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And they wonder why most US soldiers have the mindset of soldiers for hire. Most of us who join the military join for financial gain . We're not interested in the politics we're here to get paid. If soldiers could get paid well to guard a Walmart we would probably do that. But it's about money. Always has been. Sure the public image is patriotic but the reality is most of us are from the working class and joined for the better paycheck.
One important point that Lux forgot in this video is addiction: society wants you to become addicted. To alcohol, tobacco, prescribed drugs or illegal narcotics, gambling, social media, video gaming, the internet, shopping, watching TV etc. An addiction keeps your brain occupied, numbs your common sense and empties your wallet. This will make it easy for society to have you under control.
1) Follow the majority. 2) Be financially stupid. 3) Live on the weekend. 4) Respect your elders by default. 5) Stop learning after school. 6) Go in debt, to go to college or buy a house. 7) Sacrifice for your country. 8) Be offended. 9) Be scared. 10) Let the government take care of you. 11) Hide your problems. 12) Buy materials things / Follow trends. 13) Fit your stereotypes. 14) Judge your position in the hierarchy. 15) Have your shit together by the time you're 20.
00:00 - Intro 00:26 - Follow the majority 00:52 - Be financially stupid 01:29 - Live on the weekend 02:09 - Respect your elders as a default 03:00 - Stop learning after school 04:42 - Go in debt: to go to college, to buy a house, to buy a car, to buy food 06:28 - Sacrifice for your country 07:54 - Be offended 08:34 - Be scared 09:32 - Let the government take care of you 10:28 - Hide your problems 11:35 - Buy material things & Follow Trends 12:29 - Fit your stereotype 13:13 - Judge your position in the social hierarchy based on social media 14:11 - Have your shit together by the time you’re 20 15:22 - Question
Finally a video that justifies so many things I've been doing my whole life against society: from skipping classes in high school so I would study on my own in the library, do better and get ahead, and all the way to not get in debt for things I don't really need for survival. Thank you!
The stupidest thing that I have heard from the society and, my teachers specifically, is that it is impossible for a person to have two extreme skills. Like you can never be analytical or calculative and kind or compassionate at the same time, you cannot like English and Economics, you cannot ride a motor bike or kawasaki and know how to dance soft ballet, you have to choose one thing or the other.
Society teaches us to be truthful and honest when we are a child but when we reach adulthood being truthful and honest make them hate us , go against us , call us stupid or too blunt and unmannered
Honestly speaking 80%, I come from a 3rd world country and it’s even worse here. Where the government and society dictates our lives and anyone that tries to rise above it is shut down. This has put fear in most young minds and standing up to the government, society, and the economy is but a pipe dream.
Yes no doubt, people feel leaving their country is the best way to get a secured job or business opportunities, but no because even here in Texas, we have many jobless people out there
I've blown accounts on different trading platforms for the last couple of months I'll like to see hands of experience oversee my investments, how do I get hold of Mrs Sarah's service...?
The key to investing is; to buy while prices are dumping, and when it goes up, everyone stops selling as they think that the prices will continue rising.
This is the best channel and less-BS oriented non-news channel on TH-cam. You dived into a critical area of understanding that has Winston Smith clapping. Well done Alux.
I believed the dumb lie that in my early 20s that I had all the time in the world and I wasted them, plus I kept being told that starting a business was “too hard”
This is why I'm paying off my car within the next year. I paid over $12000 in the last 3 months. This is not because I have endless income. This is from income taxes and such. I am tired of paying on a car. I have $6,900 left to pay. My car is a 2018, so it will last a long time, if I take care of it!
Brittany Wilcox you didn't need a video to tell you not to pay ten times the value of your car, that should have been clear. If not I have some ten cent apples for you.
@@djskum thanks... The video didn't tell me to pay off my car. I started paying my car off, prior to the video. Not sure if I asked for someone's opinion? 🤔
@@brittanynicole9318 with your comment you want to tell people that you are doing the smarter thing, but you don't need confirmation because you don't let society tell you what the intelligent thing is!! Sorry for my comment not being the positive you were looking for.
@@djskum I was commenting to the creator. I don't need approval from anyone. Lol. If I did, I likely wouldn't be paying my debt off. Everyone I know thinks debt is necessary, so you may not want to read into my comment. Lol. Guess you don't have anything better to do. 🤓
I hate being expected to fit into binary thinking. Everyone thinks in terms of a or b. Look at politics. I agree with the left in some area and agree with the right in some areas.
And people are oddly confused when you agree with some of their issues and not others! They want you to be "all in" or "all out". Anything or anybody that attempts to take away your critical thinking ability or independent judgement isn't good for you.
@@biyisimoyan6252, I hate people who are all in on either side. I have beliefs that fall under both Republican and Democrat but I get so much shit from people on either side because I do not blindly follow whatever their personal political gods say.
"don't make mistakes! it's shameful, it's bad" this is what society teaches kids and this is the way of thinking they use when they are already adults, they try to not make any mistakes, therefore, they are scared to learn how to walk, just in case, they fall. This is why the majority of people don't succeed, this is why they are poor. they are scared of making mistakes. they don't understand that it's okay to make mistakes, that it's an important thing to do, because THIS IS HOW YOU LEARN. this is how you reach perfection. this is how you grow and develop. by learning and analyzing your and others mistakes. step by step, by falling and rising up again. this is how you became a WINNER.
In my case, society forces to marry early. I'm 28 right now. But society in my country thinks it's better if I marry early. And there is no "your choice" it's "their choice". And society also thinks that if you cannot earn side income then you're a loser
OMG. This is so true. That's why I was never really liked by my coworkers when I say that I have a degree, don't have loans, and don't have kids. I was totally not following the society's rules. On top of that, I would always brag about the coupons I used and discounts I got for clothes, shoes, and groceries. That made people to not want to talk to me. I am definitely one of the people who don't obey the society's rules. That's why I have created a video called "14 things with America's Education System" It is somewhat similar to this video.
Just want to say that if you want kids, I suggest doing so before 40. Risk of the fetus having various issues goes up, as does complications of birth. Its also much harder to keep up with the demands of the baby. The chances of getting (and staying) pregnant are significantly reduced, and without much time to intervene. Not saying has to be your 20s but your 40s is taking a big risk.
@@spiritualBaddi While correct that there are many factors at play, age is absolutely *the* major factor dominating the others by a significant margin. To go against that is to refute the wide body of evidence in obstetric research. Mindset (I presume what you mean when you mention belief) isn't going to give a 45 year old (
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“a purpose through consumption” this one hit me hard, there’s so much truth to it!
*TRUTH BOMBS* - Alux is killing it, mama mia where did that come from? Super!!! 1st People conform, individual keep seeking the Truth 2nd School teach and maintain obedience, ask permission to go to the toilet 👈🤣 3rd When an individual did learn to rise,maintaining the status quo is in their benefit and that is just 3 minutes in - mama mia wow! 👏👏👏
In hindsight, I function much better single than I did married. Society pushed the idea that I needed to be married and have kids to be viewed as a success. To the contrary, I much prefer my life post divorce and with grown out of the house children. To both sexes, think long and hard before committing to marriage and a family. Marrying poorly can be the undoing of you.
1. Follow the majority 2. Be financially stupid 3. Live on the weekend 4. Respect your elders as a default 5. Stop learning after school 6. Go into debt: to go to college, to buy a house, to buy a car, to buy food 7. Sacrifice for your country 8. Be offended 9. Be scared 10. Let the government take care of you 11. Hide your problems 12. Buy material things and follow trends 13. Fit your stereotype 14. Judge your position in the social hierarchy based on social media 15. Have your shit together by the time you're 20 16. They'll come after you if you stand out
Re #8: *"When a society no longer has to deal with real conflict, it creates its own conflict just to keep itself busy!"* ^^ THIS! All damn day! I see people doing this all the time.
When I was in grade 8; I got in trouble from my principal for using advanced math equations on a test (in grade 6 I was helping my mom with her college math homework)…. The principal told me it’s not about getting the answers right or wrong… it was all about following orders.
Not sure if I fully agree with number 6. Paying off a home sucks at times but it's harder for someone to remove you from your property. Compare that to renting andddd..... You can be evicted because the landlord doesn't like you, if you mad a bad deal and don't know your protections, insane rent increases are probable. It's pretty split down the middle honestly, if you buy a home you can afford and not the one that makes you look "ultra-rich" when your really broke, you should be ok.
So true about school, like where did they get off for punishing students with caning & strapping when you stepped out've line, they are suppose too teach & guide you to be a better person in the future. Had I known this years ago I would've wagged school every year, teach myself how to cover my tracks, train & learn of others that don't view life as a Stupid game, love your video's "Keep going" Thanks for sharing
I am a middle aged Alux subscriber. Thank you for creating videos that blow up old ideas. I wish I had this info. decades ago. Great content and I am able to apply many principles and my life is getting better. This works!
I’m not a million, extremely far from it…but society lead me to believe at one point that more money meant a happier life. WRONG, more money meant I was the same person in living in a better part of town. Honest truth, I finally broke into extremely low 6 figure income and my wife is really close to it. We have no kids and I can tell you, honestly, we’re no happier at close to $200k dual income than we were when we were $100k dual income. Same people in a bigger house that I hate cleaning most day and a nicer car that requires premium gasoline that I hate paying for. We’re not miserable by any mean but going from $100k dual income to almost $200k hasn’t changed one dang thing. I won’t say that money is overrated but society has convinced folks (myself as well at one point) that the more you have of it the more important and happier you’ll be…which is a complete LIE!
We are programmed into a mass psychosis of conformity and obedience. Perhaps because we've been preconditioned subconsciously to believe that social integration and acceptence is a safety net of survival, when its the opposite. We came into this world and will exit this world ALONE. Self validation and approval is all you need. Love YOU and conform only to your idea of life. In the end, everyone else will be irrelevant.
This is a hard challenge. Most cultures raise kids as a famly and neighborhood project so the burden isn’t all on one or two people. The flip side is 17 is peak fertility for women and after 25 rapidly drops so waiting past 35 means expensive treatments that usually don’t work. One way to have both would be to retire by 30 to focus full time on kids. Society won’t suggest this
Nice! One career is not the only thing that an individual can be destined for! After mastering the second thing (only the first needs 10k hours), the third and fourth become much easier. Totally different sectors. Basically you’re learning how to learn. Albeit very very well, but still learning none-the-less. Cross-platforming is almost essential now. Being different makes ya stick out like a sore thumb though and they WILL try to take you out. They will try to fight you on your ground, and you will win, then they will join you. Kid you not. But often times they will join you on their ground. So aren’t we all!!! Change the future people!!! It’s right now!!!
I hope this video gets over a billion views. It contains all of the knowledge from the last two decades of the “truth movement” packed into seventeen and a half minutes. Great job Alux!!!
*The reality of the rich and the poor is this: the rich invest their money and spend what is left. The poor spend their money and invest what is left"*
@@PlatPodMediaCEOSean And you're an irrelevant grifter who posts comments in channels with way more views than yours in hopes that one day you'll have any significance.
The most shitty thing that society of India forces me to do is that to go to school I've just cleared the school & I've stuck with a shitty collage & now the society forces me to attend their f'in lectures & exams(even if I ain't prepared for the exams)& I end up thinking that it would be better if I took arts but the problem is that.....their would be less opportunities if I did took arts & my parents won't let me took arts & why I wanna take arts? Welll I wanna be a self-learner cause ultimately my teachers are demanding "self study for exams" wtf...I was able to do it my self I choose science CAUSE of Biological & study of physics.....& I wasn't aware of this harsh truth!!! & now I wanna be a self learner but peer pressure is to score f'in good marks in college for a " GOOD JOB IN FUTURE!! "😤😞😖😟😔🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤮🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡
15:42 this is so so true.. Haters will bow to us once we make it.. But they'll never miss an opportunity to break it before we make it! Standing out makes us leader and followers hate it when we rise ourselves and stand out they get jealous and mock..
Rather a conspiratorial tone in this video. Alux: they want you to be afraid to control you. They want you to buy more stuff. Also Alux: you should be afraid of this thing, now buy stuff with our affiliate link. I'm sure glad this wasn't the first Alux video I saw. If it were, I wouldn't be watching any other Alux videos. Fortunately, I know that Alux is big on good, logical financial and life advice.
This is really accurate! It feels like people were so well brainwashed that they actually believe in all that crap and take it for its face value. 🤦🏻♂️
Thank you for the "Red Pill" of Truth! Since all of us together make up "Society", we must work within society to make it better. By understanding the Truths in your video and the advice you offer, we are far more likely to achieve personal success! I hope TH-cam does not ban you for this one!
@@kunaltrivedi11 father believes hes entitled to fucking thing in life. Never achieved much on his own. Parents gave him everything. Im out here on my own buidling myself
Unless somebody is colourblind, the graph at 10:05 states that the number of employees in state-owned companies is *DECREASING* year over year, not increasing.
Well, I was sure that I would never agree about anything with this narrator. That just changed this minute. I agree with just about everything this lady said in this video. All that this lady said, it took me decades to see and feel the importance of what this woman narrator just got through explaining in this video. I never could like the education system in its present form. I certainly became a non conformist. For example, I really dont care much for a brand new car. I hope to find and purchase a fully restored 1963 Pontiac Grand Prix. At any rate my ambition is to be a tobacco farmer. To all you out there, believe in yourself and never abandon your dreams. To the narrator of this video, you are also very special and important.
Society makes me focus on so many things making me a wreck, the truth is, we only need to focus on one core gift that we have and serve people using that core gift.
umm, sorta, you need to continue to acquire and refine talents as you age...what is perplexing to most is that if you find your "thing"? It doesn't last, the world is moving so fast now there is no "cradle to grave" like there used to be
I love this! I feel the Slytherin vibes all over the video, me being a Slytherin myself. One stupid thing I have been told is "It is normal to suffer, life is suffering.". This also comes from a place of religious brainwashing applied to children in my stupid country.
Having kids in your 30s or 40s is terrible advice for women. First of all, female fertility drops fast after 30 or so, making it harder and harder to get pregnant. At the age of 44, half the women are effectively infertile. Secondly, women are most attractive when they are 23 years old and it goes downhill after that. Many women hit "the wall" already during their 30s, which means their attractiveness drops to a substantially lower level. Finding a male mate is much harder, and often requires the woman to lower her standards, which is something many women don't want. A woman who wants both a family and a career must plan her life. The best pathway is to finish education, then find a male who is a few years older with a good income, start a family paid for by him, and once the children are old enough to go to school, start her career. There is some time to travel the world for a year or so or do other things, before starting a family, but the longer a woman postpones having children, the harder it will get.
If I listened to everyone in particular, I would have kids, get married, be broke, be depressed and have tons of unwanted stuff... Instead, I'm in a relationship, have no kids, have savings, have investments and as of the stuff? It's managable and I give some away to charities or something. It's better off to learn, than to follow everyone... Be a dime, instead of a penny.
This is one of the best and most profound Alux video I have ever watched. You guys rock. By the way, what the name of the lady presenting? She is very engaging and has such a beautiful voice too.
I agree with 90% of this video, with one exception. Schooling, I still believe and know that education is not a waste of time. If you are in school and you are not learning how to learn, then you are clearly doing it wrong. An education provides the opportunity to network, to work with peers in your profession and have the credentials to prove that you capable of doing the work. That is not worthless, doing that yourself just takes longer because you are on your own without a guide, coach, or mentor. I will also say this, the things that society loves to try and force on people. Things like men should drink, smoke, do drugs, and have sex to be "part of the group" or to "be a man" or to "not be a pussy" is something that was pushed on me at a very early age. However these things do not interest me at all, I am and have always been happier pursuing my own things. Surprise, surprise having that insight early in my life has propelled me further than most. Did I try to stop their fun? No, it is their own lives to live. However if I want to have the dignity and respect to live my life to the fullest, the least I can do is leave everyone else to live their lives to the fullest as well. Great Video! Looking forward to seeing, watching, and hearing more!
I dont follow the society. I hate the goverment in the Philippine, i dont go to church, i quit my job and start with small. I invest in crypto not the bank. Because of you guys alux make my life better every single day. I learn more that what i have in school. Thank you alux. Your the best.
The Stupid thing that Society Tried to Push Me to do is, to think that my life should be a Democracy lol and that the best place that I, should be, and spend the rest of my life at is, Jerk Water USA instead of Spending the rest of my life in a Tropical Paradise lmao
society says that im not rich because i drive a 11 year old car, but the person whom took a 9 year loan with 4.1% on a foreign make car brand is considered rich? LOL mine is paid for and with low maintenance, easy to swap parts and cheap to maintain. Whereas the other...literally nothing is doable by DIY. lol ok.
I had people in my life - extended family, work colleagues - who kept wanting me to get married and/or have kids. Grandparents who wanted me to get married make them GREAT Grandparents; work colleagues who didn’t even care if I was married, but who wanted me to have kids like they did. I was barely in my mid-20s and not even done with college. And they would all get these weird and sometimes resentful looks when I would tell them I had ZERO interest in getting married before I was 30 (and that if I never met someone who I wanted to marry I was fine with that - I wasn’t going to settle for anyone just because), and that I didn’t have any desire to have kids either. 15 years later, still not married, still no kids and I 100% happy I didn’t conform to the wishes of people around me. I chose a different path, still hard but, if I could do it again I would. THAT is the reward. To look back at choices you made and know you made the right one and have no regrets for them.
have your shit together by the age of 20. I love this call-out because this fixated norm getting me depressed for nearly 2 years, thinking that something wrong with me when I dropout college twice and still don't know what I want to do since I'm a multipotential, i can literally do music,art, design, finance, business,tech & politic.
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And they wonder why most US soldiers have the mindset of soldiers for hire. Most of us who join the military join for financial gain . We're not interested in the politics we're here to get paid. If soldiers could get paid well to guard a Walmart we would probably do that. But it's about money. Always has been. Sure the public image is patriotic but the reality is most of us are from the working class and joined for the better paycheck.
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One important point that Lux forgot in this video is addiction: society wants you to become addicted. To alcohol, tobacco, prescribed drugs or illegal narcotics, gambling, social media, video gaming, the internet, shopping, watching TV etc. An addiction keeps your brain occupied, numbs your common sense and empties your wallet. This will make it easy for society to have you under control.
Well put!
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I'm totally agree with you..
Addiction to TH-cam videos
On point
This is actually not a motivational video, its a true wake up call.
That's the best kind of motivation
I was thinking the same
If you don’t fit in, then you’re probably doing the right thing. Thanks for this vid Alux!
"Why fit in when you were born to stand out?"
-Dr. Seuss
1) Follow the majority.
2) Be financially stupid.
3) Live on the weekend.
4) Respect your elders by default.
5) Stop learning after school.
6) Go in debt, to go to college or buy a house.
7) Sacrifice for your country.
8) Be offended.
9) Be scared.
10) Let the government take care of you.
11) Hide your problems.
12) Buy materials things / Follow trends.
13) Fit your stereotypes.
14) Judge your position in the hierarchy.
15) Have your shit together by the time you're 20.
Pretty much sums it up. 🤷♀️💯
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00:00 - Intro
00:26 - Follow the majority
00:52 - Be financially stupid
01:29 - Live on the weekend
02:09 - Respect your elders as a default
03:00 - Stop learning after school
04:42 - Go in debt: to go to college, to buy a house, to buy a car, to buy food
06:28 - Sacrifice for your country
07:54 - Be offended
08:34 - Be scared
09:32 - Let the government take care of you
10:28 - Hide your problems
11:35 - Buy material things & Follow Trends
12:29 - Fit your stereotype
13:13 - Judge your position in the social hierarchy based on social media
14:11 - Have your shit together by the time you’re 20
15:22 - Question
Thanks:) But it's already in the description.
@@Science_explained Saves people time
Salary is a drag that is given for you to forget your dreams
Mr Wonderful
"If you don't work the job you hate. We will take your house." 😂😂😂That's why I will never barrow money for liabilities.
Not only mortgage, but worse property taxes. The government can take your house with no mortgage.
If you get a car you had to have a job.
Go back to school and learn to spell.
@Keefe Basyara but how is it not asset its a place you can sleep eat make your own protects from whether
Finally a video that justifies so many things I've been doing my whole life against society: from skipping classes in high school so I would study on my own in the library, do better and get ahead, and all the way to not get in debt for things I don't really need for survival. Thank you!
'They want you to be bad with money' This is so true. Excellent video
YOU WANT TO BE BAD WITH MONEY!!!!
this is why government don't let teachers teach finanicial education
The stupidest thing that I have heard from the society and, my teachers specifically, is that it is impossible for a person to have two extreme skills. Like you can never be analytical or calculative and kind or compassionate at the same time, you cannot like English and Economics, you cannot ride a motor bike or kawasaki and know how to dance soft ballet, you have to choose one thing or the other.
Society teaches us to be truthful and honest when we are a child but when we reach adulthood being truthful and honest make them hate us , go against us , call us stupid or too blunt and unmannered
So true .
I like your comment
Thank you for this information, because you are an adult how can I tell if you are telling the truth?????
Facts
Truth never fails. Wise up.
Honestly speaking 80%, I come from a 3rd world country and it’s even worse here. Where the government and society dictates our lives and anyone that tries to rise above it is shut down. This has put fear in most young minds and standing up to the government, society, and the economy is but a pipe dream.
That’s tricky because at this point the only way to change things is through violence
Or riots
Alux went savage this time! True facts. Great video 👍
Sometimes you have to go against the algorithm and just speak the truth
Alux tells the truth.
Society Pushed me to get a home and a car go to school and gather debt, when I found Alux I got rid of it all & decided to travel
*"When something is important enough for you, you do it even if the odds are against you."*
I hope this message helps you. 🙂
Yes sacrifice for the better no matterter what the odds
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@@johnmike1771 c
Most online stock simulators try to match real-life circumstances and actual performance as much as possible.
Yes no doubt, people feel leaving their country is the best way to get a secured job or business opportunities, but no because even here in Texas, we have many jobless people out there
I've blown accounts on different trading platforms for the last couple of months I'll like to see hands of experience oversee my investments, how do I get hold of Mrs Sarah's service...?
The key to investing is; to buy while prices are dumping, and when it goes up, everyone stops selling as they think that the prices will continue rising.
People's mentality have to change about coming to hyped named countries because life might be much more difficult, who knows
I believe any where I am God helping us there must be a means of survival
This is the best channel and less-BS oriented non-news channel on TH-cam. You dived into a critical area of understanding that has Winston Smith clapping. Well done Alux.
I believed the dumb lie that in my early 20s that I had all the time in the world and I wasted them, plus I kept being told that starting a business was “too hard”
This is why I'm paying off my car within the next year. I paid over $12000 in the last 3 months. This is not because I have endless income. This is from income taxes and such. I am tired of paying on a car. I have $6,900 left to pay. My car is a 2018, so it will last a long time, if I take care of it!
Brittany Wilcox you didn't need a video to tell you not to pay ten times the value of your car, that should have been clear. If not I have some ten cent apples for you.
@@djskum thanks... The video didn't tell me to pay off my car. I started paying my car off, prior to the video. Not sure if I asked for someone's opinion? 🤔
@@brittanynicole9318 with your comment you want to tell people that you are doing the smarter thing, but you don't need confirmation because you don't let society tell you what the intelligent thing is!! Sorry for my comment not being the positive you were looking for.
@@djskum I was commenting to the creator. I don't need approval from anyone. Lol. If I did, I likely wouldn't be paying my debt off. Everyone I know thinks debt is necessary, so you may not want to read into my comment. Lol. Guess you don't have anything better to do. 🤓
Getting rid of debt is ALWAYS smart !! Keep up the good work.
I hate being expected to fit into binary thinking. Everyone thinks in terms of a or b. Look at politics. I agree with the left in some area and agree with the right in some areas.
And people are oddly confused when you agree with some of their issues and not others! They want you to be "all in" or "all out". Anything or anybody that attempts to take away your critical thinking ability or independent judgement isn't good for you.
@@biyisimoyan6252, I hate people who are all in on either side. I have beliefs that fall under both Republican and Democrat but I get so much shit from people on either side because I do not blindly follow whatever their personal political gods say.
"don't make mistakes! it's shameful, it's bad" this is what society teaches kids and this is the way of thinking they use when they are already adults, they try to not make any mistakes, therefore, they are scared to learn how to walk, just in case, they fall. This is why the majority of people don't succeed, this is why they are poor. they are scared of making mistakes. they don't understand that it's okay to make mistakes, that it's an important thing to do, because THIS IS HOW YOU LEARN. this is how you reach perfection. this is how you grow and develop. by learning and analyzing your and others mistakes. step by step, by falling and rising up again. this is how you became a WINNER.
Debt is just a modern form of slavery 💯
Yes it is.
In my case, society forces to marry early. I'm 28 right now. But society in my country thinks it's better if I marry early. And there is no "your choice" it's "their choice". And society also thinks that if you cannot earn side income then you're a loser
Are you from India ?
@@cayashwanthpanuganti6681 do I need to say?
@@rohan555gohan oh u r
South Asian cultures are really annoying with that. I am 20 and I do not plan on getting married for a while. I do not care what anyone says about me.
No one should get married at all.
“If you can silence a king, you are the King”
OMG. This is so true. That's why I was never really liked by my coworkers when I say that I have a degree, don't have loans, and don't have kids. I was totally not following the society's rules. On top of that, I would always brag about the coupons I used and discounts I got for clothes, shoes, and groceries. That made people to not want to talk to me. I am definitely one of the people who don't obey the society's rules. That's why I have created a video called "14 things with America's Education System" It is somewhat similar to this video.
Just want to say that if you want kids, I suggest doing so before 40. Risk of the fetus having various issues goes up, as does complications of birth. Its also much harder to keep up with the demands of the baby. The chances of getting (and staying) pregnant are significantly reduced, and without much time to intervene. Not saying has to be your 20s but your 40s is taking a big risk.
I work with a fertility clinic. There are sooooo many other factors other than your chronological age but it's all belief.
@@spiritualBaddi While correct that there are many factors at play, age is absolutely *the* major factor dominating the others by a significant margin. To go against that is to refute the wide body of evidence in obstetric research.
Mindset (I presume what you mean when you mention belief) isn't going to give a 45 year old (
“a purpose through consumption” this one hit me hard, there’s so much truth to it!
Society wants you to follow the usual norm of going to college ,getting a job and getting married. Sad. Won't be me.
*TRUTH BOMBS* - Alux is killing it, mama mia where did that come from? Super!!!
1st People conform, individual keep seeking the Truth
2nd School teach and maintain obedience, ask permission to go to the toilet 👈🤣
3rd When an individual did learn to rise,maintaining the status quo is in their benefit
and that is just 3 minutes in - mama mia wow! 👏👏👏
And the fact when you have asked to go to the toilet, you can risk getting a No too xD
this sounds like middle-class thinking lol. they laugh at me because i am different, i laugh at them because they are all the same 😲
This is literally the best video Alux has created, this is Red Pill truths
In hindsight, I function much better single than I did married. Society pushed the idea that I needed to be married and have kids to be viewed as a success. To the contrary, I much prefer my life post divorce and with grown out of the house children. To both sexes, think long and hard before committing to marriage and a family. Marrying poorly can be the undoing of you.
1. Follow the majority
2. Be financially stupid
3. Live on the weekend
4. Respect your elders as a default
5. Stop learning after school
6. Go into debt: to go to college, to buy a house, to buy a car, to buy food
7. Sacrifice for your country
8. Be offended
9. Be scared
10. Let the government take care of you
11. Hide your problems
12. Buy material things and follow trends
13. Fit your stereotype
14. Judge your position in the social hierarchy based on social media
15. Have your shit together by the time you're 20
16. They'll come after you if you stand out
"This isn't a sunday motivational video,
This is a wake up call!"
I watch this video every fck*ng day.
Thanks, Alux.
Re #8: *"When a society no longer has to deal with real conflict, it creates its own conflict just to keep itself busy!"*
^^ THIS! All damn day! I see people doing this all the time.
When I was in grade 8; I got in trouble from my principal for using advanced math equations on a test (in grade 6 I was helping my mom with her college math homework)…. The principal told me it’s not about getting the answers right or wrong… it was all about following orders.
Dang!! No wonder you never forgot that!
This is one of Alux’s best yet. Instant channel classic. I’ve watched since 2018 and this is a grand slam.
This is one of your best videos yet!
Hard hitting truths that people need to know.
I agree!!!
I could not have said it in other words. You are so right! I totally agree with you.
Alux has stated some hard hitting facts here. This is one of alux's best videos!
Glad you think so
Facts!
I agree!!!
Definitely one of the best videos ever!!!
Seriously 💯
The opposite of courage in 21st century is not cowardice, its conformity, doing a thing because everyone else is doing it.
Not sure if I fully agree with number 6. Paying off a home sucks at times but it's harder for someone to remove you from your property. Compare that to renting andddd..... You can be evicted because the landlord doesn't like you, if you mad a bad deal and don't know your protections, insane rent increases are probable. It's pretty split down the middle honestly, if you buy a home you can afford and not the one that makes you look "ultra-rich" when your really broke, you should be ok.
Marriage.....the important point, society want you to do so you can be a perfect part of it.
I agree with this list 👍 not to mention society pushes weakness, gay, be sensitive and male strength is now considered toxic masculinity 👎
*If you want to be a winner, you have to whatever it takes to be the winner. Blood, sweat and tears go into this journey...*
*Do you agree?*
I agree but not totally
Yes agree👍
So true about school, like where did they get off for punishing students with caning & strapping when you stepped out've line, they are suppose too teach & guide you to be a better person in the future. Had I known this years ago I would've wagged school every year, teach myself how to cover my tracks, train & learn of others that don't view life as a Stupid game, love your video's "Keep going" Thanks for sharing
it's called patriarchy. that's how men do things.
I am a middle aged Alux subscriber. Thank you for creating videos that blow up old ideas. I wish I had this info. decades ago. Great content and I am able to apply many principles and my life is getting better. This works!
I’m not a million, extremely far from it…but society lead me to believe at one point that more money meant a happier life. WRONG, more money meant I was the same person in living in a better part of town.
Honest truth, I finally broke into extremely low 6 figure income and my wife is really close to it. We have no kids and I can tell you, honestly, we’re no happier at close to $200k dual income than we were when we were $100k dual income.
Same people in a bigger house that I hate cleaning most day and a nicer car that requires premium gasoline that I hate paying for. We’re not miserable by any mean but going from $100k dual income to almost $200k hasn’t changed one dang thing.
I won’t say that money is overrated but society has convinced folks (myself as well at one point) that the more you have of it the more important and happier you’ll be…which is a complete LIE!
because 100k versus 200K is still small money
We are programmed into a mass psychosis of conformity and obedience. Perhaps because we've been preconditioned subconsciously to believe that social integration and acceptence is a safety net of survival, when its the opposite. We came into this world and will exit this world ALONE. Self validation and approval is all you need. Love YOU and conform only to your idea of life. In the end, everyone else will be irrelevant.
This video is spitting so much truth that i had to pause the video to think about what just had happened to my brain.
Might need to re-watch just in case..
Society tried to make me have a baby 🍼 I wasn’t ready to take care of
Don’t do it!! Ever!!
This is a hard challenge. Most cultures raise kids as a famly and neighborhood project so the burden isn’t all on one or two people. The flip side is 17 is peak fertility for women and after 25 rapidly drops so waiting past 35 means expensive treatments that usually don’t work. One way to have both would be to retire by 30 to focus full time on kids. Society won’t suggest this
Nice! One career is not the only thing that an individual can be destined for! After mastering the second thing (only the first needs 10k hours), the third and fourth become much easier. Totally different sectors. Basically you’re learning how to learn. Albeit very very well, but still learning none-the-less. Cross-platforming is almost essential now. Being different makes ya stick out like a sore thumb though and they WILL try to take you out. They will try to fight you on your ground, and you will win, then they will join you. Kid you not. But often times they will join you on their ground. So aren’t we all!!! Change the future people!!! It’s right now!!!
Until you have it all, you won't be free. Society you’re a crazy breed, hope you’re not lonely without me- Eddie Vader
Hi Adobo Travels! From PH too, as much as I wanna join Learn Mastery, my BPI card can't connect to payment. 😅
I hope this video gets over a billion views. It contains all of the knowledge from the last two decades of the “truth movement” packed into seventeen and a half minutes. Great job Alux!!!
*The reality of the rich and the poor is this: the rich invest their money and spend what is left. The poor spend their money and invest what is left"*
*Investing in crypto is the best way to earn financial freedom*
Without doubt crypto is so money making
This is the kind of information that we don’t get from most youtubers..
@@alexanderluca6849 I could invest in Crypto but always got confused by it’s volatility in nature
@@malcomsegal6798 That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like Mr Michael Robert.
Exceptional channel. I get chills how these things are available freely for general people.
it's not free...someone else is paying for it and getting paid through advertising
@@andrefecteau i meant freedom. as in no one is stopping it to reach the people yet.
This video summed up America! After 2020 elections and multiple combat tours, I question all!
You’re late
@@PlatPodMediaCEOSean And you're an irrelevant grifter who posts comments in channels with way more views than yours in hopes that one day you'll have any significance.
@@sgg17003 says Mr. 3 Subscribers.
I can imagine how you feel when someone comes up to you and says "Thank you for your service". Do they really?
@@stuarthirsch depending on what you are serving someone.
The most shitty thing that society of India forces me to do is that to go to school
I've just cleared the school & I've stuck with a shitty collage & now the society forces me to attend their f'in lectures & exams(even if I ain't prepared for the exams)& I end up thinking that it would be better if I took arts but the problem is that.....their would be less opportunities if I did took arts & my parents won't let me took arts & why I wanna take arts? Welll I wanna be a self-learner cause ultimately my teachers are demanding "self study for exams" wtf...I was able to do it my self I choose science CAUSE of Biological & study of physics.....& I wasn't aware of this harsh truth!!! & now I wanna be a self learner but peer pressure is to score f'in good marks in college for a " GOOD JOB IN FUTURE!! "😤😞😖😟😔🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤮🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡
So leave. Just don’t go to America.
i wish everyone coming across this financial relief this month
I've been in a state of abundance, why would you assume worse?
"the journey is the reward" Steve Jobs
Everyone can if they stop consuming as much as society desires us to.
Executing unborn and defenseless children is not a matter of women's rights; it's a matter of the right to life.
It's not our life to live when everything is a competition.
15:42 this is so so true.. Haters will bow to us once we make it.. But they'll never miss an opportunity to break it before we make it! Standing out makes us leader and followers hate it when we rise ourselves and stand out they get jealous and mock..
Groundbreaking video. This deserves a billion views.
We agree.. share it with your friends
So true @alux the truth hurts some people but better to be woke completely.
Rather a conspiratorial tone in this video.
Alux: they want you to be afraid to control you. They want you to buy more stuff.
Also Alux: you should be afraid of this thing, now buy stuff with our affiliate link.
I'm sure glad this wasn't the first Alux video I saw. If it were, I wouldn't be watching any other Alux videos.
Fortunately, I know that Alux is big on good, logical financial and life advice.
Yeah, I peeped that too. SMH lol 😂
Being different can create fear because people won't understand it period
This is really accurate! It feels like people were so well brainwashed that they actually believe in all that crap and take it for its face value. 🤦🏻♂️
Had to listen to this three times... Real stuff here 🔥 "School was never about education, its about indoctrination!" 🤯 #LearnhowtoLearn
Why do you pronounce the word “borrow” & “offended” differently?
THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT VIDEO, ☆☆☆☆☆ Thank you Alux
Thanks Jay
Thank you for the "Red Pill" of Truth! Since all of us together make up "Society", we must work within society to make it better. By understanding the Truths in your video and the advice you offer, we are far more likely to achieve personal success! I hope TH-cam does not ban you for this one!
Respect the elders is real thing putting miseries in people's lives, schools only produce slaves, debt will enslave for sure till you retire
Especially in the Asian culture
@@jillsandwich1605 I belong to Asia, and you?
@@kunaltrivedi11 im indian
@@jillsandwich1605 what's your story,
@@kunaltrivedi11 father believes hes entitled to fucking thing in life. Never achieved much on his own. Parents gave him everything. Im out here on my own buidling myself
Unless somebody is colourblind, the graph at 10:05 states that the number of employees in state-owned companies is *DECREASING* year over year, not increasing.
ALUX video suggestion: Please consider doing an in-depth video on the different Biases and how to think differently ☝🏼🔥
I think that TH-cam is going to block This video for going against its policy. It's just TOO MUCH Alux
Hope not.
This is a GREAT one, guys. Both honest and impactful. Thanks for posting!
Well, I was sure that I would never agree about anything with this narrator. That just changed this minute. I agree with just about everything this lady said in this video. All that this lady said, it took me decades to see and feel the importance of what this woman narrator just got through explaining in this video. I never could like the education system in its present form. I certainly became a non conformist. For example, I really dont care much for a brand new car. I hope to find and purchase a fully restored 1963 Pontiac Grand Prix. At any rate my ambition is to be a tobacco farmer. To all you out there, believe in yourself and never abandon your dreams. To the narrator of this video, you are also very special and important.
Society makes me focus on so many things making me a wreck, the truth is, we only need to focus on one core gift that we have and serve people using that core gift.
umm, sorta, you need to continue to acquire and refine talents as you age...what is perplexing to most is that if you find your "thing"? It doesn't last, the world is moving so fast now there is no "cradle to grave" like there used to be
Simply sounds like find your purpose and operate in it❣️
"The only thing you have in common with them is your date of manufacturing."
Bruh
Sunday motivational videos are my favorite. I wish I could be part of your premium courses, South African Aluxer 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Well.. now you can! last day to enroll in learning mastery www.alux.com/learn
I love this! I feel the Slytherin vibes all over the video, me being a Slytherin myself.
One stupid thing I have been told is "It is normal to suffer, life is suffering.". This also comes from a place of religious brainwashing applied to children in my stupid country.
Everything in this video is so real. Great work Alux!!
Totally agree my friend!!!
This channel is a complete game changer…..I ABSOLUTELY Love it !!!!!
Having kids in your 30s or 40s is terrible advice for women. First of all, female fertility drops fast after 30 or so, making it harder and harder to get pregnant. At the age of 44, half the women are effectively infertile. Secondly, women are most attractive when they are 23 years old and it goes downhill after that. Many women hit "the wall" already during their 30s, which means their attractiveness drops to a substantially lower level. Finding a male mate is much harder, and often requires the woman to lower her standards, which is something many women don't want.
A woman who wants both a family and a career must plan her life. The best pathway is to finish education, then find a male who is a few years older with a good income, start a family paid for by him, and once the children are old enough to go to school, start her career. There is some time to travel the world for a year or so or do other things, before starting a family, but the longer a woman postpones having children, the harder it will get.
As a an author, this is very true!
If I listened to everyone in particular, I would have kids, get married, be broke, be depressed and have tons of unwanted stuff... Instead, I'm in a relationship, have no kids, have savings, have investments and as of the stuff? It's managable and I give some away to charities or something. It's better off to learn, than to follow everyone... Be a dime, instead of a penny.
Society make us believe in superstitions and separates us if we go against them.
This is one of the best and most profound Alux video I have ever watched. You guys rock. By the way, what the name of the lady presenting? She is very engaging and has such a beautiful voice too.
#15 It's also okay to figure out and realize your dreams EVEN if you already have a kid
I agree with 90% of this video, with one exception. Schooling, I still believe and know that education is not a waste of time. If you are in school and you are not learning how to learn, then you are clearly doing it wrong. An education provides the opportunity to network, to work with peers in your profession and have the credentials to prove that you capable of doing the work. That is not worthless, doing that yourself just takes longer because you are on your own without a guide, coach, or mentor.
I will also say this, the things that society loves to try and force on people. Things like men should drink, smoke, do drugs, and have sex to be "part of the group" or to "be a man" or to "not be a pussy" is something that was pushed on me at a very early age. However these things do not interest me at all, I am and have always been happier pursuing my own things.
Surprise, surprise having that insight early in my life has propelled me further than most. Did I try to stop their fun? No, it is their own lives to live. However if I want to have the dignity and respect to live my life to the fullest, the least I can do is leave everyone else to live their lives to the fullest as well.
Great Video! Looking forward to seeing, watching, and hearing more!
That's a direct reference to my own community, Alux is an institution where i learn more about the meaning of life compared to the school
I dont follow the society. I hate the goverment in the Philippine, i dont go to church, i quit my job and start with small. I invest in crypto not the bank. Because of you guys alux make my life better every single day. I learn more that what i have in school. Thank you alux. Your the best.
Good job!
"This isn't about your freedom. This is about your safety" ~Joe Biden
😂😂😂
The Stupid thing that Society Tried to Push Me to do is, to think that my life should be a Democracy lol and that
the best place that I, should be, and spend the rest of my life at is, Jerk Water USA instead of Spending the rest of my life in a Tropical Paradise lmao
This has to be the BEST Alux video, ever
My biggest fear, Mediocrity. And it's the fear of each Aluxers.
This is HANDS DOWN one of the top 3 ever done by Alux. WELL DONE!!!!
society says that im not rich because i drive a 11 year old car, but the person whom took a 9 year loan with 4.1% on a foreign make car brand is considered rich? LOL mine is paid for and with low maintenance, easy to swap parts and cheap to maintain. Whereas the other...literally nothing is doable by DIY. lol ok.
I had people in my life - extended family, work colleagues - who kept wanting me to get married and/or have kids. Grandparents who wanted me to get married make them GREAT Grandparents; work colleagues who didn’t even care if I was married, but who wanted me to have kids like they did. I was barely in my mid-20s and not even done with college. And they would all get these weird and sometimes resentful looks when I would tell them I had ZERO interest in getting married before I was 30 (and that if I never met someone who I wanted to marry I was fine with that - I wasn’t going to settle for anyone just because), and that I didn’t have any desire to have kids either. 15 years later, still not married, still no kids and I 100% happy I didn’t conform to the wishes of people around me. I chose a different path, still hard but, if I could do it again I would. THAT is the reward. To look back at choices you made and know you made the right one and have no regrets for them.
Wanna have coffee sometime?
have your shit together by the age of 20. I love this call-out because this fixated norm getting me depressed for nearly 2 years, thinking that something wrong with me when I dropout college twice and still don't know what I want to do since I'm a multipotential, i can literally do music,art, design, finance, business,tech & politic.
So we just watching Alux videos in the middle of the night? Great minds think alike
Honestly having things figured out in your early twenties is so pressurising