@@Plant_Boi no but if you’re asexual don’t date someone who wants to be sexual. That’s common sense. Most strictly asexual people go for someone who also agrees with their boundaries. He clearly isn’t asexual and likes to be pleased so he has no reason not to comply back. Happiness and pleasure can go VERY hand in hand if a person enjoys sexual activity’s.
@@Plant_Boi you’re just trying to create an issue that person never had.. Asexual people obviously can have love if that’s how they feel but sexually speaking some people really enjoy and if you aren’t down for that don’t get involved. Simple as that
@Plant_Boi pleasure dosent not mean sexual pleasure. Pleasure can be the pleasure of being together or something of the sort. Asexuals have nothing to do with it
@@Plant_BoiI am an Asexual and honestly using us as an argument is ridiculous. We have our own voices you know?! And Asexuals are more likely to seek out OTHER asexuals to be with. Purely because WE DON'T LIKE TO CAUSE THESE SITUATIONS. Myself and my gf are both asexuals. Get over yourself.
Are we gonna gloss over the fact that he said he finds vaginas gross? I'm probably reading too much into that but shit sounds like he might not even be all that into women
Not being abusive is the BARE MINIMUM! You deserve better than that. If your partner cares that little for your pleasure, then he is not worthy of you.
@@bubsplayswarframeunless he’s fat and has colored hair I doubt it. He likes having sex just doesn’t really want to touch the vagina just want the hole definitely seems like a repressed gay
When I got with my now boyfriend, and he told me, "don't worry about me, we can focus on that later. Right now, I want to please you!", and my mind went blank; i had no idea how to react to... Receiving love and affection back?! Still is odd after quite unstable and bad relationships before. After I started to get the hang of it, I found out that whatever he gave me, I could give back. It's quite an amazing relationship :)
So many men literally do not care. I was 21 before i ever had an orgasm and I had been married since I was 18… that’s just one example lol but yea it happens a lot. 😅
If he was gay he wouldn’t get sexual pleasure from her at all. It sounds like he’s just sex indifferent and treats his pleasure more like something that he needs to take care of rather than something to enjoy with his gf
why is this happening tho like my friend (woman) doesn't even know what a climax is when i asked her about her experience with her bf, why so many people doing this thing without basic knowledge, sorry rambling
If she wants to do something and he says no because he doesn't feel comfortable and is disgusted, but she gets angry at him for not speaking up for himself and thinking about her "pleasure and happiness", she would be kinda only thinking for herself. Both people deserve pleasure and happiness, its not all abt her. The guy has rights for not wanting to be intimate, and if she doesn't like that she or the guy should just leave.
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste There's a difference between being uncomfortable with certain acts, and getting angry because pleasuring your partner is "too much work", and finding their body parts disgusting. Arguably they should have had this conversation 5 years ago though. It's a yikes from me.
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste Why would she be the one "thinking for herself" when he likes to receive yet not give back?. He's all complaints when it comes to giving her pleasure because for him a vagina is gross yet she has to pleasure him 🤷🏻♀️. That doesn't sound like she's being the selfish one in the relationship honestly.
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste It's abusive becasue, for five years, he has used her to fulfill HIS pleasure, but not once has he even CARED about her pleasure, let alone actually done anything about it. He has USED HER for five years. Using someone is abuse. A relationship is supposed to be about give and take. Give AND take. He's just taking, and she's just giving.
Its not really abusive, but it does raise some questions about his sexuality. No straight man is repulsed by the idea of being near a vagina. In other words, it sounds like he could be gay.
That man is most definitely of the fruity variety. And you should probably dump someone if they say “I don’t like vaginas” and you, in fact, have one. The dude is using you to keep his family from finding out he likes to be the catcher.
Not wanting to be intimate is a valid thing. She should just leave him if she disagrees. some people are not ready or just don't like it. This is coming from a person who nevers wants to be intimate because I find it disgusting.
My ADHD actually does limit my ability to finish. Me and my man barely have any privacy, and I get distracted by the tv and other noises. It sucks. But he still puts in the work, and I still get there. Find a man who puts in the work.
@@4truths127alternatively if you both have it, you can play games or something at the same time, that was absurdly fun, one of us gamed the other out in the effort, and swap 😂😂😂
My man won't stop eating me like I'm a whole Thanksgiving feast until he is drenched, soaking, dripping if you will, in my juices. Upgrades, people, upgrades
Is noone gonna talk about the fact they're only 20/21, have been dating for 5 years, and she has apparently had previous sexual partners that didnt cater to her needs....what the f*ck? Was she freaking 13/14??? Am I missing something or is this now normal???
That's when they started dating. Not when she had partners before. It mentions multiple "abusive" partners. Did she date them all within a year before meeting him??
Intimate needs? she should think abt it though, her partner said he finds meat wallets disgusting so she should just leave it. Not wanting to be intimate is a pretty valid thing
@@CrazyWeirdoCelesteyes but her partner still has sex with her and pleasures himself. Why is his pleasure more important than hers? Why should she pleasure him, when he’s not willing (for whatever reason) to pleasure her? Relationships are give and take, and for her at least, he’s not giving enough and she’s only giving to him.
If a guy ever says "But it's so much work making you finish." fucking leave. If he can't be bothered to put any work into lovemaking, then he's 110% not worth it. Find someone better.
I have ADHD and it is absolutely possible. If you are fully engaged and in the moment I'll be right there with you. If you aren't showing interest, I will lose interest
Bro. Keys to solving every problem, making sure she has the time of her life every time y’all are doing the do. Get down there and when she starts squirming and making more noise to a certain thing you do, keep doing that and make sure you get the gush not once but twice before you even bother coming back up. Then give her the pounds and make sure you get the gush one more time before you finish yourself and I promise she will cling to you and no other man for the rest of her life.
Okay wait... OP is 21 years old. Has been with this BF for 5 years, so since she was 16. AND she has had multiple sexual relationships that were 'abusive' before that... how young was she when she even got started?! Sounds like OP shouldn't be in a relationship right now and should take some time to work on herself, deal with her issues and trauma and discover what she likes on her own so she is better equiped to deal with a relationship and not take such crap from a guy. Sure, sex isn't all about finishing, but it should still be balanced and pleasurable.
Dude, i hope your first vagina will be a nice one, cause some of them be so nasty you wont even be able to get hard and if you dare mention how disgusting it is, you'll be called a gay man 🥴
I get that sometimes men doesnt wanna eat out and maybe sometimes dont do regular intercourse but if you cant even TOUCH one let alone want to please your SO yeah hes forcing himself to stay in this relationship because he might not be straight or is just too vanilla and self focused. Sometimes men can be too picky but that means leave. I was in a relationship like this and he was manipulative af and assaulted me when i told him i wasnt in the mood. But he would not even touch it but it wasnt too awful for him to violate. Ill never be in a purely vanilla relationship where I do everything for my SO and they dont even try to please me ever again.
HANG ON A MINUTE She's 21 He's 20 They've been together 5 years And she's also talking about past relationships she's had Which would be from her being 15 years old and younger? 🤔
It’s crazy dudes are like this. Like bro the more u make her feel good the more she’ll want to make u feel good. Like start off playing with yo girl a lil bit, bet she’ll give it back ten fold bruh I promise u.
@@breadcheetos6793 it can be damaging to the partner if someone doesn’t care about their needs in a relationship. Especially if he finds their anatomy gross 🙄
Bro, my pleasure will come from your pleasure. If your having fun them I'm going have fun. If you want to stop then we will stop. What ever your mind desires I will fulfil it. That's just me though 😅
Thats the thing. Someone take forever to finish just for them to stop and after that the relationship goes down hill since both feel unsatisfied and awkward
So… I’m a lesbian… and one thing that helped me figure that out is my complete dislike of male genitalia… And I can’t help but think that ya boy might be sitting under a similar rainbow 😂
Honestly, my view on dating and those sort of relationships is to always treat her better than gold. I plan to take this mindset into intimate relationships and in the bedroom as well because I figure that’s how it’s supposed to be… right?
No, you treat her like she deserves! If she's behaving like an angel you treat her like one, if she tries taking advantage of you you either leave her or treat her the same, don't let somebody else walk over you just because they have a slit!
She's 21 but they've been together for 5 years and this is her ONLY non abusive relationship. Girl just be single, ohmygod. Too damn young to do any of that
I don’t see her saying just because they started dating when she was 16 doesn’t mean she could’ve had abusive relationships please get right in the mind
That's true, but you need to communicate that before you start dating. Also, there's sooooo many toys, fingers and other options at your disposal, there is no way you cant figure out how to get her off while staying in the comfort zone.
*My guy, that's abusive.* Also as someone in an 8 year relationship, how tf does one only notice this after 5 YEARS of terrible sex?? Especially when you've had numerous other terrible sexual relationships??
He may just be asexual but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you as being asexual doesnt always mean aromantic aswell, don't dump him just because he's not interested in sex but you can if sex is the most valuable thing to you
@@km82708 the thing is vaginas look different they are not all the same so you one can’t make a blanket statement like that. Some look gross some don’t
Idk man I've heard some crazy shit some women can complete my friend was fucking for an hour and he said he was doing all she wanted but she never finished he said he gave up after that shit maybe she didn't like him also I feel women definitely have an easier time making women finish bc you understand them
What I'm getting from other comments is relationships have to be intimate and if someone doesn't like their partners genitalia they aren't right for each other. That is such a bizarre view on sexuality and relationships
I am asexual. My boyfriend often gets in the mood, and i dont mind helping him. Though, I prefer not to. When the super rare times has come, and im actually in the mood, he never ate me out or anything. He never pleasured me. He has ADHD as well.
@@emique2636 then I don’t think he cares about you as much as you think he does. If someone truly loved someone they would always try to make them feel good. I think he may be using you for pleasure or something because if he doesn’t care about making you feel good then that is a big sign that he just wants to use you. I know it’s hard to hear but it’s the truth and I’m so sorry that it’s happening to you. Best thing you can do is try to talk to him about it even more to understand his actions. And if he seems to be very immature and say things like “I just don’t want too” or “I don’t like doing it” then that is pretty much the sign that he does not care about how you feel. I’m so sorry for you, and I hope everything turns out fine for you. Because your feelings matter, and you should never let anyone turn them down.
@@LittlePufferfish920 i have no other choice than to be with him sadly. It's been years with him. If I leave him he will end himself because i was his first love and if i leave him, then he will never find anyone else. He doesn't even want to try. He has to live in his house, because his father built it, and all. I dont feel safe visiting him because his house is connected in a hallway to another house, where the rest of his family lives. They said they dont like me either. I feel trapped. But i have no other choice.
My ex never went down town, he did once and he spat out right after, which made me assume it was me who was the problem, so I’d to all the pleasuring, fast forward 5 years, Im pregnant and give birth, 3 months after giving birth, I find out he’s bisexual but he leans towards men more, but he’s too macho man to be with a man, I accepted him but he didn’t like the fact that I knew so he leaves us behind and it’s been 2 years since he left. I found the right man who taught me all types of new things, he takes care of all of my needs, and he cares for my baby as his own. It was a loss of years but I gained a beautiful baby and a relationship out of it. Just out of experience girl, maybe bring up the topic of him being bi/gay?
It’s so stupid how people say that it’s our fault that pussy smells bad. No matter what you do it is always going to smell bad because that’s just what pussy smells like. It’s literally an exposed organ, it’s ALWAYS going to smell and obviously taste bad. Some guys are just so selfish you know. There are so many dudes who can not care less about what a woman feels during sexual activity.
Still wrapping my head around the fact that they’re 20 years old and have been dating for 5 years and she’s saying that she’s had relationships (plural) before him that involved physical intimacy.
i find it so strange that men always have to finish during sexy time. like if the girl doesn’t finish it’s not a big deal and as soon as the guy finishes the whole thing is over. at least in my experience.
How are people this selfish in bed? People like that don't deserve to have sex. For me personally my number 1 priority is for my gf to get off when we are in bed, no matter how long it takes or if I finish a bit quicker than her I always make sure she also gets off. Sometimes several times. How do people not want to do that for their partner? It's like the best feeling in the world. Am I alone in thinking that?
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The Ending: He basically confirmed he doesn't care about her intimate needs. It's been 2 days yet she's still angry
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"Yet shes still angry" what does that mean?
@@WC146602 days after the conversation she is still mad
@@wadewillson9220 as she should.
@@WC14660nah
@@WC14660for me I am a man and I don’t pleasure myself I rather give my girl the pleasure
Leave his ass. Any partner who refuses to or reject putting in he work for your pleasure or happiness isn't worth it.
Happiness and pleasure are 2 very different things, according to your logic people who are asexual aren’t worthy of love because they won’t please you
@@Plant_Boi no but if you’re asexual don’t date someone who wants to be sexual. That’s common sense. Most strictly asexual people go for someone who also agrees with their boundaries. He clearly isn’t asexual and likes to be pleased so he has no reason not to comply back. Happiness and pleasure can go VERY hand in hand if a person enjoys sexual activity’s.
@@Plant_Boi you’re just trying to create an issue that person never had.. Asexual people obviously can have love if that’s how they feel but sexually speaking some people really enjoy and if you aren’t down for that don’t get involved. Simple as that
@Plant_Boi pleasure dosent not mean sexual pleasure. Pleasure can be the pleasure of being together or something of the sort. Asexuals have nothing to do with it
@@Plant_BoiI am an Asexual and honestly using us as an argument is ridiculous. We have our own voices you know?!
And Asexuals are more likely to seek out OTHER asexuals to be with. Purely because WE DON'T LIKE TO CAUSE THESE SITUATIONS. Myself and my gf are both asexuals. Get over yourself.
Are we gonna gloss over the fact that he said he finds vaginas gross? I'm probably reading too much into that but shit sounds like he might not even be all that into women
💅💅🌈✨✨💅💅✨🌈💅
Glad I'm not the only one 😂
A lot of men in the closet or on The DL can't even admit it to themselves because of the engrained need to hit that target of masculinity.
His gf vagina is probably gross that doesn't make him gay
I think all genitalia is gross
Not being abusive is the BARE MINIMUM! You deserve better than that. If your partner cares that little for your pleasure, then he is not worthy of you.
Not being abusive isn't a bare minimum. It is a requirement to not be abusive (at least in my mind)
So make him uncomfortable? Smh
Him: "gross"
Me: "gay or ace?"
Him: "wha?"
Me: "yep"
Major aces vibes, but gay is 100% plausible
@@link_lonk ya im ace and its my thought to those things on both parties
@@sweetkitsune9368 omg hi fellow ace
@@link_lonk omg hi its so nice to meet you
@@link_lonkwhat is ace
Ya boyfriend needs to find himself a boyfriend.
hes most likely asexual meaning not interested in sexual interaction
which of course theres nothing wrong with but its kinda a thing between both of them and both of them need to sort that out
@@bubsplayswarframehe is more likely to be homosexual than asexual.
@@bubsplayswarframeunless he’s fat and has colored hair I doubt it. He likes having sex just doesn’t really want to touch the vagina just want the hole definitely seems like a repressed gay
@@jacobcardinal8041 if hes still getting off just fine i dont thibk hes gay. vaginas dont all look nice fyi
I be in my girls legs like it's a 5 course meal.
Edit: Repent these nuts Averiey.
This is the only good thing I’ve seen on this channel
Thanks for the laugh
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i love this comment so much 😭
Saying that you find vaginas gross is a surefire way to lose your gf and have rumors spread that you're gay. This is a fact.
Why the fuck would “being gay” be a rumor? Who gives a shit?
And it's unreasonable.
@@commanderbacara4306bro never encountered the meat wallet, they can be disgusting AF, call me gay idgaf 😂
@@4truths127you probably are lol. Nothing wrong with that, but you definitely probably are gay if you’re a guy who doesn’t like vaginas
But they are gross compared to penises, they have bacteria which penises don't have.
When I got with my now boyfriend, and he told me, "don't worry about me, we can focus on that later. Right now, I want to please you!", and my mind went blank; i had no idea how to react to... Receiving love and affection back?!
Still is odd after quite unstable and bad relationships before.
After I started to get the hang of it, I found out that whatever he gave me, I could give back. It's quite an amazing relationship :)
Wow.. Thank god he took you off the market. If my wife spoke like that online i would leave lmfaooo
Edit - Haha I got inside your heads
@@Justbecause7777
I love how your only personality trait is being a big ass red flag. Keep it up! Let those colors shine! ❤ (Elsewhere, preferably)
@@choco-sc2dl Looks like I hit a nerve with all the unloved women 🤣💀
@@Justbecause7777you smell like an unloved person, stay mad 😂😂
@@Justbecause7777the only one here upset is you ya prude lmao calm down 😂 I feel bad for your "wife"
I can’t understand why a man wouldn’t care if his girl finished, it’s like the biggest ego boost ever when you can get her off.
Had an ex that had ADHD and it was definitely an ego boost getting her off, at least at the start till I found out what makes her tick.
@@Axelrun1994what makes her tick?
So many men literally do not care. I was 21 before i ever had an orgasm and I had been married since I was 18… that’s just one example lol but yea it happens a lot. 😅
why would you ask that.@@android-user
@@cocaptainbluesgaming6999 Advance my knowledge
"He says vaginas are gross"
What
eh they aren't all that. still gonna smash tho
They look weird they look like shriveled tacos and the best looking ones just.look like white people.lips
Idk, I'm straight and i wouldn't eat a girl out
@@thedukeconiosantiago9180and penis' are all that? Obviously not. They r private parts. Not food💀
@ElysiumInFolkloreOh-oh oh-oh oh-oh oh-oh oh-oh
🏳️🌈You need to calm down🏳️🌈
🏳️🌈You’re being to loud🏳️🌈
Brother god gave you hands for a reason, put them damn tools to shame and PLEASURE YOUR DAMN WOMAN
W MANS
I see what you did there but you executed it so poorly
Or at least go and buy a fucking Satisfyer and learn how to use it.
Yea, but God also wants us to wait for marriage. So... shut up.
Yes
This poor AI lady has been through so much trauma on all these videos
This comment needs more credit
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Underrated comment 💀
😂😂😂😂
he sounds uh.. rainbow. Rainbow.
or vaginas are just gross.
That’s what I thought 😭
@@lillycpre2929 same 😭
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If he was gay he wouldn’t get sexual pleasure from her at all. It sounds like he’s just sex indifferent and treats his pleasure more like something that he needs to take care of rather than something to enjoy with his gf
Ain’t no way he’d be gone the second he sighed☠️
She's 21, has been dating him for 5 years, and has had abusive partners before him? She's messed up man
that means she was doing it younger than 16 wtf she is gross
these stories are fake bro lol
@@Ann_Harlow some are, some arent
@@timm14171 95% of them are fake
@@Ann_Harlow more like 80% fake 20% real. you dont understand how fucked up yhis world is
this man clearly doesn’t understand that woman want to finish too. it’s so sad we almost always don’t finish or fake it
Very sorry to hear that, from what country are you?
They boutta give me an oscar for this shit soon its exhausting
why is this happening tho like my friend (woman) doesn't even know what a climax is when i asked her about her experience with her bf, why so many people doing this thing without basic knowledge, sorry rambling
Oh, I think he gets it, but it's "too much work". Yeah.
When you finish in 5 minutes you lose the will to put 15 more
We live in a world where we have 10 fingers, a tongue, and 1.000 different types of high tech tools. There is no excuse.
YES
If she wants to do something and he says no because he doesn't feel comfortable and is disgusted, but she gets angry at him for not speaking up for himself and thinking about her "pleasure and happiness", she would be kinda only thinking for herself. Both people deserve pleasure and happiness, its not all abt her. The guy has rights for not wanting to be intimate, and if she doesn't like that she or the guy should just leave.
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste There's a difference between being uncomfortable with certain acts, and getting angry because pleasuring your partner is "too much work", and finding their body parts disgusting.
Arguably they should have had this conversation 5 years ago though. It's a yikes from me.
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste Why would she be the one "thinking for herself" when he likes to receive yet not give back?. He's all complaints when it comes to giving her pleasure because for him a vagina is gross yet she has to pleasure him 🤷🏻♀️. That doesn't sound like she's being the selfish one in the relationship honestly.
@@natt7449 honestly now I don't understand the story, can someone like explain it- 😭😭😭
Complete strangers will treat my down there like it’s a Michelin star restaurant so ladies please do not settle for less
preach!!!
That’s not a flex 💀 why you letting strangers hit and letting them eat out your 🐱respect yourself and don’t be a wh0re
imagine doing it with complete strangers lmfao
@@changedmynamee and what about it?
so thankful to have a partner that actually cares about that. if anything- i’m always the one who doesn’t care if i finish or not sometimes.
Bruh he said vag is gross how uncultured it’s beautiful 😂
Exactly
Pssst, it’s NOT the first non abusive relationship…..move on and find a real relationship.
real 💯
Retard, go learn the definition of abuse.
It's abusive because he doesn't want to be intimate? 💀
@@CrazyWeirdoCeleste It's abusive becasue, for five years, he has used her to fulfill HIS pleasure, but not once has he even CARED about her pleasure, let alone actually done anything about it.
He has USED HER for five years. Using someone is abuse.
A relationship is supposed to be about give and take. Give AND take. He's just taking, and she's just giving.
Its not really abusive, but it does raise some questions about his sexuality. No straight man is repulsed by the idea of being near a vagina. In other words, it sounds like he could be gay.
That man is most definitely of the fruity variety. And you should probably dump someone if they say “I don’t like vaginas” and you, in fact, have one. The dude is using you to keep his family from finding out he likes to be the catcher.
Not wanting to be intimate is a valid thing. She should just leave him if she disagrees. some people are not ready or just don't like it. This is coming from a person who nevers wants to be intimate because I find it disgusting.
My ADHD actually does limit my ability to finish. Me and my man barely have any privacy, and I get distracted by the tv and other noises. It sucks. But he still puts in the work, and I still get there. Find a man who puts in the work.
Find a women who doesn't have adhd boys 😂
@@4truths127rude
@@4truths127alternatively if you both have it, you can play games or something at the same time, that was absurdly fun, one of us gamed the other out in the effort, and swap 😂😂😂
@@lindseykoetze9228 cry more i guess? 🥴
@@4truths127 thanks, i will. I'll cry myself to sleep every night.
My man won't stop eating me like I'm a whole Thanksgiving feast until he is drenched, soaking, dripping if you will, in my juices.
Upgrades, people, upgrades
I’m starting to think knowing people is a massive mistake
Allosexual people are supposed to make sex sound nice. Nobody makes sex sound grosser than y'all.
@@IslamphobeYeah, these comments are crazy
Even if what they’re saying is true, I don’t need to know that much about their sex life
I found the spot to make her finish. Helped our relationship 10x
Is noone gonna talk about the fact they're only 20/21, have been dating for 5 years, and she has apparently had previous sexual partners that didnt cater to her needs....what the f*ck? Was she freaking 13/14??? Am I missing something or is this now normal???
Reddit stories. They aren’t real
Lol i wondered this too. 😂
5 years would mean she's 15 and she might have been with him for 2 years, making her 17 when they did do it?? 😂
@@gachatana9656she is 21 making her 16
That's when they started dating. Not when she had partners before. It mentions multiple "abusive" partners. Did she date them all within a year before meeting him??
It's CRAZY how some people don't care if their partner finishes or not!
F them lol
Bro really finds that gross and has been dating her for 5 years, and “doesn’t care about her intimate needs” what?? That’s messed up
i guess the story is fake. She said, shes 20yrs. And had abusive relationships before (meaning love making). So multiple before 15yrs?
@makurispi could be fake but it also could be her dating too young or old creeps.
Intimate needs? she should think abt it though, her partner said he finds meat wallets disgusting so she should just leave it. Not wanting to be intimate is a pretty valid thing
@@CrazyWeirdoCelesteyes but her partner still has sex with her and pleasures himself. Why is his pleasure more important than hers? Why should she pleasure him, when he’s not willing (for whatever reason) to pleasure her? Relationships are give and take, and for her at least, he’s not giving enough and she’s only giving to him.
@@CrazyWeirdoCelesteyeah. Not everyone has to be intimate imo. It grosses some people out.
Bruh, "vaginas are gross" I could not imagine not being enthusiastic to make my girlfriend finish.
Pro tip: always finish your girl before finishing yourself because you won't be in the mood after you finish, and it'll become a chore
It should be mutual
and your pleasure should excite him.
He sounds like he wants to hop to the other team
I don't care who you are but I am getting down there and eating it like a fine dish.
Fine dish? Or chip shop fish supper? 😂💀
@@StigOfTheJunkfine dish. You’re either a gay man, a man who doesn’t like eating out, or a woman who’s…I don’t even know
Good
@@StigOfTheJunkFish dish
😂 just fingers mate, fingers. 🎉
"This is my first non-abusive relationship" goes on to describe an emotionally abusive relationship.
If a guy ever says "But it's so much work making you finish." fucking leave.
If he can't be bothered to put any work into lovemaking, then he's 110% not worth it. Find someone better.
It’s one thing to be dominant but being completely selfish will blow up in your face.
What? How is also wanting to reach climax being selfish?
I think they were talking about the guy
@@anni5385I think they are talking about the guy, it's selfish that only he wants to finish
If your husband or wife actually cares about you and loves you, they will get pleasure out of making you feel good.
Nothing's worse than banging a fridge.
You got to get yours or I'm never going to get mine, 🤷♂️
You shouldn't have to ask. You shouldn't have to tell him you want to finish he should just care enough and like you enough to want you to finish.
Denial is a river in Egypt
Dump his sry ass!! U deserve so much better!! I am so proud of you that you have stayed strong!!👏👏
This comment section REALLY passed the vibe check
I have ADHD and it is absolutely possible. If you are fully engaged and in the moment I'll be right there with you. If you aren't showing interest, I will lose interest
Bro. Keys to solving every problem, making sure she has the time of her life every time y’all are doing the do. Get down there and when she starts squirming and making more noise to a certain thing you do, keep doing that and make sure you get the gush not once but twice before you even bother coming back up. Then give her the pounds and make sure you get the gush one more time before you finish yourself and I promise she will cling to you and no other man for the rest of her life.
Amen lol
If you’re not finished he ain’t finished. Ain’t no way someone who respects you should leave you hanging like that.
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"vagina's are gross" should've left right there 😂 go in on your girl!
My question is why is she dating a gay guy for 5 years.
Surely her vagina must be perfect right? Im sure she doesn't have that disgusting meat wallet down there
The real question is how is this her multiple times absuvie relationship she was getting abused at 14 and shit terrible judged of character clearly.
Okay wait... OP is 21 years old. Has been with this BF for 5 years, so since she was 16. AND she has had multiple sexual relationships that were 'abusive' before that... how young was she when she even got started?!
Sounds like OP shouldn't be in a relationship right now and should take some time to work on herself, deal with her issues and trauma and discover what she likes on her own so she is better equiped to deal with a relationship and not take such crap from a guy.
Sure, sex isn't all about finishing, but it should still be balanced and pleasurable.
BF: 20
GF: 21
5 years relationship. That means bf:15 and gf: 16.
And its not her first relationship.
To be honest I would’ve given her some love that she needed, and love her the rest of my life. Lots of girls need love.
Leave pleasure should be mutual even I know that and I am a virgin
Dude, i hope your first vagina will be a nice one, cause some of them be so nasty you wont even be able to get hard and if you dare mention how disgusting it is, you'll be called a gay man 🥴
I'm sorry but OP was with this guy for 5 years and she rarely got to the finish line?? Honey... noo
Talk about a bottle of wine and a cry in the empty tub
I get that sometimes men doesnt wanna eat out and maybe sometimes dont do regular intercourse but if you cant even TOUCH one let alone want to please your SO yeah hes forcing himself to stay in this relationship because he might not be straight or is just too vanilla and self focused. Sometimes men can be too picky but that means leave. I was in a relationship like this and he was manipulative af and assaulted me when i told him i wasnt in the mood. But he would not even touch it but it wasnt too awful for him to violate. Ill never be in a purely vanilla relationship where I do everything for my SO and they dont even try to please me ever again.
HANG ON A MINUTE
She's 21
He's 20
They've been together 5 years
And she's also talking about past relationships she's had
Which would be from her being 15 years old and younger? 🤔
…….. he clearly doesn’t have game. Bc I have ADHD and I can finish in less than 5min💀
Bro, no man or woman who has no interest in the sexual needs of there partner doesn't deserve to be in a relationship
All my relationships have been like this to the point where i could literally live without sex as I've never had it good enough to want more
Even my boo helps me finish
It’s crazy dudes are like this. Like bro the more u make her feel good the more she’ll want to make u feel good. Like start off playing with yo girl a lil bit, bet she’ll give it back ten fold bruh I promise u.
He’s definitely using you as a beard.
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@@breadcheetos6793 it can be damaging to the partner if someone doesn’t care about their needs in a relationship. Especially if he finds their anatomy gross 🙄
yeah imagine kissing somone with a beard that so painful@@EuphemiaLiBritannia_
@@breadcheetos6793 that’s not what I mean.
oh@@EuphemiaLiBritannia_ oh
He “finds vaginas gross” WELL THEN HE NEEDS TO DATE A MAN.
so glad my boyfriend is the exact opposite 🥰 i also have adhd and it is a struggle but we manage as a team ✨
Guys like that should stay single for ever.
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Dating for five years? Twenty one years old.. past relationships?
Bro, my pleasure will come from your pleasure. If your having fun them I'm going have fun. If you want to stop then we will stop. What ever your mind desires I will fulfil it. That's just me though 😅
Thats the thing. Someone take forever to finish just for them to stop and after that the relationship goes down hill since both feel unsatisfied and awkward
So… I’m a lesbian… and one thing that helped me figure that out is my complete dislike of male genitalia…
And I can’t help but think that ya boy might be sitting under a similar rainbow 😂
same bro i think hes a little fruity
Genitalia in general is ugly
Most real story on reddit
HAHAHAHA fr
Your boyfriend sounds like HE wants a boyfriend 🗿
Or she has that meat wallet down there
I would have gone in like it’s my last meal on Earth 😂
The fact homie said, “It’s too much work…” that’s half the fun my dude.
But low key sounds like he should date a fleshlite.
Honestly, my view on dating and those sort of relationships is to always treat her better than gold. I plan to take this mindset into intimate relationships and in the bedroom as well because I figure that’s how it’s supposed to be… right?
No, you treat her like she deserves!
If she's behaving like an angel you treat her like one, if she tries taking advantage of you you either leave her or treat her the same, don't let somebody else walk over you just because they have a slit!
And then the president stood up and called him out on it
He sounds like every closeted gay man with internalized homophobia ever (not justifying his actions)
She's 21 but they've been together for 5 years and this is her ONLY non abusive relationship. Girl just be single, ohmygod. Too damn young to do any of that
They've been dating since she was 16,and she's had multiple abusive relationships? Calling BS
I don’t see her saying just because they started dating when she was 16 doesn’t mean she could’ve had abusive relationships please get right in the mind
Unpopular opinion; there is nothing wrong with him not wanting to do something sexually. You have the right to say no, too.
They have been having sex what are you talking about he just doesn’t care if she gets off or not
That's true, but you need to communicate that before you start dating. Also, there's sooooo many toys, fingers and other options at your disposal, there is no way you cant figure out how to get her off while staying in the comfort zone.
*My guy, that's abusive.*
Also as someone in an 8 year relationship, how tf does one only notice this after 5 YEARS of terrible sex??
Especially when you've had numerous other terrible sexual relationships??
I know right.
Thank god I’ve got a great boyfriend who is all up in that pussy.
Buddy might needa switch sides😭😭😏
He may just be asexual but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you as being asexual doesnt always mean aromantic aswell, don't dump him just because he's not interested in sex but you can if sex is the most valuable thing to you
He's gay straight guys don't think vaginas are gross
Some of them are so nasty i cant even get hard, you must be a virgin
Speak for yourself
@@neothinkerrweird.
@@km82708 the thing is vaginas look different they are not all the same so you one can’t make a blanket statement like that. Some look gross some don’t
I do
As someone who’s slept with women and as a woman myself, it’s not that god damn hard to get a woman off.
Idk man I've heard some crazy shit some women can complete my friend was fucking for an hour and he said he was doing all she wanted but she never finished he said he gave up after that shit maybe she didn't like him also I feel women definitely have an easier time making women finish bc you understand them
bros just said hes gay without saying hes gay 😢
Virgin spotted
HE FINDS WHAAAA?? Bro I be feasting like it’s my last meal on death row, this dude tripping
Man definitely bats for the other team
The biggest red flag was "he finds vaginas gross"
Perhaps a flag with more colours
Some of them do be gross, if you have that meat wallet down there, dont be surprise if a man cant even get hard 😂
If the guy finds vaginas gross, he should consider dating within a completely different group of people...
my gf’s finish ratio to me is 5:1 lol.. dude must have a small one💀
I think hes a little....ummm..✨️💅🏻
What I'm getting from other comments is relationships have to be intimate and if someone doesn't like their partners genitalia they aren't right for each other. That is such a bizarre view on sexuality and relationships
Just because it's not abusive it doesn't mean it's good.
I am asexual. My boyfriend often gets in the mood, and i dont mind helping him. Though, I prefer not to. When the super rare times has come, and im actually in the mood, he never ate me out or anything. He never pleasured me. He has ADHD as well.
Damn, that doesn’t sound nice at all.
Maybe you should talk to him about it.
But if he reacts negatively, get outta there.
@@LittlePufferfish920 he knows already. He's trying not to do anything to me.
@@emique2636 then I don’t think he cares about you as much as you think he does.
If someone truly loved someone they would always try to make them feel good.
I think he may be using you for pleasure or something because if he doesn’t care about making you feel good then that is a big sign that he just wants to use you.
I know it’s hard to hear but it’s the truth and I’m so sorry that it’s happening to you.
Best thing you can do is try to talk to him about it even more to understand his actions.
And if he seems to be very immature and say things like “I just don’t want too” or “I don’t like doing it” then that is pretty much the sign that he does not care about how you feel.
I’m so sorry for you, and I hope everything turns out fine for you.
Because your feelings matter, and you should never let anyone turn them down.
@@LittlePufferfish920 i have no other choice than to be with him sadly. It's been years with him. If I leave him he will end himself because i was his first love and if i leave him, then he will never find anyone else. He doesn't even want to try. He has to live in his house, because his father built it, and all. I dont feel safe visiting him because his house is connected in a hallway to another house, where the rest of his family lives. They said they dont like me either. I feel trapped. But i have no other choice.
@@LittlePufferfish920 he broke many promises, and he's a compulsive liar.
Really tasting the rainbow
100% evident he doesn’t care for you only what you can give him. Leave him.
Ladies, if your partner doesn't care about your pleasure, leave. You don't deserve a selfish jerk.
My ex never went down town, he did once and he spat out right after, which made me assume it was me who was the problem, so I’d to all the pleasuring, fast forward 5 years, Im pregnant and give birth, 3 months after giving birth, I find out he’s bisexual but he leans towards men more, but he’s too macho man to be with a man, I accepted him but he didn’t like the fact that I knew so he leaves us behind and it’s been 2 years since he left. I found the right man who taught me all types of new things, he takes care of all of my needs, and he cares for my baby as his own. It was a loss of years but I gained a beautiful baby and a relationship out of it. Just out of experience girl, maybe bring up the topic of him being bi/gay?
It’s so stupid how people say that it’s our fault that pussy smells bad.
No matter what you do it is always going to smell bad because that’s just what pussy smells like.
It’s literally an exposed organ, it’s ALWAYS going to smell and obviously taste bad.
Some guys are just so selfish you know.
There are so many dudes who can not care less about what a woman feels during sexual activity.
Still wrapping my head around the fact that they’re 20 years old and have been dating for 5 years and she’s saying that she’s had relationships (plural) before him that involved physical intimacy.
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i find it so strange that men always have to finish during sexy time. like if the girl doesn’t finish it’s not a big deal and as soon as the guy finishes the whole thing is over. at least in my experience.
That sigh is now my worst nightmare. You deserve better and he’s probably gay like my ex was ✌🏻
Same man lol
But I got a boyfriend who eats me out like no tomorrow.
How are people this selfish in bed? People like that don't deserve to have sex. For me personally my number 1 priority is for my gf to get off when we are in bed, no matter how long it takes or if I finish a bit quicker than her I always make sure she also gets off. Sometimes several times.
How do people not want to do that for their partner? It's like the best feeling in the world. Am I alone in thinking that?