Was Nella Right Or Wrong To Take Offence At Fred? | Loose Women
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- Last night saw day three in the I’m a Celeb jungle, and the drama is still piping hot. After Monday’s Brexit ding dong, First Dates star Fred Sirieix found himself on the receiving end of a different feud with Nella Rose, after the TH-camr was upset about Fred saying he was old enough to be her father, despite her previously opening up to him about both her parents having passed away. She then ignored Sirieix over breakfast before telling him she wanted to stay away from him. Former campate Janet says that although she doesn’t agree with how she reacted, we can never be sure about what’s really going on behind the scenes…
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From series 27, broadcast on 22/11/2023
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Nella is like a child having a major tantrum she did herself absolutely no favours.Fred handled the situation very well .
Axe Nella
Nella is a gift to the nation. Hopefully finally people will see how this younger generation are simply unable to employ rational thought ahead of their own immediate personal feelings. We saw it in the fall out over Meghan Markle resulting in piers Morgan and Sharon Osbourne both losing their jobs. More so Sharon faced a whole panel of women her colleagues accusing her of being insensitive and raceest towards MM. Sharon merely questioned the validity of MM 's claims and was put in the gibbet cage. The panellists argument being as MM is a person of colour her accusations must be believed. The collective shock of the community supersedes any rational clear minded critical thinking. And low and behold Sharon and piers were both proved correct as strangely Harry moon danced back from the racism allegation of his wife instead blaming the media in front of a very confused royal correspondent. Luckily for some not too many acted through feeling over the juicy smollet situation as the egg would still be running down their collective chins. We are now getting a front row seat to the madness courtesy of this Nella.
@@bennym5244good written piece. Younger generation insult troll on social media, if not in the real world do not learn skills, social skills. It's not all young people but many are all about me me me ego. This wasn't a case of Fred but all about her projecting onto him. Being rude to him and calling him names. Shouting too! It's vile. She believes she's popular but she isn't in the real world. Fred works with people face to face, in restaurants he's had worse. Bless him what a sweet man ❤
Nella is a big narc
He should have never said sorry, she needs to know she is wrong.
I'm still annoyed that NOBODY stood up for him. She was deliberately trying to belittle him in front of everyone. I'm glad its backfired and i hope she's first to go
I don't even watch the show but it was all over my feed.
I couldn't agree more with your statement. Why didn't anyone just take Nells aside and just say 'dude, reassess your situation'
I also find it weird that on the outside world it's created such a divide between people...in this clip alone I just saw a dude having chit chat/multitasking with a casual comment about how he could be her 'dad' as he is roughly 20 years older. And in response he's disrespectful?!?
...I think we're all just very bored...
Sorry massive rant I apologize lol. Have a good day!:)
Exactly what I thought. They all pandered around her..
She done it make herself look big and she's the Victim poor Fred
@@mikehudson8884because she used the victim card
He’s a man, he can stand up for himself. Men are strong
It’s a saying… “old enough to be your dad”. She is just rude. Talking at him repeating the same thing. So disrespectful.
What a vile nobody. Fred is nothing but polite and respectful. I feel for him. He must be so confused. He did absolutely nothing wrong. Hope she gets to do all the worst trials then be first to be voted out. She ruins tge programme.
Vote Nella Out
Even if it wasn’t a saying, just the word father can’t be brought up around her ? Lol
She's taken this completely the wrong way, what a vile horrible woman kick her out now.
It's one of the problems with multi culturalism. Language/sayings are no longer shared between people who live in the same society.
She was incredibly rude. He meant her no harm, and she blew it way out of proportion! Plus, his apology was sincere when he had nothing to apologize for.
Exactly, then she adds salt to the wound by saying "I'm never eating anything Fred has cooked, or sitting by him" jeez grow up Nella!
Edit: Nella and Fred have put aside thier differences and have made up. Nella, while she's still annoying, I kind of like her albeit in very small doses. At first I won't lie I found her quite funny and adorable, then she grated on me.
But now, hmmm I'm still unsure but she's okay to a point.
Fred and everyone else - yes including Farage, though I don't agree with everything he says, but he can make valid points at times - are all rather bubbly, funny and interesting.
While I like Josie Gibson, I did not like how she didn't acknowledge Sam's hard work in the swimming trial (though I'm fairness Nella did stick up for him & showed gratitude).
It would have been sufficient for Fred to just say “have you finished? ok now get over yourself. Bye”
Yes still has to apologise and he did because he realised she was hurt by his comment and he understood why she got hurt/got offended 🧠 and you don’t
@@Jessicakadimax she’s a blank! No apologies required! She knows that deep down inside!
It’s ridiculous of her to get so angry about an innocent comment referring to an age gap. It was rude and unnecessary of her. I’ve gone right off her.
Its a personality disorder
She’s clearly sensitive on a topic about her dad. Even the woman in this video said that you also have to look at her background and where she is coming from
@@blankonana she comes from loony tunes
@@lunatigannie8860 she's diagnosed or are we labelling problematic people now so to allow for horrid behavior? People in the camp are clearly afraid of her and dont call her out. They don't want the wrath they'll receive.
Why was you ever on her? She's a div.
As a black woman,the saying he used is commonly used in our culture.
Nella is an embarrassment, shes just rude and has issues,used this moment to visit her anger onto others,she knows shes wrong,if she doesntshes even more disturbed than we think,clearly she shouldn't be on that show if shes gonna be that triggered by others saying normal things.
Shes not the first and wont be the last to loose a parent or loved one,doesnt mean you have a right to offend others based on your thoughts and feelings that are misplaced.
As a black man, it's strange when people start thier sentance by stating thier race
@@bobbybob6597trust me
@@bobbybob6597 Didn't you just do the same?
Nella was just rude, “ don’t little girl me” while being so childish . Totally agreed with Jane.
Absolutely! I lost both my parents at 23 & have had many ppl say they're old enough to be my parent! It's a way of showing the age gap, nothing else. There's nothing personal about it but she seriously exaggerated it & even made up the situation it was said in!
Just what I expect from Janet. I totally agree with Jane, Fred did nothing wrong.
That's true, very Janet. They are very predictable on this programme and always one who's impartial and has no opinion. But I and majority of the nation will.agree with Jane
I agree with Jane. Typical Janet!
Lol, I was erm who's Janet.. Is it like calling someone a Karen 😂 then looked up... Its a loose women clip. I was only reading the comments. 🤣
Some nice positive racism from her as well, with "the show needs people like her" comment.She is just desperately trying to stay relevant.
@@dustersinternational221😂same, I thought the same because of the US with the Karens videos 😅
So she’s managed to show her real colours …. Vile and despicable, whereas Fred has shown grace, respect and considerable patience
Fred unfortunately doesn't know how to read a room, either that or he just couldn't care less 😂
@@mariabrown6926 wake up
@@mariabrown6926
Erm...they were talking about ages, and Fred used a commonly used British idiom. He read the room fine.
Unless of course he was expected to read the private room inside her head.
@@danjames4086fred feels as he tried to make nigel feel the night before.
@@mariabrown6926ahh another nella 😂😂😂😂😂😂 u come to show ur true colours too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She's the bully. She's the problem. No man could react to a woman like that and not get absolutely destroyed for it.
An argument hardly makes someone a bully, calm down. Did she overreact yes, but go look up the meaning of bully.. because it isn’t that.
@@leabeauty837 to bully is to seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce another. She is most definitely seeking to intimidate Fred and coerce others into not liking Fred. This is literally dictionary definition bullying and if a man acted like this toward a woman they would rightly get castigated for it.
@@jamesnugent1256 You missed out the key aspect that makes bullying;bullying. Habitually. You can’t have one incident and it be called bullying. That’s exactly like saying someone is harassing someone when they’ve only been in contact with that person once. You’re seemingly as dramatic as she is.
She is what is now known as a crybully
@@leabeauty837 do you evidence that she hasn't acted like this before to others? Do you think her behaviour is appropriate?
As someone who has lost both parents. I would never be offended by someone saying “I’m old enough to be your dad”. You can tell by her face she knows what she is doing, she knows full well that he did not mean it in that way, she was just desperate to try to act offended and play the victim, so glad it’s backfired and everyone can see how pathetic she is
Everyone grieves differently.
@@maureen2152 her reaction isn’t justified simple as that really
@@maureen2152 True, but what Fred said was in no way offensive
@@maureen2152 if she’s grieving and sensitive she shouldn’t be in the jungle in the first place
100% agree
No excuse for that behaviour to Fred.
Who is she ?
Never heard of her.
Yes vote her out.
She’s a social media ‘star’🤷🏽♀️
She maybe on social media but still have no idea
@@seewhatweesee96that makes sense
Does it matter if you heard of her? My 12 year olds hadn’t heard of Nigel Farage. A person in a sixth form class upon hearing Nigel’s name asked if he was a footballer. For children up to maybe late 20s she’s the most famous person in there.
Never heard of her.🧐
The term “Chip on Shoulder” could never be more apt.
100%
Well der. She lost both parents very young in a traumatising way and the terms mum & dad clearly touch a raw nerve. She needs therapy.
@@leabeauty837 not denying her loss for one minute, but when an individual sincerely apologies as Fred did you accept it humbly and do not further rant on like a brat, nobody is perfect, people make mistakes, I believe Fred was genuinely unaware his comment caused hurt and he reiterated this many times.
@@leabeauty837she isn't the only person that have lost parents young. She's a bully and rude. She need to check her attitude. She isn't out on road bullying people!
@@bajanb You don’t know what bullying means.
She was awful to Fred, and he was too much of a gentleman to give her what she deserved. He answered her with so much respect when she just verbally layed into him. I for one want her out now!
It's a saying old enough to be your dad or mum.She is the problem.
Me too !
Nella is no celebrity and was very rude to Fred. She’s the one who needs to learn some respect. It seems she expects everyone to kowtow to her wether she is right or wrong. Vote her off before she ruins the whole programme
Nella is a child. The Tik Tok generation in full flow.
She is 26 not 16 should be able to understand something said in the figure of speech.
@@Lizziesouth I didn't say she was on TikTok. I said it's the TikTok generation.
@leilamo9460 She is a Tiktok "star" aswell
Exactly, a product of her generation and a cardboard cut out of a million others.
@@jonathanshaw8123 She has used that figure of speech herself about someone else, she knows what he meant.
she is the human embodiment of twitter and this is why people of her generation are dismissed as unhinged and super sensitive.
Reactivity isn’t generation specific, seen it with Gen Xers and Boomers the most but I don’t attribute it as their generational flaw. It’s just a common trait w/ emotional immaturity.
@@ayanada06you have just proved @ColinsCitys point
@@Roger-Baconhow? They weren’t being rude or confrontational in their comment at all
Why did none of the camp mates stand up and say something in his defence?
Because none of them wanted to also be on the receiving end of her unreasonable tongue lashing. There is no point arguing with people like her-they just shout louder rather than have a reasonable argument.
Because it was a private conversation and he's a grown man capable of handling a discussion.
How can anyone defend Nella? She reacted maliciously and disgustingly to a completely innocent comment.
She is well out of order, she is so confrontational. A shameful girl who didn’t want to listen to his side.
baffled no one took her to one side to point out her abysmal behavior..
@@paulrichards6894it be racist if they did that's why
@@skullyz965 saying someone is old enough to be your dad is just a saying........its got nothing to do with race..last year someone asked me if my wife was my daughter i didnt take offense though she keeps reminding me..i am 4 years older than her
Nella is acting like a professional victim. You know you are living in a privileged society when the worst thing she has to complain about is being oppressed by someone saying they are older than her 😳
She wants to be a victim as that’s what society has taught her she should be.
Oh YES that is the BEST comment on here!!!!!
Spot on comment
Bingo.
Well said that’s exactly what she wants to be … a sad victim
What a bizzare thing to get offended over...
Even if you feel offended by something you can express it calmly and come to an understanding. She was so confrontational.
Sadly typical of that generation. There very raison d'etre is just sitting around waiting to be offended. What a nightmare she is.
People deal with grief in strange ways sometimes
@@mariabrown6926that is not a way to deal with it.. Slatting someone else who said sorry over a conman remark ffs
Agreed. I’m 29 and I’ve had people in their 40s, 50s or even 60s said that kind of thing to me and I don’t find it offensive. Nella is just being a total Karen.
@@NickSmith-vj6yh Please... I'm 28 and I do not want to be painted with the same brush as people like her!
Let’s be Frank, Nella is kinda vile. Her behaviour echoes Roxanne Pallett, gaslighting Fred big time.
Was thinking the exact same thing!!
And that woman that was ruse to lady hussey
Totally agree with Jane. I can’t stand Nella after her reaction, it was totally over the top! Saying she’s never going to talk to him again and you keep to your side of the camp etc 🙄I will vote her out, I usually agree with you Janet, but not this time !
Nella's petty and acts like a baby
He was stating a fact not trying to replace her parents! Totally twisted by her
Trauma does twist things for people.
@@mila71701it's not trauma. It's entitlement. How dare you offend *me*, she knows he had no intent. She's nothing but a brat.
@@empee5796 I genuinely don’t believe he meant anything malicious or even offensive by what he said. I think her reaction was OTT but I do think her visceral reaction is due to the trauma surrounding her father’s death.
@@mila71701🙄🙄🙄 so using your (logic) everyone whose dad died has the right to get butthurt any tine someone mentioned DAD around you 😂😂😂
@@bubandlisa No that’s not what I said or meant at all. You’re talking about logic but didn’t apply it here.
She's wrong! She thinks she's out on road talking rude to people! Urgh. Hope she gets voted out ASAP!
I'm no fan of Fred but he is a gentleman.......What a self obsessed vile woman. Totally cringeworthy how they all obsesswed around her afterwards...Urghhhh... She knew exactly what she was doing...All about the drama and attention!!!
Why are you not a fan of Fred? 😂 I can’t see why anybody would dislike him haha. I completely agree with your other point though, the Hurd mentality demonstrates a greater issue in society.. instead of going straight to Fred and getting the context, all the girls automatically sympathised with her and cuddled her like an injured baby deer. If one of the other girls held her accountable and said “Nella, I appreciate you’re sensitive about it but he’s apologised sincerely, it was an innocent remark and dragging it out and being rude to him is just petty and bratty” then she wouldn’t be so entitled.
@@crazycatpetera1404 Yes I 100 per cent agree...the scenario you describe SHOULD have ensued but not one of them did. Just goes to show how obsequious and sycophatic people can be today.....
@@crazycatpetera1404maybe not a fan did not mean Mike diskiles Fred. I also fond it hard for people to hate on him, he’s such a gentleman and caring.
@@mikehudson8884it’s just falseness and people being scared of being cancelled. Everyone just lies and nobody says what they think. It’s a pile of trash
Bet he’s f****ing glad he ain’t your Dad.
lol
I'm sorry but Janet is just as delusional as Nella... how can you sit there and defend her whilst also saying Fred was being patronising? I've never liked Janet, she's always had such a skewed perspective on things
Absolutely agree 👍 👏
I think they always have to have one panellist who has to offer an opposing view so they can debate.
This is a PRIME example of why society is so messed up! Making excuses for someone’s actions and behaviour literally allows it. Stop making excuses for it!! This is exactly why our youth have become so sensitive. Life is HARD, and a good chunk of it will have encounters where your feelings get hurt! Intentionally and unintentionally.. that will always be out of your control, but how you deal with it…. That’s on you!
She behaved appallingly, end of!
She'll be voted out first, then She'll go on social media and see the hate. Her so called career is over.
She doesn’t have a so called career, she has a full blown career, her career is far from over
@@amiekay3359no it’s over now. Look at others who have done similar- she’s killed her career
@amiekay3359 yeah right!! 🤣🤣
@@amiekay3359maybe look up the definition of career 😂
guaranteed she makes more than you from her so called 'career'@@mrmoist74
I think Nella's behaviour was self-centred and indicates a lack of empathy. After Fred explained what he meant and apologised she should have let it go. She never considered the emotional impact it may have on Fred to start ignoring him, then accuse him of hurting her and then not to accept his apology. She then went on to garner the support of others and treat him as an 'outsider'. People can struggle emotionally just by being in the I'm a celeb jungle, and to have to live among someone who is ignoring you could lead to a feeling of isolation. But she showed no concern that her behaviour could negatively impact on his mental well-being.
How was Fred patronising? If he was not careful with his response, he would have been called something else.......have a guess.......!!!!
yep just waiting for her to play that one🤨
Give it time
I've just another good point though, that may be she was being that way with Fred due his treatment of Nigel the day before. So that's worth considering too as they do seem to get on. Time will tell......
Trying to bait him into a trap.
How ridiculous. It could be classed as a patronising comment if they had been having a disagreement about something and he said it as a way of belittling her side of the argument. But it wasn’t that! He was talking about his own eyesight and needing glasses, and then he made the common comment of ‘I am old enough to be your dad’ as a joke when she said 51 isn’t old. She absolutely made a fuss out of nothing and has made the camp awkward for zero reason. She has really shot herself in the foot there (oh look-another common saying. I do hope I haven’t offended anyone who has shot themselves in the foot!).
😂😂 that gun comment really made me laugh. Her reaction was way over the top and I’m voting her out now for sure !
and she got to be the primary figure the media are talking about now. Miles and miles and miles and miles of publicity. She'll eventually apologise for over-reacting and reap the benefits of being known by people who never even watch the show.....me being one of them. I didn't have a clue who see was and I don't watch a second of the show. Yet here I am. Her work is partially done. Centre of attention.... with a back story.
I do think it was an overreaction 100% agreed -BUT I do actually think that he was coming from a place of minor annoyance when he made the dad comment as well and he sort of intended to put her in her place by pointing to their age gap. I think he was slightly annoyed that she couldn’t understand the deterioration of his vision and it was a slightly backhanded retort. Nella has of course overreacted in a major way though
shooting people in the foot that's awful 😂😂😂
She was aggressive with a very controlling and abusive tone, not a nice girl and was clearly trying her hardest to be offended. Hopefully she’ll be voted out and back into obscurity, we don’t want to watch this type of person.
💯 True, Such aggressive behaviour, wow. So rude. This is the "it's all about me show". 😮 Well we know how this will go...
My wonderful Dad died 5 months ago and I didn't find what Fred said offensive at all.
Definitely not! Fred didn't say anything rude or offensive. It's a saying and she's twisted it to cause drama and unnecessary tension. Good for her starving herself and acting like a spoilt brat. Hope she's first to leave. Buh bye Nella 👋
She was out of order, Fred meant nothing by it, it’s just a saying, I’m sick of these TH-camrs thinking they are celebrities,
What's sad is Fred HAD to apologize and he is not in the wrong here
She’s done. Career over and will only be remembered for this.
respect to Fred for keeping calm,cant believe the others said nothing to defend him,just shows these so called celebs for what they really are
I think Nick reassured him that it was nothing when Fred came down to one of the ponds and met him there after Fred apologised to Nella. But that was it no one defended him, i felt for Fred in that moment. All the women cozyied around Nella though.
Nella approaches every conversation from a position of ignorance.
She's milking her 15 minutes of fame! 💰💰💰
And victimhood
This is definitely giving me CBB punchgate scandal vibes. She's Roxanne and He's Ryan. This is my opinion by the way so trolls don't slam me. I'm team Fred all the way. Fred is a gentleman end of story!!
How the older lady can say he was patronising is beyond me, Fred was holding a sharp knife, cutting up food in the dark ? His full concentration was on the task in hand, not her, you can tell he didn’t give her 100% because he’s a trained chef and knows the dangers in holding a knife, I don’t even watch I’m a celeb and I’m gunna vote her out 😂
Men talking to women whatsoever is patronizing, hence why Jane didn't explain why, she just labeled him so. She even brought up Nella's background which is totally irrelevant and doesn't explain why Nella blew up like that.
The world would be a lot better place without people like Janet Street-Porter.
yes@@jb9433
Yep and Nella for that matter they are nothing more that trouble makers @@jb9433
I could maybe understand in the moment her getting upset and then apologizing to fred later but the fact she kept the grudge until the next morning and refused to acknowledge him is psychotic behaviour, she clearly wanted to make him the villain.
I lost my Dad 5 years ago and my mum passed away very unexpectedly 7 weeks ago and it wouldn't have offended me. She is the bully.
so sorry joanne
Just because it wouldn’t offend you doesn’t mean you’re Nella Rose, and it clearly offended her, theyre not eating properly, in the heat, doing horrible tasks .. clearly she felt patronised.
She deliberately misinterpreted what he said. He was referring to the age difference.
He explained....She didn't listen.
He genuinely apologised...She wldnt listen.
She should hv graciously accepted his apology.
She's the disrespectful one. Downright rude.
Life isnt all about you, thats what social media stars" need to realise .
Get her out !!!
Nella said “my dad was much older than you” so she definitely KNEW how it was intended.
After reading her comment section on her channel, I wouldn’t want to be on the receiving end of that. Some are downright nasty.
She was horrible the way she spoke to Fred, it was disgusting, disrespectful and so immature. Talking under her breath like he wasn't there when he was asking if she wanted any food. Gross behavior
And she probably has no idea who Fred is. Fred can handle her 😂 he has Gordon as a mate ❤ Fred is so sensitive and it hurt me the way she spoke to him. Vile and rude. Shouty name calling drama ego queen 😮
She took offence at an innocent saying. COMPLETELY WENT OVER HER HEAD. Sick of these get offended at everything generation 😒. Hope she's voted out 1st . Plus I thought this was a celebrity show, who is she
Oh fgs it’s a saying I’m old enough to be your dad. Ridiculous
This is very similar to what happened on big brother between Roxanne and Ryan. If this had been the other way around he would have been chucked out
Nella was totally wrong as all Fred said he could be her dad because he is old enough to be her dad
Nella is rough. She's going to keep getting voted info trials if she doesn't start being a team player
Fred is a wonderful person and would never knowingly upset anyone.
Nella was completely out of order with her projections about her deceased father.
What Fred said was innocuous and just reflected on their age difference.
How do you know he’s a wonderful person & everything else you mentioned? Do you know him personally?
Do you know Fred in real life?😂
That's the basis of celebrity isn't it?
We feel that we know "celebrities" on the basis of TV clips.
On that basis I believe Fred to be a wonderful person! 🙂
For instance his show with Gordon Ramsay and Gino D'Acampo, those two behave like idiots and Fred tries to moderate their stupidity! 😂
What is her problem? He never meant anything overreact or what you can see now she going create so much bad feeling
She will take offence at everything just to draw more attention to herself! 🤮
She reminded me of Catherine Tate's character Lauren Cooper. He was stating an obvious fact that a man in his fifties is old enough to be the father of someone in their twenties. How can you take offence at that? Get her out of there.
Loved Lauren. Need her back. 😂
No one with intelligence can understand why she became so enraged.
Janet the one who kept quiet about Jimmy saville trying to defend the indefensible.
Exactly Janet come on we don't need people like her at all this is what's wrong with the world people taking offence to everything
Clearly, Nala has triggers which she projected onto Fred. His comment to me was innocent.
Then she needs to learn to get over them
nella was fake and annoying from the start shes over doing it and coming across very fake loud and over reacting ,,,shes trying to stir up trouble for no reason at all because after all that still gets her air time....YAWN!!,,,,,,Hopefully she gets voted out then i will tune in to the show again.......I'm hoping she dosen't play the race card and stir up hate.,,but iv got a sneaky feeling it wont be long🙄
Hope she isn't exempt from tomorrow's trial, because I be voting for her to do it
Noo that’s giving her what she wants!! More air time 😮
Nah keep her in … she’s showing who she really is!
Takes one to know one. 😮
Bless that red haired lady she’s the most empathetic of all of them. We can empathize without condoning behavior.
That's ozzy osbourne
Yes. 100%.
Janet is the queen of contradicting herself. There's no defence for Nella's behaviour.
Classic example of someone who hasn’t dealt with trauma and is projecting it on others
That’s not even not dealing with trauma it’s just been rude
yup, it was an emotional reaction to the pain she's feeling from losing her parents. A large portion of the British public will never be able to empathise. Wonder why eh?
@@emlh5423 it wasn’t emotional . It was rude .
Yes, losing parents can be difficult. But what is the *real* story?
She seems to be milking it from all angles . Mother died 2016.
"her mother had long illness, mother, brother & her" the 3 musketeers ". Lost her council flat after mothers death, (yet has funds for Uni) had to couch-surf - no where to go during holidays, family disowned her?(yet, says her family was amused /laughed when they heard she going onto I'm a Celebrity... Blah blah) Where was her Dad? Untill he died , 2020.
I call all of it BS. Good luck to all who watch 'reality shows'.
@emlh5423 are you trying to say we won't lose both our parents, so won't understand? Expand please
Itv sticking up for her is sick. She's doing it for air time nothing else
I don't think younger people these days understand "figures of speech" 🤨
Even though i dont know why she was so upset from that comment and this is coming from someone who has also lost both my parents by the age of 25 theres better ways to address the situation then to be immature like she was there.. nothing fred said was malicious towards her for her to spark the reaction she did.. if things like that are going to trigger you like that then you should not be on a national tv reality show because shes made herself look totally ridiculous
Oh trust Janet to come out with that diatribe. Fred was not patronising at all !!!! He purely made an innocent comment and because Nella is from an entitled, offended, woke generation- she wanted to take offence. No doubt to try and rake in more subscribers to her channels. I hope it backfires on her. She has a lot of growing up to do and actually deal with the real world instead of acting like Catherine Tate's character Lauren !
She’s so wrong to take offence…Fred was being kind to her..
She is showing her true colours that she has no respect for Fred. She needs to grow up. Vote out soon
I think Nella is acting like a hysterical little girl and was ridiculously rude to Fred. Its not his fault that her parents are dead!!
Her behaviour was the privileged social media fools think they are above the rest of us. Janet, her parents died 4 years apart not months. She makes controversial videos in a seductive manner calling other men daddy. She’s out for drama to get airtime. The majority of the public are trending complaining about her attitude.
Janet street porter trying to defend the indefensible, any excuse to have a go at a man.
Janet Street Porter needs to stop thinking she's a 20 year old woke student and start thinking like an adult.. if that's at all possible. If this woman is going to take offence to an everyday turn of phrase like 'I'm old enough to be your dad'.. she's going to have a very unpleasant life on this earth.. we all lose family and parents, she uses it as an excuse for some sort of elite privilege to demand respect. A little education is a dangerous thing.
Well said! My thoughts exactly
Can't believe Janet said what she did. 😏
Janet acting like a white saviour to defend someone incredibly rude
Come in Janet....don't be so naive.
Nella needs to grow up. Poor Fred. I felt uncomfortable too.
I trust u mean mentally and not physically 😮
5:08 so true! I'm glad it was filmed too, because Nella could've turned Fred into a villain but we've all seen what was said and it was blown out of proportion.
Fred wouldn't have taken offence if Nella said that he was old enough to be her Dad.
Emotional maturity is the difference. She overrated, wouldn't expect a grown man in his 50s, with much more life experience and a family, to react the same was a young girl in her 20s..think about it. She needs counselling 100% as she is obviously still grieving massively.
@emlh5423 That's my point. Think about it yourself. I wouldn't expect a 26 year old to react in this way either. Concentrate on the words.
I lost my Dad at 19, a long time ago now, so I understand what it feels like four years into the grieving and you are hurt and angry and that does come out in unusual ways. That said I met quite a lot of people who used a similar type of grief as a weapon, whether it was belittling the grief of others for not being on the same scale or just using it to justify their irrational behaviour. She had a night to sit on this, he apologised. I think it's a shame that she couldn't see it for the comment it was, because it makes her look dangerous. This is someone you have to be so careful around because if those cameras are not on and she accuses you of something extreme like that there is no defence waiting. Fred is lucky anybody saw his comment because if they hadn't all they would hear is that he insulted her dead parents. Her actions belittle those who deal with grief quietly. It's not about what happens to you in life, it's how you handle it. She needs to learn that the easy way, or life will teach her the hard way.
I love it when I read a genuinely sensible comment on YT. A breath of fresh air. 😀
She's used the same expression herself. She wasnt offended, she wasnt grief stricken, she just wasnt getting enough attention. Please dont make excuses for such deliberately nasty behaviour,.It was indefensible.
@@lucyw.7597true as they are psychological assessed beforehand. She was projecting, name calling, rude. Shouting. Then back stabbing and twisting the narrative. Thankfully camera s were filming this. Her poor social skills and Ego will be challenging to the team ❤ and that diet... Oh no sugar!!
Disgusting comment, trying to frame grief as someone dangerous.
@@dustersinternational221she comes across as someone who can mask a personality disorder well.
“Rude & entitled” she needs to grow up
I see why Janet wanted to bring up Nella's background story in this but that's still not an excuse for Nella to behave the way she did. I'm 28 and my dad died last year, I would never have taken offence to what Fred said. Nella was just looking for more airtime and she got it, at Fred's expense!
She has no parents. It's not about you love.
Nella deserves to be put in every trial
What does she want from fred its a saying i say i could be old enough to be your grandma nothing ment by it sooner she goes the better love you fred
Can’t bear the woman . Get her out
Wow I’m shocked at Janet !!! I thought she was better than this !
Patronising! What planet are you living on Janet. If anyone was disrespectful it was Nella. She should of listened understood and come to a mutual resolution and she didnt even repeat what he said or the environment and conversation in which the comment was made. It was something totally different
I feel nella has mental issues she shouldn’t be on the show
Mental health nurse, are you. 😮
It is sad to see generations on display in this , Fred tries and goes to apologize (let's be honest , he had no need to, but he tries) and Nella is like this is my position, and I don't care about anything else
Surprized Janet is taking Nella's side in this. The woman - a 26 year old adult - was wrong, or at least uncomprehending of Fred's remark; she went a considerable distance to find something offensive in a completely cliched, well-known phrase, and her response was passive-aggressive silence and then remarks, which in any other situation today would be called bullying. Let's please call things for what they are.
I had a feeling Janet would understand where Nella was coming from.
She was having a big very rude moment
Think she is wanting some air time, He meant nothing wrong. Get your cheque and come back!! She is spoiling the show. 🤨
Thankgod for cameras
I see no scenario in my head where she comes out as the victim in his argument
When did he actually bring up her dad though, she’s so used to looking for drama surely, literally just said he could be her dad due to the age gap
I have second hand embarrassment for her ! I doubt she will even cringe when watching this back ! She’s too far gone and it’s sad !!!
She is usually humble so watching it back I believe she will cringe. A lot of people commenting met her on this show. I have watched her for years.
@@Poeticfloetic I think I seen her hosting catfish with a guy ?
Nella is the type of person who has her own opinion on a subject matter and will not listen to anyone who disagrees or challenges her opinion. All she could think of was negativity when Fred made the comments which were only throw away comments that were never meant to cause any harm. I think it will be very difficult to change her mind set, but hopefully as she gets older she'll mature in her thinking.
Janet has obviously had a word from 'Nella's people' to spout her defence and tell people to not vote her out. Nella has also been quickly given extra screen time. It's all about how much money managers throwing at the producers for their 'celebrity'.
She's bringing drama. Its reality TV.