longer romantic but oppressive) 3.) They might expect something in return. That's is how my friend ended up being r^ped. He ignored her plea for a split whenever he paid for her (and he always paid for her when they were togather). And when she said no to s^xual advances, he said she owned it to him after everything he did for her. That setuation scared me away from letting anyone to pay my half, for life. It's been years now and my friend is okay now. She's married and has a kid but there is one thing she always tells me, don't ever let a man pay for you.
60% of the reason I watch these videos are the ear candy tunes Daniel makes
i love how daniel just spends the whole time correcting stupid peoples grammar lmao
My most irrational fear is putting on a set of clothes and then learning that it’s completely made of Vinyl. I don’t even think they make clothes made of Vinyl, but I despise the texture of it.
I'm… I'm so sorry to tell you. They do make clothing out of vinyl. Pretty sure you'd notice putting it on though 💀
“The Pleebs” I’m using that now 😌
I once dated a guy who found it unattractive when women laughed, so I kinda get the "I like to laugh" xD
Wtf
Dude's a serial unaliver
Hes just not attractive to women
I think he was just gay
I kind of understand what they mean by "I like to laugh". I also understand when someone says "Everyone likes to laugh" in response and I agree that it doesn't really tell you anything. I can see it another way. At least they like to laugh instead of liking to be angry and search for whatever dumb thing to be mad about. Seems like people who want/like to be mad is increasing and its usually over the dumbest thing. So, I can translate "I like to laugh" as their vibe and want to meet people with the same vibe. Problem is it's vague. What kind of laughter do they mean? Mean laughter? Laughing from an innocent joke? What kind of laughing? I wouldn't mind someone saying they like to laugh so I at least know they don't like to be angry for no reason so I can avoid them. It's not much but if you're someone who doesn't want to be around someone who just likes to be angry, that can be important to know.
You might miss out on matches this way, just because people don't state it outright "I like to laugh"... doesn't mean they're going to be the type you're describing. That takes effort and getting to know people. Plus it may even be the "I like to laugh" could be the "I don't take anything seriously" types where when you genuinely need them to be there (when grieving etc) they genuinely cannot be, since they "take nothing seriously". Balance seems key in most things.
I've met people who said they like to laugh, but they had no sense of humor. I think what they meant was I'd like to laugh. 😁
Why did that dodge the bullet segment go so hard??
I appreciate Daniel’s dedication to grammar
Mang, being irl friends with daniel must be fun.
Not as much as would be with hoodie guy, but still fun.
I'm honestly kind of freaked out by how talented you are. I think your career is going big places, if you want it to
Totally agree on the Irrational Fear post. It's fine to say that in a relaxed context, day to day -- I do too sometimes when talking with non-men. But putting it on a dating app where you're presumably TRYING TO DATE MEN is just giving major "I'm not ready to date and kind of want to push people away" vibes. And no one's gonna feel comfortable engaging with that energy.
Unless this was a wlw sitch I guess? ...But even then, personally as a woman who agrees with the sentiment, I still wouldn't want to date that person, cuz it's such a negative thing to put as one of a few things on your profile that is supposed to give people a window into who you are. Like, ok cool, am I just going to be talking about unpleasant things with this person on our date?? Yeah, pass.
So, I sincerely had I like to laugh in my profile (until I changed it). I would LOVE a comedy show. I put it there because I felt like people were very serious and only desired athleticism. I love the unserious, the goofball, the knucklehead. Hmm...I guess I put it in hopes of someone making me laugh. I also do not feel like I translate well on paper. I actually have been told I am more interesting in person. I truly want to know how people manage to come off so well read in text. That is truly a talent!
The finger roll at 23:20 was really smooth pianist flex, and has made me more confident in my attraction to musicians.
“Im not paying half the check. Ever.”
“Oh sweet, youll pay it all?😄”
Omg, I typed this before I saw the dude say practically the same thing😭
The Spartan lieutenant joke is 10/10.
Daniel's opinion on maple syrup seems pretty much the same as beach sand 😂 I wonder about what else does he feel that way
19:52 it can be a cute little thing but sometimes its actually deeper than that and i dont think guys actually get it. like when i say “im afraid of men” i mean “its going to take a lot for me to warm up to you because subconsciously i am afraid.” sometimes its not cut and dry like “i just have to be a little careful” its more like “im looking for love but everything inside of me is telling me to run so i need a little patience”
THIS SOUNDS LIKE THE WORLDS GREATEST 2000S ANIME INTRO OMG I WOULD WATCH THE HELL OUT OF THAT ANIME JUST FOR THE SONG
We need a Thrasher Plus EP with all the jams lol
As a fellow born and raised but former Floridan, your constant need to find a positive outlook feels homely in a good way.
Look I don't think that prompt should say IRRATIONAL. It should definitely say rational. Not putting my sisters business out there much but both have been hurt by men this year and it was men they knew. One sister even knew the man that hurt her for over 15 years of her life. Yea a very rational fear indeed. It's just really sad that you have to be afraid of men.
Watching you actually made me realise how much I've missed having a partner that's quirky and funny. Thanks!
I'll be a punny pen pal😂
i love these videos, your comedic creativity is unmatched
I haven’t heard the phrase “sit on it and spin” in forever! 😂
I love your little music bits :)
I’m discover you from Smosh TNTL 141 “I’m a pizza shit” I’ve been really enjoying the Reddit content.
And this is Angela in the apocalypse! 🤣
8:14 I live for these random acts of chaos from Daniel
I'm pretty new here, but you're quickly becoming one of my favorite channels, my dude. 😂🤣 You're hilarious, insightful _and_ musical! Nice!
Gotta side against you on the “not all men” thing Daniel. Men are allowed to feel equally as uncomfortable by folks complaining about “men” as women are allowed to feel about folks complaining about “women”
Totally agree with you that a lot of nuance is lost when “the patriarchy” or “creepy men” or what have you is distilled down to just “men”. I think thats the point when it becomes a problem.
The video was great tho, love your stuff.
Of course they're allowed to, but you can't really equate the two. Someone else said it in the comments, when people say "men", they mean a sociologic demographic that has been taught to act a certain way. Women have been victims of oppression for decades due to generalizations while men...well, generalizations make them feel bad. While generalizations about men can be annoying, they don't really have real life consequences except women maybe being a little more careful around men they don't know, which, honestly, is a good thing. Meanwhile generalizatilns about women have led to women being seen as property, as less than, as birth machines, as s*x toys, as uncapable of working certain jobs, which leads to harrassment, work discrimination, and femicides.
@@DwynTwo That doesn't make alienating men, and especially young boys, ok. That will just make the problem worse.
Besides, I don't see how generalizations about women lead to violent misogyny. That seems more like a product of the culture. People don't treat women like property or sex toys because of a generalization. What generalization could even be made that would lead to behvaior like that?
Exactly.
People are so quick to dismiss misandry because men have systemic privilege. But that doesn't just make it ok. Like, the average Joe schmo isn't oppressing you. he doesn't deserve to be treated like a subhuman because he happens to have a penis.
@@ReptillianStrikeresonble caution about what Joe shmoe could do as a man isn't treating him as sub human thou
@@elizabethhoran9268 ok but like reasonable caution isn't what I'm talking about
Just found you recently, Daniel. You are amazing! You're funny and super talented. I have already binged everything you have posted and now eagerly await new videos! ❤
For me "I like to laugh" boils down to the fact that I like to have a good time, shoot the shit, and don't want anyone to take me too seriously since odds are I don't take myself seriously. Like I'm here for a good time ya know? So let's have a good time together. It might sound silly to announce, but how you show up matters
The first guy after the sponsor looks like he's ready to play the next Peter Parker
This is my first time watching a video of yours, and I have to say that the musical additions were unexpected but thoroughly entertaining lmaooo
Adjusting my avatar in the world oh my gosh Daniel can you be my therapist that was seriously enlightening and kind of exactly what I needed to hear❤❤❤
I love how you make everything into a earworm bop
I live for your videos these days 😂
22:58
Misandry -
"it's a cute, little, fun, trendy thing, to do this" - Daniel Thrasher
Well misandry only hurts men's feelings while misogyny kill women, and misadry is usually a reaction to men being misogynistic
@@elizabethhoran9268 Would you care to elaborate, explain or justify your position?
In what ways does misogyny kill women that misandry doesn't kill men?
@@Jack93885have you been on earth, men hating women don't go out murdering or raping
"musicals are so unrealistic! people don't just randomly break out into song!"
daniel:
The I just dodged a bullet song was so Lin Manuel Miranda coded 😭
When Daniel went off on that Spartan rant I started dying 😂
Lately I’ve been feeling so desperate I’ve been considering going on a dating app (though I’ve usually been opposed to them) since I keep reading on Reddit that lots of guys are on there also desperate and cute guys haven’t been approaching me IRL or sliding in my social media DM’s like they used to all the time. However this video is leading me to stay off them!
How about you approach the cute guys? :)
Dating apps are only as good as the effort you put in.
Very rarely will someone come sliding in and chatting you up. And if someone does that, if you don't actively engage with them, they will move on.
I experience this all the time. I reach out, write some paragraphs, ask some questions, and I get 2 sentences back if I'm lucky, and only one of my 3 questions are answered.
This is more valuable than any dating channel on youtube XD
"i was asking if you had anything going on because i was thinking about asking if you wanted to.....................................................................................................................................................come"
Yay, landscape of dating!
Im staying single because this year and last year. I’ve gotten catfish three times, one included an old guy impersonating an officer, alot have been very pushy, only wanting one thing, I’ve blocked men and so much more. Im exhausted after this. I may become a cat lady and I am happy with this. Future bullets dodged 😅
My favorite part of these videos is the musical interludes 😂
thanx daniel! that is exactly the advice i been needing for a long while!.. i needa depersonalize more when i go outside. or go on social media/dating apps ayyyyyyy
If I had a dating profile the first sentence on it would be "I'm a huge fan of Sonic The Hedgehog, and my favorite character is Shadow"
My most irrational fear is those semi trucks carrying a shipment of cars because I have this unshakeable mental image where all the cars become unhooked somehow and go flying all over the road and hit cars that people are driving and those cars hit other cars and it just causes a massive chain reaction that escalates into a mass catastrophe in which hundreds of cars are destroyed.
I'm classifying it as an irrational fear because that doesn't happen as far as I know, and presumably the people who design those have taken this danger into account and made them in such a way as to make that extremely unlikely, but still one day the idea that it theoretically could happen entered my brain, and now every time I'm near one of those I can't stop myself from worrying about it.
I wanna catch you like a shining Pikachu
- Daniel Thrasher
"Country bum" or "Country bumpkin" is a typical insult I've heard growing up.
There would be no need to censor the word country, though?
@@JasminMiettunenshe probably said “fucking”. Sounds like a typical insult: “fuckin’ bum”.
I need these vidoes all day.
Watching this in my car. The random bass from the song was surprising. Especially considering that every other time I've watched, it's just been at home through my TV 😂
That avatar thing is so deep lol wow
The Maple Syrup thing is so valid, I hate that it gets everywhere and people think I'm weird because I never use syrup on my pancakes..
Daniel you are a menace I haven't stopped thinking about maple syrup in my knee pits since you brought it to my attention
19:34 if i saw that, i would move past it because i AM a good boy. why would i want to scare them if their most irrational fear is men????
"Come" - Daniel Thrasher
If you replace the word Avatar with Ego in your mini-monologue then you’ve got a mini lesson for an intro into the human mind for the general public, well done mate 👏
i put “i like to laugh” because i laugh an absurd amount especially if im nervous or happy. so. dates tend to be me laughing 70% of the time.
I personally wouldn't say "I like to laugh" in a profile, but if I did, it would just mean that I look for opportunities to find humor in everyday life. I think it could mean that someone is a more positive person. Misery loves company, so I have known a couple of people who were bothered by my tendency to look for the good in life. But I've never forced them to do the same, and I'm not ashamed of having fun.
Probably could just say that other part instead then? It's less vague and more personal, specific to you?
My most irrational fear is accidentally inhaling a moth
The “never let men know peace” song at the end is an absolute banger
I love these
Nah cuz about all those "man-hating" jokes on dating profiles: honestly, if that's a big part of your sense of humor and you joke about stuff like that a lot with your (girl)friends it might actually be better to get that out of the way: it weeds out a lot of guys who immediately don't vibe with that. Yes you might also scare off a few who just get confused by comments like that, but there are guys out there who totally roll with a lot of that extremely leftist humor, and the hope is that the men who don't really have an opinion on jokes like that wouldn't let them be dealbreakers. It's like the guys who make it clear pretty early on that they'd like their wife to take care of more of the housework whilst they take on the roll of the breadwinner: when it's communicated clearly and on time I have 0 problems with it, all it does is make sure that neither of us are wasting our time :)