ENTJ in love

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  • @SaraMBTI
    @SaraMBTI  5 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    She (the point is in this particular scene, not in her movie characters type)

    • @lul7
      @lul7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I’m guessing she’s the ENTJ. What’s his type in this movie?

    • @sldpftlrm4018
      @sldpftlrm4018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amalia Hmm.. maybe.. isfj? or.. infj? it just my opinion😂

    • @virgoyogini5377
      @virgoyogini5377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lul7 he's INFJ

    • @star_ship1722
      @star_ship1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      what´s the name of the movie?

    • @alyssume7238
      @alyssume7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@star_ship1722 no strings attached

  • @carnagecookie
    @carnagecookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1341

    ENTJ in love: *a break up scene*

  • @Gamabunta24345
    @Gamabunta24345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +891

    ENTJ gets angry but they typically can hold their emotions in public.

  • @beautyroses8771
    @beautyroses8771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +802

    "Idk I'll figure it out." Classic ENTJ statement.

    • @existentialblossom
      @existentialblossom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Nah, she must have ALREADY figured out at least 874613132 possible scenarious.

    • @kayla_k619
      @kayla_k619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      true my dad (ENTJ) says this all the time lol
      --ENFJ

    • @d.9872
      @d.9872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When I say I’ll figure it out, I already have a picture in my head of what I’m about to do

    • @phoenix5054
      @phoenix5054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This sounds more ESTP, ENTP even. - ENTP

    • @meilei8716
      @meilei8716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really? That explains so much

  • @annipsy2185
    @annipsy2185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +905

    boy: I love u
    ENTJ: starts attacking
    😂

    • @cece_mich
      @cece_mich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I see this as very accurate thank you 😂

    • @learnbahasaindonesia3361
      @learnbahasaindonesia3361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Anni Psy nope. I never do that. I just thank them and tell them to love someone else who can love them back. I never hit them.

    • @mmbaha9572
      @mmbaha9572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have done the test many many times and every time shows I am an ENTJ but seeing that and your comment I am ENTJ lol , really I hate who loves me DAMN HAHAHAHA

    • @RaspberryScones
      @RaspberryScones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Learn Bahasa Indonesia The ENTJ I was seeing told me “don’t fall in love with me. I could never love anyone. So please. Don’t fall in love with me”. Too late... 😔😅

    • @ghoot
      @ghoot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funny thing I already did that lol

  • @sophiasamaniego8327
    @sophiasamaniego8327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    As an ENTJ, I understand her feelings but i don’t think attacking him like that IN PUBLIC fits

    • @gheorghitaalsunculitei9146
      @gheorghitaalsunculitei9146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      So IN PRIVATE would be ok...

    • @fatoumfatoumeh
      @fatoumfatoumeh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Agree. ENTJs hate to look like an out of control idiot. Especially in a public setting.

    • @GeneralGrindstone
      @GeneralGrindstone 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a movie. She didn't hurt him.

    • @volatileans
      @volatileans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PLS i am An ENTJ and I agree with you

    • @GeofryMasters
      @GeofryMasters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true. We do what we do when we wanna do it no matter where or when

  • @v.brikmann
    @v.brikmann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    ENTJ: Pushes.
    INTJ: Leaves planet.

  • @rokayaahmed9055
    @rokayaahmed9055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    That is very untrue. When I fall in love, which happens all of a sudden, and just crashes in me. I am the most affectionate caring person anyone will ever know to my partner, and I'm soft only to them. I will care for them, and express my love in every single way out there. I spoil them and make sure that they can't imagine how it was living before I loved them because I will make their life a hundred times better, because I will want to push them to become a better person. That is how I, an entj, falls in love.

    • @artistmind09
      @artistmind09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rokaya Ahmed same

    • @artistmind09
      @artistmind09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Erik Antonič Babnik Omg, same. I’m so close to being an enfj lol. My logic only slightly surpasses feeling. In the professional settings I’m definitely an entj but in love all logic goes out the window 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @SabrinaXe
      @SabrinaXe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Don't worry you're not alone. I've observed countless of ENTJs in my life and this is how most of them express their love. It's the dimwitted mbti community that portraits ENTJs incapable of love. People are stupid.

    • @emilypiens2355
      @emilypiens2355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@artistmind09 oh boi, thats not how it works...
      you should learn about functions and just keep in mind that even the most rational people have emotions
      don't worry it'll all make sense in the end

    • @nonniperkl6273
      @nonniperkl6273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Senne Piens
      Just before I was about to say that sadly, it seems to be so that I am the only on unable to love. At least I can force myself care about people.
      This is probably just anti-social Behavior not part of being ENTJ

  • @aidenpierce2
    @aidenpierce2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    AS an ENTJ I relate to the guy more. We are not unsure like the girl here. we know what we want and pursue it until we get it. If we can't make a person fall in love with us, we close the door, permanently.

    • @star_ship1722
      @star_ship1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly

    • @ViperCannabis
      @ViperCannabis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly, Nat Portman's portrayal here exudes more of an ESFP Fi-Ni loop, or is just basically under grips of Inf Ni... She was very uncertain of herself and her future with Ashton

    • @rekhatejpublic5973
      @rekhatejpublic5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As an ENTJs female I can't understand why do I need a man in my life but few moments later when i felt alone that time also wanted a partner like other . Ahhhhhhh I don't know what's happening with me but on the other hand i always focus towards my career expect anything else and that's the only thing that I want in my life if that makes me selfish so I am😈 but I don't why these feelings occurs in my heart ❤️ ahhhh cuz this so irritating .can you please help me cuz I want to know why me

    • @muhammadedwards8425
      @muhammadedwards8425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rekhatejpublic5973 You haven't developed your Te-Fi reality/values. You're materialist, which is the Entj stereotype, but typically developed Entj's fall out of materialism quite quick.
      As a Entj myself, my emotions listen to my values and desires spring from that. On that note, saying "I don't need a guy" is ridiculous, because if you have a family or a romantic relationship as your desire, it means you place value into the idea on some level. Entj's place great importance on their goals so decide if you want to incorporate this desire as one and stop whining if you don't
      I decided that I value religion and I want a woman that I could see as my equal in representing our values. That decision was done through having a Entj mind

    • @rekhatejpublic5973
      @rekhatejpublic5973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@muhammadedwards8425 hey thanks for replying me actually I hate drama and relationships are so dramatic so now i decided that I will focus on my career and that's the only thing I want in my life 👍 but i still loves him 💔 these feelings will never end but i know how to control these emotions so from now i will stay busy

  • @madhushrutimukherjee
    @madhushrutimukherjee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    The fact that ENTJ is a rare sign to encounter is proven in the gross misrepresentation of the stereotype. ENTJs are very good when dealing with other people's emotions (not their own though), because they identify emotions as a powerful tool to handle people, but also simultaneously recognise it as an irrationality. So you have someone who appears very sensible during your emotional outburst/expression of your feelings and literally walks you through it, but then laughs about it later. This lady is definitely NOT an ENTJ- I would kill myself before being emotionally vulnerable in public like that. And God forbid I lose a good ally just because they have feelings for me(it's a minor issue, happens all the time)- the situation required a strategic de-escalation, not a child throwing tantrums.

    • @shahnazwm
      @shahnazwm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ACCURATE!

    • @gunesekmekci147
      @gunesekmekci147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      entjs are not naturally good at dealing with others emotions its more like a learned skill for them so an immature ENTJ would still be bad at it

    • @gunesekmekci147
      @gunesekmekci147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and would be hurting others feelings with or without knowing

    • @danielavalderrama5932
      @danielavalderrama5932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally with you on that ally part. It's all about the strategy

    • @LupoSovietico
      @LupoSovietico 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect

  • @fatoumfatoumeh
    @fatoumfatoumeh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Wow, no no no! ENTJs wouldn’t be making a fool of themselves in public over emotional lovey-dovey bullcrap *vomit*. This reaction in particular is more of an unhealthy ESxP thing. ENTJs are way too pragmatic and care too much about how they appear to the public eye. Most of them place alot of importance in maintaining their poise even when under a ton of stress...if they ever get heated and lose it, it’s most likely to be work related.
    ENTJ’s biggest fear: To be seen as stupid, and to be seen as a bad person, so this character is the furthest from ENTJ, especially in the scene where she shoves him around. What an ENTJ would do instead, is get icy cold and dead quiet (which is scary for the guy no doubt, because that is uncharacteristic of her), walk away in a rush, wait till they are alone at home before they can process what was said to them. That’s when the meltdown is allowed to begin. And when it ends, they go back to being calm, and if they decide that person is indeed a good fit for them, they will reach out to him.

    • @SusanMylifeismysky
      @SusanMylifeismysky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry to tell you that an ENTJ-T demolishes the beginning of your argument. More than anything, because I am. And it's not that I'm aggressive, but I'm usually not good at debating because -Ts are a bit turbulent. Although we like to have relationships, we do not like to touch and mix feelings too much. In return, they may stop paying due attention to their partner's feelings and we become more "robots" talking. Because we are very logical. But if you are an ENTJ-T, in the end we can be sentimental sometimes. And if you have seen the movie, you will realize that the female character has a clear idea of ​​what she wants at the exact moment that she is living in her life, and this male character breaks her "schemes" and that needs time to be thought about. , and we are impatient, therefore, it is logical that if she is an ENTJ-T and not an ENTJ-A, then she is somewhat "aggressive", although this is more about the script of the film. In reality, we are verbally passive-aggressive.

    • @toddhoward5749
      @toddhoward5749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@SusanMylifeismysky you know nothing about mbti. type by the functions, not the letters.

    • @ViperCannabis
      @ViperCannabis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@toddhoward5749 Hey... It just works? 😉

    • @luz3424
      @luz3424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, actually, if you should know something about entj is that they have major trust issues. I𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐬𝐡𝐞'𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐛𝐚𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐡𝐢𝐦 she's just being "fair" because they had a "contract" so to speak, and the guy is breaking it by having feelings for her. Se child can get super ragey and not be so conscious about that, just like a child! We care what people WE RESPECT think about us, NOT random people in the street (we are pragmatic not affiliative). You do have to watch the movie to understand tho. Pd: I DON'T support this channel, too much bs, but some videos like this are okey I think 🤷‍♀️

    • @debashreekonwar061
      @debashreekonwar061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @minagligoric8600
    @minagligoric8600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    She is definitely not ENTJ. More like INTP. Or ENTP. ENTJ are all about not becoming an emotional mush in public. We pride ourselves in our ability to drive a logical conversation towards resolving an emotional issue, not attacking our partner with fists, in public. I believe manners and preserving dignity at all times are really important to ENTJs.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pretpostavljam da si Enneagram 1? Moja sestra je ENTJ Enneagram 8, ovo je bas nesto sto bi ona uradila...

    • @Hardshell0
      @Hardshell0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Sorry but saying "more like INTP"
      That was least personality you could have mentioned. 😂

    • @ilicit3253
      @ilicit3253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Hardshell0 same

    • @Hk-zf6lw
      @Hk-zf6lw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Entp how ? We don't beat up people that confess to us 💀

    • @samguy7209
      @samguy7209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, when it come to intimate relationships or someone I am interested in, I wouldn't do that in public. I would ask to go somewhere private to discuss. I also wouldn't be too clueless to say ill figure it out later. I will think about it over with that person and come to an agreement/solution/etc.

  • @J_JonahJameson
    @J_JonahJameson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    No ENTJ is gonna release this level of emotion in public ffs

  • @CandyApples4ever
    @CandyApples4ever 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    You fight like a hamster XD.

  • @tarass8737
    @tarass8737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He is definitely an infp. Only an infp can actually understand the emotions of an entj and intj lying deeeeeep inside and actually have enough patience for them to finally become comfortable with them and express and accept them but when xNTJ'S push them away too much they pull back and let them make their decision. I'm saying this as an infp in a relationship with an intj.

    • @sash8099
      @sash8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Intps do the same

    • @user-mm8ei9nx4o
      @user-mm8ei9nx4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's been a year, how is ur relationship going ?

    • @alexlee9109
      @alexlee9109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sash8099How?

  • @jamsheeddevotee7588
    @jamsheeddevotee7588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Taking the logical route in an emotional situation, then getting called robotic/inhuman. Which doesn't surprise you because you've heard it before and your lack of reaction only makes them more angry. That's a small taste of that it's like being ENTJ.

    • @star_ship1722
      @star_ship1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No,i am an entj and in job i get this personallity you say but in relations people say i am actually sensible,empatic and expresive but for that i need to now the people wont hurt me

    • @Kyrovirasha
      @Kyrovirasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I agree

  • @learnbahasaindonesia3361
    @learnbahasaindonesia3361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This is over the top. When someone says he loves me, I just thank them and tell them to move on. I don’t hit them. This is too fake.

    • @Maria-ir1wq
      @Maria-ir1wq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is an exaggerated situation obviously entjs arent going around hitting people
      It's more about what she's saying and the reasoning behind it

  • @iwasanMBTInerd
    @iwasanMBTInerd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Bringing a whole new meaning to "tough love" 😂

  • @heathermcdougall2399
    @heathermcdougall2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    ENTJ man meets INFJ woman. Absolutely fell in love as mature people, 8 years later so in love still. Both types love then one", make mistakes and then get it right. INFJ has brilliant ideas of how it could be. ENTJ tells you what we do, to make it so.

    • @aditi1729
      @aditi1729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is exactly the type of relationship I crave as an INFJ. :)

    • @Astonelle
      @Astonelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss

  • @Pinoytopfive
    @Pinoytopfive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought the guy is the ENTJ. I'm an ENTJ, and we don't act like her in public. ENTJs try to act dignified all the time.

  • @inessepalestine
    @inessepalestine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As an ENTJ girl and i always don't accept the feelings of love that are inside me toward that person so that i be aggressive and sensitive because these actions do not represent me. But when i realise finally that this person is my soulmate and my destiny i can be the most affectionate person in the world and express my love to him whenever and wherever without any regrets ❤

    • @رانا-ث8ر
      @رانا-ث8ر 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      الخوف من أن ابذل مجهود لشيء لا احصل عليه في النهايه ..هو نا يثير غضبي ..

  • @mohammadrezakarimi2400
    @mohammadrezakarimi2400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    It's absolutely true, i fell in love with an ENTJ, i told her, then she attacked me, left me then she come back and again and i really don't know what's is happening, she's getting me crazy, also maybe you want to know i'm an INTJ.

    • @nonniperkl6273
      @nonniperkl6273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      mohammadreza karimi
      My best friend of ten years is INTJ when I am ENTJ, good luck my dude.

    • @flexbabe1122
      @flexbabe1122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pfffff... idk man (also entj)

    • @someperson5199
      @someperson5199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mohammadreza karimi RUN

    • @SusanMylifeismysky
      @SusanMylifeismysky 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We ENTJs get bored easily and if she is an ENTJ-T who is more "rebellious" thinking, perhaps she has had internal fights with herself. Hence she leaves and returns. As long as it is not doing emotional blackmail, that no longer seems right to me. Normally our personality is impatient, but we need the patience of others (?). If you have a relationship that offers challenges, new experiences and the opportunity to learn, it is for the best, because dynamic relationships make us "calm." To put it in some way haha

    • @mohammadrezakarimi2400
      @mohammadrezakarimi2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SusanMylifeismysky Thank you for your explanation, yes you are right about her, but she has gone now, do you have any suggestion how can I start again with her?

  • @alnxie
    @alnxie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    this is so true lolll. my ex was exactly like her, except the pushing part

  • @mcatherinew4779
    @mcatherinew4779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just prefer I know they love me, instead of having them having to tell me. I can feel it if it is there, or if there is an absence.

  • @adamchami1632
    @adamchami1632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    as an ENTJ im more like him when im in love, and like her when someone i dont love is in love with me

  • @ege7417
    @ege7417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She is so emotional, she is not like an entj.

    • @ilaydaacar4213
      @ilaydaacar4213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ege Saçlı No. I'm ENTJ and its so true for me.

    • @ege7417
      @ege7417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ilaydaacar4213 ENTJ tabi ki duygusuz bir karakter değil. Hatta gerçekten duygusal olabiliyorlar, sevgilim için bunu söyleyebilirim. Fakat burada bu kadının kendi içinde yüzleşemediği duygusal sorunları var ve bunu adama karşı kırıcı bir şekilde ortaya çıkarıyor. Halbuki adam böyle bir tepkiyi hak edecek hiçbir şey yapmıyor. Kadın ancak filmin sonunda kendi duygusal sorunlarıyla yüzleşebildiği zaman bunun farkına varıyor. Fakat gözlemlediğim kadarıyla ENTJ insanları kendi duygusal sorunlarını insanlara bu şekilde yansıtmıyorlar çünkü bunun sonucunun yararsız olduğunu fark edebilecek kadar güçlü bir mantıksal süreçleri oluyor. Üçüncü harflerinin "T" olmasının sebebi bu zaten. Yoksa "Feeling" olurdu ve duygusal bir durum söz konusu olunca duyguları mantıklarını kolaylıkla ele geçirirdi. Ama bu tabi ki sadece benim düşüncem. Genel geçer olarak haklı olduğumu iddia etmiyorum.

    • @ilaydaacar4213
      @ilaydaacar4213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ege Saçlı Yanıtın için teşekkür ederim. Bu şekilde düşünmemiştim ve bazı noktalarda seni haklı buldum. Kendimden gözlemlediğim kadarıyla ENTJler pek ilişki insanı değiller ve ilişki yaşamaya başladıklarında bunu duygusal bunalımlar yaşayarak (videodaki gibi) partnerlerine belli ediyorlar. Aslında bu elimizde olan bir şey değil ya da en azından benim için ve genel olarak ENTJler için bu böyle. Sevgilin bir istisna olabilir 😁 Bunun birazda tecrübe ve zaman ile alakalı da olduğunu düşünüyorum. Bahsettiğin gibi çok mantık odaklıyız bu yazında en çok katıldığım nokta bu oldu. Hayatımda ilişki yaşadığım kısımlar haricinde hiç duygularımı kullanarak bir şey yaptığımı hatırlamıyorum. Ama bir ilişki içerisinde olunca bütün kontrol gidiyor ve ruhsal olarak sorunlu bir kişi ortaya çıkıyor 😁 Bu bizim karakterimizin zayıf noktası. İnternette karşılaştığım bütün ENTJler de böyleydi.

    • @ege7417
      @ege7417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ilaydaacar4213 Ben de teşekkür ederim yanıtın için :) Senin söylediklerin de bana mantıklı geliyor aslında çünkü konu romantik ilişkiler olduğu zaman ENTJ'lerin içinden gerçekten başka bir tarafları çıkabiliyor gibi. Mesela Napoleon (Bir ENTJ olduğu söyleniyor) bütün hayatını savaşlarla, askeri stratejilerle geçirmeye adamış olsa bile ölmeden önce söylediği son sözün aşık olduğu kadının ismi olduğu ve hayatı boyunca en çok dengesini bozabilmiş olan konunun da aşık olduğu kadın olduğu söylenir. O yüzden sana da hak vermiyor değilim :)

    • @ilaydaacar4213
      @ilaydaacar4213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ege Saçlı Atatürk'ün de bir ENTJ olarak tek başarısız olduğu konu evliliği. Bu kadar örneği varken gelecekteki ilişkilerim beni kaygılandırmıyor değil 😁

  • @PsiCorps85
    @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I hope the INTJ In Love won't be that guy from Netflix's show "You." Would make sense though, unfortunately.

    • @PsiCorps85
      @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spinnernicholas isn't it funny how like so many demonize that? Probably high Si types mostly, since the strong singular infatuation likely goes with Ni.
      Myself since my ex-wife left me, I've focused on an older crush, on a friend I knew before my ex-wife whom I've never met (though recently we've talked on the phone, not romantically but as friends.) I've never told her about my crush on her, though she's far more intelligent than me and probably can tell, IDK.
      When I first had a crush on her in 2007, She was out of my league then and I never bothered to say anything. We used to help each other in arguments online, it was cool then. Then she found someone the same month in 2008 that I met my ex-wife.
      My ex-wife and I married in 2010, but after 3 years of marriage my INFP ex-wife bit a child on his butt and she was fired and sued. Jacklyn quit working then, from her other childcare job as advised by her lawyer, but instead of working and paying for what she did, Jackie just decided to eat at restaurants each day while I worked every single day in a row for months at a time to pay for her anger management, her legal fees, and her My Little Pony fixation and all her conventions.
      Funny thing is I kept seeing the numbers 111, 722, 198, which I had previously associated with my friend Sheila, though I forgot the link (11/1 is her birthday in, 722 is the number of days between our birthdays, and 1.98 is the number of years apart.) So I guess I had started developing my crush on Sheila again at that point, sadly.
      As soon as Jackie's probation ended in March 2015, she went "babysitting" for her brother and returned the next day to ransack our home, and never heard from her again. Jackie was lazy and probably would hurt children, so honestly now I think I'm glad that Jackie went away. I can't trust her, she'd even lie about little things, and her father had even written me saying she's a pathological liar, so yeah....
      Anyway, I was suicidal after Jackie left, and Sheila wrote me at length encouraging me not to give up. I was going to kill myself then, right after I received the stupid divorce papers that I set on fire. But Sheila gave me hope, and would write with me even before she developed Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and most people don't speak with her anymore. :(
      She's still unavailable for now, but I think she probably won't be eventually, with or without CFS but it likely will expedite it. Hopefully she'll recover from CFS, but I would love her either way. I'm not going to tell her while it would still be wrong to, but when it's right to say it outright I will. I wish I hadn't been a coward in 2007 and spoke up then, but I suppose 12 years of friendship is a better grounds for a relationship than just "I like everything about you and I'm a nobody, yay!" :P :(
      It was rather cool the other week she told me she dreamed about solving mysteries with me, and I told her about a dream I had about us in orbit of Mars I had back in 2007 though prior to hearing her voice my mind had used Claudia Black's voice for hers -- and she said thought that was cool as she likes rogue types such as Vala in Stargate SG1, and generally plays a rogue in DND too. It was so neat to finally talk with her. If I ever marry anyone again, I hope she'll be my friend Sheila. I must sound so stupid.

    • @heatherbryant4197
      @heatherbryant4197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PsiCorps85 Your story reminds me a lot of my INTJ bf talking about his ex-wife, who I believe is likely an INFP from everything I've heard. He worked his ass off and bought her a car so she could stay out all day, eating out, running the AC, buying clothes and stuffed animals from children's movies she was obsessed with. He got stuck paying her store cards and credit card debt too. I can't say it's entirely her fault though. I think some people need to be on their own to forced to learn how to be independent, make their own mistakes, and take care of themselves. There are times when you may think you're helping someone or protecting them, but are also unwittingly enabling them to continue being irresponsible, childish, lazy, and dependent on you.
      Anyway, just remember your self-worth as a person doesn't come from the validation you receive in a relationship. Sometimes it's healthy just to focus on yourself. Good luck with everything.

    • @PsiCorps85
      @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks both of you.

    • @bubbles4897
      @bubbles4897 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicholas Spinner yeah.....that’s not good.....at all

    • @dsingman3
      @dsingman3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought he was a really unhealthy INFJ. Too much manipulation and moral idealistic self righteousness. INTJs are usually more direct and less concerned with ideals.

  • @serenityeifirstya5848
    @serenityeifirstya5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    It felt like, she's an intj 🤔🙄
    I'm entj, so this is kinda false? Entjs suddenly very care and protective when they're in love, so they're never wasting their mate or making a problem in their relationship

    • @HoneysuckleHousewife
      @HoneysuckleHousewife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah. That's correct. I'm married to one and I'm an Entj

    • @someperson5199
      @someperson5199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s interesting I would say the exact opposite. Very problematic and needy in relationships.

    • @maggie_kamau
      @maggie_kamau 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm INTJ and I think you might be wrong about that. The 'tough love' part is true, just not the part where she pushes him like that. We don't exactly have that kind of physical aggression. I feel like we would handle it a bit differently.

    • @SusanMylifeismysky
      @SusanMylifeismysky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't see where this girl "creates a problem" when they are still "not a couple". I advise you to watch the movie, because it is misinterpreted. I am an ENTJ and the truth is, I feel identified with his way of thinking, but I return to the point, you need to see the movie to understand why the character "argues" and becomes "defensive" in a very "rational" and soon "explodes".
      In addition to adding that ENTJs are very individualistic and although we are in love, we protect ourselves because we do not want to be dependent and love makes us feel vulnerable.

    • @star_ship1722
      @star_ship1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you

  • @shrutiwayne7440
    @shrutiwayne7440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That public drama is something an Entj would never do would rather behave like the guy but yes at the same time if Entj falls in love we guys tend to say the opposite things 🤣🤣

  • @bansheeziebaneezie7693
    @bansheeziebaneezie7693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    'you fight like a hamster' XD

  • @cheerfulturtlegirl
    @cheerfulturtlegirl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't believe it's healthy for a man or a woman to put their hands on someone like that. It's abusive. He made a good call to walk away from that.

  • @Afnanalive
    @Afnanalive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i’m 99% ENTJ I don’t believe in love but i also wanna date an ENTP even marry one like a 99% ENTP i just wish there was a world that doesn’t require u to have kids and be tired physically and mentally if u have to marry cause when u think about it it’s sweet to have a boyfriend who is kinda like u ( myself and entp i see us like that ) i just hate romance and all love bullshits I can’t understand my self

  • @turtlerabbitkim868
    @turtlerabbitkim868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As an ENTJ I can't relate haha I would never act like this in public not even in private

  • @Bonniebelle_00__
    @Bonniebelle_00__ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Finally I understand my romantic relationships

  • @entj5315
    @entj5315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I completely understand how she feels aside from the attack. The second he said that's what people do, I would have been done with the conversation because what they're doing isn't love to me. It's a public charade and nothing more. It shows that he's not willing to think outside the box (or anywhere around it for that matter) or consider her thoughts. I tend to act very similarly with intimate partners as well. The relationship doesn't have to be so cliche and artificial. Plus, I also tend to say "I'll figure it out" a lot in response to people questioning my methods. I will admit I have been very aggressive towards my intimate partners as well (not violent ofc). Being in such intimate situations gives way to feeling like a caged animal in a way when things don't go your way. That's why I've had to learn how to be understanding of everyone's position in life

  • @clearskies2434
    @clearskies2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All this cold calculating reactions that you said you would give is from enneagram 1 or 3, these guys are all about public image. Have you ever seen ENTJ with an enneagram 8 when they're angry?? They wouldn't care what other people think they would just burst their anger to the person they're mad at. 8s whole thing is being angry and having a problem with controling it, not being needy and if someone tries to make them something they don't wanna do then their reaction would be something like that. So no, not all ENTJs would keep calm and care their public image, some of them would be directly attack like that
    (i'm also pretty sure her type in the movie is ENTJ with 8 enneagram and 835 tritype i think so)

    • @sash8099
      @sash8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So avoid 8s? Where are the type 1s? I've only met 3 and 8.

  • @zulemaoregel2423
    @zulemaoregel2423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As an INTJ I’d probably be the girl hitting the guy. Reason? Afraid to fall in love and be hurt so I would probably push him away, literally

    • @angelikaporebska8650
      @angelikaporebska8650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here. I'm like predicting the future of it instantly and giving it up so fast. I won't settle for anything less than what i find amazing from the start. I guess it's very xntj perspective to see

    • @onlinestudent-y3q
      @onlinestudent-y3q หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sem. Intj here.

  • @NanosoftRussia
    @NanosoftRussia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its creepy how its so extremely relatable

  • @jackieweaver3884
    @jackieweaver3884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you can't fight me, you're like a miniature 😂😂😂
    well I'm glad to watch this video, at least someone thinks of us entjs

  • @NathanLorenzana
    @NathanLorenzana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can relate. Once I fell for a girl, and had to write to her I made a mistake for having feelings for her, that I screwed up. I was very unhealthy back then haha.

  • @neemoeep
    @neemoeep ปีที่แล้ว

    "You fight like a hamster" 🤣💀

  • @Astonelle
    @Astonelle ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Idk why but I'm an INFJ, and I really relate to her 💀

  • @alecyong3671
    @alecyong3671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    INTP here. She’s lovely.

  • @K2142F
    @K2142F 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Are you going to be doing all the types? :D Looking forward to seeing who you do for INFP (hopefully a guy, but I know INFP females are massively more common in media).

    • @K2142F
      @K2142F 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Welp I spoke too soon cause looks like you already have an INFP one uploaded :P

  • @holyspirit2233
    @holyspirit2233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As an ENTJ I don't freakin understand what's going on

  • @ionlyfearphobophobia
    @ionlyfearphobophobia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doctor Strange and his interaction with Christine is a far better example.

  • @PsiCorps85
    @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    LOL, "you fight like a hamster." Her character probably is INFP.

    • @K2142F
      @K2142F 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I (INFP) don't know, I'm thinking INFJ maybe, but not INFP, both from watching this scene and reading the synopsis on Wikipedia. I just don't see INFPs getting into an intentionally purely physical relationship like that on purpose while avoiding emotional attachment (though she forms one anyways, go figure). Sara is good at typing characters though, she might chime in with what she thinks Emma is.

    • @PsiCorps85
      @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@K2142F I haven't seen the movie, but it seems like she's ruled by her emotions. Could just be in stress. The actress looks like she could be INFJ, but the character seems to value her emotions most.

    • @bunknee1220
      @bunknee1220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Her character is the one Sara is portraying as ENTJ. Not the guy.

    • @K2142F
      @K2142F 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bunknee1220 that makes sense. This is why the focus character needs to be pointed out, cause I assumed the guy was the ENTJ since he was the one to actually say "love" in this scene.

    • @PsiCorps85
      @PsiCorps85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bunknee1220 really? In ISFP stress mode I suppose, Fi-grip.

  • @atthecore4560
    @atthecore4560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As an ENTJ, I felt more in common with Ashton's character here.

  • @SusanMylifeismysky
    @SusanMylifeismysky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is easily explained: we get angry that we don't know how to express ourselves, and we get even angrier when we feel vulnerable. And when do we feel vulnerable? When we express ourselves. So, we start fighting because we are overloading ourselves. Hence, it is good for us to do contact sports or where we spend a lot of energy.

    • @humanbeing5948
      @humanbeing5948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think you should use the word 'we'
      I don't act like this when I'm overwhelmed by emotions. I am ENTJ

  • @vinitaskasana1324
    @vinitaskasana1324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg I'm so embarrassed just looking at it... Ugh!!... I mean I know I can definitely hold my emotions in public:))

  • @Chanteeo1
    @Chanteeo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As an ENTJ female … this is completely out of character.

  • @ImagineStory-rw5ks
    @ImagineStory-rw5ks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao the whole time I thought the man was the ENTJ

  • @charityjohnson6202
    @charityjohnson6202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay as an ENTJ-T I can say the beginning sounded a bit like something that could possibly happen then it went off the rails, I personally would not embarrass myself in public like that let alone have an intimate conversation with someone like that and embarrass them I am NOT that heartless. Those sort of matters should be taken care of behind closed doors and if it doesn't work, it doesn't work tell the guy you don't want to be with him state your reasons and be done with it no need to get all emotional and have a fight what the hell was that!?!

  • @violetd3487
    @violetd3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree that ENTJs are not likely to make a scene (in public). But I can relate to how her Fi is taking over her Te. Her Fi is tugging so hard that she is fighting for her Te.

  • @redsiberian
    @redsiberian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah that’s so damn accurate

  • @khensanoeren2310
    @khensanoeren2310 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS IS SO RELATEABLE FOR MEE :")

  • @xnoura22x
    @xnoura22x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What the name of the movie

  • @lou9226
    @lou9226 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:46 me everytime say to my mom 😅

  • @christianwellness4363
    @christianwellness4363 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    And the guy seems like an Entp , the golden pair lol .

  • @meowmeowka7341
    @meowmeowka7341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow, that's super true! Thank you for this clip :)

  • @ArjunAharonSharma
    @ArjunAharonSharma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girls may not be ENTJ, an ENTJ do not do drama in the public places.

  • @lmart16
    @lmart16 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this video is focused on how he is constantly chasing and giving gifts and affection whilst she is more upfront, honest, and not overly romantic. But her outburst is not typical for ENTJ and our feelings are masked in public.

  • @joejacobs3537
    @joejacobs3537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm an ENTJ and when I see the person I fall for,I know it instantly..There is no need for me to get to know them..I know..

    • @alexlee9109
      @alexlee9109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How? Why?

  • @jassielpeguero3373
    @jassielpeguero3373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats an ENFJ and ENTJ relationship.

  • @star_ship1722
    @star_ship1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe some entj are like that but not all. My entj personallity shows more in job and sometimes in realtion ships but there are less and I am not so logical because I now what i want and I evaluate for a long period the person before start dating and then i am affective and try to think in the feelings of the other. I am affective and empatic but first the person needs to show me that they will not hurt me

  • @TheWolfmoonGoddess
    @TheWolfmoonGoddess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Soooo who is the entj here? Lol

  • @def6420
    @def6420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh fuck I watched this video few months or weeks ago and I wasn't relating and was confused who is ENTJ here, and now I can see it clearly for some reason.

  • @mmmj2jrjhxujxdycyvdud750
    @mmmj2jrjhxujxdycyvdud750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i actually did this when i was a 4th grader- sorry to that one infj ex crush 😂

  • @Carolina-cm6nu
    @Carolina-cm6nu ปีที่แล้ว

    Pretty much all of this is accurate except the public assault. We would talk/threaten someone to death before putting our hands to them like that. And most of the time, our words are enough to help us get what we want/need.

  • @hongorzul.b1315
    @hongorzul.b1315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am entj and I can cuddle too.

  • @duhpabo
    @duhpabo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This kinda looks like male ENTJ x female INTP that has a fearful attachment style. The pushing away and how logically it’s better if they just stay as work friends. Thinking all the dating norms are artificial and fake. The physical fighting would be really out of character tho lol but I think that surprised most viewers anyway.

  • @melissa7777
    @melissa7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ESTJs are exactly the same its low Fi in relationships with 8 Enneagram type the challenger. we fight those we love to see if we can let them in.

  • @serranokheisa7460
    @serranokheisa7460 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whats the title of this movie?

  • @m-vy3qg
    @m-vy3qg ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂as an infp woman i find this hilariously cute lol! I think I secretly admire entjs but will end up crying due to their insensitivity

  • @izniabas6450
    @izniabas6450 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May i know what movie is this? Can someone reply me?

    • @gren4837
      @gren4837 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No strings attached

  • @mariavictoriasalita2908
    @mariavictoriasalita2908 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like it's nice to collaborate with ENTPs in terms of creativity and novel ideas. INFP here by the way.

  • @emmaloraa
    @emmaloraa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This hits home... lol... scared of commitment

  • @lmnopoli
    @lmnopoli ปีที่แล้ว

    Literally me this past month with this INTP guy.

  • @delaconte8709
    @delaconte8709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true !

  • @kreole7376
    @kreole7376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this hit close to home- ESTJ

  • @Mayakran
    @Mayakran 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This.... reminds me a lot of me (INTJ with some truly freaky Fi bullshit going on-feelings? People SEEING my feelings?! No! Kill it with fire!)

  • @raulsanz7120
    @raulsanz7120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The typical ENTJ rejecting to be loved. ;-)

  • @devinbrines
    @devinbrines 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sara I'm an INTJ and I have a confession to make: I'm in love with you

    • @devinbrines
      @devinbrines 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hope that was an okay time to say it.

    • @SaraMBTI
      @SaraMBTI  5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Haaha, you made me smile and super uncomfortable at the same time

    • @Cossaw
      @Cossaw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@devinbrines hahaha xd ;^ D

    • @ViperCannabis
      @ViperCannabis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this is where you failed with your Ni friend, lmfao 😂

    • @IIIrandomIII
      @IIIrandomIII 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Devin Brines
      INTJ would never declare love like that, unless it's sarcasm.

  • @charlotteannpaisley5023
    @charlotteannpaisley5023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhh she’s me on point

  • @jindokoreandog
    @jindokoreandog 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ruff and tumble that me, alright.

  • @Vedangi_
    @Vedangi_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well the part about pushing the other person away is correct but as an ENTJ myself i won't create such a scene in public or private that's a just pathetic way to handle stuff.

  • @PelegoRecords
    @PelegoRecords 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *"No Strings Attached"* , She Really Is an ENTJ: As an ENTJ, This is the EXACT Reason Why I Practice *"Shared Monogamy"* or *"My Girlfriend & I Share a Girlfriend"* ( *"Three Couples in One Relationship [MF, FF & FM]* ) because I Don't Think ENTJ's are "Built" for Regular Relationships... And It Took a Lot of *Heartbreak* for Me to Figure That Out!!! 😢

  • @ratonoralo4358
    @ratonoralo4358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    whats the name of the movie?

  • @daniarawaf6219
    @daniarawaf6219 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's the name of this film?????💙

  • @EhEsDeeEf
    @EhEsDeeEf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    girl rick moranis lmfao

  • @roselynekabata2886
    @roselynekabata2886 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    what movie is this

  • @wilsarahmadina85
    @wilsarahmadina85 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    what name of movie?

  • @filipposa212
    @filipposa212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The ENTJ is the guy right?

  • @linhngo7398
    @linhngo7398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dominant personality types

  • @christiancarter255
    @christiancarter255 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol! This is funny. I don't feeeeeel anything. (;

  • @billyhilly313
    @billyhilly313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Twisting reality

  • @지은-g3v
    @지은-g3v 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can anybody tell me what the title of this movie is? I want to watch that movie.. thank you....

  • @Fluwore
    @Fluwore 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean doesn't the fact that she doesn't like going to public places, make her an INTJ? Is there anyone to explain?

    • @nayarathena7857
      @nayarathena7857 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So at final.... she loved him or not?

  • @JoslynClayton
    @JoslynClayton 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real fucking tears sis

  • @floweryoungk
    @floweryoungk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    and the man?