The First Tasks in Overcoming Anxiety, Panic, Worry, and OCD

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 พ.ค. 2020
  • Our minds are worry-making machines. They are logic-making machines. The Disorders tend to take advantage of all of that. To win your life back, you need to “Step Back.” First, step back to take on a new perspective - “Why in the world is this happening to me?” Second, step back to decide, “Is this worry a signal or noise?” Third, step back from your content as soon as possible. Then learn to step back in the moment of your fear.

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  • @k-counseling7289
    @k-counseling7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yes. A thousand times YES. You cannot solve a problem while you are in the problem; you must step back.

  • @georgeSud7
    @georgeSud7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Yes, step back, recognize the anxiety sensation , detach from the content and want anxiety, provoke it, this is the best way to overcome the disorders. You are the best teacher i never had. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

    • @georgeSud7
      @georgeSud7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope one day i ll meet you

  • @maicontiago1187
    @maicontiago1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Thank you for bring my life back

  • @Stephen_Jabs
    @Stephen_Jabs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video,doc.

  • @muktajain62
    @muktajain62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Dr Wilson !

  • @pratibhamishra7583
    @pratibhamishra7583 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much sir
    You ara a angel for me.everytime I listen you I get Peace and relax

  • @sabbirhassan3422
    @sabbirhassan3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much sir
    i am a ocd fighter

  • @maggiesymonds6842
    @maggiesymonds6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great 💯

  • @manette7551
    @manette7551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir, Your yputube is underrated! Your videos is a help for many and they should be seen by millions of sufferers, really. How come I have just found your videos now. I have been suffering from panic disorder for 3 years now.

  • @durgaramakrishnan6189
    @durgaramakrishnan6189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you doctor. Very motivating lecture.

  • @sidop2968
    @sidop2968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is better than taking mindfulness and etc.

  • @sidop2968
    @sidop2968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is the best in the business.This should be spread more

  • @lilykavanagh8703
    @lilykavanagh8703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx

  • @Sakura-zu4rz
    @Sakura-zu4rz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have OCD. I have symmetry OCD. Can OCD be characterized as an extreme form of perfectionism where anything can lead to anxiety, fear, and distress? Could you be my friend? 🤗😘❤️Your charm is irresistible!!😁 You look energetic.💪 Now, the world can be a nasty crazy place out there, We cannot control what happens but we can use what happens. We have so much reserves of love and support inside us, if we can just remember that in our mind and move on.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sakura, Meditation heals anxiety, stress and OCD, as it reprogrames the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale-exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your mind and body. Negative thoughts will reduce. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life.

  • @moimaris3369
    @moimaris3369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im always nervous and because of that I get ocd (patterns) to somehow deal with the nervousness. I’m afraid of people looking at me, nervous about birthdays, nervous about what people think about me. Always nervous

    • @thedon8976
      @thedon8976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will be fine i know it

    • @stephenfiloteo3727
      @stephenfiloteo3727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have this before but eventually it fade little by litlle by doing exposure. The 1st step to recover from OCD is to accept the uncertainty.

    • @moimaris3369
      @moimaris3369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thedon8976 thank you I hope so

  • @SosAhallow
    @SosAhallow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get it a Lil bit but now I know my mean problem to make me step back

  • @galgavriel4238
    @galgavriel4238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing, great explanations, where can i find the full lecture?

  • @jdt8983
    @jdt8983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of mine is regret related social anxiety. But I'm realizing that sometimes...maybe even half the time or more...what I did in a particular moment was probably my best move anyways. I tend to wish I were some unrealistic version of myself that isn't even necessarily better, more brave or intelligent anyways. It's somewhat nonsensical

  • @gazmendggg5733
    @gazmendggg5733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm afraid to leave the city alone, I'm fine only with friends, I can not go anywhere. My problem is that I will leave my country for another 5 months because I want a new adventure in my life since I am 24 years old but I am afraid I can not do this. I did 10 psychotherapeutic sessions but they did not help me get rid of this fear, then I feel nervous and bored

  • @protraagro7845
    @protraagro7845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you doctor where can i find full seminar

  • @dinomargelis2386
    @dinomargelis2386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy shit this makes so much sense

  • @healbyveronica6132
    @healbyveronica6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Do you see client? I generate worries and fears. I'm okay for a little then I go into a loop of negative thinking. I want to let go of it because I'm okay it just keeps coming back. It's A last negative experience that I want to move forward from.

    • @xydanmusic
      @xydanmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U are not alone mate,I go through it too

  • @AprilPadua
    @AprilPadua 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Who got their anxieties from Acid Reflux/Gerd? Make this blue 😅

    • @AprilPadua
      @AprilPadua 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Patrick Jones where you from sir? just remember this, Jesus loves you 🙏🏼❤☝🏼

    • @covidoff
      @covidoff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I got stomach/gut related anxiety yep

    • @videosvideos2700
      @videosvideos2700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me

    • @mandywhayt8815
      @mandywhayt8815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yess!! Never related to something moreee in my live. I have anxiety from vomiting nausea and food.. I’m scared from acid reflex and GERD.. someone help!!

    • @covidoff
      @covidoff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mandywhayt8815 I can suggest drinking cider vinegar before meals (1 teaspoon in short glass of water) and digestive enzymes with every meal

  • @JarisJ_
    @JarisJ_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is there a full version of this video?

  • @khalednlp2022
    @khalednlp2022 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    where can i get the full video

  • @pilwespoisu
    @pilwespoisu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can the same technique be applied for worry and emotional stress?

  • @periclesdasilva5973
    @periclesdasilva5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love you all. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation present your requests to God by prayer with thanksgiving. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding shall guard your minds and hearts in Christ Jesus." Phil 4:6-7

  • @bengrant1201
    @bengrant1201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's the trouble with anxiety. It's getting off the content that is the challenge.

  • @liz257
    @liz257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How do you know which worries are legitimate and worth thinking about?

    • @Lassxx
      @Lassxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good point, because you can legitimise every worry, hence why no one can talk you out of it.

    • @georgealderson4424
      @georgealderson4424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is exactly what I want to know too! If we have to wait for the outcome to find out then that is not helpful.

    • @questionsonchristianity8204
      @questionsonchristianity8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Probably best exposing the worry to a trusted friend/family member so that you get an outside perspective.

    • @markperman5710
      @markperman5710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you go to the doctor for a medical test because he’s concerned about something he saw on an exam, to worry about what’s happening until you get the results back is understandable.
      If you don’t go outside because your worried that everyone you see is thinking negatively about you and is laughing at you behind your back, that would be considered irrational.

  • @k-counseling7289
    @k-counseling7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It all comes down to the story you are telling yourself. Problem is...most of the time, the story is not true.

  • @slowboy3442
    @slowboy3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I panic when my parents go somewhere and they don t answer the phone cause i have anxiety

  • @yemkonhongha8148
    @yemkonhongha8148 ปีที่แล้ว

    OCD is the fierce evil impulse disease in humanity history 😢😢😢 It is the strong painful mental illness. It makes the constant tremendous mental torture and completely destroy the quality of life endlessly. Living with OCD = Living in doleful savage hell ! OCD is very strong painful constant impulse with hopelessness, unsatisfactoriness, fearfulness, boringness, anger, tiredness , headache, restlessness, no readiness, withdrawal , and escape. OCD can cause headache, depression, tachypnea, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, unemployment etc.

  • @alondralima9442
    @alondralima9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you be normal with panic disorders? Or anxiety I hate feeling like I'm going to faint but never do.

    • @algenecarpio9638
      @algenecarpio9638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! We can🥰Just show compassion to yourself less judgement,don't blame yourself and Shame yourself for what ever comes in to your mind at the end of the we will be better and live our life the way we want it.

  • @Angie_bae
    @Angie_bae 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just got dumped and my OCD kicked in and got worried that I almost downloaded a dating app and worried I was gonna rebound. I almost had to X out all my apps and pages, turn my phone off and had to open a window. I was sweating and breathing heavy. I suffer from OCD I think. Someone please help me

    • @illvillain7139
      @illvillain7139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1st I'm sorry to hear that you are going thru such as rough time. Either way you are experiencing some type of anxiety. I can offer help bcuz I used to have anxiety really & I do mean REALLY bad. I'll try to be brief, I found out earlier this year that if you detox your body daily for 3 weeks then you have a very good chance of getting rid of your anxiety/ocd. Try what I did, a simple detox by drinking lemon water on an empty stomach 30mins before breakfast. Just get you some lemons, clean the one you'll be using, cut it in half, get a decent size cup/glass, fill it w/room temperature water, squeeze the half of the lemon into the cup/glass, & cut off the tip of the lemon bcuz they have pesticides in them. The point I'm trying to make is that if you cleanse your body on a daily basis then your mind will soon automatically follow. Please keep in my that we are eating all this food & drinking all these drinks which have certain things in them. We're allowing all of this stuff to build up in our system w/out us cleaning ourselves out. The build up of all the stuff we're consuming is a direct cause of certain symptoms/mental illness. Give the lemon water detox daily a try for 3 weeks. & be sure to incorporate a nice amount of drinking regular water as well. I'm living proof that you will feel better & most importantly have a much clearer head after cleaning yourself out daily for 3 weeks. I can only hope you find this helpful. Take care my dear........best wishes!!!

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angela, Take some action to be happy in life. Meditation heals anxiety as it reprogrames the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale-exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your mind and body. Negative thoughts will reduce. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@illvillain7139Meditation heals anxiety as it reprogrames the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale-exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your mind and body. Negative thoughts will reduce. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life.

    • @Muhammad-pz1bp
      @Muhammad-pz1bp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch ( Ali greymond ) videos on youtube she help to cure ocd

  • @MEMES-gy8sl
    @MEMES-gy8sl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hlo sir please help me my ocd is next level please help me sir

  • @bobhill2483
    @bobhill2483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2:36 How does he know about genetic causes? As far as I know nobody discovered OCD gene yet.

    • @blooper785
      @blooper785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think he means there’s a strong correlation between people who have OCD and their parents with OCD, I.e people with OCD are more likely to have kids with OCD

    • @bobhill2483
      @bobhill2483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blooper785 Of course there is correlation. however, I believe it is due to growing up and mental development in OCD environment. If somebody shows me research data about children taken away from parents with OCD and placed with emotionally healthy family - if those kids still develop OCD then I believe in genes. I think many people overuse word "genes" which is meant for something purely biological.

    • @blooper785
      @blooper785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bobhill2483 Definitely, our childhood environment shapes us. But oddly enough, both my parents don’t have any OCD tendencies. I can only speak for myself but, my compulsions started out as harmless imaginative rituals in my head I made up as a kid, mostly in my head which snowballed into full blown OCD as the responsibilities and stress started piling up. Guess I dug my own grave.

    • @bobhill2483
      @bobhill2483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blooper785 Well, obviously there are other things in our life which can contribute. In my case parents' influence is obvious. My father always was anxious person so copying some of his behaviours was one of the factors. My mother on the other hand on the surface seems to be very outgoing and happy, however, there is a lot o tension inside and need to control. Also she was using weakness of others to point fingers on them (including my father) to feel better about her own insecurities. This caused me to believe that feeling anxious is something bad, especially when others can see it because they will make me feel even worse for feeling anxious. Then I started to come up with "methods" in my head and in my behaviour (compulsions) to avoid bad feelings and prevent others seeing it at any price. The result was quite severe OCD with social anxiety flavour.

    • @blooper785
      @blooper785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bobhill2483 that’s rough, sorry about that. Has it gotten better?

  • @ffshowcase
    @ffshowcase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why does everyone here insist on explaining what depression is.......people who are already know this!!!!!

    • @anthonygreico9735
      @anthonygreico9735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think because many people think of it as just being "sad" and/or "unhappy" when there is a lot more to it than that. I have learned that the hard way :( BTW, please check out my OCD/depression channel and please comment/leave feedback on a video or two. I want to see if anything I experience is relatable to others and reach out to others who need help: th-cam.com/channels/vVz7KgQnrfeX5dNsNE5lBA.html?view_as=subscriber

    • @letsgoBrandon204
      @letsgoBrandon204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veiled cries for help maybe?

  • @whosRahwrr
    @whosRahwrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Face if