Finally I'm out of this after 2 years. Since 2 years I felt, I'm destroyed...no one was in my life....any friends...any close person...I lost myself....every moment killed me...such a suffocated situation...but now I feel that I'm the happiest person in the world...now every day every moment is for me....nd this is all that I deserve🙂
@True Bela it's over...now recover yourself and enjoy your life...you know you hv a grt heart that's why u suffered such this suffocated situation...don't worry yaar...life a precious gift for u frn God..so celebrate this in ur own way...
I have face same situation....that time I lost all my friends ,my happiness, smile ,career everything.....but now after breaking up this relationship......I'm feeling like a bird fly out of cage... Nd your story make me feel that I'm not alone who had face this kind of situation in life...
Yes I had bad and a very abusive relation my brother helped me out from that ganda wala relationship... he helped me and he always helps me in many things he was with me at my good and bad times n I really love him alot...😊😊
The light comes after the darkest of the nights. When everything seems over, then comes the daylight. The happiness. Don't ever loose hope. Get out of it ASAP! You have an entire life, an entire world ahead of you! Some mere abuses and scolding can never stop you! Stand up. Walk straight out. You'll feel free. It will take time, but do it! And find someone to talk to! Not everyone is the same! Some know how to love too. So, never lose hope! I know coz i have been there too, some day... so, Best wishes ❤️
I also suffering from this from 3 years .my partner was abusing me just for the normal things, using disgusting language .I was not ok to stand with this. he also used to blame me for his own mistakes .I really felt guilty about me .my self esteem became too low .it was a suffocating situation .finally I decided to write the feeling in a diary and burned it .burned the photos .it was relaxing .after this it took 6 months to end this ..now I am in a process of moving on.
Wow,,, I am trying to leave mine. Just going through the comment section to find some closure. I hope you are doing well wishing you good physical and mental health
Yes... I've suffered from this kind of relationship..even it took my almost 4 years to understand,that I don't need to bear this all..he always abuse,not let me doing anything that I want, always persuade me for the negative things..like alcohol,and other stuff..he always try to instigate me about my friends,family and mostly about my parents... I am really happy that finally get out of it...with my own help.. 😇😇😇😇 bt it took a lot time
Why u r telling lie...if u r in relationship from 4 year...then after 4 year ..u understand...,😙😂😂..this is good joke....u make excuses only..u got new guy...then u decided
vikash mishra first of all he always try to hurt himself...and he eat poison twice..and I loved him that's why I compromise..and I am still single..and I don't need to explain you..that I am lying or not...it's just you don't have any right to judge me or say anything about me when you don't know me..so chill dude..
If u really love that guy... ..then u have make conversation from that. Guy.....why r u doing this type of thing.......then if the guy really love u...then he definitely change.............u know how r Ur lover today......she is in deepresion...or she has gone in wrong dirn
vikash mishra I don't know why you are trying to convince me that I was wrong..u never be in that situation..so don't try to say anything..i talked him..give him my years..not days, and after break up he got engaged...in just 3 month..so don't get pity on him..I am strong enough for me..my self I did everything..that actually save my relationship..he never change..he loved me or not..now I don't give a damn..and one more I don't want any reply from you...you the stranger judgemental person..don't have a right to say anything about me or my life..so good bye and good luck
This is my schooltime story.....I used to love a guy and I think he loved me too....I am writing here "think" 'coz I am not sure whether he loved me or he just only liked my body....he used to be so possessive that he didn't allow me to talk with other guys of class and when I spoke with other guys then he used to speak rough words which hurts a lot...sometimes he used to beat me too and sometimes he injured himself....I was done with that but couldn't be able to leave him 'coz I used to love him a lot....(school love...first time wala pyaar)..... Then we both finished our 10th standard exams and we both move to different cities....In that mean time...He used to drink and scold me with rough words....and Now we are totally apart...'coz I didn't want to intangle in that relationship which actually doesn't make any sense...... I just finish my 12 and now i am happy 'coz Now I can do what I want....I can talk to the people whom I like...I got a kind of freedom from that abusive relationship....... Lots of love #Rjvasistha This episode make me rewind my story❤❤
Yup i also Face it from 1year.. us ke baad.. mujhe pata chala she is with multiple Guys.. and then I told her why you do this and then she is suddenly get angry without any reason.. and Mujhe gali bakne laga . Khud ko accha prove krne ke liye mujhe niche giryaya.. sabke smne.. ! So heart to huya but yeah accha huya yeh pata chala short time main heart toh honge but no worry Dhire Dhire Thik ho jata hai.. kyu ki jo jaysha hai wo to krega.. but yeah Accha huya pata chala warna mere toh wande lag jate 😅😂.. ! Highly recommended Ashe Larko or larkiya se dur raho jitna ho sake . ! Bohot Khatar nak hai teh khud ke liye or oro ke liye bhi ..
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years finally I got out of it and was living my life happily for 3 years but unfortunately I went back to the same guy assuming that he is changed but trust me such people never change. 😭
@Khyalo Ki Duniya I believe that true love only happens once, i loved that guy and always will no matter how he behaves with me is his Karma that is not going to affect the love i have for him. Definately I don't want him because he doesn't trust me although i have never ever cheated him and also he is so abusive but this is not going to change my feeling of love towards him. I will never feel this way for anyone else
After 3 minutes totally understood where it was going.. #RjVashishth for this only i will respect you and your efforts towards people who are in these filthy quagmires is a worth as a fan i can idealise. gn.
Yes..your words are 100% true..actually i had this kind of relationship ..kuchh time tak muze smjh hi nhi aa rha tha ki actual me ho kya rha he hmesha jb bhi fight hoti thi tb tb muze yhi lgta tha ki glti meri he and till today me yhi soch rhi thi ki breakup bhi shayd mere vjh se hi hua bt now thanks to you vashisht sir ..thank you so much to make me understand that glt me nhi vo tha
I can totally relate this !!! And my story was totally same I was tolerating this from 3 years but now I decided to tell to my mother !!!! She helped me out to solve this and now m.happy ! Chahe wo mare chahe wo kuch b kre ! Ab I don't care jab usne 3 saal m ni socha to how can I !! That's very simple if anyone is in relationship like this plz inform to ur parents ! And closed one family members ! They will help you to getting out of this
Sir i can relate ur story but in other way . . .i abused someone for about 2years. .now i repsect her bcoz she leaves me & get in relationship with other. She says no means no even I beg in front of her , resign from job , start drinking alcohol, emotional blackmail. I thought this my love but after watching ur story i realise that was not love that was illusion of love. . Indian society need every girl like my x gf. I really regret for my behaviour , want to say sorry to her , but my mistake is not forgivable so its better to saty away from her & let her live happy life.
Dear You are so brave therefore you accepted what you did.. Keep in mind only one thing that always respect everyone whether he is girl or boy.. God bless you dear.. It was great reading your comment.
bhai vo tuje pyar krti na to tri achi buri sb bate acpt krti ..ab excuse dkr tm usko mahan mt bnao..tmne b vhi din rat dia hoga use fr b nhi mani tri to chod gyi ...to glt bhai tu nhi vo h ..be on it
@@gurujikikrupa3781 dear ye sach hai ki kisiko pyr krne se achi buri sab adaton k sath accept krna hota h bt uski personal lyf bolke bhi kuch hota h.... Love lyf ka srf ek part h ir bhi bht kuch hota h lyf m... Lyf ka ek part ke liye puri lyf barbad karna ye apke hisab se sahi hoga bt jo isme suffer karta h usko hi pata hota h..... So please..... U must be on it lyf ka ek part ke liye puri lyf barbad ni kar sakte....
I was in a 1 year relationship with a abusive person. That person was grandiose narccisst. In starting everything was like a fairly tale but slowly it turned into criticism, gaslighting, lies, manipulation which was mentally assaulting and emotionally abusive. My family is very caring and supporting and I am brought up in a loving environment with empathy and compassion. Therefore during later relationship I got intuition that this is not right, people who love, care and respect me don't treat me that way, then I found about narccistic relationships and just totally connect with it. All the symptoms and red flags were just as clear as water and I decided to leave. It's so much better now. What I learned from this is "Either you can play with toxic people or you can live at world class and you can't do both". "SO, DELETE THE PEOPLE WHO STEAL YOUR JOY"
Aaj aapka abusive relationship Wala video dekha seriously aisa lgg rha tha jaise mere bf ko define krr rhe ho .. voh hmesha mujhe hrr cheez k liye insult krta hai, glt koi b ho blame mujhe he krega, hrr baat prr dhmkee deta, kisi aur se baat krna toh door mere real brother ya papa ka b call ho toh brdasht nhii krta bhuuttt pyaar krti hu usko fer b try kra k break-up kru prr Everytime khudko seriously injured krr deta hai ... video Mai aapne bhutt accha explain kra abusive relationship ko thnquuuu .. dobara himmat krugii ISS trap se bahrr niklne ki ... Thnqquu dil se
I am also in a live in relationship , but every time he came home after drunk aa lott and treat mee bad ,use abusive language but never heart mee but after some time he hurts mee , told mee to not goo in office , maintain distance with my friends and if he ever caught mee I am with my friends then that night bee the worst night because ,he treat mee bad , hurt mee aa lott then I consult with my parents and I kick him with my life , enjoying my life now 😊
Thanku so much for this video becoz m abhi ise stage se nikal rhi hu or aapka video dekhkr muje relationship ko or apne patner ko bolne ki himmat aaye h mere. Jaisa jaisa aapne btaya same mera patner krta h mujse lekin aapki video ne muje face krne ki himmat di thanku..
I'm 24 Without any relationship. i am happy with my family and friends. I do exercise, Doing NoFap and totally focus on my Goals. I don't have any bad Habits. Yes....We exists 🇮🇳
U r lucky sis..I m also facing with this type of situation.whenever I try to break up with him then he starts blackmailing me..what to do..I m trapped in this toxic relationship..
Ghr pe bata do apne .Aur mafi mang lo maa bap maaf kar dete he .I am also suffered but now I am so happy with my self . Ghrvale naraj honge pr apko bacha lenge for sure.
Exactly the same, 😊I too have gone through this phase but now I am out of it, yes it was not easy but this loneliness is much better than that abusive relationship.❤😊
Hellow everyone!! I am also one of the victim of such kinda an abusive relationship..since last 2 years! And now i am set free and know my worth... i had a long story which i am unable to tell but yeah RJ Vashishth told you much similar about my relationship too..!! He is one kind of that person whom tortured me mentally... ultimately i have been choosed my family friends and ofcourse my self respect.... by which now i am free to fly and have lots of dreams to catch...i request to those who are sufferers plz quit your this type of relationships anyhow because its not worth it for you and your family too.... Be strong and pull out yourself from the darkest part of your life...and keep your strength and support high by your family and friends...!! Quiting from this relationship may takes few days to months to accept this situations but after that you will feel free and know what you left behind..!!
hello i have also same story..me bhi ek aise ldke ke saat 1.5 yr relationship me hu ..jb mera first ristha ahya tho wo haat kaat kr beth gya apna..usne na kudh khabi shadi ki or na mujhe apne parents ke mrji se shadi krne di..even mera dusra ristha bhi tudwa diya..or kudh mujhe cheat krta h 6 yr se kise or ke saat relationship me h..or bolta ke wo dono ko nai chod sakta..dono se pyar krta..but me itni pagal hu ki mujhse he nai rha jata uske bina. but i knw he is nt good person
Don't get trapped in such relationships. I had a track record of bad relationships. My first relationship was toxic, second one was abusive and finally my third bf cheated on me. Never settle for anyone who is not healthy for your physical or mental health. We need to stay strong and delete such people from our lives ASAP. Very nice and inspiring video.
I was in a very toxic relationship for almost 4 years. He had abused, hit, slapped, spilled a hot cup of tea on my eyes. Other than that he used to question on everything and anything I did (even if I went out with my own parents). He had even doubted me with my own brother, my teachers and my tuition students. He used to think that being a girl, I should always be at home and shouldn't go to college (bcoz he cannot be with me in the college) or tuition.. but now when the things are going beyond the limits, I decided to quit the relationship but I was not leaving with a hope that everything will be alright with the passage of time and I feel like it was my only mistake.. And I also know that everyone will advise me to spend time with my family but no I cannot even do so bcoz my mom thinks that it was all my fault that I left him and I should be calm. My mom thinks that "he is the only guy which is suitable for me bcoz he didn't cheat me he just abused me and that's all fine, and everyone goes through certain ups and downs in any relationship but that doesn't mean everyone is just breaking up with their partners" and she also used to say that I have to be in the relationship because of the no. Of years we had spent together.. but she didn't understand how much pain I m hiding in my heart.. I feel suffocated.. The relationship hadn't hurt me as much as my mom's thoughts do.. So I feel like I have no one and because of it only suicidal thoughts are coming in my mind.. but I wasn't like this 4 years back, I used to be a topper till my college and was quite ambitious as well, but all these things had torn me apart.. My 4 years toxic relationship+my unsupportive family= clueless me 🙂
Iam going through the same....u should never give up ur life....never do that for that asshole....i believe you and i can feel ur pain.... Hope one day i too can overcome this person whom i loved with honesty n loyalty but in return he is giving me pain only.... I wish u good luck 🙌
please end such relationship its not so easy i know that i have recently end my 10 years relationship. so you please just such fucking relationship and wait for the person who love you more than you love yourself. always chose respect over love
I was in a relationship almost 9 yrs.... he was so dominating and always is to abuse me in front of everyone.. Not letting me to do Anything I shouldn't talke to anybody.. Even with my own mom.. It was to hard to move on but it's almost 1 yrs I have broken up.. Now I am happy with my family..i am leaving a peaceful life with freedom............
Actually I was abusive in my relationship.... But I realised I'm doing very wrong with my partner... But that was very late... And mene khud apni relationship spoil krdi.. Even ab mene khud hi break le liya because I know ab mere sorry bolne par bhi kuch nhi hone wala🥺
a tons of thank u sir.. i m also in a abusive relationship.. lekin m is trap se shayad ni nikal sakti ab.. meri family itni supportive ni h.. aapki baate sunke aesa laga jaise kisine mujhe meri lyf ki kahani suna di.. first tym laga jaiss kisi ne mere under k pain ko samjha.. thank u so much
Omg .... I can totally relates to this video ... I was facing same problm with my previous relationship. .. but then my strength my family helps me a lot to get over it ... thnk u so much for the video 😊😊
I m ur new subscriber... till now I have watched only 2 of ur videos but honestly after watching ur videos I instantly became ur fan... ur personality n the way u give advices to us proofs to be a gr8 motivator for everyone... thnkss a lot 2 u n thnkss to God that I found this channel... I remember now dat I once watch a video of urs on Facebook n the title was "LET'S TALK ABOUT PERIODS"... n as soon as I completed seeing ur vdeo I immediately shared it wid my frnds...ne frm dat day I started searching for more of ur videos on TH-cam but didn't found one n also it wasn't showing on my recommendations as well.. but today luckily by God's grace I found it... n m soo happy ... (n sorry for my poor English... m not at all gud in this language as m frm a tribal area😔)
Yes... Suffer kiya tha maine bhi 4 years tak... Back then I don't know that I'm in an abusive relationship... But yes it happens with me... That guy was completely a disaster... I feel lonely..scared even he said me sometimes yaar tu mar ja... I suffered a lot 4 year bad himmat ayi.... At first I told that guy that I want breakup to usne bohot kuch kiya firstly he tron his dress.. Smashed his head on nearby wall hurt himself but when he saw the determination in my eyes he slapped me.. its not that he did not did that before but this time I was enough of it I slapped him too and leave that place immediately after that.. Then I switched off my phone.. Mom ko bataya maine ki yaar aisa ho raha hai mere sath said sorry to her too.. Blocked him from all my contacts after.. He called me and called me.. Apne dost... Sb se phone karwaya usne but I told everyone what exactly he did to me they shocked... Yes I told everybody whom asked me why I broke up with him... I called him and asked him to meet with me he came with his friends mujhe mana ne ke liye... But I was on my own break up kar diya maine... It happened 29th April.. And here I'm happy with my life with my family and friends.... Bas yehi batana hai mujhe to every guy and girl that kisi ke pyaar mai itne andhe maat hona ke pyaar or abuse ke farak bhul jayo... Love yourself your self respect first... Love your family your friends.. Your dreams and most importantly.. Pyaar se tab tak pyaar karo jab who tumhara strength ho pyaar ko apna weakness khabi hone maat do.. Never let anyone overpowering you
I m also in the same situation now.... But I trust myself and my god... I m trying to get out of this.. And Now u r d best counceller for me.... Thank u sooooooooo much RJ vashishth.... Thanks a lot Uske liye fast b rkhti thi... Usse bhagwan maan liya tha... But He never deserve this.. Apne aap ko kosti thi... Ki bhagwan kya mera pyar itna kamjor h... Ki itne sabut dene K baad b usse mujpr yakin nhi aa rha h... 😢
Sir I don't know ki mai apko thnx kese kru ... mai bahut late hu apke channel pr bt apka channel mujhe bahut supportive lga , it helps me a lot.... thank you so much sir frm bottom of my heart.....
Correct.. But none can stop this untill and unless generation correct it because today's our generation don't know what is love and what is attraction..believe me almost every people of my generation are making relationship because of attraction...they say like pehli baar dekha aur pyaar ho gya..i mean what😨..love never happens with face or physical body it's bond of thinking,respect, care, unconditional love it self,and much more.. but people never get this because they're not able to see heart they seeing face...they give value to the person who's ignoring them instead of person who's always there for them...luckiest are those people who get their true love in life as life partner...and for them who trust so easily on boys i have message as im boy and as per my exp...almost every boy of this generation are running behind beauty not behind heart..they look your physical body instead of nature...they think for sex instead of play with her hair and open full heart in front of her...they think for lip kilss instead of forehead and chick kisses...many people will say this is fake or " mera vala alag he" but no almost everyone are same except some most rare of them🙂
Nice to hear , same like me its happng now ....8 yrs have been passed , its hurting me alot y i did not understood before ....now i want to get out of it....he is not letting me to goo....he is hurting him self and making me to stay ...wat to do ..can u please help me out any one who is reading 😟😟 my comment
Yes, I was in this type of relationship...actually we r schl time friends till 10th nd after the schl gets over we meet again after 3yrs.....as we all know 3yrs is a big time gap...... everything changed, but we r schl friends soo i don't think so much about that change, i think he is as same as we r in schl....soo when he proposed me i accept him....and i was very happy....i think he love me too....but i was wrong he done this just for fun......after sometime arguments started between us.... abusive words, galliyan and mental pressure, even he forced me to do sex only within 3months of time.....and when i said no to him he stop talking with me for a week or sometimes a month.....but i love him so i msg him continue......but after all this i make up mind to get it out from this relationship.....it take time to say that i want breakup but finally i done it.....and after that i am happy now......it was our 1.3yrs relationship.....and u can't amagine that in this time we meet just only 5 to 6 times.....he want only sex nd sex...but before connected physically we have to connect mentally with our partner....soo this is my story.....nd now after breaking up with him i am soo happy..... @Rj Vashishth ❣️
I can truly relate to ur story....same case same situations....i kept surrendering bec i loved him....but after suffering for 12 yrs now today I gathered courage to break this cage n move out....i thought if before marriage he his treating me like a slave what would he do after marriage....it is difficult but it is important for my existence
@@divyapandey3643 for 12years ohoo it's a long time sis.....but it's soo gud that u leave him.....yeah obviously after marriage toh kia kuch nii ho sakta, jo abhi nii sunraa vo bdme kia sunnega......i am happy for u❤️
Thank you so much vashishtha.....it's only bcoz of you ....6 months ago I watched ur this video and got my answer and now I finally moved on with support of my parents...just want to thank you for giving such a great advice and making me strong....💕
apki gf bohot lucky hai i guess...cauz ...app bohot help kia mujhe mere..long distance relationship me..orr apka har ak tips....its really very..help full......tanks
Now I have decided to let go of this toxic abusive relationship. This is not love where you constantly fear from someone. I just hope to get courage to talk to my parents about this so that I can feel secure from this constant fear of getting troubled by him .
100% correct many guys do this bt girls let go kre che n they tolerate such things abusive language vagar pn vat thay. No need to take permission from anyone choose your man wisely❤️
Nupur Makwana Uss Ladki ki story mein Jo doosra ladka h ... Voh mai hu ... Mai apni bandi ko gaali deta ... Har voh kaam krta Jo sir ne btaya ... Jo abusive relationship m hota ... Mujhe aaj se pehle ye kabhi realise nhi hua that mai last 6 months se itna kuch galat kar raha ...mai sab theek karna chahta ...! Plz help me ... Email me @azharhussain2309@gmail.com Or in comment reply
Thnx a lot Vash Sir... Though I'm free now... But I was in this situation but my mother was beside me so bahar ane m kuch zyada problem nhi hua tha... I love the personality you have and the way you always give hope of ray to us... Amazing person you are...🙏
I have also gone through such situations for 2months n was not able to come out of it as he used to blackmailed me. I was nt abl to share that abusive relationship with my parents bt they were the one who helped me out to overcome my huge prblms. N nw m safe n happy n a independent girl.
love u vashisth bro back to ur videos after a long while n yes even I was in an abusive relationship but thankfully m out if it now n that thing u said that they make us to feel that its our fault ya it was lot difficult to come out of that but yes I m out it listen no matter how passionately we love someone those who have shits will only give that so make urself to come out of it coz the life is very beautiful n u don't need to suffer just b strong n stay blessed everyone
Sahi Me.. bahot himmat jutani pdti hai.. pr ye sab fake hote hai.. mar jayege Mar jayege krke Kuch nahi krege.. sirf rumor felayege frds se ki yr hogya wo Ho gya.. pr sab juth.. kabhi mat darna break up krke K time.. they're playing with us toys samj ke.. insan samajte hi nahi.. 😔😔
Vaibhavi R 😃VaoO.. i notice something.. ki sabi girls ak jaisi nhi .. and. I know. U really agree with me in this statement... But i want to say sabi ladke.. ak jaise. Nhi hote. 😅 Now its tipical henna.. Seriously koi ager. Bolta h. Mar jaynge.. 😅 U just happy with ager. Sach mai marr jaye... Because u didn't expect alive.. after saying. Marr jaynge. 😝😝.. okay okay cool... I know. Sab ak jaise nhi hote. And also u know it. 😃... But the fact is.. hame. Ache logo ki aur. Glt logo ki pehchan kerni aani chahiye. 😉... 😬Lamba ho gya. 👻 Always keep smiling 😃
@@vaibhavir2011 😅 Yaya. Right marna. Hi kyu. 😏 Ak gyi toh dusri aa jayegi .. ak russ gyi toh dusri pata. Lenge. 👻.. even ak nhi manti toh dusri ko mana. Lenge. 😛.... Seriously. 😃 Kisi ko jaane se. Rokna. Life Se. Its hard. Am not saying ki natak kerna. Acha hota. But 😅 tumh pta. Ak kahawat h English ki. Repair better then replacement 😬 But khash ham isko bhi risto mai apply ker pate... Risto mai ulta hi hota h. Replacement better than repair... 😅 Lage. Rehte. Risto ko sahi kerne. Mai... Kuch riste. Itne sweet hote ki kabi chodd ker jaane. Ka mnn hi nhi kerta kabi😄 Always keep smiling 😃
Sir ap Jo bole 100% sahi bole Mai yahi sab krta hu apni gf sath I'm feeling guilty n I promise Ab se Mai uski respect karunga or phir kbhi uske sath aisa nhi karunga 😞 Mko link bhi Meri gf snd ki thi thanks you agr tum ye bat bolti toh mko gussa aata hurt hota n sorry ..for all abuse word . I really love you 😘
Sir 😶m bhi aise relationship m rhehu he use to abuse me 😶 emotional torture bhi bohut krta tha m bohut mushkil se vo relations se nikli pr vo abhi bhi mra picha nhi choodh rha 😢sir parents ko bhi sb pta h pr pta nhi kyu vo baar baar smne aake vhi emotional torture kr rha h😢😢😢😢sir bohut dr lgne lga h ab uuse 😢ghr se niklna bhi kaam kr di😢😢😢
Omg my bf is same. Agar mai usko bolti hu ki mujhe tere sath nhi rhna to bolta hai jabardasti sadi kruga. Agar kahi or sadi ki to mar duga. But mai uske sath nhi rhna chahti
Hello to all Ya I too know that relationship but I'm glad that my friends( 2 friends and both were male )... long story short... One in my friend circle likes me and then he proposed me... I said I need time...but he was despo....he said take ur time but be in the relationship...I agreed...but...after 1 month or so..when I felt we won't match...he said he will harm himself...I said do anything I don't care...u only said that I'm free enough...so can't be what u WANT... He took drugs.....cause other ways won't work on me... I agreed to be with him😔.. then slowly I minimised the frequency of our talk...then blocked him.... HE STILL alive and have A new Girlfriend...🤪.... I thank to my friends...for the support... I say that this men will promise 1000 things but won't do any just be strong....to urself.... GIRLS can do all
Actually i am in that kind of realtionshp now...i just wanted to get out from it....bt everytime when i tried to get out from it..i fall in down again again in this trapped...
Dear... I was too tolerating it for 3 years... But now I left that guy.. Nd I m happy dat I left him.. Aap dheere dheere try kro... Directly usko bol doge to he will never let u go... And ek decide krlo ki mjhe is bande ko chodna he h anyhow chahe wo kitna bhi manipulate kr le... Take care and be brave ☺☺
Thnks sir.apki ye video dekh ke mujhme himmat ayi.aaj tak 5 saal se main relationship pe hun.but aas pata chala woh pyaar nahi abuse relationship hai.aapki ye video dekh ke aaj main confrm ho gayi ki jis insaan ke liye agle 5 saal main sacrifice kari hun uska koi value hi nahi hai yaar. Aaj tak maine kabhi himmat nahi juta pai use breakup karne ke liye kyun ki esa bolne se woh apne aapko hi nuksaan pohcata hai or khud ka future barbaad karne ki baat karta hai.mujhe lagta tha woh mere liye uska future kyun barbaad ho isse achha main seh lu sab kucch.kyun ki main ussse pyaar karti hunn.boh bhi mujhe lagta hai ki mujhe bht pyaar karta hai lekin 70% pyaar karta hai or 30%emotional and mentaly torcher karta hai.uski bohot ehsaan hai mujhpe toh himmat nahi aa rahi hai.dil bolta hai ki kahi main galat naa ho jau.kyaa karru sr samjh nahi paa rahi hun.main bht parisaan hun.peheli baar main apni relationship ke baare main kuchh likh rahi hun.what i can do.dil ye bhi bolta hai ki isse agar chhod dun toh isse jyada pyar karne wala inssan sayad mujhe naa mile.plse sr help me.i m rly vry disturbed. Kyaaa karuuuu.kya design lu ....usee badalne ki bhi bohot kosis ki lekin woh bola ki woh mujhse pyaar bohot pyar karta hain lekin mere liye apne aap ko nahi change nahi kar sakta because usse lagta hai ki he is always r8.mere papa ko gujre hue 1 saal ho gaye.papa ke jane ke baad akeli pad gayi main. us tme pe main bohot roti thiii tob ye ladka mere sar pe haat rakh kar bolta tha ki "mat ro pagli tujhe itna pyaar dung ki tujhe papa ki pyaar ki kami kabhi mehsoos nahi hogi"lekin uske saath hote hue bhi mujhe paapa ki bohot yaad aati hai.papa ke jane ke baad main jitna roti thi iski saat jhagada hoke usse 2 guna roti hun main. Mujhe woh bohot rulata hai phir bolta hai teri aanko main aansoo nahi dekh saktaa.kyyyaaaa karuuu i dnt know.sr plse help me.😔😔🙏
Lol kisi ldki ko nahi pasand ki koi ladka use abuse kare . Na kisi ldke ko pasand hoga ki koi ldki uske sath misbehave kare.... Relationship me respect krna ekk dusre ki sbse jyda mayne rkhta hai 😊
Pratiksha Patil Right but Agar girls ki respect karu unhe achhe se treat karo Unke liye hamesa available raho Or unki galti par sorry khud bolo Etc.... To unhe lagta hai k hum bahoot spcl hai Or iske jaise hume bahoot mil jaynge pata ni kyo lagta hai aisa par lagta hai Or jo gali dete unke chep rehti hai Or ye bat sach hai
Yes, I suffered too with this type of relationship Now I m out of it but that time or that journey of 1 year was a devil year of my life.. He was cheating on me and at the same time abusing me in the relationship.. He even Don't like my enjoying in family functions too.....when I breakup with him he started saying that he will die or do anything to him or me That's why I consulted to his family and talked to them to control him.. Now I have move on in my life and came out from that horror dream..
It was not like what u said but ya it was a abusive relationship....and now i feel good to know that I was right..I shared all the things with my sister and my mumma and my best friend and we planned some story to get out of these things becoz this is not an easy job....and after 2 3 months I directly told him that I don't want to be with u in a very rude way and blocked him from everywhere...and now I am happy actually I am very very with my family and my best friend....thanks for all 😊
Mere sath yahi h mera bf mujhe darata rahta h ki tum chor di to mar jaunga ye wo or to or kbhi kbhi Etna saq karta h mujhse paresan ho jati hu har jagh mujhe check karega mera fb insta sab check karta h or dar lgta h kaise choru mujhe ni acha lgta har bat pe control kreee mujhe niklna h kuch batao ki mai direct usko bol kar chor du or jb v fight hoga ego bhut dikhta h bolta h tumhre ghr m a kar tumko barbad krunga mere PSS koi ni h Jo meri help karee mere parents bhut jyda strick h mai bhut paresan hu 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Rashi Mathwani plz mujhe kuch batao mere sath koi ni h Jo meri help kre hmesa yahi hota uski dar k wajh se kuch kar ni pati mai jb mai bol du chor ri hu tumko to khi chla jaega ghr chor ka mujhe dhmkiya dega ky kru yr mai parents ko v ni bol sakti 😩😩😩
Ap usko ignore krna shuru kr do....aur call mt kro pr jb wo call kre to receive kro aur normally bat kro...phir agr kuch puche ki call kyu ni dia to excuse de do koi
पर किस्मत का कमाल तो देखो, आज वो खुद मुजहसे बात करने के लिए आती है, तो ऐसे टाइम में क्या करू? उससे बाते करू, या इग्नोर करू,?? क्या वो फिर से वही दोहराना चाहती है, या उसको प्राइब्ल होगी इसीलिए बात कर रही है?? प्लीज़ सर बताना।।।।
Meri life bhi kuch isi tarah start huyi Mai apni taraf se poore effects krti thi par uska Zor kuch is kadar badhta ja raha tha jo mujhe mujh se alag hone pr majboor kar raha tha har din....par jb Maine is bare m kaha toh wahi abusive blackmail ek time ko sab khatam hogya tha...kuch nahi bacha tha life m toot chuki thi par time Nikla ghr m apni Mumma ko share kia himmat Mili bhar aayi is daldal se aage life dekhi himmat ki sahi galat Pehchaanne m fark samjha n god always help me 😢 us waqt bhi mujhe bachaya now m greatful that gives me new life😞 Thank you sir😔iss video k liye❤️
This was extremely necessary to discuss and am happy you talked about this major issue! I recently created a short film on abusive relationships that touches upon the physical, mental, and emotional abuse that is felt during this toxic relationship. Here's the video! th-cam.com/video/j9Q-geU1i3w/w-d-xo.html
In some cases aisa bhi hota h ki you cannot get out of that relationship because of the social pressure.. agr samne wale k family members ko aap jante ho n would aapko jante h but woh yeh nhi jante ki iss relationship me aap Kya go thru KR rhe ho.. u cannot get out if the relationship is too long 5/6 yes and after certain tym the person u were in relationship has changed completely n started abusing u verbally alot.. and send says no hard feelings it was all out of rage.. even if it was.. the whole thing revolves in ur head round the clock..these words distrb u whole day u have sleepless nights..and all ur past memories flash infrnt of ur eyes.. all the dreams shattered.. tears rolling down the eyes.. a tym comes u cannot even face urself infrnt of the mirror... Start punishing urself by being sad fr someone else's mistk.. cz the love in ur heart still remains.. cz it was true from ur side.. may be d other person did not understand it..n nvr will.. it feels like ur world has fallen apart all of a sudden everything in ur life has changed..
Yes😔😔😔I'm 100% in toxic relationship jo bhi apne kaha vo sab vo karte he 🥺🥺🥺mene socha phle pyaar he pr aab lgta he agr isme rhungi to me khud ko bhul jaungi An one thing 🥰🥰🥰 never hate your toxic partner bcz Hater's is all about lasson✋😇 Esliye jo hua vo sikho or life p age bd jaaoo And thank you sir hame guide krne k an Im giving my best to forget this toxic person 😘😘😘😘😘😘✨✨✨
I m out of the abusive relationship after 1 year Alhamdulilah, it's been only 5 days........ But I m listening to motivational speeches frequently ND suggest u to get out of this asap
This happened to me too... 4 years ho gye still m facing this DALDAL.... but still smiling and enjoying my life... Externally....by the way thanks for the number.... Kisi na kisi ko to jrur help milegi.....
He was my senior at college...he started talking to me via our common friend and said he likes me and we can be very good free...after few days he used to drink and call...not only abuse but also threaten me ...I was new to college ..hostel life...and was very much confused....I used to switch off my phone for hours...then finally one day I gathered courage to speak up..to say no...and that's it. Stop feeling pity or guilty about yourself..take a stand.
Ur girlfriend is the luckiest girl in this world. U r the ideal man , sir. My Respect is increasing for u day by day. ♥️♥️
Finally I'm out of this after 2 years. Since 2 years I felt, I'm destroyed...no one was in my life....any friends...any close person...I lost myself....every moment killed me...such a suffocated situation...but now I feel that I'm the happiest person in the world...now every day every moment is for me....nd this is all that I deserve🙂
@True Bela it's over...now recover yourself and enjoy your life...you know you hv a grt heart that's why u suffered such this suffocated situation...don't worry yaar...life a precious gift for u frn God..so celebrate this in ur own way...
I have face same situation....that time I lost all my friends ,my happiness, smile ,career everything.....but now after breaking up this relationship......I'm feeling like a bird fly out of cage... Nd your story make me feel that I'm not alone who had face this kind of situation in life...
Buddy I'm in this situation right now, but I don't understand how to move on...
The same thing is having to me now a days it's feeling so suffocating how to overcome with this can't understand 😭😭😭😭😭
Yes I had bad and a very abusive relation my brother helped me out from that ganda wala relationship... he helped me and he always helps me in many things he was with me at my good and bad times n I really love him alot...😊😊
It took me 6 and a half years to get out of such a toxic relationship 🙃 ... Each and everything mentioned here had happened to me!!!!
The light comes after the darkest of the nights. When everything seems over, then comes the daylight. The happiness. Don't ever loose hope. Get out of it ASAP! You have an entire life, an entire world ahead of you! Some mere abuses and scolding can never stop you! Stand up. Walk straight out. You'll feel free. It will take time, but do it! And find someone to talk to! Not everyone is the same! Some know how to love too. So, never lose hope! I know coz i have been there too, some day... so, Best wishes ❤️
You deserve better my friend🤗 Forget about the past,love yourself and become a beautiful person. You can do it! Good luck 👍💜
Same here and still trying to overcome those taruma
ye video bilkul.correct time pr aayi haii..😑😑
Muskan Choudhary same here
Same here girls 👍🏻👍🏻
Muskan Choudhary ...u are right mere bhi
Yes.. You are right
One of the best video of urs. Thanks sir
I also suffering from this from 3 years .my partner was abusing me just for the normal things, using disgusting language .I was not ok to stand with this. he also used to blame me for his own mistakes .I really felt guilty about me .my self esteem became too low .it was a suffocating situation .finally I decided to write the feeling in a diary and burned it .burned the photos .it was relaxing .after this it took 6 months to end this ..now I am in a process of moving on.
Now you move on?
Wow,,, I am trying to leave mine. Just going through the comment section to find some closure. I hope you are doing well wishing you good physical and mental health
Same here also
Same story
Hii
Itta alone feel kr ri thi nd u came... Thnq sirr....😊😊
So relatable...felt this in the past two relationships...but today I stand proud that m over it
Yes...
I've suffered from this kind of relationship..even it took my almost 4 years to understand,that I don't need to bear this all..he always abuse,not let me doing anything that I want, always persuade me for the negative things..like alcohol,and other stuff..he always try to instigate me about my friends,family and mostly about my parents...
I am really happy that finally get out of it...with my own help.. 😇😇😇😇 bt it took a lot time
Why u r telling lie...if u r in relationship from 4 year...then after 4 year ..u understand...,😙😂😂..this is good joke....u make excuses only..u got new guy...then u decided
vikash mishra first of all he always try to hurt himself...and he eat poison twice..and I loved him that's why I compromise..and I am still single..and I don't need to explain you..that I am lying or not...it's just you don't have any right to judge me or say anything about me when you don't know me..so chill dude..
If u really love that guy... ..then u have make conversation from that. Guy.....why r u doing this type of thing.......then if the guy really love u...then he definitely change.............u know how r Ur lover today......she is in deepresion...or she has gone in wrong dirn
Hiii... Looking cute
vikash mishra I don't know why you are trying to convince me that I was wrong..u never be in that situation..so don't try to say anything..i talked him..give him my years..not days, and after break up he got engaged...in just 3 month..so don't get pity on him..I am strong enough for me..my self I did everything..that actually save my relationship..he never change..he loved me or not..now I don't give a damn..and one more I don't want any reply from you...you the stranger judgemental person..don't have a right to say anything about me or my life..so good bye and good luck
This is my schooltime story.....I used to love a guy and I think he loved me too....I am writing here "think" 'coz I am not sure whether he loved me or he just only liked my body....he used to be so possessive that he didn't allow me to talk with other guys of class and when I spoke with other guys then he used to speak rough words which hurts a lot...sometimes he used to beat me too and sometimes he injured himself....I was done with that but couldn't be able to leave him 'coz I used to love him a lot....(school love...first time wala pyaar).....
Then we both finished our 10th standard exams and we both move to different cities....In that mean time...He used to drink and scold me with rough words....and
Now we are totally apart...'coz I didn't want to intangle in that relationship which actually doesn't make any sense......
I just finish my 12 and now i am happy 'coz Now I can do what I want....I can talk to the people whom I like...I got a kind of freedom from that abusive relationship.......
Lots of love #Rjvasistha
This episode make me rewind my story❤❤
Thank you so much...i wasn't confuse about my decision but today i realises from your motivation that i did the best for me & for my future too ❤️
Yup i also Face it from 1year.. us ke baad.. mujhe pata chala she is with multiple Guys.. and then I told her why you do this and then she is suddenly get angry without any reason.. and Mujhe gali bakne laga . Khud ko accha prove krne ke liye mujhe niche giryaya.. sabke smne.. ! So heart to huya but yeah accha huya yeh pata chala short time main heart toh honge but no worry Dhire Dhire Thik ho jata hai.. kyu ki jo jaysha hai wo to krega.. but yeah Accha huya pata chala warna mere toh wande lag jate 😅😂.. ! Highly recommended Ashe Larko or larkiya se dur raho jitna ho sake . ! Bohot Khatar nak hai teh khud ke liye or oro ke liye bhi ..
How can be u so undrstanding😥...thnku from deep core of heart
Because he felt the same pain in the past ... And her heart is already broken 💔
@@archigoel2100 his heart was broken
I guess it will take courage but believe me it's good to go rather than staying in those relation🤗
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years finally I got out of it and was living my life happily for 3 years but unfortunately I went back to the same guy assuming that he is changed but trust me such people never change. 😭
@Khyalo Ki Duniya I believe that true love only happens once, i loved that guy and always will no matter how he behaves with me is his Karma that is not going to affect the love i have for him. Definately I don't want him because he doesn't trust me although i have never ever cheated him and also he is so abusive but this is not going to change my feeling of love towards him. I will never feel this way for anyone else
apki gf duniya ki sab se khusnasib ladki hai
Sahadat Ulla786 Sahi bat hai
Sahadat Ulla786 exactly ☺️
Hmmm sach me...
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Sir 1 true love me the n inka break up ho gya h ab...... That's why sir ko bhut experience h
I cried a lot after watching this video......thannku soooo much sir.....thanks a lot 🙏
After 3 minutes totally understood where it was going..
#RjVashishth for this only i will respect you and your efforts towards people who are in these filthy quagmires is a worth as a fan i can idealise.
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Yes..your words are 100% true..actually i had this kind of relationship ..kuchh time tak muze smjh hi nhi aa rha tha ki actual me ho kya rha he hmesha jb bhi fight hoti thi tb tb muze yhi lgta tha ki glti meri he and till today me yhi soch rhi thi ki breakup bhi shayd mere vjh se hi hua bt now thanks to you vashisht sir ..thank you so much to make me understand that glt me nhi vo tha
Sir after ur videos i never fell that i m in wrong way those i donot have bf or husband but my life is happy because of u sir love u sir bless u
I can totally relate this !!! And my story was totally same I was tolerating this from 3 years but now I decided to tell to my mother !!!! She helped me out to solve this and now m.happy ! Chahe wo mare chahe wo kuch b kre ! Ab I don't care jab usne 3 saal m ni socha to how can I !! That's very simple if anyone is in relationship like this plz inform to ur parents ! And closed one family members ! They will help you to getting out of this
Sir i can relate ur story but in other way . . .i abused someone for about 2years. .now i repsect her bcoz she leaves me & get in relationship with other. She says no means no even I beg in front of her , resign from job , start drinking alcohol, emotional blackmail. I thought this my love but after watching ur story i realise that was not love that was illusion of love. . Indian society need every girl like my x gf. I really regret for my behaviour , want to say sorry to her , but my mistake is not forgivable so its better to saty away from her & let her live happy life.
Dear You are so brave therefore you accepted what you did.. Keep in mind only one thing that always respect everyone whether he is girl or boy.. God bless you dear.. It was great reading your comment.
bhai vo tuje pyar krti na to tri achi buri sb bate acpt krti ..ab excuse dkr tm usko mahan mt bnao..tmne b vhi din rat dia hoga use fr b nhi mani tri to chod gyi ...to glt bhai tu nhi vo h ..be on it
U r so brave that u realized ur mistek but too late. Es behavior se aapki x ko bhot heart hua hoga. And that tim uski help krne vala koi nhi hoga
@@gurujikikrupa3781 dear ye sach hai ki kisiko pyr krne se achi buri sab adaton k sath accept krna hota h bt uski personal lyf bolke bhi kuch hota h.... Love lyf ka srf ek part h ir bhi bht kuch hota h lyf m... Lyf ka ek part ke liye puri lyf barbad karna ye apke hisab se sahi hoga bt jo isme suffer karta h usko hi pata hota h..... So please..... U must be on it lyf ka ek part ke liye puri lyf barbad ni kar sakte....
Atleast tumha realize toh hua adhe sai zada janta ko realize hd nhi.hotaa
I was in a 1 year relationship with a abusive person. That person was grandiose narccisst. In starting everything was like a fairly tale but slowly it turned into criticism, gaslighting, lies, manipulation which was mentally assaulting and emotionally abusive. My family is very caring and supporting and I am brought up in a loving environment with empathy and compassion. Therefore during later relationship I got intuition that this is not right, people who love, care and respect me don't treat me that way, then I found about narccistic relationships and just totally connect with it. All the symptoms and red flags were just as clear as water and I decided to leave. It's so much better now. What I learned from this is "Either you can play with toxic people or you can live at world class and you can't do both".
"SO, DELETE THE PEOPLE WHO STEAL YOUR JOY"
yes I just suffered that....but happy that I'm out of it...and very happy without him....and I'm just happy that I'm with someone better ..
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Aaj aapka abusive relationship Wala video dekha seriously aisa lgg rha tha jaise mere bf ko define krr rhe ho .. voh hmesha mujhe hrr cheez k liye insult krta hai, glt koi b ho blame mujhe he krega, hrr baat prr dhmkee deta, kisi aur se baat krna toh door mere real brother ya papa ka b call ho toh brdasht nhii krta bhuuttt pyaar krti hu usko fer b try kra k break-up kru prr Everytime khudko seriously injured krr deta hai ... video Mai aapne bhutt accha explain kra abusive relationship ko thnquuuu .. dobara himmat krugii ISS trap se bahrr niklne ki ... Thnqquu dil se
I am also in a live in relationship , but every time he came home after drunk aa lott and treat mee bad ,use abusive language but never heart mee but after some time he hurts mee , told mee to not goo in office , maintain distance with my friends and if he ever caught mee I am with my friends then that night bee the worst night because ,he treat mee bad , hurt mee aa lott then I consult with my parents and I kick him with my life , enjoying my life now 😊
Thanku so much for this video becoz m abhi ise stage se nikal rhi hu or aapka video dekhkr muje relationship ko or apne patner ko bolne ki himmat aaye h mere. Jaisa jaisa aapne btaya same mera patner krta h mujse lekin aapki video ne muje face krne ki himmat di thanku..
I'm 24 Without any relationship.
i am happy with my family and friends.
I do exercise, Doing NoFap and totally focus on my Goals.
I don't have any bad Habits.
Yes....We exists 🇮🇳
But without friends?
It's great if you're happy to be single. It's your choice how you want to be happy😁
lukiest person bro
Suffered a lot, and lately got the strength to stand up and move on... Thanks bhaiya 😇
Evry word matched with my situation...I was in d 100 % same relationship..but last yr I get out from ths..
U r lucky sis..I m also facing with this type of situation.whenever I try to break up with him then he starts blackmailing me..what to do..I m trapped in this toxic relationship..
How?? Please tell
Priyanka,can u help coz mine situation is completely matching with yours so Can You help me???
Same to you mera bhi aisa hi hai
Ghr pe bata do apne .Aur mafi mang lo maa bap maaf kar dete he .I am also suffered but now I am so happy with my self .
Ghrvale naraj honge pr apko bacha lenge for sure.
Exactly the same, 😊I too have gone through this phase but now I am out of it, yes it was not easy but this loneliness is much better than that abusive relationship.❤😊
Hellow everyone!! I am also one of the victim of such kinda an abusive relationship..since last 2 years! And now i am set free and know my worth... i had a long story which i am unable to tell but yeah RJ Vashishth told you much similar about my relationship too..!! He is one kind of that person whom tortured me mentally... ultimately i have been choosed my family friends and ofcourse my self respect.... by which now i am free to fly and have lots of dreams to catch...i request to those who are sufferers plz quit your this type of relationships anyhow because its not worth it for you and your family too.... Be strong and pull out yourself from the darkest part of your life...and keep your strength and support high by your family and friends...!! Quiting from this relationship may takes few days to months to accept this situations but after that you will feel free and know what you left behind..!!
hello i have also same story..me bhi ek aise ldke ke saat 1.5 yr relationship me hu ..jb mera first ristha ahya tho wo haat kaat kr beth gya apna..usne na kudh khabi shadi ki or na mujhe apne parents ke mrji se shadi krne di..even mera dusra ristha bhi tudwa diya..or kudh mujhe cheat krta h 6 yr se kise or ke saat relationship me h..or bolta ke wo dono ko nai chod sakta..dono se pyar krta..but me itni pagal hu ki mujhse he nai rha jata uske bina. but i knw he is nt good person
@@Durga_Devi controls ur minds harami h vo tumari life adhi to barbad holi baki ki b krni ho to sdo vhi
Don't get trapped in such relationships. I had a track record of bad relationships. My first relationship was toxic, second one was abusive and finally my third bf cheated on me. Never settle for anyone who is not healthy for your physical or mental health. We need to stay strong and delete such people from our lives ASAP. Very nice and inspiring video.
I was in a very toxic relationship for almost 4 years. He had abused, hit, slapped, spilled a hot cup of tea on my eyes. Other than that he used to question on everything and anything I did (even if I went out with my own parents). He had even doubted me with my own brother, my teachers and my tuition students. He used to think that being a girl, I should always be at home and shouldn't go to college (bcoz he cannot be with me in the college) or tuition.. but now when the things are going beyond the limits, I decided to quit the relationship but I was not leaving with a hope that everything will be alright with the passage of time and I feel like it was my only mistake.. And I also know that everyone will advise me to spend time with my family but no I cannot even do so bcoz my mom thinks that it was all my fault that I left him and I should be calm. My mom thinks that "he is the only guy which is suitable for me bcoz he didn't cheat me he just abused me and that's all fine, and everyone goes through certain ups and downs in any relationship but that doesn't mean everyone is just breaking up with their partners" and she also used to say that I have to be in the relationship because of the no. Of years we had spent together.. but she didn't understand how much pain I m hiding in my heart.. I feel suffocated.. The relationship hadn't hurt me as much as my mom's thoughts do.. So I feel like I have no one and because of it only suicidal thoughts are coming in my mind.. but I wasn't like this 4 years back, I used to be a topper till my college and was quite ambitious as well, but all these things had torn me apart.. My 4 years toxic relationship+my unsupportive family= clueless me 🙂
Iam going through the same....u should never give up ur life....never do that for that asshole....i believe you and i can feel ur pain....
Hope one day i too can overcome this person whom i loved with honesty n loyalty but in return he is giving me pain only....
I wish u good luck 🙌
please end such relationship its not so easy i know that i have recently end my 10 years relationship. so you please just such fucking relationship and wait for the person who love you more than you love yourself. always chose respect over love
Your life partner is going to be so happy like literally I'm feeling jealous🤗🤗😞🙂
I was in a relationship almost 9 yrs.... he was so dominating and always is to abuse me in front of everyone.. Not letting me to do Anything I shouldn't talke to anybody.. Even with my own mom.. It was to hard to move on but it's almost 1 yrs I have broken up.. Now I am happy with my family..i am leaving a peaceful life with freedom............
Actually I was abusive in my relationship.... But I realised I'm doing very wrong with my partner... But that was very late... And mene khud apni relationship spoil krdi.. Even ab mene khud hi break le liya because I know ab mere sorry bolne par bhi kuch nhi hone wala🥺
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Sameeeee as I did I spoil my own relationship unknowningly
Atleast u r accepting , some assholes don't even accept n blame other person . Mine even justified his abuse
Video bilkul sahi time p aayi h jo situation chal raha h life m exactly relatable
Thanku
Thanx vash.
Now I realised my fault
Ab btati hu usko😎
a tons of thank u sir.. i m also in a abusive relationship.. lekin m is trap se shayad ni nikal sakti ab.. meri family itni supportive ni h.. aapki baate sunke aesa laga jaise kisine mujhe meri lyf ki kahani suna di.. first tym laga jaiss kisi ne mere under k pain ko samjha.. thank u so much
Omggg I was missing u soo much and then I saw ur notification on my phone💝💝💝💝
Omg .... I can totally relates to this video ... I was facing same problm with my previous relationship. .. but then my strength my family helps me a lot to get over it ... thnk u so much for the video 😊😊
I m ur new subscriber... till now I have watched only 2 of ur videos but honestly after watching ur videos I instantly became ur fan... ur personality n the way u give advices to us proofs to be a gr8 motivator for everyone... thnkss a lot 2 u n thnkss to God that I found this channel... I remember now dat I once watch a video of urs on Facebook n the title was "LET'S TALK ABOUT PERIODS"... n as soon as I completed seeing ur vdeo I immediately shared it wid my frnds...ne frm dat day I started searching for more of ur videos on TH-cam but didn't found one n also it wasn't showing on my recommendations as well.. but today luckily by God's grace I found it... n m soo happy ... (n sorry for my poor English... m not at all gud in this language as m frm a tribal area😔)
Yes,
It's true.. pata nahi kaise jee payenge uske bina.. woh kamjori hai humara.
Yes... Suffer kiya tha maine bhi 4 years tak... Back then I don't know that I'm in an abusive relationship... But yes it happens with me... That guy was completely a disaster... I feel lonely..scared even he said me sometimes yaar tu mar ja... I suffered a lot 4 year bad himmat ayi.... At first I told that guy that I want breakup to usne bohot kuch kiya firstly he tron his dress.. Smashed his head on nearby wall hurt himself but when he saw the determination in my eyes he slapped me.. its not that he did not did that before but this time I was enough of it I slapped him too and leave that place immediately after that.. Then I switched off my phone.. Mom ko bataya maine ki yaar aisa ho raha hai mere sath said sorry to her too.. Blocked him from all my contacts after.. He called me and called me.. Apne dost... Sb se phone karwaya usne but I told everyone what exactly he did to me they shocked... Yes I told everybody whom asked me why I broke up with him... I called him and asked him to meet with me he came with his friends mujhe mana ne ke liye... But I was on my own break up kar diya maine... It happened 29th April.. And here I'm happy with my life with my family and friends.... Bas yehi batana hai mujhe to every guy and girl that kisi ke pyaar mai itne andhe maat hona ke pyaar or abuse ke farak bhul jayo... Love yourself your self respect first... Love your family your friends.. Your dreams and most importantly.. Pyaar se tab tak pyaar karo jab who tumhara strength ho pyaar ko apna weakness khabi hone maat do.. Never let anyone overpowering you
Brilliant
I m also in the same situation now.... But I trust myself and my god... I m trying to get out of this.. And Now u r d best counceller for me.... Thank u sooooooooo much RJ vashishth.... Thanks a lot
Uske liye fast b rkhti thi... Usse bhagwan maan liya tha... But He never deserve this.. Apne aap ko kosti thi... Ki bhagwan kya mera pyar itna kamjor h... Ki itne sabut dene K baad b usse mujpr yakin nhi aa rha h... 😢
This is so relatable to me
Exactly same situation
Sir I don't know ki mai apko thnx kese kru ... mai bahut late hu apke channel pr bt apka channel mujhe bahut supportive lga , it helps me a lot.... thank you so much sir frm bottom of my heart.....
Correct.. But none can stop this untill and unless generation correct it because today's our generation don't know what is love and what is attraction..believe me almost every people of my generation are making relationship because of attraction...they say like pehli baar dekha aur pyaar ho gya..i mean what😨..love never happens with face or physical body it's bond of thinking,respect, care, unconditional love it self,and much more.. but people never get this because they're not able to see heart they seeing face...they give value to the person who's ignoring them instead of person who's always there for them...luckiest are those people who get their true love in life as life partner...and for them who trust so easily on boys i have message as im boy and as per my exp...almost every boy of this generation are running behind beauty not behind heart..they look your physical body instead of nature...they think for sex instead of play with her hair and open full heart in front of her...they think for lip kilss instead of forehead and chick kisses...many people will say this is fake or " mera vala alag he" but no almost everyone are same except some most rare of them🙂
Sambandh ho par koi bandhan na ho...ye hai pyar,👌👌😘😘
I also suffered from this type of relationship, my both relationships were like this, it takes 8+5 years, to get rid of this my parents help me a lot
Nice to hear , same like me its happng now ....8 yrs have been passed , its hurting me alot y i did not understood before ....now i want to get out of it....he is not letting me to goo....he is hurting him self and making me to stay ...wat to do ..can u please help me out any one who is reading 😟😟 my comment
This video will help so many people who are suffering with abusive relationships .best of luck you are doing very good job
You really have opened my 👀
Your partner will be super lucky lady in this world ♥️
Yes, I was in this type of relationship...actually we r schl time friends till 10th nd after the schl gets over we meet again after 3yrs.....as we all know 3yrs is a big time gap...... everything changed, but we r schl friends soo i don't think so much about that change, i think he is as same as we r in schl....soo when he proposed me i accept him....and i was very happy....i think he love me too....but i was wrong he done this just for fun......after sometime arguments started between us.... abusive words, galliyan and mental pressure, even he forced me to do sex only within 3months of time.....and when i said no to him he stop talking with me for a week or sometimes a month.....but i love him so i msg him continue......but after all this i make up mind to get it out from this relationship.....it take time to say that i want breakup but finally i done it.....and after that i am happy now......it was our 1.3yrs relationship.....and u can't amagine that in this time we meet just only 5 to 6 times.....he want only sex nd sex...but before connected physically we have to connect mentally with our partner....soo this is my story.....nd now after breaking up with him i am soo happy.....
@Rj Vashishth ❣️
I can truly relate to ur story....same case same situations....i kept surrendering bec i loved him....but after suffering for 12 yrs now today I gathered courage to break this cage n move out....i thought if before marriage he his treating me like a slave what would he do after marriage....it is difficult but it is important for my existence
@@divyapandey3643 for 12years ohoo it's a long time sis.....but it's soo gud that u leave him.....yeah obviously after marriage toh kia kuch nii ho sakta, jo abhi nii sunraa vo bdme kia sunnega......i am happy for u❤️
Thank you so much vashishtha.....it's only bcoz of you ....6 months ago I watched ur this video and got my answer and now I finally moved on with support of my parents...just want to thank you for giving such a great advice and making me strong....💕
@Kese Ho Yarr mai ye sochti hu ....ki mai bas apne kaam se mtlb rakhti hu ☺️ aap bhi rakhiye
Yes I am suffering from this n am trying to get rid off to this 😃
apki gf bohot lucky hai i guess...cauz ...app bohot help kia mujhe mere..long distance relationship me..orr apka har ak tips....its really very..help full......tanks
BTW ye pyar nhi panwati h😂👌
Now I have decided to let go of this toxic abusive relationship. This is not love where you constantly fear from someone. I just hope to get courage to talk to my parents about this so that I can feel secure from this constant fear of getting troubled by him .
100% correct many guys do this bt girls let go kre che n they tolerate such things abusive language vagar pn vat thay. No need to take permission from anyone choose your man wisely❤️
Nupur Makwana Uss Ladki ki story mein Jo doosra ladka h ... Voh mai hu ... Mai apni bandi ko gaali deta ... Har voh kaam krta Jo sir ne btaya ... Jo abusive relationship m hota ...
Mujhe aaj se pehle ye kabhi realise nhi hua that mai last 6 months se itna kuch galat kar raha ...mai sab theek karna chahta ...!
Plz help me ... Email me @azharhussain2309@gmail.com
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Thnx a lot Vash Sir... Though I'm free now... But I was in this situation but my mother was beside me so bahar ane m kuch zyada problem nhi hua tha...
I love the personality you have and the way you always give hope of ray to us... Amazing person you are...🙏
Grt sir......
These two numbers are vry helpful for those person who are in abusive relationship....
Thank u sir
I have also gone through such situations for 2months n was not able to come out of it as he used to blackmailed me. I was nt abl to share that abusive relationship with my parents bt they were the one who helped me out to overcome my huge prblms. N nw m safe n happy n a independent girl.
Agr family se aisi chize share kro to for 70% girls they tell to married of there choice
Hetal Gupta please share problems with ur siblings... Aap jiske sath zada connected ho.... Surely they will help....
love u vashisth bro back to ur videos after a long while
n yes even I was in an abusive relationship but thankfully m out if it now n that thing u said that they make us to feel that its our fault ya it was lot difficult to come out of that but yes I m out it
listen no matter how passionately we love someone those who have shits will only give that so make urself to come out of it coz the life is very beautiful n u don't need to suffer just b strong n stay blessed everyone
Sahi Me.. bahot himmat jutani pdti hai.. pr ye sab fake hote hai.. mar jayege Mar jayege krke Kuch nahi krege.. sirf rumor felayege frds se ki yr hogya wo Ho gya.. pr sab juth.. kabhi mat darna break up krke K time.. they're playing with us toys samj ke.. insan samajte hi nahi.. 😔😔
Vaibhavi R 😃VaoO.. i notice something.. ki sabi girls ak jaisi nhi .. and. I know. U really agree with me in this statement...
But i want to say sabi ladke.. ak jaise. Nhi hote. 😅 Now its tipical henna..
Seriously koi ager. Bolta h. Mar jaynge.. 😅 U just happy with ager. Sach mai marr jaye... Because u didn't expect alive.. after saying. Marr jaynge. 😝😝.. okay okay cool...
I know. Sab ak jaise nhi hote. And also u know it. 😃... But the fact is.. hame. Ache logo ki aur. Glt logo ki pehchan kerni aani chahiye. 😉...
😬Lamba ho gya. 👻 Always keep smiling 😃
Deepak Kapoor mrna hi q hai aur aise natak q kre.. me aisa bolna chahti thi.. samaj aaya. ?
@@vaibhavir2011 😅 Yaya. Right marna. Hi kyu. 😏 Ak gyi toh dusri aa jayegi .. ak russ gyi toh dusri pata. Lenge. 👻.. even ak nhi manti toh dusri ko mana. Lenge. 😛....
Seriously. 😃 Kisi ko jaane se. Rokna. Life Se. Its hard. Am not saying ki natak kerna. Acha hota. But 😅 tumh pta. Ak kahawat h English ki.
Repair better then replacement 😬
But khash ham isko bhi risto mai apply ker pate... Risto mai ulta hi hota h. Replacement better than repair... 😅 Lage. Rehte. Risto ko sahi kerne. Mai... Kuch riste. Itne sweet hote ki kabi chodd ker jaane. Ka mnn hi nhi kerta kabi😄
Always keep smiling 😃
kyo jb man bhar gya to sb natak lgne lga ...khd apni soch se bahr aao ..tb logo ki situation dikhegi
@@gurujikikrupa3781 😅 mere bhai.. mann bhrne wali baat nhi.. don't be offended someone like this 😬 i hope you understand.
Always keep smiling 😃
Sir ap Jo bole 100% sahi bole Mai yahi sab krta hu apni gf sath I'm feeling guilty n I promise Ab se Mai uski respect karunga or phir kbhi uske sath aisa nhi karunga 😞
Mko link bhi Meri gf snd ki thi thanks you agr tum ye bat bolti toh mko gussa aata hurt hota n sorry ..for all abuse word .
I really love you 😘
what is a perfect relationship according to you sir??
Mujhe v ye jana he
A perfect relationship is With out complain and demand no expiation
sheetal thapa.. okayy its preety nice but.. it means sb sehte rho jo chl rha h nd i think. l ignore krna is not solution!!
sheetal thapa wid respect..Wid lots of trust
LAKSHAY GUPTA .......perfect love=respect and care from both sides
#rjVashishth apki sab videos bhot achi hoti h... koi person itna suljha hua kaise ho sakta h.. LKM series is my favourite. Thank u🤗❤
Main kya kru ?
I m in that kind of this relationship
I love him a lot
Main kse bhar aaun
I really don't know
Me alsooo and maiii iske bina. Ni rhe sktiii
It just takes one right decision.. I took it, you can take it too..
I recently got out bhot bura haal hua sadak pe aagya tha sir
Tumi ho aisa
oh god....Same Relation...Jo b kha apne sb kuch shi tha bhot jada acha lga apko sunke...😊...Stay blessed
Sir 😶m bhi aise relationship m rhehu he use to abuse me 😶 emotional torture bhi bohut krta tha m bohut mushkil se vo relations se nikli pr vo abhi bhi mra picha nhi choodh rha 😢sir parents ko bhi sb pta h pr pta nhi kyu vo baar baar smne aake vhi emotional torture kr rha h😢😢😢😢sir bohut dr lgne lga h ab uuse 😢ghr se niklna bhi kaam kr di😢😢😢
Omg my bf is same. Agar mai usko bolti hu ki mujhe tere sath nhi rhna to bolta hai jabardasti sadi kruga. Agar kahi or sadi ki to mar duga. But mai uske sath nhi rhna chahti
Hello to all
Ya I too know that relationship but I'm glad that my friends( 2 friends and both were male )... long story short...
One in my friend circle likes me and then he proposed me... I said I need time...but he was despo....he said take ur time but be in the relationship...I agreed...but...after 1 month or so..when I felt we won't match...he said he will harm himself...I said do anything I don't care...u only said that I'm free enough...so can't be what u WANT...
He took drugs.....cause other ways won't work on me...
I agreed to be with him😔.. then slowly I minimised the frequency of our talk...then blocked him....
HE STILL alive and have A new Girlfriend...🤪.... I thank to my friends...for the support...
I say that this men will promise 1000 things but won't do any just be strong....to urself....
GIRLS can do all
Wo mujhe n Jane deta h n he dhng se rhna deta mai mrr jaongi 😭😭ye sb mere sth hota h mai thk gyi hoon 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😖😖😖😖😖😖
Me too
Meri v. 😢
I'm also trapped 😢😢
Same situation is there,
Calm down and tell him directly. If he will not understand then use your intelligence....
Mai gujar chuki hu in sabse ..even gujar rhi hu...but ab or nhi .....thanxx sir
Actually i am in that kind of realtionshp now...i just wanted to get out from it....bt everytime when i tried to get out from it..i fall in down again again in this trapped...
Dear... I was too tolerating it for 3 years... But now I left that guy.. Nd I m happy dat I left him.. Aap dheere dheere try kro... Directly usko bol doge to he will never let u go... And ek decide krlo ki mjhe is bande ko chodna he h anyhow chahe wo kitna bhi manipulate kr le... Take care and be brave ☺☺
@@sonalimaurya2796 yeah u r right.....it will take time to say....but after sometime all will be fine......and u find yourself soo happy......
@@sonalimaurya2796 bt why about babaies n their rights,?????
Thnks sir.apki ye video dekh ke mujhme himmat ayi.aaj tak 5 saal se main relationship pe hun.but aas pata chala woh pyaar nahi abuse relationship hai.aapki ye video dekh ke aaj main confrm ho gayi ki jis insaan ke liye agle 5 saal main sacrifice kari hun uska koi value hi nahi hai yaar. Aaj tak maine kabhi himmat nahi juta pai use breakup karne ke liye kyun ki esa bolne se woh apne aapko hi nuksaan pohcata hai or khud ka future barbaad karne ki baat karta hai.mujhe lagta tha woh mere liye uska future kyun barbaad ho isse achha main seh lu sab kucch.kyun ki main ussse pyaar karti hunn.boh bhi mujhe lagta hai ki mujhe bht pyaar karta hai lekin 70% pyaar karta hai or 30%emotional and mentaly torcher karta hai.uski bohot ehsaan hai mujhpe toh himmat nahi aa rahi hai.dil bolta hai ki kahi main galat naa ho jau.kyaa karru sr samjh nahi paa rahi hun.main bht parisaan hun.peheli baar main apni relationship ke baare main kuchh likh rahi hun.what i can do.dil ye bhi bolta hai ki isse agar chhod dun toh isse jyada pyar karne wala inssan sayad mujhe naa mile.plse sr help me.i m rly vry disturbed. Kyaaa karuuuu.kya design lu ....usee badalne ki bhi bohot kosis ki lekin woh bola ki woh mujhse pyaar bohot pyar karta hain lekin mere liye apne aap ko nahi change nahi kar sakta because usse lagta hai ki he is always r8.mere papa ko gujre hue 1 saal ho gaye.papa ke jane ke baad akeli pad gayi main. us tme pe main bohot roti thiii tob ye ladka mere sar pe haat rakh kar bolta tha ki "mat ro pagli tujhe itna pyaar dung ki tujhe papa ki pyaar ki kami kabhi mehsoos nahi hogi"lekin uske saath hote hue bhi mujhe paapa ki bohot yaad aati hai.papa ke jane ke baad main jitna roti thi iski saat jhagada hoke usse 2 guna roti hun main. Mujhe woh bohot rulata hai phir bolta hai teri aanko main aansoo nahi dekh saktaa.kyyyaaaa karuuu i dnt know.sr plse help me.😔😔🙏
But sir girls Ko bande hi vo pasand aate hai jo unhe abuse karte hai
Sidhe sadhe ladke se hamesa breakup bahhot fact baat hai ye
Tapan mittal correct
Lol kisi ldki ko nahi pasand ki koi ladka use abuse kare . Na kisi ldke ko pasand hoga ki koi ldki uske sath misbehave kare.... Relationship me respect krna ekk dusre ki sbse jyda mayne rkhta hai 😊
Pratiksha Patil
Right but
Agar girls ki respect karu unhe achhe se treat karo
Unke liye hamesa available raho
Or unki galti par sorry khud bolo
Etc....
To unhe lagta hai k hum bahoot spcl hai
Or iske jaise hume bahoot mil jaynge pata ni kyo lagta hai aisa par lagta hai
Or jo gali dete unke chep rehti hai
Or ye bat sach hai
Thanks... I feel nice now.... Now I understood I'm not wrong...☺️
Yes, I suffered too with this type of relationship
Now I m out of it but that time or that journey of 1 year was a devil year of my life..
He was cheating on me and at the same time abusing me in the relationship..
He even Don't like my enjoying in family functions too.....when I breakup with him he started saying that he will die or do anything to him or me
That's why I consulted to his family and talked to them to control him..
Now I have move on in my life and came out from that horror dream..
Plz yr mje apse baat krna hai yr plz 💔💔💔
It was not like what u said but ya it was a abusive relationship....and now i feel good to know that I was right..I shared all the things with my sister and my mumma and my best friend and we planned some story to get out of these things becoz this is not an easy job....and after 2 3 months I directly told him that I don't want to be with u in a very rude way and blocked him from everywhere...and now I am happy actually I am very very with my family and my best friend....thanks for all 😊
Mere sath yahi h mera bf mujhe darata rahta h ki tum chor di to mar jaunga ye wo or to or kbhi kbhi Etna saq karta h mujhse paresan ho jati hu har jagh mujhe check karega mera fb insta sab check karta h or dar lgta h kaise choru mujhe ni acha lgta har bat pe control kreee mujhe niklna h kuch batao ki mai direct usko bol kar chor du or jb v fight hoga ego bhut dikhta h bolta h tumhre ghr m a kar tumko barbad krunga mere PSS koi ni h Jo meri help karee mere parents bhut jyda strick h mai bhut paresan hu 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
creative priya yes you can
Rashi Mathwani plz mujhe kuch batao mere sath koi ni h Jo meri help kre hmesa yahi hota uski dar k wajh se kuch kar ni pati mai jb mai bol du chor ri hu tumko to khi chla jaega ghr chor ka mujhe dhmkiya dega ky kru yr mai parents ko v ni bol sakti 😩😩😩
Ap usko ignore krna shuru kr do....aur call mt kro pr jb wo call kre to receive kro aur normally bat kro...phir agr kuch puche ki call kyu ni dia to excuse de do koi
this is extremely true..each and every word resonated with me . But my eyes have opened now, this is totally narcissistic behavior..
पर किस्मत का कमाल तो देखो,
आज वो खुद मुजहसे बात करने के लिए आती है,
तो ऐसे टाइम में क्या करू?
उससे बाते करू, या इग्नोर करू,??
क्या वो फिर से वही दोहराना चाहती है,
या उसको प्राइब्ल होगी इसीलिए बात कर रही है??
प्लीज़ सर बताना।।।।
Mahesh Khairnar.. Ek bar bat karke dekho Bro
Bro...kuch self respect hai ki nhi...........
As my experience bat mat kar bhai . . .kuch nhi hoga bhai.
Bat mt krna...kyuki bat krte krte fir whi sb start ho jaega...or tumhe pta bhi nhi chlega...so Stay Away...and Be Happy
Monika Choudhary par yrr usase baat karke abhi wahi khushi hoti he,
Aaj bhi baat ki usane 1 ghante tak,
apni life me aisa koi nhi h thanks god
Same esa hi ek ladki mere saath kr rhi he
Me uske Jaal me fas gya hu
Mujhe blackmail krti he
Drati he
Plz halp me
Meri life bhi kuch isi tarah start huyi Mai apni taraf se poore effects krti thi par uska Zor kuch is kadar badhta ja raha tha jo mujhe mujh se alag hone pr majboor kar raha tha har din....par jb Maine is bare m kaha toh wahi abusive blackmail ek time ko sab khatam hogya tha...kuch nahi bacha tha life m toot chuki thi par time Nikla ghr m apni Mumma ko share kia himmat Mili bhar aayi is daldal se aage life dekhi himmat ki sahi galat Pehchaanne m fark samjha n god always help me 😢 us waqt bhi mujhe bachaya now m greatful that gives me new life😞
Thank you sir😔iss video k liye❤️
This was extremely necessary to discuss and am happy you talked about this major issue! I recently created a short film on abusive relationships that touches upon the physical, mental, and emotional abuse that is felt during this toxic relationship. Here's the video! th-cam.com/video/j9Q-geU1i3w/w-d-xo.html
In some cases aisa bhi hota h ki you cannot get out of that relationship because of the social pressure.. agr samne wale k family members ko aap jante ho n would aapko jante h but woh yeh nhi jante ki iss relationship me aap Kya go thru KR rhe ho.. u cannot get out if the relationship is too long 5/6 yes and after certain tym the person u were in relationship has changed completely n started abusing u verbally alot.. and send says no hard feelings it was all out of rage.. even if it was.. the whole thing revolves in ur head round the clock..these words distrb u whole day u have sleepless nights..and all ur past memories flash infrnt of ur eyes.. all the dreams shattered.. tears rolling down the eyes.. a tym comes u cannot even face urself infrnt of the mirror... Start punishing urself by being sad fr someone else's mistk.. cz the love in ur heart still remains.. cz it was true from ur side.. may be d other person did not understand it..n nvr will.. it feels like ur world has fallen apart all of a sudden everything in ur life has changed..
Mughe to aesa lgta hai ki sare boys me jitni understanding honi chahiye ti wo god ne aapko hi dedi hai 🤗😅 aap jesi soch sbki hoti to bat hi kya ti
Yes😔😔😔I'm 100% in toxic relationship jo bhi apne kaha vo sab vo karte he 🥺🥺🥺mene socha phle pyaar he pr aab lgta he agr isme rhungi to me khud ko bhul jaungi
An one thing 🥰🥰🥰 never hate your toxic partner bcz
Hater's is all about lasson✋😇
Esliye jo hua vo sikho or life p age bd jaaoo
And thank you sir hame guide krne k an Im giving my best to forget this toxic person 😘😘😘😘😘😘✨✨✨
I feel that i am very lucky after listening this...
I m out of the abusive relationship after 1 year Alhamdulilah, it's been only 5 days........ But I m listening to motivational speeches frequently ND suggest u to get out of this asap
Washisht ji ap kitte achhe h kash sare boys aise ho jate
This happened to me too... 4 years ho gye still m facing this DALDAL.... but still smiling and enjoying my life... Externally....by the way thanks for the number.... Kisi na kisi ko to jrur help milegi.....
I think har ldki ko apke jase partner ki need hai😇😇😇
It's really amazing and supporting video for all girl's who are suffering from that type of relationship
He was my senior at college...he started talking to me via our common friend and said he likes me and we can be very good free...after few days he used to drink and call...not only abuse but also threaten me ...I was new to college ..hostel life...and was very much confused....I used to switch off my phone for hours...then finally one day I gathered courage to speak up..to say no...and that's it. Stop feeling pity or guilty about yourself..take a stand.