Which community is behind him?. Even if he enter traditiona he is not the blood father. Enter spiritual wale no be the blood father. So which community is behind a kidnapper of another mans child whom the blood father never one day rejected or asked when she was born to give his child out?.
@@Emmanuel-ml5to Really?! He never rejected the child?! Where did you get that?! If he never rejected the child, how come Mr Wale didn't know him until now?! How come Richard is just showing his face?! Were you really following the story?! Because he only came back because he's impotent! And, do you know the law?! There's a reason why sperm donors aren't permitted to know anything about the recipient except the recipient so desires! There's a reason why "parents" in adoptions are referred to as "birth parents" and not just parents! There's a distinction bro! Even the law recognizes that donating sperm or egg makes the donor a birth parent but not a parent in the real sense of that word!
Wale is stupid rather Why should you fight for what is not yours Richard is the biological father and must take the girl and compensate that bastard Wale
If the woman way born the child info the real father around the time she gives birth or when she carry belly for Richard and Richard reject the child when she was just born it will be a different game. But Richard was never informed when she took in if na him really get child or when she just born to come and do DNA if the child is for him. It was after 12 years truth came out and Richard get to know the child is his blood so how do u except him to be in d child's life since b4 the child became 12years. Richard does not have fault.
@@Emmanuel-ml5tou didn't get d story right. She told Richard she was pregnant. He wasn't ready financially and she was also about getting married. He was always in d know she had a child for him. Its d husband wale who just discovered because he heard her phone call with Richard saying he wants to come for his child
Exactly he is a fool that Mr Richard first he told her to abort the child those not want the child and now cos he can’t have children anymore he is coming back and asking for the child 😡😡he must be out of his mind .
How do u know? You don hear her own story? A Snake 🐍 usually only gives birth to a Snake 🐍 and never an Antelope😏 plus the Apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree o🙄
Yes my brother. Ben cash is overdoing things. He wants to show that he knows better than the law and be seen as a hero in solving difficult marital problems. He is being foolish unwise in calling all parties meeting again and again
Mr wale will definitely win this case in court. Rechard is a criminal.. why would he allow another train his child for 12. Now that he's impotent he's coming for the child. Would he have come for that child if he has other children?
@@user-eo1nm9dh1u no in a case like this court will never give that child to Richard. You are talking in a case of single mothers or those going through divorce process. Here is a different case shade is married and wale took care of the child from womb. Court can very do that, the child belong to wale cause Richard was aware and refused to claim his child.
Over 264 cases still counting Ben Cash has never resolve any case ...Richard will loose in Court , First he denied the pregnancy,secondly he waited for 12 years....because he found out he is now impotent ...
Ben you should take your hand out of this matter, because that child belongs to Mr Wale by transition and culture, he's the man that married and brought up that child. Once again that child belongs to Mr Wale.
Ben cash i said and i will say it again you never handle this matter properly. Richard have no right over the child but you and wale wife give Richard hope that doesn't exist anywhere
@kokoedunam2253 Ben Cash doesn't know how to handle a case. His reasoning is very, very poor. How can this Richard come from nowhere to start to talk about a child?
Wale, please don't allow both Sade, mother and the so called Richard to see your children again for life. What name does this stupid Richard give to the child he is claiming?
I have said that he does not need to be attending this meeting. I used to respect Ben but the pronouncements he is making concerning this case is unfounded. Fatherhood is not about biology alone. And legally shade was his wife when she was pregnant. If you impregnate a woman who is legally married to another man, you’re just doing free donations bro
Mr Ben , this case is beyond you and your begging tactics. Get the court involved and let them settle things for the children to be at peace. All these aggressive behaviors on both men will not solve the problems .
Why has no one asked this Richard guy to show the identity of the child he is fighting over? If he sees her on the road, does he even know her without being told?
Well done Mr Wale; we’re proud of you. Shade you didn’t treat this good man well. I don’t understand why you’re still going to beg Mr Richard with Ben? You’re empowering him.
The world has really changed. Otherwise, why would a man who committed insest be bold and dragging children with legally married woman. Mr. Wale, carry your children.
Mr. Wale is a Dad to Joy. DNA or no DNA Wale should be given custody. Mr. Richard is going about this the wrong way. Joy's sanity at this time should be his interest and not this problem. Joy has seen Mr. Wale as a Dad from child birth. If Mr. Richard continue the way he is going, he may never see joy. He needs to adopt the posture of peace. If he does this, they may give him access to Joy over a period of time. He cannot wake one morning and want to take joy.
I support Mr wale as well he is right even in court he will win as well, the child has grown up knowing him now someone comes and say all that after 12 years
Mr. Wale, you're wasting your energy. Save it. First go to court, sue Shade and Richard together. Your wife deceived you for 12 years and Richard would not have been back if he wasn't impotent. Get a restraining order against him. As for your wife, file for divorce in the same law suit. Save your breath, do not honour any invitation by Ben Cash or anybody. They should all meet you in court.
I'm disappointed in Ben. Why didn't he research cases like this to know how to handle it? There are laws guiding cases such as this. Ben displayed a lot of ignorance in this case
What do you expect from Ben? He's just creating content out of the situation thats all, he's not an expert in conflict resolution and I have never seen where he settled a single case without being bias or siding a client most especially a woman.
Mr. Wale, you decision is very good, not even now for you to let them talk to the children, not even the mother or your mother in-law, leave the children to rest their mind like some few months, you did very well, may God judge your wife and her lover boy
This can be settled Amicable. Richard should accept what Mr Wale put on the table. Maybe he would come to a decision. He spent a lot of money on the little girl. If Richard had any common sense he would reach out to Mr Wale and thank him for the way he cared for his child. Yes Shaddae did wrong, the fact still remains that Richard did not use his wisdom. This child has been with Mr. Wale before birth. A special bond he makes with this child. Richard you don't behave like that, with a man who cared for your daughter for many years. You should offer him monetary gift as man to man. A gift of thanks to Mr. Wale. Richard calm down, your action cannot win in the court of law. Shaddae, you must sort this situation .
You'll give somebody wife pregnancy and you'll get mind to come and claim the Child, you're a moving death person , Mr Wale is too nice to this young man; 😢
My dear you are right and if shade have any atom of love and respect for her husband, the only thing she can do is to support her husband. She will see her children when things calm down a little. Her lackluster attitude is alarming, Richard wants to fight wale on top of Wales wife that he slept with. Sis shade please give your husband the last respect left and support him, if he develop job and God forbid dies this Richard will turn you to punching bag. You husband is one out of a million
Mr wale kudos to you sir. How can somewhere out of the blues put a claim on a child you have not seen for years. Outa no where? Nah ... May God protect those kids in Jesus name. Amen
Mr Wale , i'm proud of you. It's what a man ought to do to protect his family name of disgrace. If it 's the unfaithfulness of his wife (No reason is valable) , this kind of matter won't break peace in this family
God is with you Mr Wale on this journey, and he will see you through it. You did the right thing, you are even giving away mire information about their whereabout than you should. Do not trust your wife and mother in law
Mr Wale , I am with you. Big support
Yes
Agreed too
Why should u have what u don't biologically father
@@akpenibayahaya4215 % true. When the real father never give up his child or reject his child.
After 12 years? He knew that chade was pregnant and ignore her. Wale did not know so he is the father
Mr Wale just spoke my mind!
Richard isn't even the one who gave the child name; it's Mr Wale!
Mr Wale, the whole community is behind you.
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Never
Wale can not have the girl because he is not the biological father
Which community is behind him?. Even if he enter traditiona he is not the blood father. Enter spiritual wale no be the blood father. So which community is behind a kidnapper of another mans child whom the blood father never one day rejected or asked when she was born to give his child out?.
@@Emmanuel-ml5to Really?!
He never rejected the child?!
Where did you get that?!
If he never rejected the child, how come Mr Wale didn't know him until now?!
How come Richard is just showing his face?!
Were you really following the story?!
Because he only came back because he's impotent!
And, do you know the law?!
There's a reason why sperm donors aren't permitted to know anything about the recipient except the recipient so desires!
There's a reason why "parents" in adoptions are referred to as "birth parents" and not just parents!
There's a distinction bro!
Even the law recognizes that donating sperm or egg makes the donor a birth parent but not a parent in the real sense of that word!
😢😢he is legal father
Mr. Wale is 1000% right. The real man. That Richard guy thinks he is in high school.
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Wale is stupid rather
Why should you fight for what is not yours
Richard is the biological father and must take the girl and compensate that bastard Wale
Mr Wale is very intelligent and I love the way he's handling the issue. Ben and Richard are just joking.
Ben and Richard ur joking fool. Can not say the truth. Kids belong to mr wale
Yes...
Why Ben and Richard are jokes?
@@andyopokusamuel3284 why ,give him kid back
Ben, please wash your hands off this case. Mr. Wale is right.
Richard is talking about his child. Which child? The child you did not support for the last 12 years!
I tire self
It doesn't matter
Richard must have the girl or the child
He has to compensate that stupid Wale
If the woman way born the child info the real father around the time she gives birth or when she carry belly for Richard and Richard reject the child when she was just born it will be a different game. But Richard was never informed when she took in if na him really get child or when she just born to come and do DNA if the child is for him.
It was after 12 years truth came out and Richard get to know the child is his blood so how do u except him to be in d child's life since b4 the child became 12years. Richard does not have fault.
@@Emmanuel-ml5tou didn't get d story right. She told Richard she was pregnant. He wasn't ready financially and she was also about getting married. He was always in d know she had a child for him. Its d husband wale who just discovered because he heard her phone call with Richard saying he wants to come for his child
Exactly he is a fool that Mr Richard first he told her to abort the child those not want the child and now cos he can’t have children anymore he is coming back and asking for the child 😡😡he must be out of his mind .
Mr Wale, you are the man of the people, for the people, and by the people.
Yes woo
Shade’s mother is a good mother indeed.
How do u know? You don hear her own story? A Snake 🐍 usually only gives birth to a Snake 🐍 and never an Antelope😏 plus the Apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree o🙄
A beautiful mother that I'm sure brought her up well but children can disappoint.
Shadel`s mother is a good woman. At least continues to blame her daughter for all these problems.
So, Ben Cash, what exactly have you achieved from this charade. Tell them to go to court now.
Yes my brother. Ben cash is overdoing things. He wants to show that he knows better than the law and be seen as a hero in solving difficult marital problems. He is being foolish unwise in calling all parties meeting again and again
Good job Waale go to court
Ben just acte stupid in this case. Go to court
Exactly noting for Ben cash he is after content .
Mr wale will definitely win this case in court. Rechard is a criminal.. why would he allow another train his child for 12. Now that he's impotent he's coming for the child. Would he have come for that child if he has other children?
That was what I say the last time Ben was saying he is child.. Ben is such a fool for asking for Joy..
@@user-eo1nm9dh1u no in a case like this court will never give that child to Richard. You are talking in a case of single mothers or those going through divorce process. Here is a different case shade is married and wale took care of the child from womb. Court can very do that, the child belong to wale cause Richard was aware and refused to claim his child.
A bi
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In most west African countries the courts will never give the child to Richard. He may get visitation, but custody will stay with the husband and wife
Chai, Mr Wale still loved his wife, see his reaction when Richard said that he will stab Shade
This Richard is violent
Over 264 cases still counting Ben Cash has never resolve any case ...Richard will loose in Court , First he denied the pregnancy,secondly he waited for 12 years....because he found out he is now impotent ...
That is not. 😅😅👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I don't like the way you're saying impotent loudly and you can see how its reality has thrown Richard into limbo. We are here solely for Mr. Wale.
How many case? Kkkkkkkk your true my friend
Ben you should take your hand out of this matter, because that child belongs to Mr Wale by transition and culture, he's the man that married and brought up that child. Once again that child belongs to Mr Wale.
Ben cash i said and i will say it again you never handle this matter properly. Richard have no right over the child but you and wale wife give Richard hope that doesn't exist anywhere
@kokoedunam2253 Ben Cash doesn't know how to handle a case. His reasoning is very, very poor. How can this Richard come from nowhere to start to talk about a child?
Yes. Ben be careful
@@charityabakwam1632very true. Ben dose not know right from wrong.
back to sender ,give him kid back
CONGRATULATIONS MR. WALE, THAT STUPID RICHARD WHERE HAS HE BEEN ALL THIS TIME. I LOVE THE WAY WALE IS INTELLIGENT HE'S NOT A FOOL
Mama Mr Wale is a good in-law mark my word
Wale is well cultured man full of respect for the cheating wife.
Well cultured 😂😂😂
Wale, please don't allow both Sade, mother and the so called Richard to see your children again for life. What name does this stupid Richard give to the child he is claiming?
Masa shut up
He is not the biological father
Some people will impregnate a girl and deny it and Come back 12 or more years to claim the child
Are you foolish? Regardless of her cheating she is still their mother. Children need their mother. That is foolish.
@@akpenibayahaya4215exactly. The children will definitely be angry with him for taking them away from their mom.
Richard has no child anywhere in Wale's house. He had an illicit love affair with another man's wife. He deserves to be in jail
Mr Wale you don't need to be exchanging words with Richard. He does not worth it. Don't have meeting of such again. Please keep the children off.
I have said that he does not need to be attending this meeting. I used to respect Ben but the pronouncements he is making concerning this case is unfounded. Fatherhood is not about biology alone. And legally shade was his wife when she was pregnant. If you impregnate a woman who is legally married to another man, you’re just doing free donations bro
The ex is crazy and I blame Shade in all this. Why did she tell her ex for
She still loves the ex
Mr Wale ur such a wise man.Thank God for ur wisdom and fast move.U are indeed two steps ahead.
Mr Ben , this case is beyond you and your begging tactics. Get the court involved and let them settle things for the children to be at peace. All these aggressive behaviors on both men will not solve the problems .
Sade, clap hand for urself! This is ur handwork. U will reap what u have sown in this life sooner or later. Mr Wale, that is your child period.
Mr wale I'm with you
If you see this your own pikin you go know am? You're fighting a lost battle Mr Richard 😅
Ben Cash is part of the bigger problem. Someone could list life. Allow Wale to raise the girl until she is 18. Or, let the other party go to court.
We r with u Mr Wale. Our beloved Mr Wale we ❤❤❤and support u . Watching from 🇬🇧
Joy is not your pinkin. If you see her, will you know her? Mumu man
Go to court to settle this case
Marrying a faithful wife is worth more than riches😢
The question is where has he been for the past 13 years Wale signed the birth certificate
Yes yes yes, checkmate!👏👏👏 the children are safe away abroad that was such a smart move WOW!
Joy is being brought up in a good loving home she can't start staying in a strange home and strange people.
Why has no one asked this Richard guy to show the identity of the child he is fighting over? If he sees her on the road, does he even know her without being told?
Richard you have lost it you were suppose to beg humbly not by trouble this will not help you never🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
Good. I support you 💯
Let court resolve this matter, physical strength will do harm and not good.
Well done Mr Wale; we’re proud of you. Shade you didn’t treat this good man well. I don’t understand why you’re still going to beg Mr Richard with Ben? You’re empowering him.
Like mother like daughter. Crazy family
The world has really changed. Otherwise, why would a man who committed insest be bold and dragging children with legally married woman. Mr. Wale, carry your children.
Smart mr wale❤
Meet in court... Simple!!!
Mr. Wale is a Dad to Joy. DNA or no DNA Wale should be given custody. Mr. Richard is going about this the wrong way. Joy's sanity at this time should be his interest and not this problem. Joy has seen Mr. Wale as a Dad from child birth. If Mr. Richard continue the way he is going, he may never see joy. He needs to adopt the posture of peace. If he does this, they may give him access to Joy over a period of time. He cannot wake one morning and want to take joy.
I like the idea of you relocating your children Wale.
I give you kudos for your actions !
Mr Wale is a good father, inlaw, husband, that Mr Richard can never be. Let Mr Richard go to court.
Good job Mr. Wale ❤
Bencash, hands off the matter and let them go to court.
Mr wale God bless you for taking joy out. what can rechard offer joy
Take the matter to court. It doesn't matter where he has been, his child will look for him.
This girl is really a miracle daughter
Shade is the cause of all this!
Mr Wale, the heavenly hosts are behind you.
Mr Wale you are very intelligent man, I respect you 🙏
Mr. Wale ride on, I support you 100%
If they should bring any girl to Richard and say it's Joy ,he would not even know if it's her, so what he is fighting for
Good job Mr Wale
"Did you name her Joy?" Simple but difficult question.
I support Mr wale as well he is right even in court he will win as well, the child has grown up knowing him now someone comes and say all that after 12 years
Mr Wale you are on track maintain it
I can perceive the smell of death on Richard😢
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Nobody is going to die, this is a simple matter for the court to settle. The joy doesn't know Richard and will never chose to stay with him
See you know how court usually do things. They will still give the child back to the owner.
back to sender ,give him kid back
See court will not want to know how much that wale has spent on that child, bro. You know how court usually judge their case.
MR WALE I SUPPORT U @ 1000, percent.so dat all dis men sleeping with someone's wife will stop.mr wale I love u bro..
Richard is wrong he can’t claim that child he never give that child water Wale is the father
Mr. Wale, you're a man. Richard needs to be dealt with.
Mr Wale i support you 🙌
I agree with you, go to court Mr. Wale,
Mr Wale you have two kids to live for, don’t let this guy caused you to get in trouble.
Mr wale i wish you success in this.
Mr. Wale, you're wasting your energy. Save it. First go to court, sue Shade and Richard together. Your wife deceived you for 12 years and Richard would not have been back if he wasn't impotent. Get a restraining order against him. As for your wife, file for divorce in the same law suit.
Save your breath, do not honour any invitation by Ben Cash or anybody. They should all meet you in court.
I agree with you 💯. Sue both of them. Again, children are involved. Their stability is very important.
Am with you Mr wale
Ride on my brother
Am with you
Mr Wale, stop going through this shameful situation with out the laws of the land, please stop and do the right thing for your child.
Mr. Wale, you are the real man. God bless you, Mr. Wale. Richard, you are a big fool.
Mr wale wedone.. you are the father of Joy
Mr wale, you are right,God bless you,don't have any issue with that man again.
God will vindicate you, good man
I'm disappointed in Ben. Why didn't he research cases like this to know how to handle it? There are laws guiding cases such as this. Ben displayed a lot of ignorance in this case
His ignorance is part of the problem. Richard has no legal entitlement at best he is over inflated sperm donor that's all.
What do you expect from Ben? He's just creating content out of the situation thats all, he's not an expert in conflict resolution and I have never seen where he settled a single case without being bias or siding a client most especially a woman.
Sade love your..name..My fav musician..Sade..name sake.Please God reunite them..nice couple..
Child you never care for, am in support of Wale
Mr. Wale, you decision is very good, not even now for you to let them talk to the children, not even the mother or your mother in-law, leave the children to rest their mind like some few months, you did very well, may God judge your wife and her lover boy
What an embarrassment, just because this girl didn't value herself.
This can be settled Amicable. Richard should accept what Mr Wale put on the table. Maybe he would come to a decision. He spent a lot of money on the little girl. If Richard had any common sense he would reach out to Mr Wale and thank him for the way he cared for his child. Yes Shaddae did wrong, the fact still remains that Richard did not use his wisdom. This child has been with Mr. Wale before birth. A special bond he makes with this child. Richard you don't behave like that, with a man who cared for your daughter for many years. You should offer him monetary gift as man to man. A gift of thanks to Mr. Wale. Richard calm down, your action cannot win in the court of law. Shaddae, you must sort this situation .
The annoying thing is that Shade and her mother are begging Richard - in the previous video. Why?
Mr wale well done,
You'll give somebody wife pregnancy and you'll get mind to come and claim the Child, you're a moving death person , Mr Wale is too nice to this young man; 😢
My dear you are right and if shade have any atom of love and respect for her husband, the only thing she can do is to support her husband. She will see her children when things calm down a little. Her lackluster attitude is alarming, Richard wants to fight wale on top of Wales wife that he slept with. Sis shade please give your husband the last respect left and support him, if he develop job and God forbid dies this Richard will turn you to punching bag. You husband is one out of a million
Mr wale kudos to you sir. How can somewhere out of the blues put a claim on a child you have not seen for years. Outa no where? Nah ... May God protect those kids in Jesus name. Amen
Smart move Mr Wale
Wale you are a wise man.
Mr Wale go ahead I'm with you ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂
Richard answer the question For 12- years where have you been?
Wale i am with you 100%
Mr Wale , i'm proud of you. It's what a man ought to do to protect his family name of disgrace. If it 's the unfaithfulness of his wife (No reason is valable) , this kind of matter won't break peace in this family
Mr you are a smart guy, two steps ahead ❤bravo 👏👏
And speaks so intelligently, Joy is your daughter, don't mind Richard is a looser.
Am with Mr. wale and am glad he took the children far away
You did the right thing only video call and go to court wonderful 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
They should go to court and setlle this matter
Brother wale to adopt the child ❤❤❤❤
Mr. Wale, 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Why they don't allow the court handle this matter
God is with you Mr Wale on this journey, and he will see you through it.
You did the right thing, you are even giving away mire information about their whereabout than you should. Do not trust your wife and mother in law
..i also support Mr Wale 100%
Ur woman is the person that bring the problem 😅😅😅
Ben give Richard Joy knows you already she'll always be in touch. Stop dragging nothing.
Wale fighting for shade is tantamount to oneirism
Why can't they solve it through the proper channels not social media 😮