Talking About Your Feelings Too Soon Turns Women Off

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  • @theevolutionofthebear3093
    @theevolutionofthebear3093 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I was with a chick similar to this before I found the coach.
    Some women think they are some sort of healer/shaman when they are really just loopy nut cases.

    • @chrisw8838
      @chrisw8838 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha oh man I've got a tonne of chicks like that in my past. They do actually use words like shaman etc. They're all on facef*ck literally complaining about dating apps. Saw a post just yesterday. Stay away from hippie chicks, honestly you think they're chill because of what they're smoking etc and how they are all over the place and unstructured. That rapidly changes they become controlling and the opposite of what they previously were. Basically the hippie thing is an act and an excuse to be a waster and loose. It will not end well. You've been warned. Best of luck ladies and gentlemen.

  • @bernss92
    @bernss92 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Im on 22 times and happily married. I have been following Corey since 2016

    • @yassinnafty7593
      @yassinnafty7593 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🫡🫡

    • @devod123
      @devod123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Also 2016 here, 40+ times and doing the work to vet properly to get where you’re at my man.

    • @ClashOfClans252
      @ClashOfClans252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratz man🥹🥹

    • @bernss92
      @bernss92 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He knows what he is talking about

    • @epycedits
      @epycedits หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're married in the US? 🙅🏻🤦🏻

  • @Sgtgee
    @Sgtgee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    No matter how many times a woman will ask and say….”say how you feel”, what they’re really asking is just communication, not literally how you feel feel. They get repulsed by that when you blaaaaaaahhhh out your feelings.

    • @Eli-ue7cs
      @Eli-ue7cs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or they are testing you to see if you’re weak.

  • @thewindcriesdre
    @thewindcriesdre 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Coach is right. Even for me as a lesbian, women do not respond well when you spill your feelings all over them. I just keep that shit to myself or call my friends lol

    • @tristankerr3655
      @tristankerr3655 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because women in general lack empathy. Men are much more empathic

    • @AndrewAung1992
      @AndrewAung1992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tristankerr3655 Empathy is female trait not a male trait.

    • @CaptainAngelo
      @CaptainAngelo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AndrewAung1992 actually, men and women both can have empathy, it’s not something that strictly an emotional property of a female, however! Men need to know if they are empathetic, and they absolutely, positively need to know how to wield that sword and not cut themselves to ribbons, it can be done! I’m actually an empath, and I use it as a gift, I can feel what other people are feeling, especially women, but I had to learn over a number of years had to wheeled that sword and not allow it to come out, I keep that shit inside. And I use my empathetic trait to simply and clearly see red flags before they even go up the pole, it can be used for good, but you have to be a man about it, and you have to train yourself to shut it off, glad I learned that ability.

    • @AndrewAung1992
      @AndrewAung1992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CaptainAngelo 😂😂😂

    • @CaptainAngelo
      @CaptainAngelo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AndrewAung1992 laugh away, but I’ve used it like a weapon my friend, I get a lot of dates and I can worm into somebody’s brain pretty easily, lol it’s not all about boo-hoo over Simon birch, lol or the end of Rudy! Plus, my divorce, completely numbed, almost all of my emotions, so it’s easy to work with. But when you’re an empath, you can feel what somebody’s feeling. I know if a woman’s interested or not just by the energy, I’m never wrong, just have to use it and know what you’re doing with it.

  • @samymatianu8399
    @samymatianu8399 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    9:30
    Bro I replayed this segment about 7 8 times and I laughed every time. Corey you're the man!

    • @akanicolerocks711
      @akanicolerocks711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yeah that was a good line lol

    • @darkchaotix2007
      @darkchaotix2007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro the sound effect was too good.

    • @gmindset33
      @gmindset33 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Corey's comedy skills has defo evolved through years

  • @LukezyM
    @LukezyM 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Frankly, this material should be taught in schools. It would improve our lives massively.
    Praises to you Coach.

  • @obsessorforever6617
    @obsessorforever6617 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I was at a hotel that had rented out two whole floors for some event once. I had no idea what that was but saw some of the characters coming in. I started snooping around and it ended up being some eyes wide shut kinda thing with people in every room on those floors either fucking with the door open, naked dance parties or would just be hanging out in a room naked or close enough to it and they'd sell weed and sex toys. EVERY person was hauntingly unattractive. Most of them fairly old too. There was no young 20 somethings in there. Whatever you think these events are, they're a disgusting romp through hell. Maybe somewhere there is something that looks like the movies but I sure as hell wasn't at one.

    • @germanboi3339
      @germanboi3339 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Demonic

    • @carlrav5660
      @carlrav5660 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I noticed that too when I ran into a swingers group. All were fat and nasty except for 1 chic that probably was railed harder then an Amtrak train

  • @westcountrywarzone8064
    @westcountrywarzone8064 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Wow this guy displayed some disgusting behaviour, proclaiming his love for her after such a short period of time. He shouldn't have even gone on that trip. Can't believe he's read the book 5 times, maybe he read the first page 5 times ? No wonder she was turned off. Ironically, she doesn't even sound like a good catch anyway with all her rules and hoops to jump through. Life's way too short to be dealing with structured BS like that. Hope he learns from this.

  • @davidbeilstein3977
    @davidbeilstein3977 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The reference to Corey's book being a frisbee being skipped on the water made me yuk, yuk, yuk! Hilarious! Hahhaha!

  • @siegfriedo
    @siegfriedo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was LOLing all throughout the video, coach's sketches aleays crack me up, here especially the constant vomiting. 😂

  • @Exiecutioner
    @Exiecutioner 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    guys listen to this man he has it figured out with women take it from me this topic and every other topic are 100% true.

  • @johndingo7527
    @johndingo7527 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I said I was scared of developing feelings and that was enough to scare her away. Totally blindsided me.

  • @modernhipster
    @modernhipster 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Dude dodged a bullet. Sounded like that retreat was a cult or love-in.

    • @siegfriedo
      @siegfriedo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

  • @cynthiabauer5763
    @cynthiabauer5763 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this thing about tracking words and later out of nowhere checking you on what you previously said remind me of covert narcissists... they seem to want to connect with you wanting to know everything about you, but it's only to better manipulate you... a person who loves you wouldn't keep you on watch 24/7, eventually you'll feel anxious about being with the narc, being afraid of speaking etc

    • @AndrewAung1992
      @AndrewAung1992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nothing wrong with being a good listener. However when it comes to tracking and keeping you on watch 24/7, an example of this is a man checking a woman's phone.

  • @mavrk.d
    @mavrk.d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    That’s a diddy party

  • @lapatria100
    @lapatria100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I dont think this is such a bad thing, objectively speaking. This will have been a great learning experience for him, especially since he took the time to email you and break down what he went through. He was analytical about it and probably got most out of your book thru this experience. Most people don't learn math by simply watching or reading material. They have to apply it and go through the motions: make errors, reflect, reattempt .... In order to really learn the material. This whole video could also be reframed as a positive experience, imo. Great video regardless.

  • @nickg1789
    @nickg1789 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It put me off as soon as he said new age, life coach😬 That would make me run a mile

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I am so lucky to have you! I am pouring love into you! lololol
    I can totally hear a girl saying that

  • @motorcycleguy73
    @motorcycleguy73 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't ever. I mean, ever, show weakness to a woman She wanted him to go with her and invited him because she didn't want to show up alone. That's all

  • @ipartyitravel8249
    @ipartyitravel8249 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Had to Learned the hard truth

  • @aquilesfuentes5978
    @aquilesfuentes5978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man, I feel like we just live in a time we have to do is too much you can’t say this you can’t do that or you have to keep a masculine frame but once you show emotion or whatever it’s a done deal work that you have to put in is too much in this generation

  • @kenetik13
    @kenetik13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m as open minded as they come.. but even this made me cringe 😆 L in the chat for another lost soldier boys

  • @YoMomma-v8b
    @YoMomma-v8b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When a woman says "you must really like me." I cannot confirm nor deny that 😏

  • @brianbondy5667
    @brianbondy5667 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Got a first date tonight and I know I am gettin some..... Thanks Coach!

  • @5ftntraveling
    @5ftntraveling 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Corey, I doubt your address this comment but it’s worth a shot. My girlfriend just got scammed for 10000s of dollars they even opened a credit card up and now she has to pay off the debit. She told me off the bat that she’s is a bad communicator when bad things happen to her. We talk once a week (since the incident) and I always try and make her smile and be light and playful the whole time just like you say. I know because I’ve read your book to look for someone else if your partner is a bad communicator and I might if this continues but everything else has been green flag except this and honesty, I do understand it’s a terrible situation that would make any person be depressed and sad. Would love some help. Love your content and have read the book 10 to 15 times and still listen to it once a month.

    • @LukezyM
      @LukezyM 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t throw it away just yet. If it’s true, it really is a depressing situation. Everyone would be bitter after that. Give her some time to recover, be light and calm, try to stay away from talking about feelings and rather just take her somewhere, do something, distract.

    • @5ftntraveling
      @5ftntraveling 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks I appreciate the comment. I have been doing just that. I let her come to me and try my best to be her peace. I understand it’s a terrible situation and I’m doing my best to consider how trying and terrible it is for her even though I am being avoided in the process. I’m hoping things go back to normal soon as for now all I can do is try and make her smile when she does reach out. Thanks again brother 🤙. Good community’s are hard to find glad I have one here

  • @Mac_Kymera
    @Mac_Kymera 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Surely the title should be common sense to all men

    • @LukezyM
      @LukezyM 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s not that obvious in this new age.

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Hello, I love you, Won't you tell me your name... " 😮🎉😂

    • @Leto1988
      @Leto1988 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hello, The Doors fan.

    • @makaveli1216
      @makaveli1216 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But when Jim said it, they got wet instantly

  • @devod123
    @devod123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sounds like the type of girl that posts a viral ig reel complaining about men with a host of guys commenting validating her poor life choices and also doesn’t know what she emotionally responds to.

  • @herhe1864
    @herhe1864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    First! 18 times read the book also!

  • @richardmcgowan460
    @richardmcgowan460 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Or not tell women at all unless they really wanna know.

  • @nova12332
    @nova12332 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your book it's a Frisbee bro! 😂

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wut

    • @nova12332
      @nova12332 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ghostccc8089 did u not watch the video..

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nova12332I’ve read his book 15+ times and have watched all of his videos. It completely changed my dating life, it’s mostly the red pill woman hating community that denies Cory’s work.

  • @muneer10111
    @muneer10111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    9:35 how did you make the sound 😂😂😂😂

  • @howtosnatch
    @howtosnatch 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This exact same situation happened to me but only two weeks long. I can't imagine how ten weeks must feel like, a lifetime. Dating these chicks is like doing cocaine. They're the craziest available and you have to be in your most masculine or you'll lose them. They belong to the streets.

    • @aquilesfuentes5978
      @aquilesfuentes5978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, it’s funny that you say that because I went through the same situation, we were going to know each other talking on the phone, FaceTime, etc. then I noticed that wasn’t there so I didn’t say anything. She immediately text me the next day saying that why didn’t text her and I told her how I felt about a couple more days, I was feeling meh and that changed everything

    • @howtosnatch
      @howtosnatch 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aquilesfuentes5978 Asking her for an in-person hangout would have been the right thing to do. She was craving your physical touch!

  • @NeroScudLim
    @NeroScudLim 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coach is secretly a beatboxer

  • @alexanderdice8801
    @alexanderdice8801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recommend to everybody to make a mind map

  • @CherryCokeNixon
    @CherryCokeNixon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Viewer forgot rule number one: what women say and what they do/want are not the same.

  • @MTkr19
    @MTkr19 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:10 lmao

  • @BillyT531
    @BillyT531 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Northern Commiefornia workshop.

  • @CoolBreeze1128
    @CoolBreeze1128 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I the only one who actually misses the video intro?

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She probably saw a dude who had a much bigger thingyy than the dude she was with. That’s way too soon going somewhere like that.

  • @Green89_
    @Green89_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do women actually love men

  • @Tin11rooster
    @Tin11rooster 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sounds like a fruitloop.