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When you talked about wrapping, it reminded me of my college days. I had very little money and was invited to a little girl's birthday. I bought her a set of coloring pencils from the supermarket but had nothing left to buy wrapping paper. So I went home I took a sheet of white paper and painted it with a lot of colors. At the party, I was a bit ashamed she had so many big, gifts wrapped in shiny, beautiful papers. But when she got to mine, she just caressed the painted paper and let out a soft: " wooow!". I had tears in my eyes, intention and care really do count when gift giving. Anyway, thank you for your very informative video.
@@JamilaMusayeva Oh thank you for your reply, it's really nice that you interact this way with your audience. You are as nice as you are elegant :). I follow you on instagram too. Have a lovely day!
This actually made me cry. 😭 Sendung you some virtual hugs! I hope you in a better spot by now, but giving a gift although you don't have the money is really precious.
Very interesting video! In the Asian (Chinese) culture when receiving a gift you should pretend not to be interested 😅. You never open it in front of the person gifting your gift, you always do it in private. If you open it in front of them you look greedy. So if you ever gift a gift to an Asian person and they don't seem impressed, it is because to them opening it is rude.
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you for replying! That was what we were thought, not open gifts in front of the person giving it. And also politely deny the gift and afterwards accept it. Because not accepting the gift is also rude 😅
Great video Next video topic ideas 1 House tour 2 house etiquette 3 how to attend guest 4 study tips 5 school etiquette ( i know you are not in school lol)
@@JamilaMusayeva family and acquaintances as well. In Chinese New Year even if you are visiting your friends' houses, if they have kids, you might need to give all of them the red envelops as well!
I liked all of these points. Beautiful presentation, Ms. Musayeva. I will add something that a friend taught me many years ago, and I think it’s important. After you have sent a gift to someone for any occasion, even for a wedding or birth of a child, under normal circumstances do NOT contact that person to see if the gift was received, or ask if they liked your gift. Once you have gifted someone, your work is done. Forget about the gift. The receiver will acknowledge the gift (hopefully) or they might not. Any inquiries about the gift could result in embarrassment for the gift receiver and will very likely not make you feel better about the lack of a “thank you”. Thoughts, anyone?
WHY ARE YOU SOO SOO PERFECT? I really aspire to become a sophisticated lady like you when ill grow up. LOVE FROM INDIA. P.S - I thought you are 21 before I started to binge watch all your vids.
It's a great gift but I'd say only for those who love cooking at home or spend time in the kitchen. It's a waste if someone just eats out and the bottle is shoved in a cabinet somewhere.
I was dating a rich girl who travels alot, she bought me a bottle of some expensive Olive Oil, and was looking at my face to see me excited, i literally don't know anything about olive oil, long story short, i used it to fry eggs... cus i didnt know what to do with it
@@vilieto we are actually Lebanese and we cook EVERYTHING with olive oil it's part of our culture so we do value it alot! Many middle eastern country are like that! But you are right it's definitely a tricky gift
I love the idea about using magazines for wrapping a gift 🎁 I've been using brown paper this year for my Christmas gifts and then I drew some ornaments and stars with a marker. It looks special because it's personalised. It's the small touches that make a difference 💖
I like this very much. My dad does calligraphy. I enjoy his wrapping paper so much that I sometimes keep them. I don't really like newspaper as wrapping paper. I always have to think about this episode in Gilmore girls where this girl wrapped her gift with some bad news in front. So that the gift receiver couldn't complain about the gift as their was something way worse happening in the world.
In India people give money in decorative envelopes as wedding gifts. This can be given to both the close ones as well as someone you don't know that well. Money is also given to children when a relative visits them.
I feel like it is good to give money as a gift to someone whom we don't know very well. Because it is better than gifting something that they don't like and they can get whatever they want with that money.
Ohh you are looking quite like an Angel in this sparkling white Dress! How nice it is to listen you talking about Gifts with this lovely calming Voice! You are a HeART ❤🧡💛 indeed!!
I love how your videos has background and some history. Everyone at that point will know if someone complimented the giver not the gift it means he didn’t like it😂🌚
I didn't skip the video for even a second...I love watching your videos bcze they are so informative and so relaxing... I've realised following etiquettes is such a beautiful thing rather than just being a crap when it comes to treating others... Please keep doing more of these... Also I wanted to know how to refuse people in a polite manner bcze I'm a girl who cannot say no to anyone and bcze of that , I usually end up trapping myself...so I really wanna know how to politely refuse people... Loads of love ❤️❤️❤️💖🤩
I really like how you emphasize considering the receiver in all aspects of gift-giving. Especially when you mentioned to consider the receivers feelings about the environment/going paperless etc. I have personally been trying to reduce my eco-footprint, and I always appreciate when other people show respect for my feelings and beliefs with small gestures like omitting the wrapping. Great video, Jamila!
Yes, if they wrap the gifts it is also nice if they don't fold it as much. I like to open them carefully and keep the wrapping paper. Then i will reuse it. Only if it still looks nice of course.
I am really enjoying watching your channel grow. It’s amazing how much more beautiful the cinematography and editing have become, and watching your subscription numbers go up makes me feel like your wonderful content is getting out there. The world needs gracious role models like you!
Hello Jamila, I loved this video. Thanks for it. Just a request, please put time stamps in your videos. They're really convenient when you wanna come back and revise some specific advises.
Looking so pretty, Jamila! Thank you once again for saving us from another awkward moment. You've helped me get rid of my panic attack at the time of giving and receiving gifts....
Lovely lessons. I feel like so many of these I was brought up on in England as well as experiencing a different culture in Nigeria and being aware of different norms. It's nice to know that my parents' strictness about etiquette is universal! Enjoying your series, thank you.
I wasn't aware of all the things one should take into account when making and recieving a gift, till I saw your video! Thank you for all the useful tipps! 😇
Hi Jamila, This is the third of your video lessons that I have watched and I really appreciate your perspective of good manners being all about considering the feelings of others. Many people think of manners as being rules made to torture them.... But you made it clear, especially in gift video, that it is all about considering how to make others comfortable.❤️❤️❤️
Tip #5: In the past, my skin was quite bad. I received a gift from a man who wanted to date me. It was a skin care product for bad skin. I felt offended and never met the man again.
Incredible video to watch whenever you have a birthday to come, or now at the end of the year! I found the taboos on gifts in other countries very interesting and would like to add one more about Brazil: here, a "cutlery set" or set of kitchen knives is frowned upon as a gift, as it can sometimes mean falsehood or a break in a relationship. Beautiful work, Jamila! You are an inspiration! ♥️
Your voice is so calming. These tips are really good too. I especially like the video of always finding a positive compliment to give in thanks for a gift, even if it is unliked. It is so classy, elegant and truly feminine.
Accept love from Pakistan 🇵🇰. I wait badly fr ur videos. ur voice is soooo soothing n the way u teach is fab. This video particular is what i really wanted to see.
Very helpful! Thank you, Jamila. The tradition of gift giving is a beautiful thing, yet there are also many potential pitfalls. But if we are sensitive and empathetic, we don't have to worry about anything going wrong, I think. Happy Holidays to you too! 🎄🎁
I saw this great advice on reddit that when your budget for a gift is tight, buy a nice version of something small that would usually be quite cheap instead of an "average" version of something less useful. For example, with $15, buy a very nice pen or notebook instead of something "bigger" of low quality. I loved the video!
Your videos are really useful and the way you teach is really amazing. There is a little request from my side, if you can make a video on "phone etiquette" . That would be very helpful. Thank you.
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this channel is literally saving me as an introvert girl
Happy to hear it 💫
whats wrong being inrovert?
@@anuj007thakur there's nothing wrong to be introvert
@@anuj007thakur there's nothing wrong being an introvert. She is Just saying it because we introverts have lots of struggles because of our anxiety
Introvert girls are boring.
When you talked about wrapping, it reminded me of my college days. I had very little money and was invited to a little girl's birthday. I bought her a set of coloring pencils from the supermarket but had nothing left to buy wrapping paper. So I went home I took a sheet of white paper and painted it with a lot of colors. At the party, I was a bit ashamed she had so many big, gifts wrapped in shiny, beautiful papers. But when she got to mine, she just caressed the painted paper and let out a soft: " wooow!".
I had tears in my eyes, intention and care really do count when gift giving.
Anyway, thank you for your very informative video.
Thanks for sharing this. Gift giving is not about a price tag but the care and the attention you give. It matters more ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva Oh thank you for your reply, it's really nice that you interact this way with your audience. You are as nice as you are elegant :). I follow you on instagram too. Have a lovely day!
This is a lovely story and she's lucky to have you as a friend/acquaintance. :)
At the end if the , it's all about Feelings 😇.
This actually made me cry. 😭
Sendung you some virtual hugs! I hope you in a better spot by now, but giving a gift although you don't have the money is really precious.
Finally a guideline for an awkward girl like me, who gets excited and doesnt know what to do when receiving a gift lmao
I like awkward girls more, girls like her are so uncomfirtable to talk
@Anna crystal hahaha
@@amogh708 exactly!!
@Anna crystal no one asked for your reply, why you offended?
@Anna crystal I'm just telling a general thing, awkward girls have more friends than those have etiquettes
Very interesting video! In the Asian (Chinese) culture when receiving a gift you should pretend not to be interested 😅. You never open it in front of the person gifting your gift, you always do it in private. If you open it in front of them you look greedy.
So if you ever gift a gift to an Asian person and they don't seem impressed, it is because to them opening it is rude.
Thank you for sharing this. I mentioned that in Asia, you would not unwrap the gift in front of others. Perhaps for that particular reason.
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you for replying! That was what we were thought, not open gifts in front of the person giving it. And also politely deny the gift and afterwards accept it. Because not accepting the gift is also rude 😅
@@Pluizje1998 Haha yea thats true! Asian gift receivers usually say "oh you didn't have to do this.....if you insist, i'll take it. Thank you!"
@@nghibluu Same with the red envelops, pretend you don't want it until if you deny again it will be rude and then accept 😂
@@Pluizje1998 :))))))))))))
For me, handmade gifts are above everything. They are priceless :)
GOOD
Those are the kind of gifts I love giving because I took the time to create something unique for someone it always feels good : )
@@mxxxn I would love to receive them too :D As I always make them for my friends and family :)
I hate them 😂🤫 and then u have 2 keep it 😥
@@andreak.5739 Haha
Great video
Next video topic ideas
1 House tour
2 house etiquette
3 how to attend guest
4 study tips
5 school etiquette
( i know you are not in school lol)
you smiling and saying "that's a huge mistake" needs to be a GIF
yes lol
i just made it
@@MalaikaB bless you
Right
@Rania Hameed Chaudhry 8.56
I'll say in Chinese cultures, money is the wedding/Chinese New Year gift - usually crisp, new bills in a red envelope.
Only to family or acquaintances as well?
@@JamilaMusayeva family and acquaintances as well. In Chinese New Year even if you are visiting your friends' houses, if they have kids, you might need to give all of them the red envelops as well!
Same thing in south India, too
I really love this culture! Red envelopes are my fav! 🧧
红包🧧 yeah! Always giving out red packets . New Years , weddings, when baby passes 100 days old and the 12th birthday ~ red packets are great .
Her voice is so soft and gentle it almost gave me ASMR.
🙏🏻
Her voice and female taste are the best things about her.
I love that you talk about the history at the beginning ❤️
Thank for mentioning that ☺️
Her voice is so relaxing!
🙏🏻
It sounds like ASMR, love it
I liked all of these points. Beautiful presentation, Ms. Musayeva. I will add something that a friend taught me many years ago, and I think it’s important. After you have sent a gift to someone for any occasion, even for a wedding or birth of a child, under normal circumstances do NOT contact that person to see if the gift was received, or ask if they liked your gift. Once you have gifted someone, your work is done. Forget about the gift. The receiver will acknowledge the gift (hopefully) or they might not. Any inquiries about the gift could result in embarrassment for the gift receiver and will very likely not make you feel better about the lack of a “thank you”. Thoughts, anyone?
You are very welcome. And yes, I agree. It is up to them to follow up.
I love how we get a little history lesson with these etiquette videos!
Glad you like it ☺️
WHY ARE YOU SOO SOO PERFECT? I really aspire to become a sophisticated lady like you when ill grow up. LOVE FROM INDIA.
P.S - I thought you are 21 before I started to binge watch all your vids.
Thank you ☺️
What’s her actual age??
@@kanchanbehera8450 29 I think
I once gifted a bottle of olive oil to a friend! It was an amazing virgin olive oil made in my country! She loved it and thought it was original! 😅
It's a great gift but I'd say only for those who love cooking at home or spend time in the kitchen. It's a waste if someone just eats out and the bottle is shoved in a cabinet somewhere.
I love that! That’s such a nice gift!
Nice gift! I’d have definitely appreciated it too ☺️
I was dating a rich girl who travels alot, she bought me a bottle of some expensive Olive Oil, and was looking at my face to see me excited, i literally don't know anything about olive oil, long story short, i used it to fry eggs... cus i didnt know what to do with it
@@vilieto we are actually Lebanese and we cook EVERYTHING with olive oil it's part of our culture so we do value it alot! Many middle eastern country are like that! But you are right it's definitely a tricky gift
Out of context:
It is 2 am and I was having some anxiety attacks. Your video calmed me down and I learned something.
Thank you :)
Happy to hear that my videos were helpful in that way ☺️
Ohh, I hear (from Above) that both Rose🌹 and Litsea Etherial Oils could help you in those Situations. Enjoy ❤❤❤
I love the idea about using magazines for wrapping a gift 🎁
I've been using brown paper this year for my Christmas gifts and then I drew some ornaments and stars with a marker. It looks special because it's personalised. It's the small touches that make a difference 💖
Love this idea! Will start doing it too ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva I think your kids would love it too 😊
I like this very much. My dad does calligraphy. I enjoy his wrapping paper so much that I sometimes keep them. I don't really like newspaper as wrapping paper. I always have to think about this episode in Gilmore girls where this girl wrapped her gift with some bad news in front. So that the gift receiver couldn't complain about the gift as their was something way worse happening in the world.
In India people give money in decorative envelopes as wedding gifts. This can be given to both the close ones as well as someone you don't know that well.
Money is also given to children when a relative visits them.
Thanks for sharing ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva ☺️
In japan it is normal to give money for weddings
I feel like it is good to give money as a gift to someone whom we don't know very well. Because it is better than gifting something that they don't like and they can get whatever they want with that money.
@@sumabhat8983 True.
Literally the big sister I never had... Thank you for doing these videos, I learn so much 💕
Aw! Thanks! ☺️
Video suggestion: Must-have clothing pieces.
Your video itself is a gift for us
Aww thank you!
Ohh you are looking quite like an Angel in this sparkling white Dress! How nice it is to listen you talking about Gifts with this lovely calming Voice! You are a HeART ❤🧡💛 indeed!!
Thank you 🙏🏻
So Pretty Candles And Our Beautiful.
I always feel awkward when others read the card I wrote them out loud, that was meant for them, not everyone else 😅
Which is why they should read it to themselves, not outloud ☺️
I love how you always include historical information on each topic in your videos. Please keep that up! ❤️
Happy you like it ☺️
I love how your videos has background and some history.
Everyone at that point will know if someone complimented the giver not the gift it means he didn’t like it😂🌚
Thank you. It is best to find something honest to thank about that a generic thank you 😉
I was browsing videos on youtube with my daughter she actually observe:mama:how soft spoken this lady is😍
Aww thank you! Say hi to her from me ☺️
I’m learning so much from these videos
Thank you! ☺️
That lip color looks so pretty on her. Her whole makeup is beautiful, I love it 🥺
Thank you!
Your voice is a therapy ♥️It's so calming 🌹
Thank you!
I didn't skip the video for even a second...I love watching your videos bcze they are so informative and so relaxing... I've realised following etiquettes is such a beautiful thing rather than just being a crap when it comes to treating others... Please keep doing more of these... Also I wanted to know how to refuse people in a polite manner bcze I'm a girl who cannot say no to anyone and bcze of that , I usually end up trapping myself...so I really wanna know how to politely refuse people... Loads of love ❤️❤️❤️💖🤩
Thank you for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
I really like how you emphasize considering the receiver in all aspects of gift-giving. Especially when you mentioned to consider the receivers feelings about the environment/going paperless etc. I have personally been trying to reduce my eco-footprint, and I always appreciate when other people show respect for my feelings and beliefs with small gestures like omitting the wrapping. Great video, Jamila!
Yes, if they wrap the gifts it is also nice if they don't fold it as much. I like to open them carefully and keep the wrapping paper. Then i will reuse it. Only if it still looks nice of course.
She's the perfect balance of classy and fun, she's so beautiful
Thank you 💫
I am really enjoying watching your channel grow. It’s amazing how much more beautiful the cinematography and editing have become, and watching your subscription numbers go up makes me feel like your wonderful content is getting out there. The world needs gracious role models like you!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
You look like a model I followed every etiquette of yours and I got tons of compliments from people❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
I would be interested to see a video on hosting guests in formal vs casual settings 😊
Whatever you choose to give, I hope all of you will support your respective local small/medium-sized enterprises this year.
❤
I agree 💯
I love this idea!
Me being an Indian felt really nice u mentioning TAJ MEHEL🔥
I love how the red of the rose matches the red of your lipstick!!
Hello Jamila, I loved this video.
Thanks for it.
Just a request, please put time stamps in your videos. They're really convenient when you wanna come back and revise some specific advises.
Thank you! ☺️
Handmade gifts are a must for me and i love gifting all my family something that i've made or they made
Love them too!
Looking so pretty, Jamila!
Thank you once again for saving us from another awkward moment. You've helped me get rid of my panic attack at the time of giving and receiving gifts....
I am so happy to hear that! 🙏🏻
thank youu ! this video save me every birthday of me or my friends
🙏🏻☺️
Lovely lessons. I feel like so many of these I was brought up on in England as well as experiencing a different culture in Nigeria and being aware of different norms. It's nice to know that my parents' strictness about etiquette is universal! Enjoying your series, thank you.
You are very welcome ☺️
You are so perfect . Beautiful , elegant , soft spoken , intelligent , etc etc ❤️❤️❤️
great tips, as always
I wasn't aware of all the things one should take into account when making and recieving a gift, till I saw your video! Thank you for all the useful tipps! 😇
You are so welcome!
Your channel has helped me a lot. Thank you!
Happy to hear it!
I love the historical background part at the beginning!
Thank you ☺️
This is my favourite channel, always excited and waiting for upcoming video.
Thank you!
You’re an excellent lecturer, the historical background at the introduction. Very insightful video....
Thank you ☺️
Hi Jamila, This is the third of your video lessons that I have watched and I really appreciate your perspective of good manners being all about considering the feelings of others.
Many people think of manners as being rules made to torture them.... But you made it clear, especially in gift video, that it is all about considering how to make others comfortable.❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for saying this! I truly appreciate it 🙏🏻
This video has so many interesting informations !! A great place to invest your time in .
Your channel teaches us lot of things,thank you.
You are welcome ☺️
Thank you! Hou have beautiful, very calming voice/tone.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Considering budget is the most helpful part in the video. By the way, love your dress!
Love from PAKISTAN ❤️
Thank you!
Wow I’m in love with your dress 😍
It looks great on you
Thank you!
Your voice is sooo smooth like you got that flow that is sooooooooo satisfying. I luv each one of your rules. Keep up the good work girl! ♥️
Thank you very much 💫
Thankyou for a wonderful video, you have the most calming voice😊.
🙏🏻 thank you!
Tip #5: In the past, my skin was quite bad. I received a gift from a man who wanted to date me. It was a skin care product for bad skin. I felt offended and never met the man again.
Oh, I am sorry to hear that!
The audacity 🤣🤣
Ma'sha'Allah, you looked so beautiful! And I love how comforting your voice is!
Hey one video on classroom etiquettes please! ❤️
Incredible video to watch whenever you have a birthday to come, or now at the end of the year! I found the taboos on gifts in other countries very interesting and would like to add one more about Brazil: here, a "cutlery set" or set of kitchen knives is frowned upon as a gift, as it can sometimes mean falsehood or a break in a relationship.
Beautiful work, Jamila! You are an inspiration! ♥️
Thanx for uploading this video much needed ❤ , I was literally so confused on what to gift my cousin💎 . Lots of love .
Thank you!
You are so wonderfully said. I really like the way you speak and explain things. Love from India 💕
Thank you 🙏🏻
OMG you look like an angel.
Thank you!
Hello Jamila!, L❤ve ur VCA earrings, it compliments v well with the dress☺
Jama I loved this one! Great job!
This channel is helpful ❤ Your voice is relaxing
Thanks! 🙏🏻
Your voice is so calming. These tips are really good too. I especially like the video of always finding a positive compliment to give in thanks for a gift, even if it is unliked. It is so classy, elegant and truly feminine.
Thank you so much!
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank YOU! Great content. I really enjoy your videos. I'm working on embodying such femininity.
You are saving me everyday!
☺️ 😉
Never knew this would be sooooooo usefull ! Neat , calm and pleasant presentation ❤️
Love from India
You are welcome ☺️
Watching this video about giving gifts on my birthday haha I hope i can send this video to my family and friends
Please please do an etiquette video about video conferences / virtual meetings. Thanks! Love your content!
Thank you!
Love you're videos, I always learn something. You're really relaxing and induce ASMR! ❤
Thank you!
Your personality is so sweet ❤️
Thank you ☺️
Here because I need to think of what I'm gonna give myself 😌✨
Your voice is so soothing. You are smart and elegant. Love your videos! Keep them coming please. So pleasing
always so refreshing, coming here💖
Thanks!
Thank you for this video
I particularly give a journal or stationary. Thank you..
OMG YOU MADE THIS VIDEO. 😭😭 I absolutely LOVE you
😍💕
❤️
Jamila perfectly resembles elegance with balance and grace🌹❤️
Thank you!
Please,please,make a video on dressing ettiqute.
yes plz!
Yes please
This video was so engrossing!
Accept love from Pakistan 🇵🇰. I wait badly fr ur videos. ur voice is soooo soothing n the way u teach is fab. This video particular is what i really wanted to see.
Thank you!
Those roses are extremely beautiful
Your voice is so gorgeous. And so is your dress 💕
Thank you 🙏🏻
Once I found your channel, i can't stop watching all your videos. All of them are so helpful. 💜
Thank you! I am glad to hear that ☺️
Very helpful! Thank you, Jamila.
The tradition of gift giving is a beautiful thing, yet there are also many potential pitfalls.
But if we are sensitive and empathetic, we don't have to worry about anything going wrong, I think.
Happy Holidays to you too! 🎄🎁
Thank you!
Thanks a lot for the gift ideas.... I loved them all.... Love from India 💖
thank you jamila for another amazing and instructive video! i loved the content and the dress as well 😌
You are welcome ☺️
Thank you i really appreciate the amount of work you put in these wonderful video
You are very welcome ☺️✨
when she mentions Brazil, I feel like crying! hahaahh I loveeeed the video
🙏🏻
You look so elegant!!!
You are my inspiration.I just want to be like you.lots of love beautiful.😊😊😊
Thank you 🙏🏻
I saw this great advice on reddit that when your budget for a gift is tight, buy a nice version of something small that would usually be quite cheap instead of an "average" version of something less useful. For example, with $15, buy a very nice pen or notebook instead of something "bigger" of low quality. I loved the video!
Loved the dress❤
🙏🏻
Your videos is what we all need n your topics are really well choosen
Thank you!
Your videos are really useful and the way you teach is really amazing. There is a little request from my side, if you can make a video on "phone etiquette" . That would be very helpful. Thank you.
Thank you ☺️