Osinachi the singer died because her pastor and church members were preaching to her to stay in the marriage, she was busy complaining just as this lady is now complaining, Ben if something happens to this lady you must answer for it, why are you asking the woman who her life is in danger to stay in the same marriage
Ben do not talk anyone into staying in an abusive marriage no matter what, moreover this guy is just like a beast, this guy deserves to be alone for ever
This man is violent. Ben, leave that woman alone to follow her heart. If she remains in the union based on your advice and that man harms her, you will be held responsible.
This lady has seen enough in this toxic relationship. Ben Cash, this guy can never change, and don’t try to be a party to murder by forcing this lady to go against her wish. Let her if she has made up her mind.
This guy is a beast. Jide, you can’t look after your child because you are a drunker . Chinacher please go and report him to authorities and take him to court to claim your child.
See how angry he is just because he didn't get to lay hands on her this time???? Imagine?? As if she doesn't have a voice as long as she's in his house
@ Bencash,listen and listen good. For better for worse does not mean,one should stay in an abusive relationship that can lead to death. She needs to be alive for herself and her baby. The guy is a beast.
Bro I live in Europe and a lot of women have lost their lives because of endurance please let the lady file for divorce before she loose her life to violent .. and from what I’m seeing this guy need a professional therapist for anger ..
This guy is wild beast. He is not ready to accept his mistakes. A serious narcissist. How can a drunkard, womaniser and hot tempered person take care of a child. The lady should run away.
Ben cash let this woman be. She's the only one that knows what she's seeing in the marriage. If she wants a divorce, let her be o. If she goes back and anything happens to her, you'll answer for it. Let her be
Ben don't force that woman to be in a relationship that is abusive, for better for worse does not mean being abused and still remain there. I grew up in an abusive family, my father would beat my mom until she became unconscious then my father would stop the beating. This would happen while we the children were watching. My mom divorced my father and that was the best decision she made, right now l can't stand an abuser, l married a good man who does not abuse me.BEN understand that the man will not change, these man need therapy. Before you counsel abuser please Ben be schooled in the psychology involved. I watch your videos to learn how people behave, l am doing a masters in psychology. You need to know these things
Time for domestic judge to settle this toxic relationship and grant them the divorce papers. They can share custody of the child. Ben this matter is not for you to settle or beg 😮 Marriage is not do or perish please 🙏🏾
The lady should go to court for the costody of the child. Let her give to the court all the proof of the treatment of STI and the beating from a medical report.
Ben if that woman dies as result of being beaten by this man her blood will be in your hands. You can not force someone if it's not working just because you have you think divorce is not good
You don't need to beg him for any signing of any divorce paper. Just separate from him for good 2 years ,then continue to file for your divorce. You deserve a better man.
do you see the way Jide threatened this woman, Ben, you should hand him over to the police authority, and lead this woman out just like the angels led Lot and his children out of Sodom and Gomorrah. If Jide did this in your presence , and with camera rolling, what do you think he would have done to this lady behind the closing doors. woman you don't need to be here!
This guy is from a dysfunctional home he needs help. I pray his mum see this video! Who will give a child for him to raise. Babe separate until he gets help.
Ben Cash is very incompetent in handling this case, why is he coercing the woman to remain in an abusive marriage, i think he is supporting him because of the money he was paid.
Ben, don't drag this lady into an early grave, all in the name of scoring a point at marriage reconciliation. I still can't fanthom why African men see women as slaves in marriage.
Ben Cash. Sometimes you have to accept that there are cases that cannot be soft. But if you think that keeping this marriage going is the solution then be prepared to get blood on your hand because this man is controlling with an uncontrollable anger issue and will kill this woman. Mark my words. Count your losses Mr Ben and come away from this case. It will not help your reputation
Ben Cash you don't ask couple to accept each other in a toxic relationship like this. Listen and observe from who is igniting the problem, 95 o/o trouble comes from the guy and that's very dangerous. The lady's life is at stake allow them separate for a while and see if the guy will be remorseful any time.
Ben leave this lady alone. I believe she told she wants a divorce when she contacted you. She’s had enough of this man’s nonsense. Let her get her divorce and move on with her life. The court will even favor the lady and she will be granted custody of the child. A man who doesn’t know who a lady is, can never live with one.
This man is a BEAST. He abuses her. Don't force her to stay in abusive marriage. He is not remorseful and arrogant. A lot of ladies have died just because they don't speak up. The ones that speak up, you are asking them to STAY. Please abeg let her go, so she can heal and have rest of mind.
If he has anger problem, you should be careful how you respond to him. Silent is the best in this case, it doesn't mean you are stupid. You don't argue with someone that doesn't understand you.
This man is very proud and not remorseful. Marriage is not by force. If this woman reminds in this marriage, this mad man can play this woman. Ben, don't do what you will later regret. Don't force this lady to stay.
Ben Cash, Who fleets it,noses it ooh ,this man is a bully ,can't you see it bro ,please let her go, I beg you, she's not happy. washing from Canada 🇨🇦.
This lady has endured enough! Why will a man treat his wife like this, is she your daughter? A grown woman being beaten by her partner, real men don’t beat women. They have important things to do, making money and closing deals. Young man put your energy into productive ventures, she not your problem.
Ben is somehow not being reasonable. You can’t encourage somebody to remain in an abusive relationship if she doesn’t want to. Ben has been quiet about the STDs he infects the wife with. Because the guy has many ladies he is sleeping with, the wife is now suddenly a “demon”
It might be difficult for this guy to get another wife with this kind of hooliganistic behaviour. How did the lady get married to this brigand? Ben should stop this unfruitful mediation because the guy was transparently unremorseful.
Ben let her vent her anger out pls, shutting her up is a big no pls,she has gone through a lot,even in ur presence he still wants to beat her,pls Chinaza go for the divorce asap
Ben I am a paralegal let me advice you, when two parties are no longer interested in a marriage, the divorce is eminent . The lady said she doesn’t want the marriage and the husband doesn’t too so what are u mediating ? Concerning the child, the court will decide who will take custody of the child and if the child is not up to 18, his/her domicile will follow that of the mother until he/she gets to the age of 18. Ben imagine this guys reaction in front of u and the Camera , then think of what will happen when they are just two of them that guy is an irresponsible beast.
Ben please stop forcing people to stay in an abusive marriage. Instead she should run into safety first before seeking for solution. A woman is crying of violence and you're encouraging her to stay?
This guy is a big kid, and not ready for marriage.He needs for few more years of experience in life before he gets married again.I just wonder how old he is.I just hope he doesn't kill this woman, because life is very fragile.
Oga , you don't even deserve to bear the title "husband" someone that can not make a civil conversation with his wife without raising his hands on her, this man needs to visit a psychiatrists he seriously needs help
Please don't give him the child let him go to court please the court will give you the custody of the child don't worry your self my dear please get your family involved in all these please 🙏
What this man does not understand is that at that stage the right place for the child is with the mother even if you go to court.The only chance the man would is if the woman is irresponsible to take care of the child.The only thing is that he would have rights to the child.
This guy will never change for real. Let them go their ways or else one person will die one day. The man should not think he is invisible , he is vulnerable in sleep, he should be careful
Mr jade! If this woman could beat you up, would you always be wanting to fight her? Madame pls go to court. Nonsense! Ben leave this thing abeg. Rubbish
The child is still young and the Court will award the child to be with the mum but the dad will be granted access until he's of age!!!! The guy can't have the boy!!! Thank God he is showing how abusive he is!!!!
This is a lady that has been pushed to the wall and now she is pushing back. Bencash, do not attempt to bring them together. This man is a monster, he doesn’t deserve to live with anyone or raise any kid. Divorce is the best for them.
That woman is sneaky bragging, she is not humble at all , . She is pushing the man , there was no love. There is a cheater in the case no trust no love
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Osinachi the singer died because her pastor and church members were preaching to her to stay in the marriage, she was busy complaining just as this lady is now complaining, Ben if something happens to this lady you must answer for it, why are you asking the woman who her life is in danger to stay in the same marriage
Exactly my point
I agree ooo. This was must run 🏃🏿. Ben is playing with fire 🔥
Ben is not competent enough.
Exactly
Some people don't learn from others and many have died who aren't known
This man has anger problems. Please don't force the lady to stay in a toxic marriage
This man is a beast and aggressive. He can't control himself
Exactly
❤ this lady is saying the truth. From all indications this guy is actually what the lady is saying he is.
Very violence person
Ben you don't know what this woman is passing through. Let us listen to the woman please.
Ben do not talk anyone into staying in an abusive marriage no matter what, moreover this guy is just like a beast, this guy deserves to be alone for ever
Exactly
He deserves to be in prison
👍👍👍
Ben, if she is your sister, will you force her to stay in an abusive relationship .
Help me ask him, he is annoying self
I wonder.
Exactly
Imagine this ben somehow an you me you angry also
This man is violent. Ben, leave that woman alone to follow her heart. If she remains in the union based on your advice and that man harms her, you will be held responsible.
Ben this is hell on earth can't believe you asking this woman to remain in this marriage with an abuser
Exactly
This lady has seen enough in this toxic relationship. Ben Cash, this guy can never change, and don’t try to be a party to murder by forcing this lady to go against her wish. Let her if she has made up her mind.
Exactly
This guy is a beast. Jide, you can’t look after your child because you are a drunker . Chinacher please go and report him to authorities and take him to court to claim your child.
Shikena!
His too full of himself , who hell does he think he is
See how angry he is just because he didn't get to lay hands on her this time????
Imagine?? As if she doesn't have a voice as long as she's in his house
Exactly
The level of abuse 😮
This woman should remain in this marriage to suffer more?
No ways......
This man is a beast, girl run for your life. This man can't change, he is a narcissist
@ Bencash,listen and listen good. For better for worse does not mean,one should stay in an abusive relationship that can lead to death. She needs to be alive for herself and her baby. The guy is a beast.
Bro I live in Europe and a lot of women have lost their lives because of endurance please let the lady file for divorce before she loose her life to violent .. and from what I’m seeing this guy need a professional therapist for anger ..
Not just in Europe. This is happening everywhere. 😢
This guy is wild beast. He is not ready to accept his mistakes. A serious narcissist. How can a drunkard, womaniser and hot tempered person take care of a child. The lady should run away.
Fact
This beast hasn't been remociful to his actions, he Can not change and if he proves to be stubborn go to court
Ben cash let this woman be. She's the only one that knows what she's seeing in the marriage. If she wants a divorce, let her be o. If she goes back and anything happens to her, you'll answer for it. Let her be
Exactly
Abusive marriage is unacceptable
Ben, allow that young lady to do her will. That man is a sadist
Ben don't force that woman to be in a relationship that is abusive, for better for worse does not mean being abused and still remain there. I grew up in an abusive family, my father would beat my mom until she became unconscious then my father would stop the beating. This would happen while we the children were watching. My mom divorced my father and that was the best decision she made, right now l can't stand an abuser, l married a good man who does not abuse me.BEN understand that the man will not change, these man need therapy. Before you counsel abuser please Ben be schooled in the psychology involved. I watch your videos to learn how people behave, l am doing a masters in psychology. You need to know these things
Time for domestic judge to settle this toxic relationship and grant them the divorce papers. They can share custody of the child. Ben this matter is not for you to settle or beg 😮 Marriage is not do or perish please 🙏🏾
Tell Ben please.
The man is a beast and a narcissist
Oga, if both of you have agreed to go your separate ways let the lady be with the child until he grows, you can agree on how often you visit the boy
The lady should go to court for the costody of the child. Let her give to the court all the proof of the treatment of STI and the beating from a medical report.
Naija is corrupt if I was her I would run away and live somewhere no one knows where I am with my child or leave the country.
Ben if that woman dies as result of being beaten by this man her blood will be in your hands. You can not force someone if it's not working just because you have you think divorce is not good
Ben you are crazy you don’t want this lady to get a divorce
You don't need to beg him for any signing of any divorce paper. Just separate from him for good 2 years ,then continue to file for your divorce. You deserve a better man.
do you see the way Jide threatened this woman, Ben, you should hand him over to the police authority, and lead this woman out just like the angels led Lot and his children out of Sodom and Gomorrah. If Jide did this in your presence , and with camera rolling, what do you think he would have done to this lady behind the closing doors. woman you don't need to be here!
This guy is from a dysfunctional home he needs help. I pray his mum see this video! Who will give a child for him to raise. Babe separate until he gets help.
This man is a beast
Ben Cash is very incompetent in handling this case, why is he coercing the woman to remain in an abusive marriage, i think he is supporting him because of the money he was paid.
Ben don't allow this poor woman to lose her life . Stop asking her to stay. In the marriage.
Ben, don't drag this lady into an early grave, all in the name of scoring a point at marriage reconciliation. I still can't fanthom why African men see women as slaves in marriage.
Ben allow the separation. This man has no remorse. He is not good
Anger issues is the worst problem in this man
You have pushed this woman to the wall.
Ben don't force her to stay in an abusive marriage woman run fir your life and stay alive to take care of your child
Anyone seeking divorce goes to court, not social media.
Every man and woman should attend the school of marriage to avoid this mess .
Ben Cash. Sometimes you have to accept that there are cases that cannot be soft. But if you think that keeping this marriage going is the solution then be prepared to get blood on your hand because this man is controlling with an uncontrollable anger issue and will kill this woman. Mark my words. Count your losses Mr Ben and come away from this case. It will not help your reputation
Why is this guy asking the lady to stay in this abusive marriage. This guy should be arrested and and jailed
These guy is a beast for christ sake just look at him for crying out loud
Ben Cash you don't ask couple to accept each other in a toxic relationship like this. Listen and observe from who is igniting the problem, 95 o/o trouble comes from the guy and that's very dangerous. The lady's life is at stake allow them separate for a while and see if the guy will be remorseful any time.
Ben leave this lady alone. I believe she told she wants a divorce when she contacted you. She’s had enough of this man’s nonsense. Let her get her divorce and move on with her life. The court will even favor the lady and she will be granted custody of the child. A man who doesn’t know who a lady is, can never live with one.
You can co- parent ,no rule for abusive relationships therefore your life is important
Bencash please let the woman file a divorce before she died in this marriage,life has no duplicate ooo
Charge him to the court and get a divorce case that all😮😮😮
ANGER & PRIDE IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL
Oga, be truthful to yourself.
Noone including tour wife is perfect.
Carry out a sincere personal self assessment
Woman, do not stay. Get out now, when you are up and well. Best wishes.🙏🙏🙏
That man is sick. Let him come to me and learn how to take care of a wife
Bencash sometimes think simple. This man is a beast.
This guy need to go for therapy on anger management n the lady too.
Arrested him this out of control
This man is a BEAST. He abuses her. Don't force her to stay in abusive marriage. He is not remorseful and arrogant. A lot of ladies have died just because they don't speak up. The ones that speak up, you are asking them to STAY. Please abeg let her go, so she can heal and have rest of mind.
Anger management problems. I would not leave my child with him either. Don’t bring them together without professional therapy.
If he has anger problem, you should be careful how you respond to him. Silent is the best in this case, it doesn't mean you are stupid. You don't argue with someone that doesn't understand you.
Ben,do you want to pity this woman in the coffin ? GOD FORBID!!! Ben please apply wisdom.
The lady should divorce this man for her life sake
This man is very proud and not remorseful. Marriage is not by force. If this woman reminds in this marriage, this mad man can play this woman. Ben, don't do what you will later regret. Don't force this lady to stay.
Ben, please dont talk too much.
I m interested in her.
I will treat her as a queen.
Ben Cash, Who fleets it,noses it ooh ,this man is a bully ,can't you see it bro ,please let her go, I beg you, she's not happy. washing from Canada 🇨🇦.
You guys will have to have shared custody of the child.
Who or what turned this man into this monster? OMG!!! 😮😮😮
Ben do not Force this lady into this marriage please.
Mr man a you a king
Even you don't know how talk to your wife
This lady has endured enough! Why will a man treat his wife like this, is she your daughter? A grown woman being beaten by her partner, real men don’t beat women. They have important things to do, making money and closing deals. Young man put your energy into productive ventures, she not your problem.
This is the confirmation of what the wife is saying, I'm disappointed
This man is too aggressive. He is a beast.
Ben is somehow not being reasonable. You can’t encourage somebody to remain in an abusive relationship if she doesn’t want to. Ben has been quiet about the STDs he infects the wife with. Because the guy has many ladies he is sleeping with, the wife is now suddenly a “demon”
Ben, last warning to you, if care is not taken, you will be prosecuted.
It might be difficult for this guy to get another wife with this kind of hooliganistic behaviour. How did the lady get married to this brigand?
Ben should stop this unfruitful mediation because the guy was transparently unremorseful.
Ben let her vent her anger out pls, shutting her up is a big no pls,she has gone through a lot,even in ur presence he still wants to beat her,pls Chinaza go for the divorce asap
Ben I am a paralegal let me advice you, when two parties are no longer interested in a marriage, the divorce is eminent . The lady said she doesn’t want the marriage and the husband doesn’t too so what are u mediating ? Concerning the child, the court will decide who will take custody of the child and if the child is not up to 18, his/her domicile will follow that of the mother until he/she gets to the age of 18. Ben imagine this guys reaction in front of u and the Camera , then think of what will happen when they are just two of them that guy is an irresponsible beast.
Well said
Ben please stop forcing people to stay in an abusive marriage. Instead she should run into safety first before seeking for solution. A woman is crying of violence and you're encouraging her to stay?
Can you imagine?
This guy is a big kid, and not ready for marriage.He needs for few more years of experience in life before he gets married again.I just wonder how old he is.I just hope he doesn't kill this woman, because life is very fragile.
Is not her because she has been keeping quiet. Now she has had enough. Speak girl.
Threats are enough to prosecute
Oga , you don't even deserve to bear the title "husband" someone that can not make a civil conversation with his wife without raising his hands on her, this man needs to visit a psychiatrists he seriously needs help
Ben, you're not in her shoe. No divorce is too quick, if it involves saving a soul! Three years of enduring domestic violence!
What an irony and a shame, couples bringing in an unmarried person to mediate in their marriage.
What is exactly wrong with this generation?
Please don't give him the child let him go to court please the court will give you the custody of the child don't worry your self my dear please get your family involved in all these please 🙏
Ben late this lady leave that man ,he is very evil and don't allow him to be with the child.Save that woman I begooo......
Watching you from Zambia.
Ben, why are you forcing this lady yo go back to this man.
Ben stop asking her to stay in the marriage. The person who is wearing the shoes no where it's paining him or her.
A very good discussion am happy for you ❤
When a woman is fed up there is nothing you can tell her to stay with a man
MADAM, STAY ALIVE FOR YOUR CHILD. DO NOT BE ANOTHER OSINACHI
THIS MAN IS NOT MATURE OR READY TO KEEP A WIFE
HE IS IN THE NURSERY SCHOOL OF LIFE
What this man does not understand is that at that stage the right place for the child is with the mother even if you go to court.The only chance the man would is if the woman is irresponsible to take care of the child.The only thing is that he would have rights to the child.
Bencash is single, still young with no experience in marriage. The lady has a choice. Let the lady decide her faith.
If it was me, he would have to be sleeping with one eye open 🙄
Run lady run.
This guy will never change for real. Let them go their ways or else one person will die one day. The man should not think he is invisible , he is vulnerable in sleep, he should be careful
My girl please run ooo bring the poor child back to you
This Ben makes no sense, why are you telling a lady to stay in an abusive marriage?
Mr jade! If this woman could beat you up, would you always be wanting to fight her? Madame pls go to court. Nonsense! Ben leave this thing abeg. Rubbish
The child is still young and the Court will award the child to be with the mum but the dad will be granted access until he's of age!!!! The guy can't have the boy!!! Thank God he is showing how abusive he is!!!!
This guy has a bad anger
Do they know what venting is, good for you my dear.
If you find out you will see that this man's father was beating the mother that is why he is behaving like that.
This is a lady that has been pushed to the wall and now she is pushing back. Bencash, do not attempt to bring them together. This man is a monster, he doesn’t deserve to live with anyone or raise any kid. Divorce is the best for them.
That woman is sneaky bragging, she is not humble at all , . She is pushing the man , there was no love. There is a cheater in the case no trust no love