Britain's Oldest Mum 50mins BBC ONE

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  • @orlakinsella3382
    @orlakinsella3382 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    🎉 congrats guys, my mam had me at 50 and I wouldn't change a thing, she had wisdom and love in abundance, huge hugs for you all 💖😘

    • @colleenroyle588
      @colleenroyle588 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      my mom had me at 49, and i have always hated having parents that are older then my friends grandparents. Having old parents sucks.

    • @Dollectable_Dreams
      @Dollectable_Dreams ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @colleenroyle588 it's very sad that you are complaining about your parents age ONLY because your friends' parents are much younger. What about what they gave you and how they treated you? Would have been better if your parents were young but couldn't care less about you?

    • @philippamcqueen5430
      @philippamcqueen5430 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​​​@@Dollectable_Dreamsyes totally..I am a younger parent...I am 46 with a 27 year old girl & 20 year old lad..and I had to work hard to support them &it was a struggle at times..my son is still at home 😅&he does work hard also...but I will say ..kids get embaressed however old you are as a parent..even now 😅it can be your personality...or the way you look ..so yes this lady commenting should be gratefull for her parents ...how ever old.

    • @nem5136
      @nem5136 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@colleenroyle588you are ungrateful!!

    • @colleenroyle588
      @colleenroyle588 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't know as they both died when I was young, so I had to be raised by older siblings who are 20yrs older than me.
      @@Dollectable_Dreams

  • @virginialangford6257
    @virginialangford6257 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    One of the nurses I work with had her one and only at 53…it was a little surprise but a happy one. The “baby” was healthy and happy and has just graduated from Veterinary College.

    • @hinaz85
      @hinaz85 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But they actually spent money for fertility

  • @zoep.2891
    @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I read up on this case.
    She had another baby, but Michael never moved in with his wife and children, but only visited at weekends.
    Her daughter broke off contact with Sandra, as her children got bullied due to their grandmother having had two babies in her late 50s/early 60s.
    What Sandra did was controversial, but her daughter got one thing wrong. The bullies are to blame here, not her mother. Those kids had no right to bullie Sandra's grandchildren for what their grandmother did.

    • @standup2982
      @standup2982 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Oh wow, that's really sad 😥

    • @LKA-si7ln
      @LKA-si7ln 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      He never moved in with his wife and kids??? He might as well have not married her if he’s basically going to be an absentee husband and father….im sure she had to do all of the hard work and sleepless nights on her own. Michael doesn’t deserve her or those children.

    • @Raven-nx8dr
      @Raven-nx8dr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes it's a shame to end the relationship

    • @MonPetitPois68
      @MonPetitPois68 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I would like to know where you read this. I am interested in this story but cannot find anything, anywhere. Thank you.

    • @Blindlaura
      @Blindlaura 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would also like to read up on this case? Do you know if the second baby was a boy or a girl and what she called her or him?

  • @motheroftwo5551
    @motheroftwo5551 7 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    He is too passive. He does not say enough about not wanting a baby from the beginning, and then after she becomes pregnant and when things get rough, he backs out. I can't stand people like this. In reality, HE is the BABY!! She does not need that!!

    • @ratchel2374
      @ratchel2374 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      shut up

    • @Tara-id3rk
      @Tara-id3rk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's a fucking coward

    • @Seven_Hush
      @Seven_Hush 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Extremely brave lady..congratulations and well done!! x

    • @julieannetoole-seraphin2661
      @julieannetoole-seraphin2661 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He should be put away!

    • @patsycav
      @patsycav 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      sassa may, she may be brave, but she is also nuts. Not well done...think of the child.

  • @jd1801
    @jd1801 7 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    this is beyond belief. He says he wants a child, even cried when he finds out she's pregnant which made me feel very emotional, only to change his mind and even suggest an abortion!! Unreal honestly

    • @yesitsmeagain9421
      @yesitsmeagain9421 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      jd1801 He is crying bcuz it is his sperm. Not her eggs. He probably can't believe he's doing this and now it's too late he's thinking.

    • @debbie7991
      @debbie7991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yeah, those tears don't look joyful. He looks glum and sulky the whole programme.

    • @ruthevans5070
      @ruthevans5070 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What a pig.

    • @KossolaxtheForesworn
      @KossolaxtheForesworn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      he realized the kid will have the ism.

    • @maryhodgson8604
      @maryhodgson8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think he got scared and Sandra has a beautiful personality and no matter what he said she was keeping her baby she stay happy ha dident change her feelings she is full of life she will be a great mom.he will leave it up to Sandra i can hear that in him ,,that's good on his part.He was for real in the delivery room he show alot of emotional energy..

  • @vd4563
    @vd4563 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Age and all that aside, I have to say this is one of the cutest newborn babies I have ever seen!

  • @marymary5494
    @marymary5494 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Sandra really is a trooper. I hope the little one is happy and healthy and Sandra and Michael too.

    • @CinderellAspergerSapiophile
      @CinderellAspergerSapiophile ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Apparently she had another boy Alex 2 years later when she was 59. She would be about 77 now and Joshua about 20. Fascinating. I'm glad it worked out for them.

    • @omiemirkamali7647
      @omiemirkamali7647 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well done Lady, I admire her courage, her determination. When Robert Dinero can have a child at the grand age of eighty, why shouldn’t women have it.

    • @zahraaafraa
      @zahraaafraa ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omiemirkamali7647all r Selfish, Robert De Niro and this woman, creepy to wanna have a baby at ur 60 s and 80s

    • @chantala1075
      @chantala1075 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations wishing you the very best .

    • @ljmcdonald2703
      @ljmcdonald2703 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Michael never lived with Sandra he visited her and the kids a few times a week, her daughter disowned her because her children got bullied for having babies in her late 50s early 60s

  • @valcrump8257
    @valcrump8257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    It’s really creepy to emotionally abandon a woman that got pregnant at the age of 56 .

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Una loca. Siempre lejos.

    • @marigoldbeam5475
      @marigoldbeam5475 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He was wincing throughout much of their interaction. He didn't give the impression of a man in love.

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @rosariosanchez2455:
      It's very disrespectful to call someone crazy.
      It's also not very nice to make a comment in Spanish in a thread that's in English. The second part of the google translation of you comment "Crazy one. Always away." doesn't even make sense...

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@zoep.2891 your racist ignorant comment has no space her. You don’t own the internet. Anyone can speak in whatever language they want, wither you like it or not.

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@DX-d i agree, plus that is why we can click on the button to translate. Imagine telling someone to not speak their own language if you were face to face.

  • @MichelleMybelle61
    @MichelleMybelle61 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I'm a mother of five 21,36,39,43,45...had my youngest at 40 nan to three 16,19,24 ..my grandson is older than my youngest...They've enjoyed growing up together ❤

  • @cathymungall-baldwin7391
    @cathymungall-baldwin7391 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    A man who has never married or taken care of a child gets upset by a few hormonally driven mood swings, give me strength. What would the sleepless nights of crying have driven him to? Sounds very selfish and green behind the ears.

    • @Evans0567
      @Evans0567 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They had an other baby togeather but he never moved in. So he didn’t deal with the sleepless nights

    • @lucypowell5311
      @lucypowell5311 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s clear why he didn’t settle down sooner. He’s also very strange!

  • @homeabroad16
    @homeabroad16 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    "Sandra needed this child to keep us together." It should NEVER be a child's job to keep their parents together. What a horrbile task for that poor baby.

    • @Raven-nx8dr
      @Raven-nx8dr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you. I had a very similar comment for my mother. She said "aren't you glad to be alive?" and I said "no, not really, no". She wanted another boy and was disappointed that I had the nerve to defy her. My childhood and early adulthood was shit.

    • @Kernowyon
      @Kernowyon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unfortunately, I was that child. I'm one of six in total, last of the first marriage and was "the one that should have saved their marriage" literally was told that in a bitter way several times throughout my childhood -selfish.
      My parents split when I was 18 months old, my mother remarried a year later after that and ploughed her attention into having 2 more. Sidelined, completely sidelined.
      I moved abroad at 17 and never looked back. They have their unit, I have mine. Albeit in a different language. 😊

  • @sylviehaddad2323
    @sylviehaddad2323 7 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Why is it selfish when a woman wants to have a child at 50 but it’s not when a man at 50 wants to have a baby.

    • @treintaydiez
      @treintaydiez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It is too

    • @dianahockins717
      @dianahockins717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      It is selfish on both sides. Think of the poor kid when he is graduating high school. I guess he can give up his life to take care of his parents in their dotage.

    • @Golden-Eagle781
      @Golden-Eagle781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      The gift of life is 🌹 loving, period.

    • @rachelpowell2477
      @rachelpowell2477 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      because men can still have babies 50yr old women are not designed to have babies that's what the menopause is for...

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 ปีที่แล้ว

      Porque no es madre. Comprar óvulos es una aberración.

  • @MissHannah2036
    @MissHannah2036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    The man was unmarried and childless at 47 for a reason

    • @Emma-pl9gt
      @Emma-pl9gt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because he's a weirdo

    • @pammckay6805
      @pammckay6805 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly!!!!!!😢😢😢😢😢😢
      He,s a very self centre.
      He what's a rosie ride.
      Life not like that.
      You take the rough with the smooth.
      At least she as a great personality
      He does,t.😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @rebeccaa2097
      @rebeccaa2097 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He doesn’t look 47.

    • @AmyWilsonRebornCentralukartist
      @AmyWilsonRebornCentralukartist 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That man has serious issues there’s a reason why he stayed single likely from his on childhood

    • @dizzydiane123
      @dizzydiane123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@rebeccaa2097he looks 65

  • @helenhughes9420
    @helenhughes9420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    A lovely lady who has every right to bring a descent human into the world, theres not enough of those !
    All the best Sandra ❤

    • @Emma-pl9gt
      @Emma-pl9gt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Descent? 😆 And, how are you so sure they're decent (descent) humans?

    • @katerinagiannioudi401
      @katerinagiannioudi401 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This "lovely" lady is thinking only of herself!

    • @abigailphilips825
      @abigailphilips825 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's a completely selfish woman to bring a child into the world at her age and shame on these clinics who think it right these women should conceive!

  • @isabellejean-marie1571
    @isabellejean-marie1571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    this is a beautiful ending story. I dont understand why people are so judgmental and critical....Lets wish this couple the best and a lot of love, health and a happy family

    • @taliabraver
      @taliabraver ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Selfish,wait till the kid grows up!

    • @kayenne221
      @kayenne221 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s because you must be quite the self obsessed, selfish and entitled type too.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Because the child will spend their early 20's with very elderly parents who will likely need a lot of care.

    • @meghanh2511
      @meghanh2511 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe because it's freaking selfish?! The kids will barely be an adult before their parents are old enough to be considered seniors and could die any day. Imagine being 20 years old, just starting your 'real world' life and not being able to because your parents are too old to care for themselves, are retired and want you to help them around the house instead of let you live your life carefree? Imagine not wanting to go anywhere because you don't know if tomorrow will be their last day and you don't want to be miles away. It's not beautiful, it's selfish, unfair and inhumane.

    • @deborahbergman3566
      @deborahbergman3566 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry if this was a few years back as far as the production ... the lady looks older than 56...just based on her image and style. Something seems off here. Update: already half hour in...Michael does not even like her ...so why would he even be a part of this??? He even seems odd or maybe he's a gay man or is a con man. He's 10 years her senior...and again odd persona. Update 2: He's a gay man that wanted to have a child and used her without paying her to do so. Sick Jerk. That's my belief...but as I said earlier, he's a bit odd and off for the situation he put himself in. He's a gay man using an older woman as a surrogate. Eeeesssh..what a naive woman. Sad for her though.

  • @katella
    @katella ปีที่แล้ว +78

    47?! That man is 47? He twenty years older.

    • @Raven-nx8dr
      @Raven-nx8dr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's never 47! I'm 47!

    • @julieabrahall5520
      @julieabrahall5520 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

  • @TheWinterDaughter
    @TheWinterDaughter ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm shocked she married him after he suggested abortion.

  • @kentsesesele3532
    @kentsesesele3532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Love you Sandra. You are the sweetest. A beautiful baby boy. A gift.

  • @leanneadams2549
    @leanneadams2549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    If she takes care and loves the child who are we to say ? I bet she’ll make a much better mother than many of the young girls I’ve seen lately !!! Even better I think !!!! ❤️🙏

    • @hinaz85
      @hinaz85 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not about love etc it's about caring and not being selfish. There is a reason women have a body clock. It's different if it happened naturally.
      Michael wanted a abortion. This is crazy

  • @loulou4148
    @loulou4148 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What an absolutely beautiful Baby, Congratulations to you both :) He is very content, because Mum is very content and very experienced, just perfect. x

  • @kimbergin4392
    @kimbergin4392 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Sandra is so lovely, I hope life has been kind too her xx

    • @Itsmellissaaaa
      @Itsmellissaaaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It wasn't unfortunately. She had another baby 2 years later and Michael only visited weekends her daughter disowned her. She sadly died last year

  • @elisabethandersen1102
    @elisabethandersen1102 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    If my boyfriend or husband EVER suggested abortion, it'd be done. Relationship over.

    • @TreseMari
      @TreseMari 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely! Been there, done that! Now I have an amazing husband who took me & my daughter (when she was 3) & gave me three more precious children, along with my now beautiful 33 year old daughter, and 3 grandbabies from her!

  • @animalspirit77
    @animalspirit77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    At 47 He looks like grandfather of my husband, who is 44.

    • @katereinh3710
      @katereinh3710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let people live the way they want . At least they are giving life and not taking it!

    • @angel43057
      @angel43057 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree! He look like 67!!!

    • @Raven-nx8dr
      @Raven-nx8dr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought your husband's grandad was 44. Honestly my brain is broken

    • @dudetta91
      @dudetta91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HE'S 47????????? He looks like the father of my husband who is 61!

    • @DeniseMiller-ev3py
      @DeniseMiller-ev3py หลายเดือนก่อน

      I noticed British people tend to look older 🤔some not all . This couple looks 65 not being ignorant or anything , but they don’t look late 40 s mid 50 s

  • @dkchosen
    @dkchosen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am happy to see in the end both of them did the right thing. God bless them and that beautiful, wonderful, baby.

  • @HighTen_Melanie
    @HighTen_Melanie 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s 2024 and Sandra will be 79, 13:10 (Born 8th August 1945) making Joshua 23.
    I think there is much love in this family and I send all good wishes to them all xx

  • @pamelagibbs3992
    @pamelagibbs3992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    She is a very sweet lady, I truly hope Sandra has done well.. who are we in TH-cam world to judge her decisions. 🦋

    • @katerinagiannioudi401
      @katerinagiannioudi401 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If she didnt want to be judged she shouldnt hv taken part in the documentary but this shows her ego

    • @miarose2088
      @miarose2088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She died

  • @valcrump8257
    @valcrump8257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love Sandra, she has enough faith for all three of them. That baby is lucky to have her. Michael is odd.

    • @megannorris9995
      @megannorris9995 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He’s a proper odd one

    • @jessicaellina3878
      @jessicaellina3878 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree..Sandra is great and will be the glue that holds them all together. Michael doesn,t seem cut out for family life...l wonder if they,re still living apart???😮

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @jessicaellina3878:
      They got married a week before the baby was born...

    • @LauraJaskier
      @LauraJaskier 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow

    • @Itsmellissaaaa
      @Itsmellissaaaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jessicaellina3878yes they never lived together in the end and had another baby 2 years later she died last year

  • @jayjayvee4394
    @jayjayvee4394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    What a strange man . I think he wanted to be looked after and mothered by Sandra and got jealous

  • @jenniferchamberland5872
    @jenniferchamberland5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My husband’s dad was 56yrs when he was born. His father died when he was 9 yrs old and this had an enormous effect on him especially now being brought up by a single parent.

    • @namontn
      @namontn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do it when your young! I'm 41 with a 1 year old. Speaking from experience, it's not fair on my baby to have a geriatric parent when he's not even 2😔

    • @lah1667
      @lah1667 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was raised by a single parent and my parents were in their 20s... Your husband's dad didn't leave by choice, mine did. There's pros and cons at every age.

    • @MichelleMybelle61
      @MichelleMybelle61 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Parents can pass at any age

    • @MichelleMybelle61
      @MichelleMybelle61 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@namontn geriatric??? I'm a mum of five 21,35,38,43,45 and nan to three 16,19,24..I'm far from geriatric 😮 My youngest was a suprise but what a wonderful time we are all having

    • @sommesoul33
      @sommesoul33 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@namontnyou are 42/43 now. You are not geriatric.

  • @tracyroy1402
    @tracyroy1402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is one of the Most Beautiful Real Life stories I've ever seen 😍!!! I absolutely love it. I am So Happy for Her and Her Gorgeous Baby Boy!!! I wish them All the Best. God has Truly Blessed Them 🙏 🙌 💖. I Pray for Long Life, Lots of Love and Prosperity for Them All. She will make a Great Wisdom Filled Mother and Will Touch Many Lives with Her Sweetness. Great Job Sandra!!! May God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family Always & Forever!!!

  • @nampijjanazifah6358
    @nampijjanazifah6358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She is a strong woman. That man has a problem.

  • @carolc6082
    @carolc6082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just hope she has a great support system because at any age it usually takes a village💕

  • @mirammckay4827
    @mirammckay4827 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had my 2 daughter at 48years old via intravenous fertilisation. My embyos were frozen for 9 years.
    They were excellent quality.

    • @sunnywintermorning1941
      @sunnywintermorning1941 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! Amazing. 9 years frozen. May I ask why you waited 9 years? Congratulations, by the way.

  • @SuperDudley88
    @SuperDudley88 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    What an absolute wimp that man was, to leave his decision making until shes finally pregnant, unbelieveable, he should hv thought all that out, before he took that step. Shes's better off without him, because, he was a weak man without a backbone. Shes a strong lady, & deserved better. Pity her family did'nt rally around her instead of being so judgemental.

  • @tottance77
    @tottance77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    There is a reason why he at 47 was never married and never had a child, he was never mature enough to do it, even not mature enough to built a relationship, he is a 47 tear old child. I don’t think she dod it to hold the man, I think she just wanted to make him happy

    • @deborahbergman3566
      @deborahbergman3566 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm late to this as I've mentioned on here just now.....he's a gay man using an older woman as a surrogate. He's still living at his own house for a reason. Just sad. So obvious at the same time.

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @deborahbergman3566:
      What makes you think, that he's gay? He had been unmarried and childless for 47 years, if he was gay and wanted to live a straight life, I'm sure, he would have done it earlier.

  • @naomiobrien3136
    @naomiobrien3136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What a beautiful strong woman, I wish her all the best

  • @grannywillbond206
    @grannywillbond206 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bravo Sandra and congratulations to you both,well done.

  • @zoep.2891
    @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That Michael is such a keeper. 🙄
    First IVF, then suggesting an abortion.

    • @TheDoggmom
      @TheDoggmom ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Then he couldn’t even commit to be in the same house with the baby. What a great dad, not.

  • @Kayja-td6tv
    @Kayja-td6tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Michael is an old curmudgeon for a 47 yr. old man.

  • @mariakatsande704
    @mariakatsande704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    She is absolutely marvelous

  • @Flynbrd68
    @Flynbrd68 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I know a woman named Doris, she was 51. Her youngest child had just graduated high school, and her and her husband were looking forward to a bit of empty. Several months later, they found out that she was PREGNANT! Naturally and unexpected, but pregnant at 51 nonetheless. She gave birth, naturally, and had a beautiful, healthy baby girl. That child would now likely be graduating or already done so since this story took place around 20 yrs ago! Doris and hubby would now be close to 70. So it can happen. I'm turning 50 this year, my kids are all grown and out on their own. I would likely have a heart attack at the Dr office if he told me that I am pregnant! I just got finished raising the 3 I have! 😂

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ovodonación, no sea absurda.

    • @racquelfordlowe3367
      @racquelfordlowe3367 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But from.sandra get the news she pregrant Micheal seems a bit unhappy about the pregrancy
      1 sth attempted and it didnot happened pluse their Life saving go down both of them should just leave it but they both want a baby Now it happened Micheal not happy
      2 sec attepted go the extra mile use up credit card to make the treatment and successful.now Micheal getting cold feet bring a baby at this age 57 sandra 47.micheal. its big responsibility
      Its too late now sandra
      Abortion is not a opition
      Sorry but its a hard dession
      At your age congrate sandra
      God is Able hope micheal come around and support his child

    • @debbief2274
      @debbief2274 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😍

    • @barbarapalmer8224
      @barbarapalmer8224 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@racquelfordlowe3367Sandra would not dream of an abortion anyway

    • @yvonnesimpson4584
      @yvonnesimpson4584 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Baby Joshua will be at school now. I hope they are still as happy.

  • @tozomona
    @tozomona 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Glad he came around. Hope they have a wonderful life together.

  • @lindacarruthers3423
    @lindacarruthers3423 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That new wee soul is so beautiful .Well done .Dear Dad has gotten through the difficult business of living life by withdrawing from it and the possible (or in his view, probable) pain .Mum has bravely and hopefully been a total participant in life .This is potentially a relationship which could be mutually beneficial with a great deal of patience understanding and kindness on both parts,but which could equally be disastrous.I wish all three very well indeed.May they learn to accommodate each other’s quirks and nourish the tender growth of love between them all.❤❤❤

  • @denisesiddon7241
    @denisesiddon7241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There I was thinking I was too old when I had my last baby at 33. Feeling tired , aching and sick til day she was born.
    Very brave lady. Best of luck for her and baby xx

  • @janettewebster2151
    @janettewebster2151 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Has anyone got a crystal ball?
    My parents had my sister in 1954 & myself in 1956. My parents (aged in their early 50's) both died in 1985. I was 28, my sister 30.
    I conceived naturally, had twins, at 36, as a sole parent.
    I'm 66 & my son & daughter are 30.
    There's NO guarantees about ANYTHING, in life, ever!
    Basically its all to do with this "older couple" & their family & friends...Nobody else! Support them if you can. If not, keep your mouth SHUT!

  • @jessejules2092
    @jessejules2092 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was a single parent, my son was 13 when he had to nurse me through a week of food poisoning and its after effects. Children are incredibly resilient. What if a single parent became paraplegic through accident? Kids can learn a lot through the care and nurture of another human being. So, the daughter in my opinion is closed minded.

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I watched a documentary on children who care for their sick parent, trust me, they are not happy. The might learn a lot, sure, but at what cost?

    • @SteffiNovaASMR_Replays
      @SteffiNovaASMR_Replays ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Probably worried about sharing her inheritance

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zoep.2891Bad things can happen to young parents as well. Do young parents not die of illness, accidents etc?

    • @ageautistic6957
      @ageautistic6957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to be a young carer for my mum... it robbed me completely of my childhood

  • @meghanh2511
    @meghanh2511 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This was filmed in 2002, 21 years ago. I'd love to see/hear updates!

    • @lisahutchins8186
      @lisahutchins8186 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She's probably dead now. Imagine your 21st party and your mom is 87 so selfish.

    • @meghanh2511
      @meghanh2511 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lisahutchins8186 So sad!!

    • @jonfishsorth1369
      @jonfishsorth1369 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lisahutchins8186Don’t you mean 77years?

    • @sandyjoye8945
      @sandyjoye8945 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@lisahutchins8186imagine if you could add

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @lisahutchins8186:
      Sorry, I think you don't have your maths straight.
      She had him, when she was 57, 57 + 21 = 78, not 87.

  • @SaintSeja
    @SaintSeja ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My mom was 30 when I was born. She was 46 when she died. So I was 16 and still love my mom, everyday. I think about her every single day. I am 47 now, and I would so, so, so love to have a baby. But I guess I'm too old now. Not that I think, I wouldn't manage it. I'm sure I would. So I am thinking to myself: I still have a pretty good egg reserve for my age (I tested it). So I think again and again. Lets go to Spain, and have a baby. You have no idea what it's like to have to carry around an unfulfilled desire to have children.

    • @BoKatan168
      @BoKatan168 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Become a foster parent. There are so many babies and children who have nobody to love them or give them a home.

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Have your baby/ babies. As long as you are in decent health, nature will allow it. Our grandmothers had babies from their teens well into their 50s and some even their 60s. Don't worry... Go for it!

    • @cianka6254
      @cianka6254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@meera2531
      YESS WELL SAID!
      BEST COMMENT ON THIS VID
      ❤❤❤

  • @sarahwilson5976
    @sarahwilson5976 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My dads aunt got pregnant naturally at 55 and had a healthy baby girl. It was a shock to say the least but I believe God has a purpose for everything. I’m currently trying at 40 and have been looked down upon. I could care less of others opinions though.

    • @highlyfavoured6789
      @highlyfavoured6789 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don’t let anyone discourage you! Go for what you believe in. Unless any woman has been through the challenges of infertility or difficulty conceiving, they cannot understand. May God meet your heart desires 💕.

    • @nancycurtis488
      @nancycurtis488 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had 7 babies in two marriages….I had 2 sons then 5 daughters. I was 18, 21, 26, 29….then in my second marriage I was 36, 40 and 42. My oldest son died almost 5 years ago. He was a CPA and his death is still a open homicide investigation and the person whom has been looking at is the woman to whom he had been married to for 20 months at the time. I miss him so very much. Thank God for my younger son and my 5 daughter! I loved having all of my babies at each age…young and older. We are 75 and 76 and our youngest is 33. I also have a total of 26 grandchildren…so wonderful! Don’t let anyone discourage you. My grandmothers each had 6 children…the youngest of whom were born in 1918 and 1925…all born at home…all perfectly normal and perfectly healthy. Enjoy your next baby……life is wonderful!

    • @1678Mel
      @1678Mel ปีที่แล้ว +6

      40 is still young! My mom had my younger sister at 41 and I’m 40 going thru ivf. The “decline in fertility at 35” is based on French data from the 1800s. Health has come a long way since then

    • @lesleyhubble2976
      @lesleyhubble2976 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I had my daughter at 42, she’s 20 now. The best thing that happened to me, I got pregnant the first month of trying. My sister in law was 45 when she had her 3rd and my friend was 44. Shame on people if they look down on you, which I doubt they do. Feel proud you’re not old

    • @terriclinton543
      @terriclinton543 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Go for it girl. I had problems from the start at 19. First baby I lost at 5 months 2nd baby after fertility a son. And 9 years later a girl. All told took 13 years to have 2 kids. I am 1 of 9 kids and my parents and siblings had kids when they wanted them. I was the only one who just wanted to get married and have kids and couldn't. So sad. Goodluck to you both.x

  • @lollieanne5993
    @lollieanne5993 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh what a lovely story and Sandra is brilliant, so positive! I’d love to know how it all worked out for them.

  • @kkdd6413
    @kkdd6413 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't understand her decision but it is not mine to understand. She seems like a very sweet lady who will clearly give a child lots of love. After all there are plenty of babies born to young mothers who drag their children up and neglect them this baby was very much wanted. I have just turned 54 and cannot imagine having a baby at my age I am to damn tired to contemplate getting up to a baby in the middle of the night. I normally see older women wanting a baby if they have never had children for whatever reason so it was interesting to see Sandra wanting another baby when she already has had children. I guess in the beginning she wanted to have a child as Michael had never had one, for me that would not be reason enough to consider getting pregnant at my age. Regardless she seems to have enough energy and motivation to raise a child at her age. I wish her well ❣️

  • @patriciakelly2714
    @patriciakelly2714 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This baby must be about 17 now. Hope they've made a happy family. X

    • @HooknCookbyDespinaTrina
      @HooknCookbyDespinaTrina ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She's since passed on and they were divorcing
      Years ago 😢

    • @ga7727
      @ga7727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you know that?

    • @lollieanne5993
      @lollieanne5993 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg noooo! How do you know that? I would so love to know what happened to them all.

    • @baxterbunch
      @baxterbunch ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@HooknCookbyDespinaTrinawho passed on? When did they divorce? Anyone could have seen that coming

    • @avacash7631
      @avacash7631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you know thay@@HooknCookbyDespinaTrina

  • @amyrivers4093
    @amyrivers4093 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wouldn't cook him a dinner after he abandoned me. It's easy for him to just walk back in after she has had a lot to cope with because of the pregnancy.

  • @debraolivier2147
    @debraolivier2147 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just found myself shaking my head throughout this video ...
    I could see from the beginning she was too much woman for Michael.

  • @beastshawnee4987
    @beastshawnee4987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    my mom got pregnant at 47 and gave birth to my sister. There are 18 years between myself and my sis. She basically had grandparents as parents. They soon had health problems and she had to be careful not to be rowdy at all. She had to caretake them here and there. And these people are older (?!). Good luck little infant. I hope your mama’s love and silliness will get you thru.

    • @sunnidays
      @sunnidays 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      since they are your parents also, I hope you were there to help your sister care for them when they needed help

    • @ms.sherlock
      @ms.sherlock ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Judge not.

  • @blackbeautifulandsmart2849
    @blackbeautifulandsmart2849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He needed to be open and honest from the very beginning and not lead her up the garden path. She seems such a lovely woman. Regardless of what people may think I wish them all the very best. The daughter is so negative .

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is an absolutely beautiful baby boy! I hope his mom takes care of herself and concentrates on this baby. She would be jeopardizing her health to have another. I pray that God will bless this little family. ❤️🇨🇦🙏

  • @annamariaagatha9392
    @annamariaagatha9392 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I was born my mother was 41 and that was considered as an old mom (my parent met each other when they were not super-young anymore….)
    ¿”,':My friend had a young mum, and that mum died when she was 56 of an heart attac.
    My mum died when she was 86.
    So………you never can tell what happens in life!ł

  • @ritazsambok4609
    @ritazsambok4609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Beautiful baby 💖. Congratulations.I wish you the best!💕

  • @TherealgoddessK
    @TherealgoddessK 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    He looked miserable when the doctor said your pregnant. Those werent tears of joy. You could tell he was unhappy that it took and knew he should have said no and was now trapped in crazy land with this old woman trying to have a baby.

    • @D-me-dream-smp
      @D-me-dream-smp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He looked very unenthusiastic about the whole situation honestly.

    • @ckrementsova
      @ckrementsova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They had another one a couple of years later.

    • @lah1667
      @lah1667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ckrementsova how do you know that?

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Trying to have HIS baby
      Not just a baby
      HIS, as an old man
      Two old ppl here, not just her 🙄

  • @MOJORAPSCALLION
    @MOJORAPSCALLION 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I have a friend up north in uk who has been dealing with a serious illness since she was 34 and until she was 54 she’s not been able to conceive and was too sick to have a child now she’s on new more natural treatment and she’s barely unwell anymore she’s been given the all clear for IVF with egg donation as her eggs are no good from her illness treatment making her sterile now she’s fit and healthier in a stable relationship and is a young energetic 54 (more energy than me and I’m mid forties) so in these situations and seeing a friend with her story where she effectively lost 20 years of being able to have a family from her past illness. I think depending on circumstances, the situation the person (mother) and their support network I feel it’s okay their body their lives..

    • @honeyowen3163
      @honeyowen3163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did anyone, Doctors or family members suggest she see a therapist to talk about her motivation and the need to give birth? it's not going to be her baby so why not adopt? ya, i really wonder why the act of giving is so strong? has she had a therapist? as a loved one could you suggest it? her husband or partner should help encourage her to do that and then make an informed opinion. good luck to her and i'd like to know what you and others around her think?

    • @sheilahammond4260
      @sheilahammond4260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@honeyowen3163 I agree, but it's a bit late in the day to suggest it to the woman in this video! It probably should be part of the physician who aided them to ensure that a woman is thinking straight when she is past her menopause yet still desires to conceive. I do think 35 is too young to stop all help, but perhaps 50 is more realistic. Most women can get by quite well until they reach 70+, and that gives them 20 years to raise a child. It depends a lot on their state of health. I have recently lost relatives who were fit well into their nineties, and all 3 lived to almost 100!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว

      @honeyowen3163:
      It is her baby, genes don't make someone a mother. She carried him, gave birth to him and raised him. Should help encourage her? If you watched the documentary till the end, you should know, that the baby is already born...

  • @liselottenormannsrensen7867
    @liselottenormannsrensen7867 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im 57 and have just been babysitting my twin grandchildren aged 2, for a day. I love them so much❤ But was I relieved, when the parents came to pick them up? Over the moon happy🎉 There is a place and a time for everything, no baby when you are 57. Way too selfish😢you cant have everything just be course YOU want to. I had two of my children at 23 and 24 and my last ones at 37. Such a difference in how much energy you have😅

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nothing selfish about it. Before birth control women had babies from their teens well into their 50s and some even their 60s.

    • @cianka6254
      @cianka6254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@meera2531
      Again, well said and Truth.
      Also, think about it. Women are meant to have babies their life long : in the earliest times people didn't get older than 20-30 years of age
      Love your way of thinking, like a warm bath. Thank you for that ❤🙏❤️

  • @angelavandenbroek466
    @angelavandenbroek466 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    47??? I thought he was in his sixties!!! He looks very old for his 47 years.

  • @marypoppins8083
    @marypoppins8083 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the baby is so beautiful I wish them health and happiness best wishes for the future

  • @fionagregg3511
    @fionagregg3511 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I admire this doctor´s bravery because he is breaking taboos and aside from the pregnancy there are grannies in society who are practically raising their grandchildren for their offspring. So I don´t view age as a barrier. X

  • @personalchefservicesofsues4362
    @personalchefservicesofsues4362 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    From the start, I had an uneasy feeling about Michael. I still do.
    Something is not right about him and she is such a joy. She deserves better.
    I hope Michael will truly step up. I dont trust him.

    • @jenniferevans2046
      @jenniferevans2046 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had an uneasy feeling about Sandra, as in actually having quite a controlling personality. I imagined that especially under the influence of hormones she was indeed difficult to be with. I agree with her daughter - that there is a sound reason why nature switches off fertility at a certain stage - that child will lose both parents quite young, and the parents will probably never get to see or engage with any of their child’s offspring in the future. Basically, its selfish. Sorry! Thats just my opinion.

    • @avacash7631
      @avacash7631 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And you know what they say about opinions

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jenniferevans2046haha... before birth control women were having babies from their teens well into their 50s and some even their 60s till menopause. There's no reason why an older couple should not become parents if nature allows it. Is your opinion greater than what nature deems fit? The whole end of fertility BS is just to sell fertility treatments etc.

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jenniferevans2046Plus is there any guarantee that a young parent won't die or have terrible health or be an abusive parent? Do child of young people never become orphans? How ageist and close-minded of you. As long as nature says it's alright, you are no one to pass judgement. Open your mind and look at history a bit.

    • @mothersruin9058
      @mothersruin9058 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ...and the fertility consultant was a creep as well.

  • @redders895
    @redders895 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If anyone is after an update, Sandra had a second baby boy in 2012 at age 59.

    • @sweetpea724
      @sweetpea724 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wasn't this filmed around 2003?

    • @Michelle-wk4ek
      @Michelle-wk4ek ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She passed away

    • @sweetpea724
      @sweetpea724 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Michelle-wk4ek oh no, that's terrible. I'm sorry to learn of this 😔

    • @randomraspberry8525
      @randomraspberry8525 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Michelle-wk4ekno

    • @randomraspberry8525
      @randomraspberry8525 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No she didnt 😭

  • @Shining-Star-
    @Shining-Star- ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sandra had Joshua 21 years ago now almost and another son 2 years after Joshua called Alex. Sandra Lennon of Byfleet, Surrey, who already had two adult children from her first marriage, gave birth to her son Alex in October 2004, at the age of 59. It was her second child born after IVF treatment, the first of them, son Joshua, had been born in the beginning of 2003. I wonder how they are all now?

  • @julieabrahall5520
    @julieabrahall5520 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He looks a barrel of fun 😂 that consultant rubbing his hands ! Pound note signs lol

  • @signnamesparkle
    @signnamesparkle ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Wow! Joshua is now 20, his mum is 76/7 and his dad is 67/8!

    • @littleaussiehomesteaders6013
      @littleaussiehomesteaders6013 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wonder if Mum and Dad are still ok?

    • @joan1272
      @joan1272 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mom is dead, and she had another baby, Alex. So these two boys have no family anymore.

    • @prinncessizzy
      @prinncessizzy ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@joan1272sorry to hear this. Where did you find this information?

    • @Emma-pl9gt
      @Emma-pl9gt ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@joan1272 😂😂😂😂😂😊 Exactly, well-done, selfish dumb parents!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @joan1272:
      They still have their father and half-siblings, no?

  • @CityThatCannotBeCaptured
    @CityThatCannotBeCaptured ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The baby is absolutely gorgeous.

  • @Marey2060
    @Marey2060 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What a beautiful baby boy absolutely perfect well done guys age is but a number ❤

  • @debbiejackson7218
    @debbiejackson7218 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am 51 and l would do anything to have a baby. Am glad they are happy, and stop worrying about what people think 🧸

  • @70sfan64
    @70sfan64 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    What a beautiful baby!

  • @loveandserenity77
    @loveandserenity77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Michael couldn’t even carry her bags into the hospital SMH

  • @ivelinadocheva9203
    @ivelinadocheva9203 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is just soo positive and full of life....

  • @sinjingideon7858
    @sinjingideon7858 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i dont see a problem with it people are living longer and healthy lives and you can look at it another way who raises the child if the mother dies? grandma ,if she says shes raising her grand child no one has a problem with that but when its her own child people are all up in arms with shock and disaproval

    • @carolc6082
      @carolc6082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sinjin gideon I just pray she has a great support system since at any age it usually takes a village💕

  • @SusieMurfet
    @SusieMurfet ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratulations 🎉 you will be perfect parents and Joshua is lucky to have you both.
    Have a great life together ❤

  • @pinknotthebarbie
    @pinknotthebarbie ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been thinking about this after watching it a second time. You can die in your 20s. Having children and keeping busy even without kids has been proven to help you live longer. They could live into there 90s and be fitter and be healthier than a struck down 20 year old

  • @growinggenerationshomestea516
    @growinggenerationshomestea516 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We had our 9th when I was 39. We didnt feel old then but 6 years later its different then with our first and to think of me being 59 when she is 20 dh 5 years older is makes us cry. She will miss out on so much our older kids got.... who knows how long we will live. The time my husband and I will get with eachother will definitely look different from 39-59. We will have been parenting for straight for 40 years! There comes a time you have to say your done, unless God decides different.

  • @DK.448
    @DK.448 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    39:00 Awwwwww he came round to his senses. ♥️. Wishing the lovely couple a happy, long, fun filled life together and as a lovely little family.
    45:52 🎉congratulations! 👶🏻👨‍👩‍👦

  • @justiceseeker
    @justiceseeker ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was adopted and my adopted parents were 55 & 53.
    By the time i was 11 i was sent to live with any relative that would take me.
    They were to old to adopt me, he certainly didn't want me and i will never understand why they were allowed to adopt.

    • @meera2531
      @meera2531 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are no guarantees in life. My mother had me at 37 but has always been the most abusive and toxic parent. Young parents can also die and leave the child an orphan. There are literally no guarantees.

  • @tinaboon
    @tinaboon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well done he is lovely. Congratulations to both of you. Xxx

  • @carriemummy
    @carriemummy ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I knew from his reaction to the positive test that he didn't really want it. What a callous, heartless excuse for a human.

  • @paulette87
    @paulette87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    No way he is 47

    • @carolc6082
      @carolc6082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rocco cowan why? Some people just age rapidly, while others barely seem to age.... then you have the normal aging process....I just think he is on the aging fast track, sad for him😢

    • @sarahsu4863
      @sarahsu4863 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Paulette lol he looks lots older than 47, he's only 4 years older than me ,lol

    • @samanthad2147
      @samanthad2147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Unfortunately she herself looks much older than 56. She looks near 70.

    • @adc2327
      @adc2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They both look old. I saw that a lot in the UK. People that looked far older than they were.

    • @agnieszkas7238
      @agnieszkas7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@samanthad2147 she looks good, but when I saw her daughter I couldn't believe she was 34.

  • @Mandy-rx7rq
    @Mandy-rx7rq ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was almost 42 when i had my youngest child and that was enough. I had loads of health tests to make sure baby was ok. She's nearly 5 years old and although she has some health issues - autism spectrum even though she's very vocal. I have 3 kids. My older 2 kids are now age 16 and 19.

  • @melmcknight5514
    @melmcknight5514 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Little Joshua is so precious. Sandra is a wonderfully strong woman. I admire her. Michael is a typical man...self centered and not dependable.

    • @maryannredfern5954
      @maryannredfern5954 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I tend to think that he just got terrified, cold feet, whatever you want to call it. As to whether they will stay together till "death do us part", I have my doubts, lol.

  • @gillianash3470
    @gillianash3470 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look so happy and so much younger congratulations and we’ll done xx😊

  • @starperry1784
    @starperry1784 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a lovely doctor at Harvey street

  • @GirlsNDragons
    @GirlsNDragons 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Minor update:
    I read an article written in 05 that she went to have another baby named Alex, but she kept the plans to do IVF again a secret from Michael (they never lived together) and this caused a huge strain on their relationship, so he didn’t even know that the baby was born until 2 weeks after. Her kids have disowned her. Michael and Sandra got divorced. The daughter Lisa is mad that her mom has portrayed a happy family life when it’s far from the case. Sandra felt like baby Joshua needed a sibling to grow up with so that’s her reasoning for having a second baby.

  • @robynbrown8071
    @robynbrown8071 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy is unreal, maybe this is highlighting the reason hes 47 with no wife or child 😮

  • @dudetta91
    @dudetta91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't believe he abandoned her through the most difficult time. I would be absolutely furious. I dont think I'd be able to feel the same again about him

  • @AuthorADHay
    @AuthorADHay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I can't believe how mean her family are being in front of a camera. I can't imagine what they are saying behind closed doors.

    • @alexrobbins4891
      @alexrobbins4891 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree with them I'd be angry if my mom did this as well..she has beautiful grandchildren why have another to not be around when he's 25 it's very selfish

    • @SteffiNovaASMR_Replays
      @SteffiNovaASMR_Replays ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not surprising she has a desire to create new life when surrounded by people like that.

  • @catherinemiles8021
    @catherinemiles8021 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's their life, and it will give them the strength to be good parents

  • @julieannetoole-seraphin2661
    @julieannetoole-seraphin2661 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    To get pregnant like that and then even think of abortion is disgusting.

    • @Emma-pl9gt
      @Emma-pl9gt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know, I thought the same. Revolting pair!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Michael suggested it, Sandra said she couldn't do it.
      HE is revolting, not her!

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s the dad that wants the abortion. Just as well men don’t get to decide. He’s a big man baby.

  • @janeowen3278
    @janeowen3278 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was 32 when I had my first girl in 1994 ,then I had two miscarriages over the next two years then in January 1999 I had a baby girl , I was 38. Then in December I had my Son who was born in December 1999 I’m 62 now , I’ve had so much shit but I’m happy because I waited , good on this lady for doing what she wants xx

  • @mayb6519
    @mayb6519 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    there’s an obituary online for a Sandra Lennon, born 1946-2023 which in 2003 would make her 57, also on her obituary page it asks for donations to a charity called Diabetes UK which it is revealed she has in this documentary :/ I could be wrong and I hope I am but I think she may have passed, RIP

    • @izzi7576
      @izzi7576 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      different birthday, she says she was born in 1945 at the start of

  • @karens346
    @karens346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The baby is absolutely beautiful-❤

  • @Oakleaf700
    @Oakleaf700 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That man is 47?!!!! that's crazy. He looks about 70

    • @susanlett9632
      @susanlett9632 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ex boyfriend was 71. I'm 54. He was in excellent condition. He looks way younger than this man

  • @ciddasilvamatos6816
    @ciddasilvamatos6816 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All the power to her. I know at 52 there's no way I have the energy or patience to be pregnant again. Also she should think about the babies future.