Yes but women are left with the kids!!! She gets half, you mean the kids and the family you left behind gets half so your kids are set up, no? Also when women stay at home and run a household and run your life it affords you the freedom to go out into the world and make money, why should her services go unpaid. You would pay a PA / a cleaner/ a chef to name a few job roles that most wives end up doing.
Totally agree with Mylene - protect YOURSELF (and children if you have them) at all costs. Take the rose-coloured glasses off ladies and use your HEAD not your heart when it comes to love because a man's undying love can disappear in a heartbeat (trust me) so if you have assets use legal recourse to ensure that no man can ever take from you what he hasn't earned. Mylene's ex-husband virtually cleaned her out financially - no wonder she's terrified to get married again particularly now she has three children. She's older and VERY much wiser.
My dad has been married twice, my mum’s on her third, they put me off marriage however my Nan and Grandad have been married 66 years and I look up to them and admire them. They argued a lot but they made it work and didn’t give up on each other whereas my mum and dad split up after only 10 years.
I’ve been engaged with my partner James for coming up to 8 years in November, and to be completely honest, I’m in no rush to have an actual wedding. At the end of the, living with him and sharing our lives together is more than enough for me without the financial burden of a wedding and the hassle of having to change my name and getting that sorted. Day to day nothing would actually change.
You don’t need to spend money to get married, I mean you can have a small ceremony with your closest family and friends. My husband and I just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and we literally didn’t spent any money on our wedding day. We wanted to be about us and what we wanted so we had few close friends and that was it.
I wouldn't make it a requirement in life. Marriage, for decades if not centuries, has been seen in life that you are SUPPOSED to be married and frankly that is not true.
I wish I could ask my mom about this because she worked in the 1950's even when she was married at least part time until she had children. She must have had bank accounts for pay checks. She didn't live near her parents so they wouldn't have been involved with her bank accounts. My mom and dad made joint financial decisions.
Mylene being seems very jaded in how she’s fear-mongering marriage.. I think a better message to take away is - TAKE YOUR TIME AND MAKE SURE YOU PICK THE RIGHT PERSON! Don’t base the decision on feelings and attraction alone because they will both decrease and fluctuate as you both age, a marriage is for a lifetime. Make sure you’re both fully aligned on the key principles in life.. family/parenting, finances, politics, trust, religion etc. Sure, read the marriage agreement properly but if you’re already unsure if it will last and constantly thinking about covering yourself, then it will always eventually fail.
@@cloudycloud4171 Well I personally don’t want children. Never have, never will. I’m also not religious. My Mum’s on her 3rd marriage and my Dad has been married twice. Put me off for life.
@@hearmeoutbroSo sad to hear yr parents put you off marriage. Instead of fearing and cocooning yourself- ask God to give you wisdom to choose a marriage partner and pray He leads them to you and you to them. God is in control - He exists and loves you - just involve Him in yr decisions and plans. God bless you.
Here in Sweden there is a very simple concept that can be downloaded and drown up when an unmarried couple move in together it’s common practice and very ry excepted❤
I wouldn't discourage but I don't think it's necessary. I don't think marriage should be a legal document that requires a court to dissolve. Two people can create documents for assets/will, medical advocacy, etc.
@@lindsaylindsay4884 Isn't that what I said. Mine was in reference to my own adult child. I guess I left that out. I assume she'll probably get married at some point.
That is called GROOMING your issues and ideals onto your children and that is 100% terrible parenting. Stop placing your fears onto your children, because fears, avoidance, running away from and phobias only teaches children to fear, avoid, run and this leads to epic failures that build up and up!
No they shouldn't. Most modern mothers are way too OTT even when their children become fully fledged adults. They need to learn to back off not be even more interfering.
Women used to have to need a man to survive because they didn't have rights to work fairly etc. Now they just want their own lives. Getting married is great if it's a good union, but it's no good if it's just because you're afraid of being/surviving alone.
@@URFUTUREUK in the 1900s yes… women have worked for ages now. Women still take more from men, including ridiculous amounts for child support etc and a lot of their money. They never mention men having to spend loads of a ring and propose, which is outdated and sexist. Why aren’t women doing this if women want to be modern?
LOL some couples decide to have a lot of children. So as a women you would prob stay at home for obvious reasons. Marriage can make sense and protect ALL
Myleene Klass got stung by her ex husband - had to give half to him! Can see why she has done this - to protect herself and kids
This has happened to to most men when getting divorced for absolutely ages lol. Now women complain when it happens to them
@@S-rn6xnWell said.
Now women are getting a taster of what happens to men in the divorce because it’s always men who lose out.
Yes but women are left with the kids!!! She gets half, you mean the kids and the family you left behind gets half so your kids are set up, no?
Also when women stay at home and run a household and run your life it affords you the freedom to go out into the world and make money, why should her services go unpaid. You would pay a PA / a cleaner/ a chef to name a few job roles that most wives end up doing.
Most kids haven't seen a stable marriage so it only stands to reason they don't see it happening for them.
Totally agree with Mylene - protect YOURSELF (and children if you have them) at all costs. Take the rose-coloured glasses off ladies and use your HEAD not your heart when it comes to love because a man's undying love can disappear in a heartbeat (trust me) so if you have assets use legal recourse to ensure that no man can ever take from you what he hasn't earned. Mylene's ex-husband virtually cleaned her out financially - no wonder she's terrified to get married again particularly now she has three children. She's older and VERY much wiser.
If she cleaned him out you wouldn’t care.
This is what women have been doing to men for the last few decades, getting divorced and then taking his house and kids.
Lol women have always done this to men and you happily take but now moan when it can happen to women 😆 everything you said applies to men too and more
@@S-rn6xnnobody said it doesn’t happen to men, this is women who marry men so obviously their experience will be about a man taking the money.
My dad has been married twice, my mum’s on her third, they put me off marriage however my Nan and Grandad have been married 66 years and I look up to them and admire them. They argued a lot but they made it work and didn’t give up on each other whereas my mum and dad split up after only 10 years.
I adore Judi she really is the best 😊
I’ve been engaged with my partner James for coming up to 8 years in November, and to be completely honest, I’m in no rush to have an actual wedding. At the end of the, living with him and sharing our lives together is more than enough for me without the financial burden of a wedding and the hassle of having to change my name and getting that sorted. Day to day nothing would actually change.
You don’t need to spend money to get married, I mean you can have a small ceremony with your closest family and friends. My husband and I just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and we literally didn’t spent any money on our wedding day. We wanted to be about us and what we wanted so we had few close friends and that was it.
You also don’t need to change your name. Nor spend loads money on a wedding. But I do agree if you are both not ready no point getting married
I wouldn't make it a requirement in life. Marriage, for decades if not centuries, has been seen in life that you are SUPPOSED to be married and frankly that is not true.
Mylene has such a point.
Even previous wives of a new husband also can have claim to their pensions and state pensions, even in death.
Sounds to me like Myleene still has a lot of healing to do!!
It does seem that way when I hear her talk! 🤷🏽♀️
In the US, women couldnt have their own credit cards without a husbands permission. That lasted until the 90s
I wish I could ask my mom about this because she worked in the 1950's even when she was married at least part time until she had children. She must have had bank accounts for pay checks. She didn't live near her parents so they wouldn't have been involved with her bank accounts. My mom and dad made joint financial decisions.
That stopped in the early seventies in Australia. Prior to that a man had to co~sign a contract for a car for example.
Mylene being seems very jaded in how she’s fear-mongering marriage.. I think a better message to take away is - TAKE YOUR TIME AND MAKE SURE YOU PICK THE RIGHT PERSON! Don’t base the decision on feelings and attraction alone because they will both decrease and fluctuate as you both age, a marriage is for a lifetime. Make sure you’re both fully aligned on the key principles in life.. family/parenting, finances, politics, trust, religion etc. Sure, read the marriage agreement properly but if you’re already unsure if it will last and constantly thinking about covering yourself, then it will always eventually fail.
Don't think people bother about marriage nowadays they just live with each other myleene right you could lose your house ect
It is just two names on paper.
@@hearmeoutbrofor people who are religious it can be important or if u want children and stay at home it makes sense to get married.
@@cloudycloud4171 Well I personally don’t want children. Never have, never will. I’m also not religious. My Mum’s on her 3rd marriage and my Dad has been married twice. Put me off for life.
@@hearmeoutbro sure no one has to do marry ! I personally don’t want children too hahah
@@hearmeoutbroSo sad to hear yr parents put you off marriage. Instead of fearing and cocooning yourself- ask God to give you wisdom to choose a marriage partner and pray He leads them to you and you to them. God is in control - He exists and loves you - just involve Him in yr decisions and plans. God bless you.
💰💰💰. God ' so heavy' had to switch off yest.🙄
Here in Sweden there is a very simple concept that can be downloaded and drown up when an unmarried couple move in together it’s common practice and very ry excepted❤
I wouldn't discourage but I don't think it's necessary. I don't think marriage should be a legal document that requires a court to dissolve. Two people can create documents for assets/will, medical advocacy, etc.
Totally agree.
Then just don’t get married
@@lindsaylindsay4884 Isn't that what I said. Mine was in reference to my own adult child. I guess I left that out. I assume she'll probably get married at some point.
Then how is that different from a relationship? Why call it a marriage if it isn’t one?
Its called a pre nup so u dont get stiffed!
That is called GROOMING your issues and ideals onto your children and that is 100% terrible parenting. Stop placing your fears onto your children, because fears, avoidance, running away from and phobias only teaches children to fear, avoid, run and this leads to epic failures that build up and up!
No they shouldn't. Most modern mothers are way too OTT even when their children become fully fledged adults. They need to learn to back off not be even more interfering.
Funny how women say this when woman have been taking loads from men for years and never complained
Women used to have to need a man to survive because they didn't have rights to work fairly etc. Now they just want their own lives. Getting married is great if it's a good union, but it's no good if it's just because you're afraid of being/surviving alone.
@@URFUTUREUK in the 1900s yes… women have worked for ages now. Women still take more from men, including ridiculous amounts for child support etc and a lot of their money. They never mention men having to spend loads of a ring and propose, which is outdated and sexist. Why aren’t women doing this if women want to be modern?
LOL some couples decide to have a lot of children. So as a women you would prob stay at home for obvious reasons. Marriage can make sense and protect ALL
She's all about the money is mylyenne
And you are not?