My Mom Wants Me To Marry My Creepy Stepbrother And Have His Child....- Reddit Family
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- My Mom Wants Me To Marry My Creepy Stepbrother And Have His Child....- Reddit Family
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My Mom Wants Me To Marry My Creepy Stepbrother And Have His Child. She Now Harasses Me At Work And Lies About The Inheritance.
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I (29F) have an older stepbrother, Chris (42M), who has been a nightmare since the day my mom married his dad. Our parents married when I was four and he was 17. Both our parents were widowed. After their wedding, we moved to the US since my mom had American citizenship through marriage. I was born in the US, but after my dad died when I was one, my mom and I moved back to Colombia. My stepdad got his residency through marriage, and my stepbrother, because he was a minor, wasn’t a big fan of me.
My only memories of him are constant bullying. He would be left in charge of me since he was studying locally and lived with my parents. But mostly, his babysitting meant locking me in the guest bathroom or the shed outside. He would steal my lunchbox whenever he dropped me off at school. He even began to harm my pets. I have an old cat that has been with me for almost 22 years. He tried more than once to run her over with his car. My parents never believed any of it; he’s the classic Golden Child. My mom absolutely wanted a son instead of a daughter, so my stepbrother took priority over me.
The bullying just kept getting worse and creepier. He had a long key for the bathroom. The door was designed so that if it got locked by accident, one could open it by inserting a long stick or key through a small hole on the outside. He would use it to walk in on me showering. My underwear would disappear sometimes, and I know for a fact it was him. He also started taking pictures of me sleeping. One night, I woke up to him taking care of himself next to me while I slept. I yelled, obviously. My parents came over, but he wasn’t in trouble; I was, for tempting him. I was 14 when this happened; he was 27. No one helped me, and he got bolder until he did something I am still in therapy for.
When I was 16, it got to a point where I called my biological half-brother, Sam (48M), and son of my biological father's first wife, to see if I could live with him and his wife.
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Hold up. So when he does things from watching you sleep to a whole s3xual assault and your mom would blame you for that?
Nah that’s inhumanly unfair
the stepbrother makes me so sick, the age gap is WILD
This stepbrother's behavior is truly disturbing, and the age difference definitely makes it even more unsettling. It's a tough situation to read about, and it's heartbreaking that the person had go to through this. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!
The age gap I could tolerate if the younger of the two was an adult, like 22 or something. But she was literally a child and him an adult.
Also, that thing about the police not caring about the assault because she was old to consent is ridiculous. She didn't consent to being assaulted.
I hope she gets the justice she deserves and that predator is locked up for as long as possible.
@@jagirl966 Same, same. Nobody consents to SA, otherwise it wouldn’t be called that
My parents Have a 30 year age Gap Bro So this Is nothing 😑
@@marcelasedlackova1174 I REALLY hope your joking 😨
The stepbrother was definitely a predator. Her mom was a total idiot for not doing anything to stop the abuse. The stepfather should’ve put a stop to it as well. I’m not surprised that the couple may be getting a divorce.
Stepdad probably didn’t have any clue.
@@KDawg92801 he did
Stepdad’s the idiot mother is the other
monster
@@NonchalantDrhow do u know
@@EyeMortorl common sense
*TRIGGER WARNING*
This sounds like my story. Mom wanted a boy, I was a girl. She hated me as a child and sold me to a man in his 40s, from the age of 10 years old to 12 and a half years old. I was almost 13 when he got arrested for it. Around the time my class in school had started sex ed, I remember telling him I did not want to have a baby, as I had started my periods the month before his last time seeing me. He SA'd me anyway without a condom, as usual. Luckily I did not get pregnant and was not left infertile from it. He was not violent, I learned to become limp, so that it hurt less and tune it out mentally. I eventually got the courage to tell on him, once I knew what he was doing was not his right. This was after my sex ed teacher talked about consent and what SA was. He had been telling me that it was his way of showing his love and helping me develop my body faster. That this was normal and everyone did this to help kids grow up. Its just something we don't talk about. When I told, my mother's first reaction was to call me a lying little b*tch. Then when we went to court and I had to testify in front of a jury, answering embarrasing questions requiring way too much detail of acts done to me, through tears, she played the loving mother who was distraught over what he did. She SOLD ME! I did not find out how involved she was until I was in my 20s. By then she had died and I could not press charges on her for it. I am in my 30s now, and my body still has the trauma responses, despite the therapy and work to find sex enjoyable. The US law is a joke because they only gave him 10 years to serve plus 10 years probation for me, while he was a repeat offender for the same crime against a previous girl. He was given 7 years to serve for her plus 7 years probation. Dude was taking me with him after SA'ing me, leaving me to wait in the car while he met with his probation officer. FOR THREE YEARS! First time offenders need to be castrated. Repeat offenders need to be unalived. That's how I feel.
I wish the world was kinder to women and girls. Sometimes it feels like very few people actually care about us, let alone the government
I feel so sorry for you, I hope live compensate you for everything and karma works for him as well
I'm beyond sorry that happened to you.
Damn.... Sorry sorry for what has happened to you. He is such an evil man
I wish you the best in life. What you endured is a nightmare
I cant believe ur own biological mother would do that like ew..
Yup, female pedophile
Btw, theres further updates: after the stepbrother got arrested the mom started harassing op and demanding she pay bail for him. Op declined, so the mom tracked her down in a hotel room (turns out there was a tracker under the car) and physically attacked her until hotel security arrived. The mom got the room number from a receptionist after claiming op was suicidal after her "fiancé" got arrested on false charges. Despite Op going to the police they didnt file charges cause the cops didn't believe an elderly woman like the mom would be much danger.
She still got arrested eventually for tax fraud and larceny so that's good news.
Noone knows what the stepbrother wanted the baby for.
It's obvious what the step brother wanted the baby for.... Like....
But still glad the mother and stepbrother are behind bars now.
Well, they're behind bars at least. Though i think we all know what he wanted with that poor baby.
Can you guys please explain what he wanted the baby for I'm confused. For money?
@Raimu_u well, since they couldn't have children biologically, he probably tried kidnapping the kid for himself to play house
@Raimu_u to abuse
Omg that letter nearly made me vomit. That's mother needs to play with traffic ASAP
My trauma has been traumatised with that story.
My trama trama trama is traumatized
Same, I thought this would be like the usual Reddit stories, I was wrong and now my trauma trauma needs a therapist
The trauma of my trauma is traumatised.
Ngl I actually threw up in my mouth-
I was eating-
It stung like it stunned me on how gross and sick these people are-
Same
That last update pissed me off to no end... I'm SOOOOOO happy he's locked up
4 and 17?! Bro fuck that shit
Thats what the step bro wanned to do
Literally, fuck that shit
I have heard people defending 53 and 9. Disgusting!
@@tintinismybelgian what the hell 💀
@@DevastationOccursNow The girl's parents "married" her off at 6, and he supposedly "waited" three years to make it official.
A therapist needing a therapist is crazy
It’s a really good sign if your therapist has their own therapist. They spend a large portion of their career listening to other people’s problems. Someone has to listen to theirs.
I heard this a long time ago .... every year to 5 years that a therapist or psychiatrist has to go and have a sit-down with another therapist to make certain they are still able to do their jobs.... don't know if it true but it is a very good idea...they need an outlet to ..
Most therapists do have therapists. 2 out of 3 ppl I know are one and have one , the third has only been doing it for 2 years. Imagine every day you listen to other people’s problems. Imagine all the stories they’ve probably heard, it affects you no matter how hard you try so it’s not uncommon to have one to talk things through
@@Bad5778 true
Why do I have the feeling that the baby was supposed to be the final piece in the stepbrother's "Family"
didn't think I could get any more horrified
MY THOUGHTS. LIKE WHAT IF BECAUSE HE KNEW THAT OP COULDN'T CONCIEVE.... NEED I SAY MORE?
The mother's hatred for her own daughter, simply for being born a girl, reminds me of my father's late mother, who was the opposite; she tried to ignore me and my younger brother simply because we were boys, and she believed that mom had to have all girls for her children to be worth a damn. Luckily, my parents weren't very willing to allow this behavior in their presence, and they forced her to acknowledge me and my brother as her grandchildren. I didn't actually know about any of that until we were adults, so fortunately no lasting psychological damage was done to either of us because of that.
Everybody talking about the family but we not going to talk about how disgusting the police are in this story??
I know right
It's sadly not enough of a surprise to talk about. Trying to be nice It's hard to do a 'he said, she said' right..... and any i have to say after that would probably be a little spicy for TH-cam.
EXACTLY
it happens. worldwide. we are not believed, or its our fault for what we wear, how we look etc
Fr
After she wins her case she should go back to the original pd and sue the hell outta them to with the information about the 2yo added. That's terrible
Now I feel bad for the therapist cause she heard it in detail......
Now u said it me too 💀💀💀💀
R.I.P therapists ears
They should lock the step brother and throw away the key
sam and sandy are such real ones
Imagine a 42 year old man kidnapping a 2 year old💀
These people are not ok, the mother is just plain crazy and probable needs therapy
No she needs to be put in jail for, parental neglect, child abuse, and harbouring a sexual predator
and to qoute a youtuber TOSS HIM IN THE WOOD CHIPER
Na she is a borderline psychopath who had zero regard for her daughter and therapy doesnt work on them.
I Don't know who more terrifieing the mother thinking she can make a real life stepbro video or the step brother
9:59 all I want to ask woman that say stuff like this is dose this mean you're worthless? I want to ask them this so badly because I want to hear there responses to that
Not worth it, i asked my mom and she wud resort to violence, my dad used to be my shield. when i grew up, i learnt martial arts and now she wont raise her hands at me. Bringing logical statement with these kind of people is waste of time, they will argue in infinite loop, you'll never win no matter how intellectual u r, thanks to her, i learnt how to set boundaries and not to chase after validation.. But my brother turned the other way around unfortunately since he happens to be her golden child, the man of the house.
That is disturbing that he wishes to be a father to your child.i am forever traumatized..
The mother is nuts. How can a dead man pay child support, let alone a child you created to ask them to reimmbuse you? Also, what kind of woman would put her predator step son over her own daughter?
Raise u and his babby ? Ewwww that mom and step brother are waist of spaces
Dang therapist needing therapist
My jaw dropped so many times while watching this 😨
My therapist might need a therapist 💀 7:09
I was gonna say dat😂😂😂😂
He hurt her so badly that she's infertile or sterile....The thought actually made me feel sick. The story in general did, but that sentence tipped the scale for a second and i got goosebumps for real. Ik what its like to have police just, not believe you or not care. I would also feel more and more sure of it if i had called multiple times and had to deal with what she did. Idk the details obviously, but im sure its just horrific
(Edit for spelling error)
Once all the legal stuff is done, I say move to a Stand Your Ground state and exercise your Constitutional rights.
Harming animals is a sign of being a psychopath
PLEASE BE FAKE PLEASE BE FAKE PLEASE BE FAKE
its fake your oh ok :)
@@sofiametzen2953my mental health thanks you
This is why pick me’s can be dangerous when they get to this level
Wdym
@Edgy_Life so the term pick me girls/ pick me women, are women that range from not all men are bad evil people that want to rape women, to give a guy at least some chance, and lot of levels up to that think women need saving or can only be useful when pregnant or subservient to men, I have even heard a woman talk about revoking the 19th ammendment, taking away women's right to vote.
The mother was a pick me who saw nothing good in her daughter just because she was female.
@@Edgy_Life Look up what a pick me is and what people mean wiith a toxic boy mom. There's a very specific pick me to toxic boy-mom pipeline and this mother fits the bill to the most dangerous extreme.
Why wasnt this reported to the police or CPS ffs .. Thats insanely disgusting
They didn’t give a sh!t. Like the OP said, it was considered as consensual s3x, due to the age consent. Why? I don’t know.
Reddit Family Tales, great content I loved it
I've never been this disgusted in my whole life.... I... I'm speechless....
22:00 chris went insane man thats just terrible
Im so glad the baby girl was unharmed😢
I’ve heard and seen so many bad moms but I ain’t see this before…
-fighting for the stepson like she went through hell and high water to have him herself OVER the daughter she did have herself
-babying a GROWN MAN that she barely raised IF she even got a chance to act as his parent at all (wasn’t he 18 by the time OP was 5?)
-I’ve seen victim blaming but I’m not at all understanding the hatred you have to have for your own blood to (seems like at least) catch a GROWN MAN pleasing himself next to your child and to then say your child is tempting that man
-THEN you start a smear campaign against your blood related child because they won’t provide for your stepson after you’ve literally proven repeatedly that you have no ounce of care for them and you brought them into this world?
Why are some people able to breathe? 😐 and I’m only 13 minutes into the video
I FORGOT THE TITLE. THEN YOU WANT HER TO MARRY HIM? Oh my god
17:42 ur threpist is in threpy gurl😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅
That is so messed up
Honestly, ive never seen police NOT take this stuff seriously, especially those who have been in the force for a while.
It’s so sad to hear how other peoples lives are like this😢
Im sorry harm pets why tf is no1 saying anything thats serial killer behaviour..
Chris❌
Drake✅
Mom’s on sicko mode
Sad it cut off before the court case
I'm officially sickened. That ending was too much
When you hear the phase:my therapist will need a therapist you know its bad
Best one
when she said about her therapist to therapy that got me thinking of the song lol
10:00 I’m Srry but like SHE JUST CALLED HERSELF USELESS!!!
She can’t choose what gender she was
How does a nurse work from home?
Ai story that's why
I understand this my little sister sded me . Am sorry that you had to go through that i was really young when she did it i just want to say i understand you❤❤❤❤
Wow, this video really had me hooked, great job on the storytelling! Honestly tho, I can't wrap my head around the whole step-sibling situation. I mean, isn't it super odd to even consider that kind of relationship? It feels like there are so many other options out there instead of making things awkward with family. What do you all think?
Holy crap that plot twist at the very end. 😮
Wish cops took stuff like this more seriously Jesus Christ.
Holy crap just when I thought a mother couldn't get any lower. I come past this story 😢 tour mother is an absolute disgrace
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Strange how the mom kept saying the OP was like not mentally okay and kept calling her the r word because OP was born a female even though the mom was also a female. Also the mom, stepdad, and stepbrother are absolutely disgusting.
im so so so so sorry for the op i hope your alr op
OMG I JUST WATCHED THIS ON A ANOTHER ACC
They’re idiots.
Police instantly. Like it’s insane for not calling the cops ever.
yess
it was a minor
Age of consent laws are weird
Wow, this video was really eye-opening and I appreciate you sharing such a personal story. But honestly, I can’t help but feel it’s a bit concerning that your mom is pushing for something like this. I mean, marrying a step-sibling and having kids sounds super complicated, right? I get that families can be unconventional, but there’s gotta be limits. What do you all think?
The cops being useless as usual
Who else threw up after listening to this story?
Wow, this video really captured my attention! It's definitely a unique situation that sparks a lot of emotions. But honestly, I can't help but feel that it's really concerning how some families can blur boundaries like this. I mean, marrying a stepbrother? Seems a bit much to me. What do you all think?
How is ur cat still alive after 22 years
How can a nurse work from home?
I think she said clerical work for the clinic
this video was really engaging and gave me a lot to think about. however, i can't help but feel that pushing someone to marry a step-sibling is crossing so many lines. like, shouldn't family dynamics be more about comfort and healthy relationships rather than this kind of pressure? it just seems kind of odd to me.
this video is really thought-provoking, and i appreciate the way you handled such a sensitive topic. but honestly, the whole idea of marrying a stepbrother just seems really bizarre to me. i mean, isn’t it a bit weird to mix family dynamics in that way? it could lead to some really complicated situations down the line.
Ew. Just ew. And I believe mom and sleeping with the step brother
Alright, these stories are getting out of control now, 😂. There’s no way this is true.
there is a hair in the cake at 19:18
Nooo not the hair
My parents have a 20 year age difference
Wow, this video was really interesting and thought-provoking! It's crazy to see the lengths some families go to in navigating relationships. Personally, I just can't get behind the idea of marrying someone just because your mom wants you to, especially if there's a creepy vibe involved. It feels like there should be more emphasis on mutual feelings rather than just family expectations. What do you all think?
this video was really captivating and well-presented! but, honestly, i can't wrap my head around the idea of marrying a stepbrother, no matter how close the family might be. seems way too complicated and messy to me. what do you all think?
The story repeats?
the end is probably the worse
What dose the mom say now .....need an update
So why did they make an 8 cupcake cake and put pills on it?
Wow Chriss want to marry u and ur 20 and hes 40 thats mess up
20:53 💀
Mum and son is sub human
I’m sorry but I can’t focus on the story I had to say this. The amount of that type of frosting they put on those cupcakes to make the Facebook logo make me say ew personally
That’s a 13 year age gap-
For me it’s normal to have a BROTHER that much older but a husband… unless they love EACHOTHER this is just straight up nasty and would be pedophelia if she was only a few years younger
Oop just watched the rest it was pedophelia
I need updates
13:16 💀
After two years, it gets boring.
the whole reddit needs therapy after this
The part in the bar is y people need to mind their damn business.
Wtf is the conclusion???
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What's the r-word? I understand it's sth offensive so can anyone explain the meaning?