Do YOU Really Need a Girlfriend Yet?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ธ.ค. 2024
- Do You really need a girlfriend, boyfriend or whatever you call your significant other yet? Is what I will be ranting about today. From modern dating in gen z to the mental health cycle we put ourselves through when we like a person. Relationships are hard so lets talk about it.
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I definitely think it’s dangerous to think “a girlfriend will solve all my issues” but I also think you can get stuck in the “I need to be perfectly ready for a girlfriend before I get one” lane forever. I agree that you should work on yourself-for yourself-as a baseline to everything, and the rest will slowly fall into place.
Yeah thats def a better way to put it!
On the 2nd train currently, well I used to. But having talked to a friend, and I think she was right, and if I do that, I'll end up dying alone 😂
Kinda just focusing on myself, school, and my work. If I meet someone, then I meet someone. If I don't? That's fine as well
True Love isn't being with someone you love, but being someone you love.
Mmmmm you are right
I can't understand it
love yourself and love the other person for who they are I guess
Guys i think he just means you should become the person you truly want to be, be your best self, before getting a girlfriend. Essentially how could you love someone else, if you don't even love yourself?
So a narcissist?
all i need is fish
So true king or queen
I've never even thought about relationships in that kind of way, thank you for sharing this!
Im glad I can Help
Learning to be happy alone first will make life way better. I felt the same, like I had to do more things just to get someone I love. Improving yourself is good, just don't think you have to get new hobbies just to attract someone, I did that and failed. love your videos
YEAH you are right :D I probably should have said learning to love yourself first is ultimately the best thing you can do but I just forgot. Thank you for the kinds words
literally this. i’ve talked before about how i got w one of my friends, and i just wasn’t ready for it. but im finally feeling happy simply… being myself. if you ever get into a relationship, make sure you’re happy with YOURSELF before anything !!!
commenting bc your content is so good it needs more views
thank you! :D
Getting a girlfriend won't solve your problems. If you use her just to fill a void, she will become your life, and once she leaves you are just gonna be empty again.
Really understandable point. I myself am not looking for one actively just being myself and if I do happen to meet someone so be it :) Nice video 🔥🔥 and I hope your toe is doing ok xd
THANK YOU! Im getting my xrays done today SO IM HOPING ITS NOT BAD. But seriously you are right. if you find someone you find someone!!
Very good train of thought.
But the thing with having a partner is not when, but who.
If a person fits so well to you as a person, you shouldn't lose your chance, just bc you can't do adventurous things with here yet.
A relationship that is only built on that fuzzy feeling is bound to be a desaster.
A relationship is a choice, and it better be a real commitment. That's why most people take time before starting a relationship.
She should choose you, even if you're not at your final goals yet, life is a process.
Also yes you can easily lose yourself in a relationship, but also be aware that the more you love someone and the more you spent time with someone in a romantic relationship, the more they can potentially hurt you.
That's why you should indeed choose wisely, that's what many people are unaware of.
Have boundaries, be respectful (bc you hurt each other more easily), be kind, communicate and be honest to yourself and your partner.
That's why choosing wisely is always important!!
I hope this helps ^-^
Been thinking about this a lot man it’s pretty amazing how small vids like this come into my recommendations. Personally for me if the opportunity arises I definitely want to jump on it as long as I am mentally well. Don’t pass it up if you get the chance to talk to someone that you think looks cute btw 🙂↔️. I fumbled at least 9-10 times because of my low self esteem. So even if you think you are not mentally good enough. At the least befriend a person you like if you meet them. Absolutely love the vid btw such a chill vibe.
hey you're right! thank you for this it rly helped me out :)
WOOHOO I HELPED! Hope it works out for you soon
Thank you bro
You are welcome. Thank you for watchin :D
I have a crush on my math teacher but he said I will have to get straight A's for it to work out for us.
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☆*exists in polyamorous*☆
☆One of my lovers needs me. He’s very..yk.. but I disappeared from the community and I don’t know if he’s ok, but.. I hav lovers, and I have crushes a lot, but no one ever likes me back unless were far away. Me and Michy LOVE each other. Me and Aile LOVE each other. No money needed, just communicating. Calls on disc, before I got caught. Right now, I’m in pain, I’m sad, but.. I’m alone, and it’s nice.☆
hopefully life gets easier!
@@SnowyApril ☆it will. My online dad told me it will.☆
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why do these crazy ass webfishing videos come up in my recommended