Black People Tell you about Singapore's Racism Reality

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  • Most of the clips were taken from TH-cam Channel: "The Black Experience in Japan".
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    The Black Experience Japan's (BEJ) mission is to repair the image of black people across the globe. It seeks to lambaste the negative stereotypes of the black people and share the black experience in Asia and beyond.
    The Melanated Files or the MFiles is a Black Experience in Japan's series that highlights black people from diverse countries across the globe. It focuses on sharing the story of the individual; who they are; what they do; what they are passionate about; and what their experience has been so far, as a black person living in a foreign land.
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    The clip on Singapore’s Social Cohesion discussion is taken from here:
    • 新加坡总统哈莉玛谈种族和谐与大同社会 Spe... (with Chinese Subtitles)
    • Let’s Think About It -... (Original Clip)

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  • @fasionstopper
    @fasionstopper  3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    When Law Minister Shan said that he was not so sure anymore that Singapore is moving in the right direction on racial tolerance, I felt depressed. He is to me, in the past decade, and many years to come, the guiding star and safeguard along our national building journey of racial harmony.
    Black community in Singapore is extremely small, yet it is mentally healing for me to hear their encouraging words through unique lens on Singapore and Asia's racial reality. We as Asians ought to be confident enough to draft our own racial theories, rather than misappropriating a malfunctioned theory created remotely. On the other side, no one should underestimate the frustration and prejudice a black person has to experience from time to time as a minority and a foreigner here.
    K. Shanmugam once said when he had issues in life often times he would draw strength and wisdom from the thousands of years long Tamil culture and literature. I do the same. A small portion of our ivory tower elites tried very hard to alienate themselves from their own cultures. That is sad. A person is in no position to claim he cares about other races, when he bashes his own language and culture from pretentious moral high ground.
    I always saw merits in Singapore's racial reality, in a fascinating way. For instance, the government which ordered Nanyang University's closure, was under a Chinese Prime Minister; a Malay, or an Indian Prime Minister, no matter how courageous, would not be willing nor able to achieve this. Another example, the most popular Singaporean scholar in China, is not a Chinese; he is an Indian, and the name is Kishore Mahbubani. Similarly, when Tommy Koh told our friends from India that he has more faith in India than most Indians do, he really means it; Tommy truly embraces the wonderful cultures in India than most our Singaporean Indians do. Positive stereotyping in Singapore is real, and people ought to celebrate their own identities with proud and not with anxiety.
    All above said, it is undeniable that blind spots do exist across ethnic groups and social classes. It is a long journey, and all of us should fight hard, against our own prejudices, for ourselves and our children's future.

  • @reveirg9
    @reveirg9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    This is all thanks to our late Lee Kuan Yew. He insisted on having a Singaporean Singapore. Not a "Chinese Singapore", "Malay Singapore" nor "Indian Singapore". There were racial riots in the past but they were quelled with the full force of the law. I remembered as a kid living in a neighbourhood where all the different kids came together to play and we'd took part in each other's festivities.

  • @shadowtrooper262
    @shadowtrooper262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I am glad there are African American people that actually love our country. Our country welcomes people around the world.

    • @randomnobodyplaythrough7770
      @randomnobodyplaythrough7770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NoahBodze
      LOL, shouldn't racist like you be happy that Blacks are leaving the US?

    • @birbshid
      @birbshid 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      they were most likely paid

  • @crystal8537
    @crystal8537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Singaporean here!!! I think people would sort of stare at u out of curiousity but generally Singaporeans are known to be much more aware of diff races sensitivities due to us being super multi racial here

    • @padmoretandoh5597
      @padmoretandoh5597 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m from Ghana, can we be friends so I could know a lot about Singapore?? I’m planning on visiting there

    • @jonaskum5638
      @jonaskum5638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good day sir I am an African from Cameroon I wish to know if someone came to Singapore first before looking forward for a job? because I really wish to do so more to I am a professional welder

    • @plasmadominance
      @plasmadominance 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jonaskum5638 it is very much dependent on what work permit you are allowed to have in Singapore. Ministry of Manpower in Singapore has strict foreign labour laws, you can look up to S-pass or Employment Pass if you are highly skilled enough to warrant a high salary in Singapore. Typically these work permits are not restricted by nationalities. The regular Work Permits issued for low skill workers are more highly regulated by restrictions on nationalities, local vs foreign quotas and industry categories like service or manufacturing line.

    • @namo2403
      @namo2403 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jonaskum5638Singaporean here
      *Most* of the time (90% of the time but there are always exceptions such as getting a tourist visa then looking for a job in that period)
      Search for a job first then come to Singapore because once you get hired, your employer will apply the working visa for you(based on how much you earn, there is WP, S Pass, Employer Pass)
      There's always a demand for skilled trades workers, search for "SG MOM COMPASS test" and if you get above 40 points, chances are that you can get a working visa

    • @raid1010
      @raid1010 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@jonaskum5638 SG prioritize qualifications (papers) so if you have a professional welder's certificate or sorts, you're probably going to have a much easier time job hunting in SG

  • @Seldomtraveler
    @Seldomtraveler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I’m an African American male. I lived in Singapore in 2013. I can say it was the best, most peaceful free time I’ve ever had in my life. I experienced a couple of instances of racism, but nothing life threatening or long lasting, I’m used to a country where I’ve had to physically fight to defend myself so physical violence is not a problem for me if need be. But while I was there I did not feel like it was necessary at all. I felt free for the first time in my life; at the time I was in my early 40’s.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      thanks for that. Singapore is for sure not perfect but I am glad that you enjoy your life here. best wishes.

    • @daschund7680
      @daschund7680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      As an Indian singaporean who is dark skinned this is interesting. Because I felt free and loved for the first time In my life when I went to Australia. I got called black as an insult here literally everyday in high school by malays and Chinese and was excluded and even kicked by male classmates, I couldn’t share because the principal stopped me, didnt benefit racial interests apparently. I fell very sick after. So this is interesting.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@daschund7680 Buddy I totally agree with you on what you experienced in school and that is exactly why I featured Divian Nair's experience in the video clip - I do not want to create an illusion to outside people that Singapore is perfect.
      But again I wish to say my view here: that Singapore government is trying very hard to make sure that there is no systematic/institutional discrimination in Singapore. A very good example is that look at the percentage of Indian ministers in our cabinet (25%, more than 3 times of Indian population of 7.5% in Singapore). Not to mention huge number of Singaporean CEOs and CFOs who are ethnic Indian. I can personally feel Australia's freeness in many aspects (that is a true praise to Australia), but Australia has a long way to go on its racial harmony - it is known that Australian society has certain level of prejudices/biases against Asians. A tip, check the cabinet composition - this is always a trick and a metric for me to check if a country is really racial blind. Another check on systematic racism I like to do is to look at the media in a country - i wont elaborate but since you have experience with both Singapore and Australia's media, you surely can tell the vast difference.

    • @cvpiguy
      @cvpiguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What did those ppl say to you though if you don’t mind me asking. I’m sorry you had to experience that bro. As a Singaporean I’m open to any type of foreigners coming here. Hope u still enjoy Singapore.

    • @dominicjohnson310
      @dominicjohnson310 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@daschund7680 there is a lot of hate for Indians in Singapore?

  • @khensk
    @khensk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Wow I was not expecting this. This is so comforting

  • @helloeveryone0123
    @helloeveryone0123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    As a singaporean, i think racism doesnt come from the skin but from experiences first hand from working and collaborating with many people of certain races, and learning patterns and habits of those people instead of simply assuming certain level of competency from them. i do feel that when you cite the singapore pledge everyday, you get ingrained in you that you are not supposed to assume what a character is before interacting with them. However “genderism” is the same everywhere in the world.

  • @yeolblt
    @yeolblt ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm so happy that these gentlemen felt free and accepted when in Singapore. All the best to you 👍😊

  • @tze-liangfoo7806
    @tze-liangfoo7806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank you for putting the clips together. I hope more people can watch it.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks for your nice words. It is also my wishful thinking.

  • @raymondchew8894
    @raymondchew8894 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The African American is really feel home in Singapore. Singapore respect one another irrespective of race and religion. That how we live in racial harmony and peacefully.

  • @The_Noblesse
    @The_Noblesse 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm a mixed race. Singapore does have racism but very minor if you compare it to with other countries. Partly because Singaporeans grow up to learn to live with different races, nationalities and people with different religion.
    But as I grew older I realised the value and meaning of the Singapore pledge.
    "We, the citizens of Singapore, pledge ourselves as one united people, regardless of race, language or religion, to build a democratic society, based on justice and equality, so as to achieve happiness, prosperity and progress for our nation."

  • @chanellovvesyou
    @chanellovvesyou ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I lived in Korea for a year I also felt the most American I've ever felt. I never had to specify African-American or explain to someone that I'm black despite having obviously brown skin. I was just American to them, and me being brown didn't need to be confirmed becuz it was obvious. It felt really nice to be able to just be myself and not feel like every action I take b4 I leave the house is gonna be viewed as a political statement by everyone around me.

  • @raymondcwkoh7458
    @raymondcwkoh7458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Singapore values work, not colour, not language, nor religion.
    Are you ready to work till last breath?
    This country values every single person who is willing to contribute to real work.
    Welcome to work land.❤

    • @omoplata10
      @omoplata10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed bro. You gotta be stacked to live in sg. Everything is so expensive.

  • @Interior-rg4mu
    @Interior-rg4mu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Liked & Shared. Amazing clips pieced together.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for your mentally healing words

  • @FullSocialSingapore
    @FullSocialSingapore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I believe how Singapore vets foreigners who can enter also plays a big role. We sort of only allow expats with professional skills into the country as long-term workers, so we'll naturally only get a certain class of people here with respect to economic status, intelligence, work ethic whether you're from America, Australia, UK or anywhere really. And that definitely plays a part in how we perceive foreigners, be it black or white people

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have to agree to what you said. also i have recently seen so many videos featuring white, black, Indian, malay and chinese people travelling in certain parts of Asia (Southeast Asia and neibouring Asia), and all of them are relaxed. you cannot downplay the role of the chemistry - when people are travelling in a safe, relaxed, non aggressive environment, they instantaneously sense it in the air naturally.

    • @FullSocialSingapore
      @FullSocialSingapore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fasionstopper Ah yes, great point on the role of chemistry as well. Totally agreed!

    • @namo2403
      @namo2403 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would say Singaporeans are more classism than racism
      If you have money? Nothing else matters, you're good.
      If you don't have money? You are low SES and it matters not whether you are local/foreigner/education level/what race are you because people will use it all to judge why aren't you financially well-off.
      Of course that is a crude way of mentioning it in a vaccum, your real experiences will obviously vary

    • @TheJayJayYoung
      @TheJayJayYoung 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@namo2403Well, then most countries are “classism” too. The advancement of technology and rise of influencers brought about the importance of maintaining a certain social status where they show off wealth. TBH, most of the wealthy people are just like everyone else.

  • @whatiwanttosee
    @whatiwanttosee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m glad you guys feel welcomed in Singapore. And thank you for speaking well of our country even though we are very lacking

  • @johnpor
    @johnpor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Im glad we live up to our national pledge.😊

  • @ebonyloveivory
    @ebonyloveivory 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Because of the multitude of races and religions we all have in this region, when we do "mention" it, most of the time it's truly just facts.
    For example, "Oh, the Malay boy. Oh the Indian girl." Not to single out or attack but merely as a statement. Most are pretty aware of the sensitivity of race / religions and are respectful.

    • @firdaus125
      @firdaus125 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But they don't say 'oh the Chinese girl or Chinese boy'.

    • @mwartdt
      @mwartdt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@firdaus125 too many Chinese perhaps? wouldn't be a good way to identify a person if so

  • @kahwail5881
    @kahwail5881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's all about Asia.... Welcome to our world.

  • @amberwilliams5378
    @amberwilliams5378 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just came back from Singapore. Overall it was fine. I did find some people really did stare at me which was kind of weird but no one was any nicer or ruder to me than they are to everyone else.

  • @Conserpov
    @Conserpov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Singapore is safe and peaceful, and racial tensions never take root, because crime in Singapore is not tolerated.

  • @whatajoke8497
    @whatajoke8497 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We're taught in schools that we're Singaporeans first and foremost. Whether you're a Malay, Indian Chinese, Eurasians etc we're no different from each other. Every year, we celebrate what we call racial harmony day on 21st of July in schools especially in the kindergartens & primary schools. We also celebrate each races' important religious days like Christmas, Chinese New Year, Hari Raya, Vesak Day, Good Friday, Deepavali and so on. Children are encouraged to wear other races' traditional outfits and try their festive food. They are taught why these are celebrated through stories and class discussions and they learn to appreciate their classmates traditional background and beliefs. In this manner, we inculcate racial & religious tolerance in our young and they grow up to be more tolerant.

  • @yuciehayashi266
    @yuciehayashi266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm from Malaysia too and I've never noticed how people from homogenous countries just couldn't help to stare if they see someone with different skin colour or dressing differently. But we're taught since we're young to respect others and everyone's the same human-being.
    Edit to make this more relevant: this is my experience as a civilian and cannot say the same for some parties in Malaysia. Glad to hear that Singapore is doing so well in this sense!

  • @ngkamchuin4383
    @ngkamchuin4383 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Generally, we don't differential people with color skin, we respect different races with rich cultures and traditions. We are same, "Human Beings".

  • @koolkokujin7015
    @koolkokujin7015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video! I would love to live in Singapore!

  • @aaronz6516
    @aaronz6516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is there a fb group to connect with black people in Singapore?

    • @anuomj
      @anuomj ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you get any info on this?

    • @anuomj
      @anuomj ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been on the look out for this

    • @bosemarynorah4362
      @bosemarynorah4362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interested in that country

  • @cuibin1636
    @cuibin1636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    1分14秒 这注释的也太牛了吧:大道之行也,天下为公,选贤与能,讲信修睦。。。

    • @mongols-p7t
      @mongols-p7t ปีที่แล้ว

      机翻不出来这句

  • @mickeylim640
    @mickeylim640 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it's the values that a person needs to cultivate since young.

  • @simonsimon2888
    @simonsimon2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is known as Nantah University in 1955 and the fascade is standing in the field at Boon Lay. The Nantah Alumni Association is at the junction of Lavendar Street & Jalan Besar.

  • @housesg5981
    @housesg5981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:06
    LOYALTY TO COUNTRY, LEADERSHIP, DISCIPLINE, PROFESSIONALISM, FIGHTING SPIRIT, ETHICS, CARE FOR SOLDIERS!!!!!!!!!

  • @meenamuthu3756
    @meenamuthu3756 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In the 1990's we had a group PRC nurses.I think they have never seen an Indian or hair on their arms.This very young nurse sat next to me and stroked my arm.I asked why did she do that and in her basic English she told me she had never seen a person of colour or even having hair on arms.I did not feel anything negative towards as it was genuine curiosity but I advised her like a big sister not to do it anyone else as they may not take it the right way.She became a wonderful colleague and climbed up the nursing ladder picked up singlish and the rest as they said is history.As my dear late father would say that not all our fingers are the same.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am really thankful for your heart-warming story. you are truly a person with pure heart, so does your PRC sister. In many cultures, such as China, Indian, Middle East, Africa etc., people are innocent and pure-hearted, touching body or body part is a way of showing intimacy. it is only in modern culture people kept that distance and interpreted touching as offensive. another example, you always see guys from south asian cultures holding hands and girls from east asian cultures holding hands, but that behavior is deemed as super inappropriate (and discouraged) in western countries.

  • @Thee1281
    @Thee1281 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:56
    🔥✊That's the way brother

  • @shuyinkim2514
    @shuyinkim2514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kudos to Singapore government, and her people

  • @savethebees2506
    @savethebees2506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No rascist mentality is a deliberate move by Mr Lee Kuan Yew.
    We are all Singaporeans, not Chinese, not malays, not Indians, not baba.
    So we see people by their passport nationality too, rather than the color of their skin.

    • @crystal8537
      @crystal8537 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nowadays pple also differenciate between 'true blue' (born & bred in SG) Singaporeans vs Naturalised Sgreans... never ends huh

  • @hbu8012
    @hbu8012 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Singapore has an Indian president.

  • @omoplata10
    @omoplata10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a local i think you have to be stacked to stay in SG. Thats the only downside to this country. A basic meal was $5, 3/4years ago now its at least $10 to afford a basic meal. Around $250 a week for groceries which is crazy to the point people have a hard time to decide should i cook or just eat out? White, black or asian it doesn't really matter, we can co-exist.

  • @candiceluo9029
    @candiceluo9029 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    While it's heartening to hear sharings like these as someone from Singapore, I wonder whether people have questioned the migration policy and why the black community is so small here to begin with. Speaking from my experience, my MBA school has a campus in Singapore, and during my school time there were multiple black schoolmates whose student visa applications were rejected outright. Hence they were unable to even come into the country and had to make alternative campus choices. I'm speaking about a prestigious school with highly qualified individuals, and they were not even coming for employment. To my knowledge most of them were from the African continent, while the few that had visas granted were citizens of places like the US. The visa rejections only happened to this particular group of people.
    While I do not know whether this was one-off or common, and whether our government had considerations other than race, I'm just throwing in my perspective for some food for thought. It is possible that racism may be multi-faceted and may even be institutionalized right at the start. You do not see it because you might not have even been given a chance to.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      agree. thanks for the first hand example.

  • @blesseddc5093
    @blesseddc5093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Although Singaporeans come from different races,they are mostly Asian so its different from America

    • @dzus
      @dzus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're implying being Asian means we're more alike, hence easier to assimilate, and you cannot be more wrong. In the US, there are maybe only 2 major languages : English and Spanish. In Asia, we have thousands of language, wide varied skin tones, and a million different cultures. The truth is: it's so much easier to be racially harmonious in the US, because they are much more similar than you think. The only reason why it's not: white people

  • @annietoh3857
    @annietoh3857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey❤
    Sporean here. Racism is everywhere in all countries. Is just the extent…
    We have grown up with different races from primary/elementary school. We have racist jokes… among ourselves. Laugh n just continue…
    ❤😂❤😂

  • @cLU_007
    @cLU_007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Singapore is a multi-racial country, society. We embrace each other culture, religion. Cheers..

  • @hishamsuhaimi2750
    @hishamsuhaimi2750 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dad his skin are black my mom her skin are white peach so, my skin are mix im a malay so i half black, half white mix it become brown, in singapore color dont metter, behavior and attitude is...

  • @spencerl444
    @spencerl444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    是的,我只是在看你的肤色,黑得发亮,见得少,感觉新奇而已,并没有其他意思。就像我看同伴有时候脸色不好,就说你脸怎么那么黄

    • @wangtianba
      @wangtianba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      你歧视我长的黄?

    • @spencerl444
      @spencerl444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wangtianba 如果这样说话那没法聊天了

  • @bummers
    @bummers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In Singapore, some would say that we don't care (bochap) about most things and that we should be more PASSIONATE about things. I like to think that Singaporeans care and do have our likes and dislikes, it's just that we rarely impose them on others.
    So even if I don't like someone smoking, it's not my problem that you want to smoke your way to lung cancer, as long as you don't blow smoke in my face. Just as I can fart all I want in the privacy of my home, I don't fart in the face of friends or strangers even if I sometimes wish to do that.
    One thing though. Christians in Singapore can sometimes be one type (Singlish activated!). I say Christians and not evangelist or extremist because, let's be honest about it. They are Christians. And even moderate Christians will try to convert you if they get a chance. The only thing stopping them is their fear of repercussion, they are too kiasu or kiasee to try proselytizing.
    Other than that, Singapore is a pretty comfy place to live in. Enjoy.

    • @mamamememoo
      @mamamememoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s not true. I mean I would count myself as a moderate Christian and I don’t go around converting others. I share if someone asks me about it, otherwise I respect that faith is a very personal journey you cannot force on anyone. In fact, sometimes the best way to share is to just live the life of unconditional love and amazing grace that Christ offers us. No need to force people or trick people to listening to you evangelise. I don’t agree with Christians forcing Christian belief and agenda on others. Singapore is a multi religious country. Having said that though, there is a tendency to be very anti Christian these days thanks to a couple of black sheep who overstep their personal boundaries to try to override everyone else. I apologise for those folks and I hope everyone understands not all of us share their perspective.

  • @blazinbeat
    @blazinbeat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There are racisms in Singapore but not that much most are very open and accepting.
    Growing up we encountered lot of racists jokes and actions which we took it lightly as kids but when grew up, some people actually became very sensitive to those. Some even use the sensitivity of minority race to stir emotions in certain Facebook groups to get recognition.
    That will probably further divide the races again.

    • @Danderman888
      @Danderman888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You hit the nail on the head!
      When ministers Shanmugam and Lawrence Wong said what they said, I was very taken aback, that they would stereotype a whole race based on several unrelated and isolated incidences that were deliberately posted on social media.
      What made it worse was when this sentiment and narrative was echoed and ratified by so many others of different races, even close friends.
      I have, for a long time, been very proud of this lack of racial biases in Singapire,, but realised this condition sits on a precarious knife edge, which can be unbalanced with the slightest of badly chosen rhetorics, let alone one made from a prominent leader in our society.
      I do hope we learn to appreciate our homogenous mentality and realise, we still need to put in the intentional effort not to rock that boat despite that fact.

    • @simonsimon2888
      @simonsimon2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How many racial riots have you seen? Only the Chinese educated are overly sensitive of their Mandarin language. Do you think they will sing Singapore's national anthem, 'Majulah Singapura?'

    • @Danderman888
      @Danderman888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@simonsimon2888 2! I am not pure Chinese, but I was in both English and Chinese education system.
      How many racial riots have you experienced?

    • @simonsimon2888
      @simonsimon2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, the English educated of multi-racial students DID NOT take part in any of the racial riots. Today, at 75, i could still feel the 'racial rift and shift' since a young boy growing up in a kampong, Kebun Limau. For better or worst, will i live long enough to see 'the Singapore's Dream' of fervent hope....for i am the descendant of the migrant stock(stork). P/S: First language, English and Second language, Malay.

  • @tanchye1720
    @tanchye1720 ปีที่แล้ว

    To me it’s a cultural shock 😳 when a black person telling me that they are discriminated in their own country, America.

    • @briopalumpus8676
      @briopalumpus8676 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅😅. They feel American outside of America.

  • @OhWowInteresting
    @OhWowInteresting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Singapore is the best country in the world

  • @housesg5981
    @housesg5981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:07 if you noticed, there are two people talking

  • @harrychen574
    @harrychen574 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a good thing, especially when you are not tuned into the actual frequency the folks here mutter with each other..........but I'll urge you to think carefully before you swallow that red pill.

  • @lightinyourface6847
    @lightinyourface6847 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You want the truth? Most Singaporeans (minority and majority) know how things are actually like here. We just keep these controversial matters to ourselves and only share them with people we're close too.
    All I'll say is this (and I'll try to be cautious with my words for reasons I will not mention), in my opinion, our society and culture place a reasonable amount of emphasis on us not to behave in a manner which may incite public distress. So even if some of us think a certain way, we'll try our best not to get in conflict or unnecessary trouble. Perhaps, that contributes to why most of the minority feel comfortable here.
    Unless you think you foreigner dua sai satki can come here do whatever you want.
    ...ahem...
    That and yea... most of us are pretty chill, we don't really care about race and stuff, all we care about is our annual bonuses, good grades in school and vacations. However if we don't have those then....

    • @MrBigR928
      @MrBigR928 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then what? Let the racial slurs begin?🤣

    • @MrBigR928
      @MrBigR928 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm listening to her but good Lord she is beautiful 🥰

    • @thomaslee6060
      @thomaslee6060 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is absolutely true ! The racist Singaporeans are aware they should not look like racists. So they know how to behave to hide their racism. But you will see the racism if you try to integrate a group of locals sharing the same passion with you. Then, you will see you are not welcome. You will see they don’t want a stain on their group.
      Actually, black people are tolerated as long as they are not too visible, not to flamboyant, not to… better in anything except for black stuff. They are tolerated as long as they stay at the back of the room. If you try to be in front row, then you will see the hate.

  • @tommyleung3514
    @tommyleung3514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Singapore achieved truely multi-cultureism is highly remarkable achievement of human kind, and the world should learn from it.

    • @fungames24
      @fungames24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like people of singapore lack modesty. Perhaps they can learn that from the rest of the world.

    • @tommyleung3514
      @tommyleung3514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@fungames24 perhap you first to learn.

    • @fungames24
      @fungames24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tommyleung3514 When adults praise a child. Often it's done out of kindness and not because the child is particularly remarkable. But the child doesn't know that and think it is special in some way. Singapore, like other tiddler countries often receive praise from large countries for the same reason. People should not let that go to their head because that would be unmodest. I am not trying to pierce your pride. Just that everything is better in moderation.

    • @tommyleung3514
      @tommyleung3514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@fungames24 where are you from ? I am not a Singaporean.

    • @fungames24
      @fungames24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tommyleung3514 The issue is relevant even to people not from Singapore. They should avoid being taken in by people whose perspectives that might be operating on a smaller scale. For instance should an elephant take advise from an ant? How does the ant work out what life is like for the elephant to be able to offer a safe and appropriate advise?

  • @ThePinkpaws7
    @ThePinkpaws7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    18:45 -20:00 is she saying portraying poor Black people and their experiences in the media is a negative thing? Black people come from a variety of socioeconomic backgrounds and do wonderful things in this world regardless of whether they are not middle class or wealthy . Would’ve loved more clarity.

  • @ninal8128
    @ninal8128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bravo

  • @elieeieiee
    @elieeieiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Singapore is too pragmatic to see race. It's more about what you can contribute to society and your social status.

  • @EyumaLin
    @EyumaLin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i don't think ignorance is the issue with the topic of racism, its tactlessness, ignorance is just an excuse imo, I'm Chinese i don't bring up skin tone like how i don't bring up the color of my urine, both discussions are vastly different but both discussions goes the same direction. downwards.

  • @matthewmann8969
    @matthewmann8969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Usually Desis get it the worse.

  • @WorriorXD
    @WorriorXD ปีที่แล้ว

    YASSSS I'M GLAD I WANNA GO GO SINGAPORE! I HAVE A RELATIVE THERE, I CAN BE BLACK AND LIVE IN A DOPE CITY!!🤩

    • @annietoh3857
      @annietoh3857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DOPE city? Yes u can try dopes and go to jail! Spore jail food?? Curry chicken?

  • @verycursedplane6557
    @verycursedplane6557 ปีที่แล้ว

    And yes if anyone tries to be racist we will throw them in jail

  • @m.y.7097
    @m.y.7097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There were reasons for Malcolm X. and MLK to be eliminated in a certain country.

  • @JudgeDredd_
    @JudgeDredd_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What Mr. Q Butho said was so deep that I’m afraid it might go over so many heads. He’s 100% spot on.
    Now that being said, I’m going to Popeyes to grab some chicken as I dream about getting out of the US

    • @MrJoe2go
      @MrJoe2go 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts bruh

  • @MegaUrzo
    @MegaUrzo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That girl is so hot

  • @Wongwanchungwongjumbo
    @Wongwanchungwongjumbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All African Nations Airlines such as Air Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, Kenya Airways 🇰🇪, Ethiopian Airlines 🇪🇹 and South African Airways Can Start Flights ✈️ to Singapore ✈️ 🇸🇬

  • @babyboop2878
    @babyboop2878 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm thinking of moving to Singapore
    So I'm doing research

    • @lightinyourface6847
      @lightinyourface6847 ปีที่แล้ว

      If ya rich, you can stop researching and migrate here asap lol.

    • @victimofpsychiatry
      @victimofpsychiatry ปีที่แล้ว

      Try travelling here for a few weeks/ months visit first. See if you like the weather and other stuff like a test drive/ sampling first 😄 I am a Singaporean and did the same with Korea, I just stayed there a few months to see how its like over there.

    • @lightinyourface6847
      @lightinyourface6847 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victimofpsychiatry gam sia ha mi da

    • @victimofpsychiatry
      @victimofpsychiatry ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lightinyourface6847 😂 you must be an sgag fan 😂

  • @biblicalanswers5535
    @biblicalanswers5535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's really struggling not to look at your chest. Why do women think men can be genuine friends with them, especially when they're in revealing clothes?
    Dress Properly!.

    • @victimofpsychiatry
      @victimofpsychiatry ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don’t use the bible as your user name then go be so critical of others like this 🤦🏻‍♀️ Even God teaches us to speak with gentleness, grace and tact.

    • @pila1280
      @pila1280 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's not bothered by him looking. He's not bothered by her showing. Why do you care?

    • @LostwithKash
      @LostwithKash 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She can dress however she wants to the way a person dresses is not affecting you in any way. And how is it her fault if he’s ‘struggling’ to look at her chest area ? I know damn well he didn’t tell you that and it’s insane for you to even come to that conclusion when you don’t even know him. You have no right to blame her for another persons intentions because she has no control over that. She can wear what she wants and u are in no position to judge her for it

  • @timothyvunvun
    @timothyvunvun 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's all in the education.

  • @ppppyyyy1964
    @ppppyyyy1964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Most of the aisan countries are the same as Singapore isn't it?

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      true. most asian countries are like this. hope people can travel and live in asia for some time to feel and enjoy that.

    • @luckybrave2035
      @luckybrave2035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No, Japanese and Koreans are the most racist groups of people in the world,

    • @jimw8615
      @jimw8615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky Brave true

    • @nmrm7838
      @nmrm7838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@fasionstopper excluding Japan and south Korea

    • @TL-fe9si
      @TL-fe9si 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nmrm7838 perhaps SK and Japan took too much western influence, media, movies, etc... Honestly, I do feel China is starting to have this issue as well...

  • @MrBigR928
    @MrBigR928 ปีที่แล้ว

    America won't let it go🙄

  • @kore4884
    @kore4884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some of our policies need to be revised these days to better step up on our racial harmony. Policy for free education or special privilege for a particular race should be done as our society is no longer the years before. This privilege should cover ANY citizen IN NEED and not of any particular race. Dear Ministers, the privilege itself is racism.

    • @altoncoolthings
      @altoncoolthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please rephrase your comment.
      You use should instead of shouldn't. Some people will misinterpret that.
      Also, maybe I am just ignorant, but I don't really know what free education privilege a certain race has that others don't. Could you explain further?

  • @georgeboniface-r9e
    @georgeboniface-r9e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need a host in singapore

  • @A_Poet_In_Zion
    @A_Poet_In_Zion ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to come to singapore but I have no place to stay😂😂somebody help me

  • @imjohn8843
    @imjohn8843 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lets be clear singapore has a racist side to it. We make jokes about other races but thats where it stops. Theres No hate between each other just because they are from a different race or skin colour. Thats one difference between singapore and other countries

  • @Weathering123
    @Weathering123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it being raciest is a crime in Singapore

  • @DrDionPresents
    @DrDionPresents ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey just moved to Singapore. Are you still living here? If so do you know of any networking groups I can get with.
    Thanks for the video. Really enjoyed it!

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi very glad that you moved to Singapore and hope you will enjoy your life here. I am not really a social guy so wont help you much, but I am thinking you may drop by Mr Q's shop at Tanjong Pagar and speak to him to find out (do not forget to tell him that you watched his videos on youtube and you are a big fan of him). You can find the location/contact of the shop here: theprefecture.com/pages/about-us (and it might be a good idea to drop him an email or a phone call first)
      th-cam.com/video/UX9wxdLVU4M/w-d-xo.html

    • @DrDionPresents
      @DrDionPresents ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fasionstopper Thanks so much for the prompt response. I really appreciate you my brother. Take care, stay blessed and much continued success..

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DrDionPresents all the best man.

  • @user-nm9uo5eo8p
    @user-nm9uo5eo8p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    .

  • @namehere4721
    @namehere4721 ปีที่แล้ว

    So you give people a pass over there for things associated with human nature? But not here in the USA?

    • @lightinyourface6847
      @lightinyourface6847 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, we weren't the ones that took them from their homes and got them to pick cotton and tobacco lol. Maybe that's why they are a little more forbearing with us. Just guessing.

    • @vertigo2894
      @vertigo2894 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lightinyourface6847 I know right! Also, the racism in the west is political and sinister. Even if a Singaporean may say something racist, it's on almost all cases not an ideology. Where are the racist political parties in Singapore? Where is the Singaporean KKK? Nowhere lol!

  • @Mr-Wisdomthief
    @Mr-Wisdomthief 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    if u know any of us Singaporean people, we have a multiracial culture, we mix freely, interracial / intercultural marriage is normal and we identify ourselves as Singaporeans first.

    • @Iendleasereit
      @Iendleasereit 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      we started as a trading port, and we are still a modern trading port. that's why we have a mix of races. it's also what brought and is still bringing us prosperity.

  • @chersixjg
    @chersixjg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cause they were chinese you know

  • @cuibin1636
    @cuibin1636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    成为迈克尔杰克逊,乔丹,科比那样的明星才不会被歧视,在哪儿都有,只不过亚洲没那么严重,我在中国街头看到美女和黑人一起和美女和白人在一起的感觉是不一样的,这就是下意识

    • @什么样子世界
      @什么样子世界 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      詹姆斯都说作为黑人都被歧视。。那些歧视黑人的人才不怪你是不是很牛逼。。你以为是上海人嫌弃穷地方来的人那样么?从你怎么说就知道 你根本不懂西方那种种族歧视是什么

    • @audenchu6558
      @audenchu6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@什么样子世界 中国是真的得防止 这种种族主义的政治正确扩散。 国内有些人被带歪拿西方那一套说,还敢大言不愧的说中国女生不和黑人开房是种族歧视。这些必须清楚

    • @奮鬥
      @奮鬥 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@audenchu6558 哈哈

    • @什么样子世界
      @什么样子世界 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@audenchu6558 你先照照镜子

    • @audenchu6558
      @audenchu6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@什么样子世界 不需要 核弹头 的威力 会教你真理

  • @gypseeman
    @gypseeman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Singapore is not ready for a non chinese prime minister m. Majority of sg ordinary citizens are non racist…

  • @tayara339
    @tayara339 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @edwinpoon
    @edwinpoon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The West never got over their angst of losing the privilege of owning slaves. And that is why race is divisive there.

  • @jonaskum5638
    @jonaskum5638 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What kind of jobs are there for people like us welders, that is all am interested of thank you

    • @playtime6909
      @playtime6909 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trade jobs in Singapore are unfortunately not paid well.

  • @ongcho3697
    @ongcho3697 ปีที่แล้ว

    WE WUZZ KANGZ N SHIEET!!

  • @marktn9851
    @marktn9851 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hv to say that SGP is a great place to stay until one experiences the clutters lying around most HDBs corridors n stairwells. Is there a different fire safety standards for condos n HDBs? How can one uses the railings for self-support or emergency when so many large plants n its supporting structures to raise plants higher r setup which can be burning or blocking corridors? Who is paid n tasked to do all this but shaking legs in aircon offices?

  • @TableTennis-Man
    @TableTennis-Man 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    not the same anymore....since COVID start.

  • @marukchozt6744
    @marukchozt6744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Morgan Freeman was right all along. It's not like people are actually visibly the same, but just stop talking about it does wonders to human psychy.

  • @kirkbt3475
    @kirkbt3475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because asia didnt enslave Africans

    • @chalgoode6449
      @chalgoode6449 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂 ***Middle Easterners just entered the chat***

  • @jamilatanbinselamathardajo2626
    @jamilatanbinselamathardajo2626 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very fake conversation by some here....

  • @marcedwards6058
    @marcedwards6058 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can give me information to were I can find lodging in Singapore? ASAP I am trying to leave Thailand right away please help me sir!

  • @geralddorasamy-gt6yn
    @geralddorasamy-gt6yn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alot of talk & no workshop 🙄

  • @suchstupidass1
    @suchstupidass1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hello, my generation got no such sensitively shit. We grew up and give each other so much hard time but we laughed about it and continued to be friends. There was never any hard feelings. Life was great until American came to Singapore and every bloody words are racists just because their country is truly racists.

    • @cvpiguy
      @cvpiguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did the Americans do though

  • @Nathangoh12345
    @Nathangoh12345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Singaporean here
    Honestly, as long as you aren’t rude, we really don’t discriminate. Media wise, publish your opinions freely as long as it is fact or does not harm anyone we are as free of a country as it gets (except bubblegum😂 but that’s fine)

    • @Iendleasereit
      @Iendleasereit 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      well said. . especially about the media. i myself dont subscribe to free speech if it harms others

  • @TableTennis-Man
    @TableTennis-Man 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    not the same anymore....since COVID start.

  • @aagmsw9799
    @aagmsw9799 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Hi, I'm a Singaporean student who has lived in Singapore all her life. It is true that the black community in SG is very small, I think I've only ever seen five black people at the very most? I'm so glad that the people in the video have had positive experiences here

    • @Afropodcaxt
      @Afropodcaxt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi , can I talk to u in ur dm

    • @padmoretandoh5597
      @padmoretandoh5597 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m also from Ghana. Can we be friends so we can learn each other culture and I’m planing on visiting there

  • @jstasiak2262
    @jstasiak2262 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    It is important to know and understand that the founding fathers of Singapore (Lee Kuan Yew, Goh Kang Swee, and many others) took race relations extremely seriously. They knew that if they tolerated segregation by race, Singapore could not survive. They made great efforts to ensure that all races were treated equally in Singapore society and that segregation in housing and in the workplace did not occur. HDB flats were not allowed to be racially homogenous. English, which was not the native tongue for any native Singaporean, was made the official working language. Everyone was required to learn English. Also, the Singaporean government made great effort to eradicate “third world behavior:” Public urination and defecation, spitting, gum chewing, jaywalking, recreational drug use, gambling and other vices were outlawed and violators were punished, sometimes severely. Sloth was not tolerated.
    So the apparent lack of institutional racism in Singapore is the result of sustained government effort. The harsh measures used by the Singaporean government to control the race problem would never be tolerated in the United States or most European countries.

    • @yeolblt
      @yeolblt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing these important facts with everyone 😊

    • @ongsl2992
      @ongsl2992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love my government, especially Mr Lee Kuan Yew....❤

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The reason your founding fathers created it because they were aware of racism when they were in Malaysia to promote equal rights for all races and Mr Lee was kicked out from Malaysia for that reason as Malaysia favor the Malay superiority over other ethnic ...this black people want to complain about Singapore where they need to live in Malaysia....Singaporean is so fortunate to have a leader Mr Lee Kuan Yew who really care about his people in term of everyone should have to contribute to some of their savings for their housing, and medical for them when is it needed and not a burden for them. that is why in Singapore is very rare to see homeless people living on the streets....Hopefully Singaporean will have Mr Lee Kuan Yew in their history what his intention and well plan for his people and have their young generation to appreciate the beauty of Singapore where so many leaders around the world spoke highly about Mr Lee Kuan Yew achievements...

    • @Anon-cv7ru
      @Anon-cv7ru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, agreed. Strong anti-hate anti-discrimination laws plays a big part to remind people to be tolerant even if you are not accepting, and of course some of the pre-dominant racist ideology or actions in overseas will never be tolerated here in Singapore.

    • @FuLengLives
      @FuLengLives 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​​@@Anon-cv7ru punishment via the Law only stops bad behaviour, momentarily.
      Its decades of enforced racial intergration and making people view multicultralism as a positive and neccessary experience that has helped Singapore achieve multiracial harmony.
      You cannot punish your way to good behavior.
      The divisiveness in the U.S., its DEI policies and wokeness is anathema to Singaporean society and has been rejected by our former PM as not being helpful.

  • @macfurrywong8108
    @macfurrywong8108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As glad as i am to hear most of these black folks that came here that didn't experience racism or prejudice against them.
    I like to point out that i do believe that racism still do exist here, but its just not as violent. But there are very sly and snarky remarks being thrown around that are openly racist at times. Especially chinese vs malays.
    I just believe that racism exists literally everywhere and not just in America, its just the culture in America as a whole like guns being a thing there makes the situation much more prominent than it has to be.
    Actually the more impt point to be made here is that it's less of a racial problem and more of a cultural problem. People arent exactly racist, they don't hate the skin color, they just don't behave the same culturally if that makes sense.
    Here's a good example, Chinese people in Singapore really dislikes Chinese people from China and always distinguish themselves very differently from China people. And funny enough it's not just Chinese people here that feels that way.

    • @annietoh3857
      @annietoh3857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ethnicity is Chinese.
      Citizenship is Spore.
      Yes I prefer to b known as Spore Chinese. IT irritates Chinese fr China
      But is abt perspective. We r culturally different from them, upbringing etc.
      I often explain to my China Chinese friends- they themselves are divided into where they r from- Shanghai, Beijing etc as their ID is different from those rural areas.
      Then they 🛑 stop politely to insist all Chinese are the same. If they can accept their own pple, then come and tell me what I should classify myself.
      No double standards pls.
      Is BS.

  • @mahandranparamasivam73
    @mahandranparamasivam73 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Brothers and sisters do think there is no rasism in Singapore think again

    • @yw3178
      @yw3178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Racism exists every part of the world but in Singapore, it's the most toned down. There is bound to have a few black sheeps.

  • @May-cz2uo
    @May-cz2uo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All of us are racists in one way or the other. It happens to everybody. So stop hyphing the fact that racism is only reserved for the blacks. In fact, even in Africa, there is also racism amongst their own kind. Period.

  • @billycaymann
    @billycaymann 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Agree alot on when you are majority. You have to be more sensitive. Hope this would be more in malaysia. Apparently the country is majority a certain race, and yet untouchable unspeakable on anything. Super super sensitive on anything racial related. 😂

  • @Yippeedee
    @Yippeedee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m happy to hear that African Americans feel good being here or have not experienced racism in Singapore. Great that you can be who you want to be and not to have to deal with discrimination by white folks and also the social pressures by the black community to talk or behave in a supposed manner.

  • @user-xb4pv6ij7l
    @user-xb4pv6ij7l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I have travelled in Singapore for several days. It’s a multiracial country. most people i meet were very nice and friendly, wether locals or tourists, including all Indians and most west and Chinese tourists I met. It’s just a few times that I didn’t feel welcome, they all were Chinese Singaporean. Especially a waitress who served me at a restaurant with a very good view at the airport made me feel disrespected.

    • @fasionstopper
      @fasionstopper  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      many thanks for the first hand experience. i think Singaporeans should take credits when it is a praise, and also be able to take a lesson when it is a criticism. no person is perfect and we all should get away from prejudicing others, and continuously make a better version of ourselves.
      Hope your few incidences with are largely random / statistical (well statistically you got 75% chance to bump into an ethnic Chinese in Singapore). In my experience, in general Indian, Chinese and Malay are very nice groups of people, no matter which countries they are from.

    • @myoung1970s
      @myoung1970s ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Are u sure it's a Singaporean? There are actually very few Singaporeans working as waitress/waiter. Mostly are foreigners working in restaurant and other service industry.

    • @lightinyourface6847
      @lightinyourface6847 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Waitress malaysian la dey. Haha.

    • @CC-dx6bc
      @CC-dx6bc ปีที่แล้ว +12

      From China or Vietnam or Malaysia

    • @BlurDucky
      @BlurDucky 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@fasionstopperi m chinese singaporean . even i myself am scared of such waitress, my son got scolded and cried😢 they r not singaporean tho😅