Amen. When I was a teen I’d say that and my mom would go “excuse me, are you ASKING or TELLING?!” im like “sorry, im asking, can I please go to ____ house until 10pm?” Now im 33 with my own little one
Parents please be a parent. There is no way it should be normal for a 15 year old to regularly not come home. So much so you don't worry about her being missing for a week!!
Are you telling me all those people who get married at 19 and have kids don't make wild child mistakes? (Pretty much how every senior today talks about their past) I love the low key projection in all these comments. 😅
@@psychedlicsouljam1995 what are you calling a wild child mistake? Letting a 15 year old be gone for a week at a time with no contact and not realizing they're with a grown man whose buying drugs, going to stay with another grown man who is supposed to be there boyfriend? Or not realizing your child is missing until a whole week pasts?
@@mollysmith605 they weren't tryna kill anyone else. They're only a threat to the parents so they should still be locked up. They tried it once. Good chance they'll try again.
As a 50+ yr old black man I'm so glad I came up in a different era! Growing up we had our own opinion but that's all it was, was an opinion. We had had daily chores & responsibilities our bed was made daily & rooms kept clean as well as other responsibilities being done around the house daily that must be done and a excuse was just that it didn't cause our responsibility to not be completed! We had parents that didn't let us say we were going out with friends we actually had to ask permission and oftentimes we were told no with no reason why but through it all we lived to see another day! Growing up we were able to participate in school activities and encouraged to play sports but home training, respect for others and the law along with our getting a good education was mandatory not an option! I now appreciate my parents for instilling respect, honor, being a good person all the time not part-time, always take accountability, discipline, be a good provider, be courageous, have selflessness, always being a good citizen to the community no matter where we may be, and never forget that family structure is fundamental to a good household! I've retired from the Army after serving 32yrs retiring as as a E-9/CSM. I was able to obtain my Masters Degree and now I'm honored to have a civilian job continuing to work with the military. It all started with my parents, family, my community, coaches, and especially all of the teachers that cared about our education and not about our status be it financially or popularity!
You remind me very much of my Son, the eldest child in our family. He retired from the Air Force, and is working another Civilian position, but has raised 3 daughters, and his wife is an OB/ GYN. It's so good to hear someone post about the results of good family values, and how you've carried that on throughout your life. As a Mama, Widow now, and a Grandma, it does my heart good to hear positive stories out there about the results of Good Parenting. There's so many parents these days that just give in , and give up with their kids, instead of instilling from the get-go, what it takes , the accountability, the hard work ethic, the values. Your Parents sound like wonderful people. And, it sounds like they raised really wonderful children. My grown kids make their kids tow the line, and it is great to hear positive lives being lived.
@@reneet5858 Ma'am I thank you and please know that y'all parents, grandparents, & neighbors who'd get on us kids all paved the way for us all it was just totally up to us to serve the Lord first and be accountable, honest, law abiding, respectful, responsible, humans upholding our family name and honor! May you be blessed
@@stancexpunks that's what I'm wondering too, there's a lot of people saying this is normal and that they couldn't have done anything but that sounds ridiculous to me. It doesn't even seem like they tried...and no I'm not blaming the mom but not having contact with your minor child for a week is neglect
At 15 she had too much freedom. Why would a 15 year old be able to date a 19 year old and hang around a 24 year old man. SMH. I do feel for her mother and what she's going through. 😢
Agreed, the mom should’ve never let her date a 19 year old or allowed her to go wherever whenever she wanted. Smoking with adult men in their car is unacceptable for a 15 year old girl.
If I were in that situation being stabbed by a family member trying to kill me, I would have used deadly force defending myself. The kids even said they had been planning it over 5 years! IDK how those boys came out like that after being raised with affluence, but they must have bad blood. Even looking at them they look like depraved gang thugs, not decent young men with normal upbringing.
@@calliannedewitt3112 poor parenting is to blame when kids behave this way, whether you realize it or not. There are very few exceptions, and based on your comment you’re not one of them.
How can you not realize that your child is missing for a whole week? My mom would've known that very day I didn't come home. I know the mom is desperate for answers. It would be terrible to not know where your child is. I doubt she's still with us. So sad!
Yah that's a bit SUS .....was mother checked for alibi....I hate thinkin it but maybe she got in major trouble for going to see him and they got into an altercation and mom went to far....but I think the 1 or 2 of the guys are major suspects
Mom trusted her that is why she had got freedom but i wish my mom blocked the door the night i told my mom im going to go to Tim's house and later my mom got a phone call from police stated i been stabbed and she later told me next time you might not be as lucky and next time you will listen to me when i say i have a feeling something is gonna happen and look what did happen you got stabbed could been a whole lot worse but that would not have happened if you listened to your mother ..gave me a big hug and cried
@@mtio2807wow i not known that but i still think she did not run away she is or was kidnapped and no longer alive my own oppion ! God i hope i am wrong !
Um NO! We don’t want these two gremlins back in society just because their parents don’t “feel” like victims. Lack of accountability is why they tried to commit murder in the 1st place.
EXACTLY! 😠 If the children YOU RAISED… want you dead… by ANY means… those children have NO soul… and would murder ANYone if they don’t get their way! It’s just another “fail” on the parents part… wanting those murderous psychopaths out early… smdh
Those boys were ungrateful and entitled. It’s heartbreaking to think that your own kids would try to murder you. Bad a$$es. They need to immediately disown them. I would have NEVER spoken on their behalf. That’s probably part of the problem. The parents overlooked their rudeness on too many occasions.
Especially when the youngest one said he had been planning it since he was 11 years old!! They both showed no remorse. They looked more pissed off that they didn't succeed.
That might be the case but there are million of people who do exactly what this kid did every day but for some reason they arent dead. lets not take a single incident out of 7 billion people and make a mountain out a grain of dust. lets not pretend you know anything about anything beyond what you think you know because you dont even know whats going on in your own home much less whats going on on the next block much less in another town...
@@bjvu9460 Your example and numbers don't match '' a single incident out of 7 billion people'' , we are more than 7 billion first of all and second i think you live in a utopia, majority of parents do not give that much freedom to their kids, I think you talk only about USA, and also there there are diff ethnicities with diff values and way of raising their kids.
Communication and boundaries 1. Explain how this is predatory behavior and not appropriate for his and her age 2. Explain dangers 3. Explain the position as a parent that it well be their job not matter which world and which life to protect the children 4. Take the phone away and house arrest if not compliant 5. Take the phone myself and block or even delete accounts if not compliant 5. Prohibit it and schedule a therapist to hear those points from a not involved perspective 6. No visits at other houses, friends can come over in their own home 7. So many other ways to not let that happen 8. Communication in daily basis - a week without hearing from her is insane. They didn’t do it on purpose but they enabled that behavior with not setting following boundaries and rules.. sad sad case so sorry for her she’s a child and couldn’t know better
Kevin most likely had a liking for her and didn't want to drop her off to another man so he took her for himself. This is why keeping tabs on your kids is important because there are too many things that can happen and no one will know where to look or who to ask.
From Wisconsin and having raised children it really opened my eyes to how many parents did not really care where there teens were. I always talked to the parents if their child slept over to make sure it was not just ok but if there was any medical issues etc. One parents response to their middle school daughter staying over was "oh that's where she is, yeah its ok". We were talking about a 12 yr old. These people didn't know me. I may not have been a perfect parent but there was no way my kids went over night unless I knew the parents.
Yes like the two teen girls who went on that weekend sleepover in Oklahoma and were murdered by that pedophile McFaddyn. The parents let their daughters go to a home and a family they had not met/known. Now the parents are boohooing about their murdered (and it seems raped and tortured first) daughters. These parents did not take any responsibility to check out the friends home (the stepdaughter of the murderer). And those 2 young girls paid for their parents laziness by losing their lives. Parents now getting their15 seconds of fame as victims now and their responses are unbelievable. Like they are taking it all in their stride like it’s just another day. The house was set up like a sex dungeon, and as the news camera crew walked through you could see sets of chains and handcuffs drilled into the wall in the walk through room off the kitchen as you walk in the door. And sex toys in full view on the shelf. What shocked me was the parents walking through behind the crew and picking up this stuff and looking at the chains and handcuffs, with not even a shriek or comment. When parents don’t even blink an eye at this kind of stuff, you know they did not care about their children.
Yes, I always knew where my kids were staying. I'm also from Wisconsin by the way!! Hello 👋. But I think this mother doesn't need to be tortured by us. I imagine in her mind she does that to herself each and everyday.
Same here in Georgia! And the parents of the kids that stay at our house also echo the same sentiment- I need to talk to an adult and know exactly where you're going!
My mum cared, she never let me do anything, eventually I had enough and at 15 a switch flipped n I decided I don't care and I did what I wanted, disappeared partied out in the cities, Sometimes way older guy I just met etc etc nothing parents could do then, but omg I look back and wonder how the Frick I'm still alive and never got r*ped so lucky I am 🤦
She is a pretty fucked up Mother. She has zero idea of how to do it or her 15 year old would not be running the show. Its not a matter of being strict either, its about modelling setting your bar a bit goddam higher than just wanting boys attention and having other passions in life than knocking out babies. Too late to cry now Mom.
Kayla had too much freedom. My 15 year old was home when she was 15. She would not dare disappear for a week at a time with older partyers who prey on teens.
@@GenXfrom75it's not mom's fault but mom still allowed her too much freedom. They didn't even realize she was missing until a week because she allowed her to run off with friends regularly and didn't even think anything was wrong
I'm pretty sure mom is and dad was beating themselves up for that what's crazy is this could've been the 1st time they allowed her to be gone away from home that long either way I'm sure they were kicking their selves in the ass bc their daughter paid the ultimate price partly by being allowed way too much freedom
I have a 16 year old daughter and a 15 year old son, no way are they gone for days at a time. Especially without me knowing exactly where they are. Nobody knew she was missing for a week, that blows my mind.
@@nbitsme1629 it doesn't matter if it was the first time, it shouldn't have happened period. Their 15 year old child was not in contact with them for a week before they noticed she was missing? They didn't know where she was or who she was with for a whole week at 15 years old. She was also dating a grown man.....now she's missing. I hope this is a wake up call for other parents watching who may allow this type of behavior.
Those two men certainly know exactly what happened to this young girl. Parents please don’t let your young children make decisions as though they are the adults. These two boys deserve life in prison look at their faces zero remorse!!!! Evil personified!!! This dad should never get on that stand begging to spare them.
@@joelewis8440 U MUST MEAN CHILDREN . Kayla Berg was a child when she disappeared and legally couldn’t consent to sleeping with *ANYONE* less a man ten years her senior . So i wish u would stfu and stop talking shyt about a missing then underage child !
@Joe Lewis Women? You mean a CHILD. A teen girl. For fucks sake, who cares who she was sleeping with? Her bf and Kevin were adult men...predators. Her mother should've been more attentive, but blaming Kayla...God, I hope you don't have daughters.
This mom messed up, not Kayla. Your fifteen year old daughter shouldn’t be allowed to “ hang out “ with 24 yr old men - it doesn’t matter if they were friends of her older brother…. Sorry , but Kayla’s disappearance is on you, mom.
Imagine knowing your kids want you dead.. 😞☹️ And not just thinking about it, but drugging you, stabbing and beating you and trying to blow up the house.. for money..
Guarantee there were plenty signs they were on a straight path to destruction. before that day. When u notice ya kids are off get them help immediately. Don't just keep letting it building up til they finally try to kill ya or kill others.
Imagine knowing anyone wants you dead... I know what that feels like and they almost made it happen. They tried... They lost. Doesn't really matter who it is, it's always surreal, honestly. But having it be your own children does up the ante...
I'm so glad they didn't listen to those foolish parents and give those boys 10 yrs. They r extremely dangerous to society and as far as I'm concerned shld nvr get out. If u go on tictok and read some of the post of kids talking abt their parents it wld leave you trembling. These kids r different and need to be keep an eye on. They r a different breed. First off they don't fight out a problem they shoot. Many r extremely uneducated but have a diploma. They have zero respect for elders and blame all their failures on generations bf them. Fact is they have lost all morals and any desire to earn their own way..in short they r the lost generation. If u don't agree ask yourself was America a much better place to live bf this generation arrived.
It happens way more often than society is willing to admit. If they don’t go as far as wanting you dead, very often they want to abuse you or torture you physically and emotionally. See it in court a lot more now. Drug addiction also makes them behave like monsters. Their brains get fried by drugs and they cease to have human feelings. They only live for the next fix.
I have one son and could not imagine him trying to kill me! That's an unforgivable act and my child could never live with me or would I ever trust my own child. That was truly sick and hurtful!
It's really a shame that this mother let a 15-year-old ( and probably when she was younger ! ) spend too much time away from the house . Lack of discipline . Sad but true . She let the girl do whatever she wanted instead of being a parent who know the meaning of the word discipline .
I tried to stay away from home as much as possible as a teen. It had nothing to do with discipline. I’ll leave the details out but try to remember that you don’t know everyone’s story or reasoning. There was potentially a very good reason that home wasn’t safe for her.
@@dreamsofturtles1828 I hope you found a place to feel safe. It took me until my mid 30s to feel home and safe, and in some ways I'm still looking for it now at 40.
I can’t think of anything more devastating than knowing your own flesh and blood is trying to kill you. It must be absolutely gut wrenching to the parent. I would not be able to show as much mercy as they did. Forgive, yes. But the punishment has got to be weighted by the crime. I wouldn’t trust that they wouldn’t try to do it again. So sad for the parents.
I have two sons and if they tried to take me out ..no forgiveness they can rot in hell and God willing I'd be able to take them out so they would never be a threat again
A Mom not realizing her 15 year old daughter was missing for a week seems super odd, who lets their 15 year old daughter leave and not contact them for a week? I can only guess the Mom has some sort of drug or alcohol problem, there is no way a sober all there mother isn’t worried sick about not seeing or hearing from her for a week. My heart goes out to the Mom it would be devastating to not know what happened to your daughter, but it’s hard to understand why she wasn’t worried the week no one had seen or heard from Kayla and her Mom had no idea was even missing.
You can look at her and listen to her voice …clearly there is a drug and or alcohol problem! 1 hour of not knowing where my kid was and I’d be frantic!!!
Even when I drank heavily I knew where my kids were and with who. My 18ur old still lives with me and is a senior in school and still ask me before going somewhere and let's me know who she is with. I get all the details. May be because she watches shows like this also.
For any wondering about the last case: 64 year old Harden is charged with malice murder, felony murder, aggravated sodomy, rape, aggravated assault, false imprisonment, and aggravated battery. He entered a not-guilty plea on all counts. Three other women are named in the indictment. They were reportedly assaulted between 2015 and 2016. He is being held and his court case should begin soon!
@@australianbirdgal2786 Maybe along with Harden, the handyman? His tears somehow looked overly dramatic, not genuine. And her car by the seedy motel seems too convenient. Her character is now in question and that way the cops come to their own negative conclusion and he becomes the injured party.
@@nimue4325 there were tears? Maybe my screen resolution is low cuz I didn't see tears. I thought to myself that I have never seen such bad fake crying before. 😐
I’m conflicted with the 15 year old that tells her mom she’s going out and gone for days??? No ma’am…. I don’t believe in free reign raising children. You are under my care until you turn the age of 18 and then pass that point I can’t legally make you do anything you don’t want to. But I can instill right from wrong and grow a tight bond. As for the mother of the three children, my heart goes out to those babies and her family. I think it’s possible that she could’ve been meeting that guy possibly for a drug connection and he had other things in mind.
They found Heather McDonald’s remains in 2016 her yet no one has still been charged. Just because she got into using prescription medication doesn’t make what happened to her ok
A 63 year old man has been charged in January 2023 for Heather's murder. His trial should start soon. There are three other women named in the indictment against him. His name is Richard Dale Harden. He has 12 felony counts including malice murder, felony murder, aggravated sodomy, aggravated assault, false imprisonment, and aggravated battery.
Richard Dale Harden, 63, has been indicted for the 2016 murder of Bartow County woman Heather Dianne McDonald. A 63-year-old man charged with the 2016 murder of Cartersville resident Heather Dianne McDonald, 27, entered “not guilty” pleas to 12 felony counts in Bartow Superior Court on Jan.Jan 25, 2023
My heart goes out to Kayla's mother . I used to hang out with much older people at age of 15 . I didnt have that much freedom but that beibg said i thank god nothing ever happened to me
3rd story: so she tells her husband she is going to stay with family but she meets with another man at a hotel. His wife lied to him. She has slot of secrets and the husband needs to wake up and notice the huge red flags in his marriage. His wife is not who she appears to be
⚠️READDD⚠️ Now I see why my mother was the way she was . I’m 18 now and I got my own place just to get away even tho I rented the basement apartment under her house because she was offering to pay my rent and deposit for the first 2 months just to keep me close I just wanted freedom but now I see why she was on my back like that. I couldn’t leave as a teen without her knowing exactly where I’m going she had to know all my friends parents and there number and when I got dropped off she had to see all the friends and ask them what we were doing and she would do it in a slick way so just incase we all made a fake story the way she asked it would get messed up and she had no problem making me get right back in the car and take me with her to Either go eat or go shopping she would make it worth it but she would always say your my baby ziya it’s only because in love you and can’t imagine loosing you she did this with all my siblings we couldn’t even sneak out cause she got a fence made and it was super high and she had it built back wards so I couldn’t climb it and she had 4 dogs they had a dog house that was built outside and they would bark if we left outside .. she always showed us videos and stuff like this but now as a adult seeeing this it breaks me . I can’t image this being my mother going through this looking for one of us now I see why she went to the lengths she did because no one deserves this . They needed a tighter leash on that beautiful girl I pray for a miracle ❤😢
My little sister would leave home regularly when she was super young (12,13,14,15) and one time she got with the wrong guy and he almost killed her. She never learned. She continued to go out and do what she wanted. My parents had no control over her and I wish it wouldn’t have been like that.
It’s one thing if they are a runaway and parents call Police every time to find her. But to just let them go at so young and don’t know where and don’t call police for a whole week?! And I think Mom mentioned a brother. He wasn’t concerned she was alway? Mom said bro would also hang out with 24 year old.
Omg what parent let's there 15 yr old be gone for a week without checking on them??? No effn way!!! My daughter is 15 and she's home with me all the time. She has a few friends I trust but I'd NEVER in a million years let her go that long unless it was summer or church camp.
That last story is so heartbreaking. Those poor girls. I wish the mother had went and received professional help. She was clearly going through stuff that she needed help for. So sad I’m sure she never thought her break would result in her murder 😞
@@taniececiagray-hd9vzI don't think he was trying to force it. I think he was fighting to hold it in. A lot of men aren't comfortable crying in front of one person let alone on camera for a show that tons of people will see. Either way, that whole situation is just awful all around.
How can you protect your child if you have no clue where they are?...that is like shooting in the dark! I feel bad for Kayla but even now, as an adult, I try not to travel or stay out past dark with my kids. And my kids will not be out alone. Even when they are older I will always recommend walking with a friend or two that I know well and have vetted. Because friends are not always true friends. So sad...
So I'm originally from Atlanta GA. I moved north to Woodstock Ga 23 years ago, because of all the horrendous traffic!!! I'm very familiar with towns further north such as Cartersville. I'm very distraught about this case of this young mother. I can tell you that Trafficking is a huge problem here. I would love to hear the rest of this case. My heart goes out to the husband and his precious little girls that will forever grow up without their mommy.😭
It's a bit irritating that this mom allowed her 15yr old daughter to regularly disappear for days at a time when she'd "go out".. That lil girl had WAAAY too much freedom and was left to play ADULT with actual adults and then wonder how bs like this happens 🤦WAKE UP PARENTS AND BE MORE PROTECTIVE OVER UR CHILDREN.. DONT LET THEM GROW UP BEFORE THEY SHOULD.. TEACH AND EDUCATE THEM WHILE THEY'RE STILL YOUNG AND DONT STOP!! YOUNG KIDS NOW DAYS ABSOLUTELY NEEEED TO BE TOLD ABOUT NOT JUST THE GOOD, BUT ALL THE BAD THAT'S ANYWHERE AND BASICALLY EVERYWHERE! BETTER TO BE OVERLY CAUTIOUS THEN NOT AND THEN HAVE A CHILD BE TOO NAIVE TO THIS MESSED UP, SICK WORLD WE HAVE TO SURVIVE IN
Reporters that interview these terrible parents need to hold their feet to the fire and question them on their behavior. Why was a 15yo allowed to act that way?
Those men are so lucky they have their parents. It’s a deal breaker for me. I want you to get 50 years and don’t ever contact me again…EVER!! What monsters they are, do society a favor and lock them up for 50 years.
Hispanic guy (Miguel) commits NO crime against Kayla and had to get a Lawyer to stay out of jail.... White guy (Kevin) ACTUALLY commits a crime against Kayla who is just a 15 y.o. girl and charges are dropped due to insufficient evidence 😅😂
It's called "white privilege". Every system in AmeriKKKa is encrusted with it. Caucasians stay on code by denying its existence. But if you've lived long enough, have a discerning eye and pay attention to the patterns and the correlations you'll see 👀 it EVERY TIME!
I feel so bad for Kayla Bergs mother. I hope one day she will find her daughter. So sad. Wow those parents are amazing and strong. I can’t even begin to imagine. Your own kids trying to kill you. So sad.
Don't feel sorry for Kayla parents..,they allow her to be on the street wondering around with growing up men., which kind of a parents do that especially to a young daughter?
I believe that at the beginning of the comment they were speaking about Kayla and her parents but then switched to the 2nd story of the 2 brothers trying to kill their mother and blow up her house! They drugged her or poisoned her and she was about to call 911!
What a tragedy. I cannot imagine the pain Hope has been going thru for the past 7 years. My heart and prayers are with you. Have a heart! Bring Hope some closure!
Sadly it sounds like Heather had a secret addiction and addicts find other addicts and that's probably where she was staying or with a dealer. Its so sad that this happened to her.
That’s exactly what I thought. It sounds as if she got involved with something that really got a hold of her. Could she have overdosed and her body was left in the woods? I hope the results of the autopsy provide answers for the family. Those little girls will suffer their whole lives because of this tragedy!
@@kathleenwyatt563 I was thinking the same thing about maybe she took too much or something and overdosed but then someone said they saw her arguing with 2 men.
Agreed. Kids with that much running around to do are either in clubs aka extra cirriculars or drugs. Looks like mom drinks heavy. Real sad situation. Cause if my older brother knew I was hanging out with his friends both are asses would've been grass!! Hell my younger brother did threaten a few guys over looking at me while picking him up from football practice. And that's pretty typical. So I'm really shocked nothing in this story comes across as normal. Almost like she never had a chance. 😢😢😢
My thoughts: Maybe she suffered from addiction, got into deep and had debts with local dealers & they scared her by stalking her & then made her „work it off“ in those seedy hotels & something awful happened there?? This is pure speculation on my part! My antennas went up when her husband said „she is not a COMMODITY“ - that’s a very odd thing to say out of the blue when your wife is missing. I pray for her and her family ❤
To the mother of kayla, im so sorry, you are in my continued thoughts and prayers! I pray some day you will find out the truth and maybe then you can find closure!!! Mine and my familys heart goes out to you! I just wish you can find the answers you need!! As a mother i cant even imagine what you have went through and continue to go through every day of your life!! ❤💔
@@Flamsterette I often see people doing that and I don’t understand why they do it. Also, I don’t know why people talk-text and create/post huge paragraphs, sans punctuation, that are unreadable.
@@EYE_GOTCHA it’s bc they want to be different 🤷🏾♀️ like a lot of girls i know turn their caps off so it doesn’t autocorrect at the beginning. if you asked me why i did that i’d just say that i like the way it looks, feels more like me saying it 💕
Stefon has wild goose story’s about what he thinks happened...all these leads for the cops away from himself.... he has more concern about talking smack than looking for his wife. He shakes his head no when he says ‘we want her home’ all the while crocodile tears.
@ella I'm not buying it. Everyone in the area (I live there) have multiple reasons to believe he is full of it. Sure they could have been friends. That pedo friend of hers preferred young males. Nothing unbelievable about that aspect. It's that the husband is pretending that he lived a "walk the line" lifestyle and is oblivious to hers that makes this case preposterous. LE not releasing info regarding cause of death and other details is quite telling in my opinion that there is still suspicion on their part.
I’ve acted my whole life and no matter how great a person is at acting I can still tell they are acting…that guy with the glasses wasn’t acting. I can even tell when ppl on social media or influencers are acting/fake. That guy has some kind of mental illness and is truly crazy…his energy and everything about him is terrifying. Someone truly needs to investigate him.
I don't think the video made by the fat a** in the glasses was a 100% fake. He gave me vibes like the TYPE of person who would do that. And the fact that his house had a dirty bathroom downstairs in a basement like that. I don't know... 😶
Let me guess, in your mom's basement in your one man productions? I know you definitely don't get any gigs if you couldn't see right through that acting!
Every parent and style is different for this mom I'm sure she is beating herself up over the past seven years let's all be kind with our words and send our prayers for her family😢
What the heck is wrong with parents?! You don't let your 15 year old daughter date a 19 year old, have his ass arrested if you to jesus. And you don't let your 15 year old just say oh I'm going out tonight and walk out, wtf? Watch your kids and know who their friends are and who their friends parents/guardians are. Stop failing your kids.
This 2nd story is a hot mess. How do you try and murder the two people who brought you in this world and took care of you. Spoiled brats. I hope they don't get a penny from them.
@@bibibello2181 That is NOT true! There is a chance that initially there would be no tears due to shock but there's no such thing as the fake crying and no tears coming out because they've cried so much.
@@isabellavalencia8026 You can not do a sweeping generalization of how people should react!!! I have gone through hell in life including losing my parents suddenly. I know what pain is! I know what deep pain and misery is without being able to shedd tears anymore after crying for too long. My heart cries many times without evident tears on my face! I said what I said from experience! I repeat you can not tell how people will act in pain. I have seen people smiling and laughing through horrible pain! They are not exactly laughing but grieving.
I was looking for a comment about that case .. I definitely think the husband knows something . It just seems alll like an act and too planned out . Like he said he texted her saying him and the girls are going to clean up the house and head to a friends like okay your already giving us your alibi so Somone doesn’t ask . I think he’s acting .
I’m not gonna lie his story does sound pretty legit. He was trying to save his marriage by giving her a break. Seems like he didn’t know she had a deep, dark secret.
I don't think refusing a polygraph is a sign of guilt bc they have been proven to be unreliable if I was accused of something I didn't do I wouldn't take 1 either
Same. And the cops can lie and say you didn’t pass it. Regular people don’t how to read polygraph results, and don’t know the cops can legally lie, so they get false confessions that way.
@@danchinoloves7804 from what I recall 1 of them refused and the other 1 I can't remember if at he 1st refused then agreed to take it or he if he only agreed to do it then he started to come up with excuses to not take it pretty much only 1 of them agreed then came up with excuses for why he couldn't take it
Why is that crazy? You can’t be forced to take a polygraph test. Also polygraph tests aren’t admissible in court. There’s so many different factors that can happen that can give a false negative or positive. There have been people who passed polygraphs who were in fact guilty of terrible things.
Fifteen year olds shouldn’t tell their mom they’re going out. They should be asking their mom if they can go out, and tell mom their plans.
Exactly. I always had to ask for permission before I went anywhere.
Right? I can't even imagine doing that at 15.
Amen. When I was a teen I’d say that and my mom would go “excuse me, are you ASKING or TELLING?!” im like “sorry, im asking, can I please go to ____ house until 10pm?”
Now im 33 with my own little one
@@KatelinTheKat hopefully your little one isn't 15! I mean, you're 33 and your little one being 15 is creepy
@@5TC Have you ever heard of a teen mom? It happens. I’m concerned for you.
Parents please be a parent. There is no way it should be normal for a 15 year old to regularly not come home. So much so you don't worry about her being missing for a week!!
Hello!!! That part was absolutely unbelievable. She also had a grown boyfriend smh and hung out with grown ups who bought drugs
I don't want to seem like I'm "playing the blame game" or "shaming" but the truth to this statement is too important to ignore 🥺
Are you telling me all those people who get married at 19 and have kids don't make wild child mistakes? (Pretty much how every senior today talks about their past) I love the low key projection in all these comments. 😅
@@psychedlicsouljam1995 what are you calling a wild child mistake? Letting a 15 year old be gone for a week at a time with no contact and not realizing they're with a grown man whose buying drugs, going to stay with another grown man who is supposed to be there boyfriend? Or not realizing your child is missing until a whole week pasts?
@@psychedlicsouljam1995 Your comment is unclear. Can you please explain. Wild child mistakes? Senior? As in senior citizen? 🤔
Those two sons do not deserve lenience. Their parents can forgive them all they want but they are forever a threat to society.
EXACTLY! What about the rest of us!? Tf
Yup
@@mollysmith605 they weren't tryna kill anyone else. They're only a threat to the parents so they should still be locked up. They tried it once. Good chance they'll try again.
@@bobert8125 Anyone who can kill their parents... can kill absolutely anyone without a thought.
All Facts!
As a 50+ yr old black man I'm so glad I came up in a different era!
Growing up we had our own opinion but that's all it was, was an opinion. We had had daily chores & responsibilities our bed was made daily & rooms kept clean as well as other responsibilities being done around the house daily that must be done and a excuse was just that it didn't cause our responsibility to not be completed!
We had parents that didn't let us say we were going out with friends we actually had to ask permission and oftentimes we were told no with no reason why but through it all we lived to see another day!
Growing up we were able to participate in school activities and encouraged to play sports but home training, respect for others and the law along with our getting a good education was mandatory not an option! I now appreciate my parents for instilling respect, honor, being a good person all the time not part-time, always take accountability, discipline, be a good provider, be courageous, have selflessness, always being a good citizen to the community no matter where we may be, and never forget that family structure is fundamental to a good household!
I've retired from the Army after serving 32yrs retiring as as a E-9/CSM. I was able to obtain my Masters Degree and now I'm honored to have a civilian job continuing to work with the military. It all started with my parents, family, my community, coaches, and especially all of the teachers that cared about our education and not about our status be it financially or popularity!
Amen. Thank you for your service
@@Ladynlove2u Your Thank You Is Very Heartfelt and So Appreciated! ❤️🙏🏾✝️🙌🏾🛐❤️
Thank you for your service. My dad was like that too
You remind me very much of my Son, the eldest child in our family. He retired from the Air Force, and is working another Civilian position, but has raised 3 daughters, and his wife is an OB/ GYN.
It's so good to hear someone post about the results of good family values, and how you've carried that on throughout your life. As a Mama, Widow now, and a Grandma, it does my heart good to hear positive stories out there about the results of Good Parenting. There's so many parents these days that just give in , and give up with their kids, instead of instilling from the get-go, what it takes , the accountability, the hard work ethic, the values. Your Parents sound like wonderful people. And, it sounds like they raised really wonderful children.
My grown kids make their kids tow the line, and it is great to hear positive lives being lived.
@@reneet5858 Ma'am I thank you and please know that y'all parents, grandparents, & neighbors who'd get on us kids all paved the way for us all it was just totally up to us to serve the Lord first and be accountable, honest, law abiding, respectful, responsible, humans upholding our family name and honor! May you be blessed
my heart breaks for Kayla & her mom. this is a prime example of why you tell 15 yr olds NO from time to time
Her parents allowed their teenager to go house to house for a week and stay with a grown man 😳 #protectourchildren
I doubt they could have stopped her!!!!
@@t.j.7789what about calling 911 immediately and not a week later?
Exactly
@@t.j.7789 they absolutely could have… what type of household did you grow up in?
@@stancexpunks that's what I'm wondering too, there's a lot of people saying this is normal and that they couldn't have done anything but that sounds ridiculous to me. It doesn't even seem like they tried...and no I'm not blaming the mom but not having contact with your minor child for a week is neglect
At 15 she had too much freedom. Why would a 15 year old be able to date a 19 year old and hang around a 24 year old man. SMH. I do feel for her mother and what she's going through. 😢
So true a very sad situation God bless this family.
She 100% failed as a mother let her daughter be a 304 like many in my community who love pookie’s
@@carlosmark9840 I just found out what 304 meant.
@@carlosmark9840 never heard white men be referred to as pookie!
Agreed, the mom should’ve never let her date a 19 year old or allowed her to go wherever whenever she wanted. Smoking with adult men in their car is unacceptable for a 15 year old girl.
I'm a mother first as well, but there's no way in hell am I ever forgiving my child if he tried to kill me!
If I were in that situation being stabbed by a family member trying to kill me, I would have used deadly force defending myself. The kids even said they had been planning it over 5 years! IDK how those boys came out like that after being raised with affluence, but they must have bad blood. Even looking at them they look like depraved gang thugs, not decent young men with normal upbringing.
Hahaha there would be nothing left to forgive
Facts I would remember the day my child was born and the day my child died in heart ❤️ 😢
*Who tried to kill their parent? I missed that part*
@@joannsoda2250 watch the video
There is no excuse on the planet for this mother, to not know where her daughter was.
I'm so sick of weak parents. This little girl's actions didn't start at 15yo. She was doing whatever she wanted from an early age.
EXACTLY no way a father should be letting his 15 year old do what she wants
My parents weren't weak and I almost died at age 16. Trust me you could not control me and I was sneaky. Very sneaky. I am now 30 and matured a lot
@@calliannedewitt3112 poor parenting is to blame when kids behave this way, whether you realize it or not. There are very few exceptions, and based on your comment you’re not one of them.
@@calliannedewitt3112Did you ask your parents for forgiveness yet? Or are you one of “I was young and stupid so..” infuriating people?
How can you not realize that your child is missing for a whole week? My mom would've known that very day I didn't come home. I know the mom is desperate for answers. It would be terrible to not know where your child is. I doubt she's still with us. So sad!
I kinda think (kayla's ) mom has her own "issues" with stability.....
Agree like how did h not know
Daughter was a hoe, so she’s doing her own thing. Her father is dying and she’s busy “ visiting male friends “ leave her to the streets.
Yah that's a bit SUS .....was mother checked for alibi....I hate thinkin it but maybe she got in major trouble for going to see him and they got into an altercation and mom went to far....but I think the 1 or 2 of the guys are major suspects
They forgave their children ..
They have heart of gold
Kayla's story is PROOF not everyone should be a parent. That girl had no real adults in her life.
It took mom one fkn month to report her missing??
No I think a week they said , not a month
Mom trusted her that is why she had got freedom but i wish my mom blocked the door the night i told my mom im going to go to Tim's house and later my mom got a phone call from police stated i been stabbed and she later told me next time you might not be as lucky and next time you will listen to me when i say i have a feeling something is gonna happen and look what did happen you got stabbed could been a whole lot worse but that would not have happened if you listened to your mother ..gave me a big hug and cried
@@mtio2807wow i not known that but i still think she did not run away she is or was kidnapped and no longer alive my own oppion ! God i hope i am wrong !
@@tomkee4479not heard anything how long it took mom to report missing
Um NO! We don’t want these two gremlins back in society just because their parents don’t “feel” like victims. Lack of accountability is why they tried to commit murder in the 1st place.
EXACTLY! 😠
If the children YOU RAISED… want you dead… by ANY means… those children have NO soul… and would murder ANYone if they don’t get their way!
It’s just another “fail” on the parents part… wanting those murderous psychopaths out early… smdh
Exactly. Can you imagine those two degenerates caring for their parents in their golden years. Whew Chile. Abuse galore.
Ikr!!! That's crazy!!!!! Ugh
Damn straight!
@@getreal4real169dealing with these two clowns they won't make it until their golden years
Those boys were ungrateful and entitled. It’s heartbreaking to think that your own kids would try to murder you. Bad a$$es. They need to immediately disown them. I would have NEVER spoken on their behalf. That’s probably part of the problem. The parents overlooked their rudeness on too many occasions.
Especially when the youngest one said he had been planning it since he was 11 years old!! They both showed no remorse. They looked more pissed off that they didn't succeed.
You have to forgive to get into heaven. But you can never forget. I'm sure they still love them, that never changes.
We cannot be a child’s friend and let them dictate who, what, where, when and how. Things like this end up happening..very sad and scary.
That might be the case but there are million of people who do exactly what this kid did every day but for some reason they arent dead. lets not take a single incident out of 7 billion people and make a mountain out a grain of dust. lets not pretend you know anything about anything beyond what you think you know because you dont even know whats going on in your own home much less whats going on on the next block much less in another town...
@@bjvu9460 Your example and numbers don't match '' a single incident out of 7 billion people'' , we are more than 7 billion first of all and second i think you live in a utopia, majority of parents do not give that much freedom to their kids, I think you talk only about USA, and also there there are diff ethnicities with diff values and way of raising their kids.
@@bjvu9460
Yes and there are hundreds/thousands who lived like Kayla & ended up like Kayla……
Communication and boundaries 1. Explain how this is predatory behavior and not appropriate for his and her age 2. Explain dangers 3. Explain the position as a parent that it well be their job not matter which world and which life to protect the children 4. Take the phone away and house arrest if not compliant 5. Take the phone myself and block or even delete accounts if not compliant 5. Prohibit it and schedule a therapist to hear those points from a not involved perspective 6. No visits at other houses, friends can come over in their own home 7. So many other ways to not let that happen 8. Communication in daily basis - a week without hearing from her is insane. They didn’t do it on purpose but they enabled that behavior with not setting following boundaries and rules.. sad sad case so sorry for her she’s a child and couldn’t know better
@@bjvu9460the level of Ignorance wow
Kevin definitely knows what happened to Kayla. Why would he drop her off at a dark abandoned house? How was the case dismissed?
Not enough evidence
Judges
I remember seeing that video of the girl in the bathroom. My heart shattered
@@bethbivins2484 I remember it came our it was a school project as well but maybe that wasn't the case.
Kevin most likely had a liking for her and didn't want to drop her off to another man so he took her for himself. This is why keeping tabs on your kids is important because there are too many things that can happen and no one will know where to look or who to ask.
From Wisconsin and having raised children it really opened my eyes to how many parents did not really care where there teens were. I always talked to the parents if their child slept over to make sure it was not just ok but if there was any medical issues etc. One parents response to their middle school daughter staying over was "oh that's where she is, yeah its ok". We were talking about a 12 yr old. These people didn't know me. I may not have been a perfect parent but there was no way my kids went over night unless I knew the parents.
Yes like the two teen girls who went on that weekend sleepover in Oklahoma and were murdered by that pedophile McFaddyn. The parents let their daughters go to a home and a family they had not met/known. Now the parents are boohooing about their murdered (and it seems raped and tortured first) daughters. These parents did not take any responsibility to check out the friends home (the stepdaughter of the murderer). And those 2 young girls paid for their parents laziness by losing their lives. Parents now getting their15 seconds of fame as victims now and their responses are unbelievable. Like they are taking it all in their stride like it’s just another day. The house was set up like a sex dungeon, and as the news camera crew walked through you could see sets of chains and handcuffs drilled into the wall in the walk through room off the kitchen as you walk in the door. And sex toys in full view on the shelf. What shocked me was the parents walking through behind the crew and picking up this stuff and looking at the chains and handcuffs, with not even a shriek or comment. When parents don’t even blink an eye at this kind of stuff, you know they did not care about their children.
I do as well. My son hates it but to bad. I even try to get the phone number of all his friends.
Yes, I always knew where my kids were staying. I'm also from Wisconsin by the way!! Hello 👋. But I think this mother doesn't need to be tortured by us. I imagine in her mind she does that to herself each and everyday.
Same here in Georgia! And the parents of the kids that stay at our house also echo the same sentiment- I need to talk to an adult and know exactly where you're going!
My mum cared, she never let me do anything, eventually I had enough and at 15 a switch flipped n I decided I don't care and I did what I wanted, disappeared partied out in the cities, Sometimes way older guy I just met etc etc nothing parents could do then, but omg I look back and wonder how the Frick I'm still alive and never got r*ped so lucky I am 🤦
I'm so glad Zachary and Yvonne are alive and relatively well.. they fought HARD for their lives against their own sons smh
Because their spirit knew. They were prepared to fight back.
Why they asked for leniency behooves me. They NEVER need to be released!
@@RobinNatural1 Are you a Parent? I'm not one, but in my line of work- Child free People are always the First to Judge in these Circumstances.
As a mom of 3 kids I really hope you’ll find your daughter. Hang in there🙏
She is a pretty fucked up Mother. She has zero idea of how to do it or her 15 year old would not be running the show. Its not a matter of being strict either, its about modelling setting your bar a bit goddam higher than just wanting boys attention and having other passions in life than knocking out babies. Too late to cry now Mom.
kevin likely did it they just never found the body and couldnt get any dna
her daughter is dead!
My heart goes out to this woman..she lost her daughter, and her husband, I couldn't imagine..
Kayla had too much freedom. My 15 year old was home when she was 15. She would not dare disappear for a week at a time with older partyers who prey on teens.
Yeah, that's how I am with my sons. But I'll tell ya, I ran away with a grown man at 14. We don't always do what's expected. It's not the mom's fault.
@@GenXfrom75it's not mom's fault but mom still allowed her too much freedom. They didn't even realize she was missing until a week because she allowed her to run off with friends regularly and didn't even think anything was wrong
I'm pretty sure mom is and dad was beating themselves up for that what's crazy is this could've been the 1st time they allowed her to be gone away from home that long either way I'm sure they were kicking their selves in the ass bc their daughter paid the ultimate price partly by being allowed way too much freedom
I have a 16 year old daughter and a 15 year old son, no way are they gone for days at a time. Especially without me knowing exactly where they are. Nobody knew she was missing for a week, that blows my mind.
@@nbitsme1629 it doesn't matter if it was the first time, it shouldn't have happened period. Their 15 year old child was not in contact with them for a week before they noticed she was missing? They didn't know where she was or who she was with for a whole week at 15 years old. She was also dating a grown man.....now she's missing. I hope this is a wake up call for other parents watching who may allow this type of behavior.
Those two men certainly know exactly what happened to this young girl. Parents please don’t let your young children make decisions as though they are the adults. These two boys deserve life in prison look at their faces zero remorse!!!! Evil personified!!! This dad should never get on that stand begging to spare them.
The lack of accountability y’all have when women out here running around sleeping with other men let that had to be the other way tho
I know! I’d never let my daughter do this no way!
@@joelewis8440 U MUST MEAN CHILDREN . Kayla Berg was a child when she disappeared and legally couldn’t consent to sleeping with *ANYONE* less a man ten years her senior . So i wish u would stfu and stop talking shyt about a missing then underage child !
@Joe Lewis Women? You mean a CHILD. A teen girl. For fucks sake, who cares who she was sleeping with? Her bf and Kevin were adult men...predators. Her mother should've been more attentive, but blaming Kayla...God, I hope you don't have daughters.
@@joelewis8440go back to your Andrew Tate videos, incel.
This mom messed up, not Kayla. Your fifteen year old daughter shouldn’t be allowed to “ hang out “ with 24 yr old men - it doesn’t matter if they were friends of her older brother…. Sorry , but Kayla’s disappearance is on you, mom.
Agree
Nope it’s on the people who took her. Parents can do everything right and their child can still get kidnapped.
@@Boom_Bianca she did nothing right though she's definitely responsible 😬
@@happydog2191How are we supposed to know what their home life was like, even you don't know, unless you lived in their house. Its a moot question.
How??? She's missing because someone took her simple!!!
Unfortunately, the parents gave her too much freedom and that is very dangerous for someone that age. So tragic...
My heart goes out to the parent but at the same time, you gotta raise your children.
Imagine knowing your kids want you dead.. 😞☹️
And not just thinking about it, but drugging you, stabbing and beating you and trying to blow up the house.. for money..
Guarantee there were plenty signs they were on a straight path to destruction. before that day. When u notice ya kids are off get them help immediately. Don't just keep letting it building up til they finally try to kill ya or kill others.
Imagine knowing anyone wants you dead... I know what that feels like and they almost made it happen. They tried... They lost. Doesn't really matter who it is, it's always surreal, honestly. But having it be your own children does up the ante...
Watch the bad seed. It doesn't take all kinds there just are all kinds😢
I'm so glad they didn't listen to those foolish parents and give those boys 10 yrs. They r extremely dangerous to society and as far as I'm concerned shld nvr get out. If u go on tictok and read some of the post of kids talking abt their parents it wld leave you trembling. These kids r different and need to be keep an eye on. They r a different breed. First off they don't fight out a problem they shoot. Many r extremely uneducated but have a diploma. They have zero respect for elders and blame all their failures on generations bf them. Fact is they have lost all morals and any desire to earn their own way..in short they r the lost generation. If u don't agree ask yourself was America a much better place to live bf this generation arrived.
It happens way more often than society is willing to admit. If they don’t go as far as wanting you dead, very often they want to abuse you or torture you physically and emotionally. See it in court a lot more now. Drug addiction also makes them behave like monsters. Their brains get fried by drugs and they cease to have human feelings. They only live for the next fix.
Lousy mom let her daughter be missing for a week before calling it in?? Was she charged for child neglect or endangerment? If not, that's pathetic.
Those “boys” are evil. Do you think they’ll come out of prison rehabilitated?
I don’t think so…
Unfortunately the parents seemed like they would have just given those boys a pass for trying to kill them.
They never do.
Sure🙄
American prisons don’t rehabilitate
Definitely not
I have one son and could not imagine him trying to kill me! That's an unforgivable act and my child could never live with me or would I ever trust my own child. That was truly sick and hurtful!
I understand that! I might forgive but no more living with me or being around me because I would not trust those bastards either!
These 2 boys need life in prison. Menaces to society
Crime watch daily was always better with Chris Hanson.
I agree
Soooo true!
HAVE A SEAT!
Facts 💯💯💯💯💯
🙌👏👏
It's really a shame that this mother let a 15-year-old ( and probably when she was younger ! ) spend too much time away from the house .
Lack of discipline . Sad but true .
She let the girl do whatever she wanted instead of being a parent who know the meaning of the word discipline .
I tried to stay away from home as much as possible as a teen. It had nothing to do with discipline. I’ll leave the details out but try to remember that you don’t know everyone’s story or reasoning. There was potentially a very good reason that home wasn’t safe for her.
@@tinydream True. I remember fantasizing about running away from home so maybe i could find someplace where people were kind to each other.
@@dreamsofturtles1828 I hope you found a place to feel safe. It took me until my mid 30s to feel home and safe, and in some ways I'm still looking for it now at 40.
@@tinydream so troubled teens are always running from abuse at home or are they running from correction. 🤷🤦😆🤣
@@tinydream you got mental issues
I can’t think of anything more devastating than knowing your own flesh and blood is trying to kill you. It must be absolutely gut wrenching to the parent. I would not be able to show as much mercy as they did. Forgive, yes. But the punishment has got to be weighted by the crime. I wouldn’t trust that they wouldn’t try to do it again. So sad for the parents.
I have two sons and if they tried to take me out ..no forgiveness they can rot in hell and God willing I'd be able to take them out so they would never be a threat again
Right? And not just flesh and blood but their own offspring. Wow.
I feel for that poor couple too. They look descent and good-hearted people who didn't deserve such betrayal.
A Mom not realizing her 15 year old daughter was missing for a week seems super odd, who lets their 15 year old daughter leave and not contact them for a week? I can only guess the Mom has some sort of drug or alcohol problem, there is no way a sober all there mother isn’t worried sick about not seeing or hearing from her for a week. My heart goes out to the Mom it would be devastating to not know what happened to your daughter, but it’s hard to understand why she wasn’t worried the week no one had seen or heard from Kayla and her Mom had no idea was even missing.
You can look at her and listen to her voice …clearly there is a drug and or alcohol problem! 1 hour of not knowing where my kid was and I’d be frantic!!!
Even when I drank heavily I knew where my kids were and with who. My 18ur old still lives with me and is a senior in school and still ask me before going somewhere and let's me know who she is with. I get all the details. May be because she watches shows like this also.
That mom crying for her daughter to come home really broke my heart, I couldn’t even imagine the pain.
For any wondering about the last case:
64 year old Harden is charged with malice murder, felony murder, aggravated sodomy, rape, aggravated assault, false imprisonment, and aggravated battery. He entered a not-guilty plea on all counts.
Three other women are named in the indictment. They were reportedly assaulted between 2015 and 2016.
He is being held and his court case should begin soon!
Stefan done it
Thank you!
@@australianbirdgal2786 Maybe along with Harden, the handyman? His tears somehow looked overly dramatic, not genuine. And her car by the seedy motel seems too convenient. Her character is now in question and that way the cops come to their own negative conclusion and he becomes the injured party.
@@nimue4325 there were tears? Maybe my screen resolution is low cuz I didn't see tears. I thought to myself that I have never seen such bad fake crying before. 😐
@@jacksbaldhead8326 Let's hope the cops aren't too easily fooled as we so often see.
I’m conflicted with the 15 year old that tells her mom she’s going out and gone for days??? No ma’am…. I don’t believe in free reign raising children. You are under my care until you turn the age of 18 and then pass that point I can’t legally make you do anything you don’t want to. But I can instill right from wrong and grow a tight bond. As for the mother of the three children, my heart goes out to those babies and her family. I think it’s possible that she could’ve been meeting that guy possibly for a drug connection and he had other things in mind.
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They found Heather McDonald’s remains in 2016 her yet no one has still been charged. Just because she got into using prescription medication doesn’t make what happened to her ok
There is still such a lack of information released to the public...it's infuriating.
A 63 year old man has been charged in January 2023 for Heather's murder. His trial should start soon. There are three other women named in the indictment against him. His name is Richard Dale Harden. He has 12 felony counts including malice murder, felony murder, aggravated sodomy, aggravated assault, false imprisonment, and aggravated battery.
Those 2 men bring them back re questioning them. They know
Richard Dale Harden, 63, has been indicted for the 2016 murder of Bartow County woman Heather Dianne McDonald. A 63-year-old man charged with the 2016 murder of Cartersville resident Heather Dianne McDonald, 27, entered “not guilty” pleas to 12 felony counts in Bartow Superior Court on Jan.Jan 25, 2023
It’s clear who is in the video and who had her. Her dna would be there still. This is solvable, period.
That mother crying for answer to her child's disappearance is heartbreaking. I hope she finds what she so desperately needs.
My heart goes out to Heather's husband. To lose your wife and find out she has been unfaithful must be gut wrenching.
i am sure in the end he and the girls are much better off without her, they can remember the good instead of seeing the bad
@@whitefreeman5798yessir
@@whitefreeman5798 gross comment 🤢
@@genericamerican7574 you are entitled to your opinion
@@genericamerican7574in the Old Testament they woulda stoned her.
If that video is truly a fake, that girl deserves an Oscar, because that was a scream of someone terrified.
They found the girl 😂 she said it was fake.
@@karaElise330 …Of course she did, with him standing there.
Yep, that’s my thought. Very suspicious.
lol that video old as hell 😂 it’s already been proved fake
Bruh 🤦♂️ you sound like a gullible biden voter
Dying with your child still out there... That's heartbreaking 💔
kayla’s mom should’ve known better than to allow her young teen to hang out with men in their middle twenties
My heart goes out to Kayla's mother . I used to hang out with much older people at age of 15 . I didnt have that much freedom but that beibg said i thank god nothing ever happened to me
Her mother should and will carry this guilt- how does a 15 year old girl have that kind of freedom?
It boggles the mind - some parents feel they are giving/showing their teens respect by allowing them to have so much freedom.
3rd story: so she tells her husband she is going to stay with family but she meets with another man at a hotel. His wife lied to him. She has slot of secrets and the husband needs to wake up and notice the huge red flags in his marriage. His wife is not who she appears to be
Wow, this is why you parent your kids and not spoil them. Kids are kids not ur friends until they grow up
⚠️READDD⚠️ Now I see why my mother was the way she was . I’m 18 now and I got my own place just to get away even tho I rented the basement apartment under her house because she was offering to pay my rent and deposit for the first 2 months just to keep me close I just wanted freedom but now I see why she was on my back like that. I couldn’t leave as a teen without her knowing exactly where I’m going she had to know all my friends parents and there number and when I got dropped off she had to see all the friends and ask them what we were doing and she would do it in a slick way so just incase we all made a fake story the way she asked it would get messed up and she had no problem making me get right back in the car and take me with her to Either go eat or go shopping she would make it worth it but she would always say your my baby ziya it’s only because in love you and can’t imagine loosing you she did this with all my siblings we couldn’t even sneak out cause she got a fence made and it was super high and she had it built back wards so I couldn’t climb it and she had 4 dogs they had a dog house that was built outside and they would bark if we left outside .. she always showed us videos and stuff like this but now as a adult seeeing this it breaks me . I can’t image this being my mother going through this looking for one of us now I see why she went to the lengths she did because no one deserves this . They needed a tighter leash on that beautiful girl I pray for a miracle ❤😢
My little sister would leave home regularly when she was super young (12,13,14,15) and one time she got with the wrong guy and he almost killed her. She never learned. She continued to go out and do what she wanted. My parents had no control over her and I wish it wouldn’t have been like that.
How is she now?
Clearly, *you learned* what not to do!!! 🤔
all teenagers want freedom , that doesnt mean you give them it , if you dont know where your child is , you are failing them not freeing them
So true.
Freedom with boundaries
It’s one thing if they are a runaway and parents call
Police every time to find her.
But to just let them go at so young and don’t know where and don’t call police for a whole week?! And I think Mom mentioned a brother. He wasn’t concerned she was alway? Mom said bro would also hang out with 24 year old.
24yo shouldn't be hanging out with 15 years olds..
And the other way round.
@@eh-i1841 indeed.
@@eh-i1841 THE ADULT is more at fault than the CHILD
Omg what parent let's there 15 yr old be gone for a week without checking on them??? No effn way!!! My daughter is 15 and she's home with me all the time. She has a few friends I trust but I'd NEVER in a million years let her go that long unless it was summer or church camp.
Note: No parents are perfect. This has got to be a horrible feeling for that mother. Praying Kayla's mom gets some type of closure🙏🏽
She's a terrible parent. She didn't even try to set boundaries to keep her daughter safe.
That last story is so heartbreaking. Those poor girls. I wish the mother had went and received professional help. She was clearly going through stuff that she needed help for. So sad I’m sure she never thought her break would result in her murder 😞
Addiction is the worse that can happen to anyone 😢
No tears tho what y'all think
@@ladycaldwellshow8099he was trying so hard to force it. Weird.
@@taniececiagray-hd9vzI don't think he was trying to force it. I think he was fighting to hold it in. A lot of men aren't comfortable crying in front of one person let alone on camera for a show that tons of people will see. Either way, that whole situation is just awful all around.
@@ladycaldwellshow8099the sister and dad looked strange
How can you protect your child if you have no clue where they are?...that is like shooting in the dark! I feel bad for Kayla but even now, as an adult, I try not to travel or stay out past dark with my kids. And my kids will not be out alone. Even when they are older I will always recommend walking with a friend or two that I know well and have vetted. Because friends are not always true friends. So sad...
I’d rather my kids hate me for not letting them go out than end up like this knowing if I’d just parented my kid they’d be alive
24:29 awww what a sweet little girl hugging her dad when she saw him crying 😢
I have 5 kids, and i would know if any of them were missing within the hour. No 15 yo should be missing for 5 days without being noticed.
So I'm originally from Atlanta GA. I moved north to Woodstock Ga 23 years ago, because of all the horrendous traffic!!! I'm very familiar with towns further north such as Cartersville. I'm very distraught about this case of this young mother. I can tell you that Trafficking is a huge problem here. I would love to hear the rest of this case. My heart goes out to the husband and his precious little girls that will forever grow up without their mommy.😭
She was definitely trying to buy pills and they argued and they nabbed her
It's a bit irritating that this mom allowed her 15yr old daughter to regularly disappear for days at a time when she'd "go out"..
That lil girl had WAAAY too much freedom and was left to play ADULT with actual adults and then wonder how bs like this happens 🤦WAKE UP PARENTS AND BE MORE PROTECTIVE OVER UR CHILDREN.. DONT LET THEM GROW UP BEFORE THEY SHOULD.. TEACH AND EDUCATE THEM WHILE THEY'RE STILL YOUNG AND DONT STOP!! YOUNG KIDS NOW DAYS ABSOLUTELY NEEEED TO BE TOLD ABOUT NOT JUST THE GOOD, BUT ALL THE BAD THAT'S ANYWHERE AND BASICALLY EVERYWHERE!
BETTER TO BE OVERLY CAUTIOUS THEN NOT AND THEN HAVE A CHILD BE TOO NAIVE TO THIS MESSED UP, SICK WORLD WE HAVE TO SURVIVE IN
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I'm not being sarcastic, I'm wondering if you have experience with a similar situation? Sounds like you're speaking from a place of pain
Exactly! And she looks much older. ❤
Lmao yes cause those types of parents are deff going to read this and change 💀
These are my thoughts, too!!
Thats so sad a young girl could be missing for a week before anybody calls her in missing. Jeeeezus
When I was 15 I didn't tell my mom where I was going. I had to ask for permission to go anywhere.
I’m sure she regrets not being a strict parent, look how broken she is after all these years. May God bring her peace & heal her heart🤍
Reporters that interview these terrible parents need to hold their feet to the fire and question them on their behavior. Why was a 15yo allowed to act that way?
at 4:28
Kala “tells” her mom she’s go out…
BS!! little girls 👧🏻should “ask” if she can go out
Those men are so lucky they have their parents. It’s a deal breaker for me. I want you to get 50 years and don’t ever contact me again…EVER!! What monsters they are, do society a favor and lock them up for 50 years.
Right
If they could do that to their parents , what chance do others have
glad to see the proper Crime Watch Daily episodes coming out again :)
YESSSSSSS WE’VE BEEN WAITING TOO LONG
Prayers to the lil girls who lost their mom way to soon. Please be safe
Hope, I can't begin to imagine what you're going through, I pray that Kayla comes home to you real soon, 🙏🙏❤❤
Hispanic guy (Miguel) commits NO crime against Kayla and had to get a Lawyer to stay out of jail.... White guy (Kevin) ACTUALLY commits a crime against Kayla who is just a 15 y.o. girl and charges are dropped due to insufficient evidence 😅😂
You are assuming that Miguel committed no crime,and that Kevin did.
Correlation does not equal causation
@@eh-i1841 Not assuming.... Kevin DID commit a crime ... and Miguel did not... the video states it 🥴🥴🥴
It's called "white privilege". Every system in AmeriKKKa is encrusted with it. Caucasians stay on code by denying its existence. But if you've lived long enough, have a discerning eye and pay attention to the patterns and the correlations you'll see 👀 it EVERY TIME!
@@lsb9397 um actually no they didn’t rule out Miguel. Nice try racist
I can’t imagine knowing I was taking my last breaths and not knowing if my daughter was safe.
I feel so bad for Kayla Bergs mother. I hope one day she will find her daughter. So sad.
Wow those parents are amazing and strong. I can’t even begin to imagine. Your own kids trying to kill you. So sad.
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Wdym "your own kids trying to kill you" ? Did I miss something? Quite possibly
Don't feel sorry for Kayla parents..,they allow her to be on the street wondering around with growing up men., which kind of a parents do that especially to a young daughter?
I believe that at the beginning of the comment they were speaking about Kayla and her parents but then switched to the 2nd story of the 2 brothers trying to kill their mother and blow up her house! They drugged her or poisoned her and she was about to call 911!
@@DaChosen1_220 yep!
Dont cry now lady,u should of been a parent!
15 and mom doesn’t realize she’s missing for a week ? wtf? Maybe mom should be checked out.
😢omg that mother is understandably so heartbroken. I hope if Kayla is still alive she's able to escape and get back to her mom
It’s a shame she didn’t spend more time with her instead of letting her spread it all around town!
What a tragedy. I cannot imagine the pain Hope has been going thru for the past 7 years. My heart and prayers are with you.
Have a heart! Bring Hope some closure!
Sadly it sounds like Heather had a secret addiction and addicts find other addicts and that's probably where she was staying or with a dealer. Its so sad that this happened to her.
That’s exactly what I thought. It sounds as if she got involved with something that really got a hold of her. Could she have overdosed and her body was left in the woods? I hope the results of the autopsy provide answers for the family. Those little girls will suffer their whole lives because of this tragedy!
That's what I'm thinking to Such a Tragedy 😢
@@kathleenwyatt563 I was thinking the same thing about maybe she took too much or something and overdosed but then someone said they saw her arguing with 2 men.
Agreed. Kids with that much running around to do are either in clubs aka extra cirriculars or drugs. Looks like mom drinks heavy. Real sad situation. Cause if my older brother knew I was hanging out with his friends both are asses would've been grass!! Hell my younger brother did threaten a few guys over looking at me while picking him up from football practice. And that's pretty typical. So I'm really shocked nothing in this story comes across as normal. Almost like she never had a chance.
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My thoughts: Maybe she suffered from addiction, got into deep and had debts with local dealers & they scared her by stalking her & then made her „work it off“ in those seedy hotels & something awful happened there?? This is pure speculation on my part! My antennas went up when her husband said „she is not a COMMODITY“ - that’s a very odd thing to say out of the blue when your wife is missing. I pray for her and her family ❤
2:08 the fact that she started yelling once the door opened, tells me that it was a hoax!!
To the mother of kayla, im so sorry, you are in my continued thoughts and prayers! I pray some day you will find out the truth and maybe then you can find closure!!! Mine and my familys heart goes out to you! I just wish you can find the answers you need!! As a mother i cant even imagine what you have went through and continue to go through every day of your life!! ❤💔
Baby girl hugging and consoling her daddy 💔
I don’t live to far from this town and never heard of her case until TH-cam posted it 😢
No parent should have to be without their children. Prayers for the family
Some should look how many killed theirs
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Soooo Happy Their Bringing The Original Style Of Videos Back , Haven’t Yet Watched The Story 😢..
We don't capitalize every word that we type.
@@Flamsterette
I often see people doing that and I don’t understand why they do it. Also, I don’t know why people talk-text and create/post huge paragraphs, sans punctuation, that are unreadable.
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@@EYE_GOTCHA it’s bc they want to be different 🤷🏾♀️ like a lot of girls i know turn their caps off so it doesn’t autocorrect at the beginning. if you asked me why i did that i’d just say that i like the way it looks, feels more like me saying it 💕
Why are these grown men free to mess with children…..🤔🤔
The husband definitely has something to do with it.
Sounds fishy
How do you not know your 15 year
Old is missing for even a day let alone a week??
Stefon had a lot of empathy for someone who was running around lying to him and cheating.
Whether innocent or guilty do you really think it would be acceptable to show anything but empathy and concern to media and law enforcement?
I feel bad for him, he's still in denial and was like "they're just friends" brrooo come on
Stefon has wild goose story’s about what he thinks happened...all these leads for the cops away from himself.... he has more concern about talking smack than looking for his wife. He shakes his head no when he says ‘we want her home’ all the while crocodile tears.
@Australian bird gal The shaking of the head in contrast to his words is definitely suspicious.
@ella I'm not buying it. Everyone in the area (I live there) have multiple reasons to believe he is full of it. Sure they could have been friends. That pedo friend of hers preferred young males. Nothing unbelievable about that aspect. It's that the husband is pretending that he lived a "walk the line" lifestyle and is oblivious to hers that makes this case preposterous. LE not releasing info regarding cause of death and other details is quite telling in my opinion that there is still suspicion on their part.
I love how you guys are so persistent with the likely suspects of these cases, great work!! I hope they catch whomever did this.
I’ve acted my whole life and no matter how great a person is at acting I can still tell they are acting…that guy with the glasses wasn’t acting. I can even tell when ppl on social media or influencers are acting/fake. That guy has some kind of mental illness and is truly crazy…his energy and everything about him is terrifying. Someone truly needs to investigate him.
I don't think the video made by the fat a** in the glasses was a 100% fake. He gave me vibes like the TYPE of person who would do that. And the fact that his house had a dirty bathroom downstairs in a basement like that. I don't know... 😶
They're film students from a university and the school knew about the production. It was a class project.
I guess you don't know as much as you think you do 😂
Let me guess, in your mom's basement in your one man productions? I know you definitely don't get any gigs if you couldn't see right through that acting!
How she didn’t know her daughter was missing for a week but mad that these dudes don’t want to take a lie detector? Take some responsibility.
Every parent and style is different for this mom I'm sure she is beating herself up over the past seven years let's all be kind with our words and send our prayers for her family😢
What the heck is wrong with parents?! You don't let your 15 year old daughter date a 19 year old, have his ass arrested if you to jesus. And you don't let your 15 year old just say oh I'm going out tonight and walk out, wtf? Watch your kids and know who their friends are and who their friends parents/guardians are. Stop failing your kids.
This 2nd story is a hot mess. How do you try and murder the two people who brought you in this world and took care of you. Spoiled brats. I hope they don't get a penny from them.
Some people seem to believe they’re a friend to their children … they go to school to find those. They need parents at home
That first mother is crying but no tears....very peculiar.
It happens when you have grieved and cried for a very long time.
@@bibibello2181 That is NOT true! There is a chance that initially there would be no tears due to shock but there's no such thing as the fake crying and no tears coming out because they've cried so much.
@@isabellavalencia8026 You can not do a sweeping generalization of how people should react!!! I have gone through hell in life including losing my parents suddenly. I know what pain is! I know what deep pain and misery is without being able to shedd tears anymore after crying for too long. My heart cries many times without evident tears on my face! I said what I said from experience! I repeat you can not tell how people will act in pain. I have seen people smiling and laughing through horrible pain! They are not exactly laughing but grieving.
He rented a car for his wife to go on a trip to think about if she wants him and their children! Isn’t that a gentleman?!?!
Weird what he did
I was looking for a comment about that case .. I definitely think the husband knows something . It just seems alll like an act and too planned out . Like he said he texted her saying him and the girls are going to clean up the house and head to a friends like okay your already giving us your alibi so Somone doesn’t ask . I think he’s acting .
Probably found out she was cheating and dropped her dusty ass
I’m not gonna lie his story does sound pretty legit. He was trying to save his marriage by giving her a break. Seems like he didn’t know she had a deep, dark secret.
@@ShayonceEpperson90 I think there’s more than he’s letting on.
I don't think refusing a polygraph is a sign of guilt bc they have been proven to be unreliable if I was accused of something I didn't do I wouldn't take 1 either
Same. And the cops can lie and say you didn’t pass it. Regular people don’t how to read polygraph results, and don’t know the cops can legally lie, so they get false confessions that way.
But they didn't refuse they did everything so they couldn't take it personally thats the difference
@@danchinoloves7804 from what I recall 1 of them refused and the other 1 I can't remember if at he 1st refused then agreed to take it or he if he only agreed to do it then he started to come up with excuses to not take it pretty much only 1 of them agreed then came up with excuses for why he couldn't take it
In the last segment - Did anyone else think Stephen looked kind of sus? I would expect more emotion from a man with a missing wife.
Crazy how the police allowed them not to take a polygraph test, since they were the last to see that young girl. Such a shame.
Why is that crazy? You can’t be forced to take a polygraph test.
Also polygraph tests aren’t admissible in court. There’s so many different factors that can happen that can give a false negative or positive.
There have been people who passed polygraphs who were in fact guilty of terrible things.
My man told his barber give me the round about shape up 😂
That shit is a whole cul de sac… 😭